WEBVTT - Ask Uncut - The Return Of The Huntsmans 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:12.760 This episode was recorded on Cameragle Land. Hi guys, and 0:00:12.800 --> 0:00:14.760 welcome back to another episode of Life Uncut. 0:00:14.960 --> 0:00:18.599 I'm Laura, I'm Brittany, and it is ask guncut. Where 0:00:18.600 --> 0:00:21.159 you're writing your questions, your problems, your predicaments. We do 0:00:21.200 --> 0:00:22.240 our best to answer them. 0:00:22.360 --> 0:00:25.119 You're deep, dark and burning questions. Hey, I woke up 0:00:25.160 --> 0:00:25.640 this morning. 0:00:25.920 --> 0:00:29.000 Now I live in Laura's house old house. Anyone you 0:00:29.040 --> 0:00:30.760 know where I'm going to go with this, don't you? 0:00:30.760 --> 0:00:30.880 No. 0:00:30.960 --> 0:00:33.360 I was just laughing because without context, people think that 0:00:33.640 --> 0:00:35.360 just just like live in my spare bedroom. 0:00:35.400 --> 0:00:37.560 People don't know that Laura locks me in her basement 0:00:37.600 --> 0:00:38.280 of a nighttime. 0:00:38.520 --> 0:00:38.680 No. 0:00:38.920 --> 0:00:41.720 I moved into Laura's old house. So Laura moved out 0:00:41.720 --> 0:00:45.360 of her apartment and I moved in. And Laura had 0:00:45.400 --> 0:00:48.480 this like infestation problem with husbands. 0:00:49.000 --> 0:00:51.520 They're back. They're fucking back. 0:00:51.800 --> 0:00:55.720 Oh my okay God, but they're back with Avengeance. 0:00:55.760 --> 0:00:57.400 No, they were there with Avengance. 0:00:57.480 --> 0:01:00.320 I will never forget the day that I was on 0:01:00.360 --> 0:01:01.840 the couch and I was like, oh, there's a huntsman 0:01:01.880 --> 0:01:04.080 on the blind And I got up and I pulled 0:01:04.120 --> 0:01:07.680 the blind back, and there was no joke about seventy 0:01:07.800 --> 0:01:10.960 fucking baby huntsmens that had just swarmed. 0:01:10.560 --> 0:01:13.120 Up the curtain with all these big ones. 0:01:13.160 --> 0:01:14.679 I put it on stories at the time because I 0:01:14.720 --> 0:01:16.440 was like, I need to burn this house down. 0:01:16.560 --> 0:01:18.280 We don't live here anymore. I'm homeless. 0:01:18.319 --> 0:01:22.480 Find me help, yeh, so help. It's escalating. So they've started. 0:01:22.680 --> 0:01:24.840 Maybe it's time for me to do another bomb or something. 0:01:24.840 --> 0:01:25.520 I don't know what you do. 0:01:25.640 --> 0:01:28.840 You vomit, how you move? Okay, I think it's time 0:01:28.880 --> 0:01:29.320 to move. 0:01:29.400 --> 0:01:32.559 You get a lighter okay. So they've been around Ride 0:01:32.560 --> 0:01:34.679 the last couple of weeks because, as you guys know, 0:01:34.720 --> 0:01:36.440 I spend all my time trying to talk bent off 0:01:36.440 --> 0:01:39.080 a ledge about Australia's not full of spiders and killer animals, 0:01:39.120 --> 0:01:43.399 and lately they are coming more frequently. Every day there 0:01:43.440 --> 0:01:46.600 seems to be one, and I'm like, fuck, this morning 0:01:47.960 --> 0:01:50.400 they took it to another level. This morning. I woke 0:01:50.520 --> 0:01:52.480 up and I took my eyemask off because I sleep 0:01:52.520 --> 0:01:55.400 with the Satin nine mask and the huntsman just like, hey, yes, 0:01:55.720 --> 0:02:00.760 there was a huntsman about six inches on my face. 0:02:01.200 --> 0:02:05.120 And it wasn't just one huntsman. It was eating another huntsman. 0:02:06.840 --> 0:02:09.280 It was eating it in my face and. 0:02:09.200 --> 0:02:11.079 I was like, cannibal. 0:02:11.480 --> 0:02:13.280 Well, I took for a minute. I looked at it, 0:02:13.360 --> 0:02:15.200 and I was like, really taking aback because it was 0:02:15.200 --> 0:02:17.560 so close. But you know, when I huntsman dies, they 0:02:17.600 --> 0:02:18.560 sort of shrivel. 0:02:18.280 --> 0:02:19.640 Up a bit. Maybe they're just kissing. 0:02:19.800 --> 0:02:22.120 So it was shriveled and hanging off the wall, and 0:02:22.160 --> 0:02:23.920 I was like, oh, it's died on its own in 0:02:23.960 --> 0:02:25.760 the nighttime. That was weird like because it was sort 0:02:25.760 --> 0:02:27.440 of stuck to the wall. And then it moved and 0:02:28.800 --> 0:02:30.839 then I saw that it was had another one in it. 0:02:31.120 --> 0:02:32.840 Well maybe they're having sex actually. 0:02:33.160 --> 0:02:35.040 But I, oh, my god, they're procreate. 0:02:35.400 --> 0:02:36.480 Do huntsmans do that? 0:02:36.520 --> 0:02:40.720 The huntsman's bone don't come here for science facts? Remember 0:02:40.720 --> 0:02:42.520 that time I had to cut us saying that a 0:02:42.560 --> 0:02:43.720 turtle wasn't a reptor. 0:02:45.120 --> 0:02:47.840 The should don't put that back in. You're a producer 0:02:47.880 --> 0:02:50.360 for a reason. Can I can I tell you it 0:02:50.440 --> 0:02:51.040 is one second? 0:02:51.400 --> 0:02:54.600 Hang on, yes, Laura, it's not immaculate conception. 0:02:54.680 --> 0:02:55.760 Huntsmands have to have sex. 0:02:55.800 --> 0:02:58.840 They don't just tak are they had the insects breed 0:03:00.320 --> 0:03:01.080 just before you do. 0:03:01.200 --> 0:03:01.680 Carry on. 0:03:01.840 --> 0:03:03.640 I have a confession to make, which is every so 0:03:03.760 --> 0:03:06.240 often I remember and it makes me. 0:03:06.160 --> 0:03:08.200 Feel really deeply stupid. 0:03:08.639 --> 0:03:10.920 So I think it was up until I was like 0:03:11.000 --> 0:03:14.520 in my late teens early twenties, when I realized that 0:03:14.639 --> 0:03:15.919 chickens had sex to. 0:03:15.880 --> 0:03:16.720 Fertilize the egg. 0:03:16.919 --> 0:03:19.800 I thought that a male chicken fertilized the egg after 0:03:20.000 --> 0:03:20.919 it was laid. 0:03:21.720 --> 0:03:23.560 What the hell? That's why you could eat some and 0:03:23.600 --> 0:03:25.520 not eat others. I thought that there were. 0:03:25.320 --> 0:03:27.280 Like some that you could eat and some that you 0:03:27.320 --> 0:03:30.280 couldn't eat, and some grew into chickens and others didn't. 0:03:30.560 --> 0:03:31.799 I think I was like twenty four. 0:03:34.120 --> 0:03:37.040 But hang on, you thought that a chicken didn't hump 0:03:37.040 --> 0:03:39.840 an egg? No, I get sure it would somehow inject 0:03:39.960 --> 0:03:40.600 into the eggs. 0:03:40.680 --> 0:03:43.040 Yeah, I didn't actually think that there was any chicken intercourse. 0:03:43.240 --> 0:03:45.160 You know, you get to choose what you share on 0:03:45.160 --> 0:03:48.280 this podcast, Like you just made a choice. 0:03:48.440 --> 0:03:50.680 That's a choice that you can't take that. I would 0:03:50.760 --> 0:03:53.400 like to do a call out. What is the dumbest 0:03:53.400 --> 0:03:54.800 thing that you thought to be true? 0:03:54.840 --> 0:03:56.920 And how old were you when you discovered it wasn't 0:03:57.120 --> 0:03:59.440 like that thing that you're like, Wow, I am ashamed 0:03:59.480 --> 0:03:59.960 of myself. 0:04:00.040 --> 0:04:02.640 Minds, the chicken and the egg. Yeah, what came first? 0:04:02.720 --> 0:04:04.600 I don't know if this is like the dumbest thing, 0:04:04.640 --> 0:04:05.920 but it's the first thing that came to mind. 0:04:06.360 --> 0:04:09.400 It wasn't that long ago that I thought the Earth 0:04:09.440 --> 0:04:11.800 was flat, but it was not that long ago that 0:04:11.840 --> 0:04:14.520 I thought the saying, you know, nip it in the butt, 0:04:15.360 --> 0:04:16.800 I thought it was nipped in the butt, like in 0:04:16.839 --> 0:04:18.239 your butt, like nip it in the butt. 0:04:18.080 --> 0:04:19.600 Like so when someone's talking away, you like nip it 0:04:19.640 --> 0:04:23.359 and then they walk quicker. It was shockingly recently that 0:04:23.440 --> 0:04:24.240 I discovered it was. 0:04:24.200 --> 0:04:27.640 Bud and it was even after that that I discovered 0:04:27.640 --> 0:04:28.560 it because you corrected me. 0:04:31.240 --> 0:04:32.600 Anyway, I have. 0:04:32.560 --> 0:04:36.680 An update on how spiders reproduced, just so everyone still curious. 0:04:37.000 --> 0:04:40.520 Spiders reproduced sexually by transferring sperm from a male to 0:04:40.520 --> 0:04:40.960 a female. 0:04:40.960 --> 0:04:42.000 You were right, Bridge shot. 0:04:42.200 --> 0:04:46.679 The female then stores the sperm in a pouch until 0:04:46.680 --> 0:04:51.520 she's ready to lay eggs around with emergency sperm, like 0:04:51.560 --> 0:04:53.919 that dress that you told us about. In the. 0:04:55.880 --> 0:04:57.680 Dress, Well, with all that really important stuff out of 0:04:57.680 --> 0:04:59.679 the way, we did say we're going to keep askun 0:04:59.720 --> 0:05:02.360 cuts snappy this year. So let's get into our vibes 0:05:02.400 --> 0:05:05.840 and unsubscribes. Prettany Hockley, what is your vibe for the week. 0:05:06.000 --> 0:05:08.200 I'm coming in so hot with my vibe this week. 0:05:08.240 --> 0:05:10.839 This is going to change your life. Blow your mind. 0:05:11.200 --> 0:05:16.800 It's called Necktech. It is a spontaneous purchase that I 0:05:16.880 --> 0:05:19.120 made last week at about two am in my bed. 0:05:19.160 --> 0:05:19.720 That's what I do. 0:05:19.800 --> 0:05:22.320 That's when I do all my online shopping. I got 0:05:22.360 --> 0:05:26.080 it from Amazon. It is a like an at home massager. 0:05:27.040 --> 0:05:30.119 Now Necktech is like the brand and they sell different 0:05:30.240 --> 0:05:33.120 kinds of massages, like legs or whatever. This is this 0:05:33.200 --> 0:05:36.240 contraption that like and Keisha has now tried it. It 0:05:36.360 --> 0:05:39.440 drapes over your neck and it plugs in, but it 0:05:39.440 --> 0:05:41.440 also has a car attachment, so if you want to 0:05:41.440 --> 0:05:43.640 plug it into your car while you're driving at massages 0:05:43.680 --> 0:05:46.520 your neck, that's great. I like that. It just sits 0:05:46.600 --> 0:05:49.839 over your neck and comes down to your hips and 0:05:49.880 --> 0:05:51.480 you can put your arms in it like a sling, 0:05:51.560 --> 0:05:53.320 so your arms are relaxed in there and the pressure 0:05:53.360 --> 0:05:56.000 is taken off and then it has like different speeds 0:05:56.200 --> 0:05:59.760 and temperature. It warms up as well. And I always 0:05:59.800 --> 0:06:02.520 think these things are like gimmicky. They are not not 0:06:02.640 --> 0:06:05.480 this one. This will blow your mind. It is like 0:06:05.560 --> 0:06:09.280 someone is genuinely massaging your neck and you can put 0:06:09.320 --> 0:06:11.120 it on any body part. You move it down your back, 0:06:11.400 --> 0:06:13.359 you can lay it flat, put your calves in it, 0:06:13.400 --> 0:06:15.640 put your feet in it. It's probably the best thing 0:06:15.680 --> 0:06:17.360 I have ever purchased in my life. 0:06:17.520 --> 0:06:20.200 I have to double down on this. When Britt first 0:06:20.200 --> 0:06:22.800 showed me it, I was like, oh, my days, Like, 0:06:22.839 --> 0:06:25.599 what's little? What's his little knickknack you got now that 0:06:25.600 --> 0:06:28.800 you're trying out? And then I tried it and then 0:06:28.800 --> 0:06:29.440 I went home. 0:06:29.520 --> 0:06:30.520 I couldn't get her out of my hand. 0:06:30.520 --> 0:06:32.680 I was like, we need to own it. What is 0:06:32.680 --> 0:06:33.760 it called again, necktech? 0:06:34.040 --> 0:06:37.160 We need to own a neck I'm so bad with 0:06:37.200 --> 0:06:39.680 things like this though, Like I bought that led mask 0:06:39.760 --> 0:06:42.440 and it's really good, and I wore it religiously for 0:06:42.480 --> 0:06:44.440 about three months and I was like, wow, my skin 0:06:44.440 --> 0:06:46.480 looks great. Guess I'll stop using it now, and then 0:06:46.480 --> 0:06:48.480 I've never used it again. I'm just so bad at 0:06:48.520 --> 0:06:50.520 anything that requires long term commitment. 0:06:50.600 --> 0:06:54.040 Well, in the neurodiverse community, we call that hyperfixation. Do 0:06:54.120 --> 0:06:55.719 you know what I do? And this is what makes 0:06:55.720 --> 0:06:58.240 it easy, right. It just sits on my lounge and 0:06:58.279 --> 0:07:00.640 it's plugged in, so when I sit down for anything, 0:07:00.640 --> 0:07:01.839 if I'm going to sit and eat on the lounge 0:07:01.839 --> 0:07:03.240 for I'm watching TV for a bit. If I'm on 0:07:03.279 --> 0:07:05.360 my laptop, you just put it on your neck next. 0:07:05.960 --> 0:07:10.080 It's so easy. This is not sponsored. I bought it also. 0:07:10.440 --> 0:07:12.480 I don't know if it's on sale still, but when 0:07:12.520 --> 0:07:14.080 I got it it was. It sells for I think 0:07:14.120 --> 0:07:15.640 one hundred and fifty dollars, and I think I got 0:07:15.640 --> 0:07:17.320 it for about one hundred. It had like a fifty 0:07:17.360 --> 0:07:20.840 dollars off sale Amazon. Neckteck will put the links. 0:07:21.000 --> 0:07:23.520 It just changed my life. I've never known you to 0:07:23.560 --> 0:07:25.160 be so excited about a vibe. So I'm here for you. 0:07:25.240 --> 0:07:26.240 I mean, I'm happy for you. 0:07:26.360 --> 0:07:28.320 Yeah. Also because I have a you guys know all 0:07:28.320 --> 0:07:30.080 my neck pain and my migraines and stuff, so I 0:07:30.120 --> 0:07:32.520 was extra excited to find something that I've enjoyed and 0:07:32.560 --> 0:07:33.800 I thought was actually working. 0:07:33.880 --> 0:07:35.360 So yeah, I'm passionate today. 0:07:35.520 --> 0:07:37.880 Picture what is your vibe? Mine is a bit of 0:07:37.880 --> 0:07:40.920 a darker vibe. This week it is the new Binge doco. 0:07:41.080 --> 0:07:44.440 It's ninety minutes Diddy The Making of a bad Boy. 0:07:44.840 --> 0:07:46.520 So this was the one that was made by Peacock 0:07:46.560 --> 0:07:48.360 And there's been a lot and a lot of talk 0:07:48.440 --> 0:07:50.640 ironically on TikTok before it was banned, and then it 0:07:50.680 --> 0:07:52.840 came back about what was going to be revealed in 0:07:52.880 --> 0:07:56.840 this documentary. And obviously, since he was arrested last year 0:07:56.920 --> 0:08:01.000 on charges of I mean horrible things rackedtea sex trafficking, 0:08:01.040 --> 0:08:03.680 there's been a lot of podcasts where you recommended one before, 0:08:03.800 --> 0:08:07.040 so I just wanted like a ninety minute package that 0:08:07.120 --> 0:08:09.440 kind of summed it all up. And I knew some 0:08:09.520 --> 0:08:11.920 of the information that was in there, but I really 0:08:11.960 --> 0:08:14.680 really didn't know the extent of it. And so when 0:08:14.720 --> 0:08:17.880 the documentary started, I actually was initially questioning, ah, is 0:08:17.920 --> 0:08:21.080 this for me? Because they went through how when. 0:08:20.840 --> 0:08:22.160 Did he was three years old? 0:08:22.920 --> 0:08:26.600 Sean I should say his dad was murdered, and I 0:08:26.680 --> 0:08:28.720 was like, Oh, I don't want. 0:08:28.480 --> 0:08:32.400 The backstory to tell me why this guy became a monster, 0:08:32.679 --> 0:08:34.000 Like that's I'm not. 0:08:34.520 --> 0:08:36.319 I'm not here to sympathize. 0:08:36.600 --> 0:08:41.079 It very quickly became a revelation style documentary. So one 0:08:41.080 --> 0:08:43.319 of the parts that hadn't really been reported on as much, 0:08:43.360 --> 0:08:45.280 or at least I hadn't read about it, was how 0:08:45.320 --> 0:08:47.840 did he actually kind of got shot into stardom? And 0:08:47.880 --> 0:08:49.880 it was because he was the promoter of this event 0:08:50.280 --> 0:08:54.120 where they oversold tickets and nine people got killed in 0:08:54.160 --> 0:08:57.079 a crowd crush, and he was kind of the face 0:08:57.080 --> 0:08:57.320 of it. 0:08:57.400 --> 0:08:59.120 He took no responsibility for it. 0:09:00.080 --> 0:09:05.360 Usations that Didy's previous partner, Kim Porter, did not actually 0:09:05.400 --> 0:09:08.439 die of natural causes from pneumonia, that she potentially may 0:09:08.480 --> 0:09:10.400 have been murdered, and there was actually a list of 0:09:10.480 --> 0:09:13.200 people there are now suspicions of as to whether did 0:09:13.200 --> 0:09:15.720 he took them out because they had too much information 0:09:15.800 --> 0:09:19.400 on him and one of them who survived, I'll be sure. 0:09:19.480 --> 0:09:21.720 He is in the docuseries and it's the first time 0:09:21.720 --> 0:09:24.200 that he has ever spoken. There was a woman who 0:09:24.640 --> 0:09:29.680 appeared on camera and she accused Diddy of sexually assaulting 0:09:29.760 --> 0:09:32.199 her with TV remotes. There were allegations of him using 0:09:32.320 --> 0:09:36.559 employees to lure women into these sex parties. His mum 0:09:36.760 --> 0:09:39.920 was also accused of being involved in these Wild say 0:09:39.920 --> 0:09:42.680 it was very, very strange, and this came from people 0:09:42.760 --> 0:09:48.320 like his bodyguards, from people like the friends of his girlfriends, 0:09:48.400 --> 0:09:51.360 from you know, childhood friends. For the people in the 0:09:51.440 --> 0:09:54.920 documentary were very intimately involved in his life, and that's 0:09:54.920 --> 0:09:57.520 why I think it's quite interesting. It also led to 0:09:57.640 --> 0:10:00.840 a lot of questions about people like Tow and people 0:10:00.880 --> 0:10:05.120 like Biggie and whether or not did he have some 0:10:05.200 --> 0:10:06.960 type of involvement. There's been a lot of talk about 0:10:07.000 --> 0:10:10.200 that for decades, but this docu series painted a pretty 0:10:10.200 --> 0:10:12.360 clear picture of what he would have had to gain 0:10:12.440 --> 0:10:13.680 from that situation. 0:10:13.920 --> 0:10:16.120 And I watched this off the back of you recommending it, Kish, 0:10:16.240 --> 0:10:19.840 and I think because difference for a consumer is these 0:10:19.880 --> 0:10:23.800 allegations are not new. For years, everyone has speculated that 0:10:23.920 --> 0:10:27.400 he had a hand in murdering these people, so that's 0:10:27.440 --> 0:10:30.200 not new. But it's hearing from the people in his life. 0:10:30.360 --> 0:10:32.040 It's different when you hear someone that grew up with 0:10:32.160 --> 0:10:35.400 him question like, yeah, he definitely this is suspicious. He 0:10:35.400 --> 0:10:37.040 definitely could have done it. That's where it adds this 0:10:37.080 --> 0:10:38.880 extra layer of like, hang on a minute. 0:10:38.960 --> 0:10:41.880 I think also seeing how you know, we've heard about 0:10:41.920 --> 0:10:46.000 these sex parties and how many celebrities have been involved 0:10:46.040 --> 0:10:49.959 in his orbit, it was just really mind blowing that 0:10:50.000 --> 0:10:54.800 he's fifty five now and I truly cannot believe, especially 0:10:54.840 --> 0:10:58.760 after me too, that it's taken this long, and it 0:10:58.840 --> 0:11:01.480 kind of just goes to show how much power he had. 0:11:01.800 --> 0:11:03.760 We're obviously going to be hearing a lot more about 0:11:03.800 --> 0:11:06.560 Diddy coming up in May, because his trial starts on 0:11:06.600 --> 0:11:08.520 the fifth of May. So if you kind of want 0:11:08.559 --> 0:11:11.040 to get your head around what the reasons for that 0:11:11.360 --> 0:11:14.160 and all of the backstory to the media. It is 0:11:14.200 --> 0:11:16.400 on Binge and it is called Ditty The Making of a. 0:11:16.320 --> 0:11:17.480 Bad Boy Awesome. 0:11:17.880 --> 0:11:20.280 Yeah, Well, I also have a Binge doco for everybody 0:11:20.280 --> 0:11:21.880 to go and we was just killing it at the 0:11:21.920 --> 0:11:23.480 moment no one starts it. 0:11:23.600 --> 0:11:25.880 Wish it was. Would love to have an account run 0:11:25.920 --> 0:11:26.760 at as Binge. 0:11:27.280 --> 0:11:29.400 Okay, so this is a docu series. 0:11:29.400 --> 0:11:31.719 I've only watched the first episode and that's because I 0:11:31.760 --> 0:11:33.880 think it's a three or four part docu series, but 0:11:33.920 --> 0:11:36.760 they're dropping an episode each week, so it isn't all 0:11:36.800 --> 0:11:37.679 available yet. 0:11:37.960 --> 0:11:40.120 It is called An Update on Our Family and it 0:11:40.200 --> 0:11:43.839 is all about the micro Store for story. You might 0:11:43.880 --> 0:11:44.840 remember this story. 0:11:44.920 --> 0:11:48.280 It was very prolific in twenty twenty and it centers 0:11:48.280 --> 0:11:52.120 around a little boy that they adopted from China named Huxley. 0:11:52.559 --> 0:11:56.360 So this family, the Store For Family, had a massive 0:11:56.400 --> 0:11:59.040 YouTube channel. They were kind of of the high era 0:11:59.280 --> 0:12:02.320 of family logging, shared so much of their lives and 0:12:02.360 --> 0:12:06.040 one of the things that really really just catastrophically grew 0:12:06.080 --> 0:12:08.640 their engagement was that they went to China to adopt 0:12:08.640 --> 0:12:12.240 this little boy, Huxley and bring him into their family, 0:12:12.559 --> 0:12:14.000 and it kind of had a bit of that whole 0:12:14.040 --> 0:12:16.120 like white savior element to it. 0:12:16.360 --> 0:12:16.560 Now. 0:12:16.720 --> 0:12:21.600 That happened in twenty sixteen. In twenty twenty, Huxley had 0:12:21.640 --> 0:12:25.400 been largely absent from the family content and the family vlogging, 0:12:25.880 --> 0:12:27.319 and a lot of people were starting to ask the 0:12:27.400 --> 0:12:29.800 question were where as Huxley, especially because he was the 0:12:29.800 --> 0:12:32.319 one that so many people were so interested in, And 0:12:33.000 --> 0:12:36.200 Micah and her husband got onto their social channels and 0:12:36.280 --> 0:12:40.920 did quite a vulnerable and emotional post about the fact 0:12:40.960 --> 0:12:44.840 that they had quote unquote rehomed Huxley to some other family. 0:12:45.280 --> 0:12:49.400 The reasons for this unfolded. It's because he had severe disabilities, 0:12:49.720 --> 0:12:52.800 disabilities that they weren't aware of during the adoption process, 0:12:53.080 --> 0:12:55.600 and they didn't feel that their family was fit for it. Now, 0:12:55.960 --> 0:13:00.440 absolutely justifiably, people were furious, especially not just furious about 0:13:00.480 --> 0:13:02.920 the fact that they had given him to a different family, 0:13:03.280 --> 0:13:06.360 but also the language that was used rehoming him, like 0:13:06.480 --> 0:13:09.640 he was an animal and not a child. That was yeah, 0:13:09.679 --> 0:13:11.480 and also the fact that like you know, you could 0:13:11.559 --> 0:13:14.440 biologically give birth to a child that has disabilities, and 0:13:14.480 --> 0:13:17.360 you may do and you adapt, but they obviously never 0:13:17.760 --> 0:13:20.840 saw him as being as important or integral as the 0:13:20.840 --> 0:13:23.360 rest of their children, or they would have adapted to 0:13:23.400 --> 0:13:25.640 be able to cater for a child who has disabilities. 0:13:26.000 --> 0:13:28.080 The reason why I wanted to recommend this is because 0:13:28.120 --> 0:13:30.440 it's something we've spoken about on the podcast before, this 0:13:30.600 --> 0:13:34.040 family vlogging and the ethics behind family vlogging, and in 0:13:34.080 --> 0:13:37.360 the docuseries they have other people experts in the field 0:13:37.640 --> 0:13:40.720 commenting on and talking about like the insidious nature of 0:13:40.720 --> 0:13:44.000 family vlogging and also how once that is the way 0:13:44.000 --> 0:13:46.400 in which you make your money, in order to keep 0:13:46.440 --> 0:13:49.000 expanding your business, you have to keep on having children. 0:13:49.080 --> 0:13:52.520 And so they talk about this adoption as being not 0:13:52.640 --> 0:13:54.800 out of love and not out of being an altruistic 0:13:54.920 --> 0:13:57.840 opening up your family to an additional person, but actually 0:13:57.840 --> 0:14:00.520 that it was a very like strategically financial you'll move 0:14:00.880 --> 0:14:03.479 and it also allowed them to gain more followers. 0:14:03.160 --> 0:14:04.600 Because it's like a business decision. 0:14:04.640 --> 0:14:06.760 Yeah, And when you think about it, they had seven 0:14:06.840 --> 0:14:10.559 hundred thousand subscribers at the time, the biggest family vlogging 0:14:11.400 --> 0:14:12.920 like I don't know the name of the family but 0:14:12.920 --> 0:14:15.080 the biggest one at that time in twenty twenty was 0:14:15.080 --> 0:14:17.800 one point two million, so they were really high up 0:14:17.840 --> 0:14:19.440 there when it comes to being one of the biggest 0:14:19.440 --> 0:14:22.600 family bloggers in the world. So you can kind of 0:14:22.720 --> 0:14:26.120 question the motivations as to whether this, you know, whether 0:14:26.160 --> 0:14:28.640 this was something that could have had a different outcome 0:14:29.000 --> 0:14:30.960 if the adoption had taken place, not because it was 0:14:31.000 --> 0:14:32.120 motivated by profits. 0:14:32.840 --> 0:14:35.120 This actually reminds me a little bit of the conversation 0:14:35.200 --> 0:14:37.800 that you guys had with Haven Shepherd. She's the paralympic 0:14:37.840 --> 0:14:40.720 swimmer who was adopted from Vietnam and she is a 0:14:40.720 --> 0:14:43.600 double mputee. Will link everything in the show notes. It's 0:14:43.800 --> 0:14:45.560 such a fun episode if you want to go back 0:14:45.560 --> 0:14:48.920 and listen to it. But it really provided a different 0:14:48.960 --> 0:14:52.600 perspective for me. She was initially adopted into a family 0:14:52.800 --> 0:14:56.480 in America from Vietnam, and that's not the family that 0:14:56.520 --> 0:14:59.560 she ended up becoming a part of, So the Shepherd 0:14:59.560 --> 0:15:02.640 family the second family. Then, I guess it just provided 0:15:02.680 --> 0:15:06.120 a different reason, maybe like a little bit of context 0:15:06.200 --> 0:15:10.920 about why that decision might not have actually been right awful. Yeah, 0:15:10.920 --> 0:15:13.840 as awful as like you initially hear that story about 0:15:13.840 --> 0:15:15.720 these family bloggers and you just go, how could you 0:15:15.760 --> 0:15:16.480 be so cruel? 0:15:16.520 --> 0:15:17.400 But I don't know. 0:15:17.400 --> 0:15:20.240 Perhaps there is another side to it that Haven could 0:15:20.280 --> 0:15:21.360 give you know, a bit. 0:15:21.280 --> 0:15:24.560 Of a perspective. I mean, it's a fascinating watch and 0:15:24.720 --> 0:15:26.000 the first episodes out on Pinch. 0:15:26.120 --> 0:15:27.840 Well, you guys can get a neck text, sit back 0:15:27.840 --> 0:15:29.760 and watch one of these binge dooggos. How about that? 0:15:30.160 --> 0:15:33.840 All right, let's get into answering your questions, all right, 0:15:33.960 --> 0:15:36.560 Question number one. We recently found out that two of 0:15:36.560 --> 0:15:38.680 my housemates are sleeping together, and I can't help but 0:15:38.760 --> 0:15:40.960 be a little bit pissed off at them. First, the 0:15:40.960 --> 0:15:43.960 guy he also had recently gone through a messy breakup 0:15:44.040 --> 0:15:46.480 in the first week of our lease, where his partner, 0:15:46.600 --> 0:15:49.400 one of my best friends, had to move out the house, 0:15:49.440 --> 0:15:52.120 is only just recovering from this. The girl he is 0:15:52.160 --> 0:15:54.840 now sleeping with, our other housemate has lived with us 0:15:54.840 --> 0:15:57.320 for two and a half months, also living with the 0:15:57.320 --> 0:16:00.600 guy's ex and being friends with her. It hard to 0:16:00.600 --> 0:16:02.640 be nice to them around the house, but have been 0:16:02.680 --> 0:16:04.840 told by my partner for the sake of the household 0:16:05.120 --> 0:16:05.880 to be pleasant. 0:16:06.160 --> 0:16:07.200 What should I do? 0:16:07.400 --> 0:16:09.880 I don't even understand what's happened. There's about five different 0:16:09.920 --> 0:16:11.600 people in here that we was sleeping together, broken up 0:16:11.640 --> 0:16:12.080 and moved out. 0:16:12.120 --> 0:16:13.120 Do you want me to like? Hear? 0:16:13.280 --> 0:16:13.360 So? 0:16:13.440 --> 0:16:15.960 Firstly, he moved in with his ex girlfriend. There must 0:16:16.000 --> 0:16:17.600 be like four or five people living in this house. 0:16:17.800 --> 0:16:19.920 He moved in with his ex girlfriend. In two months 0:16:19.920 --> 0:16:22.640 of them living there, they broke up, the ex girlfriend 0:16:22.680 --> 0:16:23.080 moved out. 0:16:23.160 --> 0:16:26.560 She's friends with the ex girlfriend. Right, So I'm not following. 0:16:26.600 --> 0:16:27.680 I'm actually not following. 0:16:27.720 --> 0:16:29.160 What do you mean he moved in with his ex 0:16:29.320 --> 0:16:31.080 They both shared a room. So him and his ex 0:16:31.120 --> 0:16:33.200 moved in as a happy couple into this house. 0:16:33.320 --> 0:16:35.720 Yeah, I think that's throwing me. A couple moved in. 0:16:35.880 --> 0:16:39.800 They weren't ex's when they lived together. When you say 0:16:39.840 --> 0:16:42.360 he moved in with his ex girlfriend, it makes me 0:16:42.440 --> 0:16:44.800 think you've moved in with an ex girlfriend. 0:16:44.880 --> 0:16:48.120 Sorry, a happy couple moved into a house. Okay, great, 0:16:48.120 --> 0:16:51.120 they had an argument. Yeah, they broke up. The girl 0:16:51.240 --> 0:16:55.160 moved somewhere else, he stayed. There is another woman who 0:16:55.240 --> 0:16:56.960 lives in this house as well. She has not been 0:16:57.040 --> 0:17:00.200 living there for very long either. However, there was crossover 0:17:00.360 --> 0:17:02.720 between the couple and the other woman living in the house. 0:17:02.760 --> 0:17:06.240 A happy couple and yes, so the ex leaves and 0:17:06.280 --> 0:17:08.120 now the two of them are shagging. 0:17:08.280 --> 0:17:09.360 Yeah, got it. 0:17:09.520 --> 0:17:13.160 And now there's another person in the house, and your 0:17:13.200 --> 0:17:15.399 mum lives there too, But now there's another person in 0:17:15.400 --> 0:17:16.359 the house that's not happy. 0:17:16.840 --> 0:17:18.760 Well, no one's happy about it. Fucking this house. 0:17:19.200 --> 0:17:23.520