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Speaker 1: It's a special Will and Woody podcast Mini Wards. Kanye

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Speaker 1: West is making a ploy to get back with his

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Speaker 1: ex Kim kardash on Flash by great excuse to play

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Speaker 1: some old heartbreaks, some old Kanye pretty great song. Can

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Speaker 1: we crank it for this bit?

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Speaker 2: Actually? This is great?

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Speaker 1: Oh what a guy.

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Speaker 2: It's great production, isn't It's great production?

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Speaker 1: All right? Before he became a bit of a preacher,

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Speaker 1: he was a great, great producer.

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Speaker 3: He still knows his way around at tune though. Blood

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Speaker 3: the hell anyway, this is pretty spicy news. Kanye announced

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Speaker 3: that he wants to get back with.

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Speaker 1: Yees, so he shared a photo of them. Bit of

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Speaker 1: a throwback Thursday, A bit of a Thanksgiving throwback.

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Speaker 2: I think it was.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, no, no Thanksgiving a while ago. Thanksgiving on

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Speaker 1: the weekend, it was. It was a bit of a

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Speaker 1: Thanksgiving throwback. Bloody now that did you know the Black

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Speaker 1: Fridays Thanksgiving?

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Speaker 2: Did you know that? I didn't know that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was on a bit of a Thanksgiving throwback.

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Speaker 1: You know he's a big he's a big Christian. He's Kane, yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: big on the God thing. And he's tied in a

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Speaker 1: bit of God in there. Somewhere I'm not exactly sure. Well,

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Speaker 1: the narrative God wants us to see is that we

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Speaker 1: can redeem it in all our relationships, is what he said. Oh,

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Speaker 1: I really want to know.

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Speaker 3: That's a real guilt trip on Kim, doesn't it? God

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Speaker 3: wants it? Don't you disappoint God. That's a bit of

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Speaker 3: a weird guilt trip to give kimmy kay, especially when

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Speaker 3: she's out there with Pete Davidson.

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Speaker 2: You know, she seems really happy on roller coasters with him.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well look, I'm not as a cross it as

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Speaker 1: you are. But anyway, so she wants to get back

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Speaker 1: with this guy with him and reminded me of how

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Speaker 1: bloody weird your relationship is with your ex, particularly given

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Speaker 1: that you know, often a lot of the time one

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Speaker 1: of you at least very much wants to get back

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Speaker 1: with the other one, but for the other one, for

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Speaker 1: the other person. In Kim's situation, she would probably cross

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Speaker 1: the street to avoid having a face to face encounter

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Speaker 1: with Kanye people on thirty one or six five. Just then,

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Speaker 1: why do you think it is so hard to see

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Speaker 1: your ex? Why do you think that is to you?

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Speaker 1: I've actually I'm reading this book which is called on

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Speaker 1: Love at the Moment by one of my favorite people,

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Speaker 1: the guy who invented the School of Life on YouTube,

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Speaker 1: Elaine de Berton, and I think he's got the answer.

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Speaker 2: His name is Elaine.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's French, his parents French.

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Speaker 2: Okay, cool, Oh it's Alan.

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Speaker 1: Alando Berton.

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Speaker 2: Alan.

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Speaker 1: I didn't want to do it in the wanky accent,

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Speaker 1: but you've taken me there. But no, his name is

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Speaker 1: Alando Berton and he's written this. I think he's got

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Speaker 1: the reason why it's so hard to see your ex,

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Speaker 1: which I'm going to read out because I think it's fascinating.

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Speaker 2: We're can have a bit of a play before then.

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Speaker 1: What do you think it's so hard to see your ex?

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Speaker 3: I think, and it really does depend on how it

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Speaker 3: ended with an ex, but I think more often than

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Speaker 3: not it gets a little bit nasty at the end,

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Speaker 3: not necessarily right or wrong on either party. But you know,

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Speaker 3: there's almost no such thing as a good breakup. It's

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Speaker 3: always a little bit of something there. And I think

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Speaker 3: when you see an ex, you're reminded of maybe a

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Speaker 3: time that brings a lot of emotion too, because you

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Speaker 3: know how much you hurt someone, or maybe you did

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Speaker 3: something within the.

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Speaker 2: Breakup that you're not proud of.

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Speaker 3: When you see them, it reminds you of that thing

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Speaker 3: you did or pain you felt, and so it's very

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Speaker 3: difficult when you see them again.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, bloody bind it.

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Speaker 1: It's a good answer. It's incorrect, it really yeah, it is,

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Speaker 1: it is really woods.

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Speaker 2: Well, it's not incorrect at the end of the day,

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Speaker 2: it's incorrect.

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Speaker 3: Well, no, it's just not what Alan de Button said.

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Speaker 1: It's sorry, and it's incorrect. Can that might be the

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Speaker 1: case you definitely feel obviously depending on the breakup. Yes,

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Speaker 1: you had a breakup where you know, you had to

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Speaker 1: do something drastic after the breakup, like, I don't know

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Speaker 1: whatever the thing was that you had to do, if

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Speaker 1: you had to move house, change locks on your house,

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Speaker 1: whatever it is.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's random examples. That would be tough. Yeah, that

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Speaker 2: would be tough. Can I have another guess? Do you

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Speaker 2: have another guess?

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Speaker 1: Guess?

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Speaker 3: Can I ask you the question one more time? This

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Speaker 3: is why it's difficult to see your ex Yes, and

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Speaker 3: you're not giving me anything more on my situation?

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Speaker 1: Why your situation?

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Speaker 2: Well, if I have I moved on or am I

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Speaker 2: still single? No?

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Speaker 1: Just in general, this is just a general thing.

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Speaker 2: Follow question.

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Speaker 3: It's a hypothetical, hypothetically speaking, give me thirty seconds.

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Speaker 1: No, I'm not going to give you thirty seconds. I

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Speaker 1: think you've had your answer.

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Speaker 2: Do you want to hear No, give me the real answer. Okay.

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Speaker 1: This guy thinks that ex lovers are reminders that situations

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Speaker 1: at one point which I thought had been permanent, had

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Speaker 1: proved not to be so.

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Speaker 2: Ah. The only thing permanent is in permanent itself.

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Speaker 1: Dear one, Yes, who's wayne in that scenario? I'm sure

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Speaker 1: there is something appalling in the idea that a person

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Speaker 1: for whom you would sacrifice anything for might in a

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Speaker 1: few months cause you to cross a road or a

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Speaker 1: bookshop to avoid.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the definitive.

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Speaker 1: End of love for one person can mean nothing less

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Speaker 1: than the death of a part of yourself.

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Speaker 2: How about that? I got a bit heavy at the end. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: a touch on the end there.

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Speaker 1: No, But the point is it's amazing when you're in

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Speaker 1: a relationship feels like that person is absolutely everything for you.

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Speaker 1: There's no one else, there can be no one else,

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Speaker 1: And an ex lover is a reminder of oh my god,

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Speaker 1: six months ago, I thought it was everything with you,

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Speaker 1: and it ended it turned on a time and then

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Speaker 1: I found someone else. So you avoid them because you're

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Speaker 1: just like, oh, I don't want to think about the

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Speaker 1: fact that I thought you were everything.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, jeez. That's pretty deep stuff there from devaudon.

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