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Speaker 1: You're listening to woman Woodie.

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Speaker 2: Do you have to tell your partner if there's a

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Speaker 2: former flame in the room and I look at the

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Speaker 2: flame for me, more than a squeeze, less than a relationship. Okay,

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Speaker 2: because I think we can all agree if it's a squeeze,

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Speaker 2: don't need to tell them.

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Speaker 1: Can I throw another factor into the ring here?

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Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah, God, you've got skeletons here, haven't you.

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Speaker 1: No, I don't. I'm just asking a question.

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Speaker 3: What I would say is, do you need to tell

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Speaker 3: your current partner of someone you've been in in the

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Speaker 3: room if you know that that person's not in my

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Speaker 3: circle anymore and we're probably not going to bump into them.

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Speaker 2: I guess all I think?

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Speaker 3: So, So, okay, what if what if it's like a fleeting.

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Speaker 3: We're at a flea market actually most weekends. I love

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Speaker 3: a flea market, and there's four stalls deep. It's a big,

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Speaker 3: crowded area, and it's like, like I've just seen them

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Speaker 3: a little bit in a crap, We're not at the

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Speaker 3: same event.

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Speaker 4: Have they seen you?

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Speaker 2: Maybe there was have you made eye contact.

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Speaker 3: Maybe there was a fleeting eye contact? Do you need

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Speaker 3: to go, hey, stop everything? Four stores down I've I've

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Speaker 3: had a fling with that person.

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Speaker 2: Don't have to, but can I ask you this question? Sure,

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Speaker 2: you're at the same flea market, same flea market, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: four stores are mim makes eye contact with a form

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Speaker 2: of flame.

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Do you want to know about it?

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Speaker 1: I don't.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well there you go. Well then I think that

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Speaker 2: kind of answers the question for you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because because if it was someone was going to

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Speaker 3: pop up in her life regularly, yes, I want to know, right.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, if she felt they need to go and talk

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Speaker 1: to him.

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Speaker 2: Exciting about it as well? I mean that, Yeah, there's

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Speaker 2: something excited I think anyway about like who's the who

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Speaker 2: is this person that you hooked up with? Yeah, well,

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Speaker 2: I find I've got a fascination with I found out

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Speaker 2: that Sam's type is just hot South American men, which.

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Speaker 1: You're similar to to that, Melissa, What do you reckon?

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Speaker 2: Hi?

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Speaker 5: I kindness to me personally, I want to know because

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Speaker 5: I want to see what the type was before me.

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm talking about.

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Speaker 2: You want to know the type, Yeah, because you want

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Speaker 2: to know if you fit the bill, or maybe because

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Speaker 2: because I've noticed I kind of think it's a win

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Speaker 2: win because if you are in the type, then you're like, hey, huge,

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Speaker 2: you know I'm in the vein. Or if you're outside

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Speaker 2: the type, then you go, wow, you've dropped everything for me.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah yeah.

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Speaker 5: But my husband's the opposite. So he doesn't want to

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Speaker 5: know who, what where when, not allowed to mention it,

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Speaker 5: not allowed to talk, completely, wants it out of sight.

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Speaker 1: How often is this?

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Speaker 2: How often is this happening to you?

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Speaker 1: Melissa?

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Speaker 2: And have you have you've been in this situation before?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Right, where he's spoken to someone that you've slept with

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Speaker 2: and you've just had to stand there and watch.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, pretty much.

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Speaker 1: Wow, facin. He doesn't want to know. That's fascinating that, Melissa.

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Speaker 2: Did you like, have you spoken to the former flame

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Speaker 2: and gone, hey, just so you know, my husband doesn't

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Speaker 2: want to know?

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Speaker 5: No, no, no, no, out of respect for my husband.

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Speaker 5: My husband just thinks that he just doesn't want to

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Speaker 5: ignorance his blessing. Yeah, he doesn't want to picture somebody

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Speaker 5: else that his white.

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Speaker 1: I love that.

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Speaker 2: Hey, great corner. So you can have yourself fund a

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Speaker 2: Remington grooming pack including perfect guys to Father's day like

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Speaker 2: the head there you go and rapid cop. That's for

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Speaker 2: your your ignorant husband. We've got here six five K Mace.

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Speaker 4: Hey here you're going good mate.

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Speaker 2: You and your partner have got a policy around revealing

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Speaker 2: former flames to each other.

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Speaker 4: Absolutely, So we got a simple agreement that anyone we

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Speaker 4: shake hands before in our circle we meet around that

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Speaker 4: we get to that they're slept with them.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, there's something.

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Speaker 4: You can never be blindsided. So I think there's nothing

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Speaker 4: worse center of rooms people. Everyone else knows they've slept

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Speaker 4: with them, but you don't know.

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Speaker 1: That if they're in the circle.

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Speaker 3: I couldn't agree more so so Mason, within your policy

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Speaker 3: that you've established with your partner, let's go back to

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Speaker 3: the flea market. I'm not sure if you heard the

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Speaker 3: flea market analogy before, but you see you absolutely heard awesome, Mason.

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Speaker 3: So you see someone four stalls down. They are out

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Speaker 3: of your circle of friends. So this is the first

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Speaker 3: time you've seen them for let's say three years, and

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Speaker 3: you probably won't see him again for a couple of years.

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Speaker 1: Do you do you bring up something?

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Speaker 2: Then?

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Speaker 3: Absolutely as you say, you say, for four stalls down,

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Speaker 3: I hooked up with that person.

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Speaker 4: If I go and look at there's another one, yeah,

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Speaker 4: just say no sap that one. I'll stop with him.

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Speaker 4: Whatever it is.

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Speaker 1: If friends said it, yeah right, so you know, so

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Speaker 1: if you see them, you just go hey, just to.

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Speaker 2: Avoid because you owe it to them to go hey,

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Speaker 2: just so you know. Yeah, you're on the inner with me.

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Speaker 2: You're my partner. That's my past.

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Speaker 4: No secrets, no secrets.

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Speaker 2: I think that's it, isn't it. It's just the confidence,

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Speaker 2: no past, your past. Yeah, but Mason, I feel like,

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Speaker 2: you know, for you and me, this is happening every

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Speaker 2: now and then. I think for Woody it's different though.

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Speaker 2: It's like, you know, every Roomy walks into is like

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Speaker 2: a high school reunion. He's like, oh, that's right.

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Speaker 1: Very funny.

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Speaker 2: You a little while.

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Speaker 1: And there it's funny and funny.

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Speaker 5: Him.

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