WEBVTT - Ask Uncut - HELP! My husband cheated. 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:12.840 This episode was recorded on Cameragle Land. Hi guys, and 0:00:12.920 --> 0:00:14.440 welcome back to another episode of Life. 0:00:14.440 --> 0:00:17.880 I'm cant, I'm Laura, I'm Bretnany, and this is asking 0:00:18.040 --> 0:00:20.720 can't where we answer You're deep, you're dark, and you're 0:00:20.720 --> 0:00:21.520 burnie questions. 0:00:21.680 --> 0:00:22.680 I am not coping. 0:00:22.800 --> 0:00:25.760 Sorry with how cold it is coming back from Italy, 0:00:25.840 --> 0:00:26.680 coming back from BALI. 0:00:26.720 --> 0:00:27.200 I don't want to. 0:00:27.200 --> 0:00:29.400 Brag, but that's where I was for my wedding. I 0:00:29.480 --> 0:00:31.880 realized that that is not relatable right now, and I'm sorry. 0:00:31.920 --> 0:00:33.360 I'm gonna apologize for what I just said. 0:00:33.800 --> 0:00:34.559 I'm not coping. 0:00:34.640 --> 0:00:37.520 My house is so cold that I have to wear 0:00:37.960 --> 0:00:42.400 a beanie, thermal socks, thermals, a puffer, and a blanket 0:00:42.720 --> 0:00:44.680 just to survive in my loundroom. 0:00:44.800 --> 0:00:47.720 I don't know if pregnancy makes you run hotter like, 0:00:47.760 --> 0:00:48.240 I'm not sure. 0:00:48.400 --> 0:00:50.519 Maybe that's a thing. Yeah, google it. 0:00:50.720 --> 0:00:55.160 I don't want to spread misinformation, doctor Laura, but I 0:00:55.280 --> 0:00:57.639 like everybody was texting while we were waving, like. 0:00:57.600 --> 0:00:59.080 Oh god, it's so cod here. 0:00:59.080 --> 0:01:01.200 I know that Ballet's so And then I got back 0:01:01.200 --> 0:01:03.560 here and I was surprised by how not cold I am, 0:01:04.040 --> 0:01:05.200 Like I have nothing underneath this. 0:01:06.120 --> 0:01:08.679 I'm just running around in a nice little like loose knit. 0:01:08.959 --> 0:01:10.800 Do you know how I know that you're cold? Though? 0:01:11.000 --> 0:01:13.160 The way that you can tell that Laura is cold 0:01:13.280 --> 0:01:15.360 or that it's cold outside is that you wear clothed 0:01:15.400 --> 0:01:17.160 in shoes. I reckon, I've seen you wear clothes and 0:01:17.200 --> 0:01:19.000 shoes maybe six times in my life. 0:01:19.040 --> 0:01:21.080 I only own one pair of clothed in shoes. 0:01:21.160 --> 0:01:24.160 And then they're like, totally, I don't have socks on you, 0:01:24.240 --> 0:01:26.119 so I have a rank. 0:01:26.360 --> 0:01:27.240 I can't wear. 0:01:27.720 --> 0:01:30.360 You can't wear sneakers like that are the leather. 0:01:30.480 --> 0:01:31.200 I don't know what they are. 0:01:31.280 --> 0:01:33.320 Their leather sneak is with no sot. 0:01:33.200 --> 0:01:35.440 A rough morning and I looked like I got dressed 0:01:35.480 --> 0:01:39.160 in a wheelibin. But that's okay, but cute, it's part. 0:01:39.200 --> 0:01:42.240 It's yeah, I atu. I woke up to Lola like 0:01:42.280 --> 0:01:44.080 she was having a real moment. So I woke up 0:01:44.080 --> 0:01:45.920 to her crying and I walked into the bedroom. I 0:01:45.920 --> 0:01:47.560 thought she was sick, and I was like, what's happening? 0:01:47.560 --> 0:01:49.160 Like you know, because it was a. 0:01:49.120 --> 0:01:50.080 Cry barley belly. 0:01:50.240 --> 0:01:52.280 It was while she's been saying she's got a sort tumming. 0:01:52.320 --> 0:01:53.840 I don't know. It was like, what's going on? Girlfriend? 0:01:54.760 --> 0:01:58.840 She cried for between fifteen to twenty minutes on repeat, 0:01:58.920 --> 0:02:02.320 saying I I don't want to be asleep anymore. And 0:02:02.360 --> 0:02:04.360 I was like, god, friend, the fact that you're yelling 0:02:04.360 --> 0:02:07.360 at me would indicate that you are indeed awake, unless 0:02:07.360 --> 0:02:08.240 she's sleepwalking. 0:02:08.360 --> 0:02:09.680 I used to do that sleep talking. 0:02:09.880 --> 0:02:11.040 She was completely awake. 0:02:11.120 --> 0:02:13.240 I think you know when your body is so tired 0:02:13.520 --> 0:02:15.840 and you are so tired, but you're like, just want 0:02:15.880 --> 0:02:17.520 to get up and get going, but you can't because 0:02:17.520 --> 0:02:19.760 you're exhausted. But she's, as a four year old, didn't 0:02:19.760 --> 0:02:22.639 have the vocab to explain it, so she just kept saying. 0:02:22.880 --> 0:02:25.359 I don't want to be sleep anymore. Then when I 0:02:25.440 --> 0:02:26.880 was like, you're awake, she then would hit me. 0:02:26.919 --> 0:02:28.160 And then I was like, see you can hit me, 0:02:28.200 --> 0:02:30.240 so you're awake and this was my morning. 0:02:30.560 --> 0:02:32.880 So give me some slack about the socks, all right. 0:02:33.200 --> 0:02:34.840 I won't because they'll stink by the end of the day. 0:02:35.520 --> 0:02:38.919 But it's so funny that, like this is not breaking news, 0:02:38.960 --> 0:02:41.800 but when you're a kid, all the things that you hate, 0:02:41.840 --> 0:02:43.680 it's all you want to do when you're an adult, 0:02:43.680 --> 0:02:45.799 like put me to sleep, put me to bed, tuck 0:02:45.880 --> 0:02:46.839 me in, and let me sleep. 0:02:46.919 --> 0:02:47.919 That's all I'd want right now. 0:02:47.960 --> 0:02:49.360 She was like, I don't want to be asleep, and 0:02:49.400 --> 0:02:50.800 I was like, I don't want to be awake. 0:02:50.880 --> 0:02:53.480 Yeah, I particularly I'm seeing Lola upset. 0:02:53.480 --> 0:02:55.200 At the airport in Bali. Laura and I caught the 0:02:55.200 --> 0:02:58.280 same flight back. It was a genuine sadness. It was 0:02:58.280 --> 0:03:02.040 like the post holiday blues hit Lola anybody else. 0:03:02.560 --> 0:03:04.680 And she was so sad to be leaving. 0:03:04.720 --> 0:03:06.280 And she was like, I just don't want to not 0:03:06.320 --> 0:03:07.079 be on holidays. 0:03:07.080 --> 0:03:08.560 And I was like same, babe. 0:03:08.680 --> 0:03:10.680 Oh my god, she's never recovered. It's been a week. 0:03:11.000 --> 0:03:13.359 Speaking of I was gonna take so many segways. 0:03:13.360 --> 0:03:15.640 Then there's so many places to go. Okay, let me 0:03:15.680 --> 0:03:18.560 go back. Lola was so funny. Well, Lola and Marley 0:03:18.600 --> 0:03:20.639 in the pool at Barley. So we had a recovery 0:03:20.680 --> 0:03:23.240 session after the wedding. The day after the wedding, everyone 0:03:23.280 --> 0:03:24.800 just came. It was just a pool party. It was 0:03:24.840 --> 0:03:26.280 so fun, super chill. 0:03:26.440 --> 0:03:30.679 We had burgers, fries, whatever, and the girls had it. 0:03:30.840 --> 0:03:31.919 I say that it's important. 0:03:31.960 --> 0:03:35.640 So I just smashed some burgers and Lola comes up 0:03:35.680 --> 0:03:36.640 to me in the pool. 0:03:37.080 --> 0:03:39.640 She's like, you have a baby in your belly. And 0:03:39.680 --> 0:03:42.040 I was like what. I was like, sorry, what? And 0:03:42.040 --> 0:03:44.720 then I started being like, have I in too many burgers? 0:03:45.000 --> 0:03:46.280 I bet. 0:03:47.800 --> 0:03:50.320 No, I didn't, But it was she had so much confidence. 0:03:50.320 --> 0:03:51.880 And I was like, do you know something I don't know, 0:03:52.040 --> 0:03:53.520 like what Uncle. 0:03:53.240 --> 0:03:55.520 Panna's put in, what Uncle bann has done to me 0:03:55.600 --> 0:03:56.119 last night? 0:03:56.600 --> 0:03:57.560 No, I was like, what do you mean. 0:03:57.600 --> 0:03:59.280 She's like, yeah, the baby in there. She's like poking 0:03:59.320 --> 0:04:00.960 my belly, I said, talk about that. 0:04:01.120 --> 0:04:03.920 She goes because uncle Ben did this, and then she 0:04:03.960 --> 0:04:07.800 got down on one knee and opened her hands like 0:04:07.880 --> 0:04:08.640 she was proposing. 0:04:08.760 --> 0:04:09.080 She goes. 0:04:09.600 --> 0:04:11.800 She goes because uncle Ben went like this, will you 0:04:11.880 --> 0:04:14.160 marry me? And then she did it? And then she goes, 0:04:14.200 --> 0:04:15.520 So now there's a baby in your belly. 0:04:15.560 --> 0:04:18.720 And I was like, I was like, there's no one. 0:04:19.400 --> 0:04:21.640 We haven't gone to the birds and the bees say yet. 0:04:21.680 --> 0:04:22.840 I'm sure you can tell. 0:04:23.760 --> 0:04:24.719 It was so fine. 0:04:24.720 --> 0:04:28.120 I excited to find out when Blola realizes that that 0:04:28.279 --> 0:04:29.880 situation was reversed for her. 0:04:30.240 --> 0:04:31.839 She was at the wedding of her parents. 0:04:31.839 --> 0:04:33.640 Oh yeah, when she don't have to figure it out. 0:04:33.720 --> 0:04:35.040 Well, she hasn't quite figured that out. 0:04:35.040 --> 0:04:36.919 Also, there's nothing more humbling than the day when your 0:04:37.000 --> 0:04:39.520 kid asks you, mommy, I know that there's a baby 0:04:39.640 --> 0:04:42.320 in your belly, but how did it get in there? 0:04:42.520 --> 0:04:45.800 And you're like, well, let's strap on it. It's called 0:04:45.839 --> 0:04:49.120 the stalk flies in the sky. I really, I still 0:04:49.120 --> 0:04:50.760 don't know the best way to approach that. I just 0:04:50.839 --> 0:04:52.920 kind of steamrolled to another conversation. I was like five 0:04:52.960 --> 0:04:54.160 and four too young? 0:04:54.600 --> 0:04:55.159 Too young? 0:04:55.320 --> 0:04:57.120 No, too young. I think you can say I don't 0:04:57.120 --> 0:04:58.560 think you lie about the stalk. 0:04:58.640 --> 0:05:00.200 No, I didn't say that. Yeah, but I. 0:05:00.200 --> 0:05:02.039 Think you can just say it's what happens when like 0:05:02.279 --> 0:05:03.279 two people I was. 0:05:03.279 --> 0:05:05.039 Gonna say, love each other, but it definitely happens without 0:05:05.040 --> 0:05:05.960 loving each other as well. 0:05:06.040 --> 0:05:06.440 I don't know. 0:05:06.520 --> 0:05:07.200 You just say yeah. 0:05:07.240 --> 0:05:08.560 It's like I don't know, I don't know. 0:05:08.640 --> 0:05:10.120 You ask me the one price to thank you that 0:05:10.279 --> 0:05:13.400 was zero help. Thank you for being absolutely no help 0:05:13.400 --> 0:05:13.880 on the matter. 0:05:14.839 --> 0:05:16.720 Do you getting devised and had subscribed to the week? 0:05:16.880 --> 0:05:17.760 Let's do it all right. 0:05:17.920 --> 0:05:20.479 I'm gonna go first, and that is because I had 0:05:20.720 --> 0:05:23.680 so many questions. And I'm not just saying that as 0:05:23.720 --> 0:05:26.679 some influencer online. It's like, hey, guys, that's so many questions. 0:05:26.720 --> 0:05:31.359 This is most music no one ever asked it's so far. Okay, 0:05:31.480 --> 0:05:33.440 I'm not a handbag person. I don't have a lot 0:05:33.480 --> 0:05:35.800 of handbags. I have like a very functional one which 0:05:35.839 --> 0:05:37.520 I use a lot. You guys know, that's the by 0:05:37.560 --> 0:05:38.640 main one, and I use that. 0:05:38.640 --> 0:05:39.200 All the time. 0:05:39.279 --> 0:05:39.960 I know what you're going. 0:05:40.000 --> 0:05:42.000 But then I have a couple of good ones which 0:05:42.000 --> 0:05:45.560 I use for weddings. I use the same one over 0:05:45.600 --> 0:05:45.960 and over. 0:05:46.520 --> 0:05:47.719 And I have a couple of good ones that I 0:05:47.720 --> 0:05:49.760 would use if I need like an oversized bag to 0:05:49.800 --> 0:05:51.880 go out. And they're all from the same brand. So 0:05:51.920 --> 0:05:54.000 they're from a brand. It's an Australian label and it's 0:05:54.000 --> 0:05:56.280 called Vistercy. Am I saying it right, Brick, because I 0:05:56.320 --> 0:05:57.520 know you have a lot of them. Yeah, I have 0:05:57.560 --> 0:06:00.400 the same bags you. I have loads of them Forstercy 0:06:00.480 --> 0:06:04.760 and their Italian lever really well made Australian label, and 0:06:04.800 --> 0:06:07.160 I think the thing that's like the most appealing about 0:06:07.160 --> 0:06:09.680 them is that they're also very well priced pointed, Like 0:06:09.720 --> 0:06:11.680 the price point on them is great for how good 0:06:11.800 --> 0:06:12.560 quality they are. 0:06:12.680 --> 0:06:14.440 The one that I've got right there is vests. 0:06:14.800 --> 0:06:17.640 Yeah, and I mean look, and it's not just me. 0:06:17.760 --> 0:06:20.080 I've gotten Ellie, my mother and Laura is now on them. 0:06:20.160 --> 0:06:21.640 She's got two Vastursy bags. 0:06:21.839 --> 0:06:24.800 And it was only off the back of your wedding Briut, 0:06:24.839 --> 0:06:26.839 but actually the pre wedding, the white party that you 0:06:26.880 --> 0:06:29.440 had the day before, where I posted what I was wearing, 0:06:29.440 --> 0:06:31.159 I had so many people asking about the bag that 0:06:31.240 --> 0:06:32.640 I had that I thought, you know what, this is 0:06:32.640 --> 0:06:34.039 actually a brand that I think a lot of people 0:06:34.120 --> 0:06:37.720 need to get around that specific one is not available anymore. 0:06:39.240 --> 0:06:41.400 Yeah, it's really old. 0:06:41.800 --> 0:06:43.920 Also, Laura's taken it to any event we've ever been 0:06:43.960 --> 0:06:46.839 to her one bag and Forsterce's listening block here ears. 0:06:46.880 --> 0:06:48.400 But I've seen Laura throw. 0:06:48.200 --> 0:06:50.080 That thing like where's a photo and she doesn't want 0:06:50.120 --> 0:06:51.120 it in it or something, or. 0:06:51.040 --> 0:06:54.479 She's she's like shows it around. It's like so durable. 0:06:54.560 --> 0:06:57.039 It doesn't have a single mark on it, considering how 0:06:57.080 --> 0:06:59.840 I've treated it. And yeah, for something that I used 0:06:59.880 --> 0:07:03.039 so often and I genuinely think the quality is amazing. 0:07:03.279 --> 0:07:05.599 Like if you're looking for a great new bag, whether it's. 0:07:05.400 --> 0:07:07.520 For work or for that one thing that you're going 0:07:07.600 --> 0:07:10.280 to take out on repeat with every outfit, I recommend it. 0:07:10.320 --> 0:07:13.480 So it's forestersy Australian brand, and yeah, you can just 0:07:13.480 --> 0:07:14.040 get it online. 0:07:14.120 --> 0:07:16.040 Yeah, I get compliments on this bat. You guys can't 0:07:16.080 --> 0:07:17.120 see it? Should I hold it up for you? 0:07:17.160 --> 0:07:17.360 Sure? 0:07:17.520 --> 0:07:21.679 Just in case, just go just look at it. It's beautiful. 0:07:21.760 --> 0:07:24.280 It's like a Mary Poppins bag though it's not that huge, 0:07:24.320 --> 0:07:25.960 but fits so much in it. 0:07:26.000 --> 0:07:27.120 Cele real surprise package. 0:07:27.120 --> 0:07:31.040 Anyway, My vibe this week is a show that I'm 0:07:31.080 --> 0:07:34.080 obsessed with. It has just come out on Apple TV 0:07:34.640 --> 0:07:35.960 and has Owen Wilson in it. 0:07:36.120 --> 0:07:38.160 Who I love Owen Wilson personally. I feel like you 0:07:38.280 --> 0:07:40.400 either love him or hate him. But it's called stick. 0:07:41.320 --> 0:07:43.280 I feel like Owen hasn't done anything in a long time, 0:07:43.320 --> 0:07:45.440 and he doesn't do TV shows. When you think about it, 0:07:45.440 --> 0:07:47.239 he's always just like rom com movies. 0:07:47.360 --> 0:07:48.200 I just feel like he's. 0:07:48.040 --> 0:07:50.920 That character who plays the same character in every single thing. 0:07:50.960 --> 0:07:53.640 I like him too, but you know what you're getting. 0:07:53.520 --> 0:07:55.360 Well, this one's a little bit different. 0:07:55.400 --> 0:07:58.280 But he's a It is a comedy still, but he 0:07:58.600 --> 0:08:04.280 is a like washed up retired professional golfer who has 0:08:04.320 --> 0:08:06.680 just lost his way in life. He had one big 0:08:06.720 --> 0:08:09.520 breakdown and he's trying to get back on his feet. 0:08:09.560 --> 0:08:11.960 He finds a young kid that he sees some talent 0:08:12.080 --> 0:08:13.800 in but he's a bit off the rails too, like 0:08:13.880 --> 0:08:15.360 doesn't want to be involved in golf. 0:08:15.760 --> 0:08:18.240 And it's only they're releasing week by week. 0:08:18.280 --> 0:08:20.280 There's four episodes out at the moment, but it's just 0:08:20.280 --> 0:08:21.840 like coming out week by week from now. But the 0:08:21.840 --> 0:08:25.280 first four Ben and I were just like hooked watched NonStop. 0:08:25.400 --> 0:08:26.240 Who was the actor in this? 0:08:26.520 --> 0:08:32.200 Alan Wilson, Oh, I am you know the particular loo 0:08:32.280 --> 0:08:34.560 blonde hair, looks like he's had a broken nose. 0:08:35.320 --> 0:08:39.960 Everything he did one where he's a heroin addict or something. 0:08:40.000 --> 0:08:42.800 At one point, I think you're thinking Matthew mcconoughey. I'm 0:08:42.840 --> 0:08:46.040 thinking him. I know exactly. Oh, he's also in had 0:08:46.280 --> 0:08:46.800 Is Guntender. 0:08:46.880 --> 0:08:48.840 He's in a lot. He's a big Hollywood actor. 0:08:49.720 --> 0:08:52.320 He's the main Yeah, he's the main guy from Hadelo's Gutend. 0:08:52.559 --> 0:08:53.840 Isn't that Matthew McConaughey. 0:08:54.880 --> 0:08:56.600 No, I thought it was him, wasn't it. I'm pretty 0:08:56.600 --> 0:08:57.280 sure it's Matthew. 0:09:01.400 --> 0:09:04.520 But I see where you're going, Laura. They look very similar. 0:09:04.559 --> 0:09:07.240 So bad they look similar. I thought I got that one. 0:09:07.320 --> 0:09:09.280 I think more so they sound kind of similar. 0:09:09.520 --> 0:09:11.200 But I just really really like it. 0:09:11.240 --> 0:09:13.360 I really like seeing him in something different like a 0:09:13.400 --> 0:09:16.360 TV series, and it's just I haven't seen anything like it. 0:09:16.400 --> 0:09:17.280 I feel like a lot. 0:09:17.120 --> 0:09:20.600 Of streamers now pump out very similar things in a 0:09:20.600 --> 0:09:22.680 slightly different way. I just haven't seen anything like this. 0:09:23.240 --> 0:09:25.160 So it's called stick Apple TV. 0:09:25.640 --> 0:09:27.280 If you have Apple. Can't recommend it enough. 0:09:28.080 --> 0:09:30.360 My vibe this week is something that I truly cannot 0:09:30.360 --> 0:09:31.679 believe I'm actually vibing. 0:09:31.960 --> 0:09:33.840 It is Pierce Morgan Uncensored. 0:09:34.440 --> 0:09:38.400 Bear with me. I have very strong opinions on Piers Morgan. 0:09:38.440 --> 0:09:40.840 I assume that most people listen to this podcast probably 0:09:40.840 --> 0:09:42.480 have similar opinions on Piers Morgan. 0:09:42.920 --> 0:09:45.240 However, this was with the person who I was shot 0:09:45.280 --> 0:09:45.760 to the top. 0:09:45.640 --> 0:09:48.120 Of my list of celebrity favorites, like he's so far 0:09:48.200 --> 0:09:51.160 in my past basket. It is Prof g Or Scott Galloway. 0:09:51.280 --> 0:09:55.360 I've recommended his Prof Gene Markets podcast before. That's the 0:09:55.360 --> 0:09:56.880 one he does. I kind of said that it was 0:09:56.920 --> 0:10:00.640 like a good early access to the finance well, but 0:10:00.760 --> 0:10:03.160 what I liked about it is that it's for me 0:10:03.360 --> 0:10:05.280 that podcast is a bit of a crossover of like 0:10:05.320 --> 0:10:08.599 pop culture and markets, and I've kind of realized that 0:10:08.640 --> 0:10:11.360 all of these things are super interconnected. And with this 0:10:11.480 --> 0:10:13.920 drama that I'm sure we all heard about to do 0:10:13.960 --> 0:10:16.839 with elong Musk and Trump and America, Like, this is 0:10:16.880 --> 0:10:18.480 the main time that I can think of where I 0:10:18.480 --> 0:10:22.640 think pop culture, finance, and politics has all kind of 0:10:22.880 --> 0:10:24.120 just mished into one. 0:10:24.480 --> 0:10:26.480 The ven diagram is much closer than it used to 0:10:26.520 --> 0:10:27.120 be totally. 0:10:27.120 --> 0:10:29.040 It's like a complete circle at the moment. 0:10:29.360 --> 0:10:31.800 And I was really I guess I was just quite 0:10:31.800 --> 0:10:34.640 fascinated in a really negative way to see the fallout 0:10:34.679 --> 0:10:36.840 of how this happened and kind of see how it's 0:10:36.880 --> 0:10:40.000 impacting so many people, particularly in America at the moment. 0:10:40.400 --> 0:10:43.400 But this debate that happened on Piers Morgan Uncensored, which 0:10:43.440 --> 0:10:47.560 is a YouTube channel. It's titled Musk Derangement Syndrome, Doge 0:10:47.640 --> 0:10:52.280 Legacy Debate Scott Galloway versus Kevin O'Leary. So, Scott Galloway, 0:10:52.360 --> 0:10:54.439 this is prof g that I'm kind of obsessed with. 0:10:54.559 --> 0:10:58.600 He is like a moderate progressive. He does not like 0:10:58.640 --> 0:10:59.200 Donald Trump. 0:10:59.280 --> 0:11:00.040 He often refers to. 0:11:00.200 --> 0:11:02.400 Him as a fucking idiot on his own podcast, and 0:11:02.440 --> 0:11:05.720 he hates Elon mask Well, yeah, he doesn't respect Elon. 0:11:05.960 --> 0:11:09.320 And what I really liked about this kind of debate 0:11:09.360 --> 0:11:11.080 I guess a lot of people in the comments were 0:11:11.120 --> 0:11:15.680 saying that it was the most civilized and thought provoking 0:11:15.720 --> 0:11:17.559 debate that they had seen on Piers Morgan. 0:11:17.600 --> 0:11:20.280 Like often Peers just starts yelling at people and everyone. 0:11:20.000 --> 0:11:21.480 Just talks over the top of each other. 0:11:22.400 --> 0:11:23.000 I watched it. 0:11:23.160 --> 0:11:25.760 Peers was so considered and just let them speak, and 0:11:25.760 --> 0:11:27.160 you could see he was thinking about it. 0:11:27.280 --> 0:11:29.600 Ah, yeah, I agree with that, because I do feel 0:11:29.600 --> 0:11:32.600 like he constantly speaks. He will say something and then 0:11:32.679 --> 0:11:35.000 just constantly railroad by speaking over the top of the 0:11:35.040 --> 0:11:37.400 person and so that they can't argue back at all. 0:11:37.440 --> 0:11:38.280 It's infuriating. 0:11:38.480 --> 0:11:40.040 It was actually trying to think about why that might 0:11:40.080 --> 0:11:42.160 be the case, and I think it's because Scott kind 0:11:42.200 --> 0:11:45.560 of talks their language. He is a white, middle aged, 0:11:45.920 --> 0:11:48.679 very rich man who made all of his money himself. 0:11:48.720 --> 0:11:50.560 He can kind of go toe to toe with them, 0:11:50.880 --> 0:11:53.280 and in a way, I'm like, oh, they actually respect Scott, 0:11:53.320 --> 0:11:55.800 which is kind of misogynistic in nature. So there was 0:11:55.840 --> 0:11:58.720 this one particular point of the interview where Piers Morgan 0:11:58.840 --> 0:12:00.000 was literally speechless. 0:12:00.080 --> 0:12:02.880 He's only a response to it was well, and this 0:12:03.160 --> 0:12:05.079 is what Scott had to say about. 0:12:04.920 --> 0:12:10.840 Elong must somehow we've decided in America that innovation and 0:12:10.960 --> 0:12:15.160 money replaces, or obviates, or excuses depravity. I think one 0:12:15.200 --> 0:12:17.640 of the wonderful things about being an American, and quite frankly, 0:12:17.840 --> 0:12:19.400 for me, what it means to be a man, and 0:12:19.400 --> 0:12:21.560 what I try to teach my boys is the whole 0:12:21.559 --> 0:12:23.960 point of prosperity is that's that you can protect people. 0:12:24.120 --> 0:12:25.720 And I think the two of you are more impressed 0:12:25.760 --> 0:12:28.520 with mister muss than I am. I think if somebody 0:12:28.559 --> 0:12:32.679 is making Nazi salutes, if somebody is being sued concurrently 0:12:32.720 --> 0:12:36.079 by two women for soul custody of their child because 0:12:36.080 --> 0:12:38.400 that person has not spent any time with that child, 0:12:38.880 --> 0:12:41.400 when someone is so severely addicted to drugs they can't 0:12:41.400 --> 0:12:43.360 get their together to show up to the White House 0:12:43.360 --> 0:12:46.160 without looking exceptionally high, I don't think that's the right 0:12:46.240 --> 0:12:49.160 role model for young men. So what I would ask 0:12:49.200 --> 0:12:51.200 to all of us is, look at what money has 0:12:51.240 --> 0:12:54.120 done to us. That if someone can land a rocket 0:12:54.280 --> 0:12:58.160 on metal scissors or create a great av he's a genius. 0:12:58.400 --> 0:13:00.600 He's the wealthiest man in the world. Does that mean 0:13:00.600 --> 0:13:03.720 we should excuse depravity? Does that mean, unlike Bill Gates, 0:13:03.760 --> 0:13:06.520 he's not using his billions to help people. I think 0:13:06.520 --> 0:13:09.240 this is an individual who has literally come off the tracks, 0:13:09.760 --> 0:13:12.920 who was rapidly addicted to drugs, and is using his 0:13:13.000 --> 0:13:16.400 immense power to get people elected, and that too many 0:13:16.400 --> 0:13:21.360 of us excuse what is abhorrent behavior. I think his 0:13:21.480 --> 0:13:24.480 legacy is not going to be an ev or putting 0:13:24.559 --> 0:13:29.040 rockets into space. I think it's going to be unnecessary death, disease, 0:13:29.240 --> 0:13:32.840 and disability of the world's most vulnerable. That is not 0:13:32.880 --> 0:13:35.000 what it means to be an innovator. It's not what 0:13:35.040 --> 0:13:36.880 it means to be an American. It's not what it 0:13:36.920 --> 0:13:37.640 means to be a man. 0:13:38.960 --> 0:13:39.320 Wow. 0:13:40.120 --> 0:13:42.600 Yeah, I watched it, and I thought it's the most 0:13:42.880 --> 0:13:45.920 calm and educated takedown of somebody that I'd ever seen. 0:13:46.080 --> 0:13:47.280 I really enjoyed it as well. 0:13:47.320 --> 0:13:47.520 Yeah. 0:13:47.520 --> 0:13:49.120 So it's about forty five minutes on YouTube. 0:13:49.120 --> 0:13:53.600 If you're into either finance, politics, or kind of the 0:13:53.640 --> 0:13:56.839 pop culture crossover like I am. I really really enjoyed it, 0:13:56.920 --> 0:13:59.920 even though I hate adding to the views that PE's Morgan. 0:14:00.160 --> 0:14:00.959 Yes, but it was. 0:14:01.080 --> 0:14:04.640 Yeah, it was actually quite an interesting and level debate. 0:14:05.280 --> 0:14:07.200 I thought, all right, let's get into it. 0:14:08.679 --> 0:14:09.520 Question number one. 0:14:09.600 --> 0:14:11.920 I've got a story here, girls, that's been really weighing 0:14:11.960 --> 0:14:13.880 on me, and I'm hoping to get your thoughts on it. 0:14:14.360 --> 0:14:16.040 Let me take you back to when I was born. 0:14:16.600 --> 0:14:17.280 A long story. 0:14:18.640 --> 0:14:20.800 I was adopted at just six weeks old, and right 0:14:20.880 --> 0:14:24.480 from the start, the adoption agency told my parents something surprising. 0:14:25.000 --> 0:14:28.120 They mentioned that my biological parents had also given birth 0:14:28.160 --> 0:14:31.200 to a baby boy two years before me, and that 0:14:31.320 --> 0:14:34.280 he too had been adopted. The agency asked if my 0:14:34.320 --> 0:14:37.480 parents would be interested in meeting him, my biological brother, 0:14:37.880 --> 0:14:41.320 and of course, my adoptive parents said yes, absolutely So 0:14:41.400 --> 0:14:43.160 from a really young age, my brother and I have 0:14:43.240 --> 0:14:46.160 been very close. We've celebrated birthdays together and grown up 0:14:46.200 --> 0:14:49.560 from that unique connection. Fast forward to now, we're both 0:14:49.640 --> 0:14:52.080 the same stage of life, starting the families. 0:14:51.680 --> 0:14:52.520 Of our own. 0:14:52.800 --> 0:14:54.800 It's a whole new chapter and it's made me start 0:14:54.840 --> 0:14:58.480 thinking about meeting my biological parents. I've wondered if I 0:14:58.480 --> 0:15:00.280 should make an attempt to meet them and try to 0:15:00.360 --> 0:15:03.120 learn more about my roots. Here's where it gets tricky. 0:15:03.600 --> 0:15:07.920 My brother has absolutely no interest in meeting our biological parents. 0:15:08.200 --> 0:15:10.280 He's content with the life that he has built and 0:15:10.360 --> 0:15:13.200 doesn't want to stir the pot. So here's my dilemma. 0:15:13.360 --> 0:15:15.640 Do I tell him that I'm planning on meeting our 0:15:15.680 --> 0:15:16.680 biological parents. 0:15:16.880 --> 0:15:18.920 Should I respect his wishes. 0:15:18.880 --> 0:15:21.680 Not to pursue it, or do I just go ahead 0:15:21.720 --> 0:15:24.800 and meet them without mentioning it to him. I'm torn, 0:15:25.000 --> 0:15:27.640 and I'm curious. What would you guys do in my shoes? 0:15:28.880 --> 0:15:31.760 I mean, it's really tricky for us to unpack this 0:15:32.320 --> 0:15:35.000 when we've never been in the situation of the yearning 0:15:35.160 --> 0:15:38.560 for knowing what was I guess, like the biology behind 0:15:38.640 --> 0:15:41.160 who we are. But I also think that if you 0:15:41.240 --> 0:15:44.800 have those feelings, you're absolutely allowed to pursue them. Like, 0:15:44.880 --> 0:15:47.040 on one hand, yes, respect your brother's wishes that he 0:15:47.080 --> 0:15:49.200 doesn't want to, but on the other hand, he needs 0:15:49.200 --> 0:15:51.200 to respect your wishes that you do want to your 0:15:51.200 --> 0:15:54.840 individual people. You live individual lives, and you've both had 0:15:55.320 --> 0:15:58.480 a similar experience through adoption, but you've had your own 0:15:58.680 --> 0:16:03.080 unique experiences as well. I would say that it's a 0:16:03.120 --> 0:16:05.600 conversation with your brother and say that you are going 0:16:05.640 --> 0:16:08.600 to pursue this, but you respect his decision and unless 0:16:08.600 --> 0:16:11.360 he asks or wants to know information, you're not going 0:16:11.400 --> 0:16:12.120