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Speaker 1: Quillen, would you that bite sized stealing a baby name ridiculous?

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Speaker 1: Like from her perspective, Well, let's let's talk about it

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Speaker 1: a little bit. So we obvious I'm in the drop

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Speaker 1: zone at the moment. The baby could arrive at any stage.

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Speaker 2: Yep.

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Speaker 3: We were talking about what you're going to name your

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Speaker 1: Actually we were, and you threw it open to everybody

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Speaker 1: else if they had some good suggestions for me.

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Speaker 3: Karen, why should Will name his baby? After you got

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Speaker 3: those two leads of the alphabet?

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Speaker 2: So's top already it is En.

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Speaker 4: Could be really cool if I have a mate another

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Speaker 4: girl named Jayden and be able to know one.

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Speaker 3: Why should.

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Speaker 5: My beautiful mom, when she was nine months pregnant, had

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Speaker 5: cravings for cupcake, which they're called in Spanish.

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Speaker 3: Mother, Lena, did you say some about a cupcake?

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Speaker 1: So despite those riveting suggestions, I've decided to steer clear

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Speaker 1: of those names. And thanks to everybody who calls to

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Speaker 1: suggest their name, even if they were named after a

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Speaker 1: Spanish cupcake.

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Speaker 3: Jayden not just looking for a mate to none other, Jaden,

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Speaker 3: I want to hang out with your baby.

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Speaker 1: They were lovely suggestions, but but the truth is we

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Speaker 1: are sitting in a position where, yeah, it's the birth

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Speaker 1: of the gender of the baby is a surprise. So

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Speaker 1: we're kind of at the luxury where we've got boys names,

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Speaker 1: girls names. We've got a.

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Speaker 3: Pool for each how many? How many for a side?

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Speaker 1: Oh? For a side?

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Speaker 3: I reckon, do you have a favorite with me?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 3: Okay, I don't.

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Speaker 1: That's why we've kept it at a pool either side

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Speaker 1: is because I reckon, when we see the baby, that

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Speaker 1: will define what the name will be.

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Speaker 3: How quickly do you need to name the baby after

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Speaker 3: it comes into the world, don't know. Is there a

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Speaker 3: legal requirement there that it needs to be named in

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Speaker 3: a certain amount of time?

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Speaker 1: I don't think so. But I think you're going to

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Speaker 1: run into trouble for a little while there, because then,

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Speaker 1: you know, what do you call it in the interim one.

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Speaker 2: One?

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Speaker 3: Do you think I'm talking to something you and me

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Speaker 3: in the room? You know, like just god, buddy?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Muscles, yeah, muscles.

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Speaker 1: All those little things I could do that I'm probaly

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Speaker 1: rather can't with a name.

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Speaker 3: Sure.

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Speaker 1: So the idea is we're going to look at the

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Speaker 1: baby and we're going to have a name for it

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Speaker 1: after it's born. Cool, but but there is this issue

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Speaker 1: of naming the baby a name that is somebody else's

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Speaker 1: baby name, Mike, kid's call Mike. It's got don't see

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Speaker 1: that name like.

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Speaker 3: That, say so in your short lists?

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Speaker 1: Really interesting, really interesting. I find this politically within the

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Speaker 3: About this, really angry. Yeah, I've heard of friendships being

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Speaker 3: broken over baby names being stolen in your short list. Yes,

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Speaker 3: do you know of names in your short list that

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Speaker 3: other friends or family have named their children.

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Speaker 1: We've avoided them because you were worried about how they react.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So did you have a name that you really

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Speaker 3: liked that you were like, oh, no, we've lost probably.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's it, isn't it is?

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Speaker 3: In a way, you're punishing the baby.

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Speaker 1: We'll not punishing the baby. The baby doesn't know you

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Speaker 3: But I'm saying, you've got this perfect name, and you

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Speaker 3: won't do it because of a friend who you might

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Speaker 3: not even be made within ten years, has the same name.

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Speaker 1: Or even not a friend. Like sometimes there are people

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Speaker 3: Now, Yeah, see that? I understand, though.

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Speaker 4: Do you?

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Speaker 1: Because because I keep because this happens with seven all

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Speaker 1: stink about it. And I'm like, yeah, but the baby

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Speaker 3: You're always thinking about the bosses sister.

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Speaker 2: No, you won't.

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Speaker 1: It will not their graduation. You're not gonna be like, God,

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Speaker 2: Thinking about them.

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Speaker 1: No, you're at your kid's graduation. You're not thinking about

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Speaker 1: your boss's sister for twenty five years ago. I think

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Speaker 1: it's ridiculous. I think it's ridiculous, but I do know

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Speaker 1: that people get very sensitive. I do think it's I

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Speaker 1: also think it's ridiculous that you would be offended that

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Speaker 3: Can I just say that there's one situation where I

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Speaker 3: think it's fair enough. You know, when a friend confides

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Speaker 3: in you and goes, is my name my dream name

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Speaker 3: very much, and then you yeah, because that happens, and

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Speaker 3: that I've heard of that happening, that's shocking. That's a

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Speaker 1: Not unless they had the name previously though, and there's

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Speaker 1: no yeah, yeah, you can't own a name, can you.

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Speaker 1: I just don't think you can. And look, I've got

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Speaker 1: lots of mates who are also called Will, and I

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Speaker 1: hey I'm Will, They go hey I'm Will. Go cool,

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Speaker 3: It's a techie called Will.

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Speaker 1: He's a good guy. We actually are good mates. Me

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Speaker 1: and Will. You wish you had a Woody in the

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Speaker 1: text and instead you hang out with Nikesh ye I

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Speaker 1: love Nish though one six ' five? Can you use

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Speaker 1: somebody else's baby name? And have you had your baby name?

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Speaker 3: Toes?

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Speaker 1: Stepped on Nikesh? We bloody love you. It's Willing Wooded.

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Speaker 1: Can you step on somebody else's baby name toes or

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Speaker 1: is that a ridiculous idea.

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Speaker 3: Let's go to Carli here, Carly, you copied your kids' names.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so it's my ex partner's friend and his wife.

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 5: They didn't take one name, they took both our girls' names.

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Speaker 3: So how did that feel? How did you feel after that?

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Speaker 2: Well?

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Speaker 5: I was like like they're like, oh, your kids are

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Speaker 5: then when she had the baby, she's like, oh, we've

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Speaker 5: named our daughter Isler Chloe, and I'm like, oh that's nice.

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Speaker 5: My daughter's name is il and Chloe.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Did you feel though, like quite honored though, Like the

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Speaker 1: obviously liked your kids so much that they were like, hey,

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Speaker 5: But like there's a many other different names in the

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Speaker 3: But I brought this up before the song and Will

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Speaker 3: thought it was ridiculous. Calor, it's not so frustrating. If

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Speaker 3: you go over to their house, she's going in and

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Speaker 5: It didn't get that.

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Speaker 1: Fun Hi didn't get that, fus Emma, I'm thirty one

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Speaker 1: baby names. I think it's a ridiculous concept. I don't

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Speaker 4: Totally agree it's ridiculous. I actually decided not to go

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Speaker 4: thought maybe not because of everything everyone's talking about it.

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Speaker 3: So why did you go?

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Speaker 4: I haven't even Savannah love it, love it.

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Speaker 1: It's ridiculous, Savannah, we love you, we love you. You've

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Speaker 4: I still haven't signed the birst get because I can't.

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Speaker 5: You can't do it.

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Speaker 1: See this is funny. So a friend of mine, a

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Speaker 1: very good friend of mine, Wolfy. I mean I've known

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Speaker 1: him since I was three years old, right where, he's

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Speaker 1: having a baby, probably around a week after me. Right,

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Speaker 1: that's what he called me the other day. And he's

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Speaker 1: And I was like, mate, you and I have known

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Speaker 3: I hate this is the third time brought it up.

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Speaker 3: But confusion, mate, you would be hanging out in families

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Speaker 3: You'd have to be like Ricky one Ricky two. You

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Speaker 1: Well, first of all, I'm not calling it ricky.

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Speaker 3: Ricky is a great name.

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Speaker 1: But we'd sorted out. But it'd be cute. They'd both

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Speaker 1: just think it's it's it's a past. It's just I

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Speaker 1: think it's a You're building a mountain out of a molehill,

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Speaker 1: and I think people are being possessive about something which

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Speaker 3: Your son you removed for your mate son.

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Speaker 1: No, they would. I haven't got a mate's son on speech.

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Speaker 1: Oh sorry, wolf his son to call you again, Ronnie

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Speaker 1: I thirty one six five, ron What are your thoughts?

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Speaker 2: Mate?

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Speaker 1: Can you step on somebody's chas the baby name?

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Speaker 2: It depends on what you're doing with her name, you know?

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Speaker 2: I mean all right, my wife and I had picked

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Speaker 2: our first daughter staying out. The family knew about it,

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Speaker 2: and before our daughter was born, my sister gets a

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Speaker 2: dog and names for that name.

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Speaker 1: Cute dog though.

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Speaker 2: An ugly big Rhodesian reachback. I suppose it was put

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Speaker 2: when there was a path.

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Speaker 1: What was the name, Ronnie? I like Rhodesian ridgeback for

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Speaker 1: the chantelle.

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Speaker 3: That's a weird name for it dog? Just hell?

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Speaker 2: Do you?

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Speaker 1: Ronnie?

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Speaker 2: Do you think maybe? I mean her? My wife didn't

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Speaker 1: And our final question for you, Ronnie, when you called

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Speaker 2: Because we didn't go with them, how we changed the name.

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Speaker 1: All of a sudden, you speed dying the dog instead

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Speaker 1: of the kid. I know One night man more.

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Speaker 3: Of the boys on the full show podcast.

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