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Speaker 1: Two gutting dads.

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Speaker 2: I'm Mattie Jay and I'm an.

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Speaker 1: This is a podcast all about parenting.

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Speaker 2: It is the good, it is the bad and the

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Speaker 1: Chicken pie is for Laura because I was very dumb

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Speaker 1: I told Laura very last minute that I was going

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Speaker 1: I think we are No, it's I will put in

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Speaker 1: I've got a message.

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Speaker 1: Petty Couple. Love that Okay, so Jimmy says, and this

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Speaker 1: Jimmy says, I've just got your episode about being petty

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Speaker 1: few times. Sometimes she loves me, sometimes she hates me.

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Speaker 2: She's like a lighthouse. Yeah, always there, She's always at

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Speaker 2: the front, swiveling.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And I love Roonda.

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Speaker 2: I love Rnda.

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Speaker 1: She does love a swivel bad hip.

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Speaker 2: Get hear a squeaking.

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Speaker 1: No family, never married, she's by herself.

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Speaker 2: But you gave me an interesting fact that she was

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Speaker 2: a I think.

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Speaker 1: She won Miss Bondai in nineteen seventy. Rhonda love her.

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Speaker 1: She's very elderly, she must be pushing eighty odd and

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Speaker 1: no family, no friends. Really. She never leaves the house

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Speaker 1: once a fortnight to go get grocery. She has a

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Speaker 1: comes back. Apart from that, she's locked indoors watching TV.

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Speaker 2: Also, the people that do those jobs, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Like the patient's on.

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Speaker 1: It pretty easy, bro, Oh is it draft at the shops? Sorry,

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Speaker 1: I'm joke.

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Speaker 2: I was a joke. Can you leave that in the

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Speaker 2: sort of person he really is?

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Speaker 1: Sorry? Go on anyway, So the wall comes down and

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Speaker 1: it makes a bloody big noise. It's a big brick wall.

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Speaker 1: We're talking like a ton of bricks.

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Speaker 2: The social worker tipped it over into your house, didn't there?

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Speaker 2: They found out what you really think about them?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, to go to Ronda's backyard, I can just step

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Speaker 1: over the bread. I noticed that, and I go, Ronda,

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Speaker 1: you've did you hear that? And she's like what And

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Speaker 1: she's just watching Wheel of Fortune?

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Speaker 2: I really loud, obviously, and she's like.

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Speaker 1: What do you mean, And I'm like, the brick walls

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Speaker 1: come down, and she's like, did it?

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Speaker 2: Come have a look and she's gone oh, And I'm going, oh,

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Speaker 2: like this is going to cause money, don't worry. I'll

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Speaker 2: sort this out. And you're a good guy for doing that,

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Speaker 2: because I wouldn't have done that, or I would have

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Speaker 2: said you better fucking fix your fence. But you know

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Speaker 2: how you called the counsel on me about my front port.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to call the counsel you.

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Speaker 1: I was fixing a leak in the roof, and whilst

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Speaker 1: that leak was being fixed, she called. I'm pretty sure

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Speaker 1: she called the counsel on me and they thought I

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Speaker 1: was doing unapproved work, so they came and didn't inspect

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Speaker 2: Ordeals, very much like never let them know your next move.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, she's like she knew that brick wall fellow,

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Speaker 2: She's like, oh did it yes, And then she's like, oh, Matthew,

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Speaker 2: thank you so much. Let me just call the counsel.

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Speaker 2: She didn't call me a sweetheart, and then she called

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Speaker 2: the counselor yeah, so you never let it.

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Speaker 1: I think, just for reference, I think we're out of housekeeping.

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Speaker 2: Sorry, okay, keep going, just roll it. People were like,

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Speaker 2: is this still a housekeeper? I don't want to confuse them.

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Speaker 1: You're right, it was very meaty. You were on the

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Speaker 1: money there, You're me.

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Speaker 2: I wanted to see it in a while because it's

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Speaker 2: quite a substantial wall. Yes, so we're not talking a

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Speaker 1: So anyway, I'm talking through how we're going to fix

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Speaker 1: this wall. At the same time, ash, I hear another crash, fuck,

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Speaker 1: a huge crash, a big bang, and there's this like

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Speaker 1: the hell is this? Her skylight cover her house is

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Speaker 1: It's it's flown up off her roof because it's very windy,

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Speaker 1: which is remind people that it's blown over a big

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Speaker 1: brick wall. The sun roof cover is smashed into my backyard.

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Speaker 1: And I go into her house and into her living room.

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Speaker 1: She has a one meter by one meter gap in

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Speaker 1: the ceiling. Now straight through I can.

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Speaker 2: Look through there where a skylight's.

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Speaker 1: Raining into her living room, and oh my god, I'm like, Rondie,

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Speaker 1: you've just this skylight cover's gone.

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Speaker 2: And she goes, is it She's got you wrapped around

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Speaker 2: of her finger.

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Speaker 1: Bro I'm like, can you call anyone? And she's like,

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Speaker 1: who would I call?

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Speaker 2: I'm an elderly woman. How we're going to call? No family?

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Speaker 2: Never been married? Who she got Maddie Day.

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Speaker 1: So I, luckily, because Rufe was being fixed, I said

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Speaker 1: to the boys, can you fix this room? Just temporary,

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Speaker 1: and I'll speak to a couple of supplies who can

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Speaker 1: fix the skylight because we're talking straight through.

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Speaker 2: And it's been one of the rainiest fucking years ever

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Speaker 2: and it's set to continue.

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Speaker 1: Months rain and Holena, there we go, apparently anyway, So

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Speaker 1: we sort out a couple of supplies, we get it

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Speaker 1: booked in fixed on Tuesday. Don't worry, Ronda, You're good.

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Speaker 1: I've spent the afternoon helping her out. Also got a

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Speaker 1: temporary cover on the skylight as well. No problem at all.

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Speaker 1: Just what I do?

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Speaker 2: You're really you are really forming into a dad.

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Speaker 1: So then on Monday I go, hey, Ronda, just letting

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Speaker 1: you know the boys are going to fix your skylight

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, And I'm like, the skylight, what are

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Speaker 2: That's that flew off, you know, that fucking hole in

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Speaker 1: And she goes, oh, no, I called the insurance and

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Speaker 2: I said, well, you've.

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Speaker 1: Already said yes to this other guy that I called

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Speaker 1: So then I'm calling Tim and going, Tim, don't worry

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Speaker 2: Oh ah, god painful. She's definitely like, don't let Matt

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Speaker 2: know my next move. Like, I just got to string

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Speaker 2: this guy along. And again, you're good guy for hanging around.

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Speaker 2: I would have been like, good luck with that.

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Speaker 1: Left.

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Speaker 2: Ah, that's a different between you and me.

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Speaker 1: Anyway. So this morning, this morning, I was letting the

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Speaker 1: I'm laughing about it, but.

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Speaker 2: I did see them up there, so they fixed it.

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Speaker 2: They fixed it. Yeah, okay, because the insurance was going

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Speaker 2: to take that'll take fucking forever, thank you, thank you.

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Speaker 2: That's the thing. I feel like a lot of older

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Speaker 2: people get scammed by insurance.

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Speaker 1: Oh for sure.

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Speaker 2: It's just such an easy, easy target. Yeah, because you like,

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Speaker 2: you know, we're an insurance company. You can rely on us.

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Speaker 2: We're here to help you. Who mentioned it it was

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Speaker 2: like insurance is essentially gambling. Yes, that's what it is,

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Speaker 2: for sure, which is fucking crazy. Especially if an eighty

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Speaker 2: year old woman woman rings up and goes, hey, there's

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Speaker 2: a fucking hole in my house. Can you fix it?

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Speaker 2: They're like yeah, we'll get there like six to eight months, right, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: So I think you did the right thing by forcing

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Speaker 1: Otherwise I didn't force anything upon her.

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Speaker 2: What are you talking about? It came out wrong, I saw.

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Speaker 2: And my suggestion was that because she doesn't remember much,

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Speaker 2: you should fence off her. You should fence off the

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Speaker 2: back of her house and just common deer that her

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Speaker 1: Back doesn't use it.

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Speaker 2: She's got a bad hip. Yeah, And then she could

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Speaker 2: be like was that like that, and you're like, I

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Speaker 2: don't know, yeah, because it was absolutely and then you

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Speaker 2: got your You're essentially just turning it back on her.

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Speaker 1: Very incriminating that we're speaking about this on the podcast.

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Speaker 1: I can't actually doesn't listen, but everyone else does. She's

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Speaker 1: pretty dead. So anyway, So that was man.

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Speaker 2: And the fence you're going to replace the fence with

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Speaker 2: what you're.

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Speaker 1: Gonna like this treated hardwood pine hardwood.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: What treated treated pine more economic through hardwoods. It just

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Speaker 2: Technically, all woods pretty hard, but that hardwood is pretty expensive.

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Speaker 2: If it's rough, rough sword, your kids are going to

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Speaker 2: get splinters. But with the treated pine anyway we go

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Speaker 1: So it has been a stressful weekend. We've been dealing

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Speaker 1: our roof also started leaking a game whereabouts this time

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Speaker 1: through to the bathroom again through the light.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, And so water is a tricky one.

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Speaker 1: About they say once it finds a way in, You're.

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Speaker 2: Well said the T shirt. You know what they say

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Speaker 1: Once it's in, it's wet. On the weekend, dude, Laura

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Speaker 1: and I were just stressed out of our eyeballs.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, you called me on Sunday and you definitely,

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Speaker 2: I don't know, you just had like a little a

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Speaker 1: And Laura and I just, you know, as stressed as

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Speaker 1: I sometimes forget. But we were at Yochi and I

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Speaker 2: Just classic miscommunication, a classic like the other things are

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Speaker 1: But then we had a bit of a bit of

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Speaker 1: both just stressed, just like what said it off? No,

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Speaker 2: I love these small things that just kick off into

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Speaker 1: And so we didn't end up resolving the fight until

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Speaker 1: which I would normally do anyway, but we had a

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Speaker 2: Oh is that what that was?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, unless you was right. So then we had to

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Speaker 1: of fine, but you still you can't just snap and

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Speaker 2: The time hasn't passed for you to go forget that

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Speaker 1: So whenever you have a fight you both apologize, you

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Speaker 1: like get it out of your system.

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00:20:37,920 --> 00:20:39,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, you look happy on your stories.

444
00:20:41,760 --> 00:20:43,000
Speaker 1: So then I was like, well, we've got to get

445
00:20:43,080 --> 00:20:44,920
Speaker 1: dressed now and go to this lunch and they were

446
00:20:44,920 --> 00:20:47,400
Speaker 1: like driving in the car, like not really saying much

447
00:20:47,440 --> 00:20:50,600
Speaker 1: to each other. Meanwhile, there's like twenty of their friends

448
00:20:50,720 --> 00:20:52,760
Speaker 1: at the restaurant hiding that Layd doesn't know about.

449
00:20:52,880 --> 00:20:55,200
Speaker 2: Oh that's great. That's all of eight month pregnant woman.

450
00:20:55,240 --> 00:20:57,520
Speaker 2: Once a fight with a husband, and then a surprise party.

451
00:20:57,600 --> 00:20:59,879
Speaker 2: I'm surprised the baby didn't pop out on the restaurant.

452
00:21:02,359 --> 00:21:05,600
Speaker 1: So then we were like surprise, and then Laura was like,

453
00:21:05,640 --> 00:21:07,479
Speaker 1: I actually really wanted to have it just with you

454
00:21:07,520 --> 00:21:09,840
Speaker 1: because we've had this fire.

455
00:21:11,160 --> 00:21:13,600
Speaker 2: Anyway. Then I was like, Sue, so did you make

456
00:21:13,720 --> 00:21:14,119
Speaker 2: up or not?

457
00:21:14,280 --> 00:21:17,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know we already we already mar we seed

458
00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:20,520
Speaker 1: to be the residual two hours, Like you need mandated

459
00:21:20,520 --> 00:21:22,200
Speaker 1: time to get over an argument, I know.

460
00:21:22,520 --> 00:21:26,040
Speaker 2: To wear the point where either you or your partner

461
00:21:26,480 --> 00:21:29,800
Speaker 2: are like, it's gotten so far past the point that

462
00:21:29,840 --> 00:21:32,240
Speaker 2: I need to say something now, because I've tried to

463
00:21:32,240 --> 00:21:35,399
Speaker 2: be staunch and let and and just have the ships

464
00:21:35,440 --> 00:21:38,760
Speaker 2: with April and then continue to have the ships. But

465
00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:44,040
Speaker 2: then eventually I'm like, funk, I need something. I need

466
00:21:44,080 --> 00:21:45,439
Speaker 2: something that only she can help me.

467
00:21:46,040 --> 00:21:46,879
Speaker 1: Where's my jacket?

468
00:21:47,640 --> 00:21:51,320
Speaker 2: She's like, I don't know, find it yourself. Look, I'm

469
00:21:51,400 --> 00:21:54,840
Speaker 2: sorry that I said that. Now, where's my jacket? I'm

470
00:21:54,840 --> 00:21:57,679
Speaker 2: not over it yet. So you know, like it's fucking awkward,

471
00:21:57,720 --> 00:21:58,680
Speaker 2: isn't it.

472
00:21:58,680 --> 00:22:00,240
Speaker 1: It's like when you're hungry and you're like, or do

473
00:22:00,280 --> 00:22:01,159
Speaker 1: you want to get lunch?

474
00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:04,280
Speaker 2: It's just like I don't know. Yes, I'm starving.

475
00:22:04,440 --> 00:22:07,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, we starting for hours smoking.

476
00:22:08,520 --> 00:22:10,920
Speaker 2: Oh, very good. I hate it when you guys fight, though,

477
00:22:10,960 --> 00:22:13,200
Speaker 2: so don't fight. Thank you. Okay, so we're all good.

478
00:22:13,240 --> 00:22:16,360
Speaker 2: Now everyone's good. Yeah, we're good. I mean I'm still

479
00:22:16,680 --> 00:22:18,360
Speaker 2: you're barely stupid stresses.

480
00:22:19,320 --> 00:22:20,720
Speaker 1: I'm all right, I'm going to be I'm going to

481
00:22:20,800 --> 00:22:21,960
Speaker 1: be okay.

482
00:22:22,080 --> 00:22:24,200
Speaker 2: And I told you that if there's anything you need,

483
00:22:25,119 --> 00:22:27,439
Speaker 2: don't ask me. No, you can ask me. I'll try

484
00:22:27,480 --> 00:22:28,680
Speaker 2: and help you out as much as possible.

485
00:22:29,119 --> 00:22:32,119
Speaker 1: But we said last week that if you say that

486
00:22:32,160 --> 00:22:34,680
Speaker 1: you're an asshole, you have to you can't just you can't.

487
00:22:34,760 --> 00:22:36,440
Speaker 1: You have to come in person.

488
00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:41,080
Speaker 2: Excuse me, a wedding person keeping your man. When are

489
00:22:41,080 --> 00:22:43,080
Speaker 2: you going to rock up? And I can help you out?

490
00:22:43,080 --> 00:22:45,199
Speaker 2: What else? What do you need? What do you want?

491
00:22:45,720 --> 00:22:47,639
Speaker 2: What can I help you with? Do you know what

492
00:22:47,680 --> 00:22:50,840
Speaker 2: I'll do? I'll build the fence for you. That'd be funny,

493
00:22:51,000 --> 00:22:53,159
Speaker 2: can you Well, I'm on a lifestyle TV show, now

494
00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:53,879
Speaker 2: I could do anything.

495
00:22:56,119 --> 00:22:57,480
Speaker 1: Was that a little clue to the TV show you

496
00:22:57,480 --> 00:22:58,000
Speaker 1: stole from me?

497
00:22:58,280 --> 00:23:01,440
Speaker 2: Yeah? Sorry, s a little job.

498
00:23:02,359 --> 00:23:02,520
Speaker 1: Now.

499
00:23:02,600 --> 00:23:04,639
Speaker 2: Last week we did talk about and we did have

500
00:23:04,680 --> 00:23:06,719
Speaker 2: a winge about which everyone does this time of the year,

501
00:23:06,760 --> 00:23:09,159
Speaker 2: which is book week, book Day. Who fucking knows? But

502
00:23:09,520 --> 00:23:12,240
Speaker 2: I did mention last week that Oscars is a week later?

503
00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:14,359
Speaker 2: Did you say Marley's was a week later?

504
00:23:14,800 --> 00:23:16,520
Speaker 1: Marles is tomorrow? Tomorrow?

505
00:23:16,920 --> 00:23:20,040
Speaker 2: Missing because I'm going to snow with you. I'm gonna

506
00:23:20,040 --> 00:23:22,159
Speaker 2: be honest, You're not missing much because I had to

507
00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:26,640
Speaker 2: go to Oscar's one yesterday. So Oscar last year when

508
00:23:26,640 --> 00:23:30,480
Speaker 2: there's who me? Yes, because we had we released a

509
00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:32,479
Speaker 2: book two days in the question three times available now

510
00:23:32,520 --> 00:23:34,040
Speaker 2: b W dot com? Do you on Amazon dot com?

511
00:23:34,040 --> 00:23:36,639
Speaker 2: I don't think it's still available whatever, No it is?

512
00:23:36,640 --> 00:23:37,080
Speaker 1: Is it still?

513
00:23:37,080 --> 00:23:39,639
Speaker 2: Can you buy it? Are you sure? I don't know?

514
00:23:39,960 --> 00:23:41,919
Speaker 2: Buy it right now? Yeah, go and buy it. If

515
00:23:41,920 --> 00:23:44,800
Speaker 2: it turns up then it's still available. Anyway, So Oscar

516
00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:49,560
Speaker 2: wanted again to go as me, which I'll honored, absolutely honored.

517
00:23:49,600 --> 00:23:51,119
Speaker 2: And you see, someone of the Facebook group wanted to

518
00:23:51,160 --> 00:23:54,240
Speaker 2: go as Oscar. Did you see that? Yes, I'm passing

519
00:23:54,280 --> 00:23:59,320
Speaker 2: the bat and down. But last year we I sort

520
00:23:59,320 --> 00:24:02,360
Speaker 2: of drew some on him, just like here and there

521
00:24:02,440 --> 00:24:04,600
Speaker 2: just so. But this year we went a little bit,

522
00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:07,680
Speaker 2: a little bit all out, which Abe was a little

523
00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:09,560
Speaker 2: bit pissy about because we went to the shops to

524
00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:11,240
Speaker 2: buy a couple of tatoos and I ended up spending

525
00:24:11,280 --> 00:24:15,400
Speaker 2: thirty dollars on fake ttatoes, which really sticky. Great investment

526
00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:20,040
Speaker 2: is ridiculous. They rub off immediately and it doesn't last

527
00:24:20,040 --> 00:24:21,960
Speaker 2: long with a kid because they're like, oh wonder.

528
00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:24,160
Speaker 1: It's almost that's almost fifty bucks.

529
00:24:24,480 --> 00:24:25,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, pretty much.

530
00:24:25,520 --> 00:24:29,120
Speaker 1: It's technically you're out it right up this economy. You've

531
00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:31,680
Speaker 1: just dropped fifty bucks on it cost of living.

532
00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:34,280
Speaker 2: People are just like, what are you spending fifty bucks

533
00:24:34,320 --> 00:24:37,959
Speaker 2: on temporary tattoos for him? Like much business? Anyway. I

534
00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:39,760
Speaker 2: Abe was a bit pissy about that, but I was like,

535
00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:41,320
Speaker 2: I'm We're going to do it. I like to do things.

536
00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:43,560
Speaker 1: Do you think she's annoyed that it just wasn't She

537
00:24:43,720 --> 00:24:44,960
Speaker 1: didn't get like a look.

538
00:24:44,800 --> 00:24:46,919
Speaker 2: In from Macy. I'm sure Macy will want to go

539
00:24:46,960 --> 00:24:50,359
Speaker 2: as Bump, will she? Hope? Probably not because I had

540
00:24:50,359 --> 00:24:54,320
Speaker 2: that she wanted tattoos too, pepper pick ones actually, but

541
00:24:54,680 --> 00:24:57,280
Speaker 2: I just did a little bit more of an effort

542
00:24:57,320 --> 00:25:01,119
Speaker 2: this time with Oscar because I thought it's primary school.

543
00:25:01,840 --> 00:25:04,360
Speaker 2: Why didn't I do it so that parents would think

544
00:25:04,400 --> 00:25:07,600
Speaker 2: it's a not inappropriate? Parents to think it's like, oh,

545
00:25:08,080 --> 00:25:10,560
Speaker 2: that's kind of a little bit inappropriate. So I took

546
00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:12,560
Speaker 2: a photo please of Oscar dressed as me.

547
00:25:13,320 --> 00:25:18,879
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that is epic? So is that real?

548
00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:20,679
Speaker 2: Like, are these are these? Like?

549
00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:22,280
Speaker 1: Did you?

550
00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:24,920
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I stick to that boy?

551
00:25:25,080 --> 00:25:28,800
Speaker 1: Right? Oh my god, these are unbel Did you draw

552
00:25:28,840 --> 00:25:29,480
Speaker 1: a mustache?

553
00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:29,880
Speaker 2: Yeah?

554
00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:34,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Oh it actually looks so sick.

555
00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:37,240
Speaker 2: And I was like, I was around you. I'm so proud,

556
00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:40,600
Speaker 2: and I was like, oh, maybe some parents would be like, oh,

557
00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:43,040
Speaker 2: it's a bit inappropriate. Do you know what I said? Yeah,

558
00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:46,520
Speaker 2: do you want to say to those parents? Get yourself?

559
00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:48,720
Speaker 1: The placement's great. Yeah.

560
00:25:48,760 --> 00:25:50,520
Speaker 2: I was like, let me put mom on his chest

561
00:25:50,680 --> 00:25:53,959
Speaker 2: and he had dad on his knuckles or daddy on

562
00:25:54,000 --> 00:25:59,560
Speaker 2: his knuckles. Oh my god, so good. It's like the sleeve.

563
00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:05,080
Speaker 2: So for those who it's I have all those tempory tatooes.

564
00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:07,240
Speaker 2: The fifty dollars worth of tempory tatooes. I put them

565
00:26:07,280 --> 00:26:10,520
Speaker 2: all over my child's body pretty much in similar in

566
00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:13,760
Speaker 2: similar places to where I have them. It took ages.

567
00:26:14,160 --> 00:26:15,879
Speaker 2: Have you noticed on the hands he's got little webs

568
00:26:15,880 --> 00:26:17,960
Speaker 2: as well. Yeah, it's very good.

569
00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:18,680
Speaker 1: That's great.

570
00:26:18,720 --> 00:26:20,800
Speaker 2: Well done to you. Thank you. Lots of tigers and

571
00:26:20,800 --> 00:26:22,440
Speaker 2: lots of dragons. I am a good dad.

572
00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:25,040
Speaker 1: Someone someone did an article, I think it was a

573
00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:27,240
Speaker 1: kid spot where they were like, let's be honest, book

574
00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:31,080
Speaker 1: week is just unpaid labor for mums and our dads,

575
00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:32,480
Speaker 1: and I was like, I don't know. It was just

576
00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:35,800
Speaker 1: the fact that I'm like oblivious to how we pairent

577
00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:39,120
Speaker 1: in our household, but I'm getting involved in book week. Yeah.

578
00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:40,840
Speaker 2: I did all of that, and then I had this

579
00:26:40,920 --> 00:26:44,520
Speaker 2: tattoo massy up as well. Can I play Yeah, that's

580
00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:49,600
Speaker 2: just the parade, and can I just say sorry, okay,

581
00:26:52,240 --> 00:26:56,520
Speaker 2: oh my god, the two racks, that's his buddy, that's

582
00:26:56,520 --> 00:26:59,159
Speaker 2: his buddy. But anyway, he took our book to school,

583
00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:01,320
Speaker 2: he did the parade, and I just want to say

584
00:27:01,520 --> 00:27:06,879
Speaker 2: the parade is fucking boring. Alright, let's be honest, Like they.

585
00:27:06,760 --> 00:27:07,399
Speaker 1: Just walk around.

586
00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:09,840
Speaker 2: Good for the kids is their thing. But there's I reckon.

587
00:27:10,080 --> 00:27:12,080
Speaker 2: Seventy percent of the kids don't want to do it either.

588
00:27:12,680 --> 00:27:15,439
Speaker 2: I never did that. Did you do that when you have.

589
00:27:15,480 --> 00:27:18,919
Speaker 1: No recollection either book parade at all? Nah?

590
00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:20,760
Speaker 2: No, Because there was a couple of kids there that

591
00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:23,560
Speaker 2: were just in regular uniform, which is fine if.

592
00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:26,320
Speaker 1: They still walk in the parade. Yeah, in regular uniform.

593
00:27:26,440 --> 00:27:28,800
Speaker 2: I don't shame them.

594
00:27:28,800 --> 00:27:31,119
Speaker 1: Sorry, No, I was just inquisitive.

595
00:27:31,119 --> 00:27:33,119
Speaker 2: I was just making sure we were talking about it,

596
00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:33,960
Speaker 2: and I said.

597
00:27:33,840 --> 00:27:35,560
Speaker 1: I said, look, were their parents there?

598
00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:37,760
Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't know all the kids be

599
00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:38,200
Speaker 2: weird to.

600
00:27:38,119 --> 00:27:40,159
Speaker 1: Go watch your child in the book parade and like

601
00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:43,040
Speaker 1: acknowledge that you did nothing exactly hurry.

602
00:27:42,840 --> 00:27:44,960
Speaker 2: So obviously their parents weren't there. We're not here to

603
00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:48,560
Speaker 2: judge matthare you? And that here comes Timmy, he's got

604
00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:53,680
Speaker 2: no parents. Fuck anyway, some say his dad went out

605
00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:57,680
Speaker 2: for milk. No. I felt a bit sorry for that kid,

606
00:27:57,760 --> 00:27:59,960
Speaker 2: and whenever the other some of the other parents, bitch.

607
00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:03,960
Speaker 2: I separated myself from that, felt like I acknowledged those

608
00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:07,680
Speaker 2: kids like that. It was it was completely within the group,

609
00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:10,360
Speaker 2: because I was like, how else you meant to well,

610
00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:14,920
Speaker 2: some you know, you see some parents, Yeah, you see

611
00:28:14,960 --> 00:28:17,800
Speaker 2: some parents that are kind of like.

612
00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:19,119
Speaker 1: Like they would like the cheer would stop when Timmy

613
00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:20,400
Speaker 1: goes by. Is that what you're saying?

614
00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:21,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, poor Timmy.

615
00:28:21,520 --> 00:28:23,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I was like, I got a t Rex

616
00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:24,399
Speaker 1: and Timmy walks by.

617
00:28:24,440 --> 00:28:27,280
Speaker 2: They're like, some people were talking ship.

618
00:28:27,760 --> 00:28:30,000
Speaker 1: Okay, well there we go. That's what we want.

619
00:28:30,160 --> 00:28:32,639
Speaker 2: I was trying to dance around it, but I was like,

620
00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:33,680
Speaker 2: and I was.

621
00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:35,840
Speaker 1: Like, I would hate why is Ash crying?

622
00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:40,040
Speaker 2: I would hate it if someone was talking ship about me?

623
00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:43,320
Speaker 2: So I, for once in my life didn't get involved

624
00:28:43,360 --> 00:28:45,400
Speaker 2: with the talking shit about people because I think it's

625
00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:49,080
Speaker 2: very fun. Because I was more on the I was

626
00:28:49,080 --> 00:28:50,280
Speaker 2: more on the kids level.

627
00:28:50,360 --> 00:28:54,640
Speaker 1: Wow, I'm this level of personal growth is really amazing.

628
00:28:54,720 --> 00:28:56,880
Speaker 2: I know when when we got to the car and

629
00:28:57,200 --> 00:28:59,440
Speaker 2: Averyone was like, oh, you know, so it's sad like

630
00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:02,520
Speaker 2: Timmy seen Timmy like that? But again we don't, and

631
00:29:02,520 --> 00:29:04,920
Speaker 2: I said to it, we don't know the circumstance, okay,

632
00:29:04,960 --> 00:29:07,560
Speaker 2: And how would you like it if Timmy's bum and

633
00:29:07,600 --> 00:29:09,680
Speaker 2: dad were in their car talking shit about you?

634
00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:12,160
Speaker 1: It's an interesting shout with the teacher like do you

635
00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:13,960
Speaker 1: let do you let the kids who aren't dressed up

636
00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:15,320
Speaker 1: go in the parade because you don't want to like

637
00:29:15,400 --> 00:29:17,480
Speaker 1: not ostracize them.

638
00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:21,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's of like you want to. It's all about inclusivity.

639
00:29:22,240 --> 00:29:24,400
Speaker 1: Yeah. I think there's a very mature way that you've

640
00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:25,720
Speaker 1: handled the situation, and you should be.

641
00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:26,880
Speaker 2: I didn't get involved.

642
00:29:27,160 --> 00:29:29,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, because you love laughing at other people.

643
00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:30,600
Speaker 2: That's one of my favorite things.

644
00:29:31,120 --> 00:29:32,320
Speaker 1: That's what you're good at.

645
00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:33,520
Speaker 2: Thank you.

646
00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:38,080
Speaker 1: Finally, also on book Week, someone message and said the

647
00:29:38,120 --> 00:29:43,480
Speaker 1: reason why daycare doesn't have a designated book day within

648
00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:47,920
Speaker 1: book week is because all the kids go on different days, right,

649
00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:50,360
Speaker 1: so they have to try and allow every day of

650
00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:52,800
Speaker 1: that week to be a potential book day, dress up

651
00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:55,080
Speaker 1: day so kids don't miss out.

652
00:29:55,200 --> 00:29:55,880
Speaker 2: So it's all weak.

653
00:29:56,360 --> 00:29:58,960
Speaker 1: So they say, like, you can pick one day. But

654
00:29:58,960 --> 00:30:00,800
Speaker 1: whether the parents just get so carried away with it

655
00:30:00,840 --> 00:30:02,000
Speaker 1: all that they end up doing.

656
00:30:02,520 --> 00:30:04,200
Speaker 2: It's always that parent that they send their kid in

657
00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:07,360
Speaker 2: something different every day because it's like guilty, but we

658
00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:14,000
Speaker 2: Macey's day care. No bookweight day, no bookweek, nothing, full stop,

659
00:30:14,600 --> 00:30:17,560
Speaker 2: which I think is a great initiative, just fucking flagg

660
00:30:17,600 --> 00:30:18,040
Speaker 2: the whole thing.

661
00:30:18,720 --> 00:30:23,200
Speaker 1: It's great that you're you're now having that response because

662
00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:27,680
Speaker 1: you didn't get to dress up. Wow, and you missed out. Wow.

663
00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:30,800
Speaker 2: Okay, well my therapist is going to love this.

664
00:30:32,440 --> 00:30:32,720
Speaker 1: Anyway.

665
00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:36,040
Speaker 2: Book whek, he's over, thank goodness. But the paraders boring.

666
00:30:36,560 --> 00:30:38,600
Speaker 1: Okay, so I won't miss out on anything, I don't think.

667
00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:45,720
Speaker 1: So I've done something so stupid, you think at this stage,

668
00:30:45,920 --> 00:30:47,680
Speaker 1: you know, I've been a parent now for six years.

669
00:30:48,520 --> 00:30:51,000
Speaker 1: I would have learned a thing or two about how

670
00:30:51,040 --> 00:30:51,480
Speaker 1: to parent.

671
00:30:52,640 --> 00:30:58,080
Speaker 2: And you have a dad podcast to Powell, don't pal me, okay, Bud.

672
00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:05,000
Speaker 1: And you know, sometimes Ash, when there's an opportunity to

673
00:31:05,040 --> 00:31:08,440
Speaker 1: take a little shortcut, you will take that shortcut, even

674
00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:12,200
Speaker 1: though you realize that before you get to the finish line,

675
00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:13,800
Speaker 1: it's going to make the journey harder.

676
00:31:13,840 --> 00:31:16,320
Speaker 2: Oh, there's ripercussions to every shortcut. Put that on a

677
00:31:16,360 --> 00:31:21,040
Speaker 2: T shirt. I am on with those things you just had.

678
00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:24,240
Speaker 1: You just had your medication delivery.

679
00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:25,120
Speaker 2: One my secret.

680
00:31:28,680 --> 00:31:33,760
Speaker 1: I decided to allow Lola to have a nap on Sunday.

681
00:31:34,200 --> 00:31:38,920
Speaker 1: You goose and after forty five minutes forty five minutes,

682
00:31:39,440 --> 00:31:40,880
Speaker 1: I allowed the nap to continue.

683
00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:43,800
Speaker 2: Oh my god, for how long?

684
00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:48,560
Speaker 1: An and a half? Shit, fucking hell.

685
00:31:49,560 --> 00:31:51,520
Speaker 2: Take an hour and a half nap for like a

686
00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:53,560
Speaker 2: nearly five year old is pretty much.

687
00:31:53,400 --> 00:31:54,520
Speaker 1: A night sleep so full times.

688
00:31:54,560 --> 00:31:57,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, you literally she's got two days ahead of an hour.

689
00:31:58,400 --> 00:32:01,320
Speaker 1: We had dinner and I was going, well, it's time

690
00:32:01,360 --> 00:32:03,000
Speaker 1: that we have a bath, and she was like, what

691
00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:05,720
Speaker 1: for we get ready for bed and she was like.

692
00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:08,560
Speaker 2: Don't need that. You were like, wear this kid out, Hey, Lola,

693
00:32:08,600 --> 00:32:09,600
Speaker 2: have you heard of peloton?

694
00:32:10,120 --> 00:32:10,880
Speaker 1: Yeah?

695
00:32:11,640 --> 00:32:15,160
Speaker 2: No, so what in the right of the middle of

696
00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:17,560
Speaker 2: the day or was it like yeah, it was it

697
00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:18,520
Speaker 2: was smack banging.

698
00:32:18,600 --> 00:32:22,080
Speaker 1: Why was she so tired because she had soccer, I

699
00:32:22,200 --> 00:32:24,280
Speaker 1: had socker and I think she just she's been getting

700
00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:26,120
Speaker 1: up really early at the moment for some.

701
00:32:26,080 --> 00:32:28,000
Speaker 2: Reason, probablycause she keeps snapping them.

702
00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:31,640
Speaker 1: So then we got time to read the stories, put

703
00:32:31,680 --> 00:32:34,880
Speaker 1: them down to bed. Marley out like a light.

704
00:32:35,320 --> 00:32:37,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, there's always one of them because at back your

705
00:32:37,760 --> 00:32:40,000
Speaker 2: chair room too. One goes and the other's just talking

706
00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:40,480
Speaker 2: to themselves.

707
00:32:41,240 --> 00:32:44,960
Speaker 1: Kaula is just there like white eye, going wow, I'm

708
00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:45,400
Speaker 1: not tired.

709
00:32:45,440 --> 00:32:46,240
Speaker 2: Who's got the bag?

710
00:32:49,080 --> 00:32:51,040
Speaker 1: And I said, you's gonna lay down, close your eyes,

711
00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:53,520
Speaker 1: try and fall asleep. Eight o'clock. She goes, I just

712
00:32:53,880 --> 00:32:55,600
Speaker 1: I'm not tired, and I said keep on trying.

713
00:32:55,720 --> 00:32:56,520
Speaker 2: She lay down with me.

714
00:32:56,600 --> 00:33:00,640
Speaker 1: I said, nope. Nine o'clock. She's like there playing with

715
00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:02,600
Speaker 1: their dolls, reading books, coloring in.

716
00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:03,640
Speaker 2: I was like, all.

717
00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:07,800
Speaker 1: Out ten o'clock, shut up. She's still there, like nothing

718
00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:09,240
Speaker 1: yet feel nothing.

719
00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:10,680
Speaker 2: I feel nothing.

720
00:33:11,840 --> 00:33:15,840
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, please the love of God.

721
00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:19,720
Speaker 2: Go to sleep, and she's like, wish I could. Oh God,

722
00:33:19,800 --> 00:33:23,520
Speaker 2: what time ten thirty? She went to bed a tenth thirty,

723
00:33:23,560 --> 00:33:26,320
Speaker 2: so she fell asleep, or she tried to start sleeping

724
00:33:26,320 --> 00:33:26,920
Speaker 2: at ten thirty.

725
00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:29,680
Speaker 1: I think she was trying for a long time, but

726
00:33:29,720 --> 00:33:31,440
Speaker 1: finally ten thirty I pot my head in and she

727
00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:34,000
Speaker 1: she was gone. And I was like, and then when

728
00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:35,400
Speaker 1: I had to wake up at seven in the morning

729
00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:37,280
Speaker 1: to get ready for daycare, she was wrecked.

730
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Speaker 2: Ah, poor thing, it's all your fault. But that and

731
00:33:41,560 --> 00:33:44,000
Speaker 2: and a half, that's great. It was so good to

732
00:33:44,200 --> 00:33:46,440
Speaker 2: miss it. I felt freaking remember how much I used

733
00:33:46,480 --> 00:33:50,000
Speaker 2: to nap? Not anymore, but we've all forgotten. I was

734
00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:52,640
Speaker 2: thinking about that last night. I was like, trying to

735
00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:55,840
Speaker 2: sleep changed and because Macy's not napping it was like

736
00:33:55,920 --> 00:33:58,160
Speaker 2: my favorite. And we bonded so much because we would

737
00:33:58,200 --> 00:34:01,200
Speaker 2: nap together and we'd big.

738
00:34:01,080 --> 00:34:02,400
Speaker 1: Cuddle and shit together.

739
00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:06,360
Speaker 2: We nap ship. We're in cycle. But now there's no naps,

740
00:34:06,360 --> 00:34:07,000
Speaker 2: and I'm sad.

741
00:34:07,360 --> 00:34:09,520
Speaker 1: You're Macy drifting apart, drifting apart.

742
00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:14,600
Speaker 2: Also, my caffeine intake's going through the roof because I can't. Like,

743
00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:16,600
Speaker 2: I never used to be able to nap until I

744
00:34:16,600 --> 00:34:20,239
Speaker 2: had kids, and I taught myself how to nap. God,

745
00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:23,000
Speaker 2: that makes me feel proud. And then now there's no

746
00:34:23,080 --> 00:34:28,120
Speaker 2: more naps and I'm upset about it, but I do

747
00:34:28,560 --> 00:34:34,000
Speaker 2: Macy does fall sleep in the car? Well, oh shit, anyway,

748
00:34:34,080 --> 00:34:37,399
Speaker 2: that's time. We'll see next time. Macy does fall sleep

749
00:34:37,440 --> 00:34:39,239
Speaker 2: in the car, but only for like five minutes, and

750
00:34:39,280 --> 00:34:40,000
Speaker 2: that ruins us.

751
00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:40,440
Speaker 1: I don't care.

752
00:34:40,719 --> 00:34:44,560
Speaker 2: Thanks, that ruins us. She's up to like eight quarter

753
00:34:44,560 --> 00:34:48,120
Speaker 2: past eight. Oh god, he's going on again. Shut this

754
00:34:48,200 --> 00:34:51,920
Speaker 2: guy up. All right, let's go into a segment.

755
00:34:52,080 --> 00:34:59,560
Speaker 1: Let's let's let's let's go into questions. Oh, let's go question.

756
00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:03,279
Speaker 2: Okay, curveball, I like it. I like what you're doing

757
00:35:03,320 --> 00:35:03,600
Speaker 2: with it.

758
00:35:05,040 --> 00:35:08,479
Speaker 1: Let's give pair rants a little rest. Okay, we's gonna

759
00:35:08,520 --> 00:35:08,880
Speaker 1: rest it.

760
00:35:09,280 --> 00:35:10,240
Speaker 2: We're going to give it a nap.

761
00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:14,440
Speaker 1: Love it. Thank you, Aaron half, Thank you, Aaron half week.

762
00:35:14,760 --> 00:35:17,080
Speaker 1: Let's go into listening questions if we may.

763
00:35:17,080 --> 00:35:19,120
Speaker 2: Yes, I'll get the first question. And just a warning

764
00:35:19,120 --> 00:35:20,799
Speaker 2: to the parents out there, if you're driving the car

765
00:35:20,840 --> 00:35:22,560
Speaker 2: and the kids here listening, or if you're home, we're

766
00:35:22,560 --> 00:35:25,960
Speaker 2: on YouTube, because we're on YouTube now. Um, we are

767
00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:28,279
Speaker 2: going to be talking about the Easter Bunny right now specifically,

768
00:35:28,680 --> 00:35:31,520
Speaker 2: So just is that a warning.

769
00:35:31,600 --> 00:35:33,480
Speaker 1: We will be talking about the Easter Bunny and how

770
00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:35,880
Speaker 1: much we love the Easter Bunny.

771
00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:38,319
Speaker 2: Yes, and where he came from. So like wink wink,

772
00:35:38,680 --> 00:35:41,000
Speaker 2: I let's gaslight the kids from Gillian. How do you

773
00:35:41,040 --> 00:35:45,000
Speaker 2: respond when your child asks whether the Easter Bunny is

774
00:35:45,120 --> 00:35:45,960
Speaker 2: or isn't real?

775
00:35:48,239 --> 00:35:52,359
Speaker 1: Hi, I did it in a way which I now

776
00:35:52,440 --> 00:35:54,280
Speaker 1: know is the wrong way according to Laura.

777
00:35:54,480 --> 00:35:57,720
Speaker 2: Okay, well that's one person, just the mother of your children.

778
00:35:58,200 --> 00:36:01,120
Speaker 1: So Marthy goes to ask Emily pregnant and I never disagree.

779
00:36:01,280 --> 00:36:04,239
Speaker 1: Go on, when your wife is eight months pregnant, they

780
00:36:04,280 --> 00:36:05,680
Speaker 1: can say the sky is purple and you go.

781
00:36:05,680 --> 00:36:08,080
Speaker 2: Yep, yep. I did have to remind you of that

782
00:36:08,120 --> 00:36:08,720
Speaker 2: a few times.

783
00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:12,480
Speaker 1: So Marley goes to and after school care. Yep, they

784
00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:15,440
Speaker 1: go with old kids. She came home and she goes

785
00:36:16,719 --> 00:36:20,120
Speaker 1: someone said the Easter Bunny is not a thing. And

786
00:36:20,160 --> 00:36:22,000
Speaker 1: I said, well, that is not true at all.

787
00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:22,719
Speaker 2: What's his name?

788
00:36:22,760 --> 00:36:26,000
Speaker 1: I'll find him who gives all the chocolate? And she goes, apparently,

789
00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:29,920
Speaker 1: you do the parents get the chocolate? And she's I

790
00:36:29,960 --> 00:36:33,440
Speaker 1: was sweating at this point, and she goes, well, who

791
00:36:33,440 --> 00:36:36,280
Speaker 1: does all the instructions? We have those little arrows sometimes

792
00:36:36,320 --> 00:36:38,880
Speaker 1: like it's over here, and I go, I, you know

793
00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:40,400
Speaker 1: I have to help the Easter Bunny.

794
00:36:40,960 --> 00:36:43,960
Speaker 2: Yeah I met him. You know he's so busy. You can't.

795
00:36:44,040 --> 00:36:47,160
Speaker 1: You can't deliver the chocolate and do the directions as well.

796
00:36:47,239 --> 00:36:48,960
Speaker 1: So why do the directions? We like help each other out.

797
00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:50,320
Speaker 1: We've got a system going.

798
00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:52,160
Speaker 2: To be fair. He got sick of breaking and entering,

799
00:36:52,200 --> 00:36:54,000
Speaker 2: so now he's just knocking. Yeah, he just leaves on

800
00:36:54,040 --> 00:36:58,719
Speaker 2: the front. I'll help hide them. And she goes, so,

801
00:36:58,840 --> 00:37:03,080
Speaker 2: hang on, you what you are telling me that the

802
00:37:03,160 --> 00:37:06,920
Speaker 2: Easter Bunny is one hundred percent real? I said, yeah,

803
00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:10,640
Speaker 2: absolutely it is. So who else keives the chocolate?

804
00:37:10,719 --> 00:37:14,080
Speaker 1: If it's it's not me, it has to be someone

805
00:37:14,680 --> 00:37:18,480
Speaker 1: it's the Easter Bunny. And she goes, you pinky, promise me.

806
00:37:20,360 --> 00:37:22,760
Speaker 1: And for anyone who doesn't know Marley, who's.

807
00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:23,759
Speaker 2: My eldest daughter. She is six.

808
00:37:23,840 --> 00:37:27,000
Speaker 1: Now we have a system in place that if we

809
00:37:27,120 --> 00:37:29,000
Speaker 1: pinky promise each other like this, like.

810
00:37:29,000 --> 00:37:30,880
Speaker 2: This, do you suck on your thumbs or that?

811
00:37:31,440 --> 00:37:31,600
Speaker 1: What?

812
00:37:32,640 --> 00:37:33,879
Speaker 2: That's the game me and my friends play.

813
00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:37,160
Speaker 1: So for example, if she's watching TV and I say,

814
00:37:37,200 --> 00:37:39,319
Speaker 1: you got one minute left once your alarm goes off,

815
00:37:39,560 --> 00:37:41,600
Speaker 1: you have to brush your teeth, you promise me, and

816
00:37:41,600 --> 00:37:43,359
Speaker 1: she goes, yeah, we got pinky promise and she can't

817
00:37:43,360 --> 00:37:43,719
Speaker 1: break it.

818
00:37:43,800 --> 00:37:45,920
Speaker 2: I love that because it's also like a bit of bonding.

819
00:37:46,239 --> 00:37:49,400
Speaker 2: It's like a little it's your little little thing.

820
00:37:48,080 --> 00:37:51,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, so you can never break your pinky promise.

821
00:37:51,880 --> 00:37:53,520
Speaker 2: She's got your bent over a barrel and so.

822
00:37:54,040 --> 00:37:56,160
Speaker 1: Easter bunny question. She goes, do you pinky promise that

823
00:37:56,160 --> 00:37:58,200
Speaker 1: you're not lying to me? You pinky promise that it's true?

824
00:37:58,960 --> 00:38:04,440
Speaker 1: And I go yep, and Laura. I look over at

825
00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:07,239
Speaker 1: Laura and be like, no, babe, I got this. And

826
00:38:07,280 --> 00:38:10,440
Speaker 1: she's like, what are you doing? You idiot?

827
00:38:10,880 --> 00:38:15,560
Speaker 2: Oh this is gonna Oh so what do you do?

828
00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:16,800
Speaker 1: Do you? What do you do in that situation?

829
00:38:16,840 --> 00:38:20,800
Speaker 2: You've got to stand by it now so much longer,

830
00:38:21,160 --> 00:38:24,080
Speaker 2: because there's a time when it's just it's it's time

831
00:38:24,120 --> 00:38:26,239
Speaker 2: for that not to be real. You know what, I mean,

832
00:38:26,920 --> 00:38:31,080
Speaker 2: oh for sure, hundred percent. And but she also knew

833
00:38:31,080 --> 00:38:32,360
Speaker 2: what she was doing. She just bent you over a

834
00:38:32,360 --> 00:38:35,600
Speaker 2: barrel here, clever and look at the moment, I think

835
00:38:35,640 --> 00:38:38,959
Speaker 2: you're in the clear for now. But when it comes

836
00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:41,800
Speaker 2: to breaking the pinky promise, I think what will happen

837
00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:45,359
Speaker 2: is you'll remember the pinky promise and you'll feel bad

838
00:38:45,360 --> 00:38:47,359
Speaker 2: about it. She won't and she won't make you feel

839
00:38:47,360 --> 00:38:50,120
Speaker 2: bad about Laura said, I'll remind you.

840
00:38:51,280 --> 00:38:54,080
Speaker 1: Laura said, Look, you can believe whatever you want to believe,

841
00:38:54,120 --> 00:38:56,200
Speaker 1: and if you believe the bund your abbit to be true,

842
00:38:56,320 --> 00:38:59,319
Speaker 1: it is true, which I find confusing. What does that mean?

843
00:38:59,400 --> 00:39:00,080
Speaker 2: That's rubbish?

844
00:39:00,160 --> 00:39:04,200
Speaker 1: Yeah? What's that about?

845
00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:08,840
Speaker 2: Made me say it? It's so Yeah, I haven't well.

846
00:39:08,680 --> 00:39:11,240
Speaker 1: Because now you know, we start with the Easter Bunny,

847
00:39:11,280 --> 00:39:15,120
Speaker 1: who is no disrespect to the characters in like the

848
00:39:15,160 --> 00:39:20,440
Speaker 1: calendar calendar of events, but like two two very Easter

849
00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:24,320
Speaker 1: Bunny bottom of the Ladda. They're like non critical, okay,

850
00:39:24,840 --> 00:39:26,399
Speaker 1: Santa Claus, top of the food chain.

851
00:39:26,440 --> 00:39:28,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, the guy that breaks into your house once a year.

852
00:39:28,920 --> 00:39:29,920
Speaker 2: It's so confusing.

853
00:39:30,040 --> 00:39:31,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, but once you you know, once you start not

854
00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:34,720
Speaker 1: believing in the Easter Bunny, they're all unravels magic.

855
00:39:35,200 --> 00:39:37,520
Speaker 2: They don't, they don't know. What's what else do you

856
00:39:37,640 --> 00:39:38,520
Speaker 2: fucking line about?

857
00:39:38,640 --> 00:39:39,200
Speaker 1: Yeah?

858
00:39:39,320 --> 00:39:43,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's healthy, Harold real, of course he is fucking

859
00:39:43,200 --> 00:39:46,080
Speaker 2: bottom of the rung. I heard he smokes, so don't

860
00:39:46,120 --> 00:39:48,960
Speaker 2: listen to anything. He said, it's a.

861
00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:51,640
Speaker 1: Hand to Hannah, and she said she'd love a shout

862
00:39:51,640 --> 00:39:53,160
Speaker 1: out to shout out to Hannah.

863
00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:56,440
Speaker 2: But we're confused whether it's hand or Hannah Han Hi hand,

864
00:39:57,440 --> 00:40:01,160
Speaker 2: no hand hand them hand that I am silent.

865
00:40:02,120 --> 00:40:04,480
Speaker 1: My fiancee and I were both twenty five and childless,

866
00:40:04,480 --> 00:40:08,520
Speaker 1: have listened to the pod since it's been nice since

867
00:40:08,600 --> 00:40:12,839
Speaker 1: day one. Yes, weird childless, but you're both hilarious.

868
00:40:12,840 --> 00:40:15,000
Speaker 2: And that's it. My job is done here. That's all

869
00:40:15,080 --> 00:40:17,080
Speaker 2: that she says. Okay, that's all you're talking about.

870
00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:20,719
Speaker 1: Anyways, we're getting married next year gradually, and both very

871
00:40:20,800 --> 00:40:23,520
Speaker 1: keen for children. However, my partner is keen to be

872
00:40:23,560 --> 00:40:27,680
Speaker 1: a young dad and wanting to reproduce asap, whereas I

873
00:40:27,719 --> 00:40:30,560
Speaker 1: am keen to drag it out for as long as possible.

874
00:40:30,600 --> 00:40:36,720
Speaker 2: Say reproduce. Come on, what this is a real formal

875
00:40:36,760 --> 00:40:40,960
Speaker 2: way to put that, isn't it? For me? For reference?

876
00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:43,799
Speaker 1: I have no issues with your your mature I am

877
00:40:43,840 --> 00:40:45,799
Speaker 1: not very mature.

878
00:40:45,480 --> 00:40:46,080
Speaker 2: For twenty five.

879
00:40:46,280 --> 00:40:48,480
Speaker 1: I take it you will not using the word reproduce

880
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Speaker 1: a twenty five ash.

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Speaker 2: I can't even spell it, still can't spell.

882
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Speaker 1: It, whereas I'm keen to drag it out for as

883
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Speaker 1: long as possible, wanting to enjoy my twenties and early

884
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Speaker 1: thirties in brackets aka drinking.

885
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Speaker 2: Now I'm listening.

886
00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:05,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, my question, my que is my cue. My queue

887
00:41:05,920 --> 00:41:07,720
Speaker 1: is the language on this person.

888
00:41:07,800 --> 00:41:09,680
Speaker 2: You are way more, you're ready.

889
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Speaker 1: Would you have changed when you had children? Or how

890
00:41:13,520 --> 00:41:15,840
Speaker 1: did you decide when you wanted them? Did Abril and

891
00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:18,560
Speaker 1: Laura think more about it than you? As it can

892
00:41:18,600 --> 00:41:22,440
Speaker 1: be more of a sacrifice as women, fertility is obviously

893
00:41:22,440 --> 00:41:24,520
Speaker 1: the elephant in the room. A big question mark as

894
00:41:24,560 --> 00:41:27,040
Speaker 1: we haven't gone down that path yet, but I would

895
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Speaker 1: love your opinion, especially when both of us are very

896
00:41:30,200 --> 00:41:31,680
Speaker 1: clucky but unsure.

897
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Speaker 2: Very good question, Han, I appreciate that.

898
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Speaker 1: What just sorry, I'm adapting to the situation. A good question,

899
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Speaker 1: A good question.

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Speaker 2: I appreciate that. When I was a young twenty five

901
00:41:48,640 --> 00:41:51,080
Speaker 2: year old Chap ten years ago, Oh gosh, thanks for

902
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Speaker 2: reminding me.

903
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Speaker 1: Thirteenth for me, A big guy, Yeah, split it out,

904
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Speaker 1: middle aged, How you were, how old we had kids?

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Speaker 2: Twenty nine? I was And I was never that person

906
00:42:01,200 --> 00:42:05,000
Speaker 2: who was like so sure they wanted kids, or so

907
00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:07,840
Speaker 2: unsure they wanted kids. I was always through this cycle

908
00:42:07,880 --> 00:42:10,839
Speaker 2: where it was like I would love to have a kid.

909
00:42:10,920 --> 00:42:12,360
Speaker 2: Then it would be like, oh no, I like my

910
00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:14,200
Speaker 2: life as it is, or like I'm not ready. There

911
00:42:14,239 --> 00:42:18,040
Speaker 2: was always these mixed feelings. April was definitely much more

912
00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:21,160
Speaker 2: sure of herself and when to do it. She's a planner, right,

913
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Speaker 2: I'm not. I'm like very sporadic, what's what makes us work?

914
00:42:25,760 --> 00:42:29,120
Speaker 2: So she was very much this way. She wanted kids.

915
00:42:29,200 --> 00:42:34,200
Speaker 2: I was unsure. So we compromised and had kids. That

916
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Speaker 2: is beautiful, thank you. That is I'm not unhappy about it.

917
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Speaker 2: But I was also like I don't want to have

918
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Speaker 2: I don't want to have kids, and it become my

919
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Speaker 2: whole personality. And now I have a parenting.

920
00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:49,080
Speaker 1: Podcast all of your person God damn.

921
00:42:49,440 --> 00:42:52,480
Speaker 2: Anyway. Okay, well, okay, the question question question, The question

922
00:42:52,600 --> 00:42:54,600
Speaker 2: is with that? My quick answer to that was, yeah,

923
00:42:55,360 --> 00:42:57,919
Speaker 2: April had the plan and I went with the plan.

924
00:42:58,040 --> 00:43:01,480
Speaker 1: Okay, but but would you in hindsight, would you have

925
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Speaker 1: changed earlier.

926
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Speaker 2: Later, No, it stuck to the No. I think mid

927
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Speaker 2: to late twenties, great to thirty like these days, I

928
00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:15,280
Speaker 2: mean with science. Sorry, I don't want to upset anyone.

929
00:43:17,840 --> 00:43:19,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, go on to that one.

930
00:43:20,360 --> 00:43:22,320
Speaker 2: Somewhere between twenty five and thirty.

931
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Speaker 1: I think, where are you going about science? What's that about?

932
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Speaker 2: Just modern technology?

933
00:43:26,920 --> 00:43:27,080
Speaker 1: Man?

934
00:43:30,000 --> 00:43:35,560
Speaker 2: Oh my god. I think twenty nine for us was

935
00:43:35,680 --> 00:43:37,479
Speaker 2: the right time, and I think it's going to be

936
00:43:37,640 --> 00:43:41,880
Speaker 2: for them. When it feels right, then that's the right time.

937
00:43:42,640 --> 00:43:44,879
Speaker 1: Well said, how old was I? I'm thirty eight now

938
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Speaker 1: I was Jesus, Yeah, I we didn't really talk about

939
00:43:53,840 --> 00:43:57,120
Speaker 1: having kids. It was a very welcome surprise, was it?

940
00:43:57,160 --> 00:43:58,760
Speaker 2: I didn't know that was it?

941
00:43:59,120 --> 00:43:59,359
Speaker 1: Was it?

942
00:43:59,440 --> 00:44:04,000
Speaker 2: Now? From Lon? Then? Okay? Was that a surprise?

943
00:44:04,239 --> 00:44:08,560
Speaker 1: Yeah? Because Laura had taken some medication. I'm pretty sure

944
00:44:08,640 --> 00:44:13,279
Speaker 1: this is what happened. That the medication hadn't it meant

945
00:44:13,360 --> 00:44:16,640
Speaker 1: that the pill wasn't working and so then, but she

946
00:44:16,760 --> 00:44:17,880
Speaker 1: wasn't informed that.

947
00:44:17,800 --> 00:44:20,560
Speaker 2: She tricked you, bro. She tricked you into it, and

948
00:44:21,560 --> 00:44:22,440
Speaker 2: so it was a surprise.

949
00:44:22,440 --> 00:44:24,480
Speaker 1: We weren't trying. But at the same time, we both

950
00:44:24,560 --> 00:44:26,040
Speaker 1: knew that we really wanted to have kids, and I

951
00:44:26,080 --> 00:44:29,160
Speaker 1: was like humped for kids. But I do think when

952
00:44:29,160 --> 00:44:31,280
Speaker 1: I look at people who were in their twenties having kids,

953
00:44:31,640 --> 00:44:34,120
Speaker 1: for me, I'm like, man, the twenties for me was

954
00:44:34,160 --> 00:44:37,520
Speaker 1: about making you know, having no responsibility, doing whatever the

955
00:44:37,560 --> 00:44:40,520
Speaker 1: hell I wanted, being able to travel, you know, and

956
00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:45,480
Speaker 1: just having the freedom, oh, the freedom to do whatever

957
00:44:45,480 --> 00:44:47,279
Speaker 1: the hell I wanted. Like some of the holidays at

958
00:44:47,320 --> 00:44:51,600
Speaker 1: Laura and I took together without kids amazing, epic, Like,

959
00:44:51,880 --> 00:44:53,920
Speaker 1: so glad we did that because it becomes a lot

960
00:44:53,960 --> 00:44:57,440
Speaker 1: more difficult with kids. But at the same time, I

961
00:44:57,440 --> 00:45:01,640
Speaker 1: think I did underestimate just how fun life can still

962
00:45:01,680 --> 00:45:02,839
Speaker 1: be with kids in the mix.

963
00:45:02,880 --> 00:45:05,040
Speaker 2: I was just gonna say that it's a different type

964
00:45:05,080 --> 00:45:08,040
Speaker 2: of fun, like I would say during the twenty in

965
00:45:08,120 --> 00:45:10,120
Speaker 2: twenties and April and I traveled and do all these

966
00:45:10,160 --> 00:45:13,080
Speaker 2: things together, But it was at the time that was

967
00:45:13,120 --> 00:45:17,200
Speaker 2: the fun. Yes, that makes sense. And then, to be

968
00:45:17,320 --> 00:45:20,600
Speaker 2: completely honest with you, since having kids and being in

969
00:45:20,600 --> 00:45:23,160
Speaker 2: my thirties, I've had the most fun I've ever had.

970
00:45:23,440 --> 00:45:26,560
Speaker 2: And it's not just it's not just you know, like

971
00:45:26,719 --> 00:45:29,160
Speaker 2: I have adult money now and can do things, and

972
00:45:29,239 --> 00:45:31,479
Speaker 2: I have a career and what we do is fun

973
00:45:31,520 --> 00:45:33,520
Speaker 2: and I get to travel and do all that sort

974
00:45:33,520 --> 00:45:35,200
Speaker 2: of stuff. But also then I get to come home

975
00:45:35,239 --> 00:45:37,640
Speaker 2: and yes, you know, every now and then you gotta

976
00:45:37,680 --> 00:45:39,799
Speaker 2: yell at you fucking kids because they're painful sometimes, but

977
00:45:39,880 --> 00:45:42,799
Speaker 2: you have a different type of fun because you sort

978
00:45:42,800 --> 00:45:45,040
Speaker 2: of get on their level a little bit, right, and

979
00:45:45,080 --> 00:45:47,359
Speaker 2: you do that shit, or you get to take like,

980
00:45:47,600 --> 00:45:50,719
Speaker 2: for example, the first time I took Oscar to a

981
00:45:50,719 --> 00:45:53,319
Speaker 2: manly game, and you're like, I used to go to

982
00:45:53,360 --> 00:45:56,240
Speaker 2: manly games with my mates and get pierced and have fun.

983
00:45:56,600 --> 00:45:58,200
Speaker 2: It's different. Now I get to see the look on

984
00:45:58,280 --> 00:46:01,160
Speaker 2: Oscar's face when Oli Kawachi walks over and signs his football,

985
00:46:01,200 --> 00:46:03,520
Speaker 2: and it's like, holy shit, dude, I'm having so much fun.

986
00:46:03,680 --> 00:46:04,200
Speaker 2: It's different.

987
00:46:04,239 --> 00:46:05,920
Speaker 1: You're doing the same things that you used to do,

988
00:46:06,120 --> 00:46:08,160
Speaker 1: but you're seeing them in a whole new perspective. Now

989
00:46:08,160 --> 00:46:12,399
Speaker 1: that you're a parent does make life harder, goes without sure,

990
00:46:12,680 --> 00:46:15,040
Speaker 1: but let's not like we're not going to sugarcoat and

991
00:46:15,239 --> 00:46:18,480
Speaker 1: parenting is hand. I'm just warning you managing your expectations

992
00:46:18,640 --> 00:46:22,120
Speaker 1: being a parent. You will be more exhausted, more stressed,

993
00:46:22,440 --> 00:46:26,399
Speaker 1: more anxious than ever before. But at the same time

994
00:46:26,440 --> 00:46:28,680
Speaker 1: you will get more fulfillment, more love than you ever

995
00:46:28,760 --> 00:46:29,280
Speaker 1: knew possible.

996
00:46:29,360 --> 00:46:30,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's a really good example.

997
00:46:30,760 --> 00:46:30,960
Speaker 1: Right.

998
00:46:31,080 --> 00:46:33,279
Speaker 2: I just gave your example. I'll give you one more

999
00:46:33,920 --> 00:46:34,480
Speaker 2: real quick?

1000
00:46:34,560 --> 00:46:34,960
Speaker 1: How many?

1001
00:46:35,200 --> 00:46:36,400
Speaker 2: Just what real quick? Is?

1002
00:46:36,440 --> 00:46:37,280
Speaker 1: Better? Be quick? Okay?

1003
00:46:37,360 --> 00:46:40,440
Speaker 2: So it's bedtime for the kids, right, and then we're

1004
00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:42,000
Speaker 2: going to let the dog out. And the dog goes

1005
00:46:42,040 --> 00:46:44,520
Speaker 2: out to we on the bush and on the grass,

1006
00:46:44,520 --> 00:46:46,640
Speaker 2: and I'm standing there with Oscar, who's out of the

1007
00:46:46,800 --> 00:46:48,879
Speaker 2: I should laugh, out of the shower, ready for bed.

1008
00:46:48,920 --> 00:46:50,520
Speaker 2: And we're both standing there and I look down at

1009
00:46:50,600 --> 00:46:52,960
Speaker 2: him and he goes, I wear on the grass too,

1010
00:46:55,000 --> 00:46:57,360
Speaker 2: And I was like at a boy and just that

1011
00:46:57,480 --> 00:47:00,480
Speaker 2: moments like in the Little Mate, and he's just like, yeah, okay,

1012
00:47:00,480 --> 00:47:03,560
Speaker 2: over there to it. I'm like, fucking, it's a different joy,

1013
00:47:03,760 --> 00:47:06,000
Speaker 2: right that you're not you. You wouldn't have got in

1014
00:47:06,000 --> 00:47:08,600
Speaker 2: like your twenties, so never had that moment. So I

1015
00:47:08,640 --> 00:47:11,319
Speaker 2: would say to this person, you do you and when

1016
00:47:11,360 --> 00:47:14,560
Speaker 2: it feels right, and when it when it feels right,

1017
00:47:14,600 --> 00:47:19,520
Speaker 2: it'll be the right. He's already said that. Fuck ray God,

1018
00:47:19,600 --> 00:47:21,360
Speaker 2: how dare I care about the listener?

1019
00:47:22,560 --> 00:47:22,719
Speaker 1: Man?

1020
00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:27,080
Speaker 2: I hope that answers your question. Probably like what the drivel?

1021
00:47:28,640 --> 00:47:30,439
Speaker 2: It's like, there's no way.

1022
00:47:30,520 --> 00:47:33,359
Speaker 1: Hannah is still listening at this point, but she has.

1023
00:47:33,320 --> 00:47:35,919
Speaker 2: Gone long ago in Billy Matters and The Guards Life.

1024
00:47:36,480 --> 00:47:38,640
Speaker 2: We are all dumber from listening to that.

1025
00:47:39,480 --> 00:47:41,720
Speaker 1: I'm sure if anyone made it pass that you compied

1026
00:47:41,800 --> 00:47:43,960
Speaker 1: chat within the first five minutes, it'd be a miracle.

1027
00:47:44,120 --> 00:47:46,960
Speaker 2: Just put that enlightening piano music behind it to be fine.

1028
00:47:47,800 --> 00:47:50,760
Speaker 1: But we should get the opinions of Laura and April.

1029
00:47:50,840 --> 00:47:52,239
Speaker 2: We should, we will do.

1030
00:47:52,480 --> 00:47:54,640
Speaker 1: We'll put that in next week's episode, so don't worry.

1031
00:47:54,640 --> 00:47:56,120
Speaker 2: So Hannah is going to get the double shout out

1032
00:47:56,520 --> 00:47:59,719
Speaker 2: is like, fuck, make it out wing will put me

1033
00:47:59,760 --> 00:48:01,680
Speaker 2: out of my misery. Just have a couple of kids

1034
00:48:01,760 --> 00:48:02,440
Speaker 2: and shut up.

1035
00:48:03,480 --> 00:48:06,799
Speaker 1: If you've enjoyed this episode, God, she's now twenty eight,

1036
00:48:09,120 --> 00:48:11,319
Speaker 1: please give us a review. We had some beautiful ones.

1037
00:48:11,360 --> 00:48:14,720
Speaker 1: Ogi Listener did a recent review, first time giving a review.

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Speaker 1: What's taken you so long?

1039
00:48:16,200 --> 00:48:17,560
Speaker 2: I know fully what the hell was out about?

1040
00:48:17,600 --> 00:48:19,160
Speaker 1: But thank you for that very nice. I'm going to

1041
00:48:19,160 --> 00:48:21,880
Speaker 1: review your review, beautiful words, as we would love a review.

1042
00:48:22,040 --> 00:48:23,799
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Speaker 2: link in the show notes.

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Speaker 1: Just see us find it. Oh the cats out there. Sorry, sorry, sorry,

1048
00:48:40,280 --> 00:48:42,600
Speaker 1: I'm trying to get people out, like hello.

1049
00:48:43,920 --> 00:48:45,719
Speaker 2: At the end of this everything, I'm fucking definitely not

1050
00:48:45,760 --> 00:48:49,080
Speaker 2: gone that. It'll just be a bunch of shitty, shitty

1051
00:48:49,200 --> 00:48:51,280
Speaker 2: dribble and then Ashcar put that on a T shirt

1052
00:48:51,320 --> 00:48:54,320
Speaker 2: every fifteen minutes, so we'll see you there.

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Speaker 1: Later.

1054
00:49:02,640 --> 00:49:06,239
Speaker 2: Oh my god, Yes, what was that you?

1055
00:49:07,400 --> 00:49:09,759
Speaker 1: I thought she would sit there and listen to us.

1056
00:49:09,840 --> 00:49:11,360
Speaker 1: She's there watching fucking movies?

1057
00:49:11,400 --> 00:49:14,000
Speaker 2: Are you for real? What?

1058
00:49:14,280 --> 00:49:18,480
Speaker 1: Oh god, I don't believe that bull said?

1059
00:49:19,080 --> 00:49:22,200
Speaker 2: Is is it a YouTube video show?

1060
00:49:22,200 --> 00:49:22,800
Speaker 1: Your screamed?

1061
00:49:22,920 --> 00:49:25,759
Speaker 2: She's watching pawn Two.

1062
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Speaker 1: Doting Dads podcast acknowledges the traditional custodians of country throughout

1063
00:49:29,640 --> 00:49:32,920
Speaker 1: Australia and the connections to land, see and community.

1064
00:49:33,160 --> 00:49:35,680
Speaker 2: We pay our respects to their elders past and present,

1065
00:49:35,719 --> 00:49:38,759
Speaker 2: and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torrestraight Island

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Speaker 2: the people's today.