WEBVTT - You Can Now Be Preserved For Resurrection 💀 0:00:01.520 --> 0:00:04.440 Flex and Frooms Flex and Frooms. This is the Flex 0:00:04.480 --> 0:00:05.960 and Frooms catch up podcast. 0:00:07.880 --> 0:00:10.480 It is Wednesday. As you know, frooms is favorite day 0:00:10.480 --> 0:00:10.920 of the week. 0:00:10.960 --> 0:00:11.840 It's not it's Thursday. 0:00:11.880 --> 0:00:13.200 Faite, Oh, it's hump day. 0:00:13.360 --> 0:00:18.720 Frooms's favorite saying yes, hump, say humped say forrmy does 0:00:18.800 --> 0:00:22.159 divulge to us that teslas have a fart button? Of 0:00:22.200 --> 0:00:27.280 course we're repulsed, but that's okay. Also, we in great 0:00:27.320 --> 0:00:30.760 news can freeze ourselves defrost in time for twenty one 0:00:30.920 --> 0:00:34.600 forty three. That's some great news. And also the age 0:00:34.640 --> 0:00:37.440 old question that we don't discuss enough. If you're in 0:00:37.479 --> 0:00:40.080 a committed relationship. 0:00:39.400 --> 0:00:42.760 Do you have to post them on Instagram. 0:00:42.280 --> 0:00:45.200 Or any social platform's sorry, sorry, broughten it out. 0:00:45.680 --> 0:00:47.680 This is a day in my life with my boyfriend 0:00:47.720 --> 0:00:48.920 Poo poo pants. Let's go. 0:00:49.680 --> 0:00:52.600 You're listening to Flex and Frooms on Kita. 0:00:53.120 --> 0:00:55.240 Big question of the day and more to come. Should 0:00:55.240 --> 0:00:58.279 we assume that everyone loves us? If we haven't been 0:00:58.320 --> 0:01:03.000 given bad feed back, it's come from a TikTok by Delara. 0:01:03.160 --> 0:01:04.000 Listen to this. 0:01:04.000 --> 0:01:06.880 This is your friendly reminder that unless someone indicates that 0:01:06.920 --> 0:01:09.280 they have a problem with you, you're going to assume 0:01:09.360 --> 0:01:12.160 that there is no problem, because it's not your responsibility 0:01:12.160 --> 0:01:15.920 to guess what someone else's problem is. It's their responsibility 0:01:15.959 --> 0:01:17.440 to communicate that problem to you. 0:01:18.120 --> 0:01:20.720 Well, the anxiety gillies are going to hate this one, you. 0:01:20.680 --> 0:01:23.880 Know what, because this sounds like something I would say. 0:01:24.040 --> 0:01:27.640 This sounds very flex coded. But even I'm like, it's 0:01:27.720 --> 0:01:31.920 not that simple. If I know one thing about people 0:01:33.120 --> 0:01:36.279 is that at our core, we are irrational and often 0:01:36.400 --> 0:01:40.280 act out of alignment with what matches the situation. So like, 0:01:40.319 --> 0:01:41.840 you know, when you really need a company, you push 0:01:41.920 --> 0:01:44.160 people away. When you really want someone to like look 0:01:44.200 --> 0:01:46.199 out for you, you act like you don't need any help. 0:01:46.240 --> 0:01:48.960 It's like all this stuff. It's caterintuitive. I can say, 0:01:48.960 --> 0:01:51.240 for the sake of like your anxiety, it's nice to 0:01:51.280 --> 0:01:53.560 be like, if they haven't told me, then you know, 0:01:53.840 --> 0:01:58.080 let me not worry about tomorrow's problems, like let me 0:01:58.160 --> 0:02:00.920 just wait until I know for a fact. But I 0:02:00.960 --> 0:02:04.320 don't think we control ourselves like that. I also think 0:02:04.360 --> 0:02:07.600 it's a slippery slope to tell people unless it's been 0:02:07.600 --> 0:02:10.760 said explicitly, it's not your problem, because so much is 0:02:10.800 --> 0:02:13.880 implicit and covert and requires you to pick up on 0:02:14.000 --> 0:02:17.839 signals and signs to get it across, and if you're lucky, 0:02:18.040 --> 0:02:20.960 you get an admission of truth. But even like like 0:02:21.040 --> 0:02:23.000 let's say, have a problem for me, and I'm coming 0:02:23.040 --> 0:02:25.040 to you, I'm workshopping, like I don't even know what 0:02:25.080 --> 0:02:27.880 the problem is yet, and so how many times will 0:02:27.880 --> 0:02:30.880 I allow myself to workshop or how many times will 0:02:31.400 --> 0:02:34.400 you make it comfortable enough for me to workshop before 0:02:34.400 --> 0:02:35.959 I'm like, yeah, I don't know. I didn't any of 0:02:36.040 --> 0:02:38.200 that at all. I think I'm a little bit off 0:02:39.080 --> 0:02:42.120 any kind of advice or feedback that gives us the 0:02:42.120 --> 0:02:45.000 impression that we can do stuff on our own constantly, 0:02:45.880 --> 0:02:48.720 or that we're so separated and isolated that we don't 0:02:48.760 --> 0:02:51.160 need to rely on people, or that other people aren't 0:02:51.160 --> 0:02:53.919 our problem, or that if they can't say it, then 0:02:53.960 --> 0:02:55.960 it's on them. Because I definitely felt that way when 0:02:56.000 --> 0:03:00.600 I was twenty, you know, to twenty five. And then 0:03:00.639 --> 0:03:05.600 you're like, wait, that's not true, because I've needed people 0:03:05.639 --> 0:03:07.959 and not asked, or I've needed help and not asked 0:03:08.000 --> 0:03:10.120 and wish someone would have offered or whatever. 0:03:10.440 --> 0:03:13.120 Well I would like, And I tried to cultivate an 0:03:13.240 --> 0:03:16.600 environment where we are one hundred percent across the feelings 0:03:16.919 --> 0:03:19.120 at all times. It can be a bit of a 0:03:19.120 --> 0:03:21.320 mental load if you're not used to it. But all 0:03:21.320 --> 0:03:23.760 of my best friends, if there's even the slightest little 0:03:23.840 --> 0:03:26.920 hint of weirdness, we have a trust system where we 0:03:26.960 --> 0:03:29.160 can happily talk about that without it being too much. 0:03:29.160 --> 0:03:31.600 And if you don't understand that, yeah, then we can't 0:03:31.600 --> 0:03:32.440 be friends like that. 0:03:33.120 --> 0:03:34.160 And it's a tricky one. 0:03:34.280 --> 0:03:35.960 And you also need to pick your battles. Like I 0:03:36.000 --> 0:03:37.840 do have friends, this is it, but they're just not 0:03:37.880 --> 0:03:40.280 my close friends, like my inner inner circle of really 0:03:40.280 --> 0:03:42.800 good friends. Understand that if I'm asking if I'm you're 0:03:42.800 --> 0:03:45.000 mad at me, and you know you're not, I need 0:03:45.000 --> 0:03:46.480 to support right, You're not going to scoff at me. 0:03:47.360 --> 0:03:49.200 You're not going to say I'm being crazy. You're gonna say, 0:03:49.600 --> 0:03:52.680 no way, I love you. 0:03:51.760 --> 0:03:52.960 You're being insane. 0:03:53.360 --> 0:03:54.200 Yeah, people do that. 0:03:54.600 --> 0:03:57.600 I also feel like, let your people have mood swings 0:03:58.160 --> 0:04:01.080 because there's one thing about me. I'm a moody girl, 0:04:01.600 --> 0:04:05.000 and I also befriend moody girls. And sometimes you just 0:04:05.080 --> 0:04:07.400 can't take it personally. Like let's say I'm having an 0:04:07.440 --> 0:04:09.720 off day and then you assume because I haven't said 0:04:09.840 --> 0:04:12.920 what it's explicitly about let's pretend it's not happening. 0:04:12.960 --> 0:04:13.800 That's not helpful. 0:04:14.480 --> 0:04:17.240 True, I feel like acknowledge, and if the acknowledgment isn't 0:04:17.240 --> 0:04:18.279 taken well, then you know what to do. 0:04:18.360 --> 0:04:18.960 Wrap it up. 0:04:19.560 --> 0:04:20.120 Wrap it up? 0:04:20.200 --> 0:04:24.920 Sis, you go, what's going on for mey? She says, Oh, FLEXI, Oh. 0:04:25.040 --> 0:04:25.599 We get into it. 0:04:25.680 --> 0:04:26.880 You don't even know we get into it. 0:04:28.960 --> 0:04:32.719 We had a listener submission. Somebody sent us a DM 0:04:32.800 --> 0:04:35.120 via the Flex and Frooms Instagram, which, might I add, 0:04:35.600 --> 0:04:38.960 is popping off. Our producer, Mikayla and the various social 0:04:38.960 --> 0:04:42.560 media team that does the Flex and Frooms Instagram have 0:04:42.640 --> 0:04:45.720 been popping their bussy. I recently got access to the login, 0:04:45.800 --> 0:04:47.400 so if you want to send a personal message, please 0:04:47.440 --> 0:04:49.720 send it there. I will be reading it only if 0:04:49.760 --> 0:04:53.480 it's nice and our listener, Georgia, has sent in a 0:04:53.480 --> 0:04:55.520 bit of a thought starter for the girlies, which this 0:04:55.600 --> 0:04:58.880 is my favorite kind of message. She begins, high, pretty 0:04:58.920 --> 0:05:02.320 princesses already t the box, Love the podcast with all 0:05:02.440 --> 0:05:05.840 my heart. Big discussion in the office today, I would 0:05:05.839 --> 0:05:08.520 love to hear your thoughts on would you rather companies 0:05:08.600 --> 0:05:11.840 pay to have the ads installed into your memory or 0:05:11.880 --> 0:05:14.159 prefer to actually have to watch the ads before any 0:05:14.160 --> 0:05:18.560 piece of content YouTube, TV, TikTok et, cetera, assuming that 0:05:18.600 --> 0:05:20.640 if the ads are in your memory, you never actually 0:05:20.640 --> 0:05:24.919 have to endure watching them. Results here were fifty to fifty. Wow, 0:05:25.279 --> 0:05:28.000 this is an incredible question, Georgia. I love it. I 0:05:28.080 --> 0:05:31.040 want to start off by saying, I studied advertising, oh 0:05:31.080 --> 0:05:33.680 at university. Don't out yourself, that is who I am. 0:05:34.400 --> 0:05:36.919 At the time, I didn't realize, like I didn't know 0:05:36.960 --> 0:05:39.800 that you could study advertising. I went to UNI originally 0:05:39.800 --> 0:05:44.040 to do journalism, started doing journalism. First lecture, the lady says, 0:05:44.040 --> 0:05:45.320 if you want to be on TV, this isn't the 0:05:45.360 --> 0:05:45.760 course for you. 0:05:46.040 --> 0:05:49.560 So you left, pack the bags, pack the note before 0:05:49.560 --> 0:05:52.760 the census state, pack the notebooks that I diligently brought 0:05:52.760 --> 0:05:54.960 from office works into my little crumpler backpack. 0:05:55.040 --> 0:05:56.680 So this is not for me, and yeep back to 0:05:56.760 --> 0:05:58.280 Melbourne Central Station to go home to. 0:05:58.240 --> 0:05:59.440 My care out here. 0:05:59.640 --> 0:06:01.159 It's this isn't right. 0:06:02.400 --> 0:06:05.360 Literally, you're like, what do they mean? 0:06:05.600 --> 0:06:09.440 Imagine working so hard and spending so much money on 0:06:09.520 --> 0:06:12.159 a school to only find out that the course that 0:06:12.200 --> 0:06:13.920 you work so dilling to get into. 0:06:14.080 --> 0:06:15.960 It's not even relevant. But look at you. Now. 0:06:16.200 --> 0:06:18.559 Look, I mean, now, when did advertising and I thought 0:06:18.560 --> 0:06:20.200 that advatised. I didn't think that people thought it was 0:06:20.200 --> 0:06:22.520 a bad thing. Like I thought advertising was creative and cool. 0:06:22.760 --> 0:06:25.120 People love ads. Little did I know in some of 0:06:25.160 --> 0:06:27.120 the lectures they'd be like, you know, people say ads 0:06:27.120 --> 0:06:27.440 are bad? 0:06:27.480 --> 0:06:29.839 I was like, what the manipulative god? 0:06:29.880 --> 0:06:31.960 Like this is just fun. We're just like learning to 0:06:32.040 --> 0:06:33.240 draw pictures on Photoshop. 0:06:33.920 --> 0:06:36.159 Do you think it's ads that people don't like? Or 0:06:36.279 --> 0:06:40.760 how almost like disruptive they can be, like it takes 0:06:40.760 --> 0:06:43.680 you out of your favorite moment, it's berating you, one 0:06:43.720 --> 0:06:45.600 after the other after the other after the other. 0:06:46.200 --> 0:06:47.600 I feel like outdoor. 0:06:47.200 --> 0:06:50.760 Advertising isn't as disruptive as like digital advertising. 0:06:50.920 --> 0:06:54.919 Some people hate them. Some people think outdoor advertising I. 0:06:54.920 --> 0:06:56.280 Guess it ruins the landscape. 0:06:56.640 --> 0:06:58.520 And we had all these beautiful trees, and now what 0:06:58.560 --> 0:06:59.080 do we see? 0:06:59.400 --> 0:07:02.760 Show me what we let me say? I think I. 0:07:02.680 --> 0:07:05.880 Would prefer them burned into my brain because there's nothing 0:07:06.040 --> 0:07:09.240 like feeling as though every good idea you have, of 0:07:09.240 --> 0:07:11.960 every inkling came from you and you alone. Like if 0:07:11.960 --> 0:07:13.720 I wake up one day and I'm like, oh, I 0:07:13.760 --> 0:07:17.120 really want to sign up to that cool new gym. 0:07:17.680 --> 0:07:19.600 I would love to feel as though just it's an 0:07:19.680 --> 0:07:23.240 idea that came to came to and I'm just acting 0:07:23.280 --> 0:07:26.360 on my natural impulse. If I go and buy a 0:07:26.400 --> 0:07:29.160 new toilet cleaner, I'd love to feel like, oh my god, 0:07:29.320 --> 0:07:35.320 you're another one amazing, as opposed to being so like 0:07:36.000 --> 0:07:38.040 involved in the process. I think that's what I don't 0:07:38.360 --> 0:07:41.320 love about digital advertising sometimes is that everything has to 0:07:41.320 --> 0:07:44.480 feel like a choice, another choice, another choice, this ad, 0:07:44.600 --> 0:07:45.480 not this ad. 0:07:45.240 --> 0:07:47.560 Skip this ad, watch this ad? Do I like this ad? 0:07:47.560 --> 0:07:49.040 What's this ad for? Does theyone know? 0:07:49.240 --> 0:07:52.040 It's like, oh my god, Like we don't need it 0:07:52.120 --> 0:07:55.840 to be intentional for the desire to come anyway. I 0:07:55.880 --> 0:07:57.480 think that's my issue with it, you know, like so 0:07:57.600 --> 0:08:01.760 much of what I desire about the life is unintentional, 0:08:01.880 --> 0:08:04.840 program subconscious, and I feel better about that. 0:08:05.400 --> 0:08:07.480 I personally would like to see all the ads. I 0:08:07.480 --> 0:08:10.320 love the creativity of the advertisers. I love seeing how 0:08:10.400 --> 0:08:11.560 much money is bringing as much. 0:08:13.120 --> 0:08:14.640 How do you love the jingles? 0:08:15.600 --> 0:08:19.080 No, I'm telling you jingles like what I wanted to 0:08:19.120 --> 0:08:20.840 be as a child, if not a presenter, was a 0:08:20.920 --> 0:08:24.600 jingle making. I've got them both downpat, So believe in 0:08:24.600 --> 0:08:27.560 your dreams. Study advertising, folks and watch the ad. 0:08:27.760 --> 0:08:32.920 Can the creativity of advertising could be funneled into cinema 0:08:32.920 --> 0:08:36.160 and TV, because my goodness, why are we doing twenty 0:08:36.200 --> 0:08:38.760 six hundred hours of a TV show that is not 0:08:38.880 --> 0:08:41.360 concise and wrapped up? And ad can tell you everything 0:08:41.360 --> 0:08:44.600 you need to know about health insurance in fourteen seconds. 0:08:44.600 --> 0:08:47.240 That's why I need to become have a TV show 0:08:48.440 --> 0:08:50.160 the pipeline. No, but I'm serious. 0:08:50.240 --> 0:08:52.360 Can learn how to be articulate through making TV. 0:08:55.520 --> 0:08:59.640 You're listening to Flex and Rooms on Kaita Mikayla, how 0:08:59.720 --> 0:09:04.320 much loved producer has sent me? Oh she did little heart? Guys, 0:09:04.320 --> 0:09:06.960 when did these little hearts start happening with the fingerpop 0:09:07.280 --> 0:09:09.200 k pop? I know, but I'm just seeing every man 0:09:09.200 --> 0:09:11.560 in the dog do. I absolutely love these little cultured 0:09:13.160 --> 0:09:14.120 It's a new thing to me. 0:09:15.160 --> 0:09:19.520 You too, many We just need to know we get 0:09:19.640 --> 0:09:21.400 from her so. 0:09:21.440 --> 0:09:23.920 Much love with the little love heart hands and she 0:09:24.040 --> 0:09:26.800 sent in this TikTok And it's quite an important question. 0:09:26.800 --> 0:09:29.520 I think most people in the audience need to know 0:09:30.559 --> 0:09:33.120 me And it's a POV type thing, guys, me trying 0:09:33.160 --> 0:09:35.840 to explain to literally every man that it's extremely important 0:09:35.840 --> 0:09:37.800 to post your GF from time to time, whether it 0:09:37.800 --> 0:09:39.839 be on a story or in an IG post, because 0:09:39.880 --> 0:09:42.360 it not only shows her off and makes her feel 0:09:42.400 --> 0:09:44.880 more confident and secure in a relationship, but it also 0:09:44.960 --> 0:09:47.280 is a heartfelt gesture that shows that you're not ashamed 0:09:47.320 --> 0:09:49.520 to be with her. It's just the aspect of showing 0:09:49.600 --> 0:09:54.400 you appreciate her and not hiding her existence that's so crucial. 0:09:54.800 --> 0:09:59.960 Micky as the token relationship girl in the podcast Studio 0:10:00.160 --> 0:10:02.559 me Flix and Michayla. 0:10:02.240 --> 0:10:04.160 Token relationship girl, she is? 0:10:05.280 --> 0:10:07.160 Does your BF post things about you? 0:10:07.679 --> 0:10:09.120 Almost? His whole Instagram is me? 0:10:09.800 --> 0:10:10.360 Stop it? 0:10:10.559 --> 0:10:12.640 Yeah? I could show you. He has a little hat 0:10:12.679 --> 0:10:16.080 that says taken and he wears it everywhere. It's his favorite. 0:10:16.120 --> 0:10:17.160 Please show me it. 0:10:17.280 --> 0:10:19.120 Yeah, I'll show you. I'll show you. Do you know 0:10:19.120 --> 0:10:22.199 what's funny? My ex boyfriend posted nith n. 0:10:23.160 --> 0:10:24.920 Me and how long were you together? In? 0:10:24.960 --> 0:10:25.640 Two years? 0:10:27.400 --> 0:10:29.440 And then at the time, what do you think that was? 0:10:29.880 --> 0:10:32.160 I don't think he wanted to why. I think he 0:10:32.200 --> 0:10:36.280 was ashamed of me. Oh, Mikayla, I do like, I'm 0:10:36.320 --> 0:10:37.080 resolved with it. 0:10:36.960 --> 0:10:39.120 Now you got taken. 0:10:39.280 --> 0:10:42.200 I'm fine with it now. We were doing long distance 0:10:42.240 --> 0:10:44.120 and I think he hated the fact that we were 0:10:44.160 --> 0:10:45.040 doing long distance. 0:10:45.280 --> 0:10:46.160 Was it your choice? 0:10:46.480 --> 0:10:46.840 Yeah? 0:10:47.000 --> 0:10:48.760 Like, could have you been together? Were you inter state? 0:10:48.800 --> 0:10:49.280 What's the vibe? 0:10:49.360 --> 0:10:51.360 He didn't want to leave Melbourne ninety when leave Sydney. 0:10:51.880 --> 0:10:55.240 Oh so look you're in punishment? Yeah? Yeah. Yeah. 0:10:55.280 --> 0:10:58.400 My current boyfriend Justin is his name Justin? 0:10:58.480 --> 0:10:59.760 Yeah, his name's just taking hat. 0:10:59.840 --> 0:11:00.760 Just Yeah. 0:11:00.800 --> 0:11:02.880 He's always wearing his all taken hat. His photos of 0:11:02.920 --> 0:11:05.199 us in taken hats? You please? 0:11:05.440 --> 0:11:10.040 May I Justin? I'm obsessed with love my god. 0:11:10.120 --> 0:11:11.800 Yeah, he post photos me all the time. But do 0:11:11.800 --> 0:11:13.440 I think it's a requirement for him to post photos 0:11:13.440 --> 0:11:14.480 of me? No? 0:11:14.480 --> 0:11:15.840 No, I will. 0:11:15.640 --> 0:11:17.280 Say, I don't want to be that girl because I 0:11:17.320 --> 0:11:18.800 don't post fodders of my boyfriend. 0:11:18.800 --> 0:11:20.320 We'll talk to me through me say it. 0:11:20.440 --> 0:11:22.880 But I think it kind of is a red flag 0:11:22.880 --> 0:11:23.880 if you don't want to post them. 0:11:24.080 --> 0:11:25.360 Oh, one hundred percent red flag. 0:11:26.400 --> 0:11:30.400 Like, unless you're an influencer, money depends on you being 0:11:30.440 --> 0:11:31.280 single and loving it. 0:11:31.679 --> 0:11:34.080 Look, I will say one thing that I am trying 0:11:34.120 --> 0:11:37.920 to learn is to measure someone's behavior relative to who 0:11:37.920 --> 0:11:41.280 they are, not who you are. So for me, when 0:11:41.360 --> 0:11:45.520 I didn't post someone I was dating a lot, I 0:11:45.559 --> 0:11:47.559 know that dating me, i'd feel some kind of way 0:11:47.559 --> 0:11:50.480 because you post everything, the most mundane things. 0:11:50.600 --> 0:11:51.600 Why aren't you posting me? 0:11:52.120 --> 0:11:55.040 In my defense, the internet is crazy and I don't 0:11:55.040 --> 0:11:58.560 think people can truly comprehend having one hundred different people 0:11:58.640 --> 0:12:02.960 message you yourself, and maybe like it's not fair to 0:12:02.960 --> 0:12:05.640 decide for people what they can and can't handle. But 0:12:06.640 --> 0:12:09.680 when I did end up posting him what happened. We're 0:12:09.679 --> 0:12:17.120 gonna beat this out, So I will say it's not 0:12:17.200 --> 0:12:22.160 a requirement. However, I do think that if it's something 0:12:22.200 --> 0:12:25.680 that your partner really wants, make an effort. Yeah, because 0:12:25.679 --> 0:12:27.760 I feel like there's a disparity between someone who's like, 0:12:27.760 --> 0:12:29.360 I don't even care. That's why I don't post. It's 0:12:29.400 --> 0:12:32.560 exactly you don't care. This person cares a lot to 0:12:32.600 --> 0:12:35.760 meet them halfway. It's also such a shame that, like, 0:12:36.520 --> 0:12:39.800 relationships as a whole are so complex and we're stuck 0:12:39.880 --> 0:12:43.720 on the minutia, like we haven't even gotten into you know, if. 0:12:43.559 --> 0:12:45.920 We just want to. It's because we can't talk about 0:12:45.920 --> 0:12:48.319 serious things, but we want to talk about relationships. 0:12:48.480 --> 0:12:50.640 No, But don't you think, like for every person who's 0:12:50.679 --> 0:12:53.080 like my partner won't post me I'm like, that's not 0:12:53.120 --> 0:12:54.000 even your biggest problem. 0:12:54.440 --> 0:12:59.160 Yes, there's probably you need gratification for, hence you need 0:12:59.200 --> 0:12:59.640 the photo for. 0:12:59.800 --> 0:13:03.280 Yeah, that's exactly what I'm saying, Like we're missing all this. 0:13:03.480 --> 0:13:07.080 Not posting the photo. They don't plan things is symptomatic 0:13:07.120 --> 0:13:08.079 of a big issue. 0:13:08.400 --> 0:13:08.960 We don't want to. 0:13:08.960 --> 0:13:11.800 Say it, oopsie, but I think we've got to start 0:13:11.800 --> 0:13:13.680 saying it. 0:13:13.679 --> 0:13:15.520 It's like, didn't for me read the book. He's just 0:13:15.520 --> 0:13:17.040 not that into you. We're we listening. 0:13:17.120 --> 0:13:19.600 I listened to the book for me. 0:13:19.640 --> 0:13:22.840 Listen to the book educated us and when are listening. 0:13:23.960 --> 0:13:24.839 This is a better. 0:13:27.120 --> 0:13:29.680 I have some great news, but what I mentioned that 0:13:29.720 --> 0:13:32.440 we're on track for immortality people were not happy. So 0:13:32.520 --> 0:13:34.000 I don't know how this is going to land. But 0:13:34.840 --> 0:13:41.560 you can freeze yourself now in twenty twenty three in 0:13:41.640 --> 0:13:46.360 New South Wales in hopes of defrosting in a couple 0:13:46.400 --> 0:13:46.960 extra years. 0:13:47.240 --> 0:13:48.520 Be serious, maybe one hundred years later. 0:13:48.520 --> 0:13:51.160 I don't know what the timeline is, so you can hopefully 0:13:52.200 --> 0:13:55.960 live life one hundred years later as the age you 0:13:56.000 --> 0:13:57.480 are when you get frozen. 0:13:57.840 --> 0:14:00.200 How do we feel about it? I want to say 0:14:00.320 --> 0:14:02.920 overwhelmingly positive. But listen to this. 0:14:03.920 --> 0:14:06.920 Fifty people have signed up to be the very first 0:14:06.920 --> 0:14:10.400 Australians hoping to take a trip to the future. A 0:14:10.400 --> 0:14:13.200 facility in a rural New South Wales town is the 0:14:13.240 --> 0:14:17.080 first in the Southern Hemisphere to freeze humans in the 0:14:17.120 --> 0:14:20.480 hope that future technology will bring them back to life. 0:14:20.640 --> 0:14:24.800 It's now in operation seven years after it received council approval. 0:14:25.200 --> 0:14:28.080 Why this doesn't excite you, No. 0:14:28.000 --> 0:14:29.800 Because I don't want to live when my loved ones 0:14:29.800 --> 0:14:30.280 aren't there. 0:14:30.560 --> 0:14:33.200 You will make new loved ones, I promise. See you 0:14:33.760 --> 0:14:36.320 everybody you think you've loved in your lifetime? Have you 0:14:36.360 --> 0:14:37.160 not loved deeper? 0:14:37.440 --> 0:14:38.480 I can't get my mummy. 0:14:39.000 --> 0:14:39.960 Oh, don't do that. 0:14:40.400 --> 0:14:41.160 I'm being serious. 0:14:41.240 --> 0:14:42.760 Don't take a dere I. 0:14:42.800 --> 0:14:44.280 Mean, that's all I think about, is my mama. 0:14:44.480 --> 0:14:47.320 Yeah, but like what would oh Shaather? 0:14:47.800 --> 0:14:51.360 It does concern me that the first ever is happening 0:14:51.720 --> 0:14:55.080 in New South Wales tech capital. But what I will 0:14:55.120 --> 0:14:59.320 say is it's nice to know that advancements are being 0:14:59.360 --> 0:15:02.880 made in capacity because why, while we may not want 0:15:02.920 --> 0:15:06.520 to freeze ourself, it's good to know that we're thinking 0:15:07.040 --> 0:15:10.800 creatively and laterally about ways to prolong our lives. 0:15:11.200 --> 0:15:12.160 The good old, eat. 0:15:11.960 --> 0:15:14.160 Well and exercise isn't hitting like it used to. It's 0:15:14.160 --> 0:15:16.160 not working the two fruit five vesis or whatever they're 0:15:16.160 --> 0:15:16.600 talking about. 0:15:16.640 --> 0:15:18.480 It's not working. It's not hitting like it used to. 0:15:18.880 --> 0:15:20.960 We need new solutions. 0:15:21.600 --> 0:15:23.680 But also I think the more we talk about these 0:15:24.720 --> 0:15:30.080 life extending futuristic practices, I feel like we start to 0:15:30.080 --> 0:15:34.520 have a very interesting and necessary conversation about mortality, Like 0:15:34.560 --> 0:15:37.360 what are we doing with life currently? I think when 0:15:37.360 --> 0:15:40.000 we're doing our day to day grind, rise and grind, 0:15:40.480 --> 0:15:44.520 we kind of forget that number one, not to be grim. 0:15:44.720 --> 0:15:48.040 It could end in a second. But even if it doesn't, I. 0:15:47.960 --> 0:15:51.760 Don't really think we're living like the movies say we should. 0:15:53.000 --> 0:15:56.760 It's not Project X, Eat, Prey, Love, Mama, Mia, go 0:15:56.840 --> 0:15:57.360 to Greece. 0:15:57.560 --> 0:16:00.480 Who's your dad? I don't know? And that's what life 0:16:00.480 --> 0:16:01.040 is about. 0:16:01.400 --> 0:16:04.440 And suddenly when you hear that they're doing what is 0:16:04.440 --> 0:16:05.400 it criotherapy? 0:16:05.440 --> 0:16:05.840 I don't know. 0:16:05.880 --> 0:16:07.800 When they're doing that in rural New South Wales, you 0:16:07.800 --> 0:16:10.360 start thinking who'd want to do that? Who wouldn't want 0:16:10.360 --> 0:16:10.640 to do that? 0:16:11.080 --> 0:16:12.080 Do you have to die? 0:16:12.600 --> 0:16:16.840 No? Like you you free them, you're hybernating. 0:16:16.640 --> 0:16:19.360 But you're alive when they phreeze you, right, because. 0:16:19.200 --> 0:16:20.560 Maybe like unconscious? 0:16:20.760 --> 0:16:23.400 Yeah, wait, yeah, because like, is it when people die 0:16:23.440 --> 0:16:24.320 they're getting frozen. 0:16:24.600 --> 0:16:27.320 No, this is like because you know, like when you 0:16:27.400 --> 0:16:29.640 freeze something like I'm putting the bread in the freezer. 0:16:29.880 --> 0:16:32.960 I'm like prolonging the shelf fliesing their eggs the bread. 0:16:33.680 --> 0:16:35.560 It means that you would have to sacrifice your life 0:16:35.640 --> 0:16:38.200 now because you have to be in full health for 0:16:38.240 --> 0:16:39.000 them to then resurrect. 0:16:39.040 --> 0:16:40.560 But people aren't really living anyway. 0:16:40.680 --> 0:16:42.480 Would you do it, I'm not gonna do it. I'm chilling. 0:16:42.600 --> 0:16:45.600 Well, I'm not going to do it, but I'm grateful 0:16:45.600 --> 0:16:48.440 to know that things are being done. I'm personally looking 0:16:48.440 --> 0:16:51.240 for the fountain of youth, to which that's why I 0:16:51.280 --> 0:16:52.480 love vamporism. 0:16:53.000 --> 0:16:54.960 Well, you look about ten years old, so you find. 0:16:55.000 --> 0:16:57.080 Literally if I could get bitten today, you think I'm 0:16:57.120 --> 0:17:00.560 not doing that. I'm getting bitten. I'm taking ten years 0:17:00.560 --> 0:17:03.400 off instantly to go run around in the forest. 0:17:03.440 --> 0:17:07.600 Like you said. Brawler's shoeless. He breathes in. 0:17:09.720 --> 0:17:11.359 And thoughts out, thoughts out. 0:17:11.800 --> 0:17:13.200 I'm sigarettes. 0:17:14.960 --> 0:17:17.199 What I would really love in this world, and I 0:17:17.240 --> 0:17:20.359 wonder if you feel the same. Everybody is to buy 0:17:20.600 --> 0:17:24.639 a Tesla. Say what you will about young Elon Musk. 0:17:24.840 --> 0:17:27.880 He really popped his bussy when he put the Tesla 0:17:27.920 --> 0:17:30.720 on Earth. I love the functions of it. And I 0:17:30.880 --> 0:17:33.080 was once in an uber that was a Tesla and 0:17:33.080 --> 0:17:35.320 it was one of the big four drive ones. Stay there, 0:17:35.920 --> 0:17:37.720 it felt like I was in this spaceship. 0:17:38.240 --> 0:17:39.400 Believe rate acoustics. 0:17:39.480 --> 0:17:41.000 My dad is in there. He was torn of the driver, 0:17:41.119 --> 0:17:42.720 being like, moh, where do you this? To my mate? 0:17:42.840 --> 0:17:45.920 Absolutely loving it, sick, just like browing down all the 0:17:45.920 --> 0:17:49.159 way in this Tesla. My friend has been dating this 0:17:49.200 --> 0:17:53.560 guy right who has a Tesla. Nice, I know, I said, 0:17:53.600 --> 0:17:57.639 go off, queen, does he have any mates? Okay, just joking, 0:17:58.520 --> 0:18:00.320 I said to her when they started dating, I'm like, 0:18:00.480 --> 0:18:02.600 can you tell him about the fart function? So when 0:18:02.680 --> 0:18:05.320 you own a Tesla, it comes with all these mods. 0:18:05.840 --> 0:18:08.040