Speaker 1: Christ Yeah, welcome friends to the Christian O'Connell show podcast.
Speaker 2: Now, Patsy, you need to listen up right. Jackie boy
Speaker 2: has suffered something yesterday. This is horrific.
Speaker 3: I've just sent you a photo of it. If you
Speaker 3: want to bring up Patsy, get this bank got a
Speaker 3: letter from a secret admirer local cafe.
Speaker 2: So handed to her by this dude a note.
Speaker 4: So hang on. She's sitting down having a bite to wait.
Speaker 3: She's on her own.
Speaker 2: Yep, is your baby? That boy there?
Speaker 3: No, Gordon's with me.
Speaker 4: She's on her wearing her wedding rings presumably.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, because people just stick to that, don't they.
Speaker 3: She's got a bunch of rings that like, I wouldn't
Speaker 3: notice that. So you need a bunch of rings or something,
Speaker 3: four or five rings over a ten fingers. That's not
Speaker 3: that weird.
Speaker 2: But but you know, everyone knows what the wedding ring.
Speaker 2: Doesn't have any other rings.
Speaker 3: Actually, don't think she wears her wedding ring. I'm going
Speaker 3: all that funny.
Speaker 2: If you're taking that off, you're saying still available, that's right,
Speaker 2: that's it? Undecided.
Speaker 3: Well, this guy obviously thought that she was available. Could
Speaker 3: I read you the night that pl She came back giddy.
Speaker 3: After this happened, there was a bounce in her stead.
Speaker 2: Now before we go anymore, was he good looking?
Speaker 3: Well, this is what I heard from the other room,
Speaker 3: her telling my sister like, oh this guy, like, how
Speaker 3: cute is this little nose? And my sister asked what
Speaker 3: he was liking? She said, well, he had a lot
Speaker 3: of tattoos up his arms.
Speaker 2: He was very good looking. But that could be Johnny
Speaker 2: Depp covered in them. You're getting out there quickly.
Speaker 3: So the note says you were most likely just smiling
Speaker 3: out of politeness. But I think you were absolutely gorgeous
Speaker 3: and I'd love the opportunity to get to know you.
Speaker 3: If you're not single or interested, I completely understand, but
Speaker 3: wouldn't forgive myself if I didn't at least try have
Speaker 3: a great rest of your day. Then he's left his
Speaker 3: name and his number.
Speaker 2: Wow. Wow, a thing to do with the day of
Speaker 2: like swiping to date. Now I didn't know people were
Speaker 2: still doing this. Yeah, given her thrill.
Speaker 3: It gave her a thrill. And look at look at
Speaker 3: his hand right.
Speaker 2: It is beautiful. This guy is a well educated, well
Speaker 2: healed man.
Speaker 4: He's even dated it in the top right hand corner.
Speaker 4: He's serious.
Speaker 3: Yeah. The date is an odd thing is if he's gone.
Speaker 2: He's serious just because he put the date there.
Speaker 4: But look at it, it looks like something out of
Speaker 4: I don't know, Shakespearean era.
Speaker 2: Someone can put the the writing you are too easily
Speaker 2: impressed Australian.
Speaker 3: It just needs one of those wax seals.
Speaker 2: Yes, who is this counter or lord?
Speaker 3: The date is an interesting thing because it makes it
Speaker 3: seem like Byankie gets so many secret admiral letters that
Speaker 3: when she's going through them at the end of the week, she's.
Speaker 2: Like, now this one is do you know why? Do
Speaker 2: you know why? And I use this word with impact.
Speaker 2: You know this creep has done this in his mind
Speaker 2: and he's obviously playing this forward. He's like, oh, we've
Speaker 2: still got that note that I dated you, right, I
Speaker 2: see game seas game my wife stop it. My wife
Speaker 2: still has a note that she gave me when we
Speaker 2: first met, before we started dating people. These days are
Speaker 2: two used to documenting everything. He's thinking, this would be
Speaker 2: something I get out during my wedding speech.
Speaker 3: Wait, the most shocking part of the story is that
Speaker 3: Sarah approached you.
Speaker 2: And how the way around, well, it makes sense.
Speaker 3: You got a secret admirer's note from Sarah.
Speaker 2: No, we were kind of already we were kind of
Speaker 2: already involved. She gave me a note after our first
Speaker 2: time together. It was a receipt for cash. Anyway, that's
Speaker 2: a whole other story. Let's go back.
Speaker 3: I don't think guys get as many stucred admira notes
Speaker 3: as women.
Speaker 2: But if we if we open up the lines now
Speaker 2: nine to four one four one O four three and
Speaker 2: asked if women had been in the situation where you've
Speaker 2: had a note from an admirer, we may get quite
Speaker 2: a few. None of them are from dudes. Would you
Speaker 2: just imagine you were single, Patsy right, you saw a
Speaker 2: guy and he caught your eye. Would you ever have
Speaker 2: written a nice note out because you've got nice handwriting
Speaker 2: and then handed it.
Speaker 4: To Absolutely not, because it would seem stalker ish.
Speaker 2: But that's a new word. Is it's christ twenty or
Speaker 2: thirty years ago? Maybe people would have done this, But
Speaker 2: you're right these days that it just frightens me.
Speaker 4: I think he's a hopeless romantic. Your mystery man, Jack,
Speaker 4: I'll tell.
Speaker 2: You he was not happened with this. I've just seen the
Speaker 2: body language and supposed arms folded. Someone here's good holded.
Speaker 2: That is the international scene sign language or.
Speaker 3: The cup only because Bianc wasn't freaked out by it.
Speaker 3: She's been giddy seeing she's had a bounce in her step.
Speaker 3: She was saying things like that, wouldn't.
Speaker 2: Be happy with this. She was like, I'd have gone
Speaker 2: down to that cafe and said, who's the creep hanging
Speaker 2: around you? And also is he a cereal creep? Has
Speaker 2: he got like loads of these? What's he? Who has
Speaker 2: a note on head like a fountain? The question, Christian,
Speaker 2: this guy is a serial creek. We need to know.
Speaker 2: I would have gone down there saying where is he now?
Speaker 2: And then challenging to a pistol jewel at acmr be
Speaker 2: your seconds. You always have to have someone who reload
Speaker 2: the pistol.
Speaker 3: No, he's got tattoos, Christian. We can't obviously tough, all right?
Speaker 2: So has anyone had a note from a potential suitor?
Speaker 2: Sort thing Patsy would say, is that potential admiral suit
Speaker 2: a handwritten note from them? And I'm guessing this is
Speaker 2: only women. Maybe that a guy's going to call in
Speaker 2: nine one O four three. Imagine if this guy was listening.
Speaker 2: You never know he's listening, right, Oh my god, he's
Speaker 2: one of our listeners. Now, what do you know about
Speaker 2: your wife's behavior in the cafe, because he says in there,
Speaker 2: maybe you were smiling politely.
Speaker 3: Yanker said she was looking off into space and then
Speaker 3: realized that when she came to that she was locking eyes.
Speaker 2: When she came but she done drunk.
Speaker 3: She was lost in thought.
Speaker 2: Yeap.
Speaker 3: She realized that she was accidentally staring into his own Jack,
Speaker 3: and then she smiled get out of there, like, oh.
Speaker 2: Hello, I'm telling you out. This is called buying signals.
Speaker 2: Christian O'Connell show podcast, Tell you what. There is a
Speaker 2: tense man, tense loverboy in the studio here, Jack Post.
Speaker 2: He's not happy with this bang out order, some creep
Speaker 2: headed the love of his life. His wife, Bianca a
Speaker 2: note in beautiful curse of writing as well. It'd be
Speaker 2: easier to disregard if it was manky sort of spiders scam.
Speaker 3: No, there's something very alluring about the handwriting. So I
Speaker 3: understand why she was so excited. And I've just been
Speaker 3: chatting to her and she doesn't wear her wedding ring.
Speaker 2: This is how he doubt creeps in a relationship, my friend.
Speaker 2: It broke my heart to see that you were messaging
Speaker 2: your wife Joan during the song there, ask her touch
Speaker 2: do you wear a wedding ring?
Speaker 3: She does wear her engagement ring, but not on the
Speaker 3: ring finger.
Speaker 4: On the opposite hand, because some opposite hand. Yeah, so
Speaker 4: I think people of Greek I heritage where their wedding
Speaker 4: rings on the opposite hands to us, he's not.
Speaker 2: Man to a Greek one. Do you know what I'd
Speaker 2: love to hear one? I'm not to put aside an
Speaker 2: entire show, three hours of things you believe about foreign people.
Speaker 2: It would be the greatest show. Greek ladies wear it
Speaker 2: on this well, it's.
Speaker 4: Not like not wearing it at all.
Speaker 2: She wears.
Speaker 3: I love to clutch its throws as well. But saying
Speaker 3: that my wife is Greek, I think is a longbow.
Speaker 2: Any who we're asking you because this ever happened you okay.
Speaker 3: I'm okay, Yes, I think she is a beautiful woman,
Speaker 3: and it makes sense that there would be people out
Speaker 3: there who would write such a note.
Speaker 2: Do you know what you need to do? You've also
Speaker 2: got beautiful handwriting, not like this man, nor you have
Speaker 2: no no, no, don't write her a note today.
Speaker 3: You know what I have. I don't have beautiful handwriting.
Speaker 2: I do. It's very good handwriting.
Speaker 3: I write very well in caps.
Speaker 2: I don't you know I write only in caps. I
Speaker 2: can't do lower case, right I have? You can't? I
Speaker 2: love you. It's me Jack. It's apparently shouting because I
Speaker 2: write handwritten notes to my kids and they were like,
Speaker 2: it feels like you're yelling at me.
Speaker 3: I have a nice have a nice day. I have
Speaker 3: a nice and much nicer print than cursive, so writing
Speaker 3: in caps better for me.
Speaker 2: Well, get some nice headed baby from gold one four
Speaker 2: point three? All right? Where were we? Yes? Have you
Speaker 2: ever been handed a handwritten note? Nine four one o
Speaker 2: four And that's not our phone number, by the way,
Speaker 2: nine four one four one o four three, Christian I
Speaker 2: once had a lift. Hands of cabin crew had me
Speaker 2: her number on a note at the end of a fly. Wow, Hey,
Speaker 2: James Bond, Sue, good morning, good morning, How are you.
Speaker 2: I'm good to welcome to the show. Having a good
Speaker 2: week so far? Mate? Now tell me you were you
Speaker 2: were handed a note?
Speaker 5: Yes?
Speaker 1: I was on a train I was going to work
Speaker 1: and the guy gave me a note. As the train
Speaker 1: was putting into a station and he got off, and
Speaker 1: I thought, oh, what's this? So I opened it and
Speaker 1: it was the most beautiful, beautiful. It was quite a
Speaker 1: lot folk actually, and I said, you've got beautiful. I
Speaker 1: learned from one. You've got it, he used. Not many
Speaker 1: people saw it, but I saw it.
Speaker 3: And the fact was.
Speaker 1: I was pregnant at the time. He couldn't really tell.
Speaker 1: I was nearly four months and you know how you
Speaker 1: have a bit of glove about your nets stuff. When
Speaker 1: I had a window seat, and I remember I was
Speaker 1: just gazing out the window the whole time on the
Speaker 1: train profile.
Speaker 2: But he liked that profile, Yeah, he must have, so yeah.
Speaker 1: And then as as the train called away, I just say,
Speaker 1: you know what it was, and sorry, that's my stug
Speaker 1: in the cow and he nodded, and I thought, oh god,
Speaker 1: how beautiful is that?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Yeah, extra extra level of difficulty writing a note on
Speaker 3: a train long as well, right on the train, very hard, yeah.
Speaker 1: You know what, and riding we're just going to be
Speaker 1: before it was gorgeous. But the only thing if he
Speaker 1: said his name was Justin And anyway, I don't know
Speaker 1: that name.
Speaker 2: You don't have the name Justin. What's it You don't
Speaker 2: like the name Justin? You said? The only thing was
Speaker 2: he said his name was Justin. Oh God, Noah, Well
Speaker 2: it is a weak name.
Speaker 1: It was Justin something or other. I couldn't Betty's had
Speaker 1: Goughter's handwriting, but I couldn't make Audie sir, and I knocked.
Speaker 1: I some wonder.
Speaker 5: I wonder who that guy was.
Speaker 2: He's probably writing a song. All right, let's go to Vicky.
Speaker 2: Good morning, VICKI, Good morning, Good morning, Vicky. So you
Speaker 2: ever been handed a note by a suitor, a secret admirer.
Speaker 6: No, my husband has.
Speaker 2: I don't think this happened to man.
Speaker 6: No, it does, and it happens quite frequently. He was
Speaker 6: at work, dropping off the patient and speaking to one
Speaker 6: of the staff members, and on his way out, she
Speaker 6: slid him a note with love to take you out
Speaker 6: for dinner. Name and phone number. He was doing a
Speaker 6: night shift. Showed me the next morning, and it turned
Speaker 6: out she was from the same hospital I worked at.
Speaker 2: Oh a Fox in the Henhouse.
Speaker 6: Yes, so I went around to her department just to
Speaker 6: explain to her that we were nearly married. We don't
Speaker 6: even been married for three weeks, and was a little
Speaker 6: bit inappropriate, given that she was in uniform when it happened,
Speaker 6: worked at the same place I did, and could cause
Speaker 6: quite a bit of drama.
Speaker 2: And what does she say?
Speaker 6: She went a very white color, apologized profusely, and went,
Speaker 6: I will never do it again. Three days later, one
Speaker 6: of the other staff members walked up to me and went,
Speaker 6: are you actually married to him? I said yes, and
Speaker 6: she turned around and went, you're a lucky woman, and
Speaker 6: I went, no, he's a lucky man and just walked off.
Speaker 2: Listen, I'll be honest with you, right, is your husband
Speaker 2: a smoke show like me? Right in your smoke show.
Speaker 6: He's actually quite good looking and a little bit younger
Speaker 6: than me, and a good country boy. So he talks
Speaker 6: to everybody, friendly to everybody. She was just like my
Speaker 6: work mates were encouraging me, so I thought I'd.
Speaker 2: Do basically you you're married a man, candy. You know,
Speaker 2: they just all want to lick at that lolly, not
Speaker 2: like that a piece of a liquorice or something a
Speaker 2: piece of.
Speaker 6: So I don't think she'll ever do it again.
Speaker 2: No, no, no, I love The vue went and you
Speaker 2: were wearing uniforms, So if you've been in a neglige
Speaker 2: or something like that. It's okay, but not in this uniform.
Speaker 2: My friend Vicky, amazing story.
Speaker 6: Thank you have a great day.
Speaker 2: And you now, Anthony, gime on him.
Speaker 5: Smoke show.
Speaker 2: Yeah, smoke show. See smoke show. Got another dime piece
Speaker 2: on the line. So Anthony, this happened to you. You got
Speaker 2: given a note?
Speaker 5: Yes I was. I was working, not long out of school,
Speaker 5: and I was working in an Italian restaurant, small little place,
Speaker 5: and these two lovely young ladies came in and I'm
Speaker 5: sure I showed them a little extra service and attention
Speaker 5: while we're at it. And once they left, I found
Speaker 5: they paid the bill and left her business card with
Speaker 5: a little note on it.
Speaker 2: What did it?
Speaker 3: Yeah, they would have been a lot older than you.
Speaker 3: That like, what eighteen year old's got a business card?
Speaker 5: Well, yeah, and it was. It was so she was
Speaker 5: some accountant or something like that at one of the
Speaker 5: big name firms. So I obviously had to have left
Speaker 5: unis there must have been mid twenty something like that.
Speaker 5: I was always said I looked quite mature of my
Speaker 5: age at the time and was mistaken quite often for
Speaker 5: my age, but.
Speaker 2: I didn't know.
Speaker 5: To keep wait a boy call.
Speaker 2: Me now, be honest, you're eighteen. You called them Mber right, Well,
Speaker 2: this so.
Speaker 5: I wasn't a relationship at the time, and it wasn't.
Speaker 2: Married that later on. Yeah, getting in time you need
Speaker 2: to get into time machine and I'm getting a timashin.
Speaker 2: I'm being you. You call that number, right, accountant, you say, if.
Speaker 5: I was made, I would yah, I wish I had
Speaker 5: the time, saying a few times, that's for sure. That's
Speaker 5: my showed later in the night and he knew that
Speaker 5: I had a girlfriend and he said, destroy that straight
Speaker 5: away because it's only Anthony.
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