WEBVTT - MINI! Public Displays of Affection… How much is too much? 💋

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<v Speaker 2>How do we all feel about a bit of PDA?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, I love it, public display of affection for it.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm pro PDA and heaps of other letters, but I'm

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<v Speaker 3>pro pidio.

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<v Speaker 1>It wepends like if you're going to town on a

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<v Speaker 1>park bench out in the front of a bask in,

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<v Speaker 1>Robin's like, grow.

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<v Speaker 3>Up, Oh yeah, you're not going to third base. Kissy

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<v Speaker 3>kiss or a hold, a handhold or.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I always thought that I was partial to a bit

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<v Speaker 4>of PDA. I always thought I had no problem with it.

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<v Speaker 4>Thought I quite enjoyed a bit of PDA.

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<v Speaker 1>Right.

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<v Speaker 4>I was at for dinner the other night with Matt,

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<v Speaker 4>and we were sitting across from each other, not touching

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<v Speaker 4>each other, having a lovely night because we love each other.

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<v Speaker 4>And I look over to this other table and it's

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<v Speaker 4>a group of eight people. They're like all couples of

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<v Speaker 4>friends that have gone out together. Yeah, and there's two

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<v Speaker 4>people who are obviously a couple in the middle of

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<v Speaker 4>the table and they what are.

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<v Speaker 1>The whingers like that?

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<v Speaker 2>That's all it was like, stop pointing those things out.

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<v Speaker 4>It was pretty much what they were doing. They were

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<v Speaker 4>making out so hardcore at the table. All their friends

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<v Speaker 4>were just sitting around them, chatting as though it was

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<v Speaker 4>completely normal. And it wasn't just like a normal makeout.

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<v Speaker 4>It was like an opened mouth makeout at eight o'clock

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<v Speaker 4>at night on a Friday in a nice restaurant, completely

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<v Speaker 4>absorbed in their own little world between the two of

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<v Speaker 4>them and their friends were acting as though it was

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<v Speaker 4>totally normal.

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<v Speaker 3>Question, Yes, were they on the edge of the table

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<v Speaker 3>or were they like smack bang in the middle and

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<v Speaker 3>the sea was parted.

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<v Speaker 4>Like, No, they were on the left side of the table,

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<v Speaker 4>but they weren't completely on the end.

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<v Speaker 2>It wasn't like they'd gone and rearranged.

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<v Speaker 4>They were just sitting like he was on the head

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<v Speaker 4>of the table and she was on the corner of

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<v Speaker 4>the table, and.

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<v Speaker 2>They were making out.

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<v Speaker 1>The questions maybe was he choking and was she tried mouth?

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<v Speaker 4>Was mouth to mouth she was trying to wrench it

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<v Speaker 4>out with her tongue, But all, honestly, that's too much it.

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<v Speaker 2>Went on for about like it went off for about

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<v Speaker 2>five minutes.

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<v Speaker 4>They came up air and they'd go chatting to their

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<v Speaker 4>friends again, and then they'd go back out. And I

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<v Speaker 4>had this moment where I was like, am I too

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<v Speaker 4>old now? Or is this too This is too much?

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<v Speaker 4>I am not okay with this level of Peter.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm with you, I think it's too much. If I'm

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<v Speaker 1>in a friend circle and there's a you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>it's nice because all PDA is is a way of

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<v Speaker 1>you going I love you. This is me showing a

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<v Speaker 1>level of affection that is okay in a public space.

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<v Speaker 2>This is my person.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, it's what PDA is. Kissing and like sex acts

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<v Speaker 1>is probably meant for indoors.

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<v Speaker 4>Well no, I mean I had a problem with it,

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<v Speaker 4>and Matt did not care one ioda. He was like, Laura,

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<v Speaker 4>I do not know why you're so hung up on this,

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<v Speaker 4>Because he loves a bit of PDA. I don't think

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<v Speaker 4>I'm approved, Like I think, I think I'm pretty much

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<v Speaker 4>okay with it, But I do wonder if you're sitting

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<v Speaker 4>at a table with all your friends and you're macking

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<v Speaker 4>on throughout the whole.

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<v Speaker 2>Of dinner, why what are you trying to prove to

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<v Speaker 2>your friends.

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<v Speaker 3>Why did you come out with your friends?

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<v Speaker 4>Right?

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<v Speaker 3>You come out to socialize If you're just going to

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<v Speaker 3>go and make out, go out to a dinner on

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<v Speaker 3>your own, dark bar, get the corner.

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<v Speaker 2>Mac On.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a hot take. I think the correlation between

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<v Speaker 1>relationships that don't last and really intense PDA is closer

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<v Speaker 1>than we think. I think couples that show really crazy PDA,

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<v Speaker 1>like you've seen Laura, never go the distance because it

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<v Speaker 1>maps out they've got great, hot sex life. They really

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<v Speaker 1>connected in that realm, but they don't have the other aspect,

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<v Speaker 1>which is being able to be in a conversation, share

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<v Speaker 1>their time with friends.

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<v Speaker 4>This is what I think I reckon and I've done

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<v Speaker 4>my research on this. I came out of it and

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, surely there's more to this. I think

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<v Speaker 4>if you are going to that level of PDA, you

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<v Speaker 4>have nothing to talk about, and the sexual chemistry is

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<v Speaker 4>so strong that you can't fill the void with words,

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<v Speaker 4>so you have to just lock lips. Now, Okay, there

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<v Speaker 4>are some research that came out of the Journal of Sex,

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<v Speaker 4>and it's suggested, well, there is it's a real thing.

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<v Speaker 1>You've got that your glove box.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm got in my handbag right now that there is

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<v Speaker 4>such a thing as performative PDA, and now basically performative

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<v Speaker 4>PDA is maybe you're insecure in your relationship, or you're

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<v Speaker 4>jealous when you're out with your partner, you're worried about them,

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<v Speaker 4>like looking at other people or whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's a way of like my looking your territory

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<v Speaker 2>and really being like this is my man or my woman.

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<v Speaker 2>And PDA is put on, but it's not because you're

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<v Speaker 2>so in love. It's performative.

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<v Speaker 1>Alright, I agree. Maybe their love language is physical touch.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe that's their only love language, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Or tongue touching. Is that someone's physical touch.

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<v Speaker 2>Or just everything touch?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>In public? Full stop? All right, next time they pick

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