WEBVTT - Britt's Big Move & McLaren Man Can We Have $50k? 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:02.200 This episode was recorded on cameragle Land. 0:00:12.080 --> 0:00:12.880 Hi guys, and. 0:00:12.800 --> 0:00:15.240 Welcome back to another episode of lifeOne Pad. I'm Brittany and. 0:00:15.360 --> 0:00:18.680 I'm Laura, and I don't often do this, but I'm 0:00:18.680 --> 0:00:19.840 coming straight. 0:00:19.680 --> 0:00:24.600 Hot out of the gate, heavy sweating, huge, humid, huge news, pulsating. 0:00:25.160 --> 0:00:28.320 I am pulsating. I was pulsating. Nothing got me hotter 0:00:28.520 --> 0:00:29.680 than what I'm about to say. 0:00:29.800 --> 0:00:33.960 Covered in pisada, rolling around in some garlic. No garlic 0:00:34.000 --> 0:00:34.680 gives me a yes. 0:00:35.680 --> 0:00:37.919 I would never do that, Darlick blokes me. It makes 0:00:37.960 --> 0:00:38.320 me fat. 0:00:38.479 --> 0:00:40.600 Parmesan cheese. This is not farting news. 0:00:40.920 --> 0:00:46.760 Officially, we don't live in Romania anymore. I'm sorry, Dracula. 0:00:46.880 --> 0:00:49.239 You were great while it lasted. I don't think you 0:00:49.320 --> 0:00:50.600 ever really liked it that much. 0:00:50.640 --> 0:00:52.640 I think you were trying to feign excitement, you know, 0:00:52.680 --> 0:00:54.400 when you know you don't like something but you're just 0:00:54.400 --> 0:00:55.400 trying to keep positive. 0:00:55.520 --> 0:00:56.840 It wasn't my top destination. 0:00:56.960 --> 0:00:59.920 No, I didn't dislike it, but it was never somewhere 0:01:00.120 --> 0:01:02.360 I was like, fuck, yes, like I get to go 0:01:02.840 --> 0:01:04.679 in Romania for a couple of weeks. But I made 0:01:04.680 --> 0:01:06.400 the most of it, for sure, and like I did 0:01:06.440 --> 0:01:08.200 what I could do there and I tried to be 0:01:08.240 --> 0:01:09.000 a tourist and. 0:01:09.360 --> 0:01:11.480 But it was it was just whatever. But we no 0:01:11.560 --> 0:01:12.680 longer live in Romania. 0:01:13.040 --> 0:01:17.440 As of yesterday, we officially live in Italy. 0:01:21.240 --> 0:01:25.160 It's like the choga la pasta. 0:01:27.319 --> 0:01:29.679 For someone who talks about how you used to live 0:01:29.720 --> 0:01:33.120 in Italy for an entire year. Your Italian isn't great, 0:01:33.120 --> 0:01:34.480 but you can work on it, and I think one 0:01:34.560 --> 0:01:38.440 day you're going to be fate. 0:01:39.160 --> 0:01:43.120 Order. I just ordered ice creams and a bottle of 0:01:43.160 --> 0:01:44.600 wine with one glass. 0:01:44.720 --> 0:01:47.000 That's what she needed to learn Italian. I'm glad that 0:01:47.040 --> 0:01:48.880 you got the important things down pat though. 0:01:49.480 --> 0:01:51.960 Yeah, that's what I learned when I got there. How 0:01:51.960 --> 0:01:55.080 to ask for the toilet the time, that's the time, 0:01:55.120 --> 0:01:58.120 what's the time please? And then how to order wine. 0:01:58.440 --> 0:02:02.800 So in serious news, yeah, Ben just yesterday moved to is. 0:02:02.840 --> 0:02:06.240 Actually I'm so proud of him. It is the biggest 0:02:06.360 --> 0:02:08.440 best move of his career. It's one of the top 0:02:08.480 --> 0:02:10.960 five leagues in the world. Like, this is the most 0:02:11.000 --> 0:02:14.400 amazing move for him. So he lives in Genoi. That's 0:02:14.440 --> 0:02:15.799 how you pronounce it. But if you don't know what 0:02:16.680 --> 0:02:19.280 well it actually is, Genoa's you know, like Genoa. 0:02:19.360 --> 0:02:20.160 But I didn't know. 0:02:20.240 --> 0:02:23.640 It's pronounced genoa with a deeper voice gemois genoi. 0:02:24.040 --> 0:02:28.880 Hot. Oh, there's hot, it's hot genoi. So it's really exciting. 0:02:28.960 --> 0:02:31.040 So he signed there, it was just announced. 0:02:31.040 --> 0:02:31.840 He signed that yesterday. 0:02:31.880 --> 0:02:34.080 He had like twenty four hours notice to move, and 0:02:34.120 --> 0:02:35.960 he literally called me and he's like, what do you 0:02:36.000 --> 0:02:37.160 think about Italy? 0:02:37.680 --> 0:02:40.440 And I said, my panties are off? Lanies are off? 0:02:40.440 --> 0:02:43.160 Signed me up, signed that toddline right there. I will 0:02:43.200 --> 0:02:44.000 do it if I have to. 0:02:44.280 --> 0:02:46.640 Hey, so I came over to BRIT's house yesterday and 0:02:46.680 --> 0:02:49.239 this is when you told me the news as well. 0:02:49.560 --> 0:02:51.720 And it does feel like it all happened very very quickly, 0:02:51.760 --> 0:02:53.440 and that's because it did. Are we allowed to talk 0:02:53.480 --> 0:02:57.600 about the speed of which Ben left his house, didn't 0:02:57.639 --> 0:03:01.160 pack anything, left a completely full apartment in Romania, and 0:03:01.320 --> 0:03:03.400 flew to Italy and now lives in Italy. 0:03:03.560 --> 0:03:04.720 It's a wild thing to get. 0:03:04.560 --> 0:03:08.480 Your head around that that is how someone could be transferred. 0:03:08.720 --> 0:03:11.000 It's actually crazy, and that's not just him. 0:03:11.120 --> 0:03:11.760 That's normal. 0:03:11.800 --> 0:03:14.600 That's standard, like football transfers. When something comes through and 0:03:14.680 --> 0:03:17.639 a team says that they want you, it's usually negotiated 0:03:17.720 --> 0:03:20.400 in like twenty four hours and then they want you 0:03:20.440 --> 0:03:21.040 the next day. 0:03:21.240 --> 0:03:23.320 That's it. So he still has a whole. 0:03:23.160 --> 0:03:26.200 Apartment in Romania with all his stuff. He literally packed 0:03:26.280 --> 0:03:28.920 one bag and one carry on of his life and 0:03:28.960 --> 0:03:31.240 flew the next morning. But I was like, it doesn't 0:03:31.280 --> 0:03:32.959 matter how quick it is, we'll sort out your apartment 0:03:32.960 --> 0:03:33.440 in Romania. 0:03:33.520 --> 0:03:34.880 You're like, I don't care as long as I now 0:03:34.920 --> 0:03:37.520 live in Italy, so long as my next holiday is 0:03:37.600 --> 0:03:39.840 not Romania and it's next to Positano. 0:03:40.520 --> 0:03:41.960 I googled it. First thing I go with Genera. 0:03:42.000 --> 0:03:43.160 I was like, would you like to go to on 0:03:43.160 --> 0:03:44.240 a day trip to Positano? 0:03:44.280 --> 0:03:45.080 And I was like, yes, I will. 0:03:45.760 --> 0:03:48.840 This is also the reason why so when Britain Ben 0:03:48.960 --> 0:03:51.160 first started dating and then we like flirted with the 0:03:51.200 --> 0:03:54.480 idea of you doing records from overseas. We got all 0:03:54.520 --> 0:03:56.520 the equipment for Life on Cup for you to be 0:03:56.520 --> 0:03:58.200 able to record overseas. And this is the reason why 0:03:58.200 --> 0:04:00.520 it's still in Scotland because I don't know where it 0:04:00.560 --> 0:04:03.160 is now. Like Ben had to move so quickly to 0:04:03.280 --> 0:04:06.120 Romania and you got to Romania, You're like, where's my stuff? 0:04:06.120 --> 0:04:08.520 And he's like, oh, it's in Scotland. And now he's 0:04:08.560 --> 0:04:09.040 in Italy. 0:04:09.280 --> 0:04:12.600 And he's just leaving off trail of stuff all over 0:04:12.640 --> 0:04:15.160 the world no matter where he goes, he actually is. 0:04:15.440 --> 0:04:18.400 So if I go to visit him and it's in 0:04:18.440 --> 0:04:21.640 record time, I will take stuff now because I've got 0:04:21.640 --> 0:04:23.920 a caught in Romania, and I've got a microphone in Scotland, 0:04:23.920 --> 0:04:25.720 and I've got who knows where anything. 0:04:25.400 --> 0:04:27.040 Is, which just means you're prepared no matter where you 0:04:27.120 --> 0:04:28.200 end up, one hundred percent. 0:04:28.560 --> 0:04:30.080 But that means we can all go and do. 0:04:30.080 --> 0:04:30.800 A trip in Italy. 0:04:30.839 --> 0:04:33.360 Maybe I am so keen. Do we have any listeners 0:04:33.360 --> 0:04:36.240 in Italy the DM so then we can tax it 0:04:36.240 --> 0:04:39.640 after a Yeah, we just need one person's proof. 0:04:40.240 --> 0:04:41.359 I think if we got over there, we pick up 0:04:41.360 --> 0:04:44.159 a business card. I think that that's enough, right, Maybe not? 0:04:44.279 --> 0:04:45.479 Since I've now talked about it on the. 0:04:45.480 --> 0:04:51.360 Podybeah, I've just opened up the back end of the podcast. 0:04:52.160 --> 0:04:56.240 Last month, one hundred and seventy listens came from Italy. 0:04:56.360 --> 0:05:00.120 That counts one hundred and seventy people. That's old. Sorry, Yes, 0:05:00.279 --> 0:05:00.680 ye're true. 0:05:00.760 --> 0:05:02.560 That could be one person listening to one hundred and 0:05:02.560 --> 0:05:03.440 seventy episodes. 0:05:03.720 --> 0:05:06.159 So we need baby that one Italian listener. 0:05:06.240 --> 0:05:08.680 We've got one it's probably an Australian just traveling through 0:05:08.720 --> 0:05:09.000 as well. 0:05:09.000 --> 0:05:09.960 They're not even there now. 0:05:10.320 --> 0:05:12.800 Well, we are very happy for Ben, and in particular, 0:05:12.920 --> 0:05:16.280 we are very very excited for our tax deduction work 0:05:16.279 --> 0:05:20.040 trip that we are absolutely having in Positano as a mandatory. Well, 0:05:20.160 --> 0:05:22.280 I mean, lots of things have been happening in my household. 0:05:22.320 --> 0:05:25.440 Actually that's a lie. Nothing's been really happening in my household. 0:05:25.480 --> 0:05:28.440 I'm I just feel like I'm living vicariously through my 0:05:28.520 --> 0:05:32.000 husband because I have been put in charge of managing 0:05:32.000 --> 0:05:35.120 his socials and making sure that people vote for him 0:05:35.240 --> 0:05:36.760 and I'm a celebrity. To get me out of here. 0:05:37.080 --> 0:05:40.360 Matt's now been gone for two weeks, and tonight, because 0:05:40.360 --> 0:05:42.880 we're recording this on Tuesday, he is doing one of 0:05:42.880 --> 0:05:44.799 those fucked up eating challenges. 0:05:45.520 --> 0:05:47.920 Praying for him. It's the worst thing I've ever done 0:05:47.960 --> 0:05:48.520 in my life. 0:05:48.600 --> 0:05:50.600 This is why I think it's a bit rigged, because 0:05:50.640 --> 0:05:52.719 that was the one thing that he said he did 0:05:52.800 --> 0:05:55.360 not want to do, like that he would absolutely die 0:05:55.360 --> 0:05:56.160 if he had to do it. 0:05:56.279 --> 0:05:58.120 I said the same thing, though I don't think it's rigged. 0:05:58.120 --> 0:06:00.159 It's just there's just there's so many of them and 0:06:00.160 --> 0:06:01.720 there's not that many people in the jungle. It's just 0:06:01.720 --> 0:06:04.520 the way the cookie or the nipper crumbles. 0:06:04.120 --> 0:06:06.200 It's just how the anus falls apart, just how they 0:06:06.600 --> 0:06:09.640 cooked in your mouth. That's in your mouth. But yeah, look, 0:06:09.760 --> 0:06:11.200 just wanted to sneak it in there and say go 0:06:11.279 --> 0:06:12.880 vote for him. We'll put it in the show notes. 0:06:13.080 --> 0:06:14.920 I'll be shocked if he doesn't vomit. It is. 0:06:15.080 --> 0:06:19.239 I cannot explain how rank I was beside myself upset 0:06:19.720 --> 0:06:20.120 at it. 0:06:20.240 --> 0:06:20.839 I was upset. 0:06:20.880 --> 0:06:23.520 I was genuinely upset that I had even before I 0:06:23.560 --> 0:06:26.760 went there, like the anticipation, because you know it's made 0:06:26.800 --> 0:06:29.880 to be so you vomit. I was really beside myself 0:06:29.920 --> 0:06:32.400 and the stink bugs. Well, then they cut out my 0:06:32.520 --> 0:06:35.039 projectile vomiting. It was too much for TV. They didn't 0:06:35.040 --> 0:06:37.479 air half of it because I was like, I coughed. 0:06:37.520 --> 0:06:39.400 At one point I went I gagged. 0:06:39.480 --> 0:06:40.840 I went like this, look like. 0:06:40.800 --> 0:06:43.080 That, and a bit flung out and hit Roberts Shoe 0:06:43.440 --> 0:06:45.320 and they couldn't air it. They couldn't air it hit 0:06:45.400 --> 0:06:48.000 robert Shoe and I was like, I'm so sorry. 0:06:49.360 --> 0:06:51.560 I feel sick even thinking about it, and the thought 0:06:51.600 --> 0:06:53.520 that I have to watch that tonight at the same 0:06:53.560 --> 0:06:55.320 time as eating dinner, because. 0:06:55.120 --> 0:06:56.719 It's like, well, that's a choice. 0:06:56.760 --> 0:06:58.880 You don't have to eat your dinner at the same time. 0:06:59.000 --> 0:07:01.839 What's like seven o'clock, it's like dinner time, Tucker, Tuesday's 0:07:02.000 --> 0:07:02.599 dinner time. 0:07:02.720 --> 0:07:03.520 Wait half an hour. 0:07:03.600 --> 0:07:06.279 Laws, you don't have to be getting into your ravioli 0:07:06.360 --> 0:07:07.600 while he's eaten his nipples. 0:07:07.680 --> 0:07:10.200 Obviously, I'm a celebrity is taking over my household, and 0:07:10.240 --> 0:07:14.120 I have been watching it very religiously. However, there is 0:07:14.160 --> 0:07:17.840 another show which has just taken over everybody else's lives. 0:07:17.920 --> 0:07:20.720 And normally I am the one on this podcast who 0:07:20.880 --> 0:07:25.320 is an absolute devout watcher and consumer of Married at 0:07:25.360 --> 0:07:28.160 First Sight, But this year the tables have been old, 0:07:28.160 --> 0:07:29.280 turned around and switch a rude. 0:07:29.440 --> 0:07:32.680 The turn has tabled, and now I watched Maths. I 0:07:32.720 --> 0:07:34.360 never thought I would say that did you hate it? 0:07:34.440 --> 0:07:36.600 Or did you love it? I think both simultaneously. 0:07:36.640 --> 0:07:39.040 Both can be true. I couldn't stop watching it like 0:07:39.080 --> 0:07:42.440 a train wreck. But nothing has made me so enraged 0:07:42.520 --> 0:07:45.240 like I was so angry. And that's why I remember 0:07:45.480 --> 0:07:47.480 that I didn't like to watch in the past because 0:07:47.920 --> 0:07:50.520 I don't need the anger in my life. There's one 0:07:50.560 --> 0:07:53.080 person in the show that I have not disliked so 0:07:53.320 --> 0:07:55.400 fast in my life. And it was one of the 0:07:55.440 --> 0:07:58.800 bride's sisters. So one of the brides, Lauren, were introduced 0:07:58.840 --> 0:08:01.760 to her. She seems lovely at the start. I shouldn't 0:08:01.760 --> 0:08:04.120 say at the start, but I don't align with what 0:08:04.160 --> 0:08:07.080 she aligns with. She really wants to be like nineteen 0:08:07.120 --> 0:08:09.640 twenties bride. She wants to be at home and cook 0:08:09.680 --> 0:08:11.520 and clean and he goes to work, and she wants 0:08:11.640 --> 0:08:15.040 very stereotypical old school gender roles. Couldn't care less if 0:08:15.080 --> 0:08:16.520 that's what you want, Like, if that's what you want 0:08:16.560 --> 0:08:18.120 and you find a partner that that's what you want, 0:08:18.160 --> 0:08:21.080 that's amazing. But that's not what I aligned with obviously. 0:08:21.320 --> 0:08:22.600 But it was her sister. 0:08:22.720 --> 0:08:25.920 So it's Lauren's sister, Tamara, who was I guess, almost 0:08:26.000 --> 0:08:28.120 the star of the first episode in a way. She 0:08:28.240 --> 0:08:32.319 really stole the show, and she was just the most 0:08:32.720 --> 0:08:36.440 horrible person that I thought, this can't be real, Like, 0:08:36.559 --> 0:08:39.839 surely you can't be like that on national television at 0:08:39.840 --> 0:08:40.840 your sister's wedding. 0:08:40.960 --> 0:08:41.720 I did flick over. 0:08:41.800 --> 0:08:43.880 So as soon as Celebrity had finished, I flicked over 0:08:43.920 --> 0:08:45.839 to maths and I caught the end tail of this, 0:08:46.360 --> 0:08:49.000 and I don't believe for one second that that wasn't 0:08:49.000 --> 0:08:51.720 heavily produced. Like I don't actually think that there is 0:08:51.880 --> 0:08:56.000 anyone in this world who has that little self awareness 0:08:56.040 --> 0:08:58.160 that would behave the way that she behaved at the wedding. 0:08:58.200 --> 0:09:00.440 I saw that there was like drama around her getting 0:09:00.679 --> 0:09:02.280 the wrong meal and the way she spoke to the 0:09:02.280 --> 0:09:04.400 weight stuff, and then like she was heckling her own 0:09:04.440 --> 0:09:07.200 sister in the first dance. This is my only grite 0:09:07.200 --> 0:09:09.200 with Maths because I love Maths. I think it is 0:09:09.240 --> 0:09:11.760 too overproduced now because I think they know that they 0:09:11.800 --> 0:09:14.400 need these really extreme characters for people to have the 0:09:14.440 --> 0:09:17.080 outrage that you've obviously felt, brit But I think if 0:09:17.120 --> 0:09:19.360 you've watched enough seasons of it, you start to see 0:09:19.400 --> 0:09:23.000 the patterns and you start to see that actually those 0:09:23.040 --> 0:09:25.400 people are playing a specific character, and I think she's 0:09:25.440 --> 0:09:28.160 absolutely been egged up to be that person. 0:09:28.440 --> 0:09:32.000 There's no way that if their relationship, the sister's relationship 0:09:32.040 --> 0:09:34.120 was really like that and she really was that horrible 0:09:34.120 --> 0:09:35.600 twenty four seven, There's no way you sho'd be at 0:09:35.640 --> 0:09:37.959 the wedding. There is zero way you would have you 0:09:37.960 --> 0:09:40.680 would ever speak to her again, and you do see 0:09:40.679 --> 0:09:43.400 at the end tomorrow the sister walks out. She's had 0:09:43.480 --> 0:09:45.960 enough because she didn't get her prescatarian meal, she said, 0:09:46.000 --> 0:09:47.880 and she said, I'm the bride's sister. You were not 0:09:47.920 --> 0:09:50.360 treating me like I'm important enough kind of thing. And 0:09:50.400 --> 0:09:52.160 at the end she goes, I'm not giving you any more. 0:09:52.360 --> 0:09:54.560 And you hear her say that as she walks off, 0:09:54.640 --> 0:09:56.760 And I feel like that is a nod to the 0:09:56.800 --> 0:09:59.440 production aspect where they're like, just give us something else, 0:09:59.440 --> 0:10:01.920 give us something else. But something I did want to 0:10:01.920 --> 0:10:04.280 talk about that happened on There was a new couple, 0:10:04.360 --> 0:10:07.640 Carina and Paul. Now this apparently has never happened in 0:10:07.679 --> 0:10:11.200 Math's history. But they get to the wedding. They are 0:10:11.200 --> 0:10:13.480 at the end of the aisle. They're like frothying each 0:10:13.520 --> 0:10:15.719 other to the audience. They're like, you're very handsome, you're 0:10:15.800 --> 0:10:16.679 very beautiful. 0:10:16.320 --> 0:10:17.000 Blah blah blah. 0:10:17.000 --> 0:10:19.679 It looks amazing and you're like, wow, these people look 0:10:19.720 --> 0:10:22.719 really suited to each other. And he's really like she is. 0:10:22.840 --> 0:10:25.119 Standing, Oh my god, I'm stoked. 0:10:25.200 --> 0:10:28.320 Like then she walks off camera and she says to 0:10:28.320 --> 0:10:31.800 a producer basically, find me someone else, get me a 0:10:31.840 --> 0:10:35.560 new husband. I know him, and the producer looks really shocked. 0:10:35.600 --> 0:10:36.880 They're like, what you know him? 0:10:37.000 --> 0:10:39.040 Like, oh my god, I'm like, as if you don't 0:10:39.080 --> 0:10:43.160 know that from a production aspect. But apparently, long story short, 0:10:43.520 --> 0:10:47.480 they had dated before. Briefly, they'd matched online, They're dated 0:10:47.520 --> 0:10:50.440 in Perth. They'd gone on a hike, had a really 0:10:50.480 --> 0:10:52.880 amazing date. They kept texting each other, and then he 0:10:52.960 --> 0:10:56.160 ghosted her. So he just literally never messaged her again. 0:10:56.440 --> 0:10:58.960 The first contact that they have had from that original 0:10:59.040 --> 0:11:02.200 date was on national television getting married. 0:11:02.520 --> 0:11:05.319 So stupid, but also like they have to both be 0:11:05.520 --> 0:11:07.160 in on it for them to have known that they've 0:11:07.160 --> 0:11:08.480 been ghosted, do you know? I mean, like, how do 0:11:08.520 --> 0:11:13.480 they Otherwise this is like the most serendipitous, incredible production 0:11:13.520 --> 0:11:17.320 that's ever existed, or it's very very manufactured, and they've 0:11:17.320 --> 0:11:19.200 found two people who have been on a date and 0:11:19.240 --> 0:11:21.679 then ghosted each other. The thing is, though, is that 0:11:21.679 --> 0:11:24.920 that would be a particularly hard thing to find because 0:11:24.960 --> 0:11:27.880 how would you know unless someone's spoken publicly about going 0:11:27.920 --> 0:11:29.959 on a date with this person and being ghosted, how 0:11:29.960 --> 0:11:32.480 would you know that those two people have ever been 0:11:32.559 --> 0:11:35.319 together previously. So I just think that this has to 0:11:35.360 --> 0:11:38.040 be orchestrated as well for it to have actually been 0:11:38.080 --> 0:11:38.960 in a discovery. 0:11:39.200 --> 0:11:39.840 I don't know. 0:11:40.040 --> 0:11:42.120 I don't know because one thing that I did notice 0:11:42.120 --> 0:11:43.720 about this season, and I don't know if it's just 0:11:43.720 --> 0:11:46.000 the first ones that have gotten married, is that they 0:11:46.000 --> 0:11:49.599 seem to be matching them more with location, which I 0:11:49.600 --> 0:11:51.439 think is a really wise thing, because if you get 0:11:51.679 --> 0:11:54.600 someone who's from Perth and someone who's from Sydney, one person, 0:11:54.640 --> 0:11:56.280 if it works out, is going to have to move 0:11:56.280 --> 0:11:58.520 to the other side of the country. Like Perth is 0:11:58.600 --> 0:12:00.160 not that big of a city. I've got a lot 0:12:00.160 --> 0:12:01.839 of friends from there, and I think that the dating 0:12:01.960 --> 0:12:05.360 pool from what I've heard, it's pretty like you've kind 0:12:05.360 --> 0:12:06.640 of been through everybody. 0:12:06.920 --> 0:12:09.079 Like you think it was totally serendipitous that they have 0:12:09.200 --> 0:12:10.000 been matched together. 0:12:10.200 --> 0:12:10.880 I don't know. 0:12:11.280 --> 0:12:13.280 I think it could have been, but I was kind 0:12:13.280 --> 0:12:15.679 of picturing what I would do in that situation if 0:12:15.720 --> 0:12:18.600 I was walking down the island. This whole production had 0:12:18.679 --> 0:12:22.400 happened because I was on Maths and I recognized him, Like, 0:12:22.440 --> 0:12:24.840 it's surprising to me how long it took for them. 0:12:24.720 --> 0:12:26.360 To be like, guys, what the fuck? 0:12:26.440 --> 0:12:29.280 Like to the producers, I'm surprised they didn't say anything 0:12:29.360 --> 0:12:30.840 in the actual ceremony. 0:12:31.040 --> 0:12:35.080 I wonder if the ghosting was a bonus. So this 0:12:35.200 --> 0:12:37.240 is what I think has happened, because I, you know, 0:12:37.320 --> 0:12:38.920 Laura and I have obviously done a lot of reality 0:12:38.920 --> 0:12:41.280 TV and we've done a dating reality TV show. You know, 0:12:41.360 --> 0:12:43.839 the due diligence that they do on each person. What 0:12:43.920 --> 0:12:47.120 I think has probably happened is they've found the contestants 0:12:47.120 --> 0:12:49.439 that they think could be an option, and then they 0:12:49.440 --> 0:12:51.600 go through their social medias. I just wonder if maybe 0:12:51.600 --> 0:12:53.720 they were following each other on social media and the 0:12:53.760 --> 0:12:56.320 production team of at least seeing that there's some form 0:12:56.360 --> 0:12:59.320 of connection without knowing what, and then maybe when the 0:12:59.320 --> 0:13:02.000 ghosting came out, they've been like bingo, Like we couldn't 0:13:02.000 --> 0:13:02.640 have asked for that. 0:13:02.760 --> 0:13:05.200 Yeah, because remember last year, wasn't there a couple that 0:13:05.360 --> 0:13:07.400 they were like intruders or something like that, and they 0:13:07.440 --> 0:13:09.880 went to the same gym or they knew each other's name. 0:13:09.960 --> 0:13:12.040 Remember they one of them got down the aisle and 0:13:12.080 --> 0:13:14.079 he was like, oh, hey, I can't remember whose name 0:13:14.080 --> 0:13:17.040 it was. But they had that moment where they realized 0:13:17.040 --> 0:13:19.959 that they actually knew each other from They hadn't dated though, 0:13:20.120 --> 0:13:21.960 they just knew each other. I think it was through 0:13:22.000 --> 0:13:24.559 like a gym connection or something. But the funniest thing 0:13:24.559 --> 0:13:29.200 about that situation with Paul and with Carina is that 0:13:29.400 --> 0:13:31.560 up until the point where she was like I know 0:13:31.679 --> 0:13:35.320 this guy and we've been dating before, I realized that 0:13:35.440 --> 0:13:37.199 I still have so much work to do. I think 0:13:37.240 --> 0:13:39.800 I've learnt so much from like producing this podcast and 0:13:39.840 --> 0:13:42.640 hearing so many of the experts talk about dating and relationships. 0:13:42.640 --> 0:13:45.679 But up until that point, I was like, he's the catch. 0:13:46.040 --> 0:13:48.880 He's the one where they've just got this amazing guy 0:13:49.120 --> 0:13:51.800 to like have on the whole season that everyone falls 0:13:51.840 --> 0:13:54.120 in love with. He's the guy, you know. He's talking 0:13:54.200 --> 0:13:58.480 French to her. He's handsome, he's tall, he's like hard working, 0:13:58.640 --> 0:13:59.920 like he's got all of it right. 0:14:00.200 --> 0:14:02.400 She was like, he's absolutely my kind of guy. This 0:14:02.440 --> 0:14:03.480 is in the car this morning, and I. 0:14:03.400 --> 0:14:05.240 Was like, oh uh. I was like, oh, so he 0:14:05.280 --> 0:14:06.280 must be a fuck boy there. 0:14:06.280 --> 0:14:08.719 Well, funnily enough, yeah, it turns out he's actually been 0:14:08.760 --> 0:14:10.200 on that show, The Love Boat. 0:14:10.360 --> 0:14:13.280 He seems like the guy who just tells you exactly 0:14:13.360 --> 0:14:14.079 what you want to hear. 0:14:14.160 --> 0:14:16.880 And I laughed to myself because I was like, I 0:14:17.160 --> 0:14:18.680 still to this day would have full looked at that 0:14:18.800 --> 0:14:19.720 like she's. 0:14:19.600 --> 0:14:21.320 Like, I am not as progressive as as I thought 0:14:21.320 --> 0:14:21.720 I was. 0:14:21.800 --> 0:14:24.200 But here's the question, what do you reckon you would do? 0:14:24.760 --> 0:14:26.440 Or have you ever gone back? 0:14:26.440 --> 0:14:28.960 Because like someone you've been dating completely like fucking cut 0:14:29.000 --> 0:14:32.080 you off, like hardcore ghosting. Then they've come back, so 0:14:32.120 --> 0:14:34.840 they've zombie you, and then you're like, yeah, cool, I'll 0:14:35.080 --> 0:14:35.760 tap that again. 0:14:35.880 --> 0:14:38.600 To be honest, I can't like nothing comes to mind 0:14:38.720 --> 0:14:40.240 as like an immediate example. 0:14:40.640 --> 0:14:43.680 However, I just know that yes. 0:14:43.640 --> 0:14:48.080 I absolutely would have, like I think about like you 0:14:48.120 --> 0:14:50.800 guys know, there's no secrets here. My dating in my 0:14:50.840 --> 0:14:53.960 twenties was an absolute fucking shit show. The amount of 0:14:54.000 --> 0:14:57.600 things that I tolerated or was just like yeah, second 0:14:57.600 --> 0:15:00.160 time hurt me again, that sounds good. 0:15:00.200 --> 0:15:03.440 People can change. Yeah, people can change. He'll change for me. 0:15:03.520 --> 0:15:06.360 I'm the exception, Like I would have done that easily. 0:15:06.720 --> 0:15:10.800 I also was. I was also the ghost who resurrected 0:15:10.800 --> 0:15:12.960 myself many times because I was And now I think 0:15:13.000 --> 0:15:14.440 about it, and I'm like, I only did that because 0:15:14.440 --> 0:15:16.440 I was bored and lazy and not lazy, sorry, bored 0:15:16.440 --> 0:15:19.120 and lonely. I was lonely and I wanted company, and 0:15:19.160 --> 0:15:21.000 I went through my phone. I was like, fuck, guess, 0:15:21.640 --> 0:15:23.040 I guess we got to go back to that guy. 0:15:23.200 --> 0:15:25.480 Don't you guys remember I think I told you on 0:15:25.520 --> 0:15:28.280 the podcast. But I had been on this dating app 0:15:28.280 --> 0:15:29.840 and I'd matched with this guy and we were talking 0:15:30.000 --> 0:15:32.440 and then I ghosted him. He kept wanting to meet 0:15:32.520 --> 0:15:34.040 up and I was just like, fucking I could not 0:15:34.080 --> 0:15:36.400 interested call me bonded, ghosted him. 0:15:36.360 --> 0:15:39.200 Three years later. People changed. 0:15:39.360 --> 0:15:41.720 Three years, I went on the app and the conversation 0:15:41.920 --> 0:15:44.400 was still there and I was like, got nothing else 0:15:44.400 --> 0:15:47.120 gone on? I was like, ready for that drink? He 0:15:47.280 --> 0:15:49.240 was like yeah, okay, that was it three years. I 0:15:49.320 --> 0:15:51.600 ghosted him for three years and he said yes without 0:15:51.680 --> 0:15:54.440 skipping a beat. We went to the date and it 0:15:54.480 --> 0:15:56.040 was the most boring night in my life. And I 0:15:56.080 --> 0:15:57.040 was like, that's why I. 0:15:56.960 --> 0:15:57.360 Go to you? 0:15:57.480 --> 0:16:01.240 Did you fucking still absolutely? Yeah? 0:16:01.280 --> 0:16:01.720 I didn't. 0:16:01.800 --> 0:16:03.080 I didn't. We didn't even kiss. 0:16:03.120 --> 0:16:06.200 I was like within ten minutes, I was like, this 0:16:06.360 --> 0:16:07.400 is why you go with your guys? 0:16:07.400 --> 0:16:09.040 Were you like I can't wait to ghost you again? 0:16:10.000 --> 0:16:11.280 I was like I got to go in three I 0:16:11.560 --> 0:16:12.440 got to go to the toilet and. 0:16:12.480 --> 0:16:13.240 Never came back. 0:16:14.360 --> 0:16:17.560 I think though your message ready for that drink? Well played, 0:16:17.840 --> 0:16:20.280 because I think most people would have been how have 0:16:20.360 --> 0:16:22.280 you been, and it's like, there's too much that's happened 0:16:22.320 --> 0:16:24.000 in three years, I can't catch you up. 0:16:24.160 --> 0:16:27.280