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Speaker 1: It's a special Will and Woody podcast. Mini got a

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Speaker 1: super special guest in Ali Langdon joins the boys. Welcome Alie.

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Speaker 2: Now I'm going to be talking to you guys. How

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Speaker 2: are you barents?

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Speaker 1: Very very well, very excited about what we're going to

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Speaker 1: be seeing tonight seven thirty on Channel nine. Now, because look,

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Speaker 1: neither woods are I or parents but our parents. But

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Speaker 1: I can tell you one thing. One of the things

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Speaker 1: that terrifies me most is telling another parent how to parent, Like,

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Speaker 1: you know, if a little tip rat's annoying me in

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Speaker 1: the park, you know, on the monkey bars when I'm

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Speaker 1: trying to have a go, or stealing my fish and

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Speaker 1: chips or what have you. There's nothing worse than thinking

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Speaker 1: to yourself, gee, whiz, how do I go and tell

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Speaker 1: that parent that their kid or you know, in a

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Speaker 1: more realistic example, if they're kicking your seat on a

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Speaker 1: plane or something like that from Ola, how do you

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Speaker 1: intervene with the child? Seems nearly impossible, And that you've

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Speaker 1: got a TV show tonight, No you don't, you don't,

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Speaker 1: but you have to do this. Parental Guidance premiers tonight

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Speaker 1: seven thirty on Channel nine, and you are literally going

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Speaker 1: to be telling parents that their style is not right.

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Speaker 2: Oh, you can look at the other way and I

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Speaker 2: could be going, yeah, your style really works. I mean

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Speaker 2: they're putting their parenting style out there right for all

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Speaker 2: of us to look at and all of them to dissect.

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Speaker 2: And that is brave because I worked out very early

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Speaker 2: in this experiment why I was there, and that is

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Speaker 2: that I'm the example of the bad parents.

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Speaker 3: What sort of parents are you parent to you, Ellie Langdon,

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Speaker 3: what style do you have?

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Speaker 2: I'm the kind of pair I'm inconsistent and I wing it.

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Speaker 2: You know, the rules one day, annoys the rules the

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Speaker 2: next day, and then they're talking about these different things

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Speaker 2: like where they sat down and they've talked about it

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Speaker 2: between themselves. This is a type of parent we want

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Speaker 2: to be, my husband, and I've never done that.

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Speaker 1: Right. Also, you said like setting setting a blueprint for

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Speaker 1: how you're going to hold that pattern consistently together. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And I get now why you need to do it,

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Speaker 2: because there's so bloody smart these little human beings. If

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Speaker 2: you're not on the same page, they divide it and

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Speaker 2: they conquer, right, They get in between and they drive

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Speaker 2: a wedge and they play you against each other. I mean,

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Speaker 2: you've got to be united because there's little pesky things.

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Speaker 2: They're smart.

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Speaker 1: Your kids, Your kids, Mac and Scout are four and three,

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Speaker 1: four and two, yeah, and they're dividing and conquering you.

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Speaker 2: The two year old is already yeah, she's terrified to

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Speaker 2: the four year old's okay, right, And this is what

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Speaker 2: I've worked out with parenting. You can't actually parent them

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Speaker 2: the same way. And so we've got the time out chair.

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Speaker 2: And like two days ago I caught Mac turning around

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Speaker 2: and punching his sister in the eye. Oh straight on

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Speaker 2: the time out chair.

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Speaker 1: Right, Oh, sorry, the time out chairs for the kids.

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Speaker 1: I thought it was I thought it was for you

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Speaker 1: and your husband. I thought it was like, I've had

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Speaker 1: enough of you guys. I get five minutes in.

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Speaker 2: The time chair. You know what, you just sound the

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Speaker 2: solutions of parenting to time out yourself. It's going to

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Speaker 1: Where there's why there's a little secret room where you

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Speaker 1: pull the book on the bookcase and you get to

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Speaker 1: go and have a nice kanyake with some music in

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Speaker 2: That is such a much that's a better idea. I'm

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Speaker 2: going to time out myself like every witching how I reckon?

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Speaker 2: I put him on the time out here and it's

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Speaker 2: not there then then but then you put her on it.

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Speaker 2: She doesn't care. Walking up the steps the other day

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Speaker 2: and she's sitting there and he goes, oh, why are

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Speaker 2: you there to mummy put you anyway? Nah, I just

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Speaker 2: hit Max. I came and sat here. So she puts

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Speaker 2: herself there for a couple of minutes. Minutes later she's

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Speaker 2: back up and she belts him again, Wow, doesn't work

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Speaker 3: Rights, some flex scout.

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Speaker 1: Then she did that and she was like, I don't

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Speaker 1: care that I'm here, which gives me rights to go

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Speaker 2: And I proved that I like it.

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Speaker 3: It's a powerful scout two years old.

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Speaker 2: We're going to be talking everyone on the show is

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Speaker 3: Okay, great, all right, so you're at bottom of the pole.

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Speaker 1: We're going to talk about all the other parenting styles

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Speaker 1: on the show Parental Guidance premieres tonight seven thirty on

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Speaker 1: Channel nine. Alli Langdon's going to be hosting it, and

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Speaker 1: right up next we're going to be talking about what

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Speaker 1: French parenting, Tiger Parenting, free range parenting.

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Speaker 3: I thought that was just with eggs.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, same. We're going to find out what it

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Speaker 1: is all about. Right up next at will and Wooded,

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Speaker 1: we've got Ali Langdon who joins us from the Today Show.

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Speaker 1: Parental Guidance premieres tonight seven thirty on Channel nine Woods.

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Speaker 3: And so far has been an excellent ad for condoms,

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Speaker 3: Alli Langdon.

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Speaker 4: About all the difficulties the parents face, and your show

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Speaker 4: in particular, Ali focuses on a whole bunch of different

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Speaker 4: parenting styles, a few of them I recognize, but you're

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Speaker 4: going to have to run us through what Tiger parenting.

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Speaker 2: Is, right. So Tiger Parenting is based on his books

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Speaker 2: of this American and We'll and wrote and it's sort

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Speaker 2: of it's the Asian style of parenting broudly where it

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Speaker 2: is you push the kids pretty hard and you've got

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Speaker 2: to come first. It's all about achievements, and their idea

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Speaker 2: is that you find your fun and that's where the

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Speaker 2: fun comes from succeeding. They're pretty tough, and so they

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Speaker 2: deliver like a pretty tough message and timetable wrapped up

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Speaker 2: in a whole lot of love.

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Speaker 1: I feel like I'm a victim of I'm not a

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Speaker 1: tiger parenting.

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Speaker 3: You were a tiger, Yeah, No, I wasn't the tiger.

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Speaker 1: Just listen to anything, she said, it has nothing to

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Speaker 1: do with tigers.

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Speaker 3: No, I thought it was like my tigers because tigers

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Speaker 3: are tough on each other.

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Speaker 1: She didn't say anything about that. She said, it's more

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Speaker 1: of an Asian parenting style. Like a tiger is like

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Speaker 1: a symbol for the Orient, So it's a tiger. It

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Speaker 1: wasn't tiger or a metaphor.

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Speaker 2: For trying to be Here, guys, this is so much

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Speaker 2: more interesting.

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Speaker 1: Let's get two. I want to get you can I guess?

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Speaker 1: Can we ever guess at what another one of these

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Speaker 1: range parenting style.

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Speaker 3: Is let him go? As in like it's just like

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Speaker 3: almost like a non existent parent. So it's just like you, guys,

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Speaker 2: Is that right?

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Speaker 3: Ali?

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Speaker 2: Pretty much the kids make up their own rule.

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Speaker 1: So I think what's really fascinating about this is that,

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Speaker 1: like there are actually different ways of doing this. And

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Speaker 1: if you missed the first part of this, chat. Get

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Speaker 1: it on the podcast Will and Woody wherever you get podcasts.

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Speaker 1: But you were saying before that you guys haven't sat

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Speaker 1: down and had this chat. And yet naturally, whether you've

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Speaker 1: had the chat or not, you are going to adopt

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Speaker 1: a parenting style for your kids. And as a result,

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Speaker 1: those little humans, as you've described the MAC and Scout,

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Speaker 1: your kids, they are going to grow up affected entirely

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Speaker 1: by how you choose to raise them. Does that scare

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Speaker 2: They do not put that pressure on me.

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Speaker 1: But I'm serious, though, But that's the truth, Like that

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Speaker 1: is the truth. Everything we know about you know, like

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Speaker 1: suggest that you can trace back your deficiencies as an

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Speaker 1: to you largely because of how you were you were raised.

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Speaker 2: And as you mentioned that though, the kids need something

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Speaker 2: to talk to their therapists about when that.

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Speaker 3: Great defense and no one Canali as well. I think

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Speaker 3: that's a good message for parents. No one's going to

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Speaker 3: nail it. I think that's the best thing you can

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Speaker 3: tell a parent. I'm sure that's comforting for you as well.

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Speaker 4: Ali to know that you can't do it perfectly, and

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Speaker 4: I'm sure your show tonight, Parental God in seven thirty

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Speaker 4: tonight shows that as well.

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Speaker 2: It does it celebrates all the different pairings style. It

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Speaker 2: gets pretty heated because we talk about like de smack

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Speaker 2: your kids, which you keep going off with a stranger,

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Speaker 2: but it's also very fun.

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Speaker 1: Are you a smacker? Have you been? Have you been

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Speaker 1: a smacker? Ol?

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Speaker 2: No? And you know why because my kids tend to be.

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Speaker 2: We're not violent all the time with each other, but

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Speaker 2: then you do it, and then I do. Yeah. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: But we were as kids and it wasn't very often,

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Speaker 2: but yeah, it was also affective to say, incredible spoon

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Speaker 1: I was smacked as a kid, like again, not very often,

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Speaker 3: I got the wooden spoon.

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Speaker 4: Although one day, Allie, the wooden spoon broke on my

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Speaker 3: I beat the spoon.

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Speaker 2: Sons of Steel.

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Speaker 3: Absolutely, it was a little subtle flex for me.

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Speaker 1: No doubt, a chance to tell Ellie how rock hard

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Speaker 3: Well done, mate.

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Speaker 1: Alright Allie, Hey, thank you so much for Johnny. It's

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Speaker 1: always a pleasure to have you on the show and

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Speaker 1: people can see on their TVs tonight as I said,

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Speaker 1: PARENTI Guidance premiere tonight seven thirty, Channel nine. Allie, always

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Speaker 1: great to have you on the show.

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Speaker 2: Thanks for joining us, Mate dood to talk to you guys,

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Speaker 2: have a good one.

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Speaker 3: Here more of the boys on the Your Show podcast.

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Speaker 1: You know you want to