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Speaker 1: A woman called Ashley has gone on TikTok will with

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Speaker 1: a pretty extraordinary claim.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I'll let her the talking here she is.

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Speaker 3: This is Ashley combined pretty with intelligent, strong, successful slaying

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Speaker 3: it live. You've got a very terrifying woman on your hands,

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Speaker 3: a very not easy woman.

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Speaker 2: What's slaying it live?

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Speaker 4: When you? When you?

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Speaker 5: You might as well ask to qualify the fact that

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Speaker 5: you're live slaying, like you ask analytes, who is not

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Speaker 5: a three year old on the team?

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Speaker 2: You do tend to pass slay? How do you so?

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Speaker 2: If you're slaying compared to slay live? What's the difference?

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Speaker 6: Means that you're doing a really good thing? Like slaying

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Speaker 6: is like the verb, and then sleigh is like the

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Speaker 6: past tense like ah slay.

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Speaker 2: But what about live? Where she said live at the end,

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Speaker 2: slaying live? Oh life? I heard live as well.

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Speaker 5: We're going well, I thought she was slaying live as

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Speaker 5: opposed to pre recorded slang.

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Speaker 1: Not only did we misunderstand it, but we misheard it

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Speaker 2: That's how old we are. Yeah, we found an agent.

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Speaker 5: That there was some twenty year old screaming at their

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Speaker 1: Anyway, I feel like the take home here is it live?

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Speaker 1: I feel like the take home here will is that

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Speaker 2: Attractive, Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, people actually get afraid of you. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and that makes it quite difficult to get through life.

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Speaker 5: Big cross to bear? Well, yeah, which cross to bear?

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Speaker 5: Person into a room being the hottest piece in there.

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Speaker 5: It's got to be a big cross to bear.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely, I am.

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Speaker 7: My god.

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Speaker 2: Now, I think many people in history are in that

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Speaker 2: set up, being so attractive that people are scared of them.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, they intimidated by them. I think it's actually a thing.

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Speaker 4: I don't think that.

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Speaker 5: I don't think the elmwork person walked into a room

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Speaker 5: and everyone was like, well, obviously can't talk to her.

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Speaker 5: I'm pretty sure there were people I would be scared,

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Speaker 5: But there are still other people who are going like,

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Speaker 5: you know what I'm going.

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Speaker 2: To say, high, I'd be scared to talk to Brad

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Speaker 2: Pitt for sure.

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Speaker 1: Right, sure we're talking about pinnacle of like attractive, right,

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Speaker 1: But I don't talk Butler tomorrow.

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Speaker 5: I don't think no one's talking to them though, you

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Speaker 5: know what I mean, there's still out there.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, I just said between Austin Butler, we're not I'm

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Speaker 1: just being told we're not talking to Austin Butler.

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Speaker 5: But if not tomorrow, if we were, cer not tomorrow,

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Speaker 5: if we were, if we were, I'd be scared. Well,

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Speaker 5: we'd be slaying it live with him as refers to

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Speaker 1: I think at the end of that, you and me

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Speaker 2: Well, absolutely not. Yeah, no I can't. I can't. I

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Speaker 5: I can think I can sometimes I can empathize with

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Speaker 5: the intimidating side of things, sure, Like I sometimes I.

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Speaker 2: Understand that people can be intimidated by me because you're

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Speaker 5: No no, no, I'm slightly chubby, white and bolding like

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Speaker 5: it's a yoga bud. But you know what I mean, Like,

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Speaker 5: it's not it's not a thing for me. But when

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Speaker 5: I'm an intimidating person, I know I can be an

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Speaker 5: the attraction factor, absolutely not.

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Speaker 4: And in fact, I want to double down in the

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Speaker 5: Would actually be scared of someone who was too attractive,

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Speaker 5: Like I don't think I really do not think this

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Speaker 4: And to prove a point, if we.

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Speaker 5: Got to a song, now, how would you feel? And

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Speaker 5: I mean, I'm just I'm slaying it live here. I'm

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Speaker 5: just a new thing. Have you called like a hairdresser.

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Speaker 5: I'm trying to think of a place where they're looking

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Speaker 5: and you were like, hey, I am so attragged.

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Speaker 2: Why would I say that that?

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Speaker 5: You will not you guys will not be able to

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Speaker 5: cut my hair because like you just want you just

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Speaker 4: That I don't want to. Someone's got to say it, dude.

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Speaker 5: And I got hypnotized earlier today, so you know I'm

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Speaker 2: Right now, right, I'll do it. You know I'm not

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Speaker 5: But I'm going a hairdresser and I'm saying, I'm I'm

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Speaker 5: so addracted. Can you please cut my head? Because no

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Speaker 5: one else can? That is you're going to be that

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Speaker 2: All right, let's do it.

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Speaker 4: Let's do it again.

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Speaker 7: Good afternoon, Elements Hair. This is Lisa, okad Lisa.

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Speaker 2: I'm just looking to hopefully booking a hair appointment.

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Speaker 7: There a now we come to the right place. Excellent, Okay,

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Speaker 7: who normally does it for you?

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Speaker 2: This would actually be my first time salon.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I had a few issues with the last salon,

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Speaker 1: so yeah, looking for a change.

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Speaker 7: Okay, beautiful, It's probably going to be a couple of weeks,

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Speaker 7: so that's the only thing that's okay.

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Speaker 1: Actually, before we make a time, the reason I had

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Speaker 1: is always really awkward, but I just feel like it's

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Speaker 1: better to talk about it beforehand.

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Speaker 2: I'm very a very good looking guy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I just feel like it's better if I

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Speaker 1: let you know this before I come in. Yeah, So, like,

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Speaker 1: do you do you think how much of this as

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Speaker 1: yourself or if there's someone else there? But do you

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Speaker 1: think there's going to be a hairdresser that is able

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Speaker 7: Definitely?

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Speaker 2: Okay, just this does seem really funny. I do get that,

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Speaker 1: The reason I moved from the last salon is because

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Speaker 7: Okay, all right, so I reckon Chloe's your girl.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, so is Chloe in again? I'm so sorry

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Speaker 7: Yes, she's getting married very soon.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's I'd hate to wreck that.

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Speaker 7: No, all right, So how does Wednesday, the twenty sixth,

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Speaker 7: the June sound that's the first one we've got.

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Speaker 2: It sounds good.

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Speaker 1: So just just just a few more things, like when

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Speaker 1: will be there? Because I just I do get hounded

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Speaker 1: a lot for like you, How can I have your

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Speaker 7: And that'll be There'll only be one other person working

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Speaker 2: Actually, okay, that's okay, that's great. That that's good to know.

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Speaker 7: What was your name?

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Speaker 2: My name's Kevin, and your surname Kevin White.

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Speaker 7: And your phone number zero four? They want to ask

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Speaker 7: you on a date? Yeah, what is it again?

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Speaker 2: Are you? Are you married yourself or you're in a relationship?

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Speaker 7: And yes I am.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's good. That's good. Is every all the staff

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Speaker 2: they're married? Yeah, they're they're are marriage.

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Speaker 7: Okay, yeah, some to men, some to women.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so yeah, awesome.

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Speaker 1: Before we go again, you might be uncomfortable doing this

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Speaker 1: in person, and that's that's totally fine. I get that,

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Speaker 1: and people have been like this before. But I'm obviously

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Speaker 1: more than happy to post for photos and stuff. If

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Speaker 2: But I just the only thing would be I just

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Speaker 7: That's yeah, no worries, all right?

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Speaker 8: Cool?

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Speaker 7: So yeah, n I'm thirty on Wednesday the twenty six.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's perfect.

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Speaker 5: Bye.

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Speaker 4: I hate you that guy.

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Speaker 2: It was hard. It was hard, hard live. It's a

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Speaker 4: Do you think she bought it?

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I think she bought it up until you said your

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Speaker 4: name was Kevin. Do you like getting approached.

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Speaker 2: In real life? When I'm talking online, I'm.

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Speaker 5: Talking I'm talking in life approach Because my housemate, my partner,

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Speaker 5: of my best friends are best friend Cody, she's living

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Speaker 5: I got codes to explain the story right now, Cody there, Yes, hello,

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Speaker 2: You run us through what happened to the cafe? Cody?

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Speaker 9: oh no, it's goods fine, It's like I can just

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Speaker 9: And she was like, you know, do you live around here?

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Speaker 9: And I was like, oh, not really, even though I

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Speaker 9: glad you brought this up, because I don't think Will

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Speaker 9: he told well, and my like instinctual reaction was just like, oh, like,

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Speaker 9: I'm just trying to get my own coffee, you know,

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Speaker 9: I'm just trying to like move my life and it's

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Speaker 9: early in the morning and I'm a bit grumpy and

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Speaker 9: I just want to have my coffee.

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Speaker 2: That's doing.

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Speaker 9: But when I told Will, he was like, that's so nice,

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Speaker 9: is it nice?

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Speaker 1: Well, isn't isn't ego boost kind of cody like is it?

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Speaker 1: Kind of like, well, I must be I'm killing it

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Speaker 1: this morning because the was it the barrista?

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Speaker 8: It wasn't the first.

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Speaker 9: I wish it was a frist because the first it

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Speaker 9: I think I followed up with telling you that what

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Speaker 9: But it was really creepy, you know, And I think

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Speaker 9: You know, someone who liked there was tweeted would be nice.

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Speaker 5: But one of the stories you said to me, and

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Speaker 1: So I, generally speaking wouldn't have the courage to approach

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Speaker 2: You are approaching them, for you to approach them so nice.

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Speaker 9: When people come up to you and just talk to

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Speaker 9: What about some star fishes, It's fine.

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Speaker 5: Whereas you were saying that you were in a backpackers

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Speaker 2: I've been spoken to him.

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Speaker 9: You really you jumped into it. He had been flirting

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Speaker 5: Fla just like what like, come on, you've just been

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Speaker 2: Understand anyone thinks that's wild?

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Speaker 4: Right? A massive spectrum there?

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Speaker 2: Thanks coming on codes, no problem love talking about Dick pic.

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Speaker 1: I've only been approached once, so I had like a

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Speaker 2: Let's go to Michelle here.

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Speaker 1: I'm thirty one sixty five, Michelle, what are your thoughts

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Speaker 2: Do you want to be approached out there in public?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 11: Look, I'm sixty years old. If someone approached me, I'll

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Speaker 12: To interact with each other because they done on the internet.

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Speaker 8: Gil.

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Speaker 5: I actually spoke to a friend of mine the other

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Speaker 11: Yeah, see, I don't like online. Sorry, listening to my

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Speaker 5: But I I think you're listening to your did you

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm listening to my name, Michelle.

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Speaker 4: I feel like you might even struggle.

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Speaker 5: We've got we've got Brett who's caught up on thirteen

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Speaker 4: Brett, we're talking about approaching women in.

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Speaker 8: Public here we are.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, how do you how do you?

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Speaker 4: How do you feel about that?

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Speaker 8: Well, like you mean, I suppose you guys could put

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's so funny you say that, Brett, because I

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Speaker 8: There you go. That answers your question. You know, So

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Speaker 1: I think picking up on the signal of like, clearly,

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Speaker 5: But I think maybe that's where we like run into

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Speaker 5: I've never had the history of feeling creeped out by

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Speaker 5: So it's almost like you can't rely on everyone to

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Speaker 1: There, yeah, which again I just hope people learn the

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Speaker 5: I think that maybe bad good good start. We've got

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Speaker 5: Charlie on thirty one and sixty five. Charlie, you're in

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Speaker 12: I would much prefer to be approached. So I'm as

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Speaker 12: I said, I'm thirty, I'm on hinge. I have been

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Speaker 5: How do you feel about the creep out factor that

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Speaker 2: Or are you are you okay? Kind of you know,

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Speaker 12: Oh No, Personally, I'm fine standing my ground, but honestly,

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Speaker 12: He just started chatting to her in the coffee line,

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Speaker 2: And when it works, it's awesome.

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Speaker 1: Charlie, give us the dream scenario of how you want

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Speaker 4: Oh, great question.

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Speaker 2: What's the best way a guy can make you? Question?

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Speaker 12: Well, because I'm so short, I'm like literally one hundred

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Speaker 12: in the supermarket and just be like, hey, can I

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Speaker 12: can you just grab that slope of bread for me?

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Speaker 8: Love?

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Speaker 2: As in, so you would approach a going this scenario.

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Speaker 12: Well either or if someone sees me struggling, I'd love

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Speaker 6: Oh?

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Speaker 12: All the way around right?

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Speaker 2: Practice. Also, because you just want the bread?

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Speaker 1: So are you just hanging around the bread aisle currently,

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Speaker 1: Charlie waiting for someone to offer to reach the top shelf.

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Speaker 5: This story is equally tragic, equally hilarious, So stay with me.

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Speaker 5: There's a remote Amazonian tribe who haven't have never had

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Speaker 2: Yeah, great audiover. There's two thousand people in the tripe.

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Speaker 2: It's called the Marubo tribe in Brazil. Yeah, okay. Last

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Speaker 2: week Elon Musk linked them up with the Internet and computers.

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Speaker 5: Well, I assume so big, felt, I mean, they can't

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Speaker 4: It's not like they're breathing the Internet, are they.

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Speaker 2: But I'm like, I know that you've got they've got screens. Okay,

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Speaker 4: We have described it all.

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Speaker 2: What this got the Internet?

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Speaker 5: Okay, so let's just say we can assume it comes

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 2: They didn't just get the wires.

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Speaker 5: So yeah, no, they they they've got a little fox

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Speaker 4: There it is, guys. You can't act us, but it's there.

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Speaker 12: I know.

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Speaker 5: So they've got so they've got a computer or how

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Speaker 5: many computers is tablets?

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Speaker 4: Whatever it is.

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Speaker 2: Elon mus gives.

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Speaker 5: I asked you before, what do you think the first

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Speaker 2: that I looked at.

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Speaker 1: Oh great, okay, And I remember this so well, but

446
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Speaker 1: it was it was. It was so exciting because I

447
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Speaker 1: was I was, you know, probably probably under ten.

448
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Speaker 2: We our family home is quite late to get internet

449
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Speaker 2: as well.

450
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Speaker 1: So the first time our family home got internet, i'd

451
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Speaker 1: heard rumors about a website called rate my pooh.

452
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Speaker 4: Was the first.

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Speaker 2: The first time I had like Mom and Dad said

454
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Speaker 2: that I'll never forget that. You've got ten minutes. You

455
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Speaker 2: can look at whatever you want. And I was like,

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Speaker 2: oh my.

457
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Speaker 1: God, I could look up this site that everyone's talking about,

458
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Speaker 1: and it was as good as I could have possibly

459
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Speaker 1: imagined names on the tin but it's it's and you

460
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Speaker 1: just sit there and sift through them and just go

461
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Speaker 1: seven eight.

462
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Speaker 4: Oh you ray them, you're a rader.

463
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Speaker 1: Something would upload uploaded and and then you sit there

464
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Speaker 1: and go like, oh good, one, seven.

465
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Speaker 4: How did you rate if it was good or not?

466
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Speaker 2: So for me, there were a number of categories probably

467
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Speaker 2: should get into all right.

468
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Speaker 5: I wanted the people to join in here because I

469
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Speaker 5: obviously tell you what this tribe looked up first. And

470
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Speaker 5: as I said, equal parts hilarious, ego parts tragic, but

471
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Speaker 5: thirty one and six five. We found like it was

472
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Speaker 5: quite a nostalgic thing to be doing with the team,

473
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Speaker 5: thinking about the first thing that you looked up on

474
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Speaker 5: the internet, because it obviously changes with how old.

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Speaker 2: You were when the Internet was new to you.

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Speaker 5: So because you and I are millennials, you know, we

477
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Speaker 5: would have been under ten. Our senior producer l J.

478
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Speaker 5: She was thirty five, so, like you know, and obviously

479
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Speaker 5: naturally they're going to be really different. So I actually

480
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Speaker 5: want to throw outside of the producers. Yeah, we were

481
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Speaker 5: a bit of a mixed bag here. Let's kick it off, analyst,

482
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Speaker 5: What was the first thing you looked on with the Internet.

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Speaker 6: I was about seven or eight years old and I

484
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Speaker 6: played Farmville on Facebook.

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Speaker 5: Well, you see that is so advanced. This book wasn't

486
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Speaker 5: out till we were in year twelve.

487
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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't get Facebook until I finish school.

489
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Speaker 5: Right, so that already quantum leap. And look, I'll tell

490
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Speaker 5: you this tribe tragically, first thing that they hit up

491
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Speaker 5: on one part was.

492
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Speaker 2: Social media, so obviously was the first thing.

493
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Speaker 5: Obviously, Rigna obviously put social media on there as well,

494
00:21:18,800 --> 00:21:22,760
Speaker 5: and that just would absorbed them and apparently totally destroyed

495
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Speaker 5: a lot of the social structures within the tribe immediately,

496
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Speaker 5: it's awful. So we've got all these people who've got

497
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Speaker 5: responsibilities really to the rest of the tribe, who were

498
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Speaker 5: just dropping them to go and sit in front and

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Speaker 5: trawl through a phone.

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Speaker 2: Or a screen. It happens that quickly, rapidly. Yeah, that's terrible.

501
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Speaker 5: Again to outside thirty one and sixty five, first thing

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Speaker 5: that you used the internet for?

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Speaker 2: Come on, l J, you're thirty five? Where were Where

504
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Speaker 2: were you somewhere in.

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Speaker 8: The noise my cave with the other.

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Speaker 4: What's the first thing you looked up?

507
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Speaker 5: Ask Jeeves?

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Speaker 4: Oh, yeah, I've remembered Jeeves.

509
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Speaker 6: All the text was still like with lines underneath and

510
00:22:04,800 --> 00:22:09,080
Speaker 6: like cold in It wasn't even in a digestible form, not.

511
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Speaker 2: At all, very unapproachable. But you could ask Jeeves anything though.

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Speaker 4: There's something.

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Speaker 5: Isn't it funny that like all of us before social

514
00:22:14,800 --> 00:22:16,840
Speaker 5: media and probably you guys listening right now, you probably

515
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Speaker 5: all had a website.

516
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Speaker 4: There were all these cool like.

517
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Speaker 2: One of the first websites that came to my mom

518
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Speaker 2: was Eborm's World. What was it? I'm not sure if

519
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Speaker 2: you ever went there.

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Speaker 4: There was everything. It was like this one stop shop

521
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Speaker 4: for like, do you want to be entertained? Oh, you're

522
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Speaker 4: not entertained.

523
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Speaker 5: It was like, you know, there was like there was

524
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Speaker 5: stick cricket on there. You could watch funny videos on there.

525
00:22:34,520 --> 00:22:37,040
Speaker 5: You know, there was like it was everything. It was

526
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Speaker 5: this like one stop shot where they used to have

527
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Speaker 5: these Yeah, one stop show. I suppose that's a good analogy.

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Speaker 5: It's like having a convenience store. There was not The

529
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Speaker 5: internet wasn't bespoke. There weren't places that you would go

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Speaker 5: for a certain thing. You just go to a website

531
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Speaker 5: like I'm going to go and have fun on a

532
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Speaker 5: website for.

533
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Speaker 2: Half an hour. They housed all the fume. Yeah, and

534
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Speaker 2: there weren't that many websites. Six five What did you

535
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Speaker 2: use the internet for? First?

536
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Speaker 5: We'll take your calls right up next. Obviously going for

537
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Speaker 5: a trip with nostalgia.

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Speaker 1: I've got to Melissa here, Melissa, what's the first thing

539
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Speaker 1: you looked up on the internet?

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Speaker 9: Besides it's like searching everything.

541
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Speaker 10: It was MSN.

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Speaker 9: That's how we all managed to work out to go

543
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Speaker 9: meet up at the top shop.

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Speaker 2: Messenger.

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Speaker 1: Can I ask you a question, Melissa, because this was

546
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Speaker 1: a big sticking point for me when I was on

547
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Speaker 1: MSN messenger. If you saw the person that you liked

548
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Speaker 1: come online, so you know, you got a notifications the

549
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Speaker 1: person you like that come online. Would you instigate the

550
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Speaker 1: conversation or would you wait for them to talk to you?

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Speaker 10: No, of course it's in a smiley face.

552
00:23:40,119 --> 00:23:43,520
Speaker 5: What was your messenger name? What was your first handle?

553
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Speaker 5: Can you remember that?

554
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Speaker 9: Flatter Lisa by, Flatter Lissa by And then it turned

555
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Speaker 9: to Madam Chinks.

556
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Speaker 5: Of course you're reaching out first, Madam Kinks Sen. She

557
00:24:00,840 --> 00:24:04,520
Speaker 5: sent the handcuff of Chloe. I'm fitting one six. Hey,

558
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Speaker 5: you get a Chloe. You were talking about the first

559
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Speaker 5: thing you used the internet for.

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Speaker 3: Hey, yes, so I was.

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Speaker 9: I don't know if you guys remember it, but I

562
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Speaker 9: was on the website Neo Pets.

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Speaker 10: Do you remember the Neo pets?

564
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Speaker 4: I don't.

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00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:22,359
Speaker 1: Neo or Neo Neo, n Eo Neo Penny. So you

566
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Speaker 1: go to that website and you would feed a digital pet.

567
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Speaker 10: That's exactly right.

568
00:24:27,440 --> 00:24:29,719
Speaker 11: You see them, you could get more they hatched.

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Speaker 2: It was sounds like a tamagotchi.

570
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Speaker 10: Yeah, pretty much.

571
00:24:34,600 --> 00:24:39,520
Speaker 5: Online Wow, amazing, amazing. Hey, obviously YouTube was out in

572
00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:41,000
Speaker 5: and around the advent of the Internet, so a lot

573
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Speaker 5: of people just would have been clips like this.

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Speaker 2: Julie Johnny bit me, oh, Juley Jomy. Do you know

575
00:24:55,160 --> 00:24:59,680
Speaker 2: what started YouTube? No, the Janet Jackson incident started.

576
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Speaker 4: No, I think started by started I'm so close.

577
00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:07,359
Speaker 2: I'm always so close to a good fact.

578
00:25:07,359 --> 00:25:08,760
Speaker 4: That's the third time you've tried to.

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Speaker 2: Hand that up on the show, and I mean hoping

580
00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:11,359
Speaker 2: that one time you just let me have it.

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Speaker 10: Let's go to.

582
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Speaker 4: Jackson's super.

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Speaker 2: Let's go No, but I didn't clarify that that is

584
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Speaker 2: a noteworthy fact though.

585
00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:28,320
Speaker 5: That started the the Google image thing, which is where

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Speaker 5: people could start because everyone wanted to see the photo. Yes,

587
00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:33,639
Speaker 5: they were looking. They was just typing in Google, where's

588
00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:35,800
Speaker 5: this Jennet Jackson thing? And then it took all these

589
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Speaker 5: people requesting the image for the people at Google to go, hey,

590
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Speaker 5: what if we put an image tab here?

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Speaker 2: So still a good fact from me. Let's go to Rob.

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Speaker 1: Two minutes offcation, Robin, what was your first Internet search?

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Speaker 3: Hi?

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Speaker 10: My first Google? I'm wasn't Google. It was when the

595
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Speaker 10: internet right was really young and really early, and there

596
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Speaker 10: was this it was like a chart room called I See.

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Speaker 2: You ic Q, but ICQ.

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Speaker 13: The chatter.

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00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:09,080
Speaker 2: S was MSN oh yeah, yeah, yeah it was.

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Speaker 10: And like my cousin gave me a computer and I

601
00:26:12,080 --> 00:26:14,520
Speaker 10: didn't even know how to turn it on. And the

602
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Speaker 10: first thing he introduced me to was this ICQ. So

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Speaker 10: I was in this weird chat group for you know

604
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Speaker 10: the first time in my life. Let's talk into all

605
00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:25,520
Speaker 10: these people. You know, you just type all your messages out.

606
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Speaker 10: It was nothing verbal and the weirdest conversations with people

607
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Speaker 10: all around the world. It was just really weird.

608
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Speaker 2: It's randoms like chat roulette, which we all know what

609
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Speaker 2: that became.

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Speaker 5: That became something that began thirteen one six five, which

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Speaker 5: I actually wouldn't have knowing Captain Poopan's our ep what

612
00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:44,560
Speaker 5: his Oh yes, the internet was?

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Speaker 2: What was it? What was a big feul the Jennet

614
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Speaker 2: Jackson moment?

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Speaker 5: What did you go for? The big fel thing needs

616
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Speaker 5: in Vogue?

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Speaker 2: Did you guys remember that mini clip clip?

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Speaker 5: Yes, one that was red hash That was game for me.

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Speaker 5: We were talking about those one stop shops just before

620
00:27:03,800 --> 00:27:06,040
Speaker 5: these Like I was talking about a Bomb's World as well,

621
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Speaker 5: and Button Bush and Tom looked up the old Ebomb's

622
00:27:09,280 --> 00:27:11,960
Speaker 5: World landing page and this is like for people that

623
00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:14,400
Speaker 5: aren't like this is the this is what they said.

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00:27:14,440 --> 00:27:18,360
Speaker 5: They specialized in hilarious movies, pictures, audios, jokes, optical illusions,

625
00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:22,400
Speaker 5: celebrity humor, celebrity prank, phone calls, flash cartoons, and flash games,

626
00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:23,240
Speaker 5: just to name a few.

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00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:24,680
Speaker 2: That's awesome. I'm into it.

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00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:35,760
Speaker 5: Scott's called I've been having a great time. When I

629
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Speaker 5: say time, I mean yeah, time in the studio.

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Speaker 2: Thanks for clarifying, Will, thank you so hundred clarifying.

631
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Speaker 4: Ryan Shelton is in here with us.

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Speaker 2: I love, I'm so happy to be here. It's great

633
00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:51,640
Speaker 2: to see you guys. What have you seen of Will

634
00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:52,120
Speaker 2: so far?

635
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Speaker 14: Like in this interaction, I mean, something's obviously happened. There's

636
00:27:56,480 --> 00:27:59,399
Speaker 14: been obviously the hip hypnosis.

637
00:27:58,760 --> 00:27:59,800
Speaker 4: Got hypnotized earlier.

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00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:06,840
Speaker 5: It's yeah, and not for like a This isn't like

639
00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:09,040
Speaker 5: a content bit. I should stress like I haven't come

640
00:28:09,040 --> 00:28:10,760
Speaker 5: in here, and you know, any moment, I'm going to

641
00:28:10,800 --> 00:28:12,520
Speaker 5: start barking like a dog or something like. It was

642
00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:16,600
Speaker 5: actually to help me stop vaping, was the reason I

643
00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:19,600
Speaker 5: actually did it. I did it probably five years ago

644
00:28:19,480 --> 00:28:21,960
Speaker 5: to get me to stop smoking, and it was really effective.

645
00:28:22,280 --> 00:28:24,760
Speaker 5: And then I started vaping a bit too much, particularly recently,

646
00:28:25,040 --> 00:28:26,359
Speaker 5: and I was like, I'm just going to put an

647
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Speaker 5: end to this. So I reached out to another hypnotherapist

648
00:28:29,160 --> 00:28:30,240
Speaker 5: to help me stop vaping.

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00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:32,879
Speaker 2: And it is. I did it at about eight o'clock

650
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Speaker 2: this morning with the intention of talking about it on

651
00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:38,320
Speaker 2: the show or just like a personal thing. No, because

652
00:28:38,520 --> 00:28:39,640
Speaker 2: I'm not yourself.

653
00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:44,200
Speaker 5: I'm not well, not that I'm not myself, but what.

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Speaker 14: It has done, I feel like I'm rocked up late

655
00:28:51,840 --> 00:28:52,960
Speaker 14: to the music festival.

656
00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:56,800
Speaker 5: Everything is very vivid, very very vivid. For me, It's

657
00:28:57,040 --> 00:28:59,400
Speaker 5: kind of got like a bit of a very warm

658
00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:01,160
Speaker 5: sort of inner glow going on.

659
00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:02,479
Speaker 2: So that was lovely.

660
00:29:03,080 --> 00:29:05,680
Speaker 5: It actually is really lovely, and and and and the

661
00:29:05,760 --> 00:29:09,280
Speaker 5: reason I think that is going on is because the

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00:29:09,320 --> 00:29:11,959
Speaker 5: way that what she does, what she does, and what

663
00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:14,720
Speaker 5: hypno and therapists do, is they they sort of access

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Speaker 5: your subconsciousness.

665
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Speaker 2: Yeah, yep.

666
00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:22,320
Speaker 5: And then they will guide your subconsciousness through the thing

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Speaker 5: that is blocking it or whatever you want to access

668
00:29:25,360 --> 00:29:27,840
Speaker 5: within your subconsciousness. So the way she described it to

669
00:29:27,920 --> 00:29:30,200
Speaker 5: me is that all these different parts to yourself that

670
00:29:30,320 --> 00:29:32,320
Speaker 5: exist within your subconsciousness, so.

671
00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:34,680
Speaker 1: Is your subconscious the one choosing to vape. Is that

672
00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:36,280
Speaker 1: why they access your people?

673
00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:37,200
Speaker 4: What she explained to me.

674
00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:39,520
Speaker 5: She's like, people vape or smoke for two reasons. They

675
00:29:39,640 --> 00:29:42,960
Speaker 5: vape because or smoke because they've they've got a habit,

676
00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:46,880
Speaker 5: or they vape because it's masking an emotional need, right,

677
00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:49,600
Speaker 5: and yours has got to the point where you're masking

678
00:29:49,600 --> 00:29:50,600
Speaker 5: an emotional need.

679
00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:51,360
Speaker 4: Which is not to you.

680
00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:53,320
Speaker 5: Yeah, which is not surprising because I said to her,

681
00:29:53,480 --> 00:29:55,200
Speaker 5: my partner and my daughter went away two and a

682
00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:56,480
Speaker 5: half weeks ago to Amsterdam.

683
00:29:56,600 --> 00:29:59,040
Speaker 2: While they were gone, vaping went like through the roof

684
00:29:59,120 --> 00:30:01,440
Speaker 2: the vaping company is should use this in the marketing, Like.

685
00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:03,800
Speaker 14: I've never heard of this before.

686
00:30:03,840 --> 00:30:06,280
Speaker 13: This is really crucial to you have an emotional need

687
00:30:06,320 --> 00:30:11,600
Speaker 13: that's that's not being masked vapes a just say Will

688
00:30:11,640 --> 00:30:13,880
Speaker 13: and Woody and get wow.

689
00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:16,320
Speaker 14: So so did you get to the extent that you

690
00:30:16,600 --> 00:30:18,560
Speaker 14: what is the emotional need that needs masking?

691
00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:18,960
Speaker 3: Oh?

692
00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:19,600
Speaker 2: Good question.

693
00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:23,360
Speaker 5: So if I don't know, if you guys interested in

694
00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:25,520
Speaker 5: learning in knowing how it works, because I find I

695
00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:29,760
Speaker 5: found it fascinating but might not lea. Okay, So the

696
00:30:29,800 --> 00:30:33,000
Speaker 5: way that they access your subconsciousness, you'd think that it's

697
00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:35,320
Speaker 5: like it's really not all that tricky.

698
00:30:35,360 --> 00:30:36,240
Speaker 4: It's quite simple.

699
00:30:36,280 --> 00:30:39,360
Speaker 5: It's I've had this before during a past lives experience.

700
00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:42,200
Speaker 5: They'll be like, just picture yourself in a really basic

701
00:30:42,280 --> 00:30:44,240
Speaker 5: place for you. So if there's a meeting room that

702
00:30:44,280 --> 00:30:47,120
Speaker 5: you know, well, a kitchen, a living room, just some

703
00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:48,560
Speaker 5: way you can imagine yourself.

704
00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:49,800
Speaker 2: That's like a safe place.

705
00:30:49,880 --> 00:30:52,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, absolutely, but the doors are closed, so it's just

706
00:30:52,960 --> 00:30:53,440
Speaker 5: you in there.

707
00:30:53,520 --> 00:30:56,560
Speaker 2: It's a safe space. And then they basically call on things.

708
00:30:56,680 --> 00:30:58,880
Speaker 5: So she was like, I want you to call on

709
00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:02,520
Speaker 5: the thing that is asking you to vape.

710
00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:05,120
Speaker 2: Sorry, okay, you lost me there.

711
00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:07,080
Speaker 4: Call on the part you know, emotional need.

712
00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:10,200
Speaker 5: Yea call on the part of yourself that is asking

713
00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:12,360
Speaker 5: you to vape, that is requiring you to vape, and

714
00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:14,120
Speaker 5: just tell it it's totally cool for it to be here.

715
00:31:14,200 --> 00:31:15,640
Speaker 5: It might be a picture that comes up, It might

716
00:31:15,640 --> 00:31:16,760
Speaker 5: be an image, it might be a person.

717
00:31:16,800 --> 00:31:18,520
Speaker 2: Did it come to Did it come to you quickly?

718
00:31:18,560 --> 00:31:21,320
Speaker 5: It was just a picture and a sensation that I had.

719
00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:24,640
Speaker 5: It was basically just saying that it needed to protect

720
00:31:24,680 --> 00:31:27,840
Speaker 5: me because it felt like I wasn't listening to what

721
00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:29,640
Speaker 5: I wanted to do, and I was listening more to

722
00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:31,880
Speaker 5: what I needed to do, and every time I listened

723
00:31:31,920 --> 00:31:34,000
Speaker 5: to what I needed to do, it hurt me, and

724
00:31:34,080 --> 00:31:35,520
Speaker 5: so to soothe myself.

725
00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:37,040
Speaker 2: From the hurt, I would vape. You picked that up

726
00:31:37,040 --> 00:31:37,600
Speaker 2: in a picture.

727
00:31:37,840 --> 00:31:41,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's really quite. It becomes really really clear. This

728
00:31:41,840 --> 00:31:42,760
Speaker 4: is why, this.

729
00:31:42,680 --> 00:31:45,640
Speaker 5: Is why, this is why hypnos is so strong, is

730
00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:49,200
Speaker 5: because your subconscious controls how you are all the time,

731
00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:51,800
Speaker 5: and you cannot access it yourself.

732
00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:53,720
Speaker 2: It's sub sub.

733
00:31:55,760 --> 00:31:57,520
Speaker 4: So, yeah, so that's what happened.

734
00:31:57,560 --> 00:32:00,520
Speaker 1: So one step is acknowledging that that's why. So how

735
00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:02,400
Speaker 1: have you now got to a position where you don't

736
00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:02,880
Speaker 1: want to?

737
00:32:03,120 --> 00:32:05,240
Speaker 5: So the next part of that was then she said

738
00:32:05,280 --> 00:32:10,320
Speaker 5: to me, Okay, you're now asking that part to relinquish vaping. Okay, yeah,

739
00:32:10,360 --> 00:32:14,480
Speaker 5: it's not going to want to because it's masking the

740
00:32:14,480 --> 00:32:16,920
Speaker 5: emotional need. Like that's why you feel like you need

741
00:32:16,960 --> 00:32:19,200
Speaker 5: to vape, is because it's going I'm protecting you here.

742
00:32:19,520 --> 00:32:21,320
Speaker 5: I'm not going to let you let go of vaping

743
00:32:21,320 --> 00:32:23,320
Speaker 5: because we need this because it makes you feel good

744
00:32:23,360 --> 00:32:25,480
Speaker 5: whenever this thing comes up. So she said to me,

745
00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:28,320
Speaker 5: you have to tell that thing and you've got to

746
00:32:28,320 --> 00:32:32,240
Speaker 5: think about this now, what you are going to replace

747
00:32:32,680 --> 00:32:35,840
Speaker 5: vaping with to feel that emotional need? And you have

748
00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:38,920
Speaker 5: to tell that part of your subconsciousness because otherwise it

749
00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:41,840
Speaker 5: won't let go of vaping. And sheress this to me

750
00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:44,280
Speaker 5: as well. She was like, what you're doing with vaping

751
00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:46,840
Speaker 5: is what? And if you're listening right now and you're

752
00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:48,720
Speaker 5: not a vapor and you're not a smoker, she was like,

753
00:32:49,080 --> 00:32:51,600
Speaker 5: people don't vape or smoke to vape or smoke. They

754
00:32:51,680 --> 00:32:54,560
Speaker 5: vape or smoke to feel good. And whether that's because

755
00:32:54,560 --> 00:32:56,800
Speaker 5: of the chemical that it releases, or maybe it gives

756
00:32:56,800 --> 00:32:59,720
Speaker 5: them a sense of freedom or reckless abandon or maybe

757
00:32:59,760 --> 00:33:02,000
Speaker 5: it's soothes them whatever they're seeking.

758
00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:04,360
Speaker 4: Other people will do through food.

759
00:33:04,240 --> 00:33:07,640
Speaker 5: Or through exercise, social media lose that thing, they panic

760
00:33:07,960 --> 00:33:11,240
Speaker 5: because the reason that you eat a lot, or you exercise,

761
00:33:11,920 --> 00:33:14,720
Speaker 5: or you go on social media is because you have

762
00:33:14,920 --> 00:33:18,160
Speaker 5: used that thing to soothe a part of yourself. That

763
00:33:18,360 --> 00:33:19,959
Speaker 5: is basically saying, this is what we need to make

764
00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:21,560
Speaker 5: ourselves feel good, and we're not going to give that.

765
00:33:21,560 --> 00:33:23,280
Speaker 2: Up like a little dopamine hit exactly.

766
00:33:24,680 --> 00:33:27,600
Speaker 5: So what I had to convince it was that what

767
00:33:27,640 --> 00:33:29,720
Speaker 5: I was going to give it in return for giving

768
00:33:29,800 --> 00:33:34,000
Speaker 5: up Yeah, pretty much. I said, Okay, so I want

769
00:33:34,000 --> 00:33:36,200
Speaker 5: to I want to start this thing. And it was

770
00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:38,760
Speaker 5: like okay, Well it wasn't a person. I'm just trying

771
00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:41,880
Speaker 5: to make this easy for everyone. It was like, okay, well,

772
00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:42,960
Speaker 5: if I'm going to give that up, what are you

773
00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:44,600
Speaker 5: going to give me? And then at the start of

774
00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:47,520
Speaker 5: the hypnosis session, we came up with three things, really

775
00:33:47,560 --> 00:33:49,920
Speaker 5: basic things that were going to make me feel good

776
00:33:49,960 --> 00:33:54,280
Speaker 5: every day. So one of them was dancing a great

777
00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:57,120
Speaker 5: to music with no one else around to like, because

778
00:33:57,120 --> 00:33:58,480
Speaker 5: she was like, that's the freedom element.

779
00:33:59,200 --> 00:34:01,080
Speaker 2: Dance like no one's watching. Yes, so you need to

780
00:34:01,120 --> 00:34:03,080
Speaker 2: ask your family to leave the house every time.

781
00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:06,840
Speaker 5: I can dance with my family that's okay, playing with

782
00:34:06,840 --> 00:34:08,760
Speaker 5: my daughter or going for a walk with my partner,

783
00:34:08,960 --> 00:34:12,160
Speaker 5: which is like just basic. And the other one was

784
00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:15,320
Speaker 5: getting getting a hug from a person every day, different

785
00:34:15,360 --> 00:34:18,040
Speaker 5: person every day, just no, just just anyone. So it

786
00:34:18,080 --> 00:34:19,640
Speaker 5: might be Sam, but given that Sam's like, here, I

787
00:34:19,719 --> 00:34:21,160
Speaker 5: might in a hug from you Ryan before you leave.

788
00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:22,200
Speaker 2: We already hug today.

789
00:34:22,200 --> 00:34:23,200
Speaker 4: Oh we have that's fair.

790
00:34:24,040 --> 00:34:24,640
Speaker 2: You're Italian.

791
00:34:24,680 --> 00:34:28,800
Speaker 13: Your hoges helped me for seconds.

792
00:34:29,960 --> 00:34:30,839
Speaker 4: You're the first one.

793
00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:33,480
Speaker 2: Yes, I got him.

794
00:34:34,920 --> 00:34:37,759
Speaker 5: So I told it that and then yeah, it let

795
00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:40,319
Speaker 5: it go. What happened was and I can feel this,

796
00:34:40,480 --> 00:34:45,000
Speaker 5: the vividness I think is I don't feel this need

797
00:34:45,160 --> 00:34:45,839
Speaker 5: to go and do.

798
00:34:45,800 --> 00:34:46,520
Speaker 2: That thing anymore.

799
00:34:46,560 --> 00:34:48,480
Speaker 5: So there's quite at a lot of freedom that I'm

800
00:34:48,480 --> 00:34:51,440
Speaker 5: feeling right now because I've let go of something at

801
00:34:51,440 --> 00:34:52,440
Speaker 5: a really really.

802
00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:57,760
Speaker 2: Root level, a sense of presence enormous, like really vivid.

803
00:34:57,920 --> 00:35:00,720
Speaker 5: Hence why I've been a little bit delirious because everything

804
00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:04,160
Speaker 5: feels really really present, because I feel really content because

805
00:35:04,200 --> 00:35:07,000
Speaker 5: I'm not looking for something to mask up this thing anymore,

806
00:35:07,000 --> 00:35:09,120
Speaker 5: because I've already promised myself, how you don't have to

807
00:35:09,120 --> 00:35:11,520
Speaker 5: worry about masking that thing because you're doing these things

808
00:35:11,520 --> 00:35:12,799
Speaker 5: to look after that need.

809
00:35:12,880 --> 00:35:15,160
Speaker 1: Now, how would you feel if I if I started

810
00:35:15,160 --> 00:35:18,680
Speaker 1: cranking into a vape now, I totally fine, and would

811
00:35:18,719 --> 00:35:19,799
Speaker 1: you find it disgusting?

812
00:35:20,200 --> 00:35:22,040
Speaker 5: Okay, So what I did before the session is I

813
00:35:22,080 --> 00:35:23,799
Speaker 5: had a vape in the kitchen and I was like,

814
00:35:23,960 --> 00:35:26,040
Speaker 5: I've heard this woman's really good and I really want

815
00:35:26,120 --> 00:35:29,000
Speaker 5: I'm not going to try and like help her. Like

816
00:35:29,040 --> 00:35:31,800
Speaker 5: in terms of the hypnosis, I had a vape. I

817
00:35:31,960 --> 00:35:34,520
Speaker 5: vaped it beforehand. I had a coffee in a vape,

818
00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:35,920
Speaker 5: which is what I like doing at the first thing

819
00:35:35,960 --> 00:35:38,399
Speaker 5: in the morning. Really addictive thing most people know about

820
00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:40,520
Speaker 5: that I hit that. I was like that feels great,

821
00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:42,000
Speaker 5: and then I.

822
00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:45,040
Speaker 2: Put it in the middle of the kitchen island and

823
00:35:45,160 --> 00:35:47,399
Speaker 2: easily accessible after the Hypno. First thing that I would

824
00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:51,000
Speaker 2: have seen after the Hypno session. Really to test yourself, yes.

825
00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:51,799
Speaker 4: Walk straight in.

826
00:35:51,880 --> 00:35:54,279
Speaker 5: Well, I was like, this is this is going to

827
00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:55,759
Speaker 5: be like a lot, this is this is going to

828
00:35:55,800 --> 00:35:57,839
Speaker 5: be real. I want to experience how realis is? Did

829
00:35:57,880 --> 00:35:59,600
Speaker 5: the session? I walked straight back in the kitchen, I

830
00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:01,359
Speaker 5: got theape and I put it straight in the bin.

831
00:36:04,719 --> 00:36:05,440
Speaker 2: That's amazing.

832
00:36:05,600 --> 00:36:11,000
Speaker 4: Welcome, that's awesome.

833
00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:13,399
Speaker 2: That's so exciting, very very powerful. Is it a long

834
00:36:13,480 --> 00:36:14,839
Speaker 2: term thing or do you have to like re.

835
00:36:15,880 --> 00:36:18,480
Speaker 5: Doesn't last foot like this thing for now, Like I'm

836
00:36:18,560 --> 00:36:19,640
Speaker 5: enjoying this, But what if that.

837
00:36:19,640 --> 00:36:20,359
Speaker 2: Is un I am.

838
00:36:20,440 --> 00:36:21,640
Speaker 4: I don't know what I would do.

839
00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:25,640
Speaker 2: I actually need to go and do my breathing exercises

840
00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:28,680
Speaker 2: to ground me. Good to see you, guys.

841
00:36:28,680 --> 00:36:29,360
Speaker 4: I love to see you.

842
00:36:29,360 --> 00:36:31,440
Speaker 2: Thanks coming in right, Thanks thanks for sharing. What's the

843
00:36:31,440 --> 00:36:32,479
Speaker 2: true gift I shared?

844
00:36:32,560 --> 00:36:34,520
Speaker 4: But anyway, that's really really.

845
00:36:37,320 --> 00:36:40,960
Speaker 5: If you've checked in already, how close to boarding time

846
00:36:41,440 --> 00:36:44,719
Speaker 5: should you arrive at the airport on thirty one and

847
00:36:44,760 --> 00:36:45,279
Speaker 5: sixty five?

848
00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:46,960
Speaker 2: What did I need to have this.

849
00:36:47,000 --> 00:36:50,120
Speaker 1: Out because we're at opposite ends of the scale.

850
00:36:49,840 --> 00:36:51,960
Speaker 5: Bloody oath, we are woulds and I just think, if

851
00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:56,920
Speaker 5: you're efficient, if you're clever, you arrive at the airport

852
00:36:57,040 --> 00:36:58,960
Speaker 5: as the plant at boarding time.

853
00:36:59,200 --> 00:37:00,000
Speaker 2: See that's selfish.

854
00:37:01,360 --> 00:37:03,800
Speaker 5: You always know boarding is gonna take about fifteen minutes.

855
00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:05,920
Speaker 5: You know you're gonna get to the baggy scanner in ten.

856
00:37:06,000 --> 00:37:07,640
Speaker 5: It's gonna take you five minutes to walk to the gate.

857
00:37:07,680 --> 00:37:11,080
Speaker 5: Show you walk straight on the plane, no cues, no hassles,

858
00:37:11,239 --> 00:37:14,280
Speaker 5: and see hearing that gives me anxiety because no surprise.

859
00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:16,160
Speaker 5: The other end of the scale is I like to get.

860
00:37:15,960 --> 00:37:20,080
Speaker 1: There one hour, at least one hour before the time

861
00:37:20,239 --> 00:37:23,440
Speaker 1: that you start entering the plane before checking is I'm

862
00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:25,640
Speaker 1: just kill me because here's what goes on in my head.

863
00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:27,160
Speaker 1: What if a tire pops on the way there, What

864
00:37:27,200 --> 00:37:29,000
Speaker 1: if the cab cancels on me? What if I break down?

865
00:37:29,000 --> 00:37:30,640
Speaker 1: What if it's a traffic jam, what if it's a crash.

866
00:37:30,719 --> 00:37:32,799
Speaker 1: That's one side of it, But then the other side

867
00:37:32,800 --> 00:37:35,400
Speaker 1: of it is I hate that feeling of arriving at

868
00:37:35,440 --> 00:37:38,520
Speaker 1: the airport and feeling rushed and you've the stress, the

869
00:37:39,040 --> 00:37:41,000
Speaker 1: adrenaline starts running through your veins.

870
00:37:41,000 --> 00:37:43,359
Speaker 2: I hate that I love. I'm at the airport, I've

871
00:37:43,400 --> 00:37:43,879
Speaker 2: got an hour.

872
00:37:44,120 --> 00:37:46,319
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get a coffee, I'm gonna sit down, I'm

873
00:37:46,320 --> 00:37:47,400
Speaker 1: gonna read it bit of my book.

874
00:37:47,440 --> 00:37:51,920
Speaker 2: I'm gonna buy a magazine. I'm gonna buy Men's Health magazine.

875
00:37:52,520 --> 00:37:57,520
Speaker 4: When I buy Men's Health, we'll stop. Abby's killed on Abby?

876
00:37:57,680 --> 00:37:58,480
Speaker 4: What are your thoughts?

877
00:37:59,320 --> 00:38:02,280
Speaker 12: I am honestly an hour and a half.

878
00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:04,480
Speaker 3: You don't even want to know my international time?

879
00:38:06,080 --> 00:38:06,880
Speaker 2: What do you do?

880
00:38:07,400 --> 00:38:09,400
Speaker 5: It doesn't open till three hours before, so there's no

881
00:38:09,440 --> 00:38:10,800
Speaker 5: point being there before that.

882
00:38:10,800 --> 00:38:13,239
Speaker 3: That's just, you know what, the amount of things that

883
00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:16,359
Speaker 3: can go wrong. I've been to the airport international flight

884
00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:19,319
Speaker 3: as well without my passport, and thank god I.

885
00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:22,040
Speaker 1: Had enough fight because you're still yes, yes, you've still

886
00:38:22,040 --> 00:38:25,160
Speaker 1: got enough time to go back home, you got there

887
00:38:25,160 --> 00:38:27,279
Speaker 1: two hours before, like you have that.

888
00:38:28,440 --> 00:38:31,160
Speaker 3: Too many things that can go wrong, too many things, honestly,

889
00:38:31,360 --> 00:38:34,160
Speaker 3: and also, okay, okay, I need to take international flights

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Speaker 3: out of this, because I actually do, generally speaking, agree

891
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Speaker 3: with the paranoia around international flights.

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Speaker 5: I agree there's a lot that can be going on.

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Speaker 5: If you're flying domestically within Australia, you know there's going

894
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Speaker 5: to be another flight in an hour maybe two.

895
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Speaker 2: Do you know that it's not the end of the

896
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Speaker 2: see maybe this.

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Speaker 5: Is what we're getting down on. I don't know if

898
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Speaker 5: we're getting down on anything here, we're getting down.

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Speaker 4: Let's get down. I don't mine like worst case.

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Speaker 2: I have to take another plane. It's expensive, that's money.

901
00:39:05,680 --> 00:39:07,399
Speaker 2: Maybe this is what it comes down to. I don't

902
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Speaker 2: want to pay for another airfare.

903
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Speaker 4: Where the company's paying for it.

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Speaker 5: You know, if Kiss is plying us, hit us up again, Guys,

905
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Speaker 5: I've got Aera kid that six five?

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Speaker 4: Eric?

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Speaker 2: You okay?

908
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Speaker 5: Eric?

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Speaker 2: You travel for work. This is kind of the scenario

910
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Speaker 2: that I'm after.

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Speaker 5: If you've checked in online already, how close to boarding

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Speaker 5: time should you arrive at the airport?

913
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Speaker 12: Honestly, if they're not walking onto the plane when I

914
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Speaker 12: show up at the gate, then I'm way too early.

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Speaker 2: Agree, don't you get stressed? K And you can?

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Speaker 3: Eric?

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Speaker 5: Can I just say, like, I feel as if the

918
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Speaker 5: feeling of success that you have, you have you're the

919
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Speaker 5: king of efficiency when you rock up and they're walking

920
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Speaker 5: on that plane and you work up like trumps any

921
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Speaker 5: sense of panic that I might feel beforehand, because I know,

922
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Speaker 5: like I would rather feel slightly anxious and be the

923
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Speaker 5: king of efficiency.

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Speaker 1: But when you say efficiency, what are you missing out

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Speaker 1: on if you leave an hour?

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Speaker 2: Like, what are you doing at home that is so important?

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Speaker 4: Okay? Can I okay?

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Speaker 10: Eric?

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Speaker 2: Eric, I want you to stay, but