WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: Mitch tried to pull a woman's skin tag off 🤯 0:00:11.000 --> 0:00:19.680 The pickup, Laura, come on hello everyone, like girls? 0:00:19.960 --> 0:00:20.160 Hi? 0:00:20.560 --> 0:00:22.959 Maybe Tuesday, fam Tuesday. 0:00:23.640 --> 0:00:25.680 I Ah, for one, can't wait. I'll do the show 0:00:25.720 --> 0:00:27.040 and I'll be happy doing it, but I can't wait 0:00:27.080 --> 0:00:29.480 to get home and binge. Yellowstone Part two. 0:00:29.760 --> 0:00:31.920 I knew you were going to say that, really, because 0:00:31.960 --> 0:00:32.760 I feel the same. 0:00:33.200 --> 0:00:34.800 I've never seen it. Is it really that great? 0:00:34.880 --> 0:00:35.040 Oh? 0:00:35.120 --> 0:00:36.040 Laura? You love it? 0:00:36.080 --> 0:00:37.920 How many series are there that I need to catch up? 0:00:38.120 --> 0:00:41.280 Currently? This is season five, but it's they've done season 0:00:41.320 --> 0:00:43.720 five and two parts and it's a big drama because 0:00:43.720 --> 0:00:46.080 part one had Kevin Costner, who's been the star since 0:00:46.120 --> 0:00:49.159 the beginning, but he's now gone. He's not in the 0:00:49.159 --> 0:00:52.240 show anymore. So Part two today is the first Yellowstone 0:00:52.240 --> 0:00:52.880 without him. 0:00:52.720 --> 0:00:55.520 Which is huge for people that are like really living 0:00:55.600 --> 0:00:58.600 in Yellowstone in their brain, Like it's a really big change. 0:00:58.800 --> 0:01:00.800 Well, I mean they just killed off the main character, 0:01:00.840 --> 0:01:02.680 did they? Or we don't know? He's dead. I don't 0:01:02.680 --> 0:01:05.160 know anything. I haven't seen it. It's not a spoiler. 0:01:05.240 --> 0:01:06.040 How did you see it? 0:01:06.200 --> 0:01:07.480 Well, they shouldn't shot in the head. 0:01:08.920 --> 0:01:11.040 Did he go on holidays? And he hasn't come back yet? Like, 0:01:11.080 --> 0:01:11.440 I don't know. 0:01:11.840 --> 0:01:13.280 Zone's a big park. Maybe he just went on a 0:01:13.360 --> 0:01:16.319 hike and maybe he'll come back. Maybe the whole season 0:01:16.400 --> 0:01:19.160 is the She's not dead, He's not dead. All right. 0:01:19.160 --> 0:01:21.120 Well, I'm looking forward to the updates tomorrow, match because 0:01:21.120 --> 0:01:22.319 you had been talking about it all day. 0:01:22.440 --> 0:01:24.679 Yeah. Well, part two of season five of the brand 0:01:24.680 --> 0:01:27.959 new Stand original series Yellowstone now streaming only on Stand 0:01:27.959 --> 0:01:30.200 Go watch at tap. Welcome to the show everyone. Oh, 0:01:30.200 --> 0:01:32.559 we have an update on the under sixteen internet bands today, 0:01:32.640 --> 0:01:32.960 we do. 0:01:33.080 --> 0:01:34.800 We were speaking about it all yesterday. I feel like 0:01:34.800 --> 0:01:36.520 half of Australia is talking about it at the moment. 0:01:36.800 --> 0:01:40.039 The big legislation change that's come in to ben sixteen 0:01:40.160 --> 0:01:42.399 or kids up until the age of sixteen from using 0:01:42.440 --> 0:01:45.400 social media. Now it sounds like a really great thing, 0:01:45.480 --> 0:01:47.319 but there were a lot of people who have come 0:01:47.360 --> 0:01:49.520 out saying that actually they feel differently about it and 0:01:49.520 --> 0:01:51.560 that sixteen is just simply too old. So we have 0:01:52.000 --> 0:01:54.320 a child expert joining us next to give us her 0:01:54.400 --> 0:01:55.280 thoughts on this as well. 0:01:55.400 --> 0:01:55.680 Yeah. 0:01:55.720 --> 0:01:59.160 Exciting plus right away after the break, I will explain 0:01:59.200 --> 0:02:01.000 to you how I think I have an ATO taken 0:02:01.040 --> 0:02:03.360 out against me A two yeah. 0:02:03.240 --> 0:02:06.480 From the tax office an a v O. Yeah, yeah, 0:02:06.600 --> 0:02:06.960 you mean. 0:02:08.840 --> 0:02:11.519 I was like, what's an at that's. 0:02:13.600 --> 0:02:14.560 He's asking you as well? 0:02:15.120 --> 0:02:16.880 Yeah, well that's that's the fraudy and sleep and a 0:02:17.040 --> 0:02:19.000 v O. I embarrassed myself in front of someone and 0:02:19.040 --> 0:02:20.040 then not happy. I'll tell that. 0:02:19.960 --> 0:02:22.880 Story by saying, ato, I've embarrassed. 0:02:22.520 --> 0:02:24.720 Myself clearly quite a bit. I want to go watch Yellowstone. 0:02:24.800 --> 0:02:28.760 It's the pick up girls. You don't know this story. 0:02:28.800 --> 0:02:30.480 I've been saving it to tell you on the air 0:02:30.880 --> 0:02:33.760 because I will only ever tell it once, because the 0:02:33.800 --> 0:02:36.960 embarrassment that exudes from my pause when I speak into 0:02:37.000 --> 0:02:38.720 existence what happened to me on the weekend is too 0:02:38.800 --> 0:02:39.280 much to handle. 0:02:39.360 --> 0:02:41.360 You don't have to tell it. You're like, it's okay 0:02:41.360 --> 0:02:42.560 to keep some things to yourself. 0:02:42.800 --> 0:02:43.080 Tell it. 0:02:43.280 --> 0:02:45.679 Yeah, I think it's gonna be boring. 0:02:46.240 --> 0:02:47.920 Yeah, No, we need to sacrifice something. 0:02:48.040 --> 0:02:51.480 So I was at lunch a friend of mine had 0:02:51.480 --> 0:02:53.400 her thirtieth birthday, and there was a bunch of people 0:02:53.400 --> 0:02:54.799 that it was a birthday party, and I was talking 0:02:54.840 --> 0:02:57.000 to this woman at length for like a good forty 0:02:57.000 --> 0:02:58.800 five minutes. You know, when you're really locking with someone 0:02:58.840 --> 0:03:01.119 you connect at a party and you're kind of stand 0:03:01.160 --> 0:03:03.600 there next to the cheeseboard you're pumping cheese, you're taking drinks, 0:03:03.639 --> 0:03:05.359 you're talking, and you're like, I like this person called 0:03:05.400 --> 0:03:08.720 a conversation. Yeah it is, yeah, yeah, but a good one, 0:03:08.760 --> 0:03:10.600 you know. And I felt a connection with this woman. 0:03:11.240 --> 0:03:12.239 And then she goes, you know, I'm going to go 0:03:12.240 --> 0:03:14.639 outside into the sun, and I'm okay, well you had out. 0:03:14.840 --> 0:03:16.600 But the whole time we were talking, I noticed she 0:03:16.639 --> 0:03:18.680 had some cheese on her chin and it looked like 0:03:18.840 --> 0:03:20.800 maybe like a I don't know, like a little sliver 0:03:20.880 --> 0:03:23.000 of an almond or like it was like long and narrow, 0:03:23.040 --> 0:03:24.079 and I was like, oh, it's a bit of cheese 0:03:24.160 --> 0:03:26.160 or a bit of like, I don't know, cracker like it. 0:03:26.400 --> 0:03:28.560 Which is also it's so distracting when you're talking to 0:03:28.560 --> 0:03:29.880 someone and you know they've got something on their face 0:03:29.919 --> 0:03:32.920 because you're trying to I mean, we've had this discussion before. 0:03:32.960 --> 0:03:34.840 I never tell people you're trying to bude your time, 0:03:34.880 --> 0:03:36.000 as in like should I tell them now? 0:03:36.040 --> 0:03:38.480 Should I interrupt their stories to say, hey, sorry, you've 0:03:38.480 --> 0:03:39.320 got something on your face. 0:03:39.400 --> 0:03:41.040 Yeah? Well I didn't let it. I let it go. 0:03:41.080 --> 0:03:42.280 And then she said I'm going to go out, and 0:03:42.280 --> 0:03:44.000 I thought, well, should be in the direct sunlight? You 0:03:44.040 --> 0:03:45.360 know this is gonna be blaring on her face. I 0:03:45.360 --> 0:03:46.720 don't want someone else to be like, oh, you've got 0:03:46.760 --> 0:03:48.640 food on your face. You're weirdo. So I went, hey, 0:03:48.680 --> 0:03:50.800 before you go, you've got something on your chin, and 0:03:50.800 --> 0:03:52.160 she went, oh do I Oh yeah, he got some 0:03:52.160 --> 0:03:54.000 food on your chin. I got your girlfriend, you know, 0:03:54.080 --> 0:03:56.120 like you know gay man woman. I'm like, yeah, yeah 0:03:56.240 --> 0:03:57.920 for you. Oh yeah, I got your bear protect you. 0:03:57.920 --> 0:04:00.560 You know, I've got your chin. Yeah. Kind of dabs 0:04:00.560 --> 0:04:03.760 her chin and then it doesn't come off, and I'm like, no, 0:04:03.920 --> 0:04:06.680 just down a bit. And then she rubs her chin again, 0:04:07.200 --> 0:04:10.480 and she kind of rubs over the food and then 0:04:10.480 --> 0:04:12.920 it kind of flicks back into position like you know 0:04:12.920 --> 0:04:17.240 those old school door stops on old vintage or like 0:04:17.440 --> 0:04:18.599 like a Mickey mouse's tail. 0:04:18.640 --> 0:04:20.080 It was like it was like flapping in it, and 0:04:20.120 --> 0:04:20.960 I was like, oh, it stuck. 0:04:21.040 --> 0:04:23.159 So I leaned and I do you mind if I 0:04:23.160 --> 0:04:24.760 grab it? So I lean in. 0:04:25.720 --> 0:04:26.520 Stop it now. 0:04:26.600 --> 0:04:27.760 I don't need to hear the end. 0:04:27.839 --> 0:04:31.760 Stop it. I'm uncomfortable. Please stop, make it stop. If 0:04:31.839 --> 0:04:32.800 I grab. 0:04:32.520 --> 0:04:35.680 It, I lean in because I'm my girlfriend. I'll grab 0:04:35.680 --> 0:04:37.200 it here, grab it, Get it off me, babe A 0:04:37.200 --> 0:04:39.560 piece of breeze. I lean in, I grab it and 0:04:39.600 --> 0:04:41.400 I kind of pull and I go, oh, that's attached. 0:04:42.080 --> 0:04:42.799 Oh my god. 0:04:43.839 --> 0:04:47.440 It was a skin tag on her chin and I 0:04:47.480 --> 0:04:49.440 pulled it and she kind of had a head jerk. 0:04:50.040 --> 0:04:51.680 Oh oh oh, no, you got I got the food. 0:04:51.680 --> 0:04:52.919 Don't worry, I got the food. It was it was 0:04:53.040 --> 0:04:59.960 it was just it was me, thanks babe. See outside. 0:05:00.160 --> 0:05:03.920 Did she know she knew she's gotten f skin tag? 0:05:05.839 --> 0:05:08.320 I have, actually, if it makes you feel better, I 0:05:08.320 --> 0:05:10.080 didn't I ever say this, but I did the same 0:05:10.080 --> 0:05:11.280 thing not that long ago. 0:05:11.800 --> 0:05:12.400 The same woman. 0:05:12.480 --> 0:05:15.920 It was a mole no no, and I. 0:05:15.880 --> 0:05:18.600 Thought it was like chocolate or I don't know. 0:05:18.839 --> 0:05:21.120 Guys, this is why you don't have to okay, I 0:05:21.200 --> 0:05:24.000 know you do have You don't have to tell people 0:05:24.000 --> 0:05:25.320 when they have things on their face. 0:05:25.360 --> 0:05:26.080 It's okay. 0:05:26.800 --> 0:05:29.279 It's okay to let people just live their life with 0:05:29.320 --> 0:05:31.760 a bit of a sliver and almond or a skin tag. 0:05:31.920 --> 0:05:33.880 No more. You just have to you just have to 0:05:33.960 --> 0:05:35.240 check more. If it's a skin. 0:05:35.080 --> 0:05:37.120 Tag, just don't play bomp it with it. I was 0:05:37.160 --> 0:05:39.880 twisted flicking. It's really stuck on there. 0:05:39.880 --> 0:05:41.360 I'm just going to really cut it off here. 0:05:41.520 --> 0:05:44.200 Anyone got a cauterization tool. This This woman's got some 0:05:44.320 --> 0:05:48.520 bris on her face, never got dry eyes. 0:05:49.320 --> 0:05:51.000 It's like the times like when you try and do 0:05:51.040 --> 0:05:52.080 a good thing in a backfires. 0:05:52.120 --> 0:05:54.840 Don't you remember when you I was really really sick 0:05:55.120 --> 0:05:56.520 and You're like, I'm going to come over and be 0:05:56.520 --> 0:05:58.560 like a really super great friend and I'm going to 0:05:58.600 --> 0:05:59.920 bring you some juice and some vita. 0:06:00.279 --> 0:06:02.640 And I was like, blessed us. Yeah, it was really nice. 0:06:02.680 --> 0:06:03.839 You came over and bought the jews. 0:06:03.880 --> 0:06:05.719 But then while you were even giving me the juice, 0:06:05.720 --> 0:06:08.040 you got a parking like three hundred bucks. 0:06:08.120 --> 0:06:10.599 Remember I did. I thought I was helping Britt and 0:06:10.640 --> 0:06:12.480 I parked, and yet three hundred and forty bucks I 0:06:12.520 --> 0:06:13.880 got fined just given ret juice. 0:06:13.880 --> 0:06:16.960 Maybe you should stop doing nice things, Mitch, No, it worse. 0:06:17.240 --> 0:06:20.640 Just this is your maybe just think I think is 0:06:20.640 --> 0:06:22.960 the lesson here and it just start thinking. Anyway, Listen, 0:06:23.000 --> 0:06:24.720 if you had, if you've had like a moment like 0:06:24.760 --> 0:06:26.479 this backfire, like a good deed that you thought you 0:06:26.480 --> 0:06:28.080 were doing the right thing. DMS on the pickup, we'd 0:06:28.080 --> 0:06:29.080 love to hear from. Yeah, we'll look. 0:06:29.080 --> 0:06:31.640 Speaking of doing good things, you guys might be aware 0:06:31.680 --> 0:06:34.760 that recently there has been the announcement that the age 0:06:34.800 --> 0:06:37.560 of kids on social media is going to increase to sixteen, 0:06:37.680 --> 0:06:40.039 so if you're under sixteen, you can't use social media anymore. 0:06:40.560 --> 0:06:40.760 Now. 0:06:40.800 --> 0:06:42.640 We spoke about it a bit yesterday and we had 0:06:42.640 --> 0:06:44.880 some really conflicting views on it. And coming up next 0:06:44.920 --> 0:06:47.400 we have a child specialist. Her name is Michelle Mitchell 0:06:48.080 --> 0:06:50.200 who has some interesting thoughts around whether this is. 0:06:50.120 --> 0:06:51.039 Going to be effective or not. 0:06:51.279 --> 0:06:52.560 Okay, that's next on the pickup. 0:06:53.760 --> 0:06:56.320 So yesterday we were having a really big conversation about 0:06:56.320 --> 0:06:59.159 this new legislation that's being passed to increase the age 0:06:59.200 --> 0:07:01.560 of kids on social media. So at the moment, it's 0:07:01.600 --> 0:07:04.839 currently thirteen for kids to access you know, TikTok and 0:07:04.880 --> 0:07:05.880 Instagram and all. 0:07:05.720 --> 0:07:07.200 Of the other big metal platforms. 0:07:07.560 --> 0:07:10.520 But Anthony Alberanezi wants that to be increased to sixteen 0:07:10.600 --> 0:07:11.280 years of age. 0:07:11.400 --> 0:07:12.480 This is what he had to say. 0:07:13.080 --> 0:07:16.280 This one's for the moms and dads. Social media is 0:07:16.320 --> 0:07:19.400 doing harm to our kids and I'm calling time on it. 0:07:19.680 --> 0:07:24.880 These tech companies are incredibly powerful and I want for 0:07:24.920 --> 0:07:28.840 Australian parents and families to know that the government has 0:07:28.880 --> 0:07:29.440 your back. 0:07:30.520 --> 0:07:33.160 So increasing the age I think for most people it 0:07:33.240 --> 0:07:36.679 sounds like such a great idea, and genuinely I also 0:07:36.880 --> 0:07:37.520 do think it. 0:07:37.520 --> 0:07:38.520 Is a good idea. 0:07:38.560 --> 0:07:41.160 But we had a discussion yesterday around what could be 0:07:41.160 --> 0:07:43.560 some of the downsides of this, because there has been 0:07:43.600 --> 0:07:44.600 some backlash to it. 0:07:44.960 --> 0:07:45.880 Now, we wanted to. 0:07:45.800 --> 0:07:48.000 Speak to somebody who has a little bit more skin 0:07:48.040 --> 0:07:49.239 in the game and knows more about. 0:07:49.120 --> 0:07:51.080 Kids than what we do. Michelle Mitchell. 0:07:51.240 --> 0:07:53.040 She's joined us on the show before and she is 0:07:53.040 --> 0:07:56.160 an award winning speaker, an educator, and best selling parenting author. 0:07:56.520 --> 0:07:58.360 Michelle, Welcome back to the show. 0:07:58.480 --> 0:07:59.400 I'm Michelle. 0:08:00.200 --> 0:08:01.840 It's great to talk to you guys again. 0:08:02.040 --> 0:08:03.520 Yeah, it's so nice to have you back. 0:08:03.560 --> 0:08:06.280 Now, there's been a lot of people coming out saying 0:08:06.520 --> 0:08:10.239 that this may not be the best outcome for kids, 0:08:10.360 --> 0:08:13.040 banning them from social media completely until the age of sixteen. 0:08:13.080 --> 0:08:14.120 What are your thoughts on this? 0:08:15.200 --> 0:08:18.080 Sixteen is rough now. I'm talking to parents every day 0:08:18.120 --> 0:08:22.600 about this, and there are parents of tweens that seem 0:08:22.720 --> 0:08:27.680 to be like so thankful, They're like, help us, Like 0:08:28.000 --> 0:08:29.880 we just want to keep our kids off this for 0:08:29.920 --> 0:08:32.080 as long as possible. If Alban Eazy had to come 0:08:32.120 --> 0:08:34.480 out and said ban it till kids are one hundred 0:08:34.480 --> 0:08:36.760 and one, they would have still cheered, you know, like 0:08:36.840 --> 0:08:40.560 they're just so grateful. But parents of teens are the 0:08:40.559 --> 0:08:42.600 ones that are going this is just not going to work. 0:08:43.040 --> 0:08:46.080 And I can really understand that. I think from a 0:08:46.120 --> 0:08:49.400 professional space, something had to be done. So I'm really 0:08:49.559 --> 0:08:52.200 I'm really grateful something's being done. And I don't have 0:08:52.240 --> 0:08:54.319 any crystal ball to see how this is going to 0:08:54.360 --> 0:08:56.920 play out, but I'm kind of with you. There are 0:08:56.920 --> 0:09:01.240 some real challenges once kids get into high school. They've 0:09:01.240 --> 0:09:04.400 got work commitments, and a lot of that is communicated 0:09:04.800 --> 0:09:09.240 on social media. When you're saying, you know, weight mate, 0:09:09.240 --> 0:09:12.000 it's against the law, which our beautiful Brad Marshall came 0:09:12.040 --> 0:09:14.960 out and put on social media this week. That flies 0:09:15.120 --> 0:09:17.959 until kids are about thirteen and fourteen, and then they go, well, 0:09:17.960 --> 0:09:19.679 what are you going to do about it? I can 0:09:19.800 --> 0:09:22.560 use a VPN, I can use my older brother's ID. 0:09:23.320 --> 0:09:26.320 And I have this saying with parents' of teens it's 0:09:26.400 --> 0:09:28.800 always better to give freedom while you're still in the 0:09:28.840 --> 0:09:31.760 position to do so, before they've got the power to 0:09:31.800 --> 0:09:36.320 actually take it. And I just worry that's sixteen so old, 0:09:36.640 --> 0:09:39.280 like in the sense that they're almost, you know, moving 0:09:39.320 --> 0:09:43.040 out of school. They've got so much smarts at that 0:09:43.160 --> 0:09:46.040 age that we're really waiting to quite a late stage 0:09:46.080 --> 0:09:47.240 in their lives. 0:09:47.679 --> 0:09:50.440 But the thing is, it can't be a baby out 0:09:50.480 --> 0:09:52.800 of with the bathwater situation. You can't go well, sixteen 0:09:52.840 --> 0:09:54.920 is to all, let's scrap it, Like what what's the 0:09:54.960 --> 0:09:56.880 alternative or do you see an alternative or do you 0:09:56.880 --> 0:09:59.280 just think it's as simple as making it fourteen? Michelle, 0:10:00.000 --> 0:10:00.480 I think. 0:10:00.320 --> 0:10:03.679 Sixteen's a big jump. I didn't like fourteen because I'm 0:10:03.679 --> 0:10:06.560 thinking like grade nine, Like it's just such a year 0:10:06.640 --> 0:10:09.120 where like teachers will say kids are just surreal in 0:10:09.160 --> 0:10:11.599 grade nine, so it's like handing them social media in 0:10:11.640 --> 0:10:12.559 grade nine is like. 0:10:12.480 --> 0:10:13.920 Oh, it's the recipe for disaster. 0:10:14.760 --> 0:10:15.000 Yeah. 0:10:15.040 --> 0:10:17.760 I kind of thought if we won at thirteen, we'd 0:10:17.760 --> 0:10:20.920 be making a really good start, and I thought that 0:10:21.040 --> 0:10:24.360 was like a really sensible medium point and we could 0:10:24.360 --> 0:10:26.160 sort of say the kids, look, it's against the law 0:10:26.240 --> 0:10:29.000 till thirteen, and it would really help parents hold their ground. 0:10:29.679 --> 0:10:33.120 I feel like sixteen is a huge jump, and there's 0:10:33.160 --> 0:10:35.800 a lot of practical things that just don't make sense 0:10:35.840 --> 0:10:36.319 about it. 0:10:36.800 --> 0:10:39.800 Sixteen's hard because you're you've got it like a driver's 0:10:39.840 --> 0:10:44.120 license and you're you're going and getting jobs. 0:10:43.920 --> 0:10:44.000 End. 0:10:44.160 --> 0:10:46.920 Yeah, it's I think it's too old. I love the initiative, 0:10:46.920 --> 0:10:48.600 and I love what they're trying to do. I don't 0:10:48.600 --> 0:10:50.480 think they've quite worked out how to do it yet, 0:10:50.480 --> 0:10:51.920 and I think they know that as well. I think 0:10:51.920 --> 0:10:53.640 they're very hyper aware that this is supposed to be 0:10:53.679 --> 0:10:57.319 a conversation starter and it's a temporary band aid until 0:10:57.400 --> 0:10:59.480 they figure out what works well. 0:10:59.520 --> 0:11:01.680 I'm looking at sixteen year olds who are standing up 0:11:01.679 --> 0:11:04.080 to their parents and saying, look, I'm moving out in 0:11:04.080 --> 0:11:05.760 a year and a half and you can't stop me. 0:11:05.960 --> 0:11:08.600 You know, Like they're at this age where they're really 0:11:08.640 --> 0:11:11.600 asserting their independence. And I think if we've got any 0:11:11.679 --> 0:11:15.760 hope of really maintaining connection with our kids, we want 0:11:15.800 --> 0:11:19.040 to have such an open dialogue with them at that age, 0:11:19.080 --> 0:11:22.840 and we don't want them going underground and doing things 0:11:22.920 --> 0:11:26.960 that you know is potentially just hiding. You know, I 0:11:27.040 --> 0:11:29.480 just don't think against the law. It's almost saying to 0:11:29.600 --> 0:11:32.480 kids because I said so, and I just don't think 0:11:32.559 --> 0:11:36.480 that's going to work. Yeah, it's a tricky one, but 0:11:36.600 --> 0:11:39.080 in saying that, you know, we're losing kids lives, and 0:11:39.120 --> 0:11:43.480 it's a serious issue, and you know, thank goodness that 0:11:43.520 --> 0:11:46.680 people are taking seriously. My challenge with it too is 0:11:46.760 --> 0:11:49.280 even when they get on, just say at sixteen, just 0:11:49.360 --> 0:11:52.360 say which you know, I don't think kids will wait 0:11:52.400 --> 0:11:57.840 that long, but they're still getting exposed to the atrocious 0:11:57.880 --> 0:12:02.720 content that's inappropriate for their age. Even at sixteen, it's 0:12:02.800 --> 0:12:07.440 doing nothing to block that content. So I still say 0:12:07.480 --> 0:12:10.559 it the tech companies that need to provide better protection 0:12:10.880 --> 0:12:14.840 for kids, and it's doing nothing to help that. So 0:12:14.920 --> 0:12:18.920 regardless of you know, whether kids are getting on at thirteen, fourteen, fifteen, 0:12:19.000 --> 0:12:22.599 or sixteen, I'm still not okay what they're exposed to 0:12:22.720 --> 0:12:23.880 once they do get on. 0:12:25.000 --> 0:12:25.160 You know. 0:12:25.280 --> 0:12:26.920 I also have this opinion of I'm a kid that 0:12:26.920 --> 0:12:29.240 grew up with the internet, right, and I learned so 0:12:29.320 --> 0:12:32.080 much about myself from being on the Internet, and it 0:12:32.120 --> 0:12:33.719 forms so much of who I am and helped me 0:12:33.760 --> 0:12:35.760 come out with my sexuality as a gay man and 0:12:35.840 --> 0:12:37.319 helped me I had no gay people in my life 0:12:37.320 --> 0:12:39.719 that the Internet really helped me. And I know, I mean, 0:12:39.760 --> 0:12:41.520 you just look at the how many kids are so 0:12:41.520 --> 0:12:44.280 comfortable with the sexuality, gender identity that's because of the 0:12:44.280 --> 0:12:47.120 Internet one hundred and ten percent. But then I also 0:12:47.320 --> 0:12:49.160 you can't speak with totality in that and say, well, 0:12:49.160 --> 0:12:50.880 then that's why it shouldn't be in So it's a 0:12:50.960 --> 0:12:52.000 very hard and tricky conversation. 0:12:52.080 --> 0:12:54.440 Yeah, the Internet, Mitch, has also involved a lot in 0:12:54.440 --> 0:12:56.719 the last twenty years from what was available and what 0:12:56.960 --> 0:13:01.760 the capabilitiesnet had to what is available now is vastly different. 0:13:01.840 --> 0:13:03.199 Yeah, it's a tough way we're going to going to 0:13:03.240 --> 0:13:03.640 solve it. 0:13:04.600 --> 0:13:07.280 Yeah, and in a positive and negative way. It's evolved 0:13:07.280 --> 0:13:10.000 as well. Parents have a lot better safety software these 0:13:10.080 --> 0:13:12.800 days as well, And I love how you brought out 0:13:12.840 --> 0:13:14.960 the positive. There's a lot of kids that I meet 0:13:15.000 --> 0:13:18.560 who have great, incredible social networks, and when they're talking 0:13:18.600 --> 0:13:22.160 about including gaming in some of these bands, that worries 0:13:22.200 --> 0:13:25.320 me because I know that some kids that I'm working with, 0:13:25.800 --> 0:13:28.640 one of their greatest lifelines are these gaming sort of 0:13:28.640 --> 0:13:30.120 communities that they're a part of. 0:13:30.880 --> 0:13:32.440 Well, Michelle, thank you so much for that. 0:13:32.480 --> 0:13:34.880 And honestly, it's a conversation that we keep having here, 0:13:34.920 --> 0:13:37.520 and I think it felt like a real victory. And 0:13:37.559 --> 0:13:39.120 then the more that we've had time to kind of 0:13:39.160 --> 0:13:40.800 think about it and talk about it, the more that 0:13:40.840 --> 0:13:42.600 I'm like, maybe it wasn't the win that we all 0:13:42.600 --> 0:13:45.160 expected it to be, and maybe there's more. 0:13:45.000 --> 0:13:48.040 To this all that. Yeah, much food for thought on this, 0:13:48.160 --> 0:13:49.280 So on raising the age. 0:13:49.600 --> 0:13:51.640 You can get some of Michelle Mitchell's books. You've got 0:13:51.720 --> 0:13:52.840 but you've got a bunch of the Moe. You've got 0:13:52.840 --> 0:13:53.600 six books out. 0:13:53.440 --> 0:13:57.400 Michelle, Yeah, I do. She knows the stuff. 0:13:58.400 --> 0:14:00.400 About Michelle Mitchell. Thank you for joining us once again 0:14:00.440 --> 0:14:00.920 on the pickup. 0:14:02.120 --> 0:14:02.800 Thanks jeeves. 0:14:02.840 --> 0:14:03.200 Guys. 0:14:04.520 --> 0:14:06.560 All right, well, look, usually we talk about really high 0:14:06.600 --> 0:14:09.720 brow stuff on this show. When we talk about the facts, 0:14:09.800 --> 0:14:11.920 we talk about what's happening in the news, all the 0:14:11.960 --> 0:14:13.640 hard hitting stuff, and I want to talk about something 0:14:13.679 --> 0:14:16.600 that's particularly low brow. I want to talk about the 0:14:16.640 --> 0:14:20.880 etiquette of what do you do when somebody you don't 0:14:20.880 --> 0:14:22.920 know that well farts around you. 0:14:23.040 --> 0:14:25.280 Yeah, look, I know that that sounds outrageous, but hear 0:14:25.280 --> 0:14:25.560 me out. 0:14:25.560 --> 0:14:26.880 The reason why I need to talk about this is 0:14:26.880 --> 0:14:29.320 because I don't know what is the right or the 0:14:29.600 --> 0:14:31.640 most etiquette thing to do in this situation. So the 0:14:31.720 --> 0:14:35.280 other day I went into I wanted to like the supermarket. 0:14:34.960 --> 0:14:36.080 And I was in Witchery. 0:14:36.520 --> 0:14:38.080 So I'm standing in the store and I am the 0:14:38.120 --> 0:14:40.720 only person in the store, right, and I am being 0:14:40.760 --> 0:14:43.160 helped by a really lovely sales assistant. 0:14:43.360 --> 0:14:44.240 She is so nice. 0:14:44.360 --> 0:14:46.920 We're having a chat, and then all of a sudden, 0:14:47.320 --> 0:14:50.760 she audibly farts in the middle of a conversation. 0:14:51.120 --> 0:14:52.640 Farts. It's so funny to me. 0:14:53.920 --> 0:14:55.400 It was unbelievable to me. 0:14:55.480 --> 0:14:57.520 Not only does it it's not a quiet one, it's 0:14:57.560 --> 0:14:58.720 not a smellless one. 0:14:58.880 --> 0:15:00.880 It is a smelly, loud fart. 0:15:01.080 --> 0:15:04.400 And she just steam rolls through, pretends like it hasn't happened, 0:15:04.520 --> 0:15:07.960 keeps talking, keeps serving, keep standing within a close vicinity 0:15:08.000 --> 0:15:11.120 of me, and I had to back away. But I 0:15:11.160 --> 0:15:13.440 also was like, is this not a situation where at 0:15:13.520 --> 0:15:16.560 least one person should acknowledge the elephant in the room. 0:15:17.040 --> 0:15:18.920 Let's say it was an accident. 0:15:18.920 --> 0:15:20.840 She didn't mean to let one on one. Why she 0:15:20.880 --> 0:15:23.080 assuming it was an accident. It's not like I'm going 0:15:23.120 --> 0:15:23.720 to get this girl. 0:15:24.800 --> 0:15:27.880 I think the rules are the rules of engagement if 0:15:27.880 --> 0:15:30.320 there's more than one person. So if it's more than 0:15:30.360 --> 0:15:32.840 one on one and it's a group situation, then you 0:15:32.920 --> 0:15:35.320 of course deflect the blame onto someone else. 0:15:35.640 --> 0:15:36.840 But if it is just. 0:15:37.000 --> 0:15:40.680 Two people in a situation where you know it's not you, 0:15:41.080 --> 0:15:42.120 they know it's them. 0:15:42.320 --> 0:15:43.920 I think you have to own it. But you have 0:15:43.960 --> 0:15:45.960 to go, oh, sorry, excuse me, and then continue on, 0:15:46.200 --> 0:15:46.600 or you at. 0:15:46.600 --> 0:15:48.520 Least have to be like, have you seen what's over 0:15:48.560 --> 0:15:50.120 here on the other side of the store, so that 0:15:50.160 --> 0:15:51.640 you walk away from the wafsh of stink? 0:15:51.640 --> 0:15:54.880 But what is so embarrassing about claiming a fart? Everyone 0:15:55.000 --> 0:15:59.200 does it, But there is something so mortifying about going, yeah, 0:15:59.240 --> 0:16:02.440 that's mine, you know, because the smell kind of diagnoses 0:16:02.800 --> 0:16:05.560 your level of health. Like, if it's really rancid, it 0:16:05.600 --> 0:16:08.360