WEBVTT - FULLSHOW! The classes Laura Byrne failed as a child will shock you! 😲

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<v Speaker 1>Laura.

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<v Speaker 2>Come on, it's time for the pick up.

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<v Speaker 3>Hello ladies, Happy Thursday. Everyone here we.

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<v Speaker 2>Are thanks the Chemist warehouse heading today great savings every

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<v Speaker 2>day Thursday. Hof huh, Mitch?

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<v Speaker 3>Can you show us what's on your phone again?

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<v Speaker 2>What do you mean just show?

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<v Speaker 3>Just just light your phone up, press the button.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I was just who is that handsome man? Shut up?

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<v Speaker 2>You're gonna rid me for this.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, who've got as your screensaver?

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<v Speaker 1>Well?

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<v Speaker 2>Thanks for bringing it up? I had to remove my

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<v Speaker 2>ex boyfriend. I'll stop it.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't make this about your sadness. Make this about us

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<v Speaker 3>teasing you.

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<v Speaker 2>I've made my two choices a sadness or teasing.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a very handsome picture of a younger Mitch.

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<v Speaker 2>It's me about four years ago when I was about

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<v Speaker 2>thirty kilos light and I'm in my my my well listen,

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<v Speaker 2>healthare right, and I wanted to make it my inspiration

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<v Speaker 2>to look at every day.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you know that what I love about this? I

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<v Speaker 3>love that your inspiration for your own wellness is you?

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<v Speaker 2>What should have a photo of the rock or Tom Old?

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<v Speaker 3>Love it?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm about it. I think that that is the best

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<v Speaker 1>inspiration you can have.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you. I think I'll look cute, don't you.

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<v Speaker 3>I think you look cute too.

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<v Speaker 2>You look very hat my haircut on Friday and my

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<v Speaker 2>phone went off and the hairdresser went, oh, is that

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<v Speaker 2>your boyfriend's gorgeous?

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<v Speaker 1>It was me? It was me. That is such a

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<v Speaker 1>backhanded compliment because you're like, yes, it's me, I'm hot.

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<v Speaker 2>But also you don't recognize me.

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<v Speaker 3>You're like, I'm going to get back to that. That's

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<v Speaker 3>going to be me again.

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<v Speaker 2>Next week it'll be a photo of a double cheeseburger.

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<v Speaker 2>Just you wait, I'll change it aspiration.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, we have one of our favorites, ask on Cut

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<v Speaker 1>coming up. Where you guys running your deepest, darkest burning questions.

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<v Speaker 1>We do our best to answer them and we have.

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<v Speaker 2>A good one.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you do when your best friend dumps you?

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<v Speaker 2>Ask gun cut? Next here at the pickup. It's the

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<v Speaker 2>pickup around the country Thursday afternoon with Britt, Laura and Mitchie.

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<v Speaker 2>We are right now. I'll get half price off cosmetics

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<v Speaker 2>or of course at Chemists Warehouse. Let's do a Thursday

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<v Speaker 2>favorite Aska.

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<v Speaker 3>So ask aunt kat is where you call in and

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<v Speaker 3>you tell us you're deep, you're dark, and you're burning

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<v Speaker 3>questions that you have, And by goodness, we have a

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<v Speaker 3>doozy for you today.

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<v Speaker 2>We do. We have Bella who joins us. Hey, Bella,

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<v Speaker 2>what's your question for us?

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<v Speaker 4>Do I have to stop being friends with my oldest

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<v Speaker 4>guy in mate because he's now in a new relationship?

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<v Speaker 3>Has anything that happened between the two of you, Yes,

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<v Speaker 3>but years and.

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<v Speaker 4>Years and years ago, like it was the friends with

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<v Speaker 4>benefit situation, we were never in a relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>How long? How long? How long were you doing was

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<v Speaker 2>it a long term like you do it when you

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<v Speaker 2>were bored or did you do it just once?

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<v Speaker 3>Come, we're in the mill army more than once, and

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<v Speaker 3>so we love it.

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<v Speaker 4>It was about six years ago that we were that

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<v Speaker 4>we did have friends with benefits. It happened a couple

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<v Speaker 4>of times, a little bit of a you know, sometimes

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<v Speaker 4>we all have needs type of thing. And yeah, anyway,

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<v Speaker 4>that hasn't happened about six years and now he's dating

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<v Speaker 4>someone new and he said, we sort of can't be

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<v Speaker 4>friends anymore, and I'm like, well do I reached out

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<v Speaker 4>like is this now like a situation where I meet

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<v Speaker 4>his new girlfriend? I try to just make sure she

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<v Speaker 4>trusts me, or do I just have to let them

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<v Speaker 4>kind of be in their relationship and what will.

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<v Speaker 3>Be kind of thing him saying I can't be friends

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<v Speaker 3>with you anymore. Did it come from the girlfriend saying

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want you to be friends with her? Because

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<v Speaker 3>maybe he has maybe she's asked him, have you ever

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<v Speaker 3>been intimate with your best friend? And he said, look, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>something happened six years ago. And then that's what's made

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<v Speaker 3>her turn around and say, well, look you're not really

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<v Speaker 3>best friends. Then there's obviously something else or could have

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<v Speaker 3>been something else going on there.

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<v Speaker 2>But you can't ask. You can't do that like people

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<v Speaker 2>have with other people. It's in the past. That's insecurity

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<v Speaker 2>on the girlfriend's side.

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<v Speaker 3>Totally, but it is up to him. The fact that

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<v Speaker 3>he's the one that's come forward and he's prioritized the

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<v Speaker 3>new relationship over the friendship, I think it kind of

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<v Speaker 3>shows where you sit in terms of priority for him.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, here's what you got to do.

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<v Speaker 4>What do I gotta do?

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's worth one shot having the conversation with

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<v Speaker 1>him and saying, look, where is this come from? Is

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<v Speaker 1>it because there's a trust issue with her, is it

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<v Speaker 1>with you? Has something happened with us? Because I really

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<v Speaker 1>value the friendship. You know, you've been a huge part

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<v Speaker 1>of my life for a long time. If there's a

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<v Speaker 1>way we can make this work, I'd love to try.

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<v Speaker 1>And once you've shot your shot, then you need to

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<v Speaker 1>respect what he's asked for, respect the other girl, and

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<v Speaker 1>walk away. But if it was my bestie, I would

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<v Speaker 1>be I'd be going back one more time to see

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<v Speaker 1>if I could start out.

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<v Speaker 3>I have a big questions. No, I want to know. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>you're saying that's very platonic on your side. Do you

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<v Speaker 3>think that there could have been any feelings from him still,

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<v Speaker 3>because it's a very severe reaction for him to turn

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<v Speaker 3>around and say we can't be friends anymore. Maybe he

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<v Speaker 3>still held a flame for you.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know, honestly, it's been like six years and

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<v Speaker 4>we've been in positions where it could have happened again

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<v Speaker 4>and it hasn't. So I think, like for me, all

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<v Speaker 4>I can say it's from my end, it is completely platonic.

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<v Speaker 4>And you know you don't want to assume that like particular,

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<v Speaker 4>but you don't want to know. I don't want to

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<v Speaker 4>be a woman hating another woman, do you know what

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<v Speaker 4>I mean? And being like, well, she's obviously crazy, so

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<v Speaker 4>I think that something's obviously happened from that.

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<v Speaker 3>How long have they been together for?

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<v Speaker 4>This is about six months in, okay, and all.

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<v Speaker 3>Of a sudden they've been dating for six months, and

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<v Speaker 3>all of a sudden he's turned around and said, we

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<v Speaker 3>can't be friends anymore. Yes, I'm gonna I'm thrown out

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<v Speaker 3>of spade here I reckon. He said, nothing's happened, nothing's happened,

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<v Speaker 3>And then six months in he's gone, oh yeah, look,

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<v Speaker 3>ages ago we hooked up, but it meant nothing. And

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<v Speaker 3>now she's like, well, you lied to me, and this

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<v Speaker 3>is what I think happened, and that's why. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 3>think so maybe maybe try and find out if there

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<v Speaker 3>is more to the story and then call us and

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<v Speaker 3>tell us, are.

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<v Speaker 1>You in a relationship now, Bella?

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<v Speaker 3>Are you still single?

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<v Speaker 4>No, I'm single, which is probably what Well, maybe yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Go get a partner and then maybe.

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<v Speaker 2>You can be friends.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, because then you can do update and then

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<v Speaker 1>pack on the PDA, make it very clear you're in

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<v Speaker 1>your relationship. Yeah, maybe you can rekindle, but at the

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<v Speaker 1>end of the day, you got to respect.

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<v Speaker 2>Him, Well, Bella, give us up data okay to will

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<v Speaker 2>thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 3>No, thanks so much, Bella.

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<v Speaker 2>If you want to get in touch, get some advice

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<v Speaker 2>and hit us up on the pickup on socials.

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<v Speaker 1>If you need your best friend, Bella is also looking.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Bella's single, lad all right back after this other pickup.

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<v Speaker 2>It is the pick up. Thursday afternoon, Britt, Laura and

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<v Speaker 2>Mitch heading to chemists ware house today. Great savings every day.

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<v Speaker 3>So the other day I went to Woongong and I

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<v Speaker 3>saw my mom and she gave me a big bag

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<v Speaker 3>of some belongings from my childhood that she's been holding.

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<v Speaker 2>On to me.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just doing a clean out in thirty seven years.

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<v Speaker 3>She was like, oh, I went through the garage and

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<v Speaker 3>I found some things that you might want to keep.

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<v Speaker 3>And she gave me this massive bag and it was

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<v Speaker 3>full of literally every single certificate, every single award, any

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<v Speaker 3>note that my teachers had written, every report card that

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<v Speaker 3>I'd ever gotten, all my piano adjudicator notes. She kept them.

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<v Speaker 2>Parents keep the weirdest stuffin. My mom kept my fore skin. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like I feel like that trumps everyone. But

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<v Speaker 3>my mom kept these four massive diaries full of all

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<v Speaker 3>of my accolades as a young child, and I got

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<v Speaker 3>really excited because I thought, I'm going to take them

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<v Speaker 3>home and I'm going to read through these because obviously

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<v Speaker 3>my Mum's kept them because they're special, and like, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>they're telling me what a good kid I was. I

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<v Speaker 3>wanted to read out one of.

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<v Speaker 2>Them to you.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh no, because the overrarching thing that I discovered from

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<v Speaker 3>these four folders of memories from my childhood is that

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<v Speaker 3>I was actually a pretty average kid. Is that I'm

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<v Speaker 3>actually satisfactory. Is that I am pretty bad at pretty

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<v Speaker 3>much everything. So I always thought I would be a singer.

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<v Speaker 3>That was my real aspiration for life.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't know that.

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<v Speaker 3>Did you know that brit Laura actually can sing?

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<v Speaker 1>Not well, you know, Adele, but like you can hold

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<v Speaker 1>a tube?

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<v Speaker 3>Can I?

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<v Speaker 1>Though?

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<v Speaker 3>Can I?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, these are your report cards from what.

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<v Speaker 3>This one isn't a report card. This is I used

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<v Speaker 3>to go and I used to perform. I used to

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<v Speaker 3>go and stand up in front of an adjudicator and

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<v Speaker 3>I would compete in singing lessons. I was a singer

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<v Speaker 3>and I did piano.

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<v Speaker 1>Makes me feel uncomfortable thinking about.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so awkward.

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<v Speaker 3>So when I was eight years old. I sang Winnie

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<v Speaker 3>the Pooh, not just the normal Winni, but the things

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<v Speaker 3>which version it goes, Winni the Pooh, Winni the Pooh.

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<v Speaker 3>You a hardly little tubby, all stuffed with fluff. It's

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<v Speaker 3>Winny the Poo. I stood there and I sung it,

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<v Speaker 3>and I did these beautiful arm gestures, and I'll never

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<v Speaker 3>forget how great it was. And my mom never gave

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<v Speaker 3>me this little report card the first Here it is

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<v Speaker 3>Winnie the Pooh, Laura Burn, eight years old. This was clear,

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<v Speaker 3>and there was some feeling for the meaning of the song.

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<v Speaker 2>Although your actions.

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<v Speaker 3>Could be far more refined and a little bit more

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<v Speaker 3>concise so the audience can actually concentrate on what you're singing.

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<v Speaker 3>Except for some false intonations at the beginning, your singing

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<v Speaker 3>was mostly fine. Oh oh.

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<v Speaker 2>I love the fact that it's the arm gestures that

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<v Speaker 2>get us.

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<v Speaker 3>She's like, put the arms.

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<v Speaker 2>Down, girls. She still still does. We saw Dancing with

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<v Speaker 2>the Stars.

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<v Speaker 3>It's what she does. She distracts with eight or under.

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<v Speaker 3>I have never read anything more like unencouraging.

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<v Speaker 2>In my entire life. I went through this box because

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<v Speaker 2>you brought the box in and I found this one

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<v Speaker 2>for it. I have an actual report card at Saint

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<v Speaker 2>There's School, West Wollo Gong Laura Burnt, class five B.

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<v Speaker 2>I love. The tagline of the school is love can

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<v Speaker 2>do all things except so this is I've got all

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<v Speaker 2>your marks. Okay, So it's a M s R. A

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<v Speaker 2>is always are is rarely s as sometimes in religious

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<v Speaker 2>education they've tipped rarely, but the teachers then got a

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<v Speaker 2>stick of white out. Why did it out? And gone sometimes?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to be too hard.

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<v Speaker 3>He didn't even go and get a new report. It's

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<v Speaker 3>the very first tick. He could have just started again,

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<v Speaker 3>but he wanted me to know that he marked me

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<v Speaker 3>down and then thought about it.

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<v Speaker 2>What about this personal development? He's tipped sometimes, then gone

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<v Speaker 2>to rarely, ticked rarely? Why did it out? Gone back

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<v Speaker 2>to sometimes? And then just written in red pen It varies,

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<v Speaker 2>he can't make his wind up, shows self discipline varies,

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<v Speaker 2>accept responsibility rarely, respects rules and authority.

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<v Speaker 1>She doesn't accept responsibility really never complete task and is

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<v Speaker 1>focus and punctual rarely.

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<v Speaker 3>This is apparently I can follow directions satisfactory.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the lowest.

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<v Speaker 3>That's we can't get above that?

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<v Speaker 2>Can I just say the most lightly the best score

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<v Speaker 2>you've got, Laura. It's just so funny. Ready in library

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<v Speaker 2>you've scored always for show's interests in borrowing.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean she goes to check out the winning the

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<v Speaker 3>Poople bless her. I didn't want to peak too early.

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<v Speaker 2>She wasn't checking the Bible out. No, she was so good.

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<v Speaker 2>We love you, Laura. Guys.

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<v Speaker 3>This is what it says. If you did really poorly

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<v Speaker 3>in primary school, there's still hope you might end up.

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<v Speaker 2>In radio exactly get into borrowing. All right, we're back

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<v Speaker 2>after this with a very exciting guest. Imagine being diagnosed

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<v Speaker 2>with MS at the age of twenty. It really would

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<v Speaker 2>just throw you out. Imagine it, wouldn't it. Yeah, an

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<v Speaker 2>Ossie model. She's missed one of them, almost miss universe.

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<v Speaker 2>She's joining us next to tell us a story on

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<v Speaker 2>the pickup. It's the Pickup with Britt, Laura and Mitch

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<v Speaker 1>I have an amazing guest for you guys today. Now.

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<v Speaker 1>Her name is Madison Coddle, and she's twenty two years old.

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<v Speaker 1>She unfortunately has been diagnosed with MS and she is

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<v Speaker 1>on a mission to spread the word about it so

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<v Speaker 1>people know more about it, what it is, the causes.

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<v Speaker 1>It's taken her two years to get to that point.

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<v Speaker 1>She's a beautiful young woman. She was Missing Universe Australia

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<v Speaker 1>finalist and she's on the line. Madison Coddle, Hi.

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<v Speaker 3>Madison, Hello, thank you for having.

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<v Speaker 1>Me talk to us about your diagnosis and what that

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<v Speaker 1>looked like at the time.

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<v Speaker 5>Of course, So I'll take you back to June of

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<v Speaker 5>twenty twenty. I was ten months into my first business venture.

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<v Speaker 5>I was a happy, healthy twenty year old and I

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<v Speaker 5>woke up one morning and I was limping. I was

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<v Speaker 5>just struggling to walk and I wasn't injured at all.

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<v Speaker 5>I wasn't in any pain, and I thought it was

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<v Speaker 5>quite strange because other than that, I'm usually quite healthy.

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<v Speaker 5>So I did go to the doctors and receive a

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<v Speaker 5>MRI and we were in lockdown at the time, so

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<v Speaker 5>I did receive the news that I had multiple thorrosis

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<v Speaker 5>over the phone, and that's definitely the most scary and

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<v Speaker 5>the worst phone call I've ever received, and.

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<v Speaker 3>No support around you when you get that call.

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<v Speaker 2>So Madison, I guess when it hit you. And if

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<v Speaker 2>you're happy to talk about this, I mean, what thoughts

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<v Speaker 2>ran through your mind?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my goodness, I'm going to end up in a

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<v Speaker 5>wheelchair by the age of twenty five and I'm going

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<v Speaker 5>to have disabilities. But I am so lucky to now

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<v Speaker 5>live in Australia where we have modern day technology and

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<v Speaker 5>medication where we can pick up on it so early

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<v Speaker 5>and lots of people are able to live a completely

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<v Speaker 5>normal symptom free life.

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<v Speaker 1>For those that are listening that might not know about it,

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<v Speaker 1>can you explain what is ms?

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<v Speaker 5>Of course, So lost of thorrosis is when your immune

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<v Speaker 5>system attacks your nerves and it starts shutting down your body.

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<v Speaker 5>So you're some common sy so your ability to walk,

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<v Speaker 5>your bladder, your vision. So my ability to walk was

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<v Speaker 5>obviously compromised in the beginning, but I was able to

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<v Speaker 5>be given medication to reverse them side effects, so I

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<v Speaker 5>have no permanent side effects. And since being on that medication,

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<v Speaker 5>I have had no progress.

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<v Speaker 3>In terms of how you medicate and how you take

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<v Speaker 3>care of yourself. What do you need to do.

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<v Speaker 5>So day to day. I live a one hundred percent

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<v Speaker 5>completely normal life. If you met me, you would never

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<v Speaker 5>ever ever know that I have multiple sclerosis. Every four weeks,

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<v Speaker 5>so once a month, I go to the hospital and

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<v Speaker 5>I get an infusion, and being on that medication, it

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<v Speaker 5>just suppresses my immune system a little bit so that

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<v Speaker 5>it weakens it and it's not attacking my body. So

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<v Speaker 5>it's extremely, extremely unlikely that I will have any further

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<v Speaker 5>progression being on this medication. And it's so common now

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<v Speaker 5>for younger people to live a symptom free life because

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<v Speaker 5>we have these strong medications and the research and the technology.

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<v Speaker 1>Is this because you would die knows so early. So

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<v Speaker 1>for people that would diagnose further along with more symptoms,

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<v Speaker 1>can those symptoms be reversed or is it a like

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<v Speaker 1>we'll stop it from progressing, but you live with what

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<v Speaker 1>you've already got and you just don't get further.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, of course it change is case by case. But

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<v Speaker 5>for me, I got on top of it pretty quickly,

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<v Speaker 5>so it didn't get to the point where it was irreversible.

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<v Speaker 5>So I suggest if anybody does have symptoms that they

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<v Speaker 5>get on top of it straight away, because I was

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<v Speaker 5>so lucky that I got on top of it, and

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<v Speaker 5>now it's reversible and I live completely symptom free. At

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<v Speaker 5>the moment, there is no cause and there is no cure.

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<v Speaker 5>Some research shows that it's genetic. Other research shows that

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<v Speaker 5>it's just your living situations, but there is no official cause.

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<v Speaker 2>I've got a commend medicine for being so brave and

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<v Speaker 2>so open and vulnerable talking about it. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 2>live with a chronic illness. I have a brain condition

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<v Speaker 2>called Chiari malformation, and it's got very similar symptoms to

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<v Speaker 2>what you live with, and it can be debilitating physically.

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<v Speaker 2>But what a lot of people don't talk about is

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<v Speaker 2>the mental strain that isn't actually been caused by the

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<v Speaker 2>symptom of the condition. It is the toll that it

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<v Speaker 2>takes knowing that I mean, I guess the unknown. But

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<v Speaker 2>also I mean it took you two years to talk

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<v Speaker 2>about it, Madison. I had a similar situation where I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, why this happened to me? You know, especially

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<v Speaker 2>when it hits you when you're in your twenties. It

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<v Speaker 2>hit me when I was in my When I was nineteen,

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<v Speaker 2>I was diagnosed. And I don't know if you went

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<v Speaker 2>through a similar thing to what I'm experiencing.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, definitely, I'm so sorry you're also going through that.

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<v Speaker 5>But I question myself every single day.

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<v Speaker 2>Why me? Why me?

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<v Speaker 5>For the last two years, I think that I'm a happy,

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<v Speaker 5>healthy woman. I put so much good out into the world,

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<v Speaker 5>and it's so easy to question why me. But that's

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<v Speaker 5>why I did apply for this Universe Australia, because I've

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<v Speaker 5>decided that this is my wife. My why is to educate,

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<v Speaker 5>to advocate, to do everything in my power to make

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<v Speaker 5>a difference to the mental health of people that receive

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<v Speaker 5>serious medical diagnosis.

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<v Speaker 3>It's incredible, Madison, You've just goed incredible.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 1>And keep spreading the word, keep fighting the good fight,

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<v Speaker 1>and we can we you know, all of our loves

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<v Speaker 1>going out to you and we hope that you stay

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<v Speaker 1>happy and healthy.

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<v Speaker 2>Thanks Madison, thank you so much. All right, let's get

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<v Speaker 2>out of here. I have you missed any of the show today?

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<v Speaker 2>You can podcast it on the iHeartRadio app. Just search

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<v Speaker 2>that pick up and when cold and flu strikes, Demisen

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<v Speaker 2>gets it done. Always follow the directions for use.

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<v Speaker 1>Boys, standing by will and what are they're driving you

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<v Speaker 1>home today? What have we got on the show today?

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<v Speaker 3>Boys?

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, guys, how are you?

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<v Speaker 6>We are trapped in Indiana Jones themed escape room. We've

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<v Speaker 6>been in here since Monday. I mean, we're eating in here.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a bit flat.

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<v Speaker 2>One of us is sleeping in here. One of us, well.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm snoring a lot, so you're not getting a lot

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<v Speaker 6>of sleep. Yeah, we haven't been out since Monday. I

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<v Speaker 6>haven't seen our children, we haven't seen our partners.

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<v Speaker 2>I heard word my baby's teething. So I'm going home

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<v Speaker 2>to a roost, that's for sure.

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<v Speaker 7>Anyway, if you want to hear us continuing to puzzle

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<v Speaker 7>and try and make our way out of here with

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<v Speaker 7>minds that are no longer complete, then stay with us

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<v Speaker 7>and we're back on here in five.

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<v Speaker 3>See you tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 2>Guys, they a