1 00:00:10,669 --> 00:00:14,869 Speaker 1: My Heart podcasts, hear more kids podcasts, playlists and listen 2 00:00:14,909 --> 00:00:16,388 Speaker 1: live on the Free I heard a. 3 00:00:17,389 --> 00:00:20,869 Speaker 2: Hates Morning, Hope having a great Friday Afternoonwards, We've got 4 00:00:20,909 --> 00:00:23,469 Speaker 2: a very very special guest in Chloe Pink who joins 5 00:00:23,509 --> 00:00:26,308 Speaker 2: us in the studio right now. Chloe is married to 6 00:00:26,389 --> 00:00:31,069 Speaker 2: North Melbourne Football Club in the AFL's Toby Pink and 7 00:00:31,189 --> 00:00:33,029 Speaker 2: Chloe joins in the studio right now to talk about 8 00:00:33,108 --> 00:00:36,389 Speaker 2: something that she went through recently that we think categorically 9 00:00:36,429 --> 00:00:39,189 Speaker 2: sucks and so she's in need to try and make 10 00:00:39,229 --> 00:00:40,789 Speaker 2: things better for everybody else going forward. 11 00:00:40,869 --> 00:00:41,949 Speaker 3: Chloe, Welcome to Will and Woodie. 12 00:00:42,028 --> 00:00:44,349 Speaker 4: Thank you for having me. Guys. I appreciate the platform 13 00:00:44,388 --> 00:00:45,029 Speaker 4: to talk about it. 14 00:00:45,429 --> 00:00:48,109 Speaker 1: Do you want to talk us through? So you had 15 00:00:48,388 --> 00:00:52,789 Speaker 1: a secret wedding to your now husband, Toby. Yeah, and 16 00:00:52,869 --> 00:00:56,148 Speaker 1: that was back in March. Yeah, first lead, congrats. 17 00:00:55,749 --> 00:00:58,229 Speaker 3: Thank you, look beautiful by the way, thank you. Where 18 00:00:58,309 --> 00:00:59,508 Speaker 3: was it? Where was it exactly? 19 00:00:59,629 --> 00:01:02,389 Speaker 4: We went to the wedding registry, so just the office 20 00:01:02,469 --> 00:01:03,709 Speaker 4: right next to the Treasury Guarden. 21 00:01:03,949 --> 00:01:05,149 Speaker 3: We're on the steps out the front there. 22 00:01:05,269 --> 00:01:05,789 Speaker 1: Yeah. 23 00:01:05,869 --> 00:01:07,949 Speaker 4: Yeah, So we just went there and then we had 24 00:01:07,949 --> 00:01:10,509 Speaker 4: a long table. They're at Bosley Bar and restaurant, which 25 00:01:10,549 --> 00:01:13,029 Speaker 4: is beautiful, by the way, if you need a recommendation. 26 00:01:13,869 --> 00:01:19,749 Speaker 4: We had a long table dinner there, getting paid to say. 27 00:01:19,509 --> 00:01:21,589 Speaker 3: That I got a wedding for free. 28 00:01:24,029 --> 00:01:26,029 Speaker 4: And yeah, we kept it on the down low and 29 00:01:26,069 --> 00:01:29,789 Speaker 4: didn't tell anyone else. We've been together for over seven years. 30 00:01:29,909 --> 00:01:32,109 Speaker 1: And then fast forward a few months. So fast forward 31 00:01:32,149 --> 00:01:36,389 Speaker 1: to a couple of days ago. There's a news article 32 00:01:36,509 --> 00:01:38,988 Speaker 1: written about the fact that you and Toby got married. 33 00:01:39,349 --> 00:01:42,749 Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, so Jackie from Harold Son. She reached out 34 00:01:42,829 --> 00:01:45,029 Speaker 4: to me and said, are you okay we do an 35 00:01:45,069 --> 00:01:47,189 Speaker 4: article on your wedding. It was really beautiful and I said, 36 00:01:47,189 --> 00:01:50,149 Speaker 4: of course, like that sounds lovely. The article went live, 37 00:01:50,509 --> 00:01:53,389 Speaker 4: and from the back end of that article is when 38 00:01:53,429 --> 00:01:55,589 Speaker 4: I guess put it up in this situation. There was 39 00:01:55,629 --> 00:02:00,909 Speaker 4: a lot of viral comments coming hard and fast, all 40 00:02:00,909 --> 00:02:04,189 Speaker 4: about my appearance, all about my weight. There were comments 41 00:02:04,229 --> 00:02:08,029 Speaker 4: calling me a fridge, comments saying that Toby was a 42 00:02:08,029 --> 00:02:13,589 Speaker 4: AFL player by day, pick hunter by night. Yeah, there 43 00:02:13,668 --> 00:02:16,909 Speaker 4: was the comments that genuinely shocked me, not even just 44 00:02:16,949 --> 00:02:19,789 Speaker 4: calling me fat like that was really vile comments. And 45 00:02:19,829 --> 00:02:22,709 Speaker 4: they were not just one or two I think, Yeah 46 00:02:23,189 --> 00:02:23,629 Speaker 4: it was. 47 00:02:23,709 --> 00:02:23,949 Speaker 2: It was. 48 00:02:24,029 --> 00:02:27,309 Speaker 4: It's been a hard, hard week, not just one or 49 00:02:27,309 --> 00:02:32,189 Speaker 4: two either. There were so many, and Harold Son did 50 00:02:32,189 --> 00:02:34,069 Speaker 4: what they could, like they were deleting the comments, and 51 00:02:34,109 --> 00:02:36,229 Speaker 4: eventually they had to turn off the comments. But it 52 00:02:36,309 --> 00:02:39,909 Speaker 4: was it was I'd never experienced anything like it, and 53 00:02:39,949 --> 00:02:42,269 Speaker 4: I guess I it was a bit naive and I 54 00:02:42,309 --> 00:02:43,709 Speaker 4: know that I'm going to get a hate comment. I 55 00:02:43,749 --> 00:02:45,668 Speaker 4: know that someone's going to call me fat, but it 56 00:02:45,789 --> 00:02:47,549 Speaker 4: didn't expect it to this extent. 57 00:02:47,789 --> 00:02:48,349 Speaker 3: Did you know that? 58 00:02:48,709 --> 00:02:49,389 Speaker 2: Did you know that? 59 00:02:49,989 --> 00:02:51,789 Speaker 3: Sorry just to because he said I knew that I 60 00:02:51,829 --> 00:02:54,109 Speaker 3: was going to get a comment. Someone's good. So Jackie 61 00:02:54,149 --> 00:02:57,509 Speaker 3: calls you the Harald Sun. Probably a lot of people's dream. Yeah, 62 00:02:57,629 --> 00:02:59,948 Speaker 3: they want to put your your photo in the paper 63 00:03:00,309 --> 00:03:02,269 Speaker 3: of you marrying your beautiful man. 64 00:03:02,269 --> 00:03:03,909 Speaker 1: Of probably one of the best days of your life. 65 00:03:04,109 --> 00:03:06,869 Speaker 3: Yeah, that was going to happen. And then at the 66 00:03:06,909 --> 00:03:09,429 Speaker 3: same time you're saying in the that in your mind 67 00:03:09,469 --> 00:03:11,029 Speaker 3: was also a thought where you were like, I know 68 00:03:11,109 --> 00:03:14,269 Speaker 3: someone's going to call me fat publicly in these photos. 69 00:03:14,589 --> 00:03:16,549 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I know. 70 00:03:16,789 --> 00:03:17,589 Speaker 3: How did you know that? 71 00:03:18,469 --> 00:03:21,949 Speaker 4: Because I've been to another event where my photo has 72 00:03:21,989 --> 00:03:25,629 Speaker 4: been posted. I've also received one or two comments about 73 00:03:25,669 --> 00:03:28,029 Speaker 4: the way that I look. But I didn't expect it 74 00:03:28,069 --> 00:03:30,228 Speaker 4: to be to the extent that it was. I expected 75 00:03:30,229 --> 00:03:33,269 Speaker 4: one or two comments, and I can take that, which 76 00:03:33,269 --> 00:03:35,549 Speaker 4: I shouldn't have to. I know that someone out there 77 00:03:35,589 --> 00:03:39,149 Speaker 4: is going to say I look fat, but I did 78 00:03:39,189 --> 00:03:43,029 Speaker 4: not expect the vile comments and to the extent and 79 00:03:43,069 --> 00:03:44,869 Speaker 4: the nature of what was to come. 80 00:03:44,949 --> 00:03:47,389 Speaker 3: And how did you think you looked on your wedding day? 81 00:03:47,469 --> 00:03:51,349 Speaker 4: I had a hard conversation actually with a close family member, 82 00:03:51,509 --> 00:03:54,269 Speaker 4: and I said, my wedding day was the first day 83 00:03:54,349 --> 00:03:58,669 Speaker 4: where I've actually felt truly beautiful and makes my mom my. 84 00:03:58,789 --> 00:04:01,389 Speaker 4: Mom's been crying all week. She said, She's like you, 85 00:04:01,669 --> 00:04:04,789 Speaker 4: you looked beautiful. She said, you felt beautiful, and I 86 00:04:04,829 --> 00:04:10,029 Speaker 4: truly did. Thank you. Even when I uploaded the photos, 87 00:04:10,389 --> 00:04:12,669 Speaker 4: I didn't question if I looked fat. I didn't question 88 00:04:12,749 --> 00:04:14,989 Speaker 4: if I looked ugly. I didn't question my appearance. I 89 00:04:14,989 --> 00:04:16,428 Speaker 4: felt so beautiful. 90 00:04:16,549 --> 00:04:19,669 Speaker 1: So when these comments start coming through, how did you 91 00:04:19,709 --> 00:04:20,149 Speaker 1: see them? 92 00:04:20,308 --> 00:04:22,948 Speaker 4: So I read the comments and I just spent I 93 00:04:22,949 --> 00:04:27,349 Speaker 4: think three days straight crying home. Initially to Toby's like 94 00:04:27,429 --> 00:04:30,789 Speaker 4: no way, there's no way. And Toby just sat there 95 00:04:30,789 --> 00:04:33,029 Speaker 4: in silence for like a good day, and he's like, 96 00:04:33,189 --> 00:04:36,269 Speaker 4: I am so sorry, and it felt like he was 97 00:04:36,309 --> 00:04:39,748 Speaker 4: apologizing to me because I was saying, oh, it's just 98 00:04:39,949 --> 00:04:42,229 Speaker 4: like I was crying and it really hurt. But in 99 00:04:42,269 --> 00:04:44,509 Speaker 4: the back of my mind, I kept saying, it's just 100 00:04:44,549 --> 00:04:46,509 Speaker 4: part of his job. It's just part of his job. 101 00:04:46,549 --> 00:04:48,469 Speaker 4: It's fine, it's just part of his job. But the 102 00:04:48,549 --> 00:04:50,949 Speaker 4: more I reflect on that, it's not it's not. And 103 00:04:51,189 --> 00:04:53,469 Speaker 4: if I say that, I'm excusing your behavior. 104 00:04:54,549 --> 00:04:55,988 Speaker 3: So we want to get to how we can do 105 00:04:56,029 --> 00:04:58,868 Speaker 3: better about this. Yeah, all got a song and we've 106 00:04:58,869 --> 00:05:02,309 Speaker 3: got more with Chloe Pink right up next here on 107 00:05:02,909 --> 00:05:04,949 Speaker 3: will and what he By the way, I should mention 108 00:05:04,988 --> 00:05:07,229 Speaker 3: if any of this brought up any emotions of body image, 109 00:05:07,229 --> 00:05:09,029 Speaker 3: then reach out to the Butterfly Foundation. Way A one 110 00:05:09,069 --> 00:05:12,748 Speaker 3: hundred double three four six seven three more. With Chloe 111 00:05:12,749 --> 00:05:14,269 Speaker 3: on the other side, I hope you having a great Friday. Well, 112 00:05:14,269 --> 00:05:15,109 Speaker 3: then what do you It's kiss