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Speaker 1: It's a special Will and Woody podcast Mini.

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Speaker 2: A guy in the UK has gone absolutely viral, had

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Speaker 2: to fight with his missus and he brought us some chocolates,

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Speaker 2: some flowers and some tampons.

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Speaker 3: Well, that's right.

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Speaker 2: He had the chocolates because I love you, the flowers

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Speaker 2: because I'm sorry, and the tampacs because I'm still not

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Speaker 2: really sure what I'm apologizing for. So I guess you'll

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Speaker 2: need these any day now. So the question right now

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Speaker 2: thirty one and six five is why can't you infer

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Speaker 2: when you're having an argument with a woman that the

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Speaker 2: reason you're arguing is because she's on her period. To

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Speaker 2: discuss that a little bit more of this, we have

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Speaker 2: got Martha from Maths Today.

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Speaker 4: Martha, Hi, guys.

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Speaker 3: Fresh to the show, first Topics. So happy to have

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Speaker 3: you on. Thank you for coming on.

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Speaker 4: Thanks for having me.

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Speaker 5: We're really jumping in the deepened early with you, aren't we. Martha,

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Speaker 5: So you've heard the story.

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Speaker 3: How would you respond.

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Speaker 6: To a story?

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Speaker 4: I'm like, like, I'm mean two minds, Like he's either

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Speaker 4: being really like he's being thought for like here go

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Speaker 4: you might need these, or he's being a little bit

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Speaker 4: of a smart ass and he's like and here, like

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Speaker 4: you might need these, you know what I mean. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: but personally I just feel like the flowers, the chocolates

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Speaker 4: are good. Just hold the tampons.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you just don't need to. It's the thing is like,

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Speaker 3: so here's so when you.

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Speaker 2: Are on the other side of you know, when you're

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Speaker 2: having an argue with a woman and you can tell

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Speaker 2: that she's give if you know it well enough, like

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Speaker 2: if I haven't I with my partner Sam, you know,

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Speaker 2: you know, like all of a sudden, there's a bit

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Speaker 2: and you're like, gee whiz, this is way more heated

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Speaker 2: than it should be. Yeah, you know, it's almost like

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Speaker 2: it's almost like if I can have an analogy, it's

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Speaker 2: like if someone was drowning and they can't swim, and

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Speaker 2: you not swim?

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Speaker 3: And then holding back that information that analogy the.

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Speaker 4: Reason you're on swim you probably should have taken swimming lessons.

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Speaker 3: And then it just clears the air. Then you know

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Speaker 2: But it's almost like, as the person on the outside

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Speaker 2: of the you need to wait for and correct me

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Speaker 2: if this is the right technical or not for you, Martha.

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Speaker 2: But like, I almost feel like I have to just

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Speaker 2: admit defeat. I'm like, I mean, I'm in the storm.

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Speaker 2: I'm in the storm. I have to admit defeat. And

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Speaker 2: then I have to wait for her to come to

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Speaker 2: me and go, hey, you know the reason I was

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Speaker 4: Exactly, Yeah, what's going on you now? SHO don't even

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Speaker 4: need me. You know exactly what to do.

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Speaker 3: So you have to wait for them to admit it themselves.

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Speaker 4: Yes, exactly, you wait for the I'm getting my period.

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Speaker 4: I'm so sorry, I'm so irritable. I'm so sorry, but

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Speaker 4: I'm about to get my period.

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Speaker 2: So why is it annoying for them to suggest that

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Speaker 2: that's what's going on?

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Speaker 4: Because it's like, we did not choose to have this

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Speaker 4: happen to us. Yes, this is something that we have

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Speaker 4: to do in order to reproduce and populate the earth. Like,

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry if that's interrupting your perfect little life to

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Speaker 4: to me naturally, that I didn't choose for it to happen,

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Speaker 4: but it is happening in order for you to even

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Speaker 4: be here. Sorry, it's upsetting you. And it's like the.

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Speaker 2: Guy labeling it, it's not his right to label it

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Speaker 5: Has Michael ever brought it up though, Martha? Has he

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Speaker 1: No.

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Speaker 4: Michael says that he is like the man in the

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Speaker 4: went out. He that's how he approaches me when I've

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Speaker 3: He says, He's like that, are you because are you

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Speaker 4: I don't have any of those kinds. I don't have

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Speaker 2: You have an analogy, you know, Martha, there's an analogy

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Speaker 2: for like, you know, something in the animal kingdom? How

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Speaker 4: Okay, I'm so bad with animal kingdom stuff, but let's

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Speaker 2: Okay, great, Hey, we're going to take some calls on this, Martha,

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Speaker 2: do you mind sticking around?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'd love to.

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Speaker 3: Okay, great, we're going to take some calls of this.

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Speaker 3: They don't want to six five?

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Speaker 2: Why can't or do you think you can tell a

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Speaker 3: When she is on her period? They don't want to?

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Speaker 2: Six five? Loved here from both sides. Here, there's some

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Speaker 2: Martha Califatitas is going to stick around. Everybody else gives

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Speaker 2: a call thirty one and six ' five we're talking

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Speaker 2: can you tell a woman she's on her period? Now,

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Speaker 2: we've got a very special guest in Martha Califetitas, who

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Speaker 3: Martha from Maths.

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Speaker 2: Martha, you've come on to help us out with a

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Speaker 2: pretty a tricky topic for two blokes. Why can't you

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Speaker 2: tell a woman that she might be on her period

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Speaker 2: when she is very obviously on her period? Do you

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Speaker 2: think we're navigating it?

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Speaker 3: Okay? So far?

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Speaker 4: I think I think you guys are Actually you're onto it.

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Speaker 4: You you're killing it. You really don't need any direction

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Speaker 5: And you described your partner as a squirrel in a suit,

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Speaker 5: and you're a lyon when it's that time for you?

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Speaker 4: Pretty much. I tried to think of like the most

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Speaker 4: innocent cartoon and I'm all I've ever seen, and like,

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Speaker 4: you know, those little squirrels that are helping like Cinderella

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Speaker 4: get ready for the ball. That's Michael, Wow.

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Speaker 2: That's amazing. We've got Alisha who's called Alisha on thirty

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Speaker 1: I absolutely reckon. You guys are right, Like you've got

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Speaker 1: men say it with a dig. It's never from it's

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Speaker 1: always with a dig of oh, you're on your periods,

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Speaker 1: that's why you're cranky, rather than or is there anything

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Speaker 1: that's why we don't like it. Yes, it's our bodies,

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Speaker 1: it's not theirs.

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Speaker 3: Yes, that's what Martha said. That's what mother said. This

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Speaker 3: is what I'm going through. This is a female thing.

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Speaker 3: Don't try and tell me how it is.

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Speaker 1: Like men just don't get at the cramp. We don't

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Speaker 1: didn't ask for it either. Yes, so it's just that

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Speaker 1: bear with us, we'll get over it and just yeah,

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Speaker 1: buys chocolate and flowers, get around.

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Speaker 4: I like exactly, And can I just stress the part

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Speaker 4: of like we don't want to be demons like five

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Speaker 2: But I feel like, do you know it's like the

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Speaker 3: Just tear you.

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Speaker 5: Apart if I can, if I can be with the

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Speaker 5: place of being the demonic lion that you are. And

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Speaker 5: I know Alicia was just saying, get us, you know,

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Speaker 5: the chocolate and the flowers and stuff. What is the

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Speaker 5: best thing to feed you?

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Speaker 3: And I'm sorry that I keep you all talking about

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Speaker 5: What is the best thing to be to be fed

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Speaker 4: Like just your last bite of your favorite food?

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Speaker 2: God?

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Speaker 3: Wow, yeah, yeah, you can have it all. Let's go

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Speaker 3: to shirl Jay.

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Speaker 2: We have got mark from Matt says join us here

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Speaker 2: and will and what do we are talking about telling

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Speaker 2: on her period? Why can't you say that even though

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Speaker 2: it's very obvious what your thoughts?

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Speaker 6: Oh, hey, guys, I just think it's just so dismissive

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Speaker 6: our period doesn't mean that our thoughts are balance. Yeah,

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Speaker 6: Like I always get that, like, oh, you're just a

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Speaker 2: The means don't justify the ends, Like just because this

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Speaker 3: Yes exactly, yes exactly.

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Speaker 6: I feel like it's always like a fallback.

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Speaker 2: Great it definitely is a fullback. It definitely is a

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Speaker 2: full back. It cret me if I'm wrong, Martha. But

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Speaker 2: it's almost like we uses an excuse because you're like, oh, well,

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Speaker 2: she's on her periods, so it doesn't really mean that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah exactly, It's kind of like she's on her period.

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Speaker 4: I'm not that I'm not that dumb. Yes, like like

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Speaker 4: I haven't made a mistake, I'm not that bad.

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Speaker 3: Yes, she's in the wrong.

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Speaker 5: She's in the wrong because she's going through this that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, very very true. Kerry.

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Speaker 5: Here and now, Kerry, you're in the same sex relationship.

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Speaker 5: This is really interesting. So how do you navigate it

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Speaker 5: when your partner or when you are going through that

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Speaker 5: time of the month.

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Speaker 4: Very carefully?

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Speaker 3: Okay, you're the you're the squirrel as well. Perfect So

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Speaker 3: do you guys do you go? Do you guys sync up?

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Speaker 5: Though?

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Speaker 3: Kerry, Like, are you on the same cycle?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Wow, it's just the Bermuda triangle. It's like George Clooney

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Speaker 2: in a perfect storm. You see the way of coming,

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Speaker 2: you know it's gonna.

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Speaker 4: Absolutely but I'll just play post them and pretend I'm dead.

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Speaker 2: One of the.

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Speaker 3: Boys on the Full Show podcast.

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Speaker 1: You know you want to