1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:02,200 Speaker 1: I think one of the biggest challenges I've had this 2 00:00:02,240 --> 00:00:07,440 Speaker 1: week is just that constant need to be recalibrating with 3 00:00:07,520 --> 00:00:08,840 Speaker 1: the routine and structure. 4 00:00:11,200 --> 00:00:14,000 Speaker 2: It's the Happy Families podcast, the podcast for the time 5 00:00:14,040 --> 00:00:16,040 Speaker 2: poor parent who just wants answers. 6 00:00:16,160 --> 00:00:16,480 Speaker 3: Now. 7 00:00:16,880 --> 00:00:18,680 Speaker 4: Hello, my name's doctor Justin Coulson. 8 00:00:18,720 --> 00:00:20,840 Speaker 2: I'm the author of six books about raising happy families, 9 00:00:20,880 --> 00:00:23,040 Speaker 2: and I'm here with my wife and podcast partner, my 10 00:00:23,079 --> 00:00:24,840 Speaker 2: co host, missus Happy Families, Kylie. 11 00:00:24,880 --> 00:00:27,640 Speaker 4: We're the parents of six daughters and it's Friday. 12 00:00:27,880 --> 00:00:29,080 Speaker 3: We've had some feedback. 13 00:00:29,480 --> 00:00:34,640 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, saying that like it's a concerning We've had. 14 00:00:34,440 --> 00:00:36,400 Speaker 3: Some feed We have had some feedback. 15 00:00:36,720 --> 00:00:38,519 Speaker 2: Well, I like the five star ratings we're getting on 16 00:00:38,520 --> 00:00:40,199 Speaker 2: Apple podcasts. Is it that kind of feedback? 17 00:00:40,640 --> 00:00:41,040 Speaker 3: It's not. 18 00:00:41,800 --> 00:00:42,680 Speaker 4: What's the feedback? 19 00:00:43,360 --> 00:00:46,360 Speaker 3: Well, our nieces have been listening to our podcast. 20 00:00:46,680 --> 00:00:47,800 Speaker 4: They really, yes, they have. 21 00:00:48,159 --> 00:00:55,080 Speaker 1: This is News six, nine and thirteen, right. They said, 22 00:00:55,080 --> 00:00:56,120 Speaker 1: you're too lovey dovey. 23 00:00:56,200 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 2: I'm too loved ah am I really, but how could 24 00:01:01,040 --> 00:01:02,640 Speaker 2: I not be when I'm sitting here by you. 25 00:01:02,920 --> 00:01:06,640 Speaker 4: Ah, that's just for them, just for them. 26 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:09,200 Speaker 1: Well, Happy Friday. I can't believe we've made it to 27 00:01:09,240 --> 00:01:12,039 Speaker 1: an end of another week and it's been full of 28 00:01:12,120 --> 00:01:12,840 Speaker 1: ups and downs. 29 00:01:13,240 --> 00:01:15,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, family life is like that. 30 00:01:15,280 --> 00:01:18,160 Speaker 2: There's a story. This could be a podcast where I 31 00:01:18,160 --> 00:01:21,000 Speaker 2: could tell a story. You like my stories. 32 00:01:21,080 --> 00:01:22,320 Speaker 3: I love your stories. 33 00:01:22,640 --> 00:01:24,880 Speaker 2: There's a story that I love to tell at the 34 00:01:24,920 --> 00:01:27,600 Speaker 2: end of one of my workshops, and I think it's 35 00:01:27,720 --> 00:01:30,800 Speaker 2: pretty much one of my highlight stories. 36 00:01:31,560 --> 00:01:31,800 Speaker 3: Story. 37 00:01:32,000 --> 00:01:34,280 Speaker 1: Let's just get it straight. I shared this story with you, 38 00:01:34,360 --> 00:01:35,639 Speaker 1: so it's actually my story. 39 00:01:35,680 --> 00:01:38,120 Speaker 2: Okay, there's a story that Kylie shared with me that 40 00:01:38,160 --> 00:01:40,000 Speaker 2: now I share at the end of all of my workshops, 41 00:01:40,440 --> 00:01:44,319 Speaker 2: and it sort of highlights what family life is like. 42 00:01:45,319 --> 00:01:47,640 Speaker 2: And maybe that's a maybe we can have storytime Friday. 43 00:01:47,760 --> 00:01:50,600 Speaker 2: So many many many years ago, it's the eighteen hundreds. 44 00:01:50,640 --> 00:01:53,640 Speaker 2: There's the gold rush. Everybody's heading west, story east, or 45 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:55,560 Speaker 2: wherever they're going to find the gold. If you're in 46 00:01:55,600 --> 00:01:57,680 Speaker 2: the United States, they were all heading to California. But 47 00:01:57,880 --> 00:02:00,480 Speaker 2: here in Australia, people were heading to Ballarat and Bendigo 48 00:02:00,480 --> 00:02:03,880 Speaker 2: where the gold rush was on, and the towns those 49 00:02:03,960 --> 00:02:07,200 Speaker 2: rural populations were swelling, with everyone racing off to strike 50 00:02:07,240 --> 00:02:10,280 Speaker 2: a rich and find that buried treasure. One young man 51 00:02:10,480 --> 00:02:13,400 Speaker 2: got caught up in the excitement and left Melbourne so 52 00:02:13,400 --> 00:02:15,480 Speaker 2: that he could race out to the gold fields in Bendigo. 53 00:02:15,560 --> 00:02:19,160 Speaker 2: He sat down by the river and started panning for gold. 54 00:02:19,480 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 2: And while he was panning, these rocks would come into 55 00:02:22,639 --> 00:02:24,520 Speaker 2: his pan and he'd pick them up and think, this 56 00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:26,080 Speaker 2: could be it. This could be the nugget that's going 57 00:02:26,120 --> 00:02:27,760 Speaker 2: to change my life. This could be the nugget that's 58 00:02:27,760 --> 00:02:28,960 Speaker 2: going to make me a millionaire. 59 00:02:30,240 --> 00:02:30,840 Speaker 4: Never happened. 60 00:02:30,960 --> 00:02:32,600 Speaker 2: He just kept on pulling these rocks out of the 61 00:02:32,639 --> 00:02:34,720 Speaker 2: pan and looking at them and discovering that they were 62 00:02:34,720 --> 00:02:36,920 Speaker 2: not gold nuggets at all, And so he'd throw them 63 00:02:36,919 --> 00:02:38,079 Speaker 2: into a pile beside him. 64 00:02:38,080 --> 00:02:39,639 Speaker 4: Some of them were large, some of them were small. 65 00:02:40,040 --> 00:02:42,800 Speaker 2: But eventually the pile became a mound, and the mound 66 00:02:42,880 --> 00:02:48,200 Speaker 2: became well, a little miniature hill beside him. After a 67 00:02:48,240 --> 00:02:52,440 Speaker 2: few months, this young man realized that it had all 68 00:02:52,480 --> 00:02:55,560 Speaker 2: been for nothing. He'd run out of money, he hadn't 69 00:02:55,600 --> 00:02:59,560 Speaker 2: found any gold nuggets, and he was destitute. He had 70 00:02:59,600 --> 00:03:01,919 Speaker 2: no food, he had nothing left. He didn't even have 71 00:03:01,960 --> 00:03:06,040 Speaker 2: any shelter. His shoes were ruined, and he was going 72 00:03:06,120 --> 00:03:08,200 Speaker 2: to have to you know, he was wearing rags. He 73 00:03:08,240 --> 00:03:09,480 Speaker 2: was going to have to go home and ask his 74 00:03:09,520 --> 00:03:12,200 Speaker 2: parents to take him back and beg for support while 75 00:03:12,200 --> 00:03:15,000 Speaker 2: he tried to get his life started all over again. 76 00:03:15,680 --> 00:03:19,359 Speaker 2: So as he's sitting on this riverbank filling despondent and dejected, 77 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:24,560 Speaker 2: a wealthy prospector wanders by comments, it's quite a pile 78 00:03:24,600 --> 00:03:27,840 Speaker 2: of rocks. You've got their son, and continues walking. But 79 00:03:27,919 --> 00:03:30,320 Speaker 2: the young man is not in the mood for being 80 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:32,959 Speaker 2: mocked by the wealthy prospector, and so he calls out, yeah, 81 00:03:32,960 --> 00:03:34,640 Speaker 2: what would you know. I've been here for weeks. I've 82 00:03:34,680 --> 00:03:36,440 Speaker 2: been here for months. I've run out of everything. There's 83 00:03:36,440 --> 00:03:38,440 Speaker 2: no gold in this river. It's all lies. They just 84 00:03:38,480 --> 00:03:42,960 Speaker 2: made it up. The prospector. I guess he thought I'll bite, 85 00:03:43,160 --> 00:03:45,160 Speaker 2: I'll take the bait. So he turns around and says, 86 00:03:45,160 --> 00:03:47,960 Speaker 2: young man, I think he's mistaken. This river is teeming 87 00:03:48,040 --> 00:03:52,080 Speaker 2: with gold. The young man just splashes at the water, 88 00:03:52,200 --> 00:03:54,520 Speaker 2: kicks his foot out at the pile of rocks, says, 89 00:03:54,520 --> 00:03:55,400 Speaker 2: its no gold here. 90 00:03:55,840 --> 00:03:58,000 Speaker 4: I've been looking. I know there's no gold. 91 00:03:58,320 --> 00:04:01,200 Speaker 2: So the prospector wanders over and picks up one of 92 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:04,320 Speaker 2: the rocks in the pile and cracks it on the 93 00:04:04,360 --> 00:04:09,320 Speaker 2: tin of the young man the pan and looks at 94 00:04:09,360 --> 00:04:12,200 Speaker 2: it and says, I think you're mistaken. The rock kind 95 00:04:12,240 --> 00:04:15,160 Speaker 2: of crumbles in his hand, and all of these tiny 96 00:04:15,280 --> 00:04:19,000 Speaker 2: flecks of gold can be seen glinting in the sunlight. 97 00:04:20,279 --> 00:04:22,440 Speaker 2: The prospector says, you're sitting on a pile of gold 98 00:04:22,480 --> 00:04:24,760 Speaker 2: right here. Look at all these gold flecks. And the 99 00:04:24,800 --> 00:04:27,440 Speaker 2: young man responds, I'm not looking for gold, flex I'm 100 00:04:27,480 --> 00:04:29,520 Speaker 2: here looking for nuggets like you've got in your pouch. 101 00:04:29,520 --> 00:04:31,400 Speaker 2: The prospector was wearing this pouch on his belt that 102 00:04:31,520 --> 00:04:35,080 Speaker 2: was bulging with gold. So the prospector kneels down and 103 00:04:35,240 --> 00:04:37,440 Speaker 2: opens up the top of the pouch, inviting the young 104 00:04:37,480 --> 00:04:41,000 Speaker 2: man to look, which he does, and the young man 105 00:04:41,040 --> 00:04:44,400 Speaker 2: discovers that there are no nuggets in that pouch at all, 106 00:04:44,480 --> 00:04:48,039 Speaker 2: and said, the pouch is full of thousands and thousands 107 00:04:48,080 --> 00:04:51,240 Speaker 2: of tiny flecks of gold. And the prospector says to 108 00:04:51,279 --> 00:04:54,640 Speaker 2: the young man, sir, and it's the steady accumulation of 109 00:04:54,680 --> 00:04:59,559 Speaker 2: all of these flecks of gold that has made me wealthy. So, Kylie, 110 00:04:59,600 --> 00:05:02,760 Speaker 2: I think that family life's a lot like that. You know, 111 00:05:02,800 --> 00:05:07,200 Speaker 2: we sit down by the river and we kind of 112 00:05:07,240 --> 00:05:09,960 Speaker 2: expect gold nuggets to be rolling down the river of 113 00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:10,880 Speaker 2: family life. 114 00:05:11,000 --> 00:05:14,039 Speaker 1: Well, you know, you open up a parenting magazine, and 115 00:05:14,080 --> 00:05:17,400 Speaker 1: you've got the pearly whites and the manicured hair while 116 00:05:17,400 --> 00:05:18,760 Speaker 1: they're having a cuddle in bed. 117 00:05:19,000 --> 00:05:21,240 Speaker 2: I love the fact that they're in bed with these 118 00:05:21,279 --> 00:05:23,920 Speaker 2: perfectly crisp linen sheets and their hair has been blow 119 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:26,080 Speaker 2: dried and they're wearing makeup. But they've only just woken up, 120 00:05:26,440 --> 00:05:29,080 Speaker 2: just woken up, and none of them have morning breath. 121 00:05:30,520 --> 00:05:33,680 Speaker 1: Clear those smiles are suggesting they definitely don't have morning breath. 122 00:05:34,000 --> 00:05:36,400 Speaker 2: And so family life, like, I mean, it's just hard. 123 00:05:36,960 --> 00:05:39,480 Speaker 2: You know, it's rocky, and it's bumpy, and it's dirty 124 00:05:39,480 --> 00:05:41,440 Speaker 2: and it's messy, and sometimes it's wet. 125 00:05:42,120 --> 00:05:42,960 Speaker 4: You remember those mornings. 126 00:05:43,000 --> 00:05:44,480 Speaker 2: I mean, our kids are past this now, but do 127 00:05:44,520 --> 00:05:47,479 Speaker 2: you remember those mornings where you'd roll over into a 128 00:05:47,480 --> 00:05:49,960 Speaker 2: wet patch in our bed because one of the kids 129 00:05:50,000 --> 00:05:51,039 Speaker 2: had gotten into. 130 00:05:50,880 --> 00:05:52,880 Speaker 4: Bed and wet our bed as well as their own bed. 131 00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:54,520 Speaker 2: And we'd roll into the wet patch and then your 132 00:05:54,600 --> 00:05:56,840 Speaker 2: hip would be like, oh my goodness, what is this 133 00:05:57,000 --> 00:05:58,560 Speaker 2: wet patch that I've just rolled into? 134 00:05:58,800 --> 00:06:00,880 Speaker 3: I am really glad we're those days. 135 00:06:01,000 --> 00:06:04,320 Speaker 2: Family life's a really, really tough and so as we 136 00:06:04,360 --> 00:06:06,440 Speaker 2: get to Friday, you know, sometimes we talk about what 137 00:06:06,440 --> 00:06:08,360 Speaker 2: we're going to do better tomorrow. Sometimes we talk about 138 00:06:08,400 --> 00:06:09,919 Speaker 2: how we're going to have a great weekend, but I 139 00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:12,920 Speaker 2: just thought it was worth pausing and considering, no matter 140 00:06:12,960 --> 00:06:15,119 Speaker 2: how tough this week has been, what are the gold 141 00:06:15,200 --> 00:06:20,280 Speaker 2: flecks in family life that we've experienced this week and 142 00:06:20,400 --> 00:06:23,520 Speaker 2: what do they teach us about making our families happier. 143 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:24,960 Speaker 4: Let's talk about that in just a second. 144 00:06:25,279 --> 00:06:29,000 Speaker 1: For a happier family, try a Happy Families membership, because 145 00:06:29,040 --> 00:06:31,159 Speaker 1: a happy family does have just happened. 146 00:06:31,320 --> 00:06:35,279 Speaker 2: Details at happy families dot com dot au. It's the 147 00:06:35,279 --> 00:06:38,160 Speaker 2: Happy Families Podcast, the podcast for the time poor parent 148 00:06:38,200 --> 00:06:42,840 Speaker 2: who just wants answers Now, Hello, doctor Justin Colson and 149 00:06:43,120 --> 00:06:46,880 Speaker 2: missus Happy Families Kylie with me. Let's talk about these 150 00:06:46,920 --> 00:06:50,560 Speaker 2: ups and downs, these challenging moments, and any gold flex. 151 00:06:50,200 --> 00:06:53,160 Speaker 4: That we've experienced this week. How do we find them? 152 00:06:53,400 --> 00:06:55,440 Speaker 1: I think one of the biggest challenges I've had this 153 00:06:55,480 --> 00:07:00,720 Speaker 1: week is just that constant need to be recalibrating with 154 00:07:00,760 --> 00:07:02,080 Speaker 1: the routine and structure. 155 00:07:02,160 --> 00:07:03,800 Speaker 3: We all know what needs to happen. 156 00:07:03,880 --> 00:07:05,000 Speaker 4: Yes, so frustrating. 157 00:07:05,160 --> 00:07:08,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, it just seems like there's just this constant need 158 00:07:08,560 --> 00:07:11,840 Speaker 1: to kind of, you know, bring everybody back in and 159 00:07:12,600 --> 00:07:16,920 Speaker 1: recalibrate and reconfirm what needs to be done so that 160 00:07:16,960 --> 00:07:17,760 Speaker 1: we can move forward. 161 00:07:18,000 --> 00:07:19,960 Speaker 3: It can be really exhausting as a parent. 162 00:07:20,000 --> 00:07:21,480 Speaker 2: Because the kids know what to do, we know what 163 00:07:21,520 --> 00:07:22,760 Speaker 2: to do, we know what time we're supposed to go 164 00:07:22,800 --> 00:07:24,200 Speaker 2: to bed, and we're supposed to all be nice to 165 00:07:24,240 --> 00:07:25,760 Speaker 2: each other and all that sort of thing, and yet 166 00:07:26,160 --> 00:07:28,240 Speaker 2: it's hard to make it happen day in and day out, 167 00:07:28,440 --> 00:07:29,440 Speaker 2: just being consistent. 168 00:07:29,680 --> 00:07:31,400 Speaker 4: So what's the gold fleck to come from that? 169 00:07:32,080 --> 00:07:34,720 Speaker 1: Well, the gold fleck this week in relation to that, 170 00:07:34,920 --> 00:07:36,880 Speaker 1: was that we were able to sit down with the 171 00:07:36,960 --> 00:07:40,280 Speaker 1: kids and we had another family meeting. 172 00:07:40,160 --> 00:07:41,840 Speaker 4: What's going well, what's not? What we're going to do 173 00:07:41,880 --> 00:07:42,320 Speaker 4: about it? 174 00:07:43,280 --> 00:07:47,240 Speaker 1: And we pulled out the job list and acknowledged that 175 00:07:47,400 --> 00:07:49,559 Speaker 1: everybody had kind of left it up to mum this week, 176 00:07:50,480 --> 00:07:55,200 Speaker 1: and we reconfirmed what everybody needed to do, and within 177 00:07:55,240 --> 00:07:58,800 Speaker 1: a couple of hours the house was spotless and everyone 178 00:07:59,000 --> 00:08:03,640 Speaker 1: had just chipped in without complaint and did what was required. 179 00:08:04,240 --> 00:08:05,360 Speaker 1: It just felt great. 180 00:08:05,720 --> 00:08:07,800 Speaker 4: I think that's a really central thing, isn't it? 181 00:08:07,840 --> 00:08:10,000 Speaker 2: Just remembering that the kids actually are awesome and they 182 00:08:10,000 --> 00:08:11,760 Speaker 2: want to do the right thing, but sometimes they get 183 00:08:11,800 --> 00:08:13,520 Speaker 2: caught up in their thing while we're getting caught up 184 00:08:13,560 --> 00:08:17,040 Speaker 2: in our thing and it just kind of backfires a bit. 185 00:08:17,080 --> 00:08:19,160 Speaker 2: But you have those moments and you're like, yeah, this 186 00:08:19,280 --> 00:08:20,680 Speaker 2: is working, this is good. 187 00:08:20,800 --> 00:08:21,920 Speaker 4: You know what my goldfleck was. 188 00:08:22,560 --> 00:08:26,920 Speaker 2: Tell me, we went and made a late birthday purchase, 189 00:08:27,240 --> 00:08:29,240 Speaker 2: you and I and we bought a couple of I mean, 190 00:08:29,240 --> 00:08:30,320 Speaker 2: there's no other word for it. 191 00:08:30,360 --> 00:08:32,320 Speaker 4: They do, dads. They're things that were not on our budget. 192 00:08:32,320 --> 00:08:35,240 Speaker 2: They're things that we really are probably going to pay 193 00:08:35,280 --> 00:08:37,360 Speaker 2: the price for many times over because we bought them. 194 00:08:37,360 --> 00:08:39,599 Speaker 2: But we bought a couple of electric scooters. And just 195 00:08:39,640 --> 00:08:41,600 Speaker 2: seeing how much fun the kids are having. I mean 196 00:08:41,640 --> 00:08:43,280 Speaker 2: they're not even for the kids, right, but the kids 197 00:08:43,320 --> 00:08:46,680 Speaker 2: are fully addicted to them, and I can just see 198 00:08:47,760 --> 00:08:51,080 Speaker 2: the goldflick for me is seeing the kids smile. It's 199 00:08:51,160 --> 00:08:54,200 Speaker 2: really really simple stuff and it doesn't require a scooter. 200 00:08:54,320 --> 00:08:55,959 Speaker 2: It could be some lego blocks, or it can be 201 00:08:56,040 --> 00:08:58,360 Speaker 2: sitting down and watching a movie. It can be pulling 202 00:08:58,440 --> 00:09:02,280 Speaker 2: some old, old called popcorn kernels out of the pantry 203 00:09:02,320 --> 00:09:04,960 Speaker 2: and cooking them in some oil on the oven on 204 00:09:05,000 --> 00:09:06,440 Speaker 2: the stove. I should say I'm not very good in 205 00:09:06,440 --> 00:09:09,240 Speaker 2: the kitchen obviously, but it's just seeing the kids light 206 00:09:09,320 --> 00:09:10,040 Speaker 2: up and smile. 207 00:09:10,679 --> 00:09:10,800 Speaker 1: That. 208 00:09:10,840 --> 00:09:13,440 Speaker 4: I just to me, that's I don't know if there's 209 00:09:13,480 --> 00:09:14,439 Speaker 4: anything better than that. 210 00:09:15,000 --> 00:09:17,280 Speaker 1: Well, the highlight out of that, I think is just 211 00:09:17,360 --> 00:09:19,000 Speaker 1: that one or one time that we've got to spend 212 00:09:19,040 --> 00:09:22,240 Speaker 1: with the kids in that kind of out. 213 00:09:22,080 --> 00:09:23,439 Speaker 3: Of the box experience. 214 00:09:23,800 --> 00:09:27,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, with them, I really enjoyed seeing their faces light 215 00:09:27,440 --> 00:09:29,480 Speaker 1: up as they tried a new new skill. 216 00:09:29,840 --> 00:09:31,839 Speaker 2: So the take home message from this podcast is a 217 00:09:31,840 --> 00:09:36,000 Speaker 2: pretty simple one today, and that is that family life 218 00:09:36,000 --> 00:09:38,560 Speaker 2: can be challenging, but there's going to be something to 219 00:09:38,720 --> 00:09:40,960 Speaker 2: reflect on, something that's reflective. 220 00:09:41,080 --> 00:09:41,240 Speaker 3: You know. 221 00:09:41,520 --> 00:09:42,880 Speaker 4: The gold flecks are there. 222 00:09:43,160 --> 00:09:45,400 Speaker 2: We've just got to look for them, find them and 223 00:09:45,640 --> 00:09:48,880 Speaker 2: celebrate them, because not only can family life be really challenging, 224 00:09:48,920 --> 00:09:51,520 Speaker 2: but can it can also be the most rewarding thing 225 00:09:51,800 --> 00:09:52,400 Speaker 2: in the world. 226 00:09:52,800 --> 00:09:54,720 Speaker 1: Well, I guess when I think back to that story, 227 00:09:55,160 --> 00:09:56,640 Speaker 1: the thing that stands out to me is who do 228 00:09:56,679 --> 00:09:58,240 Speaker 1: I want to be in that story? Do I want 229 00:09:58,280 --> 00:10:01,360 Speaker 1: to be the young prospector who just is collecting this 230 00:10:01,440 --> 00:10:01,800 Speaker 1: pile of. 231 00:10:01,880 --> 00:10:03,880 Speaker 3: Rocks and that's what he sees, Oh, you're good. 232 00:10:04,120 --> 00:10:05,920 Speaker 1: Or do I want to be the old prospector who 233 00:10:05,960 --> 00:10:09,880 Speaker 1: recognizes that those rocks are actually going to provide him 234 00:10:09,920 --> 00:10:10,840 Speaker 1: with the flex. 235 00:10:11,360 --> 00:10:13,880 Speaker 2: There are thousands and thousands of flecks of gold and 236 00:10:13,920 --> 00:10:16,480 Speaker 2: if we find them, if we look for them, they'll 237 00:10:16,480 --> 00:10:17,240 Speaker 2: make us wealthy. 238 00:10:18,200 --> 00:10:20,439 Speaker 4: Love it ah, so so much, so. 239 00:10:20,480 --> 00:10:22,880 Speaker 2: Much joy there. Hey, it's Halloween this weekend. We're not 240 00:10:23,480 --> 00:10:25,319 Speaker 2: huge onnor that. We do like the idea of community. 241 00:10:25,360 --> 00:10:26,920 Speaker 2: We don't love the idea of the kids filling up 242 00:10:26,920 --> 00:10:29,719 Speaker 2: on junk food. If your family is doing Halloween. 243 00:10:29,600 --> 00:10:31,520 Speaker 4: Good luck with that. I hope, I hope that you 244 00:10:31,559 --> 00:10:32,439 Speaker 4: have a nice weekend. 245 00:10:32,600 --> 00:10:35,120 Speaker 1: Well, I actually I've done something really cool. Yeah, I've 246 00:10:35,120 --> 00:10:36,840 Speaker 1: found somebody who's holding a Halloween party. 247 00:10:36,840 --> 00:10:37,800 Speaker 3: I don't have to do anything. 248 00:10:38,120 --> 00:10:38,840 Speaker 4: Really, are we going? 249 00:10:38,960 --> 00:10:39,280 Speaker 1: We are? 250 00:10:39,440 --> 00:10:39,560 Speaker 2: Ok? 251 00:10:40,400 --> 00:10:41,599 Speaker 4: I'm going to be the best. Do I have to 252 00:10:41,679 --> 00:10:43,600 Speaker 4: dress up? Ah? 253 00:10:43,640 --> 00:10:45,559 Speaker 2: Well, I'm sure that we can find a gold flex somewhere. 254 00:10:45,600 --> 00:10:48,760 Speaker 2: If they have good candy, good lollies andy, and they're 255 00:10:48,840 --> 00:10:49,839 Speaker 2: good candy. 256 00:10:49,720 --> 00:10:51,520 Speaker 4: Well we'll have a good Halloween. We'll see. 257 00:10:52,040 --> 00:10:54,679 Speaker 2: We so much appreciate you listening to the podcast. If 258 00:10:54,679 --> 00:10:56,520 Speaker 2: you've got any feedback for us, if you want us 259 00:10:56,520 --> 00:10:59,880 Speaker 2: to know stuff, send us an email. Podcasts at happy 260 00:11:00,080 --> 00:11:03,239 Speaker 2: families dot com dot you. 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