1 00:00:01,080 --> 00:00:04,000 Speaker 1: Welcome to fearlessly Failing hot Seat. 2 00:00:04,280 --> 00:00:06,600 Speaker 2: In this app, I fire rapid. 3 00:00:06,320 --> 00:00:09,600 Speaker 1: Questions at one of our fearlessly failing guests. 4 00:00:10,320 --> 00:00:11,760 Speaker 2: PS. I'm gonna be honest with you. 5 00:00:11,800 --> 00:00:13,800 Speaker 1: I'm not so good at the rapid part. I get 6 00:00:13,800 --> 00:00:17,200 Speaker 1: too intrigued by the awesome answers. Now a new EPP 7 00:00:17,239 --> 00:00:21,080 Speaker 1: is going to drop every Wednesday, so enjoy this shortest 8 00:00:21,120 --> 00:00:24,560 Speaker 1: style episode of fearlessly Failing Hot Seat. 9 00:00:26,760 --> 00:00:28,640 Speaker 2: Welcome to the hot Seat full name. 10 00:00:28,680 --> 00:00:31,320 Speaker 3: I get the person to introduce Sigourney Jade Cantillo. 11 00:00:31,480 --> 00:00:32,320 Speaker 2: Oh, I love the jay. 12 00:00:32,800 --> 00:00:35,320 Speaker 3: I was one in Singapore, so my parents had a 13 00:00:35,320 --> 00:00:38,080 Speaker 3: little bit of uh yeah, Chinese good luck. 14 00:00:38,200 --> 00:00:40,879 Speaker 2: I love it. Bring it on, Okay, what is your 15 00:00:40,920 --> 00:00:41,560 Speaker 2: coffee order? 16 00:00:42,040 --> 00:00:46,320 Speaker 3: Ah, it's embarrassing. Mostly it's a weak armond latte because 17 00:00:46,600 --> 00:00:48,640 Speaker 3: I get a bit jittery and shaky from coffee. But 18 00:00:48,680 --> 00:00:51,640 Speaker 3: I love it. But sometimes it'll be if it's later 19 00:00:51,640 --> 00:00:54,360 Speaker 3: in the day, a d DCF week and late, which 20 00:00:54,440 --> 00:00:56,560 Speaker 3: makes bristers just look at me like I'm a toad? 21 00:00:56,840 --> 00:01:01,200 Speaker 2: Do you do you too? Matcher? Not much. 22 00:01:01,360 --> 00:01:03,400 Speaker 3: I like the idea of it, but I just find 23 00:01:03,400 --> 00:01:06,080 Speaker 3: it a bit green and yeah, I'll have it with 24 00:01:06,120 --> 00:01:07,759 Speaker 3: a bit of honey sometimes. 25 00:01:07,280 --> 00:01:11,399 Speaker 2: If I'm being like virtuous. But oh that's so, I'm like, 26 00:01:11,400 --> 00:01:12,479 Speaker 2: that's a good happy mess. 27 00:01:12,520 --> 00:01:13,000 Speaker 3: I should. 28 00:01:13,120 --> 00:01:13,600 Speaker 2: I should. 29 00:01:13,720 --> 00:01:15,800 Speaker 3: I mean, I think it's I think it's makes a 30 00:01:15,800 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 3: lot of sense. I also really love urban mattat Yoba 31 00:01:18,440 --> 00:01:21,040 Speaker 3: mate again, but I just I don't know. 32 00:01:21,040 --> 00:01:23,319 Speaker 2: I always default too in. 33 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:25,959 Speaker 3: La and I always make sure it's milk lab milk 34 00:01:27,040 --> 00:01:27,640 Speaker 3: here in the US. 35 00:01:27,760 --> 00:01:30,679 Speaker 1: But it's got to be that in Australia. Yeah, for sure. Okay, 36 00:01:30,760 --> 00:01:31,760 Speaker 1: do you have a favorite city? 37 00:01:32,760 --> 00:01:36,880 Speaker 3: Oh? That threw me that question. Ah to live. I 38 00:01:36,880 --> 00:01:41,240 Speaker 3: think Sydney is unbeatable. I mean in terms of where 39 00:01:41,280 --> 00:01:43,920 Speaker 3: I live on the northern beaches and the beauty of 40 00:01:43,959 --> 00:01:47,600 Speaker 3: it and the fact that it's still quite cosmopolitan and fun. 41 00:01:49,320 --> 00:01:59,640 Speaker 3: But in the cities i've been to, I mean, La 42 00:01:59,680 --> 00:02:03,240 Speaker 3: is pretty coolt a vibe. 43 00:02:04,440 --> 00:02:07,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. Why have you done New York? 44 00:02:07,680 --> 00:02:08,080 Speaker 1: I have? 45 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:10,919 Speaker 3: I find it cold, but I think it's pretty electric. 46 00:02:11,120 --> 00:02:16,040 Speaker 3: I'm just really like all about sunshine, so for sure, La, Yeah, 47 00:02:16,280 --> 00:02:20,360 Speaker 3: I think I mean all Italy, like all the cities 48 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:24,200 Speaker 3: in Italy, Greece, like, I just yeah, I love Europe 49 00:02:24,320 --> 00:02:25,320 Speaker 3: when it's sunshiny. 50 00:02:27,240 --> 00:02:28,880 Speaker 2: What about nature Spot? Do you have a faone notes 51 00:02:28,919 --> 00:02:30,680 Speaker 2: what can be Australia, can be here, or can be 52 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:35,080 Speaker 2: anywhay ah. 53 00:02:35,800 --> 00:02:39,400 Speaker 3: M gosh, I really should have prepared these respondes. 54 00:02:40,639 --> 00:02:46,160 Speaker 1: Some people say skip, yeah, northern beaches, though you can't. 55 00:02:46,000 --> 00:02:48,280 Speaker 2: Be just exactly it is. 56 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:54,200 Speaker 3: Western Australia is pretty amazing, like Rottenest Island with the quackers, 57 00:02:54,560 --> 00:02:57,320 Speaker 3: Like I just think they are just such cool little animals, 58 00:02:57,360 --> 00:02:59,440 Speaker 3: Like if you haven't seen them or heard of them, 59 00:02:59,480 --> 00:03:02,920 Speaker 3: they're like a cross between a rat and a what 60 00:03:03,000 --> 00:03:06,800 Speaker 3: are they? They're like large rats but cute. They are 61 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:10,360 Speaker 3: the cutest bloody little animals you've ever seen. And you 62 00:03:10,400 --> 00:03:12,320 Speaker 3: can go and get a selfie with them, like they 63 00:03:12,320 --> 00:03:14,639 Speaker 3: are so tame. There are just on this one island 64 00:03:14,680 --> 00:03:18,880 Speaker 3: called Rottnest Island in West Australia. Western Australia is ridiculously beautiful. 65 00:03:18,919 --> 00:03:20,800 Speaker 3: Like my mum's whole family are from a farm on 66 00:03:20,840 --> 00:03:24,560 Speaker 3: the Central Wheat Belt, so like, yeah, you really have to, 67 00:03:24,639 --> 00:03:26,360 Speaker 3: I know, if you get to Australia, and if you're 68 00:03:26,400 --> 00:03:28,280 Speaker 3: from the US, you just have to make a trip 69 00:03:28,320 --> 00:03:30,600 Speaker 3: to Rottnest Island to get a clock a selfie. 70 00:03:30,720 --> 00:03:33,160 Speaker 1: I was swimming at a beach of what Rotneys island 71 00:03:33,160 --> 00:03:35,000 Speaker 1: and they pulled everyone in because a great white chart. 72 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:39,760 Speaker 3: God. Yeah, well, there are a few terrors in Australia, 73 00:03:39,960 --> 00:03:41,920 Speaker 3: a few frightening animals and insects. 74 00:03:42,360 --> 00:03:45,040 Speaker 2: Do you have like a mantra you live by? 75 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:50,440 Speaker 3: Oh? God, no, they change every every day. 76 00:03:50,480 --> 00:03:51,080 Speaker 2: It changes. 77 00:03:51,120 --> 00:03:54,880 Speaker 3: But I guess, I guess just kindness and trying to. 78 00:03:57,160 --> 00:03:57,800 Speaker 2: Live with heart. 79 00:03:59,440 --> 00:04:02,280 Speaker 3: I think also I often think, you know, everyone's got 80 00:04:02,320 --> 00:04:05,200 Speaker 3: their shit, everyone's got their things, so try not to 81 00:04:05,240 --> 00:04:05,920 Speaker 3: take it personally. 82 00:04:07,000 --> 00:04:08,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I love what you were saying as well. 83 00:04:08,720 --> 00:04:11,440 Speaker 2: When you feel anxiety, it could just be excitement. 84 00:04:11,760 --> 00:04:15,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, flipping your emotions, Like if you're feeling angry, then 85 00:04:16,080 --> 00:04:18,839 Speaker 3: use that fire, fire yourself up and use that to 86 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:20,400 Speaker 3: do something to take action. 87 00:04:21,440 --> 00:04:24,720 Speaker 1: Final question, it's a biggie though, for someone that's listening, 88 00:04:24,760 --> 00:04:26,799 Speaker 1: if they've just this, if they've just had a little 89 00:04:26,839 --> 00:04:29,800 Speaker 1: like step back of failure, a little lesson, like how 90 00:04:29,839 --> 00:04:32,760 Speaker 1: do you kind of like find that gumption to like, you. 91 00:04:32,720 --> 00:04:35,120 Speaker 2: Know, pull your socks up, keep going. 92 00:04:36,960 --> 00:04:41,200 Speaker 3: I the first thing I do is have a barth yeah, yeah, 93 00:04:41,240 --> 00:04:43,880 Speaker 3: and then go to bed, because usually everything is worse 94 00:04:43,920 --> 00:04:46,680 Speaker 3: at the end of a day, Like, no matter what's happened, 95 00:04:46,720 --> 00:04:48,720 Speaker 3: if it's the end of the day and you can 96 00:04:48,880 --> 00:04:52,919 Speaker 3: have that little time to just reset. Tomorrow's a new day, 97 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:56,080 Speaker 3: the sun will shine again, everything will be okay. Just 98 00:04:56,200 --> 00:04:59,440 Speaker 3: tell yourself that you've got this. And usually when you 99 00:04:59,480 --> 00:05:01,159 Speaker 3: do have a you wake up and you look at 100 00:05:01,200 --> 00:05:03,960 Speaker 3: things with new eyes. You know, failing that callor girlfriend 101 00:05:04,080 --> 00:05:07,000 Speaker 3: or you know, a family member and lean on them 102 00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:09,160 Speaker 3: for support, because we're not in this alone. And that's 103 00:05:09,320 --> 00:05:11,880 Speaker 3: another thing that these beautiful podcast teachers is that we've 104 00:05:11,920 --> 00:05:14,159 Speaker 3: always got, you know, wisdom at the other end of 105 00:05:14,160 --> 00:05:14,559 Speaker 3: the line. 106 00:05:15,320 --> 00:05:15,840 Speaker 2: Thank you for. 107 00:05:15,839 --> 00:05:18,800 Speaker 1: Jumping on this pod than to the listener if you 108 00:05:18,800 --> 00:05:22,320 Speaker 1: haven't listened to it Monday. See you're an absolute legend 109 00:05:22,760 --> 00:05:25,400 Speaker 1: and there's links to your beautiful pod in the show notes. 110 00:05:25,480 --> 00:05:27,400 Speaker 3: Thanks slowly, you're a gem. 111 00:05:28,320 --> 00:05:29,479 Speaker 2: Flight back to Australia. 112 00:05:29,920 --> 00:05:30,880 Speaker 3: You don't want to go home.