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Speaker 1: Torres Strait Islander peoples. Today I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson,

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Speaker 1: and this is the Rise and Conquer podcast. This is

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Speaker 1: the podcast where we have mindset, self development and becoming

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Speaker 1: help you be curious, pull yourself out, and embrace radical

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Speaker 2: If you're ready to get into the.

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Speaker 1: Driver's seat of your own life, stop letting life pass

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Speaker 1: Happy Friday, Welcome back to the potty. Firstly, I apologize

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Speaker 1: But today, guys, we are answering a question from a

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Speaker 2: You believe is what you get.

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