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Speaker 2: This entire relationship has been on your terms and yours alone.

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Speaker 2: and certainly not by you. So to put it plainly,

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Speaker 1: Boom bumps. Lindall said that, and then when Cam came

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Speaker 2: I just feel like, no matter what you say today,

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Speaker 1: Hi, you gave me in the car.

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Speaker 1: us right now. Lindall from Married at First Sight, Hello.

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Speaker 3: Hi guys, good morning.

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Speaker 4: Good morning, and how have you felt watching this unfold

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Speaker 3: Oh? I mean released, like, I guess this all happened

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Speaker 1: But you know the thing about this, When I first

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Speaker 1: But he doesn't just live in Darwin. He works offsite

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Speaker 3: Yeah. I mean the funny thing about that is that

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Speaker 4: That the experts had put you together as a good couple?

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Speaker 4: Did you feel that, yes, I can see why they

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Speaker 3: Well, that's hard because I think that first like that,

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Speaker 4: So, Linda, I think a lot of men run away

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Speaker 4: He knew that when he signed on.

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Speaker 3: It's an honest So didn't he like a our dirty

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Speaker 3: I don't remember ever doing that to him.

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Speaker 1: No, And look, you know, you've come out looking great

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Speaker 4: Said yes to the show, Lindall.

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Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, I am. And I mean even even though

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Speaker 1: And according to our sources as well, he was planning

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Speaker 1: So way to go you.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, I mean yeah, So I guess he

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Speaker 1: And so and and you still were You're still not

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Speaker 3: Lindell, you're not here to beat spiders? Excellent?

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Speaker 1: Sunday night at seven on nine and nine. Now are

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Speaker 3: It is.

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Speaker 4: I get that orchestra to follow you around again.

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Speaker 1: There you guys, Lyndall, Lyndall, thank you, thank you.

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Speaker 3: Lyndall, not a problem. Thank you so much for having me.

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