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Speaker 1: This is jem Nation with Jones Millie Starling. You said

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Speaker 1: that you had a very unusual night out with your mother.

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Speaker 1: We'll just get the background. Do you mind me asking

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Speaker 1: how old are you? I'm thirty three and your mom

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Speaker 1: and Jesus age, yes, and you think of that every

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Speaker 1: time you look at Milly brist Lee and Jesus an

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Speaker 1: interesting mix for you.

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Speaker 2: That's a good time.

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Speaker 3: Thirty three, Yeah, thirty three is fun.

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Speaker 1: And your mum's in the fifties.

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Speaker 3: My mum is in her late fifties and she is

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Speaker 3: getting married this weekend.

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Speaker 1: And are you okay with that? I mean your parents

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Speaker 1: are split up a number of years ago, so this

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Speaker 1: isn't an issue with that.

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Speaker 3: No, exactly. No, I'm really happy for mom. I love

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Speaker 3: her fiance. He's really lovely. But what was funny is

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Speaker 3: last weekend, which was quite an unusual experience, is I

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Speaker 3: went on my mum's hens. So when I got married,

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Speaker 3: and hilariously I got married at the start of this year,

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Speaker 3: so mum and I both got married, got married the

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Speaker 3: same year. I suggested a bit of joint hens and

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Speaker 3: now I'm glad that we didn't do this. So my

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Speaker 3: heads was a lovely lunch at a restaurant and just

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Speaker 3: dancing to Taylor Swift at home with my friends. Later

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Speaker 3: on in the evening, my mum's last weekend with her

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Speaker 3: fifteen friends was dinner, which was fine, and then we

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Speaker 3: were walking down King's Cross with sashes, tiaras and peenis.

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Speaker 2: Water bottles and I thought.

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Speaker 3: Yes, we're often a drag show on Oxford Street.

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Speaker 2: So where we were at which one?

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Speaker 3: Well, see, this is the thing. You want to go

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Speaker 3: to Stonewall if you're going to go to a drag show,

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Speaker 3: because that's where that's where it happened, That's where it happens. Unfortunately,

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Speaker 3: Mum and her friends were told by the bouncer that

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Speaker 3: they were too old, so.

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Speaker 2: They said, too old for a drag queen stead, but

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Speaker 2: that's their bread and butter.

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Speaker 3: I know, well I know, and I felt so sorry

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Speaker 3: for them because they were lining up and they thought

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Speaker 3: they just thought they were so wild and hilarious. Anyway,

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Speaker 3: the bouncer comes up to Mom and says, you're too drunk.

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Speaker 3: You can't come in right anyway, Mom was like, I'm

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Speaker 3: not drunk as she's wearing a sash with a tiara

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Speaker 3: with a penis water bottle in my hand anyway. So

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Speaker 3: then they after they for a while, they said, listen,

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Speaker 3: you're not going to leave us alone. You actually, you know,

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Speaker 3: you're just too old, I know. So we went across

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Speaker 3: the road to a bit of a budget drag show

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Speaker 3: and that was really fun. That was all good. And

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Speaker 3: I actually ended up leaving mum and her friends because

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Speaker 3: I thought that I was sort of being a bit

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Speaker 3: of a handbreak and I just wanted them to have

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Speaker 3: fun on their own.

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Speaker 1: It's like you've swapped rolls, because usually it's the mother

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Speaker 1: and the mother in law who just go out for

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Speaker 1: the nice dinner bit and I'll leave you girls to it. Yes,

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Speaker 1: so you can be a bit wild. You're doing that

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Speaker 1: with your mother.

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Speaker 3: That was me making sure everyone wasn't looking too messy,

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Speaker 3: you know, making sure everyone had a drink.

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Speaker 1: Yes, leaving so they could get on with it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they stayed out till all hours. I was home

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Speaker 3: by ten thirty.

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Speaker 1: That's not right.

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Speaker 2: It's not right. Right, that's not right. It's not right,

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Speaker 2: not right.

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Speaker 3: But that's the Yeah, I felt like her mother. That

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Speaker 3: is how I felt. It was a role reversal.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and stayed up to make sure you got home

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Speaker 2: on time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, hold her hairback while she has a spew.

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Speaker 2: This is your life see thirty three, Because suddenly you're

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Speaker 2: a bigger adult. That's that's in their fifties. Look where

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Speaker 2: we are now, Like we're in full on adult times.

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Speaker 2: Now it's over for us. What I mean is we're

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Speaker 2: full on adults. Yes we are where you know you

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Speaker 2: can't go crazy.

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Speaker 1: But you know what at this age with you being

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Speaker 1: of your age and your mum, you know, the roles

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Speaker 1: can reverse because your mom might be saying, I'm not

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Speaker 1: looking after little kids anymore. I'm going out on the

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Speaker 1: ran tan And you've got a responsible job. You have

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Speaker 1: a life that you need to maintain, so you've become

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Speaker 1: the it's like freaky Friday. It is.

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Speaker 3: I've already got married this year. I don't need to

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Speaker 3: do it again. Don't do it again.