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Speaker 1: Jum mission with Jones and Amanda.

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Speaker 2: Thirty years is all it takes to find happiness in

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Speaker 2: a marriage. And you study has how many thirty years?

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Speaker 1: Wow?

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Speaker 2: Not me?

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Speaker 3: Not all marriages last thirty years. I'm now up to

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Speaker 3: thirty one, thirty one different marriages in recent years.

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Speaker 2: That's when you can do those jokes. There's the movie

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Speaker 2: or those jokes they do.

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Speaker 3: Who does that?

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Speaker 2: People do that?

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Speaker 3: You're one of them.

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Speaker 2: You just did it. I don't do those jake, you

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Speaker 2: just did it. But people used to say that.

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Speaker 3: You're close to thirty? What are you now?

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Speaker 1: We're going to have thirty in November? November twenty earth

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Speaker 1: or not twenty three?

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Speaker 3: What do I think in my brain if someone who's

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Speaker 3: been married thirty years? I picture of elderly couple.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, and yet here we are, Here we are

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Speaker 1: the stages of this is interesting. The lowest levels of

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Speaker 1: relationships satisfaction occur with young adults before a small boost.

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Speaker 2: In the late twenties. You ate up your bum when

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Speaker 2: you're in your twenties.

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Speaker 3: Not just that is it's all up for grabs. You're

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Speaker 3: constantly evaluating, is this the one am I that I

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Speaker 3: do better? What should I be doing?

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Speaker 1: And you could imagine now like with all like, we

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Speaker 1: didn't have the options that the kids these days have.

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Speaker 3: Well, there was an expectation that was different, that you

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Speaker 3: get into a relationship, you get married, and you do

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Speaker 3: your best.

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Speaker 2: Yep.

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Speaker 3: Now you have a thousand options to always be looking

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Speaker 3: for someone better.

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Speaker 2: You can just keep on swiping right in your life.

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Speaker 1: In your adult years, relationship satisfaction decreases and then plateaus

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Speaker 1: around forty to fifty nine.

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Speaker 2: Did you have that? Did you have a plateau between forty.

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Speaker 3: I mean the ages not married for forty years, no age.

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Speaker 2: Of forty fift when you're forty and fifty nine.

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Speaker 3: Well, I had babies late in life, so I Liam

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Speaker 3: was born when I was thirty nine and Jack when

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Speaker 3: I was forty one, So we're in the midst of

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Speaker 3: our baby years then. But as a lot of people

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Speaker 3: at that age have raised their children already, yep.

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Speaker 1: And then when you get into these sixties, you just

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Speaker 1: don't give a crap anymore.

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Speaker 3: All you give is a crap, that's all. That's what

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Speaker 3: I hope that's not what Helen's getting for a thirtieth

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Speaker 2: Jonesy and Amanda's Nation