WEBVTT - Karina Irby Uncut

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, guys, and welcome back to another episode of Life Uncut.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Laura and I'm Brittany.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi Brittany, how are you? Laura?

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<v Speaker 3>Bloody?

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<v Speaker 2>Great, babe? How are you? I'm great?

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<v Speaker 1>But why didn't you just jump on in and tell

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<v Speaker 1>the guys what we've got coming up today? We have

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<v Speaker 1>a very special episode. And I know I say that

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<v Speaker 1>every week, but this one is extra jazzy. I actually

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<v Speaker 1>love that you say that everywhere extra jazzy. We have

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<v Speaker 1>a guest coming on today. Her name is Karina Irby

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<v Speaker 1>and she is a social media Instagram sensation. She's also

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<v Speaker 1>an incredible boss woman. She started her own company, She's

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<v Speaker 1>an entrepreneur, and she is going to be talking us

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<v Speaker 1>through her life and all of the things. She's also

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<v Speaker 1>just a great, bloody person. Isn't she a legend to

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<v Speaker 1>speak to? Yeah, it's an amazing chat. So we do

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<v Speaker 1>have that coming up. But before we get into that,

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<v Speaker 1>what's been happening Laura? What have you done this week?

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<v Speaker 2>I saw some friends. It was really nice.

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<v Speaker 1>Other than me, I believe it or not, Bernie, there

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<v Speaker 1>are other people in my life.

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<v Speaker 2>Not many, but there are.

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<v Speaker 1>I actually don't don't believe that this cloud of isolation

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<v Speaker 1>is lifted. I saw some girlfriends. I went for some

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<v Speaker 1>nice coastal walks with them. We had a barbecue, of course,

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<v Speaker 1>we like had a very small barbecue. Don't worry, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>but within limits, within we stuck to all of the parameters.

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<v Speaker 1>But it just really felt so nice to have this

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<v Speaker 1>feeling of normalcy. And then also it was such a

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<v Speaker 1>beautiful sunny weekend here in Bondai. So yeah, I had

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<v Speaker 1>such a nice weekend.

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<v Speaker 2>I knew well.

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<v Speaker 1>I tried to go out to dinner with some friends

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, you know what, we need to

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<v Speaker 1>just get together and do something.

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<v Speaker 2>We tried to go out.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't tell you how many restaurants we call to

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<v Speaker 1>try and get in, and it's just nuts. I think

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<v Speaker 1>there must just be cues of months for people because

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<v Speaker 1>they're still taking limited seats. It was only ten people,

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<v Speaker 1>so everywhere it's just there's waiting lists.

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<v Speaker 2>We ended up just having a really nice night. We

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<v Speaker 2>stayed in.

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<v Speaker 1>So I haven't felt what you felt yet about being

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<v Speaker 1>back out a normal well.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't go out anywhere. I just had people around

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<v Speaker 2>my house. It was that's what I did.

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<v Speaker 1>They came to my house, so we did the same thing,

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<v Speaker 1>then okay, okay, But I think like when feeling like

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<v Speaker 1>you're going out and doing stuff when you're a mum

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<v Speaker 1>is just literally having a couple of people over to

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<v Speaker 1>your house and you're like, oh my god, this is wild.

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<v Speaker 2>But do you know what we did.

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<v Speaker 1>We were very different points in our life. We all

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<v Speaker 1>dressed up like we dressed up like we were going

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<v Speaker 1>out because.

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<v Speaker 2>I think we all needed to pick me up.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, when you're slobbing around for months in your

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<v Speaker 1>active web on, you don't brush your hair, you say months,

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<v Speaker 1>that's been the last eleven months of my life.

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<v Speaker 2>It's pretty cute.

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<v Speaker 1>We put on we all like literally we fake ten

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<v Speaker 1>do We put makeup on when my friends came over,

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<v Speaker 1>like looking saucy af knee high boots and we're like.

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<v Speaker 2>Ready to go out.

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<v Speaker 1>And then we just sat in my land room, had

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<v Speaker 1>wines or to take away, had ice cream, and we

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<v Speaker 1>actually had the best no I've had in a long time.

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<v Speaker 2>So there was a lot of effort that went into that.

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<v Speaker 1>You lost me at knee high boots were pants on

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<v Speaker 1>when my friends came around.

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<v Speaker 2>It was great.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, guys, before we get into the actual episode, we

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<v Speaker 1>just wanted to touch on a couple of things that

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<v Speaker 1>have been happening, one of them being that we put

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<v Speaker 1>a photo up on our Instagram page of Courtney Kardashian

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm sure that most of you know of or

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<v Speaker 1>have seen that photo. And if you haven't, go have

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<v Speaker 1>a look at Life Uncut podcast. Now, there's this photo

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<v Speaker 1>that Kney Kardashian put up recently and it has been

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<v Speaker 1>extremely digitally altered, so she's photoshopped the photo and it's

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<v Speaker 1>caused a lot of conversation around one Is it okay

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<v Speaker 1>to photoshop too? Can you call someone out for photoshopping?

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<v Speaker 1>And what is okay? I mean, we see everybody in

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<v Speaker 1>the public eye everyone uses photoshop. We almost can't deny that. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>it's so rare to have somebody that doesn't. But the

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<v Speaker 1>Kardashians are very well known for it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's almost strange to watch.

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<v Speaker 1>They'll put a photo out that's photoshopped and people will

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<v Speaker 1>call them on it, and they don't even get embarrassed.

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<v Speaker 1>They're just like laugh at it, and it's like so

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<v Speaker 1>normal to them that they're like, oh, like, I'll just

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<v Speaker 1>delete it and put another on them. I think that

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<v Speaker 1>the Kardashians especially this photo of Courtney. I actually think

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<v Speaker 1>that they put out heavily doctored images, like heavily photoshopped images,

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<v Speaker 1>with the intention of creating conversation. Because look, we have

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<v Speaker 1>a podcast, we're.

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<v Speaker 2>Talking about it right now.

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<v Speaker 1>The image that we're specifically talking about today, it's a

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<v Speaker 1>it's a self looks like a selfie, but Courtney looks

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<v Speaker 1>like a completely different person in it. Her She's obviously

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<v Speaker 1>used face tuned to change the shape of her jaw,

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<v Speaker 1>She's changed the shape of her nose, she's changed the

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<v Speaker 1>shape of her eyes.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's not.

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<v Speaker 1>About whether or not we think that plastic surgery is

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<v Speaker 1>okay or whether we think that phyllis is okay. This

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<v Speaker 1>conversation is specifically about whether or not we think doctoring

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<v Speaker 1>images on social media is okay. And I honestly think

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<v Speaker 1>that they do this with the intention to cause this

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<v Speaker 1>sort of conversation and to create traffic to go to

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<v Speaker 1>their Instagram, for people to look at that photo, and

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<v Speaker 1>it drives their numbers up. It's tactical, it's strategic. We

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<v Speaker 1>have said before absolutely have nothing against injectibles, cosmetic surgery,

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever you want to do. We are actually we're

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<v Speaker 1>here for if it's gonna make you feel and it's

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<v Speaker 1>something you want to change, your body's your body. The

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<v Speaker 1>only thing we want to talk about now is the

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<v Speaker 1>fact that people like this with one hundred two hundred

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<v Speaker 1>million followers, they're so influential to today's youth, and they're

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<v Speaker 1>putting out this idea that every day you wake up

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning, you're cooking breakfast and you're looking immaculate,

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<v Speaker 1>you are looking absolutely perfect. And that's our newer generation

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<v Speaker 1>coming through thinking that they have to maintain these standards.

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<v Speaker 1>And then before we know it, every single Joe Blow

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<v Speaker 1>is photoshopping every single photo on a daily basis.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not even like it used to be.

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<v Speaker 1>Laura with magazines that used to photoshop for editorials that

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<v Speaker 1>we almost let slip because we're like, oh, it's a

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<v Speaker 1>high end editorial. We let them do what they have

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<v Speaker 1>to do. But now it's like Laura and I were

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<v Speaker 1>talking this morning, and Laura's saying, it's every sixteen year

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<v Speaker 1>old that's altering their photos because we think that we

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<v Speaker 1>have to maintain this certain level. And the thing that

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<v Speaker 1>caused so much uproar with this one particular photo, if

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<v Speaker 1>you haven't seen it, go and have a look. I

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<v Speaker 1>actually love Chloe Kardashian. I think she's funny. I think

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<v Speaker 1>she's a boss business lady. But she photoshopped at the

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<v Speaker 1>photo to the point that her necklace half a necklace

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<v Speaker 1>had been like photoshopped out of the picture, that is

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<v Speaker 1>how heavily it had been photoshopped. I just don't think

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<v Speaker 1>it's setting a good example of well, I think just

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<v Speaker 1>what you touched on in regards to how it used

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<v Speaker 1>to be only magazines that would photoshop images, and we

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<v Speaker 1>all recognize and there was big conversations around it ten

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<v Speaker 1>years ago, how damaging it was that magazines would photoshop

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<v Speaker 1>these images of models. Now it's accessible to everyone. Everyone

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<v Speaker 1>can use phase tune, and everyone can make structural changes

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<v Speaker 1>to their face very very easily with a little swipe

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<v Speaker 1>of their finger. And I think what that does is

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<v Speaker 1>it commodifies on people's insecurities. It says, if you don't

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<v Speaker 1>like this thing about yourself that's not perfect in quotation marks,

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<v Speaker 1>then you can change that. And I think that, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>instead of saying and liberating that everyone is beautiful in

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<v Speaker 1>all of their many diverse differences, it sets this one

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<v Speaker 1>precedent and it's like this is what's normal, this is

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<v Speaker 1>what's beautiful, and you will have to fit this mold.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think that that is what's really damaging. I

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<v Speaker 1>genuinely think people who have a huge social media following,

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<v Speaker 1>people who are in the public eye, people who are

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<v Speaker 1>role models, have a heightened responsibility to be inclusive and

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<v Speaker 1>to set a good example. And you know, I know

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<v Speaker 1>that the Kardashians cop a massive flak, but their brand

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<v Speaker 1>is based on a certain image. That conversation always comes

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<v Speaker 1>back down to photoshopping and filtering and whether or not

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<v Speaker 1>it's acceptable. It's such an interesting conversation that kind of

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<v Speaker 1>leads us into our guests for today. But before we

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<v Speaker 1>introduce Karina, we just want to do a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>of Accidentally Unfiltered because we love it, because it's my

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<v Speaker 1>favorite part of the episode. And also that was really

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<v Speaker 1>heavy and I think we need to like lighten it

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<v Speaker 1>up a bit.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh absolutely, So what have you got from me today?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, guys, so you know that I Accidentally Unfiltered

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<v Speaker 1>is you write in your most embarrassing stories and we

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<v Speaker 1>read them out for everybody to laugh at you, mainly

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<v Speaker 1>as honestly, we get such good feedback from this section

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<v Speaker 1>of the podcast, like, I love this. This is my

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<v Speaker 1>absolute favorite. So guys, thanks for the lolls.

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<v Speaker 2>What do we say? Loll shoot me in the face.

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<v Speaker 2>I have just rubbed off on you.

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<v Speaker 1>Disgusting. I love that for me, I hate myself. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. So this one came in the other

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<v Speaker 1>week from one of our listeners, and I freaking love this.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like it's wholesome. It's wholesome, but it's great. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>the wholesome ones are the best ones. I went over

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<v Speaker 1>to this guy's house I had been talking to for

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<v Speaker 1>a while. He lives with his parents, and I went

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<v Speaker 1>over there pretty late, so his parents were in bed

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<v Speaker 1>and I never met or saw them. We stayed downstairs

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<v Speaker 1>on the lounge and we watched a movie. I had

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<v Speaker 1>every intention of going home that night until I.

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<v Speaker 2>Woke up There. We all do.

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<v Speaker 1>Until I woke up at six am with the lights

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<v Speaker 1>streaming through the windows. Yeah, we've all been there. I

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<v Speaker 1>realized I had fallen asleep, and then the guy had

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<v Speaker 1>just left me on the lounge and he'd gone to bed.

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<v Speaker 1>I was stressing big time. What if his parents come

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<v Speaker 1>downstairs and there's just a stranger sleeping on the couch

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, Okay, what if I go upstairs and try

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<v Speaker 1>and find his bedroom.

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<v Speaker 2>No, that's a terrible idea.

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<v Speaker 1>What if I opened the wrong door and it turns

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<v Speaker 1>out to be his parents' room. So I just decided

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<v Speaker 1>I was going to bail as quietly as possible. I

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<v Speaker 1>gather my things, I opened the front door. Then the fucking.

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<v Speaker 2>House alarm starts blaring at six am in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>I just ran.

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<v Speaker 1>I ran in shock to my car and I could

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<v Speaker 1>see his parents behind me, running down the stairs and

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<v Speaker 1>their pajamas. I got in the car and I gunned

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<v Speaker 1>it down the street, only to realize he lived in

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<v Speaker 1>a culder sack.

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<v Speaker 2>So she had to turn around.

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<v Speaker 1>So I had to do a three point turn and

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<v Speaker 1>then awkwardly drive back past his house, where the alarm

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<v Speaker 1>was still blaring and his parents were out the front

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<v Speaker 1>now screaming at my car.

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<v Speaker 2>They definitely thought I was robbing them. Anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>I ended up dating the guy for a few months,

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<v Speaker 1>so it was pretty awkward. The next time I met

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<v Speaker 1>his parents.

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<v Speaker 2>I have some new questions.

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<v Speaker 1>I pictured the the parents running down the street with

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<v Speaker 1>like baseball bats in there pajama's like, but also, if

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<v Speaker 1>you have someone to your house and you know that

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<v Speaker 1>your house has an alarm.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like it's something you need to talk about.

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<v Speaker 2>Water set up? What an absolute sit? Yeah? Yeah that was?

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<v Speaker 2>You got done? All right? Have you got me an

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<v Speaker 2>accidently unfiltered?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>You want another one? I want another one.

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<v Speaker 1>I actually have a really wholesome one as well. What

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<v Speaker 1>happened to all the sex and the farting and the

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<v Speaker 1>vomiting and the bath tid? I think we had to

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<v Speaker 1>take a break, fellow, Yeah, I think so too. This

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<v Speaker 1>one is so cute because it made me. It took

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<v Speaker 1>me back to my childhood. Okay, stay with me. This morning,

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<v Speaker 1>this literally came in last night. I'm going to tell you, Laura,

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<v Speaker 1>this came in last night at five pm yesterday, and

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<v Speaker 1>it happened yesterday.

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<v Speaker 2>I love that people.

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<v Speaker 1>Have embarrassing shit that happens to them, and straight away

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<v Speaker 1>the first thing they think is, oh, I'm going a

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<v Speaker 1>message that to life on cart They will love this. Okay, ready,

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<v Speaker 1>So this morning I meant to send a photo of

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<v Speaker 1>my worm in medicine to my mum, asking.

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<v Speaker 2>If it's the right brand.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, I'm twenty six and this is my life. What

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<v Speaker 1>a moment in time guys. I sent it to the

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<v Speaker 1>guy I'm seeing by accident. I literally send him a

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<v Speaker 1>picture of my worm and tablets and said, is this

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<v Speaker 1>the right one?

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<v Speaker 2>My cover up? Ha ha ha oh Yearly worm in time?

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<v Speaker 2>Did your parents make you do this too when you

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<v Speaker 2>were little? Oh? Godfraid?

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<v Speaker 1>She said, She's send in a photo. So she's twenty

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<v Speaker 1>six and she's got worms. I have a question anyway, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>how does that happen? Maybe she works in like childcare dat.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, but she's sent in the photo I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna put. I'm gonna ask you if I can put

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<v Speaker 1>on our story so you.

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<v Speaker 2>Guys can see.

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<v Speaker 1>It's literally the worming tablet that you take. He wrote

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<v Speaker 1>back and said what's it for? And she just left

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<v Speaker 1>it blank.

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<v Speaker 2>I had to say to it, I said, I feel.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that she's like she says to it, she says, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>my parents still make me do this, Yearly like or whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>I just tried to like throw it under that, because

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<v Speaker 1>you know how gross that she's twenty six that, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>my parents still make me worm my butt. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>are you still seeing him? Because she was supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>be up with him. She's like, well, it only happen

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<v Speaker 1>this morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Give it time. I'm not sure. Accidentally unfiltered. They don't

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<v Speaker 2>need to be grossy. No, no, no, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 2>they do. I'm ready for some dirty sex ones. Guys,

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<v Speaker 2>come back at me. It's been a while.

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<v Speaker 1>What should we jump on in to our special guest? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>a time to bring on Carina. Do we have sound effects?

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<v Speaker 2>Babe? When you start doing the editing, we'll bring in

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<v Speaker 2>some sound effects. Okay, okay, Well that's just that.

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<v Speaker 1>Today on the show, we have the absolute powerhouse little

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<v Speaker 1>woman that is Karina Irbie. She is the boss lady

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<v Speaker 1>that owns Mowana Bikini and Bikini Bodyburn. She is the

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<v Speaker 1>woman that is paving the way for a more real, raw,

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<v Speaker 1>unfiltered social media. She's changing the way we look at

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<v Speaker 1>our bodies. And with an Instagram audience of one point

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<v Speaker 1>one million, we think she's just the kind of influence

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<v Speaker 1>we need. Karna, Welcome to life on cuta y.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you so much for having me.

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<v Speaker 1>How are we Oh, we're so good and it's actually

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<v Speaker 1>such a pleasure to have you on. We have both

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<v Speaker 1>been following your Instagram for so long and when we

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<v Speaker 1>tossing up people who we wanted to have on the show.

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<v Speaker 1>You were very top of the list, so this is

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<v Speaker 1>an absolute tree.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>I would like to say I actually reached out to you,

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<v Speaker 1>and Laura reached out to you, and you didn't get

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<v Speaker 1>back to me, and you got back to Laura.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm not going to take it personally.

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<v Speaker 3>I know how rudeminded, but like.

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<v Speaker 1>You obviously have your favorite whatever. So I guess we

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<v Speaker 1>just want to say, straight up, how are you and

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<v Speaker 1>how has IO life been for you?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm fantastic, I'm really really good. ISO has been.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, yep, crazy time. I haven't really been personally

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<v Speaker 3>affected by it too much. I'm quite a loner, love

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<v Speaker 3>my alone time as it is, so my personal lifestyle

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<v Speaker 3>hasn't really been affected or changed much at all. And

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<v Speaker 3>regarding our work live, that's changed a little bit, but

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<v Speaker 3>mainly for good. We've been so crazy busy at the

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<v Speaker 3>morn HQ. We have had to do a little bit

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<v Speaker 3>of social distancing, which means less dance parties and cuddles,

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<v Speaker 3>but we have had a lot more time online withoutline community,

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<v Speaker 3>and it's actually been really fun getting to know people

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<v Speaker 3>on a more deeper level.

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<v Speaker 2>That's amazing. That's actually so nice to hear a positive

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<v Speaker 2>spin on it.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I think that there's been so much negativity

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<v Speaker 1>around the whole situation. Everyone so quick to talk about

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<v Speaker 1>what anxieties it's driving and like how badly some businesses

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<v Speaker 1>have been affected. But there have also been some businesses

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<v Speaker 1>that it's just it's done wonderful things for. So I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so glad to hear that you are on that side

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<v Speaker 1>of the coin.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you. Yeah, I just think that, you know, you

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<v Speaker 3>do need to try and see the positive in situations,

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<v Speaker 3>and yeah, that's just what I try and do on

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<v Speaker 3>the daily. So I'll keep running with that.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, let's get into let's get into the question. So

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<v Speaker 1>starting at the beginning, you grew up in Port mcquarie.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell us a little bit about your childhood.

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<v Speaker 3>Yep, grew up in Port McCrary. Actually mainly grew up

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<v Speaker 3>in a small little surfay town called Lake Catai, which

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<v Speaker 3>is about ten minutes out of Port McCrary. Not a

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<v Speaker 3>whole lot goes on there but surf, and that was

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<v Speaker 3>all I really cared about growing up. I was a

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<v Speaker 3>little teenage surfer girl. Yeah. My parents divorced when I

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<v Speaker 3>was about twelve. I grew up with my dad and yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean moved up to the Gold Coast to study

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<v Speaker 3>at university. And I can't say I've ever really looked back.

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<v Speaker 2>So you know, I'm grew up in Lighthouse Beach.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah I know. I do vaguely actually remember seeing you

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<v Speaker 3>around because do you have crazy blue eyes? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>I guess having a moment.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like I used to see you and I

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<v Speaker 3>used to think, well, look at that girl's dark hair

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<v Speaker 3>and really blue eyes, like she's so pretty.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you. I mean that's okay, we can finish the

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<v Speaker 2>interview here.

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<v Speaker 1>No, So I have a sister, she's a few younger

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<v Speaker 1>than me, and we went to Tacking Point Primary School

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<v Speaker 1>and you were in the year between both of us.

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<v Speaker 2>So I think it's a crazy world. Just thought i'd

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<v Speaker 2>throw that in there.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a small world, it's crazy. I completely agree with you.

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<v Speaker 1>What we want to know is this upbringing in like

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<v Speaker 1>Catti port mcurey surfing.

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<v Speaker 2>I know exactly what it's like.

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<v Speaker 1>But is that do you think that influenced you to

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<v Speaker 1>start your company Mowana Bikini.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, definitely. I mean I always had a passion for swimwear,

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<v Speaker 3>being that like surfing was my life, and obviously I

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<v Speaker 3>don't you know, you guys might have heard that I

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<v Speaker 3>was struggling a lot with exma growing up, and I

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<v Speaker 3>did get bullied a lot for that, and you know,

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<v Speaker 3>when I was wanting to go surfing, a lot of

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<v Speaker 3>the time, I did wear a full length wetsuit because

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<v Speaker 3>I was embarrassed and I didn't want people to see

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<v Speaker 3>my legs because I was getting called like all sorts

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<v Speaker 3>of names. You know, people were making out that I

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<v Speaker 3>was contagious and I had a disease and that I

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<v Speaker 3>was you know, scabby legs, and it was really tough,

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<v Speaker 3>like kids and teenagers can be so cruel, and yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I think that one of the main reasons, well, I

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<v Speaker 3>know one of the main reasons I started more on

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<v Speaker 3>I was because I said to myself when I got

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<v Speaker 3>into my early twenties that I didn't want to be

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<v Speaker 3>that person anymore. And I did want to be a

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<v Speaker 3>breath of fresh air for other girls that would definitely

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<v Speaker 3>be dealing with the same things that I'm dealing with,

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<v Speaker 3>Like I know that I'm not alone in this big

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<v Speaker 3>wide world. And if I just started a swimwear company

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<v Speaker 3>because I want to wear bikinis, like I want to

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<v Speaker 3>want to wear bikinis, And you know, if I start

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<v Speaker 3>a brand and I completely embody what I want to embody,

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<v Speaker 3>maybe other people will appreciate it and follow the journey

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<v Speaker 3>with me, and together we can support each other. And

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<v Speaker 3>that's really how the passion's kicked off.

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<v Speaker 1>Listening to you say that, I'm not even lying, I

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<v Speaker 1>just got goosebumps and I felt so empowered because I'm like, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>like you're the person that you're the person that women need.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't realize how much things affect you and how

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<v Speaker 1>much body image and people can be self conscious even

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<v Speaker 1>though they're the most beautiful humans. And I just think

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<v Speaker 1>someone like you that's obviously so inspirational putting out there

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<v Speaker 1>what I guess society.

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<v Speaker 2>Sees as a fault.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not, obviously, but you're very about you know, you

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<v Speaker 1>have x meras of skin condition and I've seeing your

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<v Speaker 1>pictures and you happily show it when it's the absolute worst,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just love that you're showing that you can

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<v Speaker 1>still be beautiful, you can own your body. And hats

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<v Speaker 1>off to you because I'm empowered right now.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you so much. I do love to hear that.

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<v Speaker 3>I wish I could have been a bit more like

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<v Speaker 3>this when I was a young teenager, but I got

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<v Speaker 3>there in the end.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's a true testament as well to the

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<v Speaker 1>fact that Instagram and people who are using social media

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<v Speaker 1>now are craving authenticity and how there's been a shift

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<v Speaker 1>in that. You know, it's no longer about the perfectly

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<v Speaker 1>curated feed or the perfectly beautiful photo. It's about this

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<v Speaker 1>engagement and feeling like you're part of a community. I

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<v Speaker 1>guess what I'm really interested in is it seems to

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<v Speaker 1>be the common thought that someone who has a big

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<v Speaker 1>influence of following and has a huge community can easily

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<v Speaker 1>start a business because you have one point one million followers,

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<v Speaker 1>it seems like it could be so easy for you

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<v Speaker 1>to then start your Moana Bikini. But actually it was

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<v Speaker 1>kind of the flip side of that. You started Moana

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<v Speaker 1>and then that's when the followers came. So talk me

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<v Speaker 1>through that, and talk me through how you were able

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<v Speaker 1>to grow that following and what that journey has been

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<v Speaker 1>like for you.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's so true. I never intended to even be

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<v Speaker 3>a personality on Instagram, Like, I didn't even see that

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<v Speaker 3>as an opportunity. When Instagram came out, I didn't even

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<v Speaker 3>want to be on Instagram. I like put it off

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<v Speaker 3>as so I was like, oh no, I don't want

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<v Speaker 3>to Uh. It was all about Molana. Molana was my life.

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<v Speaker 3>I put that on Facebook. We grew it organically on Facebook.

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<v Speaker 3>Instagram came in and naturally just jumped on that because

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<v Speaker 3>you know, business and getting the word out there. And yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>Molana had I think it was like two hundred K

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<v Speaker 3>at the time, and I actually just reposted a picture

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<v Speaker 3>of myself wearing Molana for no other reason then. I

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<v Speaker 3>just wanted to show off the bikini. And in one

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<v Speaker 3>of the posts I was I did have a bit

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<v Speaker 3>of XMA. I didn't address it or anything like that,

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<v Speaker 3>and followers just started trickling over to my page. And

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<v Speaker 3>I did get a little bit of weird bullying at

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<v Speaker 3>the start, mainly because I didn't address the actual, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>condition that was on my skin. But I also got

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of people that were like, oh, hey, what's

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<v Speaker 3>going on with your skin because you look like me?

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<v Speaker 3>And I think that's just kind of what kicked it off.

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<v Speaker 3>And gradually I got more confident and started to post

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<v Speaker 3>I guess the real version of myself online.

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<v Speaker 1>It's crazy that you just said I put a photof

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<v Speaker 1>of myself and I didn't address the exma. It sucks

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<v Speaker 1>that we're in a world where you have to address

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<v Speaker 1>something like that anyway. It's literally just a photo of you,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think that that's I guess that's what you're

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<v Speaker 1>trying to change, is to normalize it, because that shouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>even be a sentence. Absolutely, we had been groomed to

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<v Speaker 1>see perfection on Instagram. We had been groomed to see

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<v Speaker 1>people face tune and smooth out their skin. So to

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<v Speaker 1>see someone post something and be like, hey, what's going

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<v Speaker 1>on here? There is a level of curiosity. But then

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<v Speaker 1>there is this like alignment instead of going like, oh okay,

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<v Speaker 1>this person is going through the same thing as me,

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<v Speaker 1>and there's there's power in that. There's power in that

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<v Speaker 1>community as well. So, I mean, I think that's a

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<v Speaker 1>testament to why your followers kind of trickled over from

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<v Speaker 1>it being like very product and brand based to being

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<v Speaker 1>your like they're your advocates now they're your community of girls.

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<v Speaker 1>Something I really wanted to ask you about, which is

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<v Speaker 1>about Mawana specifically, when you do your campaigns you have

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<v Speaker 1>these amazing photo shoots where you include women from all

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<v Speaker 1>different walks of life, all different body sizes, and you

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<v Speaker 1>do these call outs I guess on social media where

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<v Speaker 1>you're like, come on, get in a pair of bikinis

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<v Speaker 1>and let's do this. What was it that made you

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<v Speaker 1>want to do that and have that level of inclusivity.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Oh my god. So they're caught out Molana Army

0:21:07.840 --> 0:21:12.280
<v Speaker 3>beach metops and they're so much fun. They're just such

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<v Speaker 3>a crazy day. Even just thinking about it, I'm like, wow,

0:21:14.280 --> 0:21:17.919
<v Speaker 3>how do we do this? I always it was no

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<v Speaker 3>question or doubt in my mind that I wanted to

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<v Speaker 3>do that, and not a whole lot of thinking really

0:21:22.160 --> 0:21:23.400
<v Speaker 3>went into it. I was just like, hey, we need

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<v Speaker 3>to get all our customers down here, because how much

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<v Speaker 3>fun would that be? And I feel like that stems

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<v Speaker 3>from why I started Marianna in the first place, which

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<v Speaker 3>was making other people feel good about themselves. So we can,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, do our struggles and learn to grow together.

0:21:37.240 --> 0:21:40.520
<v Speaker 3>And being together in a community is so powerful and fun.

0:21:41.240 --> 0:21:44.439
<v Speaker 3>And like we had girls down there that had actually

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<v Speaker 3>never won a bikini before and they're physically in tears, Like,

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<v Speaker 3>oh my god, I can't believe I have a bikini on,

0:21:51.080 --> 0:21:53.280
<v Speaker 3>you know, like I'm thirty four, I've never worn one,

0:21:53.600 --> 0:21:56.400
<v Speaker 3>and there's like three hundred plus women they're like supporting

0:21:56.400 --> 0:21:59.560
<v Speaker 3>her and cheering her on. Like, I just can't believe

0:21:59.560 --> 0:22:02.760
<v Speaker 3>the power in these beach meetups. And once all this

0:22:02.920 --> 0:22:05.280
<v Speaker 3>corona has you know, gone away, we plan on doing

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<v Speaker 3>another one asap, but yeah, maybe you guys could come

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<v Speaker 3>to the next one.

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely signed me up.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what, even for myself, like after having a baby,

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<v Speaker 1>there was a real period there where my body is

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<v Speaker 1>not the body that it was a year and a

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<v Speaker 1>half ago, and it never will be again.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean it's still insane. No, it's not, it's not

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<v Speaker 2>it's not even the point I am.

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<v Speaker 1>I am still a victim of this comparison culture that

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<v Speaker 1>exists on social media and I and I know better

0:22:32.040 --> 0:22:34.080
<v Speaker 1>so to think that it affects me on some level,

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<v Speaker 1>even though you know, I work in the social media world.

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<v Speaker 1>I know I know exactly what happens. I can only

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<v Speaker 1>assume how hugely it affects other people who maybe don't

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<v Speaker 1>have that same insight.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, absolutely, I couldn't agreement.

0:22:47.440 --> 0:22:49.959
<v Speaker 1>I want to, like, we just skipped apart You've created

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<v Speaker 1>this amazing company. How did it come into fruition? How

0:22:53.400 --> 0:22:58.040
<v Speaker 1>did it start? Your challenges? Literally, for the people listening

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<v Speaker 1>that don't know your story, give it to us.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a fun story. You know. Molan has nearly been

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<v Speaker 3>around for a decade now, which is insane to think.

0:23:07.960 --> 0:23:11.560
<v Speaker 3>And as I touched on earlier, Molana didn't start for

0:23:11.720 --> 0:23:14.720
<v Speaker 3>a reason where I wanted to be a business woman

0:23:14.800 --> 0:23:16.719
<v Speaker 3>or I wanted to make money or I wanted to

0:23:16.920 --> 0:23:20.119
<v Speaker 3>grow a company. That was never even didn't even cross

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<v Speaker 3>my brain. All I wanted to do was, you know,

0:23:23.359 --> 0:23:26.199
<v Speaker 3>make myself and other women feel good. So with that

0:23:26.320 --> 0:23:29.639
<v Speaker 3>in mind, I finally just got a little kick that

0:23:29.720 --> 0:23:34.119
<v Speaker 3>I needed. I was working at a local surf shop,

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<v Speaker 3>and as I've mentioned as well, I'm a bit of alone.

0:23:36.680 --> 0:23:38.320
<v Speaker 3>I don't have a whole lot of friends. And the

0:23:38.320 --> 0:23:39.959
<v Speaker 3>people that I was working with at the time, they

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<v Speaker 3>were my family and they were my friends, and I

0:23:42.040 --> 0:23:44.959
<v Speaker 3>really valued the job there and the relationships. And I

0:23:45.040 --> 0:23:50.879
<v Speaker 3>got very unfortunately and randomly let go one day for

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<v Speaker 3>something that was just very untrue and just crazy to

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<v Speaker 3>me to even really think about it. And I was

0:23:56.600 --> 0:23:59.399
<v Speaker 3>just so upset and heartbroken. I just felt cheated on

0:24:00.080 --> 0:24:03.560
<v Speaker 3>and it just made me so mad. And I was like,

0:24:03.600 --> 0:24:06.080
<v Speaker 3>you know what, Like, I've just dedicated X amount of

0:24:06.119 --> 0:24:09.680
<v Speaker 3>years to the company and the friendships there, and I'm mad,

0:24:09.800 --> 0:24:12.119
<v Speaker 3>and you know, I just want to be accepted and

0:24:12.119 --> 0:24:14.120
<v Speaker 3>loved and make other people feel good and you guys

0:24:14.359 --> 0:24:16.320
<v Speaker 3>have justin you've just not made me feel like that.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm finally going to do what I've always wanted

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<v Speaker 3>to do. And my dad was cheering me on the

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<v Speaker 3>whole time, and he gave me eight hundred dollars and

0:24:24.240 --> 0:24:27.040
<v Speaker 3>he said, Krena, go and start up the stimulator. Go

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<v Speaker 3>and make people feel good. And you know you've talked

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<v Speaker 3>about it for years, Just go and do it. And

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, you know what, Dad, I'm gonna go

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<v Speaker 3>and do it. See you later.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, hang on, can I have eight hundred dollars? First?

0:24:37.800 --> 0:24:40.280
<v Speaker 1>And so what percentage of the company does your dad own?

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<v Speaker 2>Now?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh? I hope he's not listening. He always makes joke.

0:24:42.880 --> 0:24:45.600
<v Speaker 3>He's like, oh, bloody got shares in niche one. I'm like, yes, Dad,

0:24:45.960 --> 0:24:50.159
<v Speaker 3>Well fy, my dad since has been paid back. And

0:24:50.200 --> 0:24:53.280
<v Speaker 3>I also bring him daily treats, so if anything, he

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<v Speaker 3>owes me now.

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<v Speaker 1>But we always talk about this on our podcast. Is

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<v Speaker 1>that from some of the biggest advance city you have

0:25:00.680 --> 0:25:03.560
<v Speaker 1>in life can be an opportunity for growth. And I

0:25:03.560 --> 0:25:05.720
<v Speaker 1>think that that's a testament for what you've done here,

0:25:05.760 --> 0:25:08.800
<v Speaker 1>taking something that could have been like and was probably

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<v Speaker 1>a really really sad time in your life and then

0:25:10.760 --> 0:25:14.159
<v Speaker 1>flipping that narrative and creating something that's so incredible that

0:25:14.240 --> 0:25:18.040
<v Speaker 1>you can now be like scream, guys, look what I've got.

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<v Speaker 3>Absolutely and you know the fun part is, I actually

0:25:21.720 --> 0:25:24.280
<v Speaker 3>went to a cafe many years ago and I was

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<v Speaker 3>sitting there with a friend just ordering a coffee and

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<v Speaker 3>the man who actually fired me came and had to

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<v Speaker 3>wipe my table, like drop.

0:25:34.280 --> 0:25:37.320
<v Speaker 1>And you're like, I'm sorry you missed at paw, it's

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<v Speaker 1>on my butt.

0:25:37.880 --> 0:25:43.480
<v Speaker 3>Wh I felt so uncomfortable, and like I really liked

0:25:43.520 --> 0:25:45.880
<v Speaker 3>this person, and I just felt uncomfortable because I knew

0:25:45.880 --> 0:25:47.800
<v Speaker 3>that he felt uncomfortable. It was just really strange.

0:25:48.240 --> 0:25:50.840
<v Speaker 1>What has been one of your most proud moments with

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<v Speaker 1>Moana where you're like, you know what, I never saw

0:25:53.640 --> 0:25:55.520
<v Speaker 1>us doing this, but this is incredible.

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<v Speaker 3>Definitely our beach meetups, like they're just crazyful. I just

0:26:01.119 --> 0:26:03.240
<v Speaker 3>can't get over it, Like the amount of hugs and

0:26:03.280 --> 0:26:07.560
<v Speaker 3>tears and dance parties and photos and positive energy. It's

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<v Speaker 3>just like, oh, it's just goosebump material for like the

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<v Speaker 3>whole half a day. Like I've never been so heavily

0:26:13.320 --> 0:26:16.800
<v Speaker 3>impacted by an event in my life. And it's just

0:26:17.040 --> 0:26:19.720
<v Speaker 3>so it's just so freaking crazy where it's kind of

0:26:19.720 --> 0:26:21.840
<v Speaker 3>described the emotions that are there on the day and

0:26:22.119 --> 0:26:23.679
<v Speaker 3>the fact that we can even pull it off and

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<v Speaker 3>do it and people want to be a part of

0:26:25.320 --> 0:26:26.280
<v Speaker 3>it just blows my mind.

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<v Speaker 1>So how many people are we talking that turn up

0:26:28.880 --> 0:26:30.840
<v Speaker 1>to these and are they like, are they all locals

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<v Speaker 1>or do people come from all over.

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<v Speaker 3>The last one we had was actually on the Gold Coast.

0:26:36.760 --> 0:26:38.600
<v Speaker 3>Prior to that, we've done them over in Hawaii because

0:26:38.600 --> 0:26:40.200
<v Speaker 3>a lot of our customers are over in the States,

0:26:40.240 --> 0:26:42.600
<v Speaker 3>so we try to meet them halfway. We do plan

0:26:42.680 --> 0:26:44.679
<v Speaker 3>on doing one in the States. We wanted to do

0:26:44.720 --> 0:26:47.879
<v Speaker 3>it this year, but coronavirus hit, so no. But the

0:26:47.960 --> 0:26:49.560
<v Speaker 3>last one we did was just on the Gold Coast.

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<v Speaker 3>We had over three hundred and fifty girls, and we

0:26:52.000 --> 0:26:58.360
<v Speaker 3>had people fly over from interstate, fly from overseas. Yeah,

0:26:58.400 --> 0:27:00.600
<v Speaker 3>we've had a lot of people just come and show

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<v Speaker 3>up to these things and that's it again, Like I'm

0:27:02.960 --> 0:27:06.400
<v Speaker 3>just like, this is so crazy, Like people just want

0:27:06.400 --> 0:27:07.800
<v Speaker 3>to be loved and they want to be a part

0:27:07.840 --> 0:27:10.119
<v Speaker 3>of something, and they want to be accepted. And the

0:27:10.200 --> 0:27:12.520
<v Speaker 3>fact that we can offer this to you know, as

0:27:12.560 --> 0:27:15.080
<v Speaker 3>many people that are willing and able to show up

0:27:15.200 --> 0:27:17.200
<v Speaker 3>is just such an unheard of thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Why do you think you have such a huge community

0:27:19.560 --> 0:27:23.040
<v Speaker 1>that's based in America? Like what was the catalyst there

0:27:23.080 --> 0:27:25.920
<v Speaker 1>to create that community? And why why is the majority

0:27:25.920 --> 0:27:26.960
<v Speaker 1>shared in Australia.

0:27:28.119 --> 0:27:31.960
<v Speaker 3>It just organically happened. The very first sale I ever

0:27:31.960 --> 0:27:37.720
<v Speaker 3>made was over in Florida actually, and Molana has just

0:27:37.960 --> 0:27:41.880
<v Speaker 3>very naturally grown into the States. We never specifically marketed

0:27:41.880 --> 0:27:45.240
<v Speaker 3>to the States. Everything's just been very organic. So I

0:27:45.240 --> 0:27:47.560
<v Speaker 3>don't know. I mean, they just obviously love our vibe,

0:27:47.560 --> 0:27:50.359
<v Speaker 3>they love our bright colors, and yeah, I guess just

0:27:50.400 --> 0:27:52.080
<v Speaker 3>word of mouth is so powerful as well.

0:27:52.840 --> 0:27:55.800
<v Speaker 1>So can we talk a little bit about I think

0:27:55.840 --> 0:27:58.720
<v Speaker 1>a lot of people think that maybe starting a business

0:27:58.760 --> 0:28:01.879
<v Speaker 1>is easy. Starting a swim my label is like, oh, okay,

0:28:01.920 --> 0:28:04.199
<v Speaker 1>you just go and get something made and off you go.

0:28:04.400 --> 0:28:06.840
<v Speaker 1>But how long was the how long was the process

0:28:06.840 --> 0:28:09.520
<v Speaker 1>of when you started to maybe getting an employee, like

0:28:09.560 --> 0:28:11.600
<v Speaker 1>how long were you putting the hours in yourself? What

0:28:11.760 --> 0:28:14.840
<v Speaker 1>kind of workload was it? Were there really hard moments

0:28:14.840 --> 0:28:16.639
<v Speaker 1>where you were like, oh, I just I can't do this.

0:28:17.520 --> 0:28:19.240
<v Speaker 3>When I look back and think, well, how did I

0:28:19.280 --> 0:28:21.080
<v Speaker 3>get here, it actually blows my mind a little bit

0:28:21.119 --> 0:28:23.920
<v Speaker 3>because I'm like, how did I do that? What the heck?

0:28:25.119 --> 0:28:27.200
<v Speaker 3>I didn't even drink coffee back then, Like, what the hell?

0:28:27.280 --> 0:28:32.040
<v Speaker 2>Creener? Yeah, no, right.

0:28:33.440 --> 0:28:37.600
<v Speaker 3>When I started, that was definitely hard. But it's so

0:28:37.680 --> 0:28:40.200
<v Speaker 3>funny though, And it sounds cliche, but I didn't see

0:28:40.240 --> 0:28:42.240
<v Speaker 3>it as hard because it was such a It was

0:28:42.240 --> 0:28:44.920
<v Speaker 3>so fun. It was like a hobby and it still

0:28:44.960 --> 0:28:47.680
<v Speaker 3>is to this day. But I started while I was

0:28:47.720 --> 0:28:50.920
<v Speaker 3>working a part time job, and because you know, I

0:28:50.960 --> 0:28:54.040
<v Speaker 3>needed money, I had rent to pay. And then gradually

0:28:54.080 --> 0:28:56.800
<v Speaker 3>it's more one I got more successful. I dropped down

0:28:56.800 --> 0:28:59.040
<v Speaker 3>to permanent part time, then I dropped down to casual,

0:28:59.080 --> 0:29:01.360
<v Speaker 3>and then finally, maybe a year and a half later,

0:29:01.720 --> 0:29:04.440
<v Speaker 3>I was confident enough to leave and do more on

0:29:04.480 --> 0:29:06.160
<v Speaker 3>a full time And I was just working out of

0:29:06.400 --> 0:29:10.680
<v Speaker 3>my spare bedroom and I did many, many many late

0:29:10.760 --> 0:29:14.040
<v Speaker 3>nights sitting up till three a m. Watching YouTube tutorials

0:29:14.040 --> 0:29:17.080
<v Speaker 3>on how to make seamless designs, learning a bit more

0:29:17.080 --> 0:29:20.880
<v Speaker 3>about photoshop and illustrator, not even so much about business

0:29:21.040 --> 0:29:23.960
<v Speaker 3>and entrepreneurship, Like none of that crossed my mind. I

0:29:24.080 --> 0:29:28.040
<v Speaker 3>just wanted to produce amazing, unique swimwhere that's kind of

0:29:28.080 --> 0:29:31.040
<v Speaker 3>flatter girls, make them feel special, make them look beautiful,

0:29:31.480 --> 0:29:33.800
<v Speaker 3>and just overall make them feel good. That was honestly

0:29:33.800 --> 0:29:36.400
<v Speaker 3>my only priority. I'm pretty sure I got my first

0:29:36.400 --> 0:29:41.479
<v Speaker 3>staff member maybe like two years into business, and they

0:29:41.480 --> 0:29:43.840
<v Speaker 3>were just a part time helping me out with customer service.

0:29:44.520 --> 0:29:48.040
<v Speaker 3>So yeah, and I think mainly the only struggle that

0:29:48.120 --> 0:29:51.960
<v Speaker 3>I really had was keeping up with the supply and demand.

0:29:52.400 --> 0:29:55.640
<v Speaker 3>I never expected that we would be selling out so quickly,

0:29:55.720 --> 0:29:59.840
<v Speaker 3>like literally in a matter of minutes seconds on some designs,

0:30:00.000 --> 0:30:03.440
<v Speaker 3>which I actually cried a lot, because we had this

0:30:03.600 --> 0:30:06.560
<v Speaker 3>community of girls that was so excited for let's just

0:30:06.600 --> 0:30:09.840
<v Speaker 3>say the Brittany bikini. The Brittany bikini launches and it

0:30:09.920 --> 0:30:14.440
<v Speaker 3>sells out so quickly, and then I'm getting and then

0:30:14.520 --> 0:30:18.920
<v Speaker 3>I'm getting absolutely destroyed online like you haven't made enough,

0:30:19.000 --> 0:30:20.680
<v Speaker 3>how do you, like, how are you going to fix this?

0:30:20.720 --> 0:30:24.200
<v Speaker 3>I've waited weeks for this and I hear them, and

0:30:24.320 --> 0:30:26.320
<v Speaker 3>I understand where they're coming from, but I'm like, you

0:30:26.400 --> 0:30:29.719
<v Speaker 3>don't understand how hard he is, and I would be

0:30:29.960 --> 0:30:33.800
<v Speaker 3>crying and so upset. But I obviously learned how to

0:30:33.840 --> 0:30:34.800
<v Speaker 3>keep up with that a bit more.

0:30:34.880 --> 0:30:37.480
<v Speaker 1>Now, if you're going to give some advice to someone

0:30:37.520 --> 0:30:40.120
<v Speaker 1>who is going to or has been thinking about going

0:30:40.120 --> 0:30:42.480
<v Speaker 1>out and starting their own business, what is like that

0:30:42.520 --> 0:30:46.040
<v Speaker 1>one golden nugget of advice that you're like, here it is, girlfriend.

0:30:46.360 --> 0:30:49.080
<v Speaker 3>Okay, Well, my little golden nugget is to just truly

0:30:49.120 --> 0:30:52.720
<v Speaker 3>be absolutely passionate and in love with your idea and

0:30:52.760 --> 0:30:56.200
<v Speaker 3>your message. Sometime, I've met a lot of people through business,

0:30:56.480 --> 0:30:59.760
<v Speaker 3>and I find that the businesses that are achieving more

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<v Speaker 3>and going further, the businesses where the people genuinely love

0:31:04.240 --> 0:31:06.640
<v Speaker 3>and care about what they're doing. They're not focusing on money,

0:31:06.760 --> 0:31:09.600
<v Speaker 3>they're not focusing on ego or impressing their family and friends.

0:31:09.720 --> 0:31:12.480
<v Speaker 3>They're doing it from their heart and they mean everything

0:31:12.520 --> 0:31:14.880
<v Speaker 3>that they are preaching. And I just think that you

0:31:14.880 --> 0:31:17.560
<v Speaker 3>should always go into business with that kind of mindset,

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<v Speaker 3>and I guess not just do it for financial reasons.

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<v Speaker 1>I think like people underestimate the power of storytelling. And

0:31:24.440 --> 0:31:26.880
<v Speaker 1>the power of community. I don't think that in this

0:31:27.040 --> 0:31:29.360
<v Speaker 1>day and age, like product and good product is enough

0:31:29.440 --> 0:31:32.440
<v Speaker 1>because everyone can make a decent product. It's such an

0:31:32.440 --> 0:31:35.800
<v Speaker 1>accessible thing now. But that storytelling element and that the

0:31:35.840 --> 0:31:39.280
<v Speaker 1>community element that goes with it is what sets business.

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<v Speaker 3>Apart absolutely and at more on a bikini, I say

0:31:42.840 --> 0:31:46.959
<v Speaker 3>to our stuff that customer service is the most important

0:31:47.000 --> 0:31:50.200
<v Speaker 3>part of the job, and it's why our customer service

0:31:50.240 --> 0:31:53.400
<v Speaker 3>girls are trained so in depth on how to talk

0:31:53.440 --> 0:31:55.760
<v Speaker 3>to customers, speak the language. Just at the end of

0:31:55.800 --> 0:31:59.400
<v Speaker 3>the day, make them happy. That's all I really care about.

0:31:59.440 --> 0:32:01.920
<v Speaker 3>I just want them to come first. I want everything

0:32:01.920 --> 0:32:03.440
<v Speaker 3>to be perfect for them, and I just want them

0:32:03.480 --> 0:32:07.040
<v Speaker 3>to feel amazing. And obviously our product speaks for itself,

0:32:07.080 --> 0:32:10.360
<v Speaker 3>but our customer service is really our main focus area.

0:32:11.080 --> 0:32:14.000
<v Speaker 1>Jumping in now to your personal social media girlfriend, you

0:32:14.080 --> 0:32:17.200
<v Speaker 1>are wild and I feel like you share so much.

0:32:17.560 --> 0:32:20.520
<v Speaker 1>You share so much of yourself of like things that

0:32:20.600 --> 0:32:24.240
<v Speaker 1>maybe other people would be self conscious about, Like I mean,

0:32:24.240 --> 0:32:26.400
<v Speaker 1>you talk about cellulite on your social media, you talk

0:32:26.440 --> 0:32:29.680
<v Speaker 1>about XMA, you talk about body confidence. What was it

0:32:29.760 --> 0:32:32.400
<v Speaker 1>that made you make that transition? So I know, if

0:32:32.400 --> 0:32:36.160
<v Speaker 1>you go back real deep into the Instagram archives. Originally

0:32:36.200 --> 0:32:38.760
<v Speaker 1>your photos are really perfect, and you are that sort

0:32:38.760 --> 0:32:43.880
<v Speaker 1>of aspirational, inspirational, perfect Instagram model. And now you're very

0:32:44.000 --> 0:32:46.440
<v Speaker 1>real and you're very authentic and you're very you. What

0:32:46.640 --> 0:32:49.440
<v Speaker 1>made you swat? Where did that come from?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? Well, I guess there's two sides to the story.

0:32:53.440 --> 0:32:57.640
<v Speaker 3>One is how I gained confidence in being my putting

0:32:57.640 --> 0:33:00.200
<v Speaker 3>my personality online, and then the other side is my

0:33:00.480 --> 0:33:06.520
<v Speaker 3>visual appearance appearance online. And my visual appearance came about like, yes,

0:33:06.600 --> 0:33:09.520
<v Speaker 3>I used to edit photos. I used to make sure

0:33:09.560 --> 0:33:12.960
<v Speaker 3>I looked a certain way, and that purely just came

0:33:13.000 --> 0:33:16.800
<v Speaker 3>from being bullied and you know, copying all that horrible

0:33:16.800 --> 0:33:18.680
<v Speaker 3>slack when I was a kid and a teenager, like

0:33:18.680 --> 0:33:21.640
<v Speaker 3>I was petrified of being called the contagious scabby girl.

0:33:21.640 --> 0:33:25.040
<v Speaker 3>You know, it was so scary, and you know, I

0:33:25.080 --> 0:33:28.360
<v Speaker 3>guess I yeah, I was just scared. And then like

0:33:28.440 --> 0:33:31.160
<v Speaker 3>I touched on before, I finally put myself out there

0:33:31.480 --> 0:33:35.040
<v Speaker 3>with an unedited photo. And I did this because I

0:33:35.120 --> 0:33:37.720
<v Speaker 3>was exhausted and sick and tired of it, and I

0:33:37.840 --> 0:33:40.440
<v Speaker 3>just found myself to be being I guess a little

0:33:40.440 --> 0:33:42.800
<v Speaker 3>bit of a hypocrite because my whole life I dreamed

0:33:42.800 --> 0:33:45.600
<v Speaker 3>of having a role model that had XMA and we

0:33:45.800 --> 0:33:48.120
<v Speaker 3>just talk about it and just be that person. And

0:33:48.160 --> 0:33:51.160
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, well, Karna, you can be that person, like

0:33:51.240 --> 0:33:53.800
<v Speaker 3>you have a platform to do it. And yeah, I

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<v Speaker 3>posted a picture in winter where my ex me was

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<v Speaker 3>quite bad and I was petrified. I posted it and

0:34:01.280 --> 0:34:06.120
<v Speaker 3>I instantly got so much love and attention and people

0:34:06.120 --> 0:34:08.360
<v Speaker 3>were saying, thank god, someone has done this, thank you

0:34:08.400 --> 0:34:10.960
<v Speaker 3>so much. So even though I was scared. But when

0:34:10.960 --> 0:34:13.960
<v Speaker 3>I put myself out there, I in return got you know,

0:34:14.040 --> 0:34:16.600
<v Speaker 3>a really nice I guess like I just good credit

0:34:16.880 --> 0:34:18.520
<v Speaker 3>and it made me feel good and it was making

0:34:18.560 --> 0:34:21.680
<v Speaker 3>other people feel good, and I was like, Okay, well fine,

0:34:21.880 --> 0:34:24.120
<v Speaker 3>I'm just gonna keep doing it. Am I embarrassed? Yes?

0:34:24.200 --> 0:34:27.239
<v Speaker 3>Am I self conscious about this? Absolutely? But is it

0:34:27.360 --> 0:34:30.120
<v Speaker 3>making other people feel good? It looks like it is.

0:34:30.520 --> 0:34:33.000
<v Speaker 3>I'm just gonna keep running with it. And that's kind

0:34:33.040 --> 0:34:34.440
<v Speaker 3>of how that kept going.

0:34:34.920 --> 0:34:37.719
<v Speaker 1>If you guys don't follow Korena yet, you need to

0:34:37.719 --> 0:34:38.680
<v Speaker 1>go and follow on Instagram.

0:34:38.760 --> 0:34:39.720
<v Speaker 2>She's not hard to find.

0:34:40.320 --> 0:34:44.880
<v Speaker 1>You actually don't give a fuck. I love it so much,

0:34:44.960 --> 0:34:48.000
<v Speaker 1>like I really don't. There is nothing that is off lite.

0:34:48.040 --> 0:34:50.480
<v Speaker 1>There are people that are on Instagram that you know,

0:34:50.520 --> 0:34:52.040
<v Speaker 1>they don't care and they put the real out there.

0:34:52.040 --> 0:34:53.759
<v Speaker 1>But you're like in next level you were like, this

0:34:53.880 --> 0:34:56.799
<v Speaker 1>is unapologetically me and I love that. So if you

0:34:56.800 --> 0:35:00.200
<v Speaker 1>guys don't follow a go and follow her any thing

0:35:00.239 --> 0:35:03.200
<v Speaker 1>you put up now that you're like, oh, like, it

0:35:03.320 --> 0:35:04.919
<v Speaker 1>sort of makes you think is that too much?

0:35:05.120 --> 0:35:05.839
<v Speaker 2>Or oh yeah?

0:35:05.960 --> 0:35:10.919
<v Speaker 1>Or do you ever worry about what you're like? Ah,

0:35:11.000 --> 0:35:13.240
<v Speaker 1>every day, But that's okay. I like to push the envelope.

0:35:13.320 --> 0:35:18.839
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean, like even like those fighting videos, I mean,

0:35:18.920 --> 0:35:21.279
<v Speaker 3>like to be honest, Like I didn't even want to

0:35:21.280 --> 0:35:26.520
<v Speaker 3>post that. The reason I ended up posting that is

0:35:26.600 --> 0:35:29.480
<v Speaker 3>because it was so funny.

0:35:30.920 --> 0:35:33.040
<v Speaker 1>Also, guys, if you don't know what we're talking about

0:35:33.080 --> 0:35:36.080
<v Speaker 1>right now, this is gonna sound very random. Karina maybe

0:35:36.080 --> 0:35:39.480
<v Speaker 1>two days ago, posted a video on her Instagram account

0:35:39.560 --> 0:35:43.480
<v Speaker 1>where she spread eagle and farted, so like, it's as

0:35:43.560 --> 0:35:45.239
<v Speaker 1>unfiltered as it can possibly get.

0:35:45.600 --> 0:35:46.680
<v Speaker 2>So talk us through this.

0:35:46.880 --> 0:35:48.360
<v Speaker 1>When did you get to the point where you were like,

0:35:48.400 --> 0:35:50.440
<v Speaker 1>do you know what, I don't even care what the

0:35:50.480 --> 0:35:51.239
<v Speaker 1>people have to say.

0:35:51.280 --> 0:35:51.799
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna do.

0:35:52.040 --> 0:35:55.360
<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna do v Oh well, that wasn't my first

0:35:55.400 --> 0:35:59.120
<v Speaker 3>fighting video. My first fighting video came many months ago,

0:35:59.200 --> 0:36:04.200
<v Speaker 3>maybe even last year. You see, fighting around my family

0:36:04.239 --> 0:36:07.080
<v Speaker 3>and friends is funny, and it's a joke that it

0:36:07.200 --> 0:36:10.560
<v Speaker 3>just goes around our circle and our family. It's just funny. Like,

0:36:10.840 --> 0:36:13.560
<v Speaker 3>for example, my granddad, he actually calls himself the pop

0:36:13.560 --> 0:36:17.000
<v Speaker 3>off King, and as a kid, he would do one

0:36:17.120 --> 0:36:20.239
<v Speaker 3>fart and break it into like several individual farts and

0:36:20.280 --> 0:36:22.040
<v Speaker 3>then he would say to me, how many was that?

0:36:22.680 --> 0:36:25.239
<v Speaker 3>And I would be like four, and he'd be like

0:36:25.280 --> 0:36:28.000
<v Speaker 3>it was six. So like, I've just grown up with

0:36:28.120 --> 0:36:32.160
<v Speaker 3>farts as a funny joke in my family, and I'm

0:36:32.160 --> 0:36:33.959
<v Speaker 3>pretty good at it, I would like to think.

0:36:34.880 --> 0:36:36.320
<v Speaker 2>So, I mean it's a great skill.

0:36:36.560 --> 0:36:39.719
<v Speaker 1>Lean into what you're good at, Like that's that's my recommendation.

0:36:40.360 --> 0:36:41.880
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you stay in your lane and you do what

0:36:41.880 --> 0:36:44.799
<v Speaker 3>you're good at. Mine is fighting. But yeah, I don't know.

0:36:44.840 --> 0:36:47.000
<v Speaker 3>One night, I just I had a funny tummy and

0:36:47.080 --> 0:36:49.920
<v Speaker 3>Ryan was laying on my leg and I just filmed

0:36:49.960 --> 0:36:52.000
<v Speaker 3>it just for you know, shits and giggles, not for

0:36:52.040 --> 0:36:55.400
<v Speaker 3>social media, absolutely not for social media, and the fart

0:36:55.440 --> 0:36:59.200
<v Speaker 3>was just dumb. Big Ryan's reaction was hilarious, and then

0:36:59.800 --> 0:37:02.040
<v Speaker 3>I I shred it to every one of my friends

0:37:02.080 --> 0:37:04.719
<v Speaker 3>and family and everyone thought it was the funniest thing,

0:37:05.040 --> 0:37:07.279
<v Speaker 3>and watching people's reactions, I was like, I'd love to

0:37:07.280 --> 0:37:09.400
<v Speaker 3>put this on social media because it's just funny and

0:37:09.480 --> 0:37:13.120
<v Speaker 3>everybody farts, and if I can just distract people and

0:37:13.160 --> 0:37:15.719
<v Speaker 3>make them laugh about this, then, like, I just feel

0:37:15.760 --> 0:37:18.600
<v Speaker 3>like that would be so great. So one day I

0:37:18.719 --> 0:37:21.440
<v Speaker 3>just posted it and it went It's probably one of

0:37:21.440 --> 0:37:25.120
<v Speaker 3>the most viral things I've done. It Even a couple

0:37:25.160 --> 0:37:27.759
<v Speaker 3>of TV shows have requested my permission to use the

0:37:27.920 --> 0:37:30.280
<v Speaker 3>video in their shows.

0:37:30.960 --> 0:37:33.879
<v Speaker 1>You're like, great on You're like, I have a successful woman.

0:37:34.080 --> 0:37:37.560
<v Speaker 1>I I have a successful bikini company. I got this

0:37:37.719 --> 0:37:40.160
<v Speaker 1>booty like workout company, and you want to put my

0:37:40.239 --> 0:37:41.640
<v Speaker 1>fart on your TV program?

0:37:41.680 --> 0:37:42.400
<v Speaker 2>Fuck go for it.

0:37:42.640 --> 0:37:44.480
<v Speaker 3>To be honest, all I want to do in life

0:37:44.560 --> 0:37:46.719
<v Speaker 3>is make people feel good about themselves, and if that's

0:37:46.760 --> 0:37:50.680
<v Speaker 3>putting myself out, I'm just gonna do it because in

0:37:51.239 --> 0:37:53.319
<v Speaker 3>you know, in reaction to that, I'm helping like god

0:37:53.360 --> 0:37:55.520
<v Speaker 3>knows how many other people. So if I feel uncomfortable

0:37:55.560 --> 0:37:57.080
<v Speaker 3>for ten minutes, then I can handle that.

0:37:57.280 --> 0:37:58.400
<v Speaker 2>I love it so much.

0:37:58.520 --> 0:38:01.239
<v Speaker 1>I mean, honestly, I had such a good chuckle about it,

0:38:01.239 --> 0:38:02.719
<v Speaker 1>and we were like, how do we bring up the

0:38:02.800 --> 0:38:06.480
<v Speaker 1>fart conversation on the podcast, I was like, put on

0:38:06.520 --> 0:38:08.120
<v Speaker 1>social media, I don't think we have to be subtle.

0:38:08.200 --> 0:38:09.680
<v Speaker 2>Let's just ask. It's a free game.

0:38:09.920 --> 0:38:12.799
<v Speaker 1>Another thing that you've been really open talking about on

0:38:12.840 --> 0:38:16.359
<v Speaker 1>social media is your your transformation in your body and

0:38:16.800 --> 0:38:20.040
<v Speaker 1>your own body confidence. And now this isn't the transformation

0:38:20.120 --> 0:38:22.960
<v Speaker 1>that we normally see on social media where someone loses

0:38:22.960 --> 0:38:25.319
<v Speaker 1>a lot of weight and gets really really tiny. How

0:38:25.320 --> 0:38:27.319
<v Speaker 1>did you go from being that girl who wanted to

0:38:27.320 --> 0:38:29.600
<v Speaker 1>be super thin to now being like, you know what,

0:38:29.640 --> 0:38:32.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm really comfortable in my size and you're super fit

0:38:32.280 --> 0:38:35.000
<v Speaker 1>and you're curvy. But how did you make that transition

0:38:35.080 --> 0:38:38.400
<v Speaker 1>in what you saw as being your own personal standards

0:38:38.400 --> 0:38:38.880
<v Speaker 1>for beauty?

0:38:38.920 --> 0:38:40.839
<v Speaker 2>I guess yeah, I.

0:38:40.800 --> 0:38:43.200
<v Speaker 3>Mean that's such a great question. I don't even know

0:38:43.560 --> 0:38:46.400
<v Speaker 3>what when the time was in my mind where that

0:38:46.520 --> 0:38:49.480
<v Speaker 3>clicked for me or it changed. I do know that

0:38:49.880 --> 0:38:52.279
<v Speaker 3>I just got tired of trying to be somebody that

0:38:52.840 --> 0:38:55.640
<v Speaker 3>maybe the social media community wanted me to be or

0:38:55.719 --> 0:38:59.719
<v Speaker 3>expected me to be to be accepted, I think. And

0:38:59.760 --> 0:39:02.960
<v Speaker 3>then with that being said, I did start getting into

0:39:03.320 --> 0:39:06.840
<v Speaker 3>working out not to be anything or look like anything.

0:39:06.920 --> 0:39:09.360
<v Speaker 3>I just was like, I want to be a fitter.

0:39:09.719 --> 0:39:12.680
<v Speaker 3>My dad had a really unfortunate accident and now he's

0:39:12.680 --> 0:39:16.760
<v Speaker 3>a quadruplegic. Wow, that really showed me a different side

0:39:16.840 --> 0:39:20.000
<v Speaker 3>of life, and it also made me value, you know,

0:39:20.160 --> 0:39:23.439
<v Speaker 3>my life and the ability that I have every day

0:39:23.440 --> 0:39:26.279
<v Speaker 3>that now has been taken away from him in a

0:39:26.320 --> 0:39:29.359
<v Speaker 3>matter of literally three seconds. And I watched it all

0:39:29.400 --> 0:39:32.520
<v Speaker 3>in real time as well. So going through that with

0:39:32.600 --> 0:39:35.240
<v Speaker 3>my dad and being by his hospital bed for months

0:39:35.280 --> 0:39:37.520
<v Speaker 3>and months on end, it's just opened my eyes to

0:39:37.560 --> 0:39:41.359
<v Speaker 3>seeing that, like, like, life is so much more than

0:39:41.560 --> 0:39:44.839
<v Speaker 3>being skinny, or being curvy, or being pretty, or being

0:39:44.880 --> 0:39:47.560
<v Speaker 3>blonde or redhead or you know whatever. It's so much

0:39:47.560 --> 0:39:50.480
<v Speaker 3>more than that. I think that life you're put here

0:39:50.520 --> 0:39:53.640
<v Speaker 3>to have fun with it and accept yourself, make the

0:39:53.680 --> 0:39:57.160
<v Speaker 3>most of your situation, and make other people around you

0:39:57.239 --> 0:40:00.319
<v Speaker 3>feel great. And I think it was it's just that

0:40:00.360 --> 0:40:02.040
<v Speaker 3>moment where I was like, you know what, my dad

0:40:02.080 --> 0:40:05.719
<v Speaker 3>can't walk anymore, and here I am bitching about some exma.

0:40:05.840 --> 0:40:07.720
<v Speaker 3>I want to go and be the best version of myself.

0:40:07.760 --> 0:40:10.120
<v Speaker 3>I want to make my dad proud, and I want

0:40:10.120 --> 0:40:12.640
<v Speaker 3>to make everybody around me proud, and I want to

0:40:12.640 --> 0:40:17.120
<v Speaker 3>make people realize that life is precious, and I want

0:40:17.200 --> 0:40:18.200
<v Speaker 3>them to acknowledge that.

0:40:18.640 --> 0:40:22.440
<v Speaker 1>It's crazy that it takes something like that, isn't it.

0:40:22.480 --> 0:40:25.200
<v Speaker 1>But because I followed you for so long, I see

0:40:25.239 --> 0:40:27.200
<v Speaker 1>the relationship you have with your dad, and I see

0:40:27.320 --> 0:40:29.680
<v Speaker 1>like the wheelchair races that you do along the path,

0:40:29.880 --> 0:40:32.160
<v Speaker 1>like along the beach in the Gold Coast, and it's

0:40:32.320 --> 0:40:34.319
<v Speaker 1>obviously a really beautiful, special thing that you have with

0:40:34.400 --> 0:40:36.759
<v Speaker 1>your dad. So I think that's really heartwarming to a

0:40:36.760 --> 0:40:39.400
<v Speaker 1>lot of people to see. It's also such a testament

0:40:39.440 --> 0:40:42.560
<v Speaker 1>to your personality and to your strength that you have

0:40:42.800 --> 0:40:45.319
<v Speaker 1>such a positive outlook on life, Like you seem to

0:40:45.360 --> 0:40:48.440
<v Speaker 1>take these hurdles and the shit that life's throws at

0:40:48.480 --> 0:40:51.479
<v Speaker 1>you and be using them as an opportunity to even

0:40:51.520 --> 0:40:53.040
<v Speaker 1>make you to make your life even better.

0:40:53.080 --> 0:40:53.759
<v Speaker 2>And I think that that's.

0:40:53.840 --> 0:40:55.440
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's a real testament to who you are as

0:40:55.480 --> 0:40:58.080
<v Speaker 1>a person and why you have created this community and

0:40:58.120 --> 0:41:01.640
<v Speaker 1>why people look up to you because this positivity is infectious.

0:41:02.200 --> 0:41:04.880
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, absolutely, And like there's a lot of times on

0:41:04.920 --> 0:41:07.360
<v Speaker 3>social media where I will get backlash for you know,

0:41:07.520 --> 0:41:11.360
<v Speaker 3>certain things, and I get that everybody is entitled to

0:41:11.440 --> 0:41:14.359
<v Speaker 3>opinions and things like that, and you know, it's when

0:41:14.400 --> 0:41:16.440
<v Speaker 3>I do podcasts like this where I actually do have

0:41:16.480 --> 0:41:18.719
<v Speaker 3>an opportunity to speak about why I am the way

0:41:18.760 --> 0:41:20.600
<v Speaker 3>I am and why I talk the way I talk,

0:41:20.640 --> 0:41:23.680
<v Speaker 3>and you know, why my actions are the way they are.

0:41:23.960 --> 0:41:26.560
<v Speaker 3>And you know, I really appreciate you guys asking me

0:41:26.640 --> 0:41:29.000
<v Speaker 3>questions like this because it does help me, you know,

0:41:29.040 --> 0:41:32.480
<v Speaker 3>share a little bit more depth about my situation. And

0:41:32.600 --> 0:41:34.800
<v Speaker 3>I think that's really special that you guys offer people

0:41:34.800 --> 0:41:37.520
<v Speaker 3>like myself, you know, places to do that. So I think,

0:41:37.560 --> 0:41:40.520
<v Speaker 3>thank you guys.

0:41:39.280 --> 0:41:40.160
<v Speaker 2>Not at all.

0:41:39.920 --> 0:41:42.920
<v Speaker 1>We feel really privileged that you, yeah, that you trust

0:41:43.040 --> 0:41:44.400
<v Speaker 1>us to be able to share that side of your

0:41:44.400 --> 0:41:46.839
<v Speaker 1>story with as well, So thank you. We really appreciate that.

0:41:47.640 --> 0:41:49.600
<v Speaker 1>Something that you just touched on, which which is what

0:41:49.600 --> 0:41:51.840
<v Speaker 1>we wanted to get into next. Anyway, is this whole

0:41:51.880 --> 0:41:54.839
<v Speaker 1>idea of online bullying. And you know, we have seen

0:41:54.840 --> 0:41:56.640
<v Speaker 1>that you do get trolls. As much as you have

0:41:56.719 --> 0:41:59.040
<v Speaker 1>this amazing community around you, there are people who get

0:41:59.040 --> 0:42:01.799
<v Speaker 1>onto your social media and some pretty shitty comments in

0:42:01.840 --> 0:42:04.480
<v Speaker 1>the comment section, and how do you deal with that?

0:42:05.280 --> 0:42:07.640
<v Speaker 3>I mean, it really does depend on the topic. If

0:42:07.680 --> 0:42:10.880
<v Speaker 3>it's just like a male saying like, you know, gross

0:42:10.920 --> 0:42:13.120
<v Speaker 3>things about you know, female stuff like I don't care

0:42:13.320 --> 0:42:16.959
<v Speaker 3>twice about that. I'm like, hah, that's funny. I think

0:42:17.080 --> 0:42:18.960
<v Speaker 3>I do find trolling.

0:42:19.080 --> 0:42:21.440
<v Speaker 1>Oh you're silly, man, You're so silly.

0:42:21.440 --> 0:42:25.440
<v Speaker 3>Sit down, sweetie. But you know, I think that if

0:42:25.480 --> 0:42:27.839
<v Speaker 3>I do get trolled in I guess like a more

0:42:27.880 --> 0:42:33.000
<v Speaker 3>political manner. I guess that's hard for me because you know, like,

0:42:33.239 --> 0:42:35.160
<v Speaker 3>like I've just shared with you guys a little bit

0:42:35.160 --> 0:42:36.719
<v Speaker 3>about why I am the way I am, Like, not

0:42:36.760 --> 0:42:38.200
<v Speaker 3>a lot of people do get to see that. So

0:42:38.480 --> 0:42:41.360
<v Speaker 3>if people don't see eye, I don't ee with me,

0:42:41.840 --> 0:42:43.879
<v Speaker 3>or they're not willing to be a little bit more

0:42:43.880 --> 0:42:46.120
<v Speaker 3>open minded on why I've said what I've said, or

0:42:46.160 --> 0:42:49.120
<v Speaker 3>I've reacted how I have reacted, which in my defense,

0:42:49.239 --> 0:42:52.400
<v Speaker 3>is always with a lot of love and respect. I just,

0:42:52.600 --> 0:42:54.479
<v Speaker 3>you know, I just tried not to really think about

0:42:54.480 --> 0:42:58.080
<v Speaker 3>it because sometimes people aren't really willing to you know, listen,

0:42:58.239 --> 0:42:59.960
<v Speaker 3>some people just want to hear what they want to hear,

0:43:00.600 --> 0:43:02.920
<v Speaker 3>and you know, I'm not going to change their mindset,

0:43:02.960 --> 0:43:05.000
<v Speaker 3>and you know, maybe you won't change their mindset. But

0:43:05.400 --> 0:43:07.719
<v Speaker 3>at the end of the day, I'm still here and

0:43:07.880 --> 0:43:09.920
<v Speaker 3>I'm an open book, and if anybody wants to come

0:43:09.960 --> 0:43:12.319
<v Speaker 3>and have a lovely conversation with me. I'm still going

0:43:12.400 --> 0:43:14.200
<v Speaker 3>to hear them out one hundred percent. I think it's

0:43:14.239 --> 0:43:15.520
<v Speaker 3>just how they approach.

0:43:15.200 --> 0:43:18.279
<v Speaker 1>It, for sure, And I mean, Laura and I have

0:43:18.360 --> 0:43:22.040
<v Speaker 1>experienced it in compared to you in the tiniest amount, obviously,

0:43:22.080 --> 0:43:24.160
<v Speaker 1>we're both on the Bachelor. With that comes a lot

0:43:24.160 --> 0:43:25.880
<v Speaker 1>of media, and with that comes a lot of people

0:43:25.880 --> 0:43:30.200
<v Speaker 1>that think they know you, and they, I mean, every

0:43:30.360 --> 0:43:32.880
<v Speaker 1>article that ever comes out about us. You try not

0:43:32.920 --> 0:43:36.000
<v Speaker 1>to read the comment the daily male comment section.

0:43:37.920 --> 0:43:40.640
<v Speaker 2>Jesus, it's the cessful of humanity.

0:43:40.719 --> 0:43:42.879
<v Speaker 1>But I think that the real testament here is that

0:43:43.120 --> 0:43:45.279
<v Speaker 1>you're never going to make everybody like you, and you

0:43:45.280 --> 0:43:47.360
<v Speaker 1>shouldn't want to make everybody like you, because then you

0:43:47.440 --> 0:43:51.080
<v Speaker 1>become such a diluted version of yourself. And you know what,

0:43:51.120 --> 0:43:53.040
<v Speaker 1>people are going to love you for your authenticity and

0:43:53.080 --> 0:43:55.080
<v Speaker 1>they're also going to hate you for it. And it's

0:43:55.080 --> 0:43:57.600
<v Speaker 1>okay to sit somewhere in the middle of that. You

0:43:57.680 --> 0:43:59.280
<v Speaker 1>because I've been following you so long and I actually

0:43:59.320 --> 0:44:01.960
<v Speaker 1>read a lot of the comments. You literally can't win.

0:44:02.080 --> 0:44:04.440
<v Speaker 1>This is what I have found. It doesn't it doesn't

0:44:04.480 --> 0:44:09.520
<v Speaker 1>matter what you have posted, how happy, positive, how raw

0:44:09.560 --> 0:44:12.200
<v Speaker 1>you've been there's someone or not even someone, it's usually

0:44:12.200 --> 0:44:15.480
<v Speaker 1>like one hundred people that will just jump on your back.

0:44:15.480 --> 0:44:17.560
<v Speaker 1>And I've seen you have conversations like I find it

0:44:17.600 --> 0:44:21.480
<v Speaker 1>amazing how much time you find to dedicate to your audience.

0:44:21.760 --> 0:44:24.400
<v Speaker 1>I've seen you have conversations with people and it just

0:44:24.400 --> 0:44:27.080
<v Speaker 1>goes around in circles. Is there a time where you're like,

0:44:27.160 --> 0:44:29.319
<v Speaker 1>oh my god, I just literally I don't want to

0:44:29.320 --> 0:44:31.680
<v Speaker 1>do this anymore? Or does it ever weigh you down,

0:44:31.760 --> 0:44:34.359
<v Speaker 1>the trolling and the negativity, because you obviously have so

0:44:34.400 --> 0:44:37.760
<v Speaker 1>many people that love and adore you, but we often

0:44:37.800 --> 0:44:41.400
<v Speaker 1>talk about how it only takes one person's negativity you

0:44:41.480 --> 0:44:42.200
<v Speaker 1>latch onto that.

0:44:42.320 --> 0:44:43.640
<v Speaker 2>So does it ever get you down?

0:44:44.560 --> 0:44:49.879
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, definitely, it definitely gets me down. And just because

0:44:49.880 --> 0:44:52.040
<v Speaker 3>I don't want to make anyone feel bad, because that's

0:44:52.040 --> 0:44:56.239
<v Speaker 3>never my intention. And sometimes with those comments where I

0:44:56.280 --> 0:45:00.680
<v Speaker 3>have spent time to listen, acknowledge and his somebody out,

0:45:01.880 --> 0:45:04.919
<v Speaker 3>when those conversations do go in circles, I do throw

0:45:04.960 --> 0:45:06.759
<v Speaker 3>my hands up and I do get frustrated, and I'm like,

0:45:06.840 --> 0:45:10.200
<v Speaker 3>this person isn't willing to listen, They're not willing to

0:45:11.040 --> 0:45:13.719
<v Speaker 3>just be open minded with where I'm coming from. Even

0:45:13.760 --> 0:45:17.160
<v Speaker 3>though I'm hearing them, they're not really hearing me. Occasionally,

0:45:17.160 --> 0:45:19.040
<v Speaker 3>if it's getting out of hand, I'll send them a

0:45:19.080 --> 0:45:21.040
<v Speaker 3>really nice voice message you know, Hey, you can do

0:45:21.080 --> 0:45:23.200
<v Speaker 3>that on Instagram DMS. Oh well, I think I did

0:45:23.200 --> 0:45:24.160
<v Speaker 3>it to you.

0:45:24.160 --> 0:45:26.920
<v Speaker 1>You did, you splid on into my DMS, not jealous

0:45:26.960 --> 0:45:27.560
<v Speaker 1>whatever I did.

0:45:28.200 --> 0:45:32.759
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I do like to hit people up those kinds

0:45:32.800 --> 0:45:35.000
<v Speaker 3>of people in voice memo. I feel like it's a

0:45:35.080 --> 0:45:38.040
<v Speaker 3>nice reminder that, even though we're talking via a phone screen,

0:45:38.120 --> 0:45:40.640
<v Speaker 3>that I'm a human and you can hear the empathy

0:45:40.640 --> 0:45:43.600
<v Speaker 3>in my voice, you can hear my personality in my tone,

0:45:44.040 --> 0:45:46.760
<v Speaker 3>and you can hear that I am a good person

0:45:46.880 --> 0:45:50.200
<v Speaker 3>and I'm listening and I'm acknowledging you sometimes, I guess,

0:45:50.239 --> 0:45:52.080
<v Speaker 3>and you guys probably would have found it as well.

0:45:52.400 --> 0:45:54.799
<v Speaker 3>People will read your captions or your comments, but they'll

0:45:54.800 --> 0:45:57.319
<v Speaker 3>read it with whatever tone they choose to read it with,

0:45:57.920 --> 0:46:00.560
<v Speaker 3>and we don't have any control over that. So I

0:46:00.600 --> 0:46:03.560
<v Speaker 3>think that voice memos, you know, they're really good. And

0:46:03.719 --> 0:46:05.239
<v Speaker 3>nine times out of ten, when I end up having

0:46:05.239 --> 0:46:08.360
<v Speaker 3>a voice memo conversation where we're in a good place

0:46:08.360 --> 0:46:09.319
<v Speaker 3>together by the end of.

0:46:09.320 --> 0:46:12.440
<v Speaker 1>It, my question is like, why do you bother with

0:46:12.480 --> 0:46:15.080
<v Speaker 1>the trolls, Like I think most people's way that they

0:46:15.120 --> 0:46:17.359
<v Speaker 1>approach it is that they just block and delete, but

0:46:17.440 --> 0:46:20.920
<v Speaker 1>you actually take time to engage and write back and

0:46:20.960 --> 0:46:23.480
<v Speaker 1>have conversations with and actually take it upon yourself to

0:46:23.600 --> 0:46:26.759
<v Speaker 1>change their opinion. Like why do you feel compelled to

0:46:26.800 --> 0:46:28.120
<v Speaker 1>do that? Why do you want to do that?

0:46:28.840 --> 0:46:34.719
<v Speaker 3>I don't know, I'm so busy. I think that I

0:46:34.880 --> 0:46:38.240
<v Speaker 3>just have a lot of empathy for people as well,

0:46:38.320 --> 0:46:42.040
<v Speaker 3>and I care. I guess I care about what they

0:46:42.120 --> 0:46:45.640
<v Speaker 3>say and I just want them to feel acknowledged. And

0:46:45.719 --> 0:46:48.520
<v Speaker 3>I don't want to always try and change somebody's mind

0:46:48.680 --> 0:46:50.520
<v Speaker 3>because I you know, I don't have time for that,

0:46:50.560 --> 0:46:52.200
<v Speaker 3>and I don't want to change people's minds at all.

0:46:52.200 --> 0:46:54.439
<v Speaker 3>Like imagine if we all felt and thought the same,

0:46:54.480 --> 0:46:56.200
<v Speaker 3>like the world would be a crazy, boring place. But

0:46:56.640 --> 0:46:59.680
<v Speaker 3>I just want people to understand that on social media

0:47:00.160 --> 0:47:02.480
<v Speaker 3>they can be heard and they are heard, and I

0:47:02.520 --> 0:47:06.239
<v Speaker 3>am listening and I'm learning and I'm willing to do that.

0:47:06.440 --> 0:47:08.719
<v Speaker 3>And I just think it comes around as well, like

0:47:08.880 --> 0:47:11.240
<v Speaker 3>I want to be treated how I treat other people,

0:47:11.400 --> 0:47:13.279
<v Speaker 3>and I just believe in that, like you know, you

0:47:13.320 --> 0:47:15.640
<v Speaker 3>treat others how you wish to be treated. And it's

0:47:15.680 --> 0:47:17.279
<v Speaker 3>just something that I do like to apply on my

0:47:17.320 --> 0:47:19.760
<v Speaker 3>social media because you know, there's so many young girls

0:47:19.800 --> 0:47:21.920
<v Speaker 3>watching and I just really do want to be a

0:47:21.960 --> 0:47:23.759
<v Speaker 3>good role model for those people that are, you know,

0:47:23.880 --> 0:47:26.439
<v Speaker 3>sitting back with the popcorn watching everything go down.

0:47:26.760 --> 0:47:29.040
<v Speaker 2>And just in relation to that, what piece of advice

0:47:29.080 --> 0:47:29.359
<v Speaker 2>do you have.

0:47:29.400 --> 0:47:31.160
<v Speaker 1>We do have a young audience, we have, I mean,

0:47:31.480 --> 0:47:34.239
<v Speaker 1>we have a pretty broad audience. But what advice do

0:47:34.280 --> 0:47:38.160
<v Speaker 1>you have to people that are sort of going through

0:47:38.760 --> 0:47:43.959
<v Speaker 1>trolling or bullying, all this imposter type syndrome on social media?

0:47:44.000 --> 0:47:45.239
<v Speaker 1>What advice do you have to them?

0:47:45.560 --> 0:47:48.279
<v Speaker 3>I think the advice that I could give to them

0:47:48.480 --> 0:47:51.759
<v Speaker 3>is to just never take it on board. Keep in

0:47:51.800 --> 0:47:55.480
<v Speaker 3>mind that you know, everywhere in the world, you know,

0:47:55.600 --> 0:47:58.719
<v Speaker 3>everyone's different, Everyone has a different background, and they all

0:47:58.719 --> 0:48:01.960
<v Speaker 3>have different experiences, which is something that everyone having an

0:48:02.040 --> 0:48:06.360
<v Speaker 3>opinion on social media really does need to recognize and acknowledge.

0:48:06.400 --> 0:48:08.480
<v Speaker 3>I mean, here in Australia, we're not exposed to the

0:48:08.480 --> 0:48:11.000
<v Speaker 3>things that you know, the American population are exposed to,

0:48:11.120 --> 0:48:13.319
<v Speaker 3>so there is a huge cultural difference there as well,

0:48:13.800 --> 0:48:16.719
<v Speaker 3>and sometimes I think that people can forget that, and

0:48:17.480 --> 0:48:19.880
<v Speaker 3>you know, just in general, so if you're getting trolld.

0:48:19.920 --> 0:48:22.439
<v Speaker 3>Just remember you don't even know their story. You don't

0:48:22.480 --> 0:48:24.319
<v Speaker 3>know why they're acting out. You don't know why they're

0:48:24.360 --> 0:48:27.600
<v Speaker 3>saying the things they are, and the reason they're probably

0:48:27.640 --> 0:48:30.080
<v Speaker 3>saying those things to you probably has absolutely nothing to

0:48:30.160 --> 0:48:32.799
<v Speaker 3>do with you at all. They've never met you, they've

0:48:32.840 --> 0:48:35.640
<v Speaker 3>never spoken to you. Deep down, you know who you are.

0:48:35.719 --> 0:48:37.960
<v Speaker 3>You know that you're a beautiful boss babe, and just

0:48:38.080 --> 0:48:40.280
<v Speaker 3>really try hard not to take it on board because

0:48:40.400 --> 0:48:42.120
<v Speaker 3>you need to be confident with who you are.

0:48:42.640 --> 0:48:45.040
<v Speaker 1>That leads into a question that I find really interesting.

0:48:45.400 --> 0:48:48.440
<v Speaker 1>What are your opinions on face tune and photoshop on

0:48:48.480 --> 0:48:51.359
<v Speaker 1>social media and people using it and passing themselves off

0:48:51.400 --> 0:48:52.920
<v Speaker 1>as though that's actually what they look like.

0:48:53.520 --> 0:48:59.839
<v Speaker 3>Oh God, it's sonnoying. It actually really makes me sad

0:49:00.160 --> 0:49:01.880
<v Speaker 3>for the reasons that you were just saying about that

0:49:02.000 --> 0:49:06.880
<v Speaker 3>school teacher. There's two sides, and I think that editing

0:49:07.160 --> 0:49:10.840
<v Speaker 3>is yay and nay. I don't believe that you should

0:49:10.880 --> 0:49:13.600
<v Speaker 3>be making yourself look like somebody you're not. I don't

0:49:13.600 --> 0:49:15.680
<v Speaker 3>believe you should be smoothing out your skin to look

0:49:15.719 --> 0:49:18.040
<v Speaker 3>like a doll. And I don't believe that you should

0:49:18.040 --> 0:49:22.160
<v Speaker 3>be reconstructing your body or your face as well. Not

0:49:22.200 --> 0:49:24.040
<v Speaker 3>only is that just awkward because I don't know. I

0:49:24.040 --> 0:49:25.880
<v Speaker 3>don't know about you guys, but I can tell straight

0:49:25.880 --> 0:49:27.400
<v Speaker 3>away as soon as someone I like to say, has

0:49:27.440 --> 0:49:33.319
<v Speaker 3>cooked their photo, Like I can tell, Yeah, I'm just like,

0:49:33.400 --> 0:49:35.840
<v Speaker 3>well that is cooked. Like the whites of your eyes

0:49:36.000 --> 0:49:38.360
<v Speaker 3>are brighter than the moon right now, that's not normal,

0:49:39.120 --> 0:49:42.400
<v Speaker 3>you know, like your eyebrows in your hairline like that.

0:49:42.600 --> 0:49:45.040
<v Speaker 3>Not even botox or whatever procedure would do that. Like,

0:49:45.080 --> 0:49:47.920
<v Speaker 3>I get it. But you know, a lot of those people,

0:49:48.160 --> 0:49:51.759
<v Speaker 3>I think that our editing their pictures so heavily is

0:49:52.440 --> 0:49:55.919
<v Speaker 3>they may not be accepting themselves, and they might be

0:49:55.960 --> 0:50:00.120
<v Speaker 3>a little scared of controversy. And I sympathize with that.

0:50:00.800 --> 0:50:03.200
<v Speaker 3>And I think that if you're in a place where

0:50:03.200 --> 0:50:05.120
<v Speaker 3>you're still learning to accept, you're a bit scared to

0:50:05.160 --> 0:50:07.040
<v Speaker 3>just actually post a role photo of you, because it

0:50:07.080 --> 0:50:09.799
<v Speaker 3>actually is a huge deal, especially now, like bullying is real,

0:50:10.840 --> 0:50:12.200
<v Speaker 3>and if you're not quite out that phase and you

0:50:12.239 --> 0:50:13.840
<v Speaker 3>do just want to face tune a little bit off,

0:50:13.880 --> 0:50:16.640
<v Speaker 3>photoshop a bit of your picture, you know what, That's fine,

0:50:16.960 --> 0:50:20.200
<v Speaker 3>you go for it, just don't make yourself look like

0:50:20.280 --> 0:50:22.520
<v Speaker 3>somebody or not, because how awkward when I see you

0:50:22.520 --> 0:50:24.080
<v Speaker 3>in real life and I don't recognize you.

0:50:25.600 --> 0:50:27.560
<v Speaker 1>I used to have that fear that I wouldn't like

0:50:27.600 --> 0:50:30.560
<v Speaker 1>photoshop and edit my photos to talk photos. But my

0:50:30.680 --> 0:50:33.000
<v Speaker 1>Instagram used to be at this point where I only

0:50:33.000 --> 0:50:35.920
<v Speaker 1>wanted to put these the best angles and the best

0:50:35.920 --> 0:50:37.279
<v Speaker 1>photos with the best lining, and.

0:50:37.239 --> 0:50:38.240
<v Speaker 2>My makeup was great.

0:50:38.239 --> 0:50:41.200
<v Speaker 1>And then I used to think, I've literally put the

0:50:41.239 --> 0:50:43.000
<v Speaker 1>top one percent of who I am. I'm going to

0:50:43.040 --> 0:50:45.160
<v Speaker 1>see someone in the street and like this, like look

0:50:45.280 --> 0:50:47.920
<v Speaker 1>like a hobo, and they're gonna be like, that's Brittany,

0:50:51.040 --> 0:50:52.359
<v Speaker 1>but you know what I mean. And then I got

0:50:52.400 --> 0:50:54.279
<v Speaker 1>to the point now where I just I just put

0:50:54.320 --> 0:50:56.279
<v Speaker 1>whatever up. I mean, I still put good photos up,

0:50:56.320 --> 0:50:58.040
<v Speaker 1>but I show who I am more. But I used

0:50:58.040 --> 0:51:01.399
<v Speaker 1>to be petrified, especially when I was dating online dating.

0:51:01.640 --> 0:51:03.719
<v Speaker 1>I was like, what if I walk into the restaurant and.

0:51:03.640 --> 0:51:04.719
<v Speaker 2>He doesn't even know who I am?

0:51:05.160 --> 0:51:07.239
<v Speaker 1>But I also think that that shift now even in

0:51:07.280 --> 0:51:10.120
<v Speaker 1>your own social media bred like that is just a

0:51:10.160 --> 0:51:13.120
<v Speaker 1>true testament that the platform of social media is changing,

0:51:13.160 --> 0:51:15.839
<v Speaker 1>and that, like we said earlier, people are crating authenticity,

0:51:16.160 --> 0:51:19.120
<v Speaker 1>people are seeking out authenticity, and because people like you

0:51:19.239 --> 0:51:22.400
<v Speaker 1>Karina are putting their raw version of themselves out on

0:51:22.440 --> 0:51:25.680
<v Speaker 1>social media, other people feel empowered to follow, and that's

0:51:26.120 --> 0:51:29.240
<v Speaker 1>an incredible legacy that you are setting, I think as.

0:51:29.080 --> 0:51:31.800
<v Speaker 3>Well, Like that's why I focus really heavily on stories.

0:51:33.160 --> 0:51:36.600
<v Speaker 3>I love Instagram stories a hundred times more than posting

0:51:36.600 --> 0:51:40.759
<v Speaker 3>a picture. I like my personality more than what I

0:51:40.800 --> 0:51:44.040
<v Speaker 3>look like, and you know, I like to share that

0:51:44.239 --> 0:51:47.000
<v Speaker 3>as well. You know, I just think that I can

0:51:47.040 --> 0:51:49.319
<v Speaker 3>be fine, and I can make people laugh a bit,

0:51:49.400 --> 0:51:51.880
<v Speaker 3>and I put a lot of energy into stories and

0:51:51.920 --> 0:51:54.040
<v Speaker 3>I structure them and I want to edit them fine.

0:51:54.120 --> 0:51:56.600
<v Speaker 3>And you know, it's almost like every day is like

0:51:56.600 --> 0:51:59.040
<v Speaker 3>a little mini YouTube on my story, and I think

0:51:59.080 --> 0:52:02.719
<v Speaker 3>that's really cool because you get to actually see my personality.

0:52:02.760 --> 0:52:04.719
<v Speaker 3>You get to see videos of me so obviously a

0:52:04.800 --> 0:52:07.480
<v Speaker 3>kind of face tune of video. And I just feel

0:52:07.520 --> 0:52:10.160
<v Speaker 3>like when you are on Instagram, you can choose to

0:52:10.200 --> 0:52:12.960
<v Speaker 3>follow people that are showing more of a vulnerable, video

0:52:13.080 --> 0:52:15.239
<v Speaker 3>kind of side of themselves as well. Like it's just

0:52:15.320 --> 0:52:17.680
<v Speaker 3>up to the individual, you know, to filter out who

0:52:17.680 --> 0:52:19.520
<v Speaker 3>they do and don't want to follow and what they

0:52:19.520 --> 0:52:21.560
<v Speaker 3>want to be exposed to.

0:52:21.560 --> 0:52:23.359
<v Speaker 2>Totally, I'm so much more.

0:52:23.400 --> 0:52:25.160
<v Speaker 1>I agree, I'm so much more like, I have a

0:52:25.160 --> 0:52:27.319
<v Speaker 1>lot more personality on my stories, and I'm so much

0:52:27.360 --> 0:52:29.720
<v Speaker 1>more like this is me and bed at night looking gross,

0:52:29.840 --> 0:52:31.959
<v Speaker 1>being a wanker, And I love that more because people

0:52:31.960 --> 0:52:33.560
<v Speaker 1>are like, oh, I didn't I didn't know you actually

0:52:33.560 --> 0:52:39.760
<v Speaker 1>had personality. I'm like, okay, thanks, I got one. But Karna,

0:52:40.200 --> 0:52:44.399
<v Speaker 1>we are a relationships podcast, and you have the cutest

0:52:44.440 --> 0:52:49.080
<v Speaker 1>relationship with Ryan. You're totally smittening in love a couple girls. Yeah,

0:52:49.640 --> 0:52:52.799
<v Speaker 1>instagrams as well, you work together, you tegether all the time,

0:52:52.960 --> 0:52:53.759
<v Speaker 1>you fart on him.

0:52:53.840 --> 0:52:56.719
<v Speaker 2>Love that. How did you? How did you?

0:52:56.760 --> 0:52:59.160
<v Speaker 1>What's your story? How did you meet? Tell me about it?

0:52:59.160 --> 0:52:59.640
<v Speaker 1>Tell me about you?

0:52:59.680 --> 0:53:00.319
<v Speaker 2>Guys him.

0:53:01.120 --> 0:53:04.399
<v Speaker 3>I was probably single for just under twelve months. Wasn't

0:53:04.400 --> 0:53:07.400
<v Speaker 3>interested in getting into a new relationship. I like my

0:53:07.480 --> 0:53:10.960
<v Speaker 3>lone time. Like I said, Tinder was a thing. All

0:53:11.040 --> 0:53:12.640
<v Speaker 3>my friends were like, you should have fun on there.

0:53:12.680 --> 0:53:14.839
<v Speaker 3>It's like a game, it's fun. And I was so

0:53:14.920 --> 0:53:17.319
<v Speaker 3>embarrassed to go on it, so I just didn't just

0:53:17.360 --> 0:53:18.000
<v Speaker 3>watch from a far.

0:53:18.680 --> 0:53:22.360
<v Speaker 4>But one dark and stormy night, I was sitting on

0:53:22.400 --> 0:53:25.840
<v Speaker 4>the cop and I was watching Sex in the City,

0:53:26.640 --> 0:53:29.279
<v Speaker 4>and I had Ntella and tiny Teddies and I was

0:53:29.280 --> 0:53:30.280
<v Speaker 4>feeling all sassy.

0:53:30.320 --> 0:53:33.120
<v Speaker 3>I was like, yeah, you know, I am.

0:53:33.640 --> 0:53:35.200
<v Speaker 2>Shop me some boyfriend.

0:53:35.880 --> 0:53:39.960
<v Speaker 3>Absolutely, So I downloaded the app in the privacy of

0:53:40.000 --> 0:53:44.600
<v Speaker 3>my home and I started swiping, and I connected with Ryan.

0:53:44.880 --> 0:53:46.440
<v Speaker 3>I don't know how long it was, but it was

0:53:46.600 --> 0:53:50.239
<v Speaker 3>very freaking quickly, Like my whole Tinder experience was only

0:53:50.320 --> 0:53:54.920
<v Speaker 3>Ryan and we matched. We chatted for a bit, and

0:53:54.960 --> 0:53:57.960
<v Speaker 3>then obviously he asked for my number, because you know,

0:53:58.000 --> 0:54:04.399
<v Speaker 3>I'm just like so freaking cool and da, I gave

0:54:04.480 --> 0:54:06.880
<v Speaker 3>him my number, and then you know, later on he

0:54:06.960 --> 0:54:08.520
<v Speaker 3>text me and I just played a prank and I

0:54:08.520 --> 0:54:11.200
<v Speaker 3>was like, sorry, who's this? You know? So we had

0:54:11.200 --> 0:54:15.120
<v Speaker 3>that banter kind of straight away, and we texted each

0:54:15.120 --> 0:54:18.759
<v Speaker 3>other for three weeks, and then finally we went out

0:54:18.800 --> 0:54:22.440
<v Speaker 3>for coffee and we've actually been very inseparable since that

0:54:22.480 --> 0:54:23.080
<v Speaker 3>coffee date.

0:54:24.000 --> 0:54:24.879
<v Speaker 2>That's so cute.

0:54:24.920 --> 0:54:28.040
<v Speaker 1>What a Tinder success story. I know, what's your secret?

0:54:28.440 --> 0:54:30.640
<v Speaker 1>What's your secret? Because I've been you did it on

0:54:30.680 --> 0:54:32.799
<v Speaker 1>your first Tinder guy. I've been on online dating for

0:54:32.800 --> 0:54:36.080
<v Speaker 1>about nine years now. Brittany's actually just worn a whole

0:54:36.160 --> 0:54:38.359
<v Speaker 1>pattern in her phone from where she swipes from left

0:54:38.360 --> 0:54:38.719
<v Speaker 1>to right.

0:54:38.800 --> 0:54:39.479
<v Speaker 2>I've lost some.

0:54:39.400 --> 0:54:42.120
<v Speaker 1>Skin on my on my point of finger. My swiper

0:54:43.440 --> 0:54:49.400
<v Speaker 1>finger rip for Britney's finger. One thing, one thing I

0:54:49.440 --> 0:54:52.239
<v Speaker 1>really want to know about how your dynamic of your

0:54:52.280 --> 0:54:55.080
<v Speaker 1>relationship works is obviously like you guys work together. He

0:54:55.200 --> 0:54:58.319
<v Speaker 1>is a core part of Mowana as well, Like, how

0:54:58.360 --> 0:54:59.160
<v Speaker 1>does that work for you?

0:54:59.160 --> 0:55:01.440
<v Speaker 2>Do you not get sick of it each other? Who's

0:55:01.480 --> 0:55:03.120
<v Speaker 2>the boss? How does it work?

0:55:04.440 --> 0:55:06.000
<v Speaker 3>Definitely don't get sick of each other at all. I

0:55:06.000 --> 0:55:09.040
<v Speaker 3>miss him and he's just like downstairs right now, Love you, honey.

0:55:11.760 --> 0:55:17.719
<v Speaker 3>You guys are disgusting, so gross. I think that you

0:55:17.760 --> 0:55:20.160
<v Speaker 3>know Ryan and I as cliches, it sounds we were

0:55:20.239 --> 0:55:24.800
<v Speaker 3>just like so made for each other. We're completely different people,

0:55:24.880 --> 0:55:29.399
<v Speaker 3>but we have the same values and we just work

0:55:29.680 --> 0:55:33.359
<v Speaker 3>very well together, both in a personal relationship sense and

0:55:33.440 --> 0:55:37.000
<v Speaker 3>a work sense. We both respect each other and we

0:55:37.080 --> 0:55:40.439
<v Speaker 3>both know that we specialize in different fields as well.

0:55:40.840 --> 0:55:45.160
<v Speaker 3>So you know, at Ryan used to be the managing

0:55:45.239 --> 0:55:49.840
<v Speaker 3>editor of Surfing Life magazine. He's really great at marketing,

0:55:49.880 --> 0:55:52.480
<v Speaker 3>he's great at writing, he's really well spoken. You know,

0:55:53.400 --> 0:55:54.520
<v Speaker 3>you've had to deal with him.

0:55:55.400 --> 0:55:58.600
<v Speaker 1>The excellent, excellent customer service skills. He was on that

0:55:58.680 --> 0:56:00.239
<v Speaker 1>email in a hot second.

0:56:00.560 --> 0:56:03.000
<v Speaker 3>I know he was and he's just so great. And

0:56:03.040 --> 0:56:06.839
<v Speaker 3>then when the editorial job was, you know, going down

0:56:06.880 --> 0:56:10.560
<v Speaker 3>because editorial has slowly faded away. Everything's online now, I

0:56:10.600 --> 0:56:11.960
<v Speaker 3>was like, shotgun.

0:56:13.400 --> 0:56:17.319
<v Speaker 1>Maana, slash, marry me and never leave my side again,

0:56:17.400 --> 0:56:17.879
<v Speaker 1>love you bye.

0:56:18.440 --> 0:56:22.200
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, basically, and then Ryan, I don't even know if

0:56:22.200 --> 0:56:24.120
<v Speaker 3>we really had a conversation about it, but Ryan just

0:56:24.160 --> 0:56:26.840
<v Speaker 3>really wanted to. He just loves what Maurana does for people,

0:56:27.040 --> 0:56:30.239
<v Speaker 3>and he's all about that. And so now Ryan is

0:56:30.320 --> 0:56:34.480
<v Speaker 3>our customer, he's our operations manager. So Ryan is basically

0:56:34.800 --> 0:56:38.200
<v Speaker 3>keeping the business ticking along, and he does a lot

0:56:38.200 --> 0:56:40.839
<v Speaker 3>behind the scenes that no one even knows about, which

0:56:40.880 --> 0:56:43.400
<v Speaker 3>he's fine with. He's like, you know, just a ghost

0:56:43.480 --> 0:56:47.600
<v Speaker 3>that makes everything look amazing. But at work, like I

0:56:47.640 --> 0:56:50.000
<v Speaker 3>don't know, Like we don't fight, we don't argue. We

0:56:50.000 --> 0:56:51.640
<v Speaker 3>always see ey to eye, and I think it's just

0:56:51.680 --> 0:56:55.440
<v Speaker 3>because we just we respect each other and we're just

0:56:55.560 --> 0:56:57.920
<v Speaker 3>always on the same page no matter what it is.

0:56:58.160 --> 0:56:59.960
<v Speaker 3>We are always just on the same page.

0:57:00.800 --> 0:57:03.080
<v Speaker 1>And also because you're like, well I'm the boss.

0:57:02.920 --> 0:57:05.920
<v Speaker 3>So oh no, no, I'm the boss. I am the boss.

0:57:06.040 --> 0:57:08.560
<v Speaker 3>He can here's my here's my two I see them.

0:57:08.719 --> 0:57:11.640
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, with perfect I love this and do you

0:57:11.680 --> 0:57:13.480
<v Speaker 1>have a bit do you have like one piece of

0:57:13.520 --> 0:57:17.000
<v Speaker 1>relationship advice, like what what would you what would you

0:57:17.040 --> 0:57:18.720
<v Speaker 1>pass down to your children one day.

0:57:20.280 --> 0:57:23.800
<v Speaker 3>I think that relationship shouldn't be hard. And I think

0:57:23.920 --> 0:57:29.520
<v Speaker 3>that although a relationship, although a relationship, you do need

0:57:29.560 --> 0:57:32.280
<v Speaker 3>to work at it every day, but at the at

0:57:32.280 --> 0:57:33.840
<v Speaker 3>the same time, they shouldn't be hard. And I've been

0:57:33.880 --> 0:57:36.560
<v Speaker 3>in past relationships where they have been hard, and they've

0:57:36.800 --> 0:57:39.920
<v Speaker 3>they've been really sad, and they've made me question my

0:57:39.920 --> 0:57:42.360
<v Speaker 3>my true self and what I love about myself and

0:57:42.400 --> 0:57:44.600
<v Speaker 3>want I believe about myself. And then when I met Ryan,

0:57:44.640 --> 0:57:46.320
<v Speaker 3>I've never had to deal with that ever again. And

0:57:46.360 --> 0:57:49.160
<v Speaker 3>it's just maybe noticed that relationships are meant to be fun.

0:57:49.240 --> 0:57:51.720
<v Speaker 3>They're a life experience. There can be your life partner,

0:57:52.240 --> 0:57:55.720
<v Speaker 3>and you know, I just think that you need to

0:57:55.800 --> 0:57:57.880
<v Speaker 3>just look out for those little warning signs and find

0:57:57.880 --> 0:58:00.280
<v Speaker 3>that person that really listens to you and believes in you.

0:58:00.920 --> 0:58:04.960
<v Speaker 2>So ignore the warning signs. Ban And.

0:58:06.040 --> 0:58:08.840
<v Speaker 1>I was gonna say, you have literally just been singing

0:58:08.880 --> 0:58:11.360
<v Speaker 1>to the choir with that advice. That's like something that

0:58:11.400 --> 0:58:13.840
<v Speaker 1>we try and drive home on this podcast is that

0:58:14.080 --> 0:58:17.160
<v Speaker 1>there's this real sort of I think there's this like glorification,

0:58:17.320 --> 0:58:20.640
<v Speaker 1>almost romanticizing of like difficult relationships because it's like you've

0:58:20.640 --> 0:58:23.720
<v Speaker 1>got to work at it, and I just don't think

0:58:23.760 --> 0:58:26.520
<v Speaker 1>that's the case. I think I've I have also, like you,

0:58:26.600 --> 0:58:29.439
<v Speaker 1>I've had relationships that have been so so hard, they've

0:58:29.440 --> 0:58:31.840
<v Speaker 1>been so turbulent, they've been so up and down, and

0:58:31.960 --> 0:58:35.080
<v Speaker 1>I thought at the time that they would that would

0:58:35.080 --> 0:58:38.160
<v Speaker 1>amount to something that was worthwhile. And now in my relationship,

0:58:38.200 --> 0:58:40.480
<v Speaker 1>it's the It's the fucking easiest thing in the world.

0:58:40.520 --> 0:58:43.200
<v Speaker 1>We're always happy, we're always laughing, And it made me

0:58:43.240 --> 0:58:45.360
<v Speaker 1>realize that this is actually what it's supposed to be like,

0:58:45.480 --> 0:58:47.440
<v Speaker 1>and this is the only way it's supposed to be

0:58:47.480 --> 0:58:49.320
<v Speaker 1>for you to be able to have a really long

0:58:49.680 --> 0:58:54.000
<v Speaker 1>and fulfilling relationship that doesn't have you crying every other

0:58:54.120 --> 0:58:56.560
<v Speaker 1>day or feeling like you're on this emotional rollercoaster.

0:58:57.480 --> 0:59:00.000
<v Speaker 3>Absolutely, I couldn't agree more with that.

0:59:01.200 --> 0:59:04.200
<v Speaker 1>So Laura always makes a joke that like, there'll be

0:59:04.280 --> 0:59:06.720
<v Speaker 1>one really nice guy over on my right and there'll

0:59:06.720 --> 0:59:09.640
<v Speaker 1>be fifty red flags in a bundle to my I'll

0:59:09.720 --> 0:59:12.640
<v Speaker 1>run just red flags on the left hand side, and

0:59:12.800 --> 0:59:14.600
<v Speaker 1>it's like, oh shiney.

0:59:15.960 --> 0:59:20.280
<v Speaker 2>I mean, evidently Karta.

0:59:20.680 --> 0:59:25.480
<v Speaker 1>We always wrap up our chats with the an embarrassing story.

0:59:25.480 --> 0:59:28.720
<v Speaker 1>We have a segment called Accidentally Unfiltered, which basically started

0:59:28.720 --> 0:59:31.000
<v Speaker 1>with like a really embarrassing story on my behalf, and

0:59:31.040 --> 0:59:33.400
<v Speaker 1>now we always get people to chime in, So do

0:59:33.480 --> 0:59:36.920
<v Speaker 1>you have for us? Are super embarrassing? I feel like

0:59:36.920 --> 0:59:40.280
<v Speaker 1>already know the answer, an accidentally unfiltered story of your

0:59:40.480 --> 0:59:41.040
<v Speaker 1>very own.

0:59:41.960 --> 0:59:44.600
<v Speaker 3>I do, and I'm sweating just thinking about it. So

0:59:44.680 --> 0:59:52.400
<v Speaker 3>this story I've actually never told the public. Yes, so

0:59:52.520 --> 0:59:56.280
<v Speaker 3>this is you've heard it here first, We've got exclusive

0:59:57.160 --> 0:59:59.680
<v Speaker 3>All right, guys, are you ready ready?

0:59:59.720 --> 1:00:03.360
<v Speaker 2>I'm Sally looks like on the edge of a seat.

1:00:04.160 --> 1:00:06.720
<v Speaker 3>Okay, well, let me paint you a cute little picture.

1:00:07.520 --> 1:00:09.560
<v Speaker 3>Bright and I had only been dating for maybe two

1:00:09.640 --> 1:00:13.360
<v Speaker 3>years or so. It was Mauana Bikini's Christmas party, so

1:00:13.400 --> 1:00:16.320
<v Speaker 3>we all went out to Tepanyaki. I don't drink alcohol,

1:00:16.600 --> 1:00:18.600
<v Speaker 3>didn't drink coffee at the time, but decided to get

1:00:18.600 --> 1:00:25.440
<v Speaker 3>myself an espresso martini. Tasted great. I loved it, but

1:00:26.160 --> 1:00:28.920
<v Speaker 3>it was incredibly strong, and I knew that I was

1:00:28.960 --> 1:00:30.800
<v Speaker 3>and I got Ryan to test and he was like, WHOA,

1:00:30.920 --> 1:00:33.680
<v Speaker 3>that's that's strong, And I was like oh well, yay.

1:00:35.240 --> 1:00:38.800
<v Speaker 3>So anyway, I drunk one one of those drinks and

1:00:39.160 --> 1:00:43.320
<v Speaker 3>you know whatever. But maybe like two or three hours later,

1:00:43.600 --> 1:00:45.880
<v Speaker 3>we had moved on and we were out in public

1:00:46.680 --> 1:00:50.200
<v Speaker 3>at Max Brenner for dessert with you know, all this stuff.

1:00:50.800 --> 1:00:53.840
<v Speaker 3>And I was also with my good friend Michael Huxley

1:00:53.880 --> 1:00:55.840
<v Speaker 3>and all his stuff because we always do a combined

1:00:56.480 --> 1:00:58.480
<v Speaker 3>Christmas party because he has a school of makeup next

1:00:58.520 --> 1:01:01.280
<v Speaker 3>door to us. Anyway, all of a sudden, I started

1:01:01.280 --> 1:01:04.080
<v Speaker 3>to get these excruciating pains, like pains that I've never

1:01:04.120 --> 1:01:06.160
<v Speaker 3>actually felt before. I thought that like I had a

1:01:06.160 --> 1:01:09.400
<v Speaker 3>stomach alcar or. My stomach was flipping, and I was like,

1:01:10.560 --> 1:01:12.440
<v Speaker 3>oh my god. And I started to get sweaty, and

1:01:12.480 --> 1:01:14.600
<v Speaker 3>I said to Ryan, I need to go home. I

1:01:14.640 --> 1:01:17.000
<v Speaker 3>don't there's something wrong with me. I'm thinking, like I

1:01:17.040 --> 1:01:18.920
<v Speaker 3>need to go to hospital, like there's something wrong with me.

1:01:19.240 --> 1:01:23.320
<v Speaker 3>So we left and we drove home, and this sharp

1:01:23.360 --> 1:01:26.840
<v Speaker 3>pain just kept coming on. So something else had never

1:01:26.840 --> 1:01:30.720
<v Speaker 3>happened before. We had locked ourselves out of my old apartment.

1:01:33.360 --> 1:01:34.920
<v Speaker 2>I can see where this is going.

1:01:35.840 --> 1:01:37.400
<v Speaker 3>I know you can see where it's going, but it

1:01:37.480 --> 1:01:39.760
<v Speaker 3>actually gets so much worse than where you think it's

1:01:39.800 --> 1:01:42.040
<v Speaker 3>gonna go as well, which is great. So I'll just

1:01:42.040 --> 1:01:44.200
<v Speaker 3>cut to the chase a bit. Forty five minutes spent

1:01:44.240 --> 1:01:47.880
<v Speaker 3>trying to get hold of a locksmith. Now by this time,

1:01:48.240 --> 1:01:51.880
<v Speaker 3>you know what, I'm about to shit my pants, And

1:01:51.920 --> 1:01:55.520
<v Speaker 3>I said to were in the garage of my apartment

1:01:55.560 --> 1:01:59.200
<v Speaker 3>at Mermaid Beach, where it's like bumper to bumper apartment buildings,

1:01:59.200 --> 1:02:02.120
<v Speaker 3>no privacy, and I've just said trying, Oh my god,

1:02:02.560 --> 1:02:04.560
<v Speaker 3>I need to go toilet. I need to go twilet.

1:02:04.720 --> 1:02:06.480
<v Speaker 3>So I have got out of the car, got out

1:02:06.480 --> 1:02:08.360
<v Speaker 3>of the garage, and I've run into this tiny little

1:02:08.360 --> 1:02:11.840
<v Speaker 3>backyard where there's apartments all around me, and I have

1:02:12.000 --> 1:02:16.439
<v Speaker 3>had to squat in the backyard and I have gone

1:02:16.520 --> 1:02:19.920
<v Speaker 3>to the toilet all over the lawn. And I've got

1:02:19.960 --> 1:02:22.480
<v Speaker 3>to admit it was probably the best feeling of relief

1:02:22.520 --> 1:02:25.000
<v Speaker 3>I've ever felt in my entire existence, being in this

1:02:25.080 --> 1:02:30.040
<v Speaker 3>kind of But it didn't end there. Unfortunately. I tried

1:02:30.040 --> 1:02:32.840
<v Speaker 3>to clean up. I did try to clean up the

1:02:32.880 --> 1:02:35.840
<v Speaker 3>mess by getting a bucket of water and you know,

1:02:36.040 --> 1:02:39.440
<v Speaker 3>rinsing it through the grass. Unfortunately, that just expanded the situation.

1:02:40.480 --> 1:02:42.080
<v Speaker 2>Trina, You're like the poo jogger.

1:02:43.200 --> 1:02:46.880
<v Speaker 3>Oh well, I actually ended up jogging, so I couldn't

1:02:46.880 --> 1:02:49.840
<v Speaker 3>go get in the backyard. And we lived on the beach,

1:02:50.480 --> 1:02:52.440
<v Speaker 3>and Ryan's like, you're gonna have to go down to

1:02:52.480 --> 1:02:55.680
<v Speaker 3>the beach. So here's me at midnight on the phone.

1:02:55.680 --> 1:02:57.080
<v Speaker 3>I called my mom because I don't want to get

1:02:57.080 --> 1:02:59.280
<v Speaker 3>attack down the beach, and I'm running down the beach

1:02:59.320 --> 1:03:02.400
<v Speaker 3>and I'm like, Mom, help me. I'm going to the beach.

1:03:02.680 --> 1:03:07.240
<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna put myself and my mom's like Karna. At first,

1:03:07.240 --> 1:03:09.440
<v Speaker 3>she was very grumpy that I woke her up at midnight,

1:03:09.480 --> 1:03:11.520
<v Speaker 3>but by the end of the conversation, when I'm squatting

1:03:11.520 --> 1:03:14.919
<v Speaker 3>in the sand dunes, digging holes trying to like get

1:03:14.920 --> 1:03:18.360
<v Speaker 3>this out of my system, She's hysterical. I had to

1:03:18.400 --> 1:03:20.760
<v Speaker 3>go down to the beach and like rinse. And then

1:03:20.800 --> 1:03:23.040
<v Speaker 3>by the time the locksmith had finally got back to

1:03:23.080 --> 1:03:25.400
<v Speaker 3>the house hours later, I'd let it all out and

1:03:25.400 --> 1:03:30.120
<v Speaker 3>I felt fine. So I publicly pooed myself.

1:03:30.840 --> 1:03:31.560
<v Speaker 2>And then you.

1:03:33.400 --> 1:03:35.720
<v Speaker 1>Were actually not the first person to do that, so

1:03:35.960 --> 1:03:39.680
<v Speaker 1>don't worry so good. I wasn't expecting an embarrassing story

1:03:39.760 --> 1:03:41.840
<v Speaker 1>quite that embarrassing. Did you end up going back to

1:03:41.880 --> 1:03:42.800
<v Speaker 1>the Christmas party?

1:03:43.120 --> 1:03:45.600
<v Speaker 3>No, that had long gone, but obviously everyone knows and

1:03:45.640 --> 1:03:49.400
<v Speaker 3>it's a very fun, funly talked about a situation in

1:03:49.400 --> 1:03:49.880
<v Speaker 3>the office.

1:03:50.000 --> 1:03:55.040
<v Speaker 1>So yes, oh Karina, you are an absolute vision. Thank

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<v Speaker 1>you so much for taking time today to talk to us.

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<v Speaker 1>We absolutely love you every second of having this chat,

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<v Speaker 1>but also thank you for just being the incredible role

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<v Speaker 1>model and the empowering woman that you are on social media.

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<v Speaker 1>You have created such an inspiring community and we're so

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<v Speaker 1>grateful that you've taken this time to chat to us today.

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<v Speaker 1>Just before we let you go, lastly, we always end

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<v Speaker 1>our episodes with our suck and our sweet for the week,

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<v Speaker 1>which means that it's like your high light and your

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<v Speaker 1>low light, so you get to kick it off.

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<v Speaker 2>What was your suck for this week?

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<v Speaker 3>I think my suck for this week was it's so

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<v Speaker 3>so cute. I just kind of missed my dad. I

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<v Speaker 3>haven't been able to see you, and I know I

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<v Speaker 3>haven't even called him in two days. I normally call

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<v Speaker 3>my mum and dad every day, so I actually kind

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<v Speaker 3>of missed my dad a little bit, so I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 3>try and call him maybe after this podcast. So that's

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<v Speaker 3>my little suck.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and what is your sweet? As part of your week.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, my sweet for the week would probably be our

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<v Speaker 3>recent Molana bikini launch was just really crazy successful and

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<v Speaker 3>the amazing positive feedback we got from our customers was phenomenal.

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<v Speaker 3>And I had customers personally messaging me on Facebook and

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<v Speaker 3>Instagram letting them know that our customer service staff went

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<v Speaker 3>above and beyond to make them happy, and that just

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know. I just told the girls at work

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<v Speaker 3>yesterday how much I really appreciate their time and their effort,

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<v Speaker 3>and I just I feel very honored and lucky to

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<v Speaker 3>have those kind of people around me.

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<v Speaker 2>That's amazing. Karina.

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<v Speaker 1>For everybody who is listening who maybe doesn't follow you

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<v Speaker 1>on social media right now, can you please tell us

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<v Speaker 1>your Instagram handles? Where can they find you?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so you can follow me on at Karina Irbi

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<v Speaker 3>spelled Irby, It's just my name on Instagram and obviously

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<v Speaker 3>Molana is at Molana Underscore Bikini.

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<v Speaker 1>Pritty, give me your second suite. I just didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>what we're going there, Come on, give it to me. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So my suck this week, Okay, my suck would have

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<v Speaker 1>to be I had some news found out some news.

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<v Speaker 1>Let Laura know basically, we found out that the America

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<v Speaker 1>is picking up the Bachelor franchise in Australia.

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<v Speaker 2>This is huge.

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<v Speaker 1>They're gonna put on HBO, Like, that's incredible. The only

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<v Speaker 1>season they're not gonna pick up was the one that

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<v Speaker 1>I was monumentally dumped on, which is a Honey Badger,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just thought, cut a girl a break.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I got.

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<v Speaker 1>I got this text message in britt yesterday and she

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<v Speaker 1>was like, fuck you. You win everything. You're even getting

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<v Speaker 1>your show shown in the States, and I get another

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<v Speaker 1>because Laura season, Morris.

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<v Speaker 2>Season, she gets the hot guy. Don't tell a matter

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<v Speaker 2>acord him hot.

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<v Speaker 1>She gets the hot guy so hitting on my fiance,

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<v Speaker 1>she gets the baby. She gets a season on HBO.

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<v Speaker 1>You sliding to a DMS. I get dumps like no

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<v Speaker 1>one else in Bachelor history. No baby, no boyfriend, no

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<v Speaker 1>HBO series. Are we expected to feel sorry for you?

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<v Speaker 1>What are you doing right now? I'm just telling is

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<v Speaker 1>my second look. It's been a hard week for Britney.

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<v Speaker 3>Rock one too.

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<v Speaker 1>What is your sweet? My sweet is probably two things tied.

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<v Speaker 1>Talking to your Kreina, I've actually just had the funnest

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<v Speaker 1>hour and a half. I've loved it. Thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 1>You're very inspiring. So that's definitely a sweet. My other

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<v Speaker 1>sweet is I lost my dog last week. We had

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<v Speaker 1>to put her down. But I just had this fan,

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<v Speaker 1>like a girl that follows me on Instagram. She just

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<v Speaker 1>she's an amazing artist and out of nowhere, she's like,

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<v Speaker 1>I just drew your dog for you and for your

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<v Speaker 1>dad because I know how much it meant. And I

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<v Speaker 1>sent and she sent it to me. I put on

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<v Speaker 1>my Instagram story. It was incredible. It was so accurate

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<v Speaker 1>of my dog, Lily. Do you know what the smallest Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the smallest piece of kindness from someone I don't even know,

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<v Speaker 1>and it made my day and my whole my dad,

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<v Speaker 1>my family. So I just thought, wow, like going out

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<v Speaker 1>of your way to make someone else feel good. It's

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<v Speaker 1>just she doesn't know how much she's changed my my week.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's it.

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<v Speaker 3>That's so beautiful. I love that I know.

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<v Speaker 2>And what about you, el dog? Oh man? Am I

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<v Speaker 2>starting with my suck? You know the rules? You start

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<v Speaker 2>with your suck.

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<v Speaker 1>Look, I've rely been doing this for a year, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still new to this.

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<v Speaker 2>My suck.

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<v Speaker 1>I've had a really good week, so I don't have

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<v Speaker 1>a suck. So this is gonna sound like the most

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<v Speaker 1>trivial thing that has happened to anyone. I spent a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of time yesterday running around trying to get bits

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<v Speaker 1>and pieces that we didn't have.

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<v Speaker 2>In order to do this zoom meeting. So as much

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<v Speaker 2>as I.

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<v Speaker 1>Fucking love the fact that we've done it and you

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<v Speaker 1>are my highlight, Carena, the running around and like not

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<v Speaker 1>knowing exactly how to do it was like a bit

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<v Speaker 1>of a look, it's some new skill. Let's focus on

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<v Speaker 1>the positives. I now know how to do remote recording,

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<v Speaker 1>so I've learned a new thing. My suite for the week,

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<v Speaker 1>I've really forgotten these things now. I thought I had them.

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<v Speaker 1>At the start of every episode, I'm like, Babes, remember

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<v Speaker 1>your suck, and sweet she's like, yeah, babe, got it,

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<v Speaker 1>and then she forgets it every day. Okay, look, my sweet,

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<v Speaker 1>I am sleep deprived. I have like a baby that

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't sleep very well, so okay, my seat for the

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<v Speaker 1>week is always pretty much revolved around Mally, my sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>For this week, she has been teething and it's been

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<v Speaker 1>a really really stressful time because she's just not sleeping.

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<v Speaker 1>She's pretty irate, but we feel like we're on the

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<v Speaker 1>other side of her first couple of teeth that she's

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<v Speaker 1>pushed out, and she's back to eating, and she's back

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<v Speaker 1>to sleeping better, and she's just a happy baby again,

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<v Speaker 1>which is really I mean, no one cares except for me,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's really important to me.

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<v Speaker 2>I can do no.

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<v Speaker 3>That's great. And you know, as a mummy, it would

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<v Speaker 3>be so hard, and to see your little one crying.

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<v Speaker 2>Always it kills you.

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<v Speaker 1>Just still blows my mind, like how much they take

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<v Speaker 1>over every facet of your life. And I never thought

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<v Speaker 1>that I would be the sort of mum that would

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<v Speaker 1>be like, oh, guys, we're going to talk about my baby.

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<v Speaker 1>He's teething now. But I am exactly that mum and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so fine with it.

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<v Speaker 2>So whatever.

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<v Speaker 3>Absolutely, I think it's great.

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<v Speaker 2>Good for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, Karana, thanks so much for coming on the show today.

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<v Speaker 1>We've absolutely loved having you. Been a blast, loved every second.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you so much for having me on the podcast.

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<v Speaker 3>This was really therapeutic, and I got to admit I

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<v Speaker 3>opened up about a few things that I've never even

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<v Speaker 3>publicly acknowledged, and I want to thank you guys for that.

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<v Speaker 3>And I've had a really fun time talking. I actually

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<v Speaker 3>really don't want it to end. You guys have such

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<v Speaker 3>a great energy together. You guys are a blast. And yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>you've got me hooked on life. You're a podcast. I

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<v Speaker 3>love you guys.

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