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Speaker 1: And Amanda jam Nation.

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Speaker 2: If I had a friend as a forensic psychologist, I

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Speaker 2: would start my own podcast, but unfortunately I am bereft

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Speaker 2: of that. But you are out of handing.

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Speaker 1: It's called double a chattery. I do this with my

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Speaker 1: friend Anita, and this week's really interesting. I think you'll

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Speaker 1: like it. Brendan's. I'd read an interesting article in The

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Speaker 1: Atlantic that talks about how jen Z, which is a

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Speaker 1: generation that has dated only online, is now nostalgic for serendipity.

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Speaker 1: They want to have that feeling of falling in love,

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Speaker 1: whereas they have in this generation has wanted to curate

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Speaker 1: the experience to be in control. But they're missing what

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Speaker 1: they call the meat cute, the MWt, the meat cute,

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Speaker 1: the love story, the bashing into a stranger in the

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Speaker 1: street and just falling in love. But they're nostalgic therefore

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Speaker 1: for a form of falling in love that's never been real.

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Speaker 1: Even in our generation when we dated offline, no one

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Speaker 1: really met that way. You met through family, you met

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Speaker 1: through work, you met through friends. That and falling in

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Speaker 1: love with a stranger has been romanticized in popular culture.

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Speaker 1: But that's not real. But this into this generation is

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Speaker 1: wanting that, although we never had it either. So they

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Speaker 1: want to control the experience. That's what dating online gives

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Speaker 1: you a little bit, but they're missing that story to

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Speaker 1: tell how we met, the falling.

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Speaker 2: In love that Harry met Sally.

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Speaker 1: That's what they want. Well, Harry and Sally's different, they

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Speaker 1: were friends, but they want the bang just said love

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Speaker 1: at first sight, the soulmate, and most of us know

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Speaker 1: that that's not how life works.

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Speaker 2: Like an impulse commercial. Strange man gives you flowers.

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Speaker 1: They want the impulse commercial, but most of us never had.

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Speaker 2: That any way. Giving you flowers if it gives.

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Speaker 1: The flowers and walks away, yes, gives the flowers, follows

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Speaker 1: me home, not so much anyway. Double a Chattery very

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Speaker 1: interesting discussion on all of this wherever your podcasts or

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Speaker 1: at double a chattery dot com.