WEBVTT - Should You 'Out' Your Ex If They Dump You To Go On MAFS? 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:03.400 Life onun Cut acknowledges the traditional custodians of country whose 0:00:03.480 --> 0:00:06.160 lands were never seated. We pay our respects to their 0:00:06.160 --> 0:00:07.600 elders past and present. 0:00:07.560 --> 0:00:11.399 Always was, always will be Aboriginal Land. This episode was 0:00:11.440 --> 0:00:13.360 recorded on de rug Wallamuta Land. 0:00:23.160 --> 0:00:25.400 Hi guys, I'm welcome back to another episode of Life 0:00:25.400 --> 0:00:28.280 on Cut. I'm Laura. I'm Brittany. I'm Brittany. 0:00:28.520 --> 0:00:30.800 I have a a that's not really a bone to pick. 0:00:30.840 --> 0:00:33.600 I've just realized I fucking hate asymmetrical shirt. I also 0:00:34.040 --> 0:00:35.720 hate that term a bone to pick. 0:00:35.760 --> 0:00:37.280 I hate the pone pick. You know why, because we 0:00:37.320 --> 0:00:39.279 picked so many bones. I got a bone pick. It's 0:00:39.360 --> 0:00:41.320 very radio, isn't it. I have a bone to pick 0:00:41.320 --> 0:00:43.960 with you right now? Totally you have. I'm going to 0:00:44.040 --> 0:00:46.680 describe it. You look great, you pop a color. You 0:00:46.760 --> 0:00:49.279 got some blue pants, thank you, linen pants that you 0:00:49.360 --> 0:00:51.519 obviously have never einned in your time. No are they're 0:00:51.560 --> 0:00:53.920 linen pants that I wear at least three times a 0:00:53.960 --> 0:00:56.360 week like they're my staples. Yes, I live in them. 0:00:56.360 --> 0:00:57.680 They came out of a drawer this morning though we 0:00:57.720 --> 0:01:00.520 left very early. You definitely don't iron them. And then 0:01:00.560 --> 0:01:02.840 you have a shirt on that has what do you 0:01:02.840 --> 0:01:05.120 call it? I know it's asymmetrical, but it's like really 0:01:05.200 --> 0:01:07.600 low one shoulder. It crosses on a diagonal across like 0:01:07.720 --> 0:01:10.959 high neck one shoulder down to the elbow on the other. 0:01:11.200 --> 0:01:14.120 Looked great if you don't move or breathe. 0:01:14.319 --> 0:01:17.040 Except I do move and I do breathe, and several 0:01:17.040 --> 0:01:19.320 times my entire left hitty has fallen out today, and 0:01:19.400 --> 0:01:21.160 I'm just you know what, I thought I would try 0:01:21.200 --> 0:01:23.759 something new, and that's why I only have the same 0:01:23.760 --> 0:01:25.560 ten things in my cupboard and I just rotate them 0:01:25.560 --> 0:01:27.600 because anytime I try something new, I wish I hadn't. 0:01:27.680 --> 0:01:32.080 Have you ever been to a nudy beach? H I've been. 0:01:32.240 --> 0:01:35.680 No, No, not to a specifically nude beach. I don't 0:01:35.680 --> 0:01:35.959 think so. 0:01:36.480 --> 0:01:41.280 I've been cloth beach, had gotten breaking some laws there. 0:01:41.480 --> 0:01:44.039 I've gotten naked at a beach, but it wasn't a 0:01:44.120 --> 0:01:47.120 nude beach, A public clothed beach. Yeah, but I mean 0:01:47.160 --> 0:01:49.720 there's lots of beaches around Australia that are quite empty. 0:01:49.840 --> 0:01:50.520 What happened. 0:01:50.960 --> 0:01:52.840 I got naked, went for a swim, and then got 0:01:52.960 --> 0:01:55.040 dressed again. Why when I was in my twenties, I 0:01:55.080 --> 0:01:57.680 went through this real phase of like nudy runs. That 0:01:57.760 --> 0:01:59.640 was my thing, like going for like a nudy swim 0:01:59.680 --> 0:02:00.400 at highlight. 0:02:00.880 --> 0:02:02.520 I don't know why I thought I was cool and 0:02:02.520 --> 0:02:04.400 then I realized that alone or are you doing this 0:02:04.520 --> 0:02:07.480 with people of both skinny tipping? So you yeah, but 0:02:07.560 --> 0:02:09.200 on your own, like you would go to a beach 0:02:09.280 --> 0:02:14.400 and just get nude. Because I have questions. Something is 0:02:14.480 --> 0:02:20.680 not adding up. Yeah, you're a streaker, streaking. What am 0:02:20.680 --> 0:02:22.120 I going to do with my night drive down to 0:02:22.160 --> 0:02:25.320 the National Park and Street. I'm genuinely haven't done it 0:02:25.360 --> 0:02:28.000 in yet. I'm genuinely why I should hope not. I'm 0:02:28.040 --> 0:02:32.560 genuinely perplexed. You would go down to a normal beach alone, 0:02:33.360 --> 0:02:35.480 get nude and swim. 0:02:35.480 --> 0:02:36.799 I go for a swim if I didn't have my 0:02:36.840 --> 0:02:39.079 swimmers on me or a towel or whatever. Just yeah, 0:02:39.240 --> 0:02:40.760 go for a naked swim, but only if it was 0:02:40.800 --> 0:02:41.680 a remote beach. 0:02:42.880 --> 0:02:45.840 This is weird, Okay, Yeah, well you just you think 0:02:45.880 --> 0:02:49.400 you know someone and I have a flasher and a 0:02:49.440 --> 0:02:50.320 streaker as a co ho. 0:02:50.560 --> 0:02:53.280 I think in another life, you know, like maybe when 0:02:53.280 --> 0:02:56.360 I'm retired and we don't live in the center of Sydney, 0:02:56.480 --> 0:02:59.040 I'll become a nudist. I quite love being nude. I'm 0:02:59.120 --> 0:03:01.720 nude around my own house. I don't often close the blinds, 0:03:01.720 --> 0:03:02.880 and that will be like Laura, I was just on 0:03:02.919 --> 0:03:04.680 the street and I could see you nude from downstairs. 0:03:04.680 --> 0:03:07.600 I don't care. I love being naked, that is me. 0:03:07.760 --> 0:03:09.280 Oh my god. Can I tell you something's funny? 0:03:09.720 --> 0:03:12.240 No, please don't refrain. I don't want to hear it. 0:03:12.400 --> 0:03:15.079 I don't even know why I'm gonna tell this last night, 0:03:15.200 --> 0:03:16.800 because I walk around nood all the time too, or 0:03:16.800 --> 0:03:20.119 just in my undies, because my house is pretty private, 0:03:20.400 --> 0:03:22.760 like from the street. No, from the street, but not 0:03:22.840 --> 0:03:25.520 from the apartment buildings across the street, because you can 0:03:25.560 --> 0:03:27.040 if you're in a high apartment, you can sort of 0:03:27.040 --> 0:03:29.280 look in. But from the street it's pretty good. You 0:03:29.320 --> 0:03:31.680 don't have to be a peeping tom. I used to 0:03:31.680 --> 0:03:35.080 live in your apartment, brit And you think it's private 0:03:35.080 --> 0:03:37.040 because there's bushes, But if you stand out in the 0:03:37.080 --> 0:03:39.480 street look in, like at nighttime, if you've got the 0:03:39.560 --> 0:03:41.760 lights on inside and you're standing out in the street 0:03:41.840 --> 0:03:44.640 looking in, you can see everything inside that apartment. Well, 0:03:45.240 --> 0:03:47.720 last night I was just in like nude, undis I 0:03:47.800 --> 0:03:52.080 probably look nude, nude, I wasted undies and a nude 0:03:52.720 --> 0:03:55.280 sea through briolet. That was all I was wearing because 0:03:55.280 --> 0:03:57.000 it was so hot in my apartment. So I was 0:03:57.040 --> 0:03:58.920 just walking around nude. And then I made a cup 0:03:58.920 --> 0:04:01.520 of tea and I walked my back door and I 0:04:01.640 --> 0:04:03.520 leant against the doors, having a real moment. If it 0:04:03.520 --> 0:04:04.840 was on a movie, it would have looked like a 0:04:04.880 --> 0:04:07.480 great scene. I was leaning against the door and I 0:04:07.520 --> 0:04:10.600 had one hand because it's a comfort thing that I do. 0:04:11.080 --> 0:04:13.880 I pulled the briolet down so my boob hold and 0:04:13.920 --> 0:04:15.800 I just held my boob while. 0:04:16.120 --> 0:04:17.640 My tea, my tea and my TDY. 0:04:17.680 --> 0:04:20.160 So I looked nude, feeling myself up, having a tea. 0:04:20.360 --> 0:04:24.080 And then I looked up and I saw a man 0:04:24.240 --> 0:04:27.039 in the apartment block across the road staring at me. 0:04:27.120 --> 0:04:29.440 I was like, how long he'd been watching me? How 0:04:29.440 --> 0:04:32.000 often does he watch me? No, that's not his fault. 0:04:32.120 --> 0:04:34.680 If you're going to stand outside completely naked, you can't 0:04:34.720 --> 0:04:36.560 shame a man for standing there and being like, oh, 0:04:36.600 --> 0:04:37.520 what's that girl doing. 0:04:37.560 --> 0:04:39.760 No, I'm not shaming him at all. I'm not shaming him. 0:04:39.760 --> 0:04:41.400 But I just it was the first moment I have 0:04:41.560 --> 0:04:44.640 ever realized how often I am nude. Sometimes I am 0:04:44.720 --> 0:04:47.000 completely nude. I have a mirror right where I was standing, 0:04:47.040 --> 0:04:48.280 and I just go and look at myself, and I'm like, 0:04:48.360 --> 0:04:50.200 check myself out. I'm like, what's going on? How the 0:04:50.279 --> 0:04:53.040 girls the curtains, the girl's holding up, okay, like gravity's 0:04:53.080 --> 0:04:55.680 starting to wig in. But he just completely watched me. 0:04:55.720 --> 0:04:57.039 I was like, oh my god, this is not his 0:04:57.080 --> 0:04:58.800 fault at all. Like, if I saw somebody that I 0:04:58.800 --> 0:05:00.640 thought was attractive, would I look? Yeah. I mean his 0:05:00.720 --> 0:05:04.200 responsibility is to probably look away, Like I feel like 0:05:04.240 --> 0:05:05.960 there's a moral obligation. 0:05:06.040 --> 0:05:07.560 That as you were like, I don't blame him. I 0:05:07.600 --> 0:05:09.440 was like, I kind of do a bit though. But 0:05:10.080 --> 0:05:12.320 if somebody is going to be naked inside their house 0:05:12.360 --> 0:05:15.080 and you can see it from the street, you can't 0:05:15.120 --> 0:05:18.240 be angry at that person from just looking. 0:05:18.440 --> 0:05:20.400 But what if it's not the street. What if it's 0:05:20.440 --> 0:05:24.159 one apartment to the other, and you know, morally you 0:05:24.160 --> 0:05:27.520 shouldn't be looking because it's there in their house. What 0:05:27.560 --> 0:05:28.640 do you do? Do you walk away? 0:05:28.960 --> 0:05:31.240 I think this becomes creepier because of the dynamic. You're like, 0:05:31.320 --> 0:05:33.680 it was an old guy and I'm standing there, But 0:05:33.720 --> 0:05:35.160 then I think about it. I don't think he was old, 0:05:35.240 --> 0:05:38.960 no way. Okay, regardless, let's make him sound creepy. I 0:05:39.000 --> 0:05:40.800 put myself in that position. If I was in my 0:05:40.920 --> 0:05:44.040 house and someone in the apartment directly across from us 0:05:44.360 --> 0:05:46.680 was naked walking around and I could see them. They 0:05:46.680 --> 0:05:48.680 were just like full blown in their glory with the 0:05:48.720 --> 0:05:51.479 windows open, You're like, man, come, I would look, and 0:05:51.520 --> 0:05:53.680 then I realized that's probably not what I should say. 0:05:53.720 --> 0:05:55.760 But I think I would just look and be like, hah, 0:05:55.800 --> 0:05:57.120 that person doesn't realize. 0:05:56.839 --> 0:05:59.440 I can see that they're naked. Yeah, I think that 0:05:59.440 --> 0:06:00.000 that's wrong. 0:06:00.520 --> 0:06:01.400 Yeah, I think so too. 0:06:01.560 --> 0:06:04.680 Yeah, okay, okay, we got to the bottom whilst you 0:06:04.680 --> 0:06:07.159 were naked in your doorway. I had the freaking best 0:06:07.200 --> 0:06:09.640 weekend ever. And I know that everyone's talking about Taylor 0:06:09.680 --> 0:06:12.160 Swift at the moment, which will be us next week 0:06:12.200 --> 0:06:15.039 because we're going this coming. Oh my god, it is 0:06:15.080 --> 0:06:19.040 this Sunday Tea Swizzle. I'm gone on Friday. But I 0:06:19.080 --> 0:06:21.920 think there's another band. There's another band that hasn't gotten 0:06:21.920 --> 0:06:24.480 as much airtime. And let me tell you, it was 0:06:24.760 --> 0:06:27.840 the fucking best thing I've ever done with my entire life. 0:06:27.839 --> 0:06:29.599 Stop bread crumbing. I went to the Bleak one a. 0:06:29.640 --> 0:06:31.960 Two concert on Friday. If you follow along my stories, 0:06:32.000 --> 0:06:34.520 I literally sounded like a swifty I was so in 0:06:34.560 --> 0:06:37.960 my element. But it was this moment of just pure 0:06:38.240 --> 0:06:41.880 fucking nostalgia. When I was eighteen, nineteen twenty, I was 0:06:41.920 --> 0:06:44.920 such an angsty little like I don't know, I just 0:06:44.960 --> 0:06:47.560 finished Uni. I had this boyfriend who wore black mail. 0:06:47.440 --> 0:06:49.360 Polish all the time, and I had a little skinny 0:06:49.360 --> 0:06:52.720 white belt, a skinny belt, well like skinny black jeans. 0:06:52.720 --> 0:06:55.279 And then everyone wore that like what's it called. It's 0:06:55.360 --> 0:06:57.560 like a white belt, but it's shiny. What's the material 0:06:57.600 --> 0:07:00.680 I'm thinking of, like a metasic fake leather, but shiny 0:07:00.800 --> 0:07:04.440 plethar whatever and vinyl. I don't know. Anyway, I had 0:07:04.520 --> 0:07:06.640 that belt and we were all just emo and angry 0:07:06.680 --> 0:07:08.560 at the world. And the reason why Friday was so 0:07:09.080 --> 0:07:12.440 fucking fun is because it almost felt like satire. 0:07:12.600 --> 0:07:14.840 So it was all these people who when they were 0:07:14.920 --> 0:07:18.080 that age. So everyone's forty plus now we're all grown up. 0:07:18.120 --> 0:07:20.040 I mean, I'm not quite forty, but we're all grown up. 0:07:20.040 --> 0:07:22.720 We've got kids, Like, we're all in a very different 0:07:23.080 --> 0:07:26.680 phase of life. And nobody that was there is probably 0:07:26.720 --> 0:07:28.760 still emo. Everyone was dressed as though they were emo. 0:07:28.800 --> 0:07:31.239 Everyone was doing like cosplay to their eighteen year old self, 0:07:31.240 --> 0:07:32.400 So did you cosplay to go? 0:07:32.640 --> 0:07:32.680 No? 0:07:32.800 --> 0:07:34.960 I looked very unemo. But there was this one point 0:07:35.000 --> 0:07:37.000 where so like one of the main singers, Tom, he 0:07:37.800 --> 0:07:40.440 was like, is everyone having a good time? And everyone's 0:07:40.440 --> 0:07:43.080 in the crowd like ah, and he's like, fuck that 0:07:43.520 --> 0:07:45.040 be angry, we're emos. 0:07:45.080 --> 0:07:47.200 He's like, call your dad, tell your dad. It wasn't 0:07:47.200 --> 0:07:47.720 a phase. 0:07:48.200 --> 0:07:51.000 And it was so fucking funny because you never think 0:07:51.040 --> 0:07:54.200 about these people being like self deprecating. It was almost 0:07:54.200 --> 0:07:57.040 as though like they know so much that nobody who 0:07:57.080 --> 0:07:59.760 listens to their music is where they were that long ago. 0:08:00.080 --> 0:08:01.560 But now they can look back on it and laugh 0:08:01.600 --> 0:08:03.720 because when they were making that music, they were also 0:08:03.800 --> 0:08:06.240 kids who were like angry, angsty teens. 0:08:05.960 --> 0:08:09.920 And now their dads it's fucking good. So they still like, 0:08:10.000 --> 0:08:12.760 are they still actually emo? No? Not really. I wouldn't 0:08:12.800 --> 0:08:15.520 say one of them. Definitely not Travis. 0:08:15.560 --> 0:08:17.080 I feel like he's always going to be emo because 0:08:17.080 --> 0:08:19.520 he's covered from tattoos to the eyeballs down. But like 0:08:19.560 --> 0:08:21.560 the other one, No, they're just kind of like normal 0:08:21.680 --> 0:08:25.240 dads who sing angry songs, but I I've not been 0:08:25.320 --> 0:08:28.960 to a concert where, considering how angry some of the 0:08:29.040 --> 0:08:31.600 music is, it felt so joyful. It was like this, 0:08:31.840 --> 0:08:36.160 everyone was screaming and dancing and having so much fun. 0:08:36.360 --> 0:08:39.520 Everyone was so nice, like so nice. 0:08:39.480 --> 0:08:42.640 And I screamed and dance aren't mean, Laura, but they're 0:08:42.720 --> 0:08:45.720 sad and they hate everything. Still nice. 0:08:45.880 --> 0:08:47.160 Yeah, But the last time I went to a Blink 0:08:47.160 --> 0:08:49.080 One Night two concert, I was eighteen years old. The 0:08:49.120 --> 0:08:53.600 mosh pit was so crazy. Everyone was like that. I 0:08:53.640 --> 0:08:56.319 got smashed up against the front of the barricade and 0:08:56.360 --> 0:08:58.360 I had to get saved by a security guard. This 0:08:58.520 --> 0:09:01.440 was very different. I was laughing and I was laughing 0:09:01.440 --> 0:09:04.040 and singing so hard, and then at one point I 0:09:04.160 --> 0:09:06.920 was crying. But then I was also simultaneously crying from 0:09:06.920 --> 0:09:08.920 my vagina because my public floor is so bad. So 0:09:09.000 --> 0:09:12.640 it just everything felt really full circle and I'm actually 0:09:12.640 --> 0:09:14.280 wet yourself several times. 0:09:14.400 --> 0:09:16.959 Yeah, it's do you know what did you get yourself 0:09:17.000 --> 0:09:24.320 from excitement or from like laxicity both. 0:09:24.840 --> 0:09:26.480 I know I make a lot of jokes about my 0:09:26.520 --> 0:09:29.720 pelvic floor, but I would say it's actually not that bad. 0:09:29.760 --> 0:09:32.560 But there's something about the pressure of jumping up and 0:09:32.640 --> 0:09:36.200 down and simultaneously screaming at the top of your lungs. 0:09:36.200 --> 0:09:38.439 That really just forced a glass drops out down my 0:09:38.480 --> 0:09:40.840 legs and into my boots. So yeah, that was my weekend. 0:09:41.800 --> 0:09:44.040 Tell if you're taking the piars, no food in tended, 0:09:44.080 --> 0:09:45.599 but I cann't tell if you're taking the piers or 0:09:45.600 --> 0:09:47.760 if you were actually weaning into your. 0:09:47.640 --> 0:09:49.120 Shoes swinging into my shoes. 0:09:49.400 --> 0:09:52.760 I weed into my shoes twice. 0:09:53.200 --> 0:09:56.200 It was so euphoric. I pissed into my shoes twice. 0:09:56.920 --> 0:09:58.640 Do you know what I'm thinking. It's almost like you 0:09:58.640 --> 0:09:59.920 did a two in one. You know, how you go home. 0:10:00.040 --> 0:10:03.080 You put your foot in like a foot mask, like 0:10:03.840 --> 0:10:06.679 it was a rear foot buss. Your foot was just 0:10:06.960 --> 0:10:09.600 bathing in urine for like three hours. I was probably 0:10:09.600 --> 0:10:10.560 so soft and moist. 0:10:10.360 --> 0:10:12.240 Were you should see my feet. It's like I've been 0:10:12.360 --> 0:10:13.160 having done. 0:10:12.960 --> 0:10:14.440 It still smells like I can smell from here. 0:10:14.480 --> 0:10:15.920 I feel like we've heard so much about the tailor 0:10:15.960 --> 0:10:18.199 Swift content and everyone's talking about like what a euphoric 0:10:18.280 --> 0:10:20.959 experience it is, And there's something really incredible about being 0:10:20.960 --> 0:10:24.600 in a room with that many people who deeply love 0:10:24.720 --> 0:10:26.600 whatever it is that's on stage right, Like that's the 0:10:26.640 --> 0:10:29.320 Taylor Swift effect. You know, there's ninety five thousand people 0:10:29.360 --> 0:10:32.000 in Melbourne who were all in the one room kind 0:10:32.000 --> 0:10:36.120 of experiencing. Because she's obviously expanded across the last fifteen years, 0:10:36.120 --> 0:10:38.760 so there's so much nostalgia in what she does as well. 0:10:38.800 --> 0:10:40.960 You know, people who have listened to a song from 0:10:41.000 --> 0:10:43.600 when they were nineteen twenty years old to now and 0:10:43.640 --> 0:10:46.080 it kind of transports you back. But that's what this 0:10:46.320 --> 0:10:48.800 was for me. It transported me back so deeply to 0:10:48.880 --> 0:10:51.680 a time when I was eighteen, when I would sit 0:10:51.720 --> 0:10:53.959 in the car with my boyfriend at the time listening 0:10:53.960 --> 0:10:56.720 to this music and I put this on my stories, 0:10:56.720 --> 0:10:58.280 but I just had this real moment where I was 0:10:58.320 --> 0:11:01.320 like far, our life has changed so much since then. 0:11:01.679 --> 0:11:03.520 I'm so proud of where I am now. Like I'm 0:11:03.559 --> 0:11:06.480 there with my husband, who doesn't know a single fucking song. 0:11:06.559 --> 0:11:08.400 He would have known that Blink one A two could 0:11:08.400 --> 0:11:10.480 incite such passion. Really it was. 0:11:10.720 --> 0:11:14.199 It was transformative, and Matt thought I was a complete 0:11:14.200 --> 0:11:16.840 weirdo because he had discovered a part of me that 0:11:16.840 --> 0:11:18.480 he never knew about. He never knew that I was 0:11:18.520 --> 0:11:20.920 this like deep Blink one eight two fan and neither 0:11:20.920 --> 0:11:23.600 did jew And look it was really it took me back. 0:11:23.679 --> 0:11:26.080 So did he? Was he not in that Blink twenty 0:11:26.120 --> 0:11:26.520 two era? 0:11:26.720 --> 0:11:28.440 Yeah he was, He just didn't care about it as 0:11:28.520 --> 0:11:29.120 much as I did. 0:11:29.240 --> 0:11:30.600 You know who? I want to go and see that 0:11:30.640 --> 0:11:32.360 have just released a concert and I feel like, you 0:11:32.400 --> 0:11:33.679 know how you said, I don't know that about you. 0:11:33.720 --> 0:11:38.520 Blink twenty two. Pearl Jam, Pearl Jam are here in town. 0:11:39.080 --> 0:11:41.080 They're coming and I need to go because Pearl Jam 0:11:41.120 --> 0:11:43.760 for me sounds like what Blink twenty two was. 0:11:43.880 --> 0:11:45.520 Now I'm calling it twenty twenty four is like the 0:11:45.600 --> 0:11:47.640 year of nostalgia music. And the reason why I say 0:11:47.640 --> 0:11:51.000 that is because act well, no Aqua is here touring, 0:11:51.280 --> 0:11:52.920 the Googoo Dolls are here touring. 0:11:53.400 --> 0:11:56.520 Match Box twenty is here touring. Wasn't aqua Barbie girl? 0:11:56.559 --> 0:12:00.440 I'm a Barbie girl in a bubby world. I mean, 0:12:00.480 --> 0:12:03.040 perfect time for them to come back after the Barbie music. 0:12:03.080 --> 0:12:05.400 I don't think it was coincidental. Look, but they're all 0:12:05.480 --> 0:12:07.679 they are all in Australia at the moment, and it 0:12:07.880 --> 0:12:09.480 just it's so weird. 0:12:09.480 --> 0:12:11.360 Twenty twenty four year of nostalgia. 0:12:11.480 --> 0:12:13.319 Imagine deciding to go on tour in the middle of 0:12:13.360 --> 0:12:15.960 Taylor Swift. Why if Taylor Swift is coming, I would 0:12:16.000 --> 0:12:17.960 be steering clear. If I was an artist, I'd be like, look, 0:12:18.000 --> 0:12:20.040 every single person in the history of time, he's gonna 0:12:20.040 --> 0:12:21.560 ge to Taylor Swift. I'll wait till she's gone on 0:12:21.559 --> 0:12:22.120 that I'll come. 0:12:22.440 --> 0:12:23.880 No, I feel like at least you kind of like 0:12:23.960 --> 0:12:26.480 ride on her coat tails, because like, even where we were, 0:12:26.840 --> 0:12:29.120 Blink one A two was in the stadium next door. Well, 0:12:29.120 --> 0:12:31.520 they were in the theater next door to her stadium. 0:12:31.720 --> 0:12:33.640 So she has like the ninety five thousand or one 0:12:33.720 --> 0:12:37.199 hundred thousand stadium and they their capacity was like fifteen thousand, 0:12:37.200 --> 0:12:39.240 but they're doing four or five shows and they've sold 0:12:39.240 --> 0:12:41.160 out every single show. That's a lot of fucking people 0:12:41.160 --> 0:12:42.880 who are going to watch Blink one eight two hundred. 0:12:42.640 --> 0:12:44.680 Percent A lot of people. Anyways, that was my weekend. 0:12:44.720 --> 0:12:47.400 It was very exciting. Sounds like you really went from 0:12:47.679 --> 0:12:50.439 the highest of eyes to the lowest of low's. Laura. 0:12:51.160 --> 0:12:53.199 I went to Laura's house last night. 0:12:53.280 --> 0:12:54.160 I've shut up. 0:12:54.480 --> 0:12:58.959 Well, I think Benis we spoke about this is how 0:12:58.960 --> 0:13:00.640 good friends we are. You know how you used to 0:13:00.720 --> 0:13:04.120 base your friendships off, if you could go to someone's 0:13:04.160 --> 0:13:06.240 house a without knocking, Like if you had a friend 0:13:06.240 --> 0:13:07.960 that you knew, you could just walk in without knocking. 0:13:08.520 --> 0:13:11.000 B A real friend would always walk in and they 0:13:11.040 --> 0:13:12.640 go straight to the fridge or straight to the pantry, 0:13:12.679 --> 0:13:13.560 like what have you got to eat? 0:13:13.679 --> 0:13:15.679 Like a real friend, if you're a real friend, they 0:13:15.679 --> 0:13:18.480 don't even say hello, like you just like you're right 0:13:18.600 --> 0:13:20.800 there acknowledge that they're in the house. But there's not 0:13:20.840 --> 0:13:21.640 even like a real hello. 0:13:21.840 --> 0:13:23.679 Yeah, like you can't you never left, Like you come 0:13:23.679 --> 0:13:25.520 downstairs in the morning, I'm just have a bowl cheerio, 0:13:25.559 --> 0:13:27.360 So you're like, what are you doing here? Yeah, that 0:13:27.440 --> 0:13:29.560 kind of friendship. So that's a friendship Laura and I have. 0:13:29.640 --> 0:13:31.679 But this is like another standard of how you know 0:13:31.800 --> 0:13:34.360 that you're friends. So I went to Laura's house last 0:13:34.400 --> 0:13:36.760 night because we're gonna watch maths and have some tie 0:13:36.840 --> 0:13:38.840 and a girl's nine, just chill because we don't actually, 0:13:39.240 --> 0:13:41.080 you know, during the week, we try not to speak 0:13:41.080 --> 0:13:42.800 to each other too much, like as little as possible 0:13:42.920 --> 0:13:45.360 in terms of like really having those dms because save 0:13:45.400 --> 0:13:46.800 it off the podcast, save it for the pods, So 0:13:47.160 --> 0:13:47.680 we were. 0:13:47.600 --> 0:13:50.240 Very surface level usually during the week there's not much 0:13:50.240 --> 0:13:51.200 substance to us anyway. 0:13:51.320 --> 0:13:55.000 Yeah, no are the best of times. It's pretty We 0:13:55.000 --> 0:13:56.640 don't know oxygen tank. We don't go deep. We stay 0:13:56.679 --> 0:13:59.439 on the top. So I walked into Laura's house and 0:13:59.480 --> 0:14:01.320 I just thought I walked straight around the back because 0:14:01.320 --> 0:14:04.960 I could see the back gate open. So down I 0:14:05.040 --> 0:14:08.080 go around on the corner, straight through the back door, 0:14:08.120 --> 0:14:10.240 and Matt and Laura are sitting over at their dining 0:14:10.320 --> 0:14:12.760 room table doing some work or something, having a talk. 0:14:13.760 --> 0:14:15.840 And I walked in and I was like, Hey, what up? 0:14:15.880 --> 0:14:18.000 And they're like just barely said anything to me, just 0:14:18.040 --> 0:14:20.000 like glanced back and looked at me like hey, looked away. 0:14:20.000 --> 0:14:22.960 And I was like, oh, okay, the energy is low. Yeah. 0:14:23.240 --> 0:14:25.520 When put my stuff down, my phone and stuff down 0:14:25.560 --> 0:14:26.960 on the table next them to say hello, and I 0:14:27.000 --> 0:14:29.280 was like, something just doesn't feel right, like there's an 0:14:29.360 --> 0:14:31.280 energy that's not right. So I was like, we're back 0:14:31.280 --> 0:14:33.040 in our EMO phase. Yeah. I was like, I'm going 0:14:33.080 --> 0:14:35.200 to read the room here and back away slowly. So 0:14:35.240 --> 0:14:37.280 I reversed up, got a drink from the fridge, and 0:14:37.280 --> 0:14:38.400 then just sat on the lounge and I was like, 0:14:38.440 --> 0:14:42.240 I'll let them finish whatever they're doing well. My god, 0:14:42.360 --> 0:14:45.840 within two minutes there was, and I'm going to say it, 0:14:47.160 --> 0:14:50.760 the worst fight I have ever seen you and Matt have. 0:14:50.960 --> 0:14:53.120 It was an all out brawl. That's not even a 0:14:53.200 --> 0:14:57.600 real fight. Excuse me. They were going It was like 0:14:57.680 --> 0:14:59.880 I wasn't there. They were like, you weren't there? 0:15:00.080 --> 0:15:01.320 Fine, you know I was there. 0:15:03.240 --> 0:15:06.160 They were fighting. You guys were going each other, and 0:15:06.200 --> 0:15:07.520 we don't have to get into what it was about. 0:15:07.560 --> 0:15:11.480 It was about Instagram. We were fighting about Instagram content. Guys. 0:15:11.480 --> 0:15:14.000 They were actually fighting about Instagram caption, the wording of 0:15:14.000 --> 0:15:14.640 a caption. 0:15:14.440 --> 0:15:16.120 Because I wanted to change the caption and Matt told 0:15:16.160 --> 0:15:17.240 me actually to check the email. 0:15:17.320 --> 0:15:19.880 Anyway, what you think could be a light fight turned 0:15:19.920 --> 0:15:23.040 into a proper, proper fight where I was like, I 0:15:23.120 --> 0:15:25.760 need to leave the room because it's so uncomfortable. They 0:15:25.760 --> 0:15:27.600 didn't give a fuck that I was there, Like it 0:15:27.640 --> 0:15:29.000 was like I was not there, and I was like, 0:15:29.080 --> 0:15:31.640 mom and dad are fighting. Mom and dad again a divorce. 0:15:31.800 --> 0:15:34.960 To okay, the kids were asleep. Firstly, we don't fight 0:15:34.960 --> 0:15:36.440 in front of the kids, but we do fight in 0:15:36.440 --> 0:15:37.680 front of Britty and that's okay. 0:15:37.840 --> 0:15:40.800 Laura storms up, like it tells me to get no, No, 0:15:41.440 --> 0:15:44.160 that did not happen. Matt told me to get fucked, 0:15:44.320 --> 0:15:46.080 and then he was like, we need to finish this 0:15:46.120 --> 0:15:49.840 conversation upstairs. So Maca is like, whatever, bis off. Whatever. 0:15:49.880 --> 0:15:51.480 So Laura comes over to me, sits on a lounge 0:15:51.520 --> 0:15:53.240 and looks at me, and I was like it's okay. 0:15:53.280 --> 0:15:55.320 I was like rubbing her leg in circles and I 0:15:55.360 --> 0:15:57.840 was like, it's all right, look at me. Let's get 0:15:57.880 --> 0:15:59.360 out of this and like you and I can talk. 0:15:59.400 --> 0:16:01.040 And then I saw Matt walking from behind him and 0:16:01.080 --> 0:16:03.400 I was like, oh my god, it's not over. That 0:16:03.640 --> 0:16:06.360 brought the argument to me and I just sat there quietly, 0:16:06.400 --> 0:16:08.160 didn't want to make eye contact. And then he goes, 0:16:08.480 --> 0:16:10.800 it's like parents. I felt like I was a kid. 0:16:11.200 --> 0:16:12.440 He looked at me and then looked at Laura and 0:16:12.480 --> 0:16:14.920 he goes, can I have a word with you upstairs? Please? 0:16:15.200 --> 0:16:17.320 And you were like yes, I think that's a good idea. 0:16:17.400 --> 0:16:19.120 And I was like, mom and dad are definitely divorcing. 0:16:19.360 --> 0:16:22.160 Then you guys went up and I left my phone 0:16:22.200 --> 0:16:23.600 up there, so I had to go and evacuate, and 0:16:23.600 --> 0:16:25.280 I was like, can't talk to anyone because my phone's 0:16:25.280 --> 0:16:27.040 over there. While you guys are going each other, and 0:16:27.080 --> 0:16:29.120 I was like, this is the my awkward moment of 0:16:29.240 --> 0:16:32.120 my life. Ten minutes later, you come back and you're like. 0:16:32.200 --> 0:16:34.600