1 00:00:01,440 --> 00:00:04,360 Speaker 1: And Amanda jam Nation Jones. 2 00:00:04,480 --> 00:00:06,440 Speaker 2: The matter of arms for the pub Test today is 3 00:00:06,559 --> 00:00:09,200 Speaker 2: sleeping in different bedrooms? Does it pass? The pub Test? 4 00:00:09,360 --> 00:00:11,960 Speaker 3: Winner Bartholemy from Channel seven has said that she and 5 00:00:12,000 --> 00:00:16,079 Speaker 3: her husband haven't slept in the same bedroom for a decade. 6 00:00:16,120 --> 00:00:18,119 Speaker 3: She loves her own private space, as does he. She 7 00:00:18,160 --> 00:00:20,120 Speaker 3: gets up early, he's a light sleeper. They do their 8 00:00:20,160 --> 00:00:22,680 Speaker 3: own thing. Obviously, they've got family, so they have come 9 00:00:22,680 --> 00:00:25,400 Speaker 3: together occasionally, so it's all happening. It's all happening somewhere 10 00:00:25,400 --> 00:00:28,280 Speaker 3: around there. Interesting though, forty percent of couples choose to 11 00:00:28,280 --> 00:00:30,840 Speaker 3: sleep separately in Australia, but there's a stigma attached to it, 12 00:00:30,880 --> 00:00:32,159 Speaker 3: so people don't talk about it. 13 00:00:32,280 --> 00:00:36,479 Speaker 2: You know that percentage matches the divorce right in Australia, 14 00:00:36,520 --> 00:00:37,919 Speaker 2: did you We talked about that. 15 00:00:37,920 --> 00:00:40,760 Speaker 3: The only nearly half marriages and divorce. I wonder if 16 00:00:40,760 --> 00:00:43,559 Speaker 3: it's the sleep togethers or the sleeper paths to get divorced. 17 00:00:44,360 --> 00:00:48,839 Speaker 3: So people we still have this societal need to A 18 00:00:48,960 --> 00:00:52,479 Speaker 3: social brain wants intimacy and to share the space with 19 00:00:52,560 --> 00:00:55,400 Speaker 3: your partner, but you also need a good night's sleep. 20 00:00:55,440 --> 00:00:57,800 Speaker 3: They say sleep is the new sex. So sleeping in 21 00:00:57,840 --> 00:00:59,880 Speaker 3: different bedrooms as it passed the pub test. 22 00:01:00,160 --> 00:01:03,440 Speaker 4: One part of the pub test. When I fell pregnant 23 00:01:03,480 --> 00:01:05,800 Speaker 4: with my now twelve year old, I've struggled to not 24 00:01:05,880 --> 00:01:08,480 Speaker 4: keep my husband awake. He liked a dark room, I 25 00:01:08,640 --> 00:01:11,479 Speaker 4: like the TV on. We have slept in different rooms 26 00:01:11,480 --> 00:01:15,240 Speaker 4: for nearly thirteen years and we have the strongest relationship ever. 27 00:01:15,360 --> 00:01:17,440 Speaker 5: Okay, I think it past the pub test. I'd never 28 00:01:17,480 --> 00:01:20,000 Speaker 5: do it, but my parents do it. My sister does it. 29 00:01:20,440 --> 00:01:22,560 Speaker 1: If you've got a bad snora and you've got an 30 00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:26,120 Speaker 1: early starter, you know, I think everyone needs their own sleep. 31 00:01:25,880 --> 00:01:28,120 Speaker 5: So yeah, past the pub test. But I wouldn't do it. 32 00:01:28,240 --> 00:01:31,720 Speaker 1: Yes, it does. My husband who was really sick and 33 00:01:32,120 --> 00:01:34,759 Speaker 1: he had lots of things going on in his snore 34 00:01:34,959 --> 00:01:38,800 Speaker 1: yet restlessly so he never stopped meeting. He had a 35 00:01:38,920 --> 00:01:42,319 Speaker 1: colostomy bags, so things was happened in the middle of 36 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:45,680 Speaker 1: the night. So you know, I think it's a personal thing, 37 00:01:46,120 --> 00:01:48,639 Speaker 1: and I think if it works for you, you should 38 00:01:48,640 --> 00:01:50,720 Speaker 1: just do whatever you need to do. And that's why 39 00:01:50,760 --> 00:01:53,040 Speaker 1: I think it is just past the pub. 40 00:01:52,840 --> 00:01:58,080 Speaker 5: Test, absolutely pastes the pub test. We sleep separately during 41 00:01:58,120 --> 00:02:02,840 Speaker 5: the week because we love us and the weekends for us, 42 00:02:03,240 --> 00:02:06,800 Speaker 5: so it's an absolutely perfect mix and combination. So yes, 43 00:02:06,840 --> 00:02:08,440 Speaker 5: it passes the top two on the. 44 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:09,919 Speaker 3: Weekends that go back to their own homes. 45 00:02:10,960 --> 00:02:14,880 Speaker 2: I like to sleep during sex. Killed two birds time. 46 00:02:16,080 --> 00:02:16,800 Speaker 2: Thank you for that