1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:16,400 Speaker 1: She's on the Money. She's on the Money. Hello and 2 00:00:16,600 --> 00:00:19,280 Speaker 1: welcome to She's on the Money, the podcast for millennials 3 00:00:19,280 --> 00:00:22,640 Speaker 1: who want financial freedom. My name is Georgia King. I'm 4 00:00:22,640 --> 00:00:25,919 Speaker 1: a copywriter and journalism student, and each week I sit 5 00:00:25,960 --> 00:00:28,560 Speaker 1: down to chat all things financed with Melbourne based money 6 00:00:28,560 --> 00:00:33,160 Speaker 1: guru Victoria Devine. Victoria, Hello, Georgia, Hello, Hello. Now today 7 00:00:33,240 --> 00:00:37,040 Speaker 1: on the show, we're asking one very big question, that is, 8 00:00:37,280 --> 00:00:40,240 Speaker 1: what would you do with one million dollars? Now, we've 9 00:00:40,320 --> 00:00:42,920 Speaker 1: all fantasized about it, We've bought the lot of tickets, 10 00:00:42,960 --> 00:00:44,800 Speaker 1: we've applied to be on Eddie McGuire's Who wants to 11 00:00:44,800 --> 00:00:47,159 Speaker 1: be a Millionaire. But when it comes down to it, 12 00:00:47,240 --> 00:00:50,279 Speaker 1: if you received this massive sum of money, what on 13 00:00:50,400 --> 00:00:52,040 Speaker 1: earth would you actually do with it? 14 00:00:52,120 --> 00:00:54,040 Speaker 2: Is it bad that I've never done either of those things? 15 00:00:54,080 --> 00:00:56,040 Speaker 2: We're like, sorry to ruin you. You've never bought a 16 00:00:56,080 --> 00:00:57,960 Speaker 2: lot of tickets, No, nor have I applied to be 17 00:00:58,000 --> 00:00:59,760 Speaker 2: on Eddie mcguise Who wants to be a Millionaire. 18 00:01:00,560 --> 00:01:03,080 Speaker 1: Will be unpacking all of that, Plus we'll be hearing 19 00:01:03,080 --> 00:01:05,120 Speaker 1: from a listener who is unsure about what to do 20 00:01:05,160 --> 00:01:09,200 Speaker 1: with her inheritance. Before we dive deep, Victoria money wins 21 00:01:09,240 --> 00:01:11,399 Speaker 1: and confessions from the week. I know what you're going 22 00:01:11,440 --> 00:01:12,000 Speaker 1: to say. 23 00:01:11,959 --> 00:01:15,280 Speaker 2: Georgia King, I got a dog. I know. So she 24 00:01:15,560 --> 00:01:18,440 Speaker 2: is literally the most beautiful thing that I've ever seen 25 00:01:18,440 --> 00:01:22,119 Speaker 2: in my entire life, which is obviously not overdrugged by 26 00:01:22,120 --> 00:01:25,280 Speaker 2: inner stretch of the imagination. Her name is Lucy, and 27 00:01:25,400 --> 00:01:29,360 Speaker 2: Lucy is nine weeks old and is my money confession 28 00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:31,440 Speaker 2: this week because of how much money I've spent at 29 00:01:31,480 --> 00:01:32,639 Speaker 2: Camart on dog toys. 30 00:01:32,800 --> 00:01:33,520 Speaker 1: What are we talking? 31 00:01:33,800 --> 00:01:36,839 Speaker 2: Oh, look, more than I'm willing to admit to. Because 32 00:01:36,880 --> 00:01:39,360 Speaker 2: it wasn't just camar. I also went online and then 33 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:41,840 Speaker 2: I got a little bit carried away and found some 34 00:01:41,880 --> 00:01:44,600 Speaker 2: Instagram accounts that had some really fun dog accessories. And 35 00:01:45,040 --> 00:01:47,000 Speaker 2: I grew up with dogs. I love dogs. I have 36 00:01:47,120 --> 00:01:49,680 Speaker 2: literally waited my entire life to get a dog. If 37 00:01:49,720 --> 00:01:52,360 Speaker 2: you know me personally, you know it is literally all 38 00:01:52,440 --> 00:01:55,400 Speaker 2: I talk about. The number one thing my partner and 39 00:01:55,400 --> 00:01:57,800 Speaker 2: I talk about in the mornings on our morning walks 40 00:01:57,840 --> 00:02:01,080 Speaker 2: together is dogs. I point out every dog that we 41 00:02:01,160 --> 00:02:04,600 Speaker 2: go past. I'm also on Snapchat with my friends and 42 00:02:04,800 --> 00:02:08,160 Speaker 2: I pretty much exclusively use it as a dog spotting app, 43 00:02:08,160 --> 00:02:10,720 Speaker 2: and I will take photos of people's dogs and send 44 00:02:10,760 --> 00:02:13,359 Speaker 2: it to them and be like, hey, number three dog today, 45 00:02:13,400 --> 00:02:14,400 Speaker 2: you're welcome friends. 46 00:02:14,400 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 1: Stunning. 47 00:02:15,160 --> 00:02:18,040 Speaker 2: Yeah. So I'm a bit dog obsessed and always have been, 48 00:02:18,160 --> 00:02:20,040 Speaker 2: and now I'm so excited to be in a position 49 00:02:20,080 --> 00:02:23,120 Speaker 2: where I can actually give the dog off my dreams 50 00:02:23,680 --> 00:02:27,240 Speaker 2: the laugh it deserves. So I'm super excited about her 51 00:02:27,360 --> 00:02:29,840 Speaker 2: and just super excited about that. She's also the official 52 00:02:29,919 --> 00:02:31,920 Speaker 2: She's on the Money office dog because she will be 53 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:34,639 Speaker 2: in the office occasionally. I don't know how long that 54 00:02:34,680 --> 00:02:36,480 Speaker 2: will last though, because guys, she's going to get to 55 00:02:36,560 --> 00:02:39,639 Speaker 2: like thirty kilos at least are the big dogs. Yeah, 56 00:02:39,680 --> 00:02:40,799 Speaker 2: she's going to be a big dog. 57 00:02:40,800 --> 00:02:41,679 Speaker 1: What kind of dog is it again? 58 00:02:41,760 --> 00:02:45,639 Speaker 2: She's an old English sheep dog crosspoodle thing. Yeah, she's 59 00:02:45,800 --> 00:02:49,880 Speaker 2: utiful anyway, if you guys. Obviously just a subtle plug. 60 00:02:50,360 --> 00:02:52,840 Speaker 2: I made her in Instagram account. So that's Lucy the 61 00:02:52,840 --> 00:02:56,160 Speaker 2: Golden Sheeperdoodle for those of you following along at home. 62 00:02:56,280 --> 00:02:59,560 Speaker 2: But yeah, like that's my money confession slash plug for 63 00:02:59,639 --> 00:03:02,799 Speaker 2: my dog Instagram. I promised myself I wouldn't be that person. 64 00:03:02,880 --> 00:03:03,520 Speaker 2: Yet here we. 65 00:03:03,480 --> 00:03:05,600 Speaker 1: Are a little influencer dog. I love that for you. 66 00:03:05,760 --> 00:03:08,240 Speaker 2: Do you see the influencer it's stunning. It's gonna happen. 67 00:03:08,600 --> 00:03:11,359 Speaker 2: It's gonna happen. Georgia King, have you got a money 68 00:03:11,360 --> 00:03:14,560 Speaker 2: win all confession for me? That could potentially rival a puppy? 69 00:03:14,840 --> 00:03:18,520 Speaker 1: No, nothing could rival a puppy dull. It is much 70 00:03:18,560 --> 00:03:23,840 Speaker 1: more small scale. So recently I discovered this brand called 71 00:03:24,160 --> 00:03:30,480 Speaker 1: Flower Makeup brand. It's brand that's quite interesting for me anyway. 72 00:03:31,120 --> 00:03:33,040 Speaker 1: I actually can't remember the shade, which is going to 73 00:03:33,040 --> 00:03:35,839 Speaker 1: be frustrating for everyone listening. But it's this lovely kind 74 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:41,560 Speaker 1: of beigey, quite neutral toned color and it is delicious anyway, 75 00:03:41,600 --> 00:03:44,080 Speaker 1: big fan. It was only ten dollars, but I got 76 00:03:44,080 --> 00:03:47,280 Speaker 1: it half priced for five dollars guys, So three cheers 77 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:48,760 Speaker 1: for George. 78 00:03:48,800 --> 00:03:51,800 Speaker 2: Would the color potentially be spiced petture? 79 00:03:51,880 --> 00:03:52,480 Speaker 1: That's the one? 80 00:03:52,760 --> 00:03:53,080 Speaker 3: That one? 81 00:03:53,160 --> 00:03:54,600 Speaker 1: It's that the one. Do you have that one? 82 00:03:54,720 --> 00:03:54,800 Speaker 3: To? 83 00:03:54,920 --> 00:03:56,800 Speaker 2: Yeah? I have that one. It's the one I keep 84 00:03:56,840 --> 00:03:59,400 Speaker 2: recommending that you purchase. And now you think that you've 85 00:03:59,440 --> 00:04:01,040 Speaker 2: discovered the slipped stick brand. 86 00:04:00,840 --> 00:04:02,760 Speaker 1: All on your own. When did you recommend it? 87 00:04:02,800 --> 00:04:04,680 Speaker 2: When you were talking about how you wanted the Charlotte 88 00:04:04,680 --> 00:04:09,200 Speaker 2: Tillsbury version of it? Oh my gosh, so expensive, like 89 00:04:09,320 --> 00:04:11,480 Speaker 2: months ago, Georgia King. I feel like you are my 90 00:04:11,520 --> 00:04:14,000 Speaker 2: small sibling who doesn't listen to anything I say and 91 00:04:14,000 --> 00:04:17,120 Speaker 2: then thinks they've discovered themselves. But that's cool, that's cool. 92 00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:19,920 Speaker 2: I'm glad that you've got that money in because it's literally, 93 00:04:20,600 --> 00:04:22,599 Speaker 2: I would argue, one of the best tubes for the 94 00:04:22,720 --> 00:04:26,560 Speaker 2: Charlotte Tillsbury pillow talk. If you guys are into makeup, 95 00:04:27,000 --> 00:04:28,960 Speaker 2: you would know that that is kind of like a 96 00:04:29,040 --> 00:04:32,320 Speaker 2: cult favorite. But it's also only available I think online 97 00:04:32,360 --> 00:04:35,280 Speaker 2: and overseas, yep. And it's also kind of pricey. It's 98 00:04:35,320 --> 00:04:37,360 Speaker 2: like forty five dollars USD. 99 00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:39,080 Speaker 1: Think it might be oh yeah, USD probably. 100 00:04:39,200 --> 00:04:41,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like an American price, but yeah, I think 101 00:04:41,760 --> 00:04:43,279 Speaker 2: that's what it was. So it's not cheap. 102 00:04:43,320 --> 00:04:46,479 Speaker 1: But guys, flower lipstick is cheap, so get that on 103 00:04:46,560 --> 00:04:48,200 Speaker 1: your flower lipstick. Yep. 104 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:51,240 Speaker 2: Five bucks Chemist Warehouse. We're not sponsored by them. 105 00:04:51,160 --> 00:04:53,080 Speaker 1: Would love to be, but oh that'd be good, true, 106 00:04:53,120 --> 00:04:56,280 Speaker 1: that would listening. Get in touch hunt alrighty V. Let's 107 00:04:56,320 --> 00:04:59,920 Speaker 1: move straight across to the Facebook group. Did any posts 108 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:01,120 Speaker 1: stand out to you this week? 109 00:05:01,160 --> 00:05:03,880 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, yes, I have a post this week 110 00:05:03,960 --> 00:05:07,040 Speaker 2: from our friend Emily who posted money Win. Now this 111 00:05:07,120 --> 00:05:10,880 Speaker 2: one is a long story, but also a very beautiful one. 112 00:05:10,920 --> 00:05:13,320 Speaker 2: In twenty fifteen, when she was nineteen, she met her 113 00:05:13,360 --> 00:05:16,480 Speaker 2: beautiful husband, and a week after they started dating, they 114 00:05:16,520 --> 00:05:18,960 Speaker 2: found out that he was terminally ill. They ended up 115 00:05:18,960 --> 00:05:21,920 Speaker 2: getting married, which is so cute, and had almost two 116 00:05:21,960 --> 00:05:24,839 Speaker 2: wonderful years together before she lost him in twenty seventeen 117 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 2: when she was twenty one. In that time, she stopped 118 00:05:27,560 --> 00:05:29,640 Speaker 2: work to care for him, which honestly is such a 119 00:05:29,640 --> 00:05:31,960 Speaker 2: beautiful thing to do, and it was one of the 120 00:05:32,000 --> 00:05:34,479 Speaker 2: hardest things that she's ever been through. She was really 121 00:05:34,520 --> 00:05:37,320 Speaker 2: lost in a very dark place mentally and financially, and 122 00:05:37,360 --> 00:05:40,040 Speaker 2: as you can imagine, two years of constant hospital stays 123 00:05:40,160 --> 00:05:44,800 Speaker 2: and being four hours from her home was extremely pressing financially. 124 00:05:45,200 --> 00:05:48,440 Speaker 2: So this story is really beautiful because she said, you know, 125 00:05:48,560 --> 00:05:50,440 Speaker 2: all of that happened. She was living week to week, 126 00:05:50,560 --> 00:05:53,599 Speaker 2: had no savings. Parents looked after her, which is, you know, 127 00:05:54,000 --> 00:05:56,400 Speaker 2: such a beautiful thing to do as well, And she said, 128 00:05:56,440 --> 00:05:58,640 Speaker 2: a year and a half later, she met her now partner, 129 00:05:59,120 --> 00:06:02,280 Speaker 2: and she's worked really hard to become mentally and financially stable, 130 00:06:02,320 --> 00:06:04,880 Speaker 2: and now two and a half years after meeting her partner, 131 00:06:05,040 --> 00:06:08,000 Speaker 2: they've just built their first home, and I just this 132 00:06:08,160 --> 00:06:11,160 Speaker 2: story was so beautiful. The comments on this were even better. 133 00:06:11,360 --> 00:06:13,960 Speaker 2: I just feel like it is a constant reminder that 134 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:16,160 Speaker 2: no matter how bad things can get, you can come 135 00:06:16,240 --> 00:06:18,360 Speaker 2: out of it. She said that she had lost all 136 00:06:18,400 --> 00:06:20,400 Speaker 2: hope and she thought that she'd be, you know, stuck 137 00:06:20,440 --> 00:06:22,320 Speaker 2: where she was for the rest of her life. But 138 00:06:22,600 --> 00:06:25,360 Speaker 2: now she's here, She's kicking goals and embracing the beautiful 139 00:06:25,360 --> 00:06:27,760 Speaker 2: things that life has to offer. And she just wanted 140 00:06:27,760 --> 00:06:30,440 Speaker 2: to remind everybody that you should all hang in there. 141 00:06:30,480 --> 00:06:32,960 Speaker 2: And I just think that that was Ah, this is 142 00:06:32,960 --> 00:06:36,600 Speaker 2: what our community is about, Georgia and these these stories. Honestly, 143 00:06:36,680 --> 00:06:39,920 Speaker 2: how grateful are we to receive these? She took the 144 00:06:39,960 --> 00:06:42,640 Speaker 2: time to share that with us, and I honestly I 145 00:06:42,640 --> 00:06:44,120 Speaker 2: had a bit of a teary when I read all 146 00:06:44,160 --> 00:06:47,840 Speaker 2: the comments because everybody was so supportive and congratulating her, 147 00:06:48,000 --> 00:06:49,720 Speaker 2: and just there was so many beautiful comments. 148 00:06:49,720 --> 00:06:52,680 Speaker 1: I have goosebumps hearing you read that again, and I 149 00:06:52,680 --> 00:06:54,640 Speaker 1: did when I read it myself as well. It's just 150 00:06:54,680 --> 00:06:55,200 Speaker 1: so moving. 151 00:06:55,480 --> 00:06:57,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, look, Emily, thank you for sharing that. It was 152 00:06:57,680 --> 00:07:01,120 Speaker 2: really beautiful. And she uploaded too, really really lovely pictures 153 00:07:01,160 --> 00:07:03,159 Speaker 2: one of her past partner and one of her current partner, 154 00:07:03,160 --> 00:07:05,640 Speaker 2: and I just think that, you know, she's honoring both 155 00:07:05,680 --> 00:07:06,800 Speaker 2: of them in such a great way. 156 00:07:07,000 --> 00:07:08,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, thanks for sharing, Emily. 157 00:07:08,960 --> 00:07:11,640 Speaker 2: Georgia King, do you have a money win or confession 158 00:07:11,640 --> 00:07:13,640 Speaker 2: from the community that you would like to share with us? 159 00:07:14,000 --> 00:07:17,160 Speaker 1: So this is very much a mood shift. So mine 160 00:07:17,320 --> 00:07:21,600 Speaker 1: is a simple little money win related to food and gifting. 161 00:07:21,640 --> 00:07:24,680 Speaker 1: So it's from Chloe and she needed gifts for Christmas 162 00:07:24,680 --> 00:07:28,200 Speaker 1: for her personal training clients, and she decided to make 163 00:07:28,280 --> 00:07:32,440 Speaker 1: homemade healthy granola. Yem it looks incredible. So the cost 164 00:07:32,480 --> 00:07:34,720 Speaker 1: of the eight jars and ribbon that she's used was 165 00:07:34,760 --> 00:07:38,120 Speaker 1: fifteen dollars. The cost of the ingredients for the granola 166 00:07:38,280 --> 00:07:40,800 Speaker 1: was also fifteen dollars from aldi little shout out to 167 00:07:40,840 --> 00:07:43,960 Speaker 1: our mates, and the total cost per gift came down 168 00:07:44,000 --> 00:07:45,559 Speaker 1: to three dollars seventy five. 169 00:07:45,720 --> 00:07:49,440 Speaker 2: And it actually looks delicious, doesn't it. I love breakfast out. 170 00:07:49,480 --> 00:07:51,560 Speaker 1: I'm quite interested in stealing some. 171 00:07:52,400 --> 00:07:55,080 Speaker 2: I actually think that looks like such beautiful granola actually, 172 00:07:55,240 --> 00:07:57,840 Speaker 2: And my favorite part about that was Chloe actually gave 173 00:07:57,920 --> 00:08:00,080 Speaker 2: us the recipe. She did. She did, and what are 174 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:00,920 Speaker 2: you going to do with it? This week? 175 00:08:00,920 --> 00:08:03,560 Speaker 1: Georgia Kings love that in the newsletter gels. 176 00:08:03,480 --> 00:08:06,720 Speaker 2: So everybody, Chloe's granola recipe is going to be in 177 00:08:06,720 --> 00:08:07,760 Speaker 2: our newsletter this week. 178 00:08:08,040 --> 00:08:11,360 Speaker 1: Percent is Now we'll move on to the main chat today. Guys. 179 00:08:11,400 --> 00:08:14,280 Speaker 1: Before our show today, we asked in the Facebook group 180 00:08:14,360 --> 00:08:16,480 Speaker 1: what you would do with one million dollars and here 181 00:08:16,640 --> 00:08:17,640 Speaker 1: is what you had to say. 182 00:08:18,920 --> 00:08:21,280 Speaker 4: If I want a million dollars, I would buy my 183 00:08:21,400 --> 00:08:23,840 Speaker 4: mama house and set her up so she never has 184 00:08:23,920 --> 00:08:27,880 Speaker 4: to worry about money again. Hey, girls, my name is 185 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:30,800 Speaker 4: Erin and if I want a million dollars today, I 186 00:08:31,080 --> 00:08:34,120 Speaker 4: would want to buy a blimp. I don't really know 187 00:08:34,240 --> 00:08:37,800 Speaker 4: how to justify this outrageous purchase, but as far as 188 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:40,800 Speaker 4: I know, there's only one in the Southern Hemisphere, and 189 00:08:40,920 --> 00:08:44,640 Speaker 4: there's opportunities for ongoing advertising rights. I mean, how often 190 00:08:44,640 --> 00:08:47,360 Speaker 4: do you see a blimp in the sky? Plus I 191 00:08:47,360 --> 00:08:51,280 Speaker 4: can tell ride tickets on it too. Anyway, thanks ladies, 192 00:08:52,679 --> 00:08:55,440 Speaker 4: at least enough hungies to roll around in a photo 193 00:08:55,440 --> 00:08:56,280 Speaker 4: shoot before I. 194 00:08:56,200 --> 00:08:58,680 Speaker 2: Realized I had to kind of be responsible. 195 00:08:58,080 --> 00:08:58,480 Speaker 3: With it. 196 00:09:00,120 --> 00:09:00,960 Speaker 1: A million dollars. 197 00:09:01,000 --> 00:09:04,319 Speaker 5: First of all, I would do nothing and tell nobody, 198 00:09:04,480 --> 00:09:07,400 Speaker 5: probably for like a month, and then I would. 199 00:09:07,200 --> 00:09:10,840 Speaker 1: Book a financial advisor appointment. I'd probably aim to like 200 00:09:10,960 --> 00:09:13,960 Speaker 1: keep one hundred thousand dollars for a house deposit because 201 00:09:14,040 --> 00:09:18,040 Speaker 1: interest rates are quite low, and invest everything else. Now, 202 00:09:18,080 --> 00:09:21,079 Speaker 1: it is a weirdly hard question to answer. B and 203 00:09:21,120 --> 00:09:23,280 Speaker 1: I love the variety that we had in that little 204 00:09:23,280 --> 00:09:26,160 Speaker 1: audio clip from our community there. I think buying a 205 00:09:26,160 --> 00:09:29,320 Speaker 1: blimp was probably my favorite suggestion, even though we realized 206 00:09:29,360 --> 00:09:33,880 Speaker 1: that they actually cost forty to seventy million. But eron in. 207 00:09:33,880 --> 00:09:35,959 Speaker 2: This so honestly, erin gohard or go home. 208 00:09:36,040 --> 00:09:37,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, and we were saying we could even maybe start 209 00:09:37,920 --> 00:09:39,640 Speaker 1: a go Fundme page and we could all put in 210 00:09:39,679 --> 00:09:42,040 Speaker 1: for a blimp. So another common theme that came up 211 00:09:42,160 --> 00:09:44,800 Speaker 1: V was buying a house, which I feel like makes sense. 212 00:09:44,960 --> 00:09:47,000 Speaker 1: That's pretty seems like a sensible thing to do with 213 00:09:47,040 --> 00:09:47,800 Speaker 1: a million dollars. 214 00:09:48,200 --> 00:09:50,240 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie, that's a little bit more achievable 215 00:09:50,240 --> 00:09:50,720 Speaker 2: than a blimp. 216 00:09:50,840 --> 00:09:54,960 Speaker 1: But what were your favorites from the suggestions we had 217 00:09:55,000 --> 00:09:55,880 Speaker 1: in the Facebook group. 218 00:09:55,960 --> 00:09:59,720 Speaker 2: I really liked the vegan gingerbread house that was life size, 219 00:10:00,200 --> 00:10:03,680 Speaker 2: like that was really reasonable. I also loved the cars. 220 00:10:03,720 --> 00:10:05,720 Speaker 2: I loved that people wanted to pay off their debt, 221 00:10:06,080 --> 00:10:08,200 Speaker 2: and I also loved that so many of you said 222 00:10:08,200 --> 00:10:10,600 Speaker 2: that you would share it. How kind was that so 223 00:10:10,679 --> 00:10:12,800 Speaker 2: many people were like, oh my gosh, I were distributed 224 00:10:12,840 --> 00:10:15,800 Speaker 2: among my family to charity, some to charity. Yeah, you 225 00:10:15,840 --> 00:10:18,080 Speaker 2: guys are all epic and I absolutely loved your answers, 226 00:10:18,080 --> 00:10:19,559 Speaker 2: So that was really fun. Maybe we should get the 227 00:10:19,559 --> 00:10:23,240 Speaker 2: community involved more, send us more voice memos, Love fast. 228 00:10:23,120 --> 00:10:26,240 Speaker 1: Memo, They're the best. So sadly, though, not all of 229 00:10:26,320 --> 00:10:28,880 Speaker 1: us are going to win a hot one million dollars 230 00:10:28,960 --> 00:10:30,959 Speaker 1: out of nowhere, nice as it would be. 231 00:10:31,120 --> 00:10:34,360 Speaker 2: What it's not common explain to. 232 00:10:34,320 --> 00:10:37,280 Speaker 1: Our listeners who are at home thinking, how on earth 233 00:10:37,400 --> 00:10:39,439 Speaker 1: is this relevant to me? Like the girls have lost 234 00:10:39,480 --> 00:10:41,680 Speaker 1: the plot? Can you explain why we have decided to 235 00:10:41,720 --> 00:10:43,280 Speaker 1: dedicate a whole show to this topic? 236 00:10:43,400 --> 00:10:45,520 Speaker 2: Look, well, we have lost the plot. It is coming 237 00:10:45,600 --> 00:10:48,120 Speaker 2: up to Christmas. But also I felt like this was 238 00:10:48,160 --> 00:10:51,240 Speaker 2: going to be a super interesting topic. How many times 239 00:10:51,240 --> 00:10:54,079 Speaker 2: have we all fantasized about winning a million dollars? Or 240 00:10:54,120 --> 00:10:55,920 Speaker 2: we ask our friends at the dinner table like what 241 00:10:55,960 --> 00:10:57,920 Speaker 2: would you do with a million dollars? Like we've all 242 00:10:58,240 --> 00:11:02,520 Speaker 2: asked that question once in our lives. But I completely 243 00:11:02,559 --> 00:11:05,120 Speaker 2: gain that this topic might seem a little bit unrelatable, 244 00:11:05,240 --> 00:11:07,760 Speaker 2: and George, you are bang on. Realistically, not many of 245 00:11:07,840 --> 00:11:09,920 Speaker 2: us aren't actually going to win a million dollars. But 246 00:11:10,080 --> 00:11:12,760 Speaker 2: what I'm really interested in discussing today is two things. 247 00:11:13,040 --> 00:11:15,840 Speaker 2: First things, first, the psychology around what happens when we 248 00:11:15,960 --> 00:11:17,959 Speaker 2: do suddenly have a lump sum of money in our 249 00:11:18,040 --> 00:11:20,080 Speaker 2: hot little hands and we don't know what to do 250 00:11:20,120 --> 00:11:22,440 Speaker 2: with that, be that from an inheritance or a mammoth 251 00:11:22,520 --> 00:11:26,520 Speaker 2: pay rise or winning the lotto. Then secondly, I wanted 252 00:11:26,520 --> 00:11:28,480 Speaker 2: to talk about what we should be doing with that money. 253 00:11:28,480 --> 00:11:30,880 Speaker 2: Should we be saving, should be investing, should we be 254 00:11:31,040 --> 00:11:32,920 Speaker 2: spending it? Should we be you know, sharing it with 255 00:11:32,920 --> 00:11:34,920 Speaker 2: our friends and family? And I also really want to 256 00:11:34,960 --> 00:11:37,360 Speaker 2: chat today about why so many people who do win 257 00:11:37,360 --> 00:11:39,640 Speaker 2: big or end up with huge amounts of money can 258 00:11:39,720 --> 00:11:42,520 Speaker 2: often end up burning through it so so quickly. So 259 00:11:42,559 --> 00:11:44,959 Speaker 2: I get why people might be thinking, what on earth 260 00:11:45,040 --> 00:11:47,360 Speaker 2: are they thinking? What is this episode about? But I 261 00:11:47,440 --> 00:11:50,360 Speaker 2: promise you it is going to be a super interesting. 262 00:11:50,000 --> 00:11:53,360 Speaker 1: Chat, and let's start in a very interesting place here 263 00:11:53,480 --> 00:11:56,520 Speaker 1: be We're going to cut to the million dollar question. Hahaha, 264 00:11:56,840 --> 00:12:02,040 Speaker 1: what would you Victoria divine financial Advisor extraordinary do with 265 00:12:02,120 --> 00:12:04,320 Speaker 1: one million dollars? Do you save it, spend it, or 266 00:12:04,320 --> 00:12:06,199 Speaker 1: invest it. 267 00:12:05,480 --> 00:12:07,600 Speaker 2: On dog toys? Like I feel like that's something that 268 00:12:07,679 --> 00:12:10,920 Speaker 2: I would genuinely do. But if somebody gave me a 269 00:12:10,960 --> 00:12:12,960 Speaker 2: million dollars today, I would be putting it into my 270 00:12:12,960 --> 00:12:16,560 Speaker 2: share portfolio because, and I've said it before, passive income 271 00:12:16,720 --> 00:12:19,800 Speaker 2: is the thing that I am working towards. And passive 272 00:12:19,840 --> 00:12:22,400 Speaker 2: income from a million dollars, if we had a five 273 00:12:22,400 --> 00:12:25,480 Speaker 2: percent return, would mean about fifty thousand dollars a year 274 00:12:25,480 --> 00:12:27,560 Speaker 2: of passive income, and that would be money I didn't 275 00:12:27,559 --> 00:12:30,160 Speaker 2: have to work for for the rest of my life. 276 00:12:30,480 --> 00:12:32,480 Speaker 2: So a lot of you guys said, oh, I'd go 277 00:12:32,520 --> 00:12:35,120 Speaker 2: and buy a home outright, My friends, I would not. 278 00:12:35,840 --> 00:12:39,280 Speaker 2: If a home was my goal, I would be purchasing 279 00:12:39,280 --> 00:12:41,320 Speaker 2: a home with a mortgage because at the moment, interest 280 00:12:41,400 --> 00:12:44,120 Speaker 2: rates are really low. We hear us seeing twos and 281 00:12:44,160 --> 00:12:47,079 Speaker 2: ones at the start of interest rates now, which is crazy. 282 00:12:47,400 --> 00:12:49,920 Speaker 2: And I would use that passive income of fifty thousand 283 00:12:49,960 --> 00:12:52,400 Speaker 2: dollars a year to pay back my mortgage over the 284 00:12:52,480 --> 00:12:55,000 Speaker 2: long term, so that at the end of my mortgage, 285 00:12:55,040 --> 00:12:57,040 Speaker 2: I had a completely paid off house and I still 286 00:12:57,040 --> 00:12:58,080 Speaker 2: had my million dollars. 287 00:12:58,160 --> 00:13:01,120 Speaker 1: Okay, So that sounds like quite a thing to do. 288 00:13:01,160 --> 00:13:03,040 Speaker 1: But the stats show us that a good number of 289 00:13:03,040 --> 00:13:06,199 Speaker 1: people who win money suddenly do actually burn through it just. 290 00:13:06,120 --> 00:13:07,440 Speaker 2: As quickly they do so. 291 00:13:07,559 --> 00:13:09,760 Speaker 1: In one study of lot of winners, seventy percent of 292 00:13:09,800 --> 00:13:12,440 Speaker 1: them has spent every last time of their jackpot within 293 00:13:12,559 --> 00:13:15,800 Speaker 1: five years of winning. Now, you obviously know a lot 294 00:13:15,840 --> 00:13:18,880 Speaker 1: about behavioral psychology, V. Can you explain to us be 295 00:13:19,120 --> 00:13:21,559 Speaker 1: what's going on here and what the key differences are 296 00:13:21,640 --> 00:13:23,720 Speaker 1: between money earned and money one. 297 00:13:24,120 --> 00:13:26,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, these stats are not surprising to me. Gee, I 298 00:13:26,920 --> 00:13:30,160 Speaker 2: hear about this happening all the time. Not necessarily people 299 00:13:30,160 --> 00:13:32,160 Speaker 2: who are winning the lotto and then just losing it all, 300 00:13:32,240 --> 00:13:34,839 Speaker 2: but more people who are inheriting large sums of money 301 00:13:34,880 --> 00:13:37,280 Speaker 2: and not really having the financial literacy to know what 302 00:13:37,400 --> 00:13:39,920 Speaker 2: to do with it. This is why I'm so passionate 303 00:13:39,960 --> 00:13:42,720 Speaker 2: about financial education and why it is so important, because 304 00:13:42,760 --> 00:13:44,560 Speaker 2: even if you do win the lotto, or if you 305 00:13:44,559 --> 00:13:47,560 Speaker 2: have a cozy six figure salary, that doesn't automatically make 306 00:13:47,600 --> 00:13:50,680 Speaker 2: you wealthy. Rich on a superficial level, yeah, sure, but 307 00:13:50,840 --> 00:13:53,640 Speaker 2: genuinely wealthy no, of course, if we put a proper 308 00:13:53,679 --> 00:13:55,280 Speaker 2: plan in place and map out what we're going to 309 00:13:55,320 --> 00:13:57,000 Speaker 2: do with that money and set ourselves up for the 310 00:13:57,040 --> 00:13:59,520 Speaker 2: future and for future you, then you're going to be 311 00:13:59,520 --> 00:14:01,920 Speaker 2: in much better place. But ultimately, I think the key 312 00:14:01,960 --> 00:14:05,000 Speaker 2: reason behind why people are losing their fortunes when they 313 00:14:05,160 --> 00:14:07,160 Speaker 2: just get them is a lack of education, and I 314 00:14:07,200 --> 00:14:08,920 Speaker 2: wish they had the foresight to see the benefit of 315 00:14:08,920 --> 00:14:10,920 Speaker 2: meeting with a financial advisor to make sure that that 316 00:14:11,000 --> 00:14:13,320 Speaker 2: money could set them up for an amazing comfortable life 317 00:14:13,320 --> 00:14:15,680 Speaker 2: instead of you know, living large for five years and 318 00:14:15,720 --> 00:14:18,959 Speaker 2: then doing absolutely nothing beyond that, which is kind of scary. 319 00:14:19,480 --> 00:14:21,280 Speaker 2: When it comes to money earned, I think that most 320 00:14:21,280 --> 00:14:23,560 Speaker 2: people would agree that it is much harder to part 321 00:14:23,600 --> 00:14:26,160 Speaker 2: with money that you've actually earned yourself because you've spent 322 00:14:26,280 --> 00:14:29,320 Speaker 2: time and energy working for it, compared to money you 323 00:14:29,400 --> 00:14:32,200 Speaker 2: were gifted or if you won. When you've had to 324 00:14:32,200 --> 00:14:34,560 Speaker 2: put the man hours into building these finances, you don't 325 00:14:34,560 --> 00:14:36,320 Speaker 2: necessarily want to just go and blow it all on 326 00:14:36,360 --> 00:14:38,440 Speaker 2: the weekend. Whereas if you found one hundred bucks on 327 00:14:38,440 --> 00:14:40,960 Speaker 2: the ground today, George, many people would just spend it 328 00:14:41,000 --> 00:14:43,480 Speaker 2: because it's quote free money or it's a bit of 329 00:14:43,480 --> 00:14:45,640 Speaker 2: a bonus that they can splurge a little with. Instead 330 00:14:45,640 --> 00:14:47,800 Speaker 2: of being like, oh, this one hundred dollars will look 331 00:14:47,840 --> 00:14:50,760 Speaker 2: really pretty in my micro investing account. Actually, there may 332 00:14:50,760 --> 00:14:52,720 Speaker 2: be some people in ashes on the money community that 333 00:14:52,760 --> 00:14:55,160 Speaker 2: would immediately think of that. I'm thinking of my friend Fiona, 334 00:14:55,280 --> 00:14:57,680 Speaker 2: who is my Instagram friend, who's the markdown hustle for 335 00:14:57,720 --> 00:14:59,600 Speaker 2: those of you playing along the home, and I guarantee 336 00:14:59,600 --> 00:15:02,360 Speaker 2: you should have invested that. I know you, Fiona, I 337 00:15:02,360 --> 00:15:05,040 Speaker 2: love you, Fiona. But I think you get the gist 338 00:15:05,080 --> 00:15:07,280 Speaker 2: of what I'm trying to say. We treat money, we 339 00:15:07,320 --> 00:15:09,920 Speaker 2: are gifted or awarded very differently to the money that 340 00:15:09,960 --> 00:15:13,240 Speaker 2: we have earned ourselves. This perception ends up extending to 341 00:15:13,280 --> 00:15:16,080 Speaker 2: things like your tax return, which people often get very 342 00:15:16,080 --> 00:15:18,240 Speaker 2: excited about because you, guys, seem to think that it 343 00:15:18,320 --> 00:15:20,240 Speaker 2: is free money, even though it's money that you've already 344 00:15:20,280 --> 00:15:22,480 Speaker 2: worked really hard for. The government took it from you, 345 00:15:22,520 --> 00:15:23,720 Speaker 2: and now they're giving it back. 346 00:15:23,760 --> 00:15:23,840 Speaker 1: Like. 347 00:15:23,920 --> 00:15:25,640 Speaker 2: It is not free money. It is money that you've 348 00:15:25,640 --> 00:15:28,040 Speaker 2: earned and you need to do something with. Won't harp 349 00:15:28,040 --> 00:15:29,800 Speaker 2: on about that, because you best believe I'm going to 350 00:15:29,800 --> 00:15:32,280 Speaker 2: do an episode on that in the new year, probably 351 00:15:32,320 --> 00:15:34,800 Speaker 2: closer to tax time though, just so it's really relevant. 352 00:15:34,840 --> 00:15:36,760 Speaker 2: Kind of hits you in the face. You can't forget 353 00:15:36,760 --> 00:15:39,720 Speaker 2: it now, This little theory of mine is actually backed 354 00:15:39,760 --> 00:15:41,640 Speaker 2: up by a few other people. It's not just me 355 00:15:41,720 --> 00:15:45,080 Speaker 2: saying this, as you guys would probably already know, including 356 00:15:45,120 --> 00:15:49,200 Speaker 2: an economist called Richard Taylor who coined the term mental accounting, 357 00:15:49,520 --> 00:15:52,120 Speaker 2: which refers to the contrasting value we place on the 358 00:15:52,200 --> 00:15:55,240 Speaker 2: same amount of money. So basically, the theory says that 359 00:15:55,280 --> 00:15:58,560 Speaker 2: on an individual level, we classify money differently depending on 360 00:15:58,640 --> 00:16:02,520 Speaker 2: how we've acquired it or what we dedicate it to. Now, 361 00:16:02,600 --> 00:16:05,160 Speaker 2: our friend Thala says that the way that we fight 362 00:16:05,200 --> 00:16:08,480 Speaker 2: against this natural mental accounting is to think of money 363 00:16:08,480 --> 00:16:11,720 Speaker 2: as fungible, which is very fun to say. So when 364 00:16:11,720 --> 00:16:14,240 Speaker 2: we say money is fungible, it means that no matter 365 00:16:14,280 --> 00:16:16,400 Speaker 2: how it is acquired or what we plan to do 366 00:16:16,520 --> 00:16:19,560 Speaker 2: with it, all money is exactly the same. We can't 367 00:16:19,600 --> 00:16:21,720 Speaker 2: think of our tax return as free bonus money. We 368 00:16:21,800 --> 00:16:23,600 Speaker 2: need to think of it the same way we think 369 00:16:23,600 --> 00:16:25,880 Speaker 2: of the weeks it might have taken us to earn 370 00:16:25,920 --> 00:16:28,320 Speaker 2: the same amount. So for me, I think it's just 371 00:16:28,400 --> 00:16:31,240 Speaker 2: really important to really see the true value of money 372 00:16:31,280 --> 00:16:33,360 Speaker 2: instead of thinking that some money is free and some 373 00:16:33,400 --> 00:16:35,720 Speaker 2: money is earned, and like that whole thing gets a 374 00:16:35,720 --> 00:16:38,080 Speaker 2: little bit cloudy. So money is money, and that's how 375 00:16:38,120 --> 00:16:39,360 Speaker 2: we should be dealing with it. 376 00:16:39,400 --> 00:16:42,800 Speaker 1: Fungible is such a good word. I didn't really know 377 00:16:42,840 --> 00:16:46,880 Speaker 1: it before today's podcast either, but fun fungible like spongible. 378 00:16:46,960 --> 00:16:48,760 Speaker 1: I don't know if that's a word either, to be honest, 379 00:16:48,800 --> 00:16:49,440 Speaker 1: but it's. 380 00:16:49,320 --> 00:16:51,360 Speaker 2: A fun word to say. And when I saw it 381 00:16:51,400 --> 00:16:52,880 Speaker 2: written down, I was like, Oh, this is going to 382 00:16:52,920 --> 00:16:55,200 Speaker 2: be a weird word to say, like the word moist. 383 00:16:55,720 --> 00:17:00,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, don't bring moist into this chatterh friends, Oh I 384 00:17:00,960 --> 00:17:04,040 Speaker 1: love it. I actually remember a few years ago when 385 00:17:04,040 --> 00:17:06,080 Speaker 1: I was on an hourly rate when I worked at 386 00:17:06,400 --> 00:17:09,840 Speaker 1: the Maze down on the Peninsula. A few girls, a 387 00:17:09,880 --> 00:17:12,720 Speaker 1: few of the Maize girls are big fans of this podcast, 388 00:17:12,760 --> 00:17:15,000 Speaker 1: and a few Vickid so shout out to the Maze 389 00:17:15,040 --> 00:17:16,080 Speaker 1: girls listening right now. 390 00:17:16,200 --> 00:17:17,880 Speaker 2: My little sister was one of those two. 391 00:17:18,119 --> 00:17:21,760 Speaker 1: That's how I'm at Young Debo. When I worked there, 392 00:17:21,880 --> 00:17:23,719 Speaker 1: I would say it. I went shopping, I would look 393 00:17:23,720 --> 00:17:25,360 Speaker 1: at a dress and I'd be like, Oh, I really 394 00:17:25,359 --> 00:17:26,879 Speaker 1: want that. But then I'd be like, oh, no, that 395 00:17:27,119 --> 00:17:29,199 Speaker 1: is like the equivalent to four or five hours at 396 00:17:29,240 --> 00:17:31,160 Speaker 1: the Maize, So I'm gonna put it back. I don't 397 00:17:31,160 --> 00:17:33,280 Speaker 1: want it. And I just think It's really interesting the 398 00:17:33,320 --> 00:17:35,679 Speaker 1: way our brain plays kind of tricks on us like that, 399 00:17:35,960 --> 00:17:37,879 Speaker 1: and it catches you out. But then other times, like 400 00:17:37,920 --> 00:17:39,840 Speaker 1: if you just found two hundred dollars on the ground, 401 00:17:39,840 --> 00:17:41,679 Speaker 1: you'd be like, oh wow, free. Also like who has 402 00:17:41,680 --> 00:17:43,240 Speaker 1: ever found two hundred dollars on the ground? 403 00:17:43,400 --> 00:17:46,040 Speaker 2: I don't know. Can people post in our Facebook group 404 00:17:46,160 --> 00:17:48,560 Speaker 2: the most amount of money they've ever found? But also 405 00:17:48,640 --> 00:17:50,480 Speaker 2: what did you do with it? Like at what point 406 00:17:50,480 --> 00:17:53,280 Speaker 2: are you meant to hand it in to someone? Like 407 00:17:53,440 --> 00:17:56,359 Speaker 2: five bucks? Cool, that's a free coffee for you. Hey, look, 408 00:17:56,440 --> 00:17:59,480 Speaker 2: that's me using that. I'm not fungible at all. But 409 00:17:59,600 --> 00:18:01,880 Speaker 2: also if you found five bucks, like, I get it. 410 00:18:02,040 --> 00:18:04,159 Speaker 2: I have that same mentality we're talking about it. Do 411 00:18:04,200 --> 00:18:06,200 Speaker 2: as I say, not as I do my friends. But 412 00:18:06,280 --> 00:18:07,719 Speaker 2: at what point do you need to hand it in? 413 00:18:07,760 --> 00:18:09,880 Speaker 2: Like if you found five hundred dollars in an envelope 414 00:18:09,880 --> 00:18:11,520 Speaker 2: on the ground, do you need to give that? 415 00:18:11,640 --> 00:18:12,879 Speaker 1: Who? Do you give it to the police? 416 00:18:12,880 --> 00:18:14,560 Speaker 2: Like, I don't know, I would assume the police. 417 00:18:14,720 --> 00:18:16,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, in saying that, I have been known to pick 418 00:18:16,920 --> 00:18:19,760 Speaker 1: up like two dollars from the ground. That's okay, right, 419 00:18:19,800 --> 00:18:22,200 Speaker 1: I'm not handing that into any one. Hey, someone left this. 420 00:18:22,600 --> 00:18:25,480 Speaker 2: No, I know that would be weird. That would be weird. 421 00:18:25,480 --> 00:18:27,399 Speaker 2: But like, what if you found one hundred thousand dollars 422 00:18:27,480 --> 00:18:30,359 Speaker 2: under a house that you bought because someone had like 423 00:18:30,440 --> 00:18:32,760 Speaker 2: stashed it there and then like not forgotten about it. 424 00:18:32,800 --> 00:18:34,000 Speaker 2: I don't know how you forget about it? But you 425 00:18:34,040 --> 00:18:36,080 Speaker 2: know what I mean? Like, is that a thing? Is 426 00:18:36,080 --> 00:18:38,320 Speaker 2: that something that's happening? Yeah, tell us, tell us, I'm so. 427 00:18:38,359 --> 00:18:42,160 Speaker 1: Interested in the FB group and we will approve that immediately. 428 00:18:42,240 --> 00:18:45,200 Speaker 2: Also, like, what is the lowest denomination of money that 429 00:18:45,200 --> 00:18:46,560 Speaker 2: you would pick up off the ground, Georgia. 430 00:18:46,560 --> 00:18:48,679 Speaker 1: It has to be gold, you can't. I'm not interested 431 00:18:48,720 --> 00:18:51,720 Speaker 1: in silver. But maybe that's a horribly privileged thing to say. 432 00:18:51,800 --> 00:18:52,920 Speaker 1: But I don't know. 433 00:18:53,080 --> 00:18:55,000 Speaker 2: So you're not about a bird at the heart. You 434 00:18:55,119 --> 00:18:55,879 Speaker 2: only like gold. 435 00:18:55,920 --> 00:18:58,120 Speaker 1: It's got to be gold, don't I N I'm down 436 00:18:58,160 --> 00:19:00,920 Speaker 1: for but only if no one's watching. Anyway, let's get 437 00:19:00,920 --> 00:19:04,000 Speaker 1: to a podcast. So I wanted to go bigger here, fye, 438 00:19:04,000 --> 00:19:06,320 Speaker 1: We're not just talking about one dollar on the ground. 439 00:19:06,400 --> 00:19:09,200 Speaker 1: I wanted to ask you if you won like sixty 440 00:19:09,280 --> 00:19:14,120 Speaker 1: million dollars in the power Ball, would you still work? Yes? 441 00:19:14,400 --> 00:19:17,639 Speaker 2: I would still work, But I'm a bit crazy in 442 00:19:17,760 --> 00:19:20,600 Speaker 2: saying that it would completely depend on who you are 443 00:19:20,640 --> 00:19:22,439 Speaker 2: as a person and like what makes you tick, what 444 00:19:22,480 --> 00:19:25,560 Speaker 2: makes you happy, Like some people literally work to live, 445 00:19:25,640 --> 00:19:28,879 Speaker 2: whereas I live to work. I suppose is that the 446 00:19:28,960 --> 00:19:30,919 Speaker 2: right quote? I think yes, And now I know that 447 00:19:31,040 --> 00:19:33,320 Speaker 2: I would still work because I literally love what I 448 00:19:33,400 --> 00:19:35,560 Speaker 2: do and I just feel like that freedom, Like how 449 00:19:35,560 --> 00:19:37,360 Speaker 2: cool would it be if I didn't have to earn 450 00:19:37,400 --> 00:19:39,080 Speaker 2: any money ever, and I could just do Sheese on 451 00:19:39,119 --> 00:19:42,080 Speaker 2: the Money twenty four seven without any money concerns Because 452 00:19:42,119 --> 00:19:44,000 Speaker 2: at the end of the day, I am literally, like 453 00:19:44,080 --> 00:19:46,600 Speaker 2: you guys, I'm trying to create wealth and build wealth 454 00:19:46,600 --> 00:19:48,840 Speaker 2: and like, you know, get an income and all of 455 00:19:48,840 --> 00:19:51,400 Speaker 2: that other fun stuff. But yes, I would still work. 456 00:19:51,520 --> 00:19:54,000 Speaker 2: But I think if some people scored sixty mil, I 457 00:19:54,119 --> 00:19:56,320 Speaker 2: definitely think that they just quit their job pretty pronto 458 00:19:56,400 --> 00:19:59,560 Speaker 2: and start living large. In saying that, though, I think 459 00:19:59,560 --> 00:20:02,199 Speaker 2: it would be really important to also let you know 460 00:20:02,240 --> 00:20:05,399 Speaker 2: that there are a number of mental health aspects to that, 461 00:20:06,119 --> 00:20:08,280 Speaker 2: so I think it would be a really big challenge 462 00:20:08,280 --> 00:20:11,200 Speaker 2: to stop working completely. I was reading through some studies 463 00:20:11,200 --> 00:20:15,320 Speaker 2: recently in prep for today's episode and found that after unemployment, 464 00:20:15,400 --> 00:20:20,080 Speaker 2: symptoms of summatization depression and anxiety were significantly greater in 465 00:20:20,119 --> 00:20:23,240 Speaker 2: the unemployed than those who were employed. And now Joja. 466 00:20:23,240 --> 00:20:25,600 Speaker 2: While we probably don't need a study to tell us this, 467 00:20:25,880 --> 00:20:28,520 Speaker 2: because it kind of just makes sense. For many of us. 468 00:20:28,600 --> 00:20:30,560 Speaker 2: Work gives us somewhere to go and something to do, 469 00:20:30,720 --> 00:20:32,680 Speaker 2: and I really do think that the value of purpose 470 00:20:32,760 --> 00:20:36,040 Speaker 2: really can't be diminished. So for me, I think, yes, 471 00:20:36,080 --> 00:20:38,600 Speaker 2: we'd start living large, but maybe we'd still work. About 472 00:20:38,600 --> 00:20:40,480 Speaker 2: how cool would it be to have the freedom to 473 00:20:40,560 --> 00:20:43,240 Speaker 2: choose to not work for money anymore and be able 474 00:20:43,280 --> 00:20:45,480 Speaker 2: to follow your passion or something that you really love. 475 00:20:45,640 --> 00:20:48,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that's exactly right, as long as you've 476 00:20:48,119 --> 00:20:50,600 Speaker 1: still got that purpose in some way or another. 477 00:20:50,760 --> 00:20:51,320 Speaker 2: Absolutely. 478 00:20:52,000 --> 00:20:55,520 Speaker 1: I also read about this idea called sudden wealth syndrome, 479 00:20:55,520 --> 00:20:58,760 Speaker 1: which impacts people who come into large sums of money 480 00:20:58,840 --> 00:21:01,320 Speaker 1: quite suddenly. Can you explain that a little more? 481 00:21:01,520 --> 00:21:04,280 Speaker 2: Yes, Georgia, I actually love this. It is an idea 482 00:21:04,320 --> 00:21:07,720 Speaker 2: that was initially coined by doctor Stephen Golbart, who is 483 00:21:07,760 --> 00:21:10,520 Speaker 2: a psychologist so for in America, and it basically refers 484 00:21:10,560 --> 00:21:13,760 Speaker 2: to the anxiety, guilt, and isolation that comes with coming 485 00:21:13,760 --> 00:21:16,160 Speaker 2: into sudden wealth. Now, I think it would be pretty 486 00:21:16,160 --> 00:21:17,919 Speaker 2: fair to say that many of us would imagine that 487 00:21:18,000 --> 00:21:20,159 Speaker 2: winning the lotter would fix all of our problems and 488 00:21:20,200 --> 00:21:22,840 Speaker 2: life would just suddenly become a breeze. But according to 489 00:21:22,920 --> 00:21:26,359 Speaker 2: this sudden wealth syndrome idea, people who come into significant 490 00:21:26,359 --> 00:21:29,440 Speaker 2: sums of money can become overwhelmed and overspend, or maybe 491 00:21:29,480 --> 00:21:31,879 Speaker 2: they lend silly amounts of money to family and friends, 492 00:21:32,080 --> 00:21:34,679 Speaker 2: which we all know is a fraught with danger. And 493 00:21:34,720 --> 00:21:37,600 Speaker 2: people can also grow super suspicious of those around them 494 00:21:37,600 --> 00:21:40,000 Speaker 2: because they don't know what their motives are. Now, the 495 00:21:40,080 --> 00:21:42,800 Speaker 2: thing here is that most people who come into huge 496 00:21:42,840 --> 00:21:45,720 Speaker 2: sums of money, be that money one or inherited or 497 00:21:45,720 --> 00:21:48,720 Speaker 2: whatever that might be, is that they don't necessarily have 498 00:21:48,800 --> 00:21:51,240 Speaker 2: the financial education to know what to do with that 499 00:21:51,320 --> 00:21:54,359 Speaker 2: money or the inherited assets. So the point here that 500 00:21:54,440 --> 00:21:56,679 Speaker 2: I really want you guys to take home with you 501 00:21:56,960 --> 00:21:59,479 Speaker 2: is that winning buckets of cash won't actually solve all 502 00:21:59,480 --> 00:22:02,439 Speaker 2: our issues. It might solve a few of them. The 503 00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:05,400 Speaker 2: fact that I really really really want another dog, even 504 00:22:05,440 --> 00:22:07,880 Speaker 2: though it sounds super delightful and payback and maybe having 505 00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:09,720 Speaker 2: your own yod or like a private jet or something 506 00:22:09,840 --> 00:22:12,960 Speaker 2: sounds pretty boogie, but the reality is often not nearly 507 00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:15,720 Speaker 2: as shiny as we imagine. And I know that some 508 00:22:15,800 --> 00:22:18,520 Speaker 2: people who do inherit large sums of money or end 509 00:22:18,640 --> 00:22:20,760 Speaker 2: up winning money, because I do have clients in both 510 00:22:20,800 --> 00:22:24,680 Speaker 2: of those situations, Georgia, they don't actually tell anybody at all, 511 00:22:24,880 --> 00:22:26,840 Speaker 2: and I think that that is probably a really good 512 00:22:26,840 --> 00:22:29,240 Speaker 2: thing to take away from this as well, is sometimes 513 00:22:29,560 --> 00:22:32,480 Speaker 2: the less people know, the better about your financial situation 514 00:22:32,600 --> 00:22:34,760 Speaker 2: when it comes to things like that. Like I'm all 515 00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:37,719 Speaker 2: about open, honest money conversations, and I talk about that 516 00:22:37,840 --> 00:22:40,440 Speaker 2: all the time, but when I talk about having open 517 00:22:40,440 --> 00:22:44,000 Speaker 2: and honest money conversations, I don't necessarily mean tell everybody 518 00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:45,840 Speaker 2: what's in your bank account or tell your friends what 519 00:22:45,920 --> 00:22:48,359 Speaker 2: you earn. Like, we can have money conversations without making 520 00:22:48,440 --> 00:22:51,679 Speaker 2: them personal, and that is really important to remember. So 521 00:22:51,920 --> 00:22:54,119 Speaker 2: if you have come into a large sum of money 522 00:22:54,119 --> 00:22:56,600 Speaker 2: and you're feeling really anxious or guilty about it, like, 523 00:22:56,760 --> 00:22:59,640 Speaker 2: you do not have to tell anybody if you don't 524 00:22:59,680 --> 00:23:02,359 Speaker 2: want to, and sometimes it's actually better for you to not, 525 00:23:02,600 --> 00:23:03,760 Speaker 2: especially if you are young. 526 00:23:04,160 --> 00:23:06,920 Speaker 1: And remember as well that I can't remember which episode 527 00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:09,719 Speaker 1: we were talking about it, but I remember we were 528 00:23:09,840 --> 00:23:14,560 Speaker 1: chatting about the unwarranted advice that like Uncle Bill may 529 00:23:14,600 --> 00:23:18,240 Speaker 1: give you it family Christmas, Oh my gosh, you know. So, yeah, 530 00:23:18,320 --> 00:23:20,719 Speaker 1: if you're going to get advice from someone, get it 531 00:23:20,760 --> 00:23:22,600 Speaker 1: from a financial advisor. 532 00:23:22,760 --> 00:23:25,359 Speaker 2: I mean, ask people that you trust, like ask family members. 533 00:23:25,400 --> 00:23:28,480 Speaker 2: And obviously sometimes family are absolutely going to know if 534 00:23:28,480 --> 00:23:31,359 Speaker 2: you have inherited a large sum of money. But I 535 00:23:31,359 --> 00:23:34,359 Speaker 2: think it's really hard because some of my clients have 536 00:23:34,560 --> 00:23:38,359 Speaker 2: said historically that they wish they hadn't told their friends 537 00:23:38,400 --> 00:23:40,960 Speaker 2: about their inheritance because it kind of ends up being 538 00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:43,080 Speaker 2: a pain point for them when they just want to 539 00:23:43,160 --> 00:23:45,720 Speaker 2: live off their income that they currently haven't invested for 540 00:23:45,760 --> 00:23:48,000 Speaker 2: the future or whatever it is. So I think it's 541 00:23:48,400 --> 00:23:50,600 Speaker 2: sometimes you really do want to have those conversations. And 542 00:23:50,640 --> 00:23:52,880 Speaker 2: I'm not saying don't talk about it, because I would 543 00:23:53,040 --> 00:23:54,720 Speaker 2: never want someone to feel like they can't. 544 00:23:54,560 --> 00:23:55,000 Speaker 1: Talk about it. 545 00:23:55,000 --> 00:23:57,480 Speaker 2: That would be isolated exactly. But sometimes in the heat 546 00:23:57,520 --> 00:24:00,959 Speaker 2: of the moment, when everything is really emotional, sometimes the 547 00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:02,959 Speaker 2: best thing that you can do is just put that 548 00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:06,320 Speaker 2: conversation on ice, like just because you're inheriting money. And 549 00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:08,320 Speaker 2: this is totally going off on a tangent, but it's 550 00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:11,560 Speaker 2: something that I'm super passionate about because inheritance is actually 551 00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:13,600 Speaker 2: what I specialize in. And what I work with with 552 00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:17,440 Speaker 2: my clients the most. Sometimes it just needs to sit 553 00:24:17,480 --> 00:24:19,119 Speaker 2: in your account for six months and you not do 554 00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:21,479 Speaker 2: anything because you need to deal with the emotional trauma 555 00:24:21,520 --> 00:24:24,360 Speaker 2: of going through that situation. Sometimes it will take a year, 556 00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:27,280 Speaker 2: sometimes it takes two years. I think the most important 557 00:24:27,280 --> 00:24:29,760 Speaker 2: thing here is that if you've inherited money, and we'll 558 00:24:29,760 --> 00:24:31,560 Speaker 2: get into this later. I know you've got some great 559 00:24:31,560 --> 00:24:33,679 Speaker 2: stats on this because we couldn't stop talking about it 560 00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:36,600 Speaker 2: before we recorded. But if you've come into a large 561 00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:39,600 Speaker 2: sum of money, do not feel any pressure whatsoever to 562 00:24:39,680 --> 00:24:43,320 Speaker 2: invest that, or spend that, or do anything with that immediately. 563 00:24:43,480 --> 00:24:45,439 Speaker 2: Like that can wait. There is always going to be 564 00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:46,400 Speaker 2: another opportunity. 565 00:24:46,560 --> 00:24:49,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, and we will talk more about that because today's 566 00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:52,320 Speaker 1: listener question is framed around inheritance, so we'll get there. 567 00:24:53,440 --> 00:24:56,720 Speaker 1: My last question for you, v is about the Fashion 568 00:24:56,800 --> 00:25:00,600 Speaker 1: Avenue podcast, which on other day I'm just doing a 569 00:25:00,600 --> 00:25:03,080 Speaker 1: podcast with you asn't enough. I need to listen to 570 00:25:03,119 --> 00:25:04,240 Speaker 1: you when I'm not with you. 571 00:25:04,240 --> 00:25:05,600 Speaker 2: You know, I love that for you. 572 00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:07,080 Speaker 1: That's not weird at all. 573 00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:08,160 Speaker 2: George True. 574 00:25:08,680 --> 00:25:12,000 Speaker 1: The podcast host Amba asked you what you would choose 575 00:25:12,280 --> 00:25:15,640 Speaker 1: one thousand dollars a day until you die, or one 576 00:25:15,680 --> 00:25:19,120 Speaker 1: million dollars right now. So if someone asked me this, 577 00:25:19,240 --> 00:25:21,679 Speaker 1: I think I would be like, yes, please, sir, I 578 00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:24,800 Speaker 1: will have the one million you would do, But what 579 00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:26,720 Speaker 1: would you say? What did you say on the podcast? 580 00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:28,880 Speaker 2: So first thing, so I think they're the number one 581 00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:31,760 Speaker 2: and say here would probably be a million dollars from 582 00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:34,720 Speaker 2: everybody else because you'd be an instant millionaire. Like that 583 00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:38,399 Speaker 2: is that crazy? But when we start breaking it down, 584 00:25:39,040 --> 00:25:42,840 Speaker 2: passive income for me is always, always, always going to win. Georgia, 585 00:25:42,880 --> 00:25:45,119 Speaker 2: you and I have had so many interesting conversations about this, 586 00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:48,240 Speaker 2: especially after all of the voice memos from people in 587 00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:50,960 Speaker 2: our community. I think it is one of those things 588 00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:54,199 Speaker 2: that you know, people just underestimate. So many people said, oh, 589 00:25:54,240 --> 00:25:56,199 Speaker 2: I'd buy a house, and it's like, well, you know 590 00:25:56,280 --> 00:25:58,840 Speaker 2: you could do that, but you could also get alone 591 00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:01,400 Speaker 2: and to keep your million dollars and have the passive 592 00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:03,560 Speaker 2: income that your million dollars is going to earn you 593 00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:05,879 Speaker 2: pay off your home. And I think it's just about 594 00:26:06,119 --> 00:26:10,160 Speaker 2: smart money decisions soon shifting our mindset around what can 595 00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:12,560 Speaker 2: this money do for me? Not what can this money 596 00:26:12,600 --> 00:26:15,120 Speaker 2: immediately buy? Like how can I make the money work 597 00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:17,800 Speaker 2: even harder than it's already working for me, so that 598 00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:19,640 Speaker 2: is something that I want you guys to take home. 599 00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:22,520 Speaker 2: But my answer was actually the one thousand dollars a day, 600 00:26:22,720 --> 00:26:24,280 Speaker 2: and I'm going to break it down because I think 601 00:26:24,320 --> 00:26:26,199 Speaker 2: it's really interesting when you get into it, and I 602 00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:28,600 Speaker 2: guarantee after i've explained this, Georgia, you're going to be like, 603 00:26:28,600 --> 00:26:30,560 Speaker 2: oh my gosh, I'll take the thousand dollars a day. Two. 604 00:26:31,040 --> 00:26:33,119 Speaker 2: So a thousand dollars a day is three hundred and 605 00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:36,760 Speaker 2: sixty five thousand dollars in a year, So that's pretty 606 00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:39,159 Speaker 2: good until you die. Like I could definitely live off that. 607 00:26:39,280 --> 00:26:42,200 Speaker 2: I don't know about you guys, but i'd be good comfortable. 608 00:26:42,760 --> 00:26:45,760 Speaker 2: But three hundred and sixty five thousand dollars a year 609 00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:49,560 Speaker 2: in passive revenue is equivalent to having seven point three 610 00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:52,480 Speaker 2: million dollars invested on your behalf. So that's obviously more 611 00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:55,280 Speaker 2: than a million dollars right now. But also, can we 612 00:26:55,320 --> 00:26:57,600 Speaker 2: also just preface this, I'm working off a rate of 613 00:26:57,680 --> 00:27:00,240 Speaker 2: return of five percent because that is super conservative and 614 00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:02,760 Speaker 2: I think really fair for right now. But then also 615 00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:05,960 Speaker 2: i'm obviously, because it's all hypothetical, my friend's not taking 616 00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:10,399 Speaker 2: into consideration any tax implications. So say you took the 617 00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:13,200 Speaker 2: million dollars and you really wanted to reach the same 618 00:27:13,240 --> 00:27:15,480 Speaker 2: outcome that I have because I took the thousand dollars 619 00:27:15,480 --> 00:27:18,359 Speaker 2: a day, Georgia, you'd have to do one of two things. 620 00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:21,960 Speaker 2: So you could invest your million dollars right now and 621 00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:24,520 Speaker 2: wait forty years. You wouldn't get any passive revenue. You'd 622 00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:26,080 Speaker 2: have to keep working in your day job. But here 623 00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:28,119 Speaker 2: it cheese on the money, yep. And with an average 624 00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:30,919 Speaker 2: rate of return in forty years, you'd have about the 625 00:27:30,960 --> 00:27:33,560 Speaker 2: same as what I have. So you'd just spend the 626 00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:37,680 Speaker 2: time or if you wanted it quicker, because obviously maybe 627 00:27:37,760 --> 00:27:39,520 Speaker 2: let's say in ten years, because you can't have it 628 00:27:39,600 --> 00:27:42,440 Speaker 2: right now, you could invest your million dollars and then, Georgia, 629 00:27:42,560 --> 00:27:44,879 Speaker 2: you'd just have to cough up a really easy forty 630 00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:48,960 Speaker 2: thousand dollars a month for the next ten years to 631 00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:51,560 Speaker 2: match my thousand dollars a day in passive revenue that 632 00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:55,120 Speaker 2: I had. Right So, does the thousand dollars a day 633 00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:56,080 Speaker 2: sound good? Now? 634 00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:58,680 Speaker 1: I think the thousand dollars a day sounds very good. 635 00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:01,280 Speaker 2: So to further compare, as I said before, the thousand 636 00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:03,680 Speaker 2: dollars a day's equivalent to three hundred and sixty five 637 00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:06,760 Speaker 2: thousand dollars a year. But if you had a million 638 00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:09,320 Speaker 2: dollars invested at a five percent interest rate return, you'd 639 00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:11,720 Speaker 2: only make fifty thousand dollars a year, which is obviously epic. 640 00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:14,359 Speaker 2: Still like, this is all hypothetical. This is just more 641 00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:17,919 Speaker 2: because I want you, guys to fully understand the impact 642 00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:21,720 Speaker 2: of investing and essentially what a dollar today means versus 643 00:28:21,720 --> 00:28:23,919 Speaker 2: a dollar tomorrow and all of that other fun stuff. 644 00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:25,960 Speaker 2: So the answer here, my friends, is take a thousand 645 00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:27,800 Speaker 2: dollars a day because you will be much better off 646 00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:29,800 Speaker 2: in the long term and the short term. It's seeds, 647 00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:33,280 Speaker 2: yeap love it. Like these are all hypotheticals. I wish 648 00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:35,000 Speaker 2: that people were just like walking around the city and 649 00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:37,080 Speaker 2: they're like, hey, just giving millions of dollars. 650 00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:38,280 Speaker 1: Out today, wouldn't that be nice? 651 00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:41,000 Speaker 2: I'll take it. If anybody knows where I'm putting my 652 00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:42,360 Speaker 2: hand up, I'll be there with bells on. 653 00:28:42,440 --> 00:28:45,400 Speaker 1: Share it in the Facebook group. So to wrap today, guys, 654 00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:48,000 Speaker 1: if you win a hot million dollars, don't just spend it. 655 00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:51,040 Speaker 1: See your financial advisor and get a plan in place, 656 00:28:51,440 --> 00:29:00,720 Speaker 1: and also remember to give you all money as fungible, fungible, bungible. Hi, there, 657 00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:02,920 Speaker 1: you've breached the ses on the money mailbox. Do you 658 00:29:02,960 --> 00:29:04,880 Speaker 1: have the money problem you want help solving. Do you 659 00:29:04,880 --> 00:29:07,160 Speaker 1: have a money dilemma you just want to chat about. 660 00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:10,240 Speaker 1: Victoria is here to help. Every week we'll be playing 661 00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:12,280 Speaker 1: your questions to help make sense of a money mess 662 00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:14,360 Speaker 1: you may have found yourself in. Make a quick recording 663 00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:16,479 Speaker 1: on your phone and send it through to podcast at 664 00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:19,120 Speaker 1: chesothmoney dot com dot au and you might even find 665 00:29:19,120 --> 00:29:22,440 Speaker 1: yourself on the show. But for now, here's today's listener question. 666 00:29:24,960 --> 00:29:26,120 Speaker 2: Hey, Victoria and Georgia. 667 00:29:26,360 --> 00:29:29,800 Speaker 6: Someone in my family recently passed away, and quite unexpectedly, 668 00:29:29,880 --> 00:29:32,160 Speaker 6: I was mentioned in their will, and I'll be receiving 669 00:29:32,200 --> 00:29:34,920 Speaker 6: a quarter of a house that's valued at about six million. 670 00:29:35,480 --> 00:29:37,680 Speaker 6: The planners I know it at the moment, will be 671 00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:40,080 Speaker 6: to sell the home and split what it sells for. 672 00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:42,840 Speaker 6: But I wanted to ask you both about the anxiety 673 00:29:42,880 --> 00:29:45,440 Speaker 6: that I'm feeling about wasting such a big amount of money, 674 00:29:45,720 --> 00:29:48,520 Speaker 6: especially because I'm only twenty six and I don't want 675 00:29:48,520 --> 00:29:51,560 Speaker 6: to waste it. I'm also thinking perhaps I should split 676 00:29:51,600 --> 00:29:54,360 Speaker 6: it with other members of my immediate family. None of 677 00:29:54,400 --> 00:29:57,320 Speaker 6: whom were written into the will. Hope you can help 678 00:29:57,320 --> 00:29:58,480 Speaker 6: with advice and ideas. 679 00:29:58,640 --> 00:29:59,320 Speaker 2: Thanks ladies. 680 00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:05,040 Speaker 1: Okay, V a very big question here with a few 681 00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:08,600 Speaker 1: elements involved. Kick us off with wherever you want to start. 682 00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:11,160 Speaker 2: I don't know where I want to start with this one. 683 00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:14,200 Speaker 2: This is massive, and I know it can also be 684 00:30:14,200 --> 00:30:16,560 Speaker 2: a little bit unrelatable, but at the end of the day, 685 00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:19,520 Speaker 2: I think it's also really important to understand other people's 686 00:30:19,560 --> 00:30:22,360 Speaker 2: money stories because that helps you understand money better. And 687 00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:24,280 Speaker 2: the more you know, the more empowered you are, and 688 00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:27,160 Speaker 2: the more empowering you can be to others. So that 689 00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:29,280 Speaker 2: is why we want questions like this on the pod 690 00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:31,920 Speaker 2: instead of just having things that are always super relatable 691 00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:34,240 Speaker 2: to you. It's all about like open mindset and growth 692 00:30:34,280 --> 00:30:38,000 Speaker 2: mindset and just like pushing you to understand different mentality. 693 00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:40,040 Speaker 2: So I just want to preface that because sometimes we 694 00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:42,240 Speaker 2: do get feedback that they're not relatable enough, and I 695 00:30:42,280 --> 00:30:44,680 Speaker 2: get that, but you are still learning, Like you are 696 00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:48,200 Speaker 2: learning so much by hearing stories like this because you 697 00:30:48,320 --> 00:30:50,880 Speaker 2: now know so much more about wealth and wealth generation 698 00:30:51,120 --> 00:30:53,640 Speaker 2: and money, and I just think that's epic. Another thing 699 00:30:53,640 --> 00:30:56,040 Speaker 2: I want to preface as well is this wasn't just 700 00:30:56,080 --> 00:30:58,480 Speaker 2: a listener question. This was a listener question that came 701 00:30:58,520 --> 00:31:00,760 Speaker 2: in that has now converted into being a client of 702 00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:04,200 Speaker 2: mine because obviously she needs some help, so do not worry. 703 00:31:04,200 --> 00:31:07,920 Speaker 2: She is being looked after. But it is so normal 704 00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:10,120 Speaker 2: to have this sense of angst. It is such a 705 00:31:10,120 --> 00:31:12,840 Speaker 2: big deal to be written into somebody's will, and really 706 00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:15,080 Speaker 2: wanting to respect that money on behalf of the person 707 00:31:15,080 --> 00:31:17,719 Speaker 2: who handed it down makes so much sense. It can 708 00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:21,120 Speaker 2: also feel like so much pressure, like it is so hard, 709 00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:23,560 Speaker 2: And that goes back to what I was saying before. 710 00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:26,000 Speaker 2: You do not have to make any decision right now. 711 00:31:26,680 --> 00:31:29,040 Speaker 2: And if you are in this situation and you have 712 00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:32,120 Speaker 2: inherited a large amount of money, please do not feel 713 00:31:32,120 --> 00:31:35,440 Speaker 2: pressured by anyone, including a financial advisor, to invest it. 714 00:31:35,480 --> 00:31:37,720 Speaker 2: Like if a financial advisor ever tells you that you 715 00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:40,040 Speaker 2: need to do it asap, just run for the hills, 716 00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:42,760 Speaker 2: my friend, because it is a terrible idea because at 717 00:31:42,760 --> 00:31:45,520 Speaker 2: the end of the day, fifty percent of investing is mental. 718 00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:48,640 Speaker 2: You have to be invested in it mentally and physically, 719 00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:51,000 Speaker 2: because at the end of the day, if you're not comfortable, 720 00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:53,280 Speaker 2: you're probably going to pull your money out and lose 721 00:31:53,320 --> 00:31:55,400 Speaker 2: the long term gain of being invested for the long 722 00:31:55,480 --> 00:31:58,440 Speaker 2: term purely because you are scared. So it just makes 723 00:31:58,480 --> 00:32:01,080 Speaker 2: a lot of sense to just get good advice from 724 00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:04,000 Speaker 2: someone who respects you and also respects where it's come from, 725 00:32:04,040 --> 00:32:06,200 Speaker 2: because that is really special. At the end of the day, 726 00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:09,200 Speaker 2: we would always prefer to have that person here, but 727 00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:12,800 Speaker 2: let's respect them. Let's create something together that that person 728 00:32:12,880 --> 00:32:16,440 Speaker 2: would really be proud of you for. So also, just 729 00:32:16,480 --> 00:32:18,280 Speaker 2: to throw in some stats here, I really want to 730 00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:20,640 Speaker 2: talk about the shift of intergenerational wealth. 731 00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:22,120 Speaker 1: Can you explain what that means? 732 00:32:22,320 --> 00:32:23,000 Speaker 2: Absolutely? 733 00:32:23,120 --> 00:32:23,200 Speaker 1: So. 734 00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:27,560 Speaker 2: Intergenerational wealth is where money comes down from inheritance, so 735 00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:30,360 Speaker 2: it comes from other people you haven't earned that money. 736 00:32:30,720 --> 00:32:33,640 Speaker 2: And Australia is actually on the cusp of its largest 737 00:32:33,680 --> 00:32:38,080 Speaker 2: handover of wealth, with an estimated three point five trillion 738 00:32:38,200 --> 00:32:42,280 Speaker 2: dollars worth being transferred from the baby boomer generation to 739 00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:45,840 Speaker 2: younger Australians over the next twenty years. So I said 740 00:32:45,880 --> 00:32:48,120 Speaker 2: it was unrelatable, but it's not going to be that 741 00:32:48,240 --> 00:32:52,480 Speaker 2: unrelatable for our community because that is you, guys. So 742 00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:54,920 Speaker 2: to give you some sense of how much that actually is, 743 00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:58,080 Speaker 2: let's just start a breakdown. What are trillion dollars actually is, 744 00:32:58,120 --> 00:33:00,640 Speaker 2: because it's super hard to visualize one million dollars, let 745 00:33:00,640 --> 00:33:06,280 Speaker 2: alone a trillion dollars. So one trillion is one million millions, Like. 746 00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:07,000 Speaker 1: What a million? 747 00:33:07,080 --> 00:33:09,200 Speaker 2: That's a lot of millions. If you went back in 748 00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:13,640 Speaker 2: time one billion seconds, you'd be in nineteen eighty seven. 749 00:33:14,280 --> 00:33:17,120 Speaker 2: But if you went back a trillion seconds, you'd be 750 00:33:17,120 --> 00:33:20,760 Speaker 2: in roughly thirty thousand BC. That's a really long time ago. 751 00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:23,560 Speaker 2: So a trillion, that's that's a hell of a lot. 752 00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:27,360 Speaker 2: And three point five trillion is literally an incomprehensible amount 753 00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:29,320 Speaker 2: of money. So that is a lot of money that 754 00:33:29,400 --> 00:33:31,440 Speaker 2: is going to be transferred and a lot of you 755 00:33:31,480 --> 00:33:34,480 Speaker 2: who are going to need advice. And yeah, that that's 756 00:33:34,520 --> 00:33:37,720 Speaker 2: how much money's coming. Wow, imagine being a trillionaire. 757 00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:40,920 Speaker 1: Are there trillionaires? I don't pass bezos? 758 00:33:40,960 --> 00:33:41,680 Speaker 2: What's he a billion? 759 00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:42,960 Speaker 1: I think he's a just a billionaire. 760 00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:44,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, just a measly billionaire. 761 00:33:45,920 --> 00:33:49,680 Speaker 1: Okay, So a few questions here then, fe what did 762 00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:53,719 Speaker 1: you think about her wanting to split the money that 763 00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:57,040 Speaker 1: she'll receive with the members of her family who weren't 764 00:33:57,040 --> 00:33:57,520 Speaker 1: in the will. 765 00:33:58,000 --> 00:34:01,240 Speaker 2: I would question that purely because that wasn't the intention 766 00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:04,120 Speaker 2: of the person. You've inherited it from. And a very 767 00:34:04,120 --> 00:34:06,800 Speaker 2: big part of inheritance for me is about respect and 768 00:34:06,840 --> 00:34:09,560 Speaker 2: it is about honoring that person, and that becomes a 769 00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:11,960 Speaker 2: really big piece of what I do. It's just like, 770 00:34:12,040 --> 00:34:14,280 Speaker 2: I want to know about that person, Like that person 771 00:34:14,400 --> 00:34:17,560 Speaker 2: was clearly special to you, and you know obviously played 772 00:34:17,600 --> 00:34:19,439 Speaker 2: a big part of your life, and I just want 773 00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:21,400 Speaker 2: to know who they were, what they meant to you, 774 00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:24,000 Speaker 2: how we can honor them, what did they want for you, 775 00:34:24,120 --> 00:34:26,080 Speaker 2: what would they like? Were they nice people? Because at 776 00:34:26,120 --> 00:34:27,799 Speaker 2: the end of the day, they were such a large 777 00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:29,239 Speaker 2: piece of your life, and I want them to be 778 00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:32,960 Speaker 2: a part of that growth and that change. So for me, 779 00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:36,120 Speaker 2: that's what I would want to do. But it's definitely 780 00:34:36,120 --> 00:34:39,000 Speaker 2: worthy of a conversation because you can essentially do whatever 781 00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:42,480 Speaker 2: you want with your inheritance. But let's go back to 782 00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:45,279 Speaker 2: that million dollar question before, Like, would you split a 783 00:34:45,320 --> 00:34:48,840 Speaker 2: million dollars three ways and give that to other people 784 00:34:49,000 --> 00:34:50,960 Speaker 2: and kind of get rid of a lot of the 785 00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:54,160 Speaker 2: power of that money, or would you take an ongoing 786 00:34:54,280 --> 00:34:56,960 Speaker 2: income and be able to help your family for the 787 00:34:56,960 --> 00:34:59,480 Speaker 2: foreseeable future and still have that million dollars sitting in 788 00:34:59,520 --> 00:35:02,320 Speaker 2: an investment somewhere You don't have to just split the 789 00:35:02,360 --> 00:35:04,600 Speaker 2: money to have an impact and help people like your 790 00:35:04,719 --> 00:35:07,520 Speaker 2: investment could be the passive income. That means that you 791 00:35:07,520 --> 00:35:09,600 Speaker 2: can give your mom at ten thousand dollars a year 792 00:35:09,880 --> 00:35:12,400 Speaker 2: for the foreseeable future, if that's what you wanted to 793 00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:15,040 Speaker 2: do without ever impacting that million dollars. 794 00:35:15,719 --> 00:35:17,880 Speaker 1: When it comes to the anxiety, just going back to 795 00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:20,640 Speaker 1: that question fee in terms of tools. So I know 796 00:35:20,680 --> 00:35:23,520 Speaker 1: you're looking after this client, which is amazing. But for 797 00:35:23,560 --> 00:35:26,960 Speaker 1: anyone listening who has received a large inheritance or any 798 00:35:27,040 --> 00:35:29,560 Speaker 1: kind of inheritance, who is feeling that angst, what words 799 00:35:29,560 --> 00:35:30,640 Speaker 1: of wisdom would you leave them with? 800 00:35:30,680 --> 00:35:33,279 Speaker 2: Money is fraught with anxiety, and I think that I 801 00:35:33,280 --> 00:35:37,640 Speaker 2: would just say this is this is what that person wanted. 802 00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:40,440 Speaker 2: You need to get rid of that anxiety. You need 803 00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:42,640 Speaker 2: to put yourself in a position where you can actually 804 00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:46,640 Speaker 2: feel confident about this, because I understand that inheritance is 805 00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:49,560 Speaker 2: usually a bit cloudy. I mean, someone's passed away, but 806 00:35:49,719 --> 00:35:52,440 Speaker 2: that person wanted to give it to you because they 807 00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:55,480 Speaker 2: couldn't be their figure. So how do we put that 808 00:35:55,600 --> 00:35:58,520 Speaker 2: money to work so that it is honoring that person 809 00:35:58,560 --> 00:36:00,800 Speaker 2: in the best possible way. And at the end of 810 00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:02,799 Speaker 2: the day. As I said, you don't have to do 811 00:36:02,840 --> 00:36:05,799 Speaker 2: anything immediately, but you do have to work out what 812 00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:07,920 Speaker 2: is the best way of honoring that person. And if 813 00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:10,359 Speaker 2: you see a financial advisor, you don't have to go 814 00:36:10,440 --> 00:36:14,640 Speaker 2: through with that strategy immediately, but least start educating yourself 815 00:36:14,719 --> 00:36:16,520 Speaker 2: and know there are going to be a very small 816 00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:19,239 Speaker 2: handful of people who are listening who have an inheritance 817 00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:20,960 Speaker 2: sitting in a bank account, and it might have been 818 00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:23,359 Speaker 2: there for a little while. That money sitting in your 819 00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:26,279 Speaker 2: savings is genuinely giving you more anxiety because you don't 820 00:36:26,280 --> 00:36:27,919 Speaker 2: know what to do with it. I would say half 821 00:36:27,960 --> 00:36:29,680 Speaker 2: my job is being a psychologist. 822 00:36:29,719 --> 00:36:32,719 Speaker 1: Still, yeah, yeah, that makes so much sense. Was there 823 00:36:32,800 --> 00:36:35,160 Speaker 1: anything else you wanted to add here? V I was 824 00:36:35,200 --> 00:36:38,239 Speaker 1: going to ask you a question about your faith in 825 00:36:38,320 --> 00:36:41,480 Speaker 1: the generations that will be inheriting that three point five 826 00:36:41,600 --> 00:36:43,719 Speaker 1: trillion dollars. Do you think that we're going to be 827 00:36:43,760 --> 00:36:46,920 Speaker 1: okay with that? Is our financial literacy up to scratch? Oh? 828 00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:49,160 Speaker 2: We have terrible financial literacy, which is why I'm so 829 00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:50,920 Speaker 2: passionate about it. But at the end of the day, 830 00:36:50,960 --> 00:36:52,600 Speaker 2: I think that we are all smart and we are 831 00:36:52,640 --> 00:36:54,640 Speaker 2: all going to make the right decisions for us. There 832 00:36:54,680 --> 00:36:56,440 Speaker 2: are always going to be people who just stick their 833 00:36:56,440 --> 00:36:58,600 Speaker 2: head in the sand about money and they're not going 834 00:36:58,680 --> 00:37:00,920 Speaker 2: to do what I would. But at the end of 835 00:37:00,920 --> 00:37:04,000 Speaker 2: the day, these are all my opinions, guys, that there's 836 00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:06,560 Speaker 2: no right or wrong. You could choose not to invest 837 00:37:06,680 --> 00:37:08,719 Speaker 2: because it might not be aligned to your risk profile. 838 00:37:09,080 --> 00:37:11,440 Speaker 2: I think it's really important to realize that my opinion 839 00:37:11,560 --> 00:37:15,759 Speaker 2: is one of many, one of millions, one of trillions Georgia, 840 00:37:15,800 --> 00:37:17,759 Speaker 2: and I think that you know, you might follow me 841 00:37:17,920 --> 00:37:19,640 Speaker 2: or you might not. But at the end of the day, 842 00:37:19,719 --> 00:37:21,719 Speaker 2: you need to make the right decision for you, and 843 00:37:21,840 --> 00:37:24,000 Speaker 2: if that means sitting it in a bank account, then 844 00:37:24,040 --> 00:37:25,759 Speaker 2: you do. You There is no right or wrong when 845 00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:29,080 Speaker 2: it comes to the management of money. And I'm sure 846 00:37:29,080 --> 00:37:32,120 Speaker 2: that there are some people. I mean, I'm assuming I 847 00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:35,080 Speaker 2: haven't haven't met them, but this is just a grand assumption. 848 00:37:35,440 --> 00:37:37,360 Speaker 2: I'm assuming that there are some people who might have 849 00:37:37,440 --> 00:37:40,560 Speaker 2: inherited a million dollars blew it over two years. But 850 00:37:40,600 --> 00:37:42,680 Speaker 2: also so that was the best two years of my 851 00:37:42,880 --> 00:37:45,200 Speaker 2: entire life, So it would be very naive of me 852 00:37:45,280 --> 00:37:46,799 Speaker 2: to think that my way is the only way. 853 00:37:46,880 --> 00:37:55,239 Speaker 1: Ye And now it's time to take a sneak peek 854 00:37:55,280 --> 00:37:58,640 Speaker 1: into their financial lives. The perfect strangers. It's time for 855 00:37:58,680 --> 00:37:59,440 Speaker 1: money diaries. 856 00:38:01,520 --> 00:38:03,960 Speaker 5: Hi, I'm the twenty nine year old with her super 857 00:38:04,120 --> 00:38:07,920 Speaker 5: in her hands, and this is my money diary. My 858 00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:11,280 Speaker 5: mom's uncle, who was living in Australia, sponsored my mom 859 00:38:11,560 --> 00:38:15,520 Speaker 5: during a time that Australia was taking in refugees. So yeah, 860 00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:18,560 Speaker 5: my parents ended up in Australia and they had to 861 00:38:18,560 --> 00:38:20,560 Speaker 5: start from scratch. They came from the village of Vietnam, 862 00:38:20,560 --> 00:38:23,600 Speaker 5: so they didn't have any money, didn't have anything growing up. 863 00:38:23,640 --> 00:38:26,880 Speaker 5: When I was younger, my parents used to buy a 864 00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:29,520 Speaker 5: lot about money, and I really paid attention to that, 865 00:38:29,760 --> 00:38:32,759 Speaker 5: and I told myself when I was young that I 866 00:38:32,800 --> 00:38:36,360 Speaker 5: would definitely make enough money in the future so that 867 00:38:36,480 --> 00:38:38,400 Speaker 5: I would never ever have to argue about money. I 868 00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:40,680 Speaker 5: would be happy to argue about anything else. But I 869 00:38:40,800 --> 00:38:43,960 Speaker 5: did not want money to rule my life. My parents 870 00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:47,120 Speaker 5: do have the expectations that because it wasn't easy for 871 00:38:47,160 --> 00:38:49,319 Speaker 5: them to find work and make money. But as soon 872 00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:51,440 Speaker 5: as I get money that I should buy a house 873 00:38:51,480 --> 00:38:53,480 Speaker 5: to away, I should settle down, I should have a family. 874 00:38:53,760 --> 00:38:55,720 Speaker 3: You've given me the opportunity to have more choices. 875 00:38:55,800 --> 00:38:57,480 Speaker 5: You give me the opportunity to you know, now that 876 00:38:57,560 --> 00:38:59,960 Speaker 5: I have an Australian passport, I can go and live 877 00:39:00,160 --> 00:39:00,760 Speaker 5: work overseas. 878 00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:02,840 Speaker 3: You've never had the opportunity. I'm going to use my 879 00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:04,080 Speaker 3: money and buy that. 880 00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:06,440 Speaker 5: Visa and live and work overseas and pay rent and 881 00:39:06,680 --> 00:39:08,840 Speaker 5: experience life because you didn't have that chance. 882 00:39:09,120 --> 00:39:12,759 Speaker 1: What does our superinhad money diarist do for work? How 883 00:39:12,840 --> 00:39:14,600 Speaker 1: much does she earn and how much is in her 884 00:39:14,600 --> 00:39:15,640 Speaker 1: bank account right now? 885 00:39:15,960 --> 00:39:19,399 Speaker 5: My first full time job after graduating UNI was a 886 00:39:19,600 --> 00:39:23,359 Speaker 5: graduate site engineer for a construction company. And I've been 887 00:39:23,400 --> 00:39:27,440 Speaker 5: working in construction management for almost five years now. And 888 00:39:27,600 --> 00:39:31,640 Speaker 5: the salary for site engineer or construction management is usually 889 00:39:32,000 --> 00:39:36,200 Speaker 5: seventy five up to ninety or more depending on your experience. 890 00:39:37,080 --> 00:39:41,640 Speaker 5: I moved to London this year when the pandemic started, 891 00:39:42,080 --> 00:39:45,720 Speaker 5: and so I haven't really worked properly for in construction 892 00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:48,279 Speaker 5: management for about eight months. So at the moment in 893 00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:52,120 Speaker 5: my bank account, it's going to sound crazy. I came 894 00:39:52,200 --> 00:39:55,359 Speaker 5: to London with ten thousand Australian dollars and so now 895 00:39:55,440 --> 00:39:57,640 Speaker 5: I have four thousands in my account. 896 00:39:58,040 --> 00:39:58,279 Speaker 3: Only. 897 00:39:58,320 --> 00:40:00,560 Speaker 5: I was able to survive because Australian and said we 898 00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:03,520 Speaker 5: could withdraw our super up and I thought, Okay, if 899 00:40:03,560 --> 00:40:05,680 Speaker 5: I'm not going to withdraw money and don't have emergency 900 00:40:05,719 --> 00:40:07,879 Speaker 5: money on my account, I'll have to fly home right now. 901 00:40:08,680 --> 00:40:10,399 Speaker 3: And I'm like almost thirty one. 902 00:40:10,440 --> 00:40:12,640 Speaker 5: If I'm not going to continue trying to live in 903 00:40:12,680 --> 00:40:14,560 Speaker 5: London and work in London now, it's not going to 904 00:40:14,600 --> 00:40:17,440 Speaker 5: happen again. So having that super money that I was 905 00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:20,200 Speaker 5: able to withdraw really helped me with my confidence and 906 00:40:20,560 --> 00:40:23,560 Speaker 5: not have the scarcity mindset, which I think saved me. 907 00:40:24,040 --> 00:40:26,440 Speaker 1: What are her thoughts on investing and does she invest 908 00:40:26,480 --> 00:40:27,040 Speaker 1: in herself? 909 00:40:27,719 --> 00:40:30,920 Speaker 5: I know nothing about investing. I feel like everyone's at 910 00:40:31,000 --> 00:40:34,240 Speaker 5: different stages in their life's money and for me, because 911 00:40:34,239 --> 00:40:36,760 Speaker 5: I haven't had the experiences in life that because I 912 00:40:36,880 --> 00:40:41,480 Speaker 5: never had money or extra money, my first thing that 913 00:40:41,520 --> 00:40:44,040 Speaker 5: I care about is experience in life and like investing 914 00:40:44,040 --> 00:40:46,120 Speaker 5: in myself. Other people who like know who they are 915 00:40:46,160 --> 00:40:49,000 Speaker 5: blah blah blah, like they would want to invest in 916 00:40:49,040 --> 00:40:51,719 Speaker 5: other like a house or a car or whatever. But 917 00:40:51,760 --> 00:40:54,480 Speaker 5: for me, that comes after I invest in myself and 918 00:40:54,520 --> 00:40:56,399 Speaker 5: I know myself, I know what I want they want 919 00:40:56,440 --> 00:41:00,239 Speaker 5: to care about. So I've only invested for myself with 920 00:41:00,280 --> 00:41:04,799 Speaker 5: life coaching when I needed it, buying books, traveling, you know, 921 00:41:04,840 --> 00:41:07,759 Speaker 5: moving out of home and paying rent in like an 922 00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:10,560 Speaker 5: area that I like, being surrounded by community that are 923 00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:12,960 Speaker 5: like with like organic shops, and you know that's expensive, 924 00:41:13,520 --> 00:41:17,360 Speaker 5: but I feel like investing in the energy, the location, 925 00:41:18,160 --> 00:41:20,920 Speaker 5: people that I surround myself with. So I like the 926 00:41:20,920 --> 00:41:23,840 Speaker 5: money that I made. I invested one day's money is 927 00:41:23,880 --> 00:41:25,799 Speaker 5: worth at a coworking space just to be in the 928 00:41:25,840 --> 00:41:28,680 Speaker 5: right energy and like the right mindset. And I think 929 00:41:28,880 --> 00:41:31,040 Speaker 5: during that time I was able to attract my first 930 00:41:31,120 --> 00:41:33,719 Speaker 5: job in construction management. Once I know who I am 931 00:41:33,840 --> 00:41:37,280 Speaker 5: and settled, then the next thing is invest in a house. 932 00:41:37,360 --> 00:41:40,680 Speaker 5: You know, save up money, listen to podcasts about money. 933 00:41:40,800 --> 00:41:42,440 Speaker 1: What is her best money habit? 934 00:41:42,840 --> 00:41:46,160 Speaker 5: I only buy what I know, like I really really need. 935 00:41:46,360 --> 00:41:49,360 Speaker 5: When it comes to buying clothes, I only buy clothes 936 00:41:49,400 --> 00:41:51,759 Speaker 5: that I can wear to work and wear out. So 937 00:41:51,880 --> 00:41:54,520 Speaker 5: it's like I don't have a billion clothes sitting around. 938 00:41:54,840 --> 00:41:56,400 Speaker 1: And what's her worst money habit? 939 00:41:56,560 --> 00:41:58,800 Speaker 5: I really try to be a minimalist as I get older, 940 00:41:59,120 --> 00:42:01,480 Speaker 5: because I think it's good for the environment in the world. 941 00:42:01,760 --> 00:42:03,880 Speaker 5: But I have my no negotiables, and one of that 942 00:42:04,000 --> 00:42:07,240 Speaker 5: is always getting my nails painted. It's not at the moment, 943 00:42:07,360 --> 00:42:10,080 Speaker 5: but I'll always get my hair done, I'll always get 944 00:42:10,120 --> 00:42:12,239 Speaker 5: my nails painted, so like, yeah, I'm not going to 945 00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:14,879 Speaker 5: be like so Thindy that I'm not going to make 946 00:42:14,920 --> 00:42:15,759 Speaker 5: myself feel good. 947 00:42:16,360 --> 00:42:17,960 Speaker 1: What is her big money goal? 948 00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:21,479 Speaker 5: On my excel shape showing my goals for long term goals, 949 00:42:21,480 --> 00:42:24,560 Speaker 5: I wrote, I want to own a house at some point, 950 00:42:24,920 --> 00:42:27,400 Speaker 5: and I want to own an event space so I 951 00:42:27,400 --> 00:42:31,040 Speaker 5: can host things because I just like hosting gatherings of people. 952 00:42:31,280 --> 00:42:33,280 Speaker 1: What grade would she give her money habits? 953 00:42:33,640 --> 00:42:36,440 Speaker 5: The grade I'd give it is probably the lowest because 954 00:42:36,560 --> 00:42:38,640 Speaker 5: at the moment it's not my priority. But I think 955 00:42:38,680 --> 00:42:41,080 Speaker 5: when I'm ready, it will become like higher and I'll 956 00:42:41,080 --> 00:42:42,880 Speaker 5: do all the education I need and I'll focus on it. 957 00:42:42,880 --> 00:42:45,440 Speaker 5: That's why I think I'll have goals. There's different priorities 958 00:42:45,480 --> 00:42:45,879 Speaker 5: each year. 959 00:42:46,280 --> 00:42:48,360 Speaker 1: Is there anything she wants to learn more about or 960 00:42:48,400 --> 00:42:49,360 Speaker 1: share with the community? 961 00:42:49,680 --> 00:42:51,560 Speaker 5: Now that the money is sitting out of my super 962 00:42:52,200 --> 00:42:54,360 Speaker 5: what do you think I should deal with it? I 963 00:42:54,400 --> 00:42:56,440 Speaker 5: really want to invest it into something. I think it's 964 00:42:56,480 --> 00:42:57,400 Speaker 5: a great opportunity. 965 00:42:57,920 --> 00:43:01,799 Speaker 1: Okay, VICKI d just like so much to unpack there. 966 00:43:02,360 --> 00:43:04,640 Speaker 1: I don't know where to begin. I've got a hell 967 00:43:04,680 --> 00:43:05,400 Speaker 1: of a lot of notes. 968 00:43:05,800 --> 00:43:09,600 Speaker 2: Obviously this is non judgmental. I just think that investment 969 00:43:09,640 --> 00:43:14,000 Speaker 2: needs to be investment for future you, not for current lifestyle. 970 00:43:14,080 --> 00:43:17,280 Speaker 2: And I feel like there's a lot of clarity missing 971 00:43:17,800 --> 00:43:21,040 Speaker 2: from this individual's money story. And I just genuinely feel 972 00:43:21,120 --> 00:43:25,640 Speaker 2: like treat yourself is probably the summary of this ye, 973 00:43:26,040 --> 00:43:28,480 Speaker 2: whereas I don't think that they see it that way, 974 00:43:28,560 --> 00:43:30,640 Speaker 2: and I'm really sorry that that's my opinion. I just 975 00:43:30,680 --> 00:43:34,359 Speaker 2: think that this mentality is going to in the long term, 976 00:43:34,400 --> 00:43:36,480 Speaker 2: going to get them in a little bit more trouble 977 00:43:36,520 --> 00:43:39,920 Speaker 2: than they anticipate investing in a space because you like, 978 00:43:40,120 --> 00:43:43,000 Speaker 2: entertaining is not investing, my friend, I'm so sorry it 979 00:43:43,120 --> 00:43:45,239 Speaker 2: is not. It might be a really nice thing that 980 00:43:45,280 --> 00:43:48,440 Speaker 2: you prioritize, but we really have to prioritize future you, 981 00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:51,080 Speaker 2: and we can't have our cake and eat it too. 982 00:43:51,120 --> 00:43:53,400 Speaker 2: And I feel like that's what this money dirist is 983 00:43:53,440 --> 00:43:56,200 Speaker 2: potentially thinking. Yeah, does that really mean to say? I 984 00:43:56,239 --> 00:43:56,759 Speaker 2: don't mean it. 985 00:43:57,160 --> 00:43:59,799 Speaker 1: I think I don't know. I think you have to 986 00:43:59,800 --> 00:44:02,719 Speaker 1: be honest about your take on this. You'r a financial advisors, 987 00:44:02,719 --> 00:44:04,000 Speaker 1: so you can't listen to this and be like she 988 00:44:04,080 --> 00:44:06,520 Speaker 1: is doing everything right. I love it because that would 989 00:44:06,560 --> 00:44:10,759 Speaker 1: be contrary to everything else you tell us on this podcast. 990 00:44:10,560 --> 00:44:12,640 Speaker 2: One hundred percent. And I just think if you say 991 00:44:12,680 --> 00:44:15,440 Speaker 2: you want to invest in space because you love hosting gatherings, 992 00:44:15,480 --> 00:44:18,040 Speaker 2: I really like that. But I think this money direst 993 00:44:18,080 --> 00:44:20,799 Speaker 2: potentially has a lot to learn about money. And I 994 00:44:20,880 --> 00:44:23,320 Speaker 2: know that she's a new listener to she's all the money, 995 00:44:23,600 --> 00:44:26,239 Speaker 2: so maybe once she gets through them all, she'll be there. 996 00:44:26,280 --> 00:44:29,040 Speaker 2: And obviously our money diarists, they all get a copy 997 00:44:29,080 --> 00:44:31,560 Speaker 2: of the cash Flow and Budget Masterclass, and I think 998 00:44:31,560 --> 00:44:34,279 Speaker 2: that that could potentially be really helpful. But there are 999 00:44:34,360 --> 00:44:36,239 Speaker 2: a few things that I was concerned about. 1000 00:44:36,280 --> 00:44:39,239 Speaker 1: So talk to me about your first concern because there 1001 00:44:39,280 --> 00:44:40,040 Speaker 1: are a few. 1002 00:44:40,000 --> 00:44:42,839 Speaker 2: Are the Super thing. She's taken twenty thousand dollars out 1003 00:44:42,840 --> 00:44:45,440 Speaker 2: of Super and she said that I've never had this 1004 00:44:45,600 --> 00:44:48,239 Speaker 2: amount before and I really need to invest it, my love. 1005 00:44:48,280 --> 00:44:51,279 Speaker 2: It was already invested in your superannuation account and now 1006 00:44:51,320 --> 00:44:53,719 Speaker 2: we are one paying tax on that. But we are 1007 00:44:53,760 --> 00:44:55,879 Speaker 2: not making at work as hard as it is meant 1008 00:44:55,920 --> 00:44:58,320 Speaker 2: to be working for you. If you are taking money 1009 00:44:58,360 --> 00:45:01,200 Speaker 2: out of Super to invest, you don't understand the basic 1010 00:45:01,239 --> 00:45:05,440 Speaker 2: principles of investment or the fact that the superannuation environment 1011 00:45:05,480 --> 00:45:07,880 Speaker 2: in Australia is literally the closest thing we have to 1012 00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:11,760 Speaker 2: a tax haven. The superannuation tax rate is only fifteen percent, 1013 00:45:11,840 --> 00:45:14,399 Speaker 2: whereas if you withdraw it, obviously we have to pay 1014 00:45:14,440 --> 00:45:17,320 Speaker 2: our maginal tax rates which are more than fifteen percent. 1015 00:45:17,360 --> 00:45:20,960 Speaker 2: And I know she's experienced significant financial distress this year 1016 00:45:21,000 --> 00:45:25,319 Speaker 2: because you know, moving et cetera really hard. But you 1017 00:45:25,360 --> 00:45:28,160 Speaker 2: don't withdraw money from super to invest. It's just a 1018 00:45:28,160 --> 00:45:29,960 Speaker 2: bad idea. At the end of the day, you are 1019 00:45:30,040 --> 00:45:33,160 Speaker 2: already investing. And if you've been thinking about this, I 1020 00:45:33,200 --> 00:45:36,520 Speaker 2: think my main advice would genuinely be go and have 1021 00:45:36,600 --> 00:45:38,920 Speaker 2: a look at what your super is invested in, and 1022 00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:41,120 Speaker 2: be a little bit more on top of the types 1023 00:45:41,120 --> 00:45:43,560 Speaker 2: of portfolio that you're invested in, making sure it's in 1024 00:45:43,600 --> 00:45:46,120 Speaker 2: line with your risk profile, making sure it's in line 1025 00:45:46,120 --> 00:45:48,560 Speaker 2: with your goals and values. Not taking it out to 1026 00:45:48,600 --> 00:45:51,720 Speaker 2: make a decision about investment, because we're literally losing money, 1027 00:45:52,160 --> 00:45:54,360 Speaker 2: and given the timeframes, and I don't know if this 1028 00:45:54,480 --> 00:45:56,719 Speaker 2: is true or not, so this could be wild speculation. 1029 00:45:56,880 --> 00:45:59,120 Speaker 2: I don't know the dates she pulled it out, but 1030 00:45:59,200 --> 00:46:02,160 Speaker 2: she potentially had massive losses when she pulled the money 1031 00:46:02,160 --> 00:46:05,440 Speaker 2: out because the market guys obviously went down during COVID, 1032 00:46:05,760 --> 00:46:08,360 Speaker 2: and that's the point in time that most people withdrew 1033 00:46:08,400 --> 00:46:12,040 Speaker 2: money out of superannuation, which means you crystallized a loss, 1034 00:46:12,080 --> 00:46:16,440 Speaker 2: which sounds fancy, but it essentially means you accepted less 1035 00:46:16,480 --> 00:46:20,280 Speaker 2: money per share for that share and took it out 1036 00:46:20,400 --> 00:46:23,000 Speaker 2: instead of waiting for the market to recover so that 1037 00:46:23,080 --> 00:46:25,160 Speaker 2: if you ever were to sell something off you would 1038 00:46:25,160 --> 00:46:27,759 Speaker 2: get a better return. So you accepted low return. So 1039 00:46:27,800 --> 00:46:30,480 Speaker 2: your money is already backwards and now you're going to 1040 00:46:30,520 --> 00:46:34,600 Speaker 2: invest it in a market that's technically already starting to recover. 1041 00:46:34,800 --> 00:46:37,439 Speaker 2: So you've missed out on a period of time where 1042 00:46:37,440 --> 00:46:39,279 Speaker 2: you could have been investing and your money could have 1043 00:46:39,320 --> 00:46:42,080 Speaker 2: been working for you. It's been sitting in your savings account. 1044 00:46:42,239 --> 00:46:44,439 Speaker 2: I feel like I'm being quite negative and quite harsh, 1045 00:46:44,520 --> 00:46:45,719 Speaker 2: but at the end of the day, I need to 1046 00:46:45,719 --> 00:46:48,399 Speaker 2: be realistic. That is what you've done, and I think 1047 00:46:48,400 --> 00:46:50,400 Speaker 2: that you need to understand that that's maybe not the 1048 00:46:50,440 --> 00:46:52,080 Speaker 2: best thing that you could have done for your money, 1049 00:46:52,160 --> 00:46:54,560 Speaker 2: and that's my job to share that with you. 1050 00:46:54,480 --> 00:46:56,799 Speaker 1: Exactly right, And you know we're not just piling on 1051 00:46:57,080 --> 00:46:59,120 Speaker 1: this lovely money diarist. I think a lot of people 1052 00:46:59,120 --> 00:47:01,240 Speaker 1: could probably relate to this. A lot of people maybe 1053 00:47:01,280 --> 00:47:03,040 Speaker 1: have taken that money out as well and are thinking, 1054 00:47:03,040 --> 00:47:06,279 Speaker 1: oh God, what have I done? It is so important 1055 00:47:06,440 --> 00:47:10,160 Speaker 1: and special. I guess that she really values investing in herself, 1056 00:47:10,160 --> 00:47:14,560 Speaker 1: investing in traveling, investing in all of those amazing life experiences. 1057 00:47:14,600 --> 00:47:17,120 Speaker 1: But there are ways you can do that without pulling 1058 00:47:17,120 --> 00:47:20,200 Speaker 1: your money out of superannuation or just spending all of 1059 00:47:20,200 --> 00:47:22,440 Speaker 1: your money on this stuff. As you always say on 1060 00:47:22,480 --> 00:47:24,960 Speaker 1: the podcast, if you work out your budgeting and cash flow, 1061 00:47:25,239 --> 00:47:27,160 Speaker 1: you can get on the right track and you can 1062 00:47:27,239 --> 00:47:29,040 Speaker 1: afford those splurges from time to time. And like, she 1063 00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:33,400 Speaker 1: an amazing salary, she's a great industry, Like she'll be 1064 00:47:33,440 --> 00:47:35,120 Speaker 1: great salary industry. 1065 00:47:35,200 --> 00:47:37,359 Speaker 2: I think that she was doing really well. I think 1066 00:47:37,400 --> 00:47:41,200 Speaker 2: I was really concerned though about her. Can I'm really 1067 00:47:41,280 --> 00:47:44,360 Speaker 2: sorry I feel really negative about this, but I was 1068 00:47:44,360 --> 00:47:47,320 Speaker 2: really concerned when she said I'll always earn more money later, 1069 00:47:47,640 --> 00:47:50,080 Speaker 2: Like that's such a future you problem. 1070 00:47:50,960 --> 00:47:52,600 Speaker 1: But so many people would think like that. 1071 00:47:52,960 --> 00:47:55,799 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's let's stop making things a problem for future you. 1072 00:47:55,880 --> 00:47:57,640 Speaker 2: Like I don't want to hear that you'll make money later, 1073 00:47:57,680 --> 00:47:59,399 Speaker 2: and want to hear that you are making the most 1074 00:47:59,440 --> 00:48:02,920 Speaker 2: of everything. You have on offer right now. The idea, oh, oh, 1075 00:48:02,960 --> 00:48:05,120 Speaker 2: make money later is so negative and it's going to 1076 00:48:05,120 --> 00:48:07,640 Speaker 2: put you back because money compounds in the more time 1077 00:48:07,680 --> 00:48:11,160 Speaker 2: that you're investing, the more energy. I just don't know, Georgia. 1078 00:48:11,200 --> 00:48:14,240 Speaker 2: I genuinely feel a bit thrown by this, potentially because 1079 00:48:14,239 --> 00:48:17,120 Speaker 2: of the conviction that she had in her voice when 1080 00:48:17,640 --> 00:48:18,239 Speaker 2: addressing this. 1081 00:48:18,440 --> 00:48:20,239 Speaker 1: She wasn't really concerned about it at all. 1082 00:48:20,400 --> 00:48:23,000 Speaker 2: No, she wasn't concerned about it, and I would have been. 1083 00:48:23,160 --> 00:48:25,960 Speaker 2: And I think that maybe that's where my views are 1084 00:48:25,960 --> 00:48:29,759 Speaker 2: coming from, because that's something that would concern me. And 1085 00:48:30,000 --> 00:48:32,640 Speaker 2: I just don't know if she sees the seriousness of 1086 00:48:33,480 --> 00:48:37,680 Speaker 2: those values or seeing investment in those things as actual 1087 00:48:37,719 --> 00:48:39,960 Speaker 2: investments when they're not. I think that we really need 1088 00:48:40,000 --> 00:48:43,080 Speaker 2: to be clear about what investing is. Yes, there's investing 1089 00:48:43,080 --> 00:48:45,279 Speaker 2: in yourself, and yes we absolutely should be doing that, 1090 00:48:45,400 --> 00:48:48,160 Speaker 2: but I don't want you guys to be confusing investing 1091 00:48:48,200 --> 00:48:52,319 Speaker 2: in yourself with investing in the financial markets and understanding 1092 00:48:52,400 --> 00:48:55,719 Speaker 2: that yeah, there's a difference there, and that difference is 1093 00:48:55,719 --> 00:48:58,200 Speaker 2: really tangible and going to essentially change your life. 1094 00:48:58,280 --> 00:49:01,080 Speaker 1: I think it's probably important to note before we wrap 1095 00:49:01,160 --> 00:49:03,520 Speaker 1: the show as well, that you know she's not in 1096 00:49:04,080 --> 00:49:05,359 Speaker 1: hundreds of thousands of. 1097 00:49:05,280 --> 00:49:09,399 Speaker 2: Dollars to absolutely not. She's in a great financial and. 1098 00:49:09,360 --> 00:49:11,880 Speaker 1: Cash flow masterclass course to help. 1099 00:49:11,719 --> 00:49:15,359 Speaker 2: Her out, and it sounds like she's literally living her 1100 00:49:15,400 --> 00:49:18,600 Speaker 2: best life. She's saved up money, she's moved overseas, she's 1101 00:49:18,680 --> 00:49:21,680 Speaker 2: loving life in what has been essentially what we call 1102 00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:24,120 Speaker 2: a garbage fire every year. And I think that that's 1103 00:49:24,160 --> 00:49:26,560 Speaker 2: really epic. I think it's just I need to be 1104 00:49:26,600 --> 00:49:30,080 Speaker 2: super critical of things sometimes because I would hate for 1105 00:49:30,200 --> 00:49:33,799 Speaker 2: you guys to be listening to a podcast and thinking, oh, 1106 00:49:33,920 --> 00:49:36,640 Speaker 2: that's cool, I'll do that. 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