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<v Speaker 1>Flex and Frooms, Flex and Frooms. This is the Flex

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<v Speaker 1>You're listening to Flex and Rooms on Kita.

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<v Speaker 3>I was hanging out with my cousin David a couple

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<v Speaker 3>of weeks ago. Turns out that we are both hubanan pilled.

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<v Speaker 3>Andrew Hugman is a neuroscientist who has a podcast called

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<v Speaker 3>Human Lab where he talks about hormones, lifestyle, moods, all

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<v Speaker 3>of these amazing things, how to optimize yourself. Yeah, I've

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<v Speaker 3>learned a lot from it. Chin wagging my cousin. He

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<v Speaker 3>said that he watched a little YouTube short, which i'd

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<v Speaker 3>be questionable, but he loves YouTube shorts.

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<v Speaker 4>He's thirty six. I'll give him a whole pass. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>get on top.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Okay, shorts is rogue, though it's super rogue.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, let's not judge him too harshly.

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<v Speaker 4>I think he has an android though, so yeah, I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>Off that twenty twenty three inns. I'm not judging android users.

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<v Speaker 3>I have the tape from the Human Lab. Yes, this

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<v Speaker 3>is a YouTube or tape.

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<v Speaker 4>I have the tape. Please make you play the tape.

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<v Speaker 5>The pattern of breathing is really simple. I do it

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<v Speaker 5>anytime I'm starting to feel a little worn out or

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<v Speaker 5>like i might be catching something, or if I was

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<v Speaker 5>on a plane and someone around me seemed like they

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<v Speaker 5>weren't doing so well. Involves twenty five deep breaths in

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<v Speaker 5>through the nose in this case, out through the mouth,

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<v Speaker 5>and at the end of that exhaling all your air,

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<v Speaker 5>holding your breath for fifteen to sixty seconds. Don't fight

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<v Speaker 5>the impulse to breathe. When you feel the impulse to breathing,

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<v Speaker 5>breathe in, and then hold your breath or as long

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<v Speaker 5>as you can until you feel the impulse to breathe.

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<v Speaker 5>But it basically I want you all twenty five.

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<v Speaker 4>It goes something like this.

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<v Speaker 5>So big that right, and I can already feel I'm

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<v Speaker 5>kind of heating up. Yeah, that's the real adrenaline is

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<v Speaker 5>the signals the immune system to deploy these killer cells

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<v Speaker 5>and these cells that go in combat infection.

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<v Speaker 2>We tried that as that was playing. I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>if I like the feeling of adrenaline with no context.

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<v Speaker 2>That feels anxiety. And there's something about breathing in the

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<v Speaker 2>sneezy air after speculation of infection that doesn't sit right

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<v Speaker 2>with me. If you want it to work, if it didn't,

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<v Speaker 2>you'd be like if it didn't work, you'd be mad.

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<v Speaker 4>And if you think I wouldn't get a hold anymore.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's all in the head. Thanks you man. Then

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<v Speaker 3>thank you to my cousin bringing that to my attention.

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<v Speaker 3>I might try it, I'll likely forget. And as I said,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm usually the perpartarty of sickness. So just keep an

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<v Speaker 3>eye out everyone if you're close.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, astrology is over.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a new kid in town and it's called birth orders.

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<v Speaker 2>If you always felt as though astrologier didn't hit the mark,

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<v Speaker 2>but you wanted a personality assessment that you could loosely

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<v Speaker 2>judge everybody by, this is one for you. I think

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<v Speaker 2>you're gonna this And after hearing this, you might wish

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<v Speaker 2>you were born at a different time or in a

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<v Speaker 2>different order. So I made a little tweet the other

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<v Speaker 2>day on a thread.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, I apologized, I made a thread. They need to

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<v Speaker 1>figure out what are you doing freaking out? We made a.

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<v Speaker 2>Thread and the thread said am I self interested? Or

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<v Speaker 2>am I just the youngest sibling? Naturally went gangbusters. It

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<v Speaker 2>encouraged me to do a bit of research about birth

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<v Speaker 2>orders because we know a bit of the light generalizations,

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<v Speaker 2>but I thought there might be more to it.

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<v Speaker 1>So this guy called Adler.

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<v Speaker 2>He had theories about how your birth order impacts the

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<v Speaker 2>kind of person you become, and he says that it

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<v Speaker 2>has a lot to do with whether your life is

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<v Speaker 2>destined for greatness or sadness.

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<v Speaker 1>It is that deep.

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<v Speaker 2>Bear in mind though this whole theory has developed over

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<v Speaker 2>one hundred years ago. It's a different time, a different place.

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<v Speaker 2>A lot of it can be heaps valid, but a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of it's like really contradictory as well. It says

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<v Speaker 2>that the basic firstborn child personality is having higher levels

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<v Speaker 2>of intellect than other children and other birth orders.

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<v Speaker 1>As a standard, they're more like to be leaders.

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<v Speaker 2>Given that they are the leader of the children and

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<v Speaker 2>have personality traits such as persistence and emotional stability. They

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<v Speaker 2>tend to feel either authoritarian or entitled to some kind

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<v Speaker 2>of power or status because they've had it growing up.

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<v Speaker 2>Other traits include the controlling, conscientious, cautious, reliable achievers, neurotic construction.

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<v Speaker 2>A lot of the firstborn child friends that I have

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<v Speaker 2>are the mum friends. I don't think they want to be,

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<v Speaker 2>but they are. The hard road, isn't it's yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 2>not great, brother, and we do sympathize per a dynamic.

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<v Speaker 1>For us literally too toddling and the mum.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm a younger sibling too. Wait are you sorry?

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<v Speaker 1>I thought you were the oldest. No, I'm younger.

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<v Speaker 4>Damn, she's just wait, you're a middle lower or your

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<v Speaker 4>youngest youngest.

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<v Speaker 1>Wore one of us? Are sorry?

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry?

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<v Speaker 1>I have put you through the age gap?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh what's the age gap?

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<v Speaker 1>Eight years and sixteen?

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<v Speaker 3>Your older sister's sixteen years older than you. Yeah, damn,

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<v Speaker 3>so you really got taken care.

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<v Speaker 1>Of or neglected.

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<v Speaker 2>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>It's then we've got the middle child. We all know

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<v Speaker 1>about a middle child, and if you don't, you are yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Literally, the middle child syndrome cliche came from Adlerian theory,

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<v Speaker 2>so shout out to Adler for that one. They often

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<v Speaker 2>feel squeezed between their oldest and younger sibling. They feel

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<v Speaker 2>like they've been robbed of any significance in the family

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<v Speaker 2>because they weren't the first and they weren't the last,

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<v Speaker 2>and so what are you then? Silver They can become

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<v Speaker 2>either competitive or really rebellious. They can be even tempered,

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<v Speaker 2>being able to compromise, but that it can lead to

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<v Speaker 2>like people pleas ery.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know any of them middle children like even tempered.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a middle child.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, youngest child personality.

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<v Speaker 2>Were in the room the baby of the family, and

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<v Speaker 2>they never grow out of it. They will always be

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<v Speaker 2>perceived as the baby king. That title cannot be taken away,

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<v Speaker 2>often spoiled, if not with material things, spoiled without like

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<v Speaker 2>the overbearing nature of being the first one to pop

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<v Speaker 2>through even the second one.

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<v Speaker 1>But then are we neglected by the proxy? They say.

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<v Speaker 2>It can often lead to the younger sibling wanting to

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<v Speaker 2>become like bigger, wanting to be misperceived as mature. They

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<v Speaker 2>want to grow up really quickly. People to take them

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<v Speaker 2>seriously and like have their backup about that. They have

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<v Speaker 2>the lowest rate of mental health challenges.

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<v Speaker 1>Though, so I said, blink, blink, we havenies. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>know that's what. That's why I'm in the same way constantly.

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<v Speaker 1>There's something about the connection. I'm mockey. It's just fruit

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<v Speaker 1>three work because it left out, I left out.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like that I'm observing like a couple that's like

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<v Speaker 2>so happy and that I would have.

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<v Speaker 1>Loved to be laughing about. It's cute that I really

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<v Speaker 1>like it.

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<v Speaker 2>The traits of a younger sibling, they're often seen, is

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<v Speaker 2>fun loving and sociable and self centered and self interested

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<v Speaker 2>in all of these things, which I can see and

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<v Speaker 2>I do see that in a lot of younger siblings.

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<v Speaker 2>But I was thinking before about in a lot of ways,

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<v Speaker 2>my self interestedness was a defense mechanism or directly in

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<v Speaker 2>response to being left alone a lot or left out.

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<v Speaker 2>So like, imagine you have these two older brothers. They're

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<v Speaker 2>really close, they hang out, they have their shared interest

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<v Speaker 2>and even if they're not exactly the same, they've got

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<v Speaker 2>like a knowing right, like we're both boys, we like

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<v Speaker 2>boy things. Then you have me, born five years later,

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<v Speaker 2>and like I can't watch the shows I want to

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<v Speaker 2>watch on TV, and I don't want to watch wrestling,

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<v Speaker 2>Like I don't when people ask me, like, why didn't

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<v Speaker 2>you watch the Simpsons? I didn't want to hang out

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<v Speaker 2>when my brothers watching TV. Did they watch Simpsons? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>but like right up that they'd be watching wrestling and

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<v Speaker 2>then soccer, and then that's not very fun.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I had to learn very quickly what my.

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<v Speaker 2>Own interests were, and I didn't want to share them

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<v Speaker 2>for risk of it being another thing that was taken.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's like an overcorrection of feeling left out ignored

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<v Speaker 2>and then being like, but I like being left out

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<v Speaker 2>any norse. I've got all these interests and all these hobbies,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm gonna, you know, entertain myself. And then you

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<v Speaker 2>kind of grow up and then you realize, oh, you

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<v Speaker 2>can actually get attention, Like you don't have to just

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<v Speaker 2>exist in a bubble. You can do things that will

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<v Speaker 2>make people notice you. And then I think it's another overcorrection.

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<v Speaker 2>We're like wait. One of my fondest memories of being

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<v Speaker 2>young was my sibling saying things like we'll tell you

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<v Speaker 2>when you're seven, we'll tell you when you're eleven, we'll

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<v Speaker 2>tell you when you're twelve, And then suddenly you're like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh my goodness. It's like if I wait on you

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<v Speaker 2>guys to invite me into things, I'm going to miss out.

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<v Speaker 2>So I need to find other ways to like wheezle

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<v Speaker 2>my weight in. And then's like, Okay, the funnier I

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<v Speaker 2>am or the more accommodating I am, the more I

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<v Speaker 2>get to hang out, So like what else.

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<v Speaker 1>Can I do?

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<v Speaker 2>But that's also my family structure. It's not just like

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<v Speaker 2>the younger sibling things.

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<v Speaker 1>What was your experience for me?

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<v Speaker 3>So I have these old home videos that I've found

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<v Speaker 3>a little while ago that would like put onto a CD.

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<v Speaker 3>Then I put on my hard drive and there's one

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<v Speaker 3>of me hanging out with my sister's friends, Like her

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<v Speaker 3>friend will come over and they.

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<v Speaker 1>Would like, how annoying of you?

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<v Speaker 3>Literally, and I'm so annoying the videos like I've dressed

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<v Speaker 3>up as like eminem and I'm like coming, like I

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<v Speaker 3>hear do us a little song and dance something, yo,

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<v Speaker 3>you're you're eminent. And it's like it's not even cute

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<v Speaker 3>because it's so annoying. It's like shut she thought you et,

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<v Speaker 3>but I and the friend was laughing. I'm like, now

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<v Speaker 3>I think she was laughing because I was being annoying.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so what else can she do? She can't discipline you? Nah?

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<v Speaker 3>Nah, And my sister would be absolutely upper arms. I

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<v Speaker 3>think I definitely learned to be like I was in

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<v Speaker 3>an attention seeker. I would say often it's worked quite well,

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<v Speaker 3>drama captain. My birth order definitely is appropriate for my

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<v Speaker 3>personality type, which is absolutely to jokes, to clown, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>don't have much responsibility, bit of a mummies girl.

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<v Speaker 1>It's nice to be a baby. What do you think,

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<v Speaker 1>micky babies? You know, I like it. I've enjoyed because

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<v Speaker 1>it was enjoyed my tenure.

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<v Speaker 2>You can watch your older siblings do things and go

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<v Speaker 2>yes no, yes, no, and you're like, Okay, I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>going to be like them, or I am going to

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<v Speaker 2>be like them, And therefore I feel like I'm progressing quicker.

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<v Speaker 1>It's good.

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<v Speaker 2>Perpetual observer forever baby, because everybody is a child to someone,

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<v Speaker 2>right Like my forty year old brother. My mum would

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<v Speaker 2>still perceive him as a child and he has children,

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<v Speaker 2>but being the literal baby of the family, I think

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<v Speaker 2>I will always be perceived as a lot younger to

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<v Speaker 2>my family, like little baby forever. Like this is so crazy,

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<v Speaker 2>like where's Lily. Lilian's gone oversation. She didn't tell anyone.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm nearing thirty still baby to them. Yeah, they love

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<v Speaker 2>crisis receipts.

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<v Speaker 4>Are they seeing the invoices?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, we're going to pass through the group chat on enough.

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<v Speaker 1>This is flex and roomster. I have a new crackpot theory.

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<v Speaker 4>It is about the term yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I have in my research in the field of light

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<v Speaker 3>realized that people who say yeah, hy e h yeah redacted, No,

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<v Speaker 3>they what.

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<v Speaker 2>People who say it's not where I thought this was going.

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<v Speaker 2>I know you, is this what you heard? Mikayla when

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<v Speaker 2>she was pitching this, I felt it.

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<v Speaker 3>I swear people who say y e h are hotter

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<v Speaker 3>than your y.

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<v Speaker 1>Searching my phone, I'm searching.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know what it is. It's some sort of

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<v Speaker 3>personality type. If you have this innate confidence and I

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<v Speaker 3>d G a F yeah speaking now speak.

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<v Speaker 1>Now a flex. The results are conclusive.

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<v Speaker 2>The results are conclusive, And I'm so sorry to almost

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<v Speaker 2>shut you down before you could make your point.

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<v Speaker 4>I have some other variations of yeah that I would

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<v Speaker 4>like to.

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<v Speaker 2>So you're saying y e h exclusively? Anything about y

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<v Speaker 2>e ah coming through.

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<v Speaker 3>That will be up next. Okay, So y e H

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<v Speaker 3>is at the top of the pyramid of hot people

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<v Speaker 3>who are confident because you use it. Yeah, I'm late

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<v Speaker 3>to the game. I'll see you've adopted it. Adopted that

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<v Speaker 3>you're doing cosplay, appropriated it?

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<v Speaker 1>What's new?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay? Here there are some other year variations. Yeah, yea

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<v Speaker 3>is nervous and trying to flirt. It's very drake coded.

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<v Speaker 1>That's disrespectaful.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah ye is like yeah, which is y ea, which

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<v Speaker 3>is like a ten year old slash non middleman.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Yeah, I was like year, it's like, yeah, come over.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's not commddle generally. I don't think we

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<v Speaker 1>needs a gender this okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah with the exclamation mark. The typical y e A

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<v Speaker 3>H is a little too keen. And also why you

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<v Speaker 3>saying it correctly? It's like the okay of the okay world?

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<v Speaker 3>Is yeah even a real word?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Is it an Oxford? Okay? Please pay I'm checking

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<v Speaker 1>if it's in Oxford? Define the yeah? Okay?

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<v Speaker 5>What is that?

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<v Speaker 2>Says informal spelling of yes, representing a pronunciation of the

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<v Speaker 2>word yes.

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<v Speaker 3>So yeah, and finally, yeah ya is girllypop It's my

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<v Speaker 3>personal favorite. When I'm comfortable with someone, if I'm hitting

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<v Speaker 3>you with a yeah, just know him about it in.

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<v Speaker 2>Before someone in the comment says, it's not that deep

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<v Speaker 2>and you've thought about it too much.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you're onto something.

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<v Speaker 3>Finally, yeah, y e R I go your yeah Yo,

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<v Speaker 3>yeah I do y you are Yeah, you're like per parade.

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<v Speaker 3>These are really important, from least hot to hottest. Least

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<v Speaker 3>hot is yeah traditional spelling with the exclamation mark. The

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<v Speaker 3>one above that yeah with no exclamation mark. You're in

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<v Speaker 3>a mood, yah girlipop yeah yeah is a ten year

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<v Speaker 3>old like very yeat coded yeah yeah yea is soft boy,

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<v Speaker 3>not very confident.

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<v Speaker 1>How does y e A rank higher than y e

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<v Speaker 1>A h H.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know what the ring is it.

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<v Speaker 3>Anyway, if you say yeah, if you want to come

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<v Speaker 3>across as more hot and attractive, y e h added

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<v Speaker 3>to the vocab.

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<v Speaker 2>I hate to be the one to bring tired rhetoric

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<v Speaker 2>to the show, but when I do, it's flex and frooms.

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<v Speaker 2>By the way, on Caita, listen, aesthetics are a trap.

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<v Speaker 1>We know it.

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<v Speaker 2>It all started in the year two thousand when I

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<v Speaker 2>got my first lip BARMB. I want to be a

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<v Speaker 2>big girl. Put something in my bag with the tissues,

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<v Speaker 2>probably lipsmacker, like you stole it. No, put on your

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<v Speaker 2>my handbag. Sorry, Like I wanted to be like my

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<v Speaker 2>mom and she carried a handbag, said, I carry a

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<v Speaker 2>handbag but with nothing in it.

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<v Speaker 1>So I put little tissues.

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<v Speaker 2>In there and then a little lip bom, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>because I wanted to feel like a baddie. And then

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<v Speaker 2>as you know, you might not know that once you

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<v Speaker 2>and I don't know the science behind this, but just

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<v Speaker 2>you know, listen, don't ask him many questions. But this

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<v Speaker 2>idea of putting on lip bumb and giving your lipsy

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<v Speaker 2>illusion of hydration messes with the original or the like

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<v Speaker 2>the default fault oil productions. Your lips always feel dry,

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<v Speaker 2>la la la. So now i'm, you know, two decades

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<v Speaker 2>into this lip balm addiction. Yes, my mum is a

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<v Speaker 2>chronic moisturizer, which is a great habit to have. I

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<v Speaker 2>have fond memories of putting moisturizer on her back literally

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<v Speaker 2>every morning. Come put crean in my back, Come put

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<v Speaker 2>clean on my back. Now I'm a chronic moisturizer. Fine,

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<v Speaker 2>getting my nails done. Those who get your nails done

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<v Speaker 2>with the crylics or jelx. No that you can't have

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<v Speaker 2>them off because your real nails get so brittle that

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<v Speaker 2>you need to keep them on. Now you're trapped into

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<v Speaker 2>the routine bleaching my eyebrows and now gotta go two

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<v Speaker 2>weeks of fresh rebleach. Now I'm feeling funny doing my hair.

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<v Speaker 2>You do a slick back pony. You can't ever have

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<v Speaker 2>it unslick. Precisely, it just doesn't stop. Luckily, these things

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<v Speaker 2>are enjoyable. But I think I'm starting to acknowledge when

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<v Speaker 2>things aren't enjoyable and opting out. For example, makeup. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't actually like applying makeup, and I like the feeling

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<v Speaker 2>of makeup. I don't know why I pretend I have

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<v Speaker 2>to wear it moment. Literally, she tried it with that

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<v Speaker 2>who knows what she meant, but it looked good. Oh

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<v Speaker 2>she has amazing skin. She's stunning, and I'm also stunning.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I can find wearing makeup enjoyable, but not

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<v Speaker 2>when I'm doing it every day. Is like a blanket

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<v Speaker 2>habit because by the time the time comes to I

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<v Speaker 2>need to be excited about I'm not excited about it.

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<v Speaker 4>You were a makeup blogger for a bit.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, yeah, early days only days twenty sixteen, twenty

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<v Speaker 2>seventeen started a lot of things for me.

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<v Speaker 1>I love it.

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<v Speaker 2>I'd go back, but you know the curse of taste maker.

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<v Speaker 2>It's hard to double back when you set a trend

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<v Speaker 2>with you.

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<v Speaker 3>You did start the liquid colored eyeliner, yeah, you know

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<v Speaker 3>many years before.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, yeah, or.

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<v Speaker 2>But I will say one thing that I've been really

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<v Speaker 2>excited about a new little routine of mine. Last year,

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<v Speaker 2>we were talking about the implications wearing crocs every day.

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<v Speaker 2>And if you don't know, and this happens with any

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<v Speaker 2>kind of open toe shoes, your heels are exposed to

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<v Speaker 2>the air. They're drying out, which means you get cracked heels.

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<v Speaker 2>That is not sexy. And to be fair, that's not

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<v Speaker 2>something you just put like a little topical, a little

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<v Speaker 2>topical moisturizer over. You have to exfold it. I like

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<v Speaker 2>getting regular pedicures. You shouldn't get them that often, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>not like I want to get a fortnightly pedicure if

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<v Speaker 2>I could, you don't need to try.

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<v Speaker 4>But I just recently did the foot peel.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we love it. We love a milky for foot pill.

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<v Speaker 2>But one thing that works really well. Want to get

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<v Speaker 2>your pedicure. Get heel bombed. I don't care what brand

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<v Speaker 2>it is. I've used some that are five dollars and

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<v Speaker 2>that are fifty dollars. Heal bomb with Yurea in it,

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<v Speaker 2>you are ea. I think it eats a weight, like

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<v Speaker 2>dead skin or something. I don't know how it works,

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<v Speaker 2>but that keeps my heel soft. I haven't had a

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<v Speaker 2>cracked heel.

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<v Speaker 1>In a long time.

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<v Speaker 4>I'll write that down.

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<v Speaker 1>It's really good. It's an effective esthetic habit.

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<v Speaker 2>Can I get it from this market anywhere anywhere? Get

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<v Speaker 2>a little shoals, get a little dermal. Everybody does it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's amazing. I stand by get heel bumb Thanks Grey.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, welcome. You've been listening to the Flex and

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<v Speaker 1>Frooms Daily podcast.

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