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Speaker 1: Podcasting.

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Speaker 2: Now I'm looking forward to playing this because the Maps,

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Speaker 2: the maths psychologists, the two brains behind all the psychology

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Speaker 2: and the matching that goes on at Maps, which is

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Speaker 2: the biggest show in Australia. It'll be number one again,

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Speaker 2: no doubt, happening very shortly on Channel nine tonight.

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Speaker 3: I believe it's on tonight.

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Speaker 2: Those two psychs are going to join us in the

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Speaker 2: studio up.

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Speaker 1: Next, Yes they are.

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Speaker 3: But before we go to the Maps experts, I tried,

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Speaker 3: with their help to stitch you up today.

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Speaker 1: Yes.

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Speaker 3: So basically on this show, you think you know relationships

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Speaker 3: really well, you think you a bit of a relationship google.

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Speaker 2: Well, I've guessed a few relationship psychologists thesis in the past.

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Speaker 1: Yes, So I.

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Speaker 3: Wanted to bring you down. So basically we've got a

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Speaker 3: whole bunch of people to contact the show with relationship questions. Yes,

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Speaker 3: and then I was going to take on you with

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Speaker 3: relationship advice.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, was a relationship advice off.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: What you didn't know is the Maps experts were actually

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Speaker 3: in my ear telling me what to say.

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Speaker 2: Yes, and it all went horribly wrong. Yeah, you can

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Speaker 2: bring a horse to water Woods.

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Speaker 3: But you can't make him copy with the relationship advice

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Speaker 3: that you're trying to tell him.

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Speaker 5: Sound well, mcmine, I loved doctor.

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Speaker 2: Give me a relationship therapist whose thesis I can't guess.

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Speaker 3: The way this is going to work is you always

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Speaker 3: going to tell us the question about relationships that you'd

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Speaker 3: like to ask. Will and I are both going to

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Speaker 3: give you advice, and then you're going to decide who's

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Speaker 3: given the better advice. So far away, Tara, Great, Okay.

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Speaker 4: So I have been with my boyfriend now for about

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Speaker 4: six sons six months and I love him, he loves me,

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Speaker 4: but he has a best friend who is a girl

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Speaker 4: who I've asked him about before, and he says, nothing's

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Speaker 4: ever happened, but there is just something like in my

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Speaker 4: gut that just doesn't feel right.

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Speaker 2: Gee whiz. I would almost say that the best thing

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Speaker 2: to do would just be to table that with him

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Speaker 2: and actually just say, hey, this really sucks for me.

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Speaker 2: I'm in this awful position where I'm really scared about

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Speaker 2: how you feel, but I also don't want to question

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Speaker 2: the trust in the relationship, and then maybe ask him

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Speaker 2: if you know you can talk to it.

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Speaker 3: Okay, it's your advice is just tabling.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, yeah, yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 3: Let me just think about month for two seconds. Okay, mind,

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Speaker 3: at some point you've got a light of fire under

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Speaker 3: excuse me, you've got a light of fire under him,

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Speaker 3: and say, hey, what is what's it going to be? Wow?

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Speaker 2: Tara? What do you reckon?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Look, if I have to pick, it wouldn't be whatdies?

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Speaker 2: It's wellship God all bounds back?

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Speaker 1: What can he not do?

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Speaker 7: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Bounds back?

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Speaker 1: Thanks?

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Speaker 2: Thanks?

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Speaker 3: You have to an okay start, You have to an

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Speaker 3: okay stay out. I mean I think I think I

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Speaker 3: think Tara is deluded. Quite frankly, we've got Amy, who's called.

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Speaker 1: Amy talk to us.

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Speaker 2: You want relationship advice from the boys, you have to

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Speaker 2: choose which one is the better love doctor?

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Speaker 1: Go for it? What's your problem?

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Speaker 4: Okay?

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Speaker 6: Hi, guys, I've been in this relationship for a while

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Speaker 6: with the guy and he still lives with you, dex sorry,

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Speaker 6: and keeps saying for a leader, and he just hasn't.

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Speaker 6: So I just want to know whether you guys think

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Speaker 3: How long you've been together for Amy?

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Speaker 6: About nine months?

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Speaker 5: Now?

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Speaker 3: Nine months? Okay?

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Speaker 2: Tabulate that tabulated.

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Speaker 3: I'm just tabulating into my mind, I'm just going on

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Speaker 3: with you. I'm just I'm just thinking about my answers

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Speaker 3: before I answer them. Okay, I mean having a problem

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Speaker 3: X in your relationship is sort of like having a

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Speaker 3: problem mother in law in a way. Amy, What does

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Speaker 3: that mean?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I think you're going to need to get one of

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Speaker 2: You don't want three of them.

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Speaker 3: You don't want to be with three of them.

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Speaker 2: She's not talking about sleeping with the eggs. I think, Sorry, Amy,

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Speaker 2: do you mind if I don't talk now that you

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Speaker 2: might be done with Amy? Let's get down to you, Amy,

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Speaker 2: Can I just recap really quickly? He said that the

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Speaker 2: ex is still on the scene.

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Speaker 1: He said that, yeah, yeah, she's still on the scene.

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Speaker 2: He said that she's still on the scene. You're in

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Speaker 2: the relationship at the currently.

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Speaker 1: Have you?

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Speaker 2: Have you met the ex at all?

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Speaker 6: I've met her once, but not Obviously she doesn't know

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Speaker 6: about me, so I was just.

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Speaker 2: Amazed, Wow, she doesn't know about you at all. You know,

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Speaker 2: here's one option of going about it. I mean, it

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Speaker 2: just depends how much you really love the guy. But

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Speaker 2: I would almost say you're sort of in that situation

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Speaker 2: where if you if you're not that huge on the guy,

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Speaker 2: like if you think he's genuinely double crossing you, I'd

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Speaker 2: get in touch with her and just say hey, just

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Speaker 2: so you know he's seeing both of us at the

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Speaker 2: same time, and then I'd message him and go sorry

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Speaker 2: mate all over.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I like nice.

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Speaker 2: Thanks very much, huge one. Damn it?

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Speaker 1: Please done it?

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Speaker 8: God?

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Speaker 1: Thanks Amy, cheers?

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Speaker 3: Can so this before we move on? Well the congratulations,

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Speaker 3: thank you much on the video.

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Speaker 2: Why are you trying to take me on there?

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Speaker 3: Well, the reason I did try to take you on

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Speaker 3: there is because look, so wasn't play there that you diagnostally?

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Speaker 2: What the hell was happening?

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Speaker 3: I've had the maths experts in my ears, But can

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Speaker 3: I just say off the bad they're going to come

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Speaker 3: in the studio now, I think it was I was,

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Speaker 3: I was, I was butchering what they were saying.

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Speaker 2: We've got the map psychologists in here right up.

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Speaker 4: Next time.

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Speaker 2: Imagine we didn't go to someone and just sort out

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Speaker 2: a few.

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Speaker 5: Things because it was hilarious.

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Speaker 7: It's real home kiss now if you missed it, Woods

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Speaker 7: just trying to take me on in a relationship advice

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Speaker 7: off and he died, and he lost to the doctor again.

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Speaker 7: Will was the.

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Speaker 5: Victor, and I learned I only learned afterwards the whole

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Speaker 5: thing was part of a great plot to try and bring.

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Speaker 2: Me down as behind you and in your ears without

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Speaker 2: me knowing. You had John and Trish from Maths, the

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Speaker 2: expert residents on that show providing the.

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Speaker 5: Advice, who are in the studio right now around the

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Speaker 5: pause for them.

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Speaker 9: I mean I thought we want it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean we were robbed. I felt good.

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Speaker 3: I may have minced a bit of your advice. I've

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Speaker 3: realized that I have very bad memory and I'm not

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Speaker 7: Let's have a listen to that.

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Speaker 3: Having a problem X in your relationship is sort of

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Speaker 3: like having a problem mother in law in a way. Amy, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I think you're going to need to get one of

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Speaker 3: want to be with three of them.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it was all bad stuff. It was all bad stuff.

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Speaker 3: But guys, let's talk about you guys for a second.

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Speaker 3: How have you come to be the Maths experts tells

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Speaker 3: me about yourself? Start with nutrition?

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Speaker 8: How did we well, John and I worked on series one.

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Speaker 8: We just had four couples and it was a little

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Speaker 8: boutique show. Yeah, yeah, we thought will it rate way

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Speaker 8: back then. But I've done my PhD in the neuroscience

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Speaker 8: of attraction, and.

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Speaker 3: So you know what's going on in the brain when

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Speaker 3: you see someone you're attracted to, like, can you yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: some of it?

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Speaker 5: How does that help on the show? So obviously you

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Speaker 5: guys get these guys in beforehand because they get married

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Speaker 5: one off, they see each other the first time. You

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Speaker 5: see them individually beforehand, give them the full run down.

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Speaker 5: Do you then just decide, Oh, if I saw those

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Speaker 2: Or like, how does your thesis translate into what we

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Speaker 2: see on television? Because you know it gets a bit wild.

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Speaker 8: Well, we all do our own testing and a couple

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Speaker 8: of months. It's hard work and we do it on

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Speaker 8: our own and then we come together and surprisingly, John,

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Speaker 8: isn't it We have quite a few matches that we've done.

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Speaker 2: You have had time matches, absolutely, But John, can I

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Speaker 2: ask you, like I mean, as I said, the show

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Speaker 2: gets wild?

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Speaker 5: Yes, do you guys feel guilty?

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Speaker 2: Do you regret any of the any of the choices

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Speaker 9: We don't regret. We're invested in all of them, but

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Speaker 9: we do get deflated when it goes south.

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Speaker 1: And they break out.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, they break up because obviously, you know, we do

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Speaker 9: put a lot of time and effort into the matching process.

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Speaker 9: We want love stories, but you know, the experience in

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Speaker 9: the experiment is very intense and it can create a

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Speaker 9: lot of drama.

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Speaker 3: Like you say, you've known me for five ten minutes

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Speaker 3: or so, and you may have heard the show Who Knows?

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Speaker 3: Do you have an idea of the sort of person

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Speaker 3: that you think I'd be compatible with?

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Speaker 9: Well, I think they've got to be someone who's outgoing,

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Speaker 9: who's a good talker, extremely good looking.

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Speaker 1: Of course, I now see John go on. I think

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Speaker 1: you'd like someone he likes a bit of quiet space

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Speaker 1: and quiet time. I bet you have a bit of

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Speaker 1: quiet time.

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Speaker 9: Wow, we don't want to ask what he does with that.

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Speaker 9: Quiet time.

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Speaker 2: Gets too devil as year, we'll we'll get.

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Speaker 1: You on the couch here like it doesn't it?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that was quick.

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Speaker 9: Well, we're unpacking you.

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Speaker 1: Are you so much for coming in the studio.

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Speaker 2: I know everyone's going to be watching mav I's Lovely

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Speaker 2: to see the couple of brains behind it and that

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Speaker 2: you guys are as genuine as lovely as you see

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Speaker 2: on the show.

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Speaker 1: So thanks so much for coming in pleasure and good luck. Yes,

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Speaker 1: thank you, thanks so much.

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