WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: The most unhinged phone call we have ever had 0:00:10.379 --> 0:00:14.219 Hi Heart Podcasts, hear more Kiss Podcast playlist and listen 0:00:14.259 --> 0:00:20.779 live on the Free iHeart app Good pickup with Britt 0:00:20.819 --> 0:00:23.139 Hockley and Laura burn Radio. 0:00:23.339 --> 0:00:27.699 What our windows down? That's my worries in the dust? 0:00:27.899 --> 0:00:29.619 Only good fab Doug all round. 0:00:30.619 --> 0:00:34.659 I don't much, but yeah, I know I'll big get 0:00:34.659 --> 0:00:35.619 and what I want. 0:00:35.899 --> 0:00:38.818 It don't matter where that goes. This is the pickup. 0:00:39.339 --> 0:00:41.939 Hi guys, It's a pickup with Britt Harckley and Laura 0:00:41.979 --> 0:00:46.139 Burrn and Britt, I need to tell you about what 0:00:46.179 --> 0:00:47.619 I am obsessed with at the moment. 0:00:47.739 --> 0:00:49.099 Usually this could be anything. 0:00:49.179 --> 0:00:52.539 Yeah, I tell you about my food cravings. No, usually 0:00:52.619 --> 0:00:55.139 it's not me that brings to you new series and 0:00:55.179 --> 0:00:58.859 things to watch. Me Love Triangle on Stand season three. 0:00:59.539 --> 0:01:01.659 If anyone who is listening to this is like a 0:01:01.699 --> 0:01:04.179 big merrit at First Sight fan. So it's produced by 0:01:04.219 --> 0:01:06.539 the same company that makes Maps. So if you've been 0:01:06.578 --> 0:01:11.938 like missing your reality TV drama, it is so good. 0:01:12.259 --> 0:01:13.938 And there's been something that's happened on one of the 0:01:13.938 --> 0:01:15.298 recent episodes, so you know. 0:01:15.378 --> 0:01:19.298 Mike Gunner. Mike Gunner was from mas Yeah, he was 0:01:19.298 --> 0:01:20.779 from Maths. A few seasons ago. 0:01:20.899 --> 0:01:23.699 He was paired with the absolutely delightful Heidi who had 0:01:23.699 --> 0:01:25.138 curly hair back at. 0:01:24.979 --> 0:01:28.339 Mass We didn't like no Mike, did we No? Unfortunately not, 0:01:28.378 --> 0:01:30.419 I say we as in like the country as a whole. 0:01:30.578 --> 0:01:33.018 So he was a bit of a douche on that show. 0:01:33.259 --> 0:01:35.659 And then you would think that he would have had 0:01:35.699 --> 0:01:37.499 a bit more experience in reality TV. 0:01:37.619 --> 0:01:40.738 Now you think he changes ways, have a rebrand, learned 0:01:40.779 --> 0:01:41.299 and tested. 0:01:41.458 --> 0:01:43.298 But the thing that's made this season so good, So 0:01:43.339 --> 0:01:45.098 he's on Love Triangle this season. 0:01:45.139 --> 0:01:45.978 He's been match with. 0:01:46.259 --> 0:01:49.538 Like his partner, and there is a bit of a 0:01:49.579 --> 0:01:52.379 scandal that's just unfolded on the episode that I'm watching. 0:01:52.499 --> 0:01:55.819 So and you've obviously you've done reality TV, so imagine 0:01:55.859 --> 0:01:56.499 this situation. 0:01:56.619 --> 0:01:58.178 Don't you throw me on the same bus as Mike 0:01:58.219 --> 0:02:02.579 Gunner on MAUS So his partner's sitting in a bedroom 0:02:03.099 --> 0:02:04.339 with the door shut, yeah. 0:02:04.339 --> 0:02:08.099 Talking to a producer, and he comes in and absolutely 0:02:08.619 --> 0:02:12.739 lips out because he's accusing her of being inappropriate with 0:02:12.819 --> 0:02:14.939 the producer by having the door shut and having a 0:02:14.939 --> 0:02:15.819 private conversation with. 0:02:15.819 --> 0:02:17.819 You, I mean, unless they're nude under the covers. 0:02:18.019 --> 0:02:20.978 Come Also, it's a producer that guys at work in 0:02:21.059 --> 0:02:22.418 his workplace. 0:02:21.899 --> 0:02:23.659 And the microphone's probably. 0:02:23.258 --> 0:02:27.659 On and there it is. That is a really controlling issue. 0:02:27.739 --> 0:02:29.259 I watched it and I was like, there's so many 0:02:29.299 --> 0:02:32.379 red flags in this for me. But also I get 0:02:32.379 --> 0:02:34.418 the same maths energy where I'm like, I can't turn 0:02:34.418 --> 0:02:36.899 it off. So they actually show that, Yeah, they show 0:02:36.978 --> 0:02:39.019 his like reaction to it, and his reaction to it 0:02:39.059 --> 0:02:43.139 is just like it's so non parallel to what had happened. 0:02:42.899 --> 0:02:44.379 You know, and it's like so ridiculous. 0:02:44.499 --> 0:02:46.779 But if they have recorded his reaction, that means that 0:02:47.059 --> 0:02:49.339 it was all recorded the producer having a chat with 0:02:49.379 --> 0:02:52.059 the contestants. So that is insane that he has flown 0:02:52.059 --> 0:02:53.819 off the handle at that. It's insane if he flew 0:02:53.899 --> 0:02:55.579 off the handle in that in private. 0:02:55.859 --> 0:02:57.659 I mean no, if you were in private and you 0:02:57.659 --> 0:02:59.099 walked in on your partners, I. 0:02:59.019 --> 0:03:00.979 Mean, if it wasn't filmed. Sorry, like they're on a 0:03:01.019 --> 0:03:03.939 show with the producers that you are constantly talking to 0:03:03.939 --> 0:03:06.139 people of the opposite sex on these reality shows, like 0:03:06.258 --> 0:03:08.458 all different kinds of people that are employed by the show. 0:03:08.779 --> 0:03:10.499 Absolutely, I don't know. I've really enjoyed it. 0:03:10.579 --> 0:03:11.859 If you guys want to catch up on it, It's 0:03:11.899 --> 0:03:14.418 Love Triangle. It's season three, it's now streaming on stand 0:03:14.859 --> 0:03:16.819 and there's new episodes every Sunday at ten am. 0:03:16.939 --> 0:03:17.739 It's amazing. 0:03:19.258 --> 0:03:21.499 Well it is Thursday, which means it is time for 0:03:21.538 --> 0:03:23.739 Ask Guncut. We do this every single week on our 0:03:23.779 --> 0:03:25.178 podcast Life on Cut podcast. 0:03:25.459 --> 0:03:27.899 It's where you guys call in with your deepest, darkest 0:03:27.899 --> 0:03:30.019 burning questions. We do our best to answer them. And 0:03:30.099 --> 0:03:33.978 today we've got Cass. Hey, Cass, what's going on? We'll 0:03:34.019 --> 0:03:34.738 the issue. 0:03:35.019 --> 0:03:38.019 Well, I wanted some advice. I am a bridesmaid for 0:03:38.139 --> 0:03:40.499 my friend's wedding back home, so it's back in the UK, 0:03:41.339 --> 0:03:43.299 and I've got to pay for flights and I've got 0:03:43.299 --> 0:03:46.139 to pay for my own dress and just causing quite 0:03:46.139 --> 0:03:48.898 a lot obviously to get back there for it. And 0:03:49.059 --> 0:03:52.299 then the Odatia comment about the wishing well. She was 0:03:52.339 --> 0:03:54.379 hoping that that's going to pay like a big chunk 0:03:54.419 --> 0:03:58.179 of the wedding. And now I'm panicking because I meant 0:03:58.219 --> 0:04:00.939 to input into that as well as everything else. It's 0:04:00.979 --> 0:04:01.939 just such a lot of money. 0:04:02.059 --> 0:04:05.419 When do you say she was commenting about the wishing well? Yeah? 0:04:05.459 --> 0:04:06.779 Do you think it was just a general like, oh, 0:04:06.779 --> 0:04:09.579 I'm hoping everyone or was it there a vague expectation. 0:04:09.739 --> 0:04:11.219 Do you think that you were contributing? 0:04:12.059 --> 0:04:13.859 Well, I don't know. She only said it to me, 0:04:14.059 --> 0:04:16.059 and it was about the wedding in general, but there 0:04:16.059 --> 0:04:19.219 was no one else that she was talking to, you know. 0:04:19.659 --> 0:04:22.979 I actually I would love to do a poll on 0:04:23.019 --> 0:04:26.299 this and get the general public's consensus, because I don't 0:04:26.299 --> 0:04:29.059 know if I'm a minority. It seems to be the 0:04:29.219 --> 0:04:32.299 common thing that bridesmaids when they're asked me a bridesmaids, 0:04:32.299 --> 0:04:35.019 that they're expected to pay for like the dress and 0:04:35.059 --> 0:04:37.539 their own makeup and everything like that. To me, that 0:04:37.699 --> 0:04:39.939 is crazy, Like if I were to ask people to 0:04:39.939 --> 0:04:43.579 be a bridesmaid personally, I would never ask them to 0:04:43.619 --> 0:04:45.899 then pay for it. So I think it's pretty wild, 0:04:46.419 --> 0:04:48.939 especially if it's like an international wedding, if you're having 0:04:49.019 --> 0:04:52.299 to get an international flight, pay for all the accommodation 0:04:52.459 --> 0:04:55.859 that's so expensive. To me, it seems crazy to expect 0:04:55.899 --> 0:04:58.259 anyone to then, on top of that, donate money to 0:04:58.299 --> 0:04:58.939 a wishing world. 0:04:59.019 --> 0:05:00.619 Do you think there's many brides out there that are 0:05:00.619 --> 0:05:02.459 making bridesmaids pay for their own makeup? 0:05:02.739 --> 0:05:02.899 Yes? 0:05:03.459 --> 0:05:06.939 I actually we had another ask guncut come in last 0:05:06.979 --> 0:05:10.059 week that I read personally to our that said exactly 0:05:10.099 --> 0:05:10.699 that I. 0:05:10.619 --> 0:05:13.739 Think that dress and shoes and stuff seems to be 0:05:13.779 --> 0:05:16.379 relatively normal because I would say that a lot of 0:05:16.419 --> 0:05:19.779 people who are trying to organize weddings maybe can't afford 0:05:19.819 --> 0:05:21.939 to buy all of the outfits for their bridal party, 0:05:21.979 --> 0:05:24.579 which I understand, but I also do think that if 0:05:24.579 --> 0:05:28.099 someone has asked you to be a bridesmaid and they're 0:05:28.139 --> 0:05:30.259 wanting you to pay for the dress and the shoes, 0:05:30.299 --> 0:05:32.379 then there has to be some flexibility as to which 0:05:32.379 --> 0:05:34.019 shoes and which dress it is, because it's got to 0:05:34.019 --> 0:05:36.339 be something that maybe you might wear again. It's got 0:05:36.379 --> 0:05:37.739 to be something that, like, do you know what I mean? 0:05:37.779 --> 0:05:39.339 I feel like as a bridesmaid, you've got to have 0:05:39.339 --> 0:05:39.979 some say in it. 0:05:40.379 --> 0:05:44.219 Not even that it's the expectation of also providing a 0:05:44.219 --> 0:05:45.219 cash gift on top of. 0:05:45.379 --> 0:05:47.899 No, but I yeah, look, getting back to the question 0:05:47.979 --> 0:05:49.979 you actually asked, I don't think you do have to 0:05:50.219 --> 0:05:52.579 and I do not think that you are being selfish. 0:05:52.619 --> 0:05:55.419 I don't think that you are not fulfilling your obligation 0:05:55.459 --> 0:05:56.219 as a bridesmaid. 0:05:56.299 --> 0:05:57.939 I really honestly think that if it's an. 0:05:57.899 --> 0:06:00.499 International wedding and you've forked out a heap to be 0:06:00.619 --> 0:06:03.499 the bridesmaid and to play that role, there absolutely shouldn't 0:06:03.539 --> 0:06:06.099 be an expectation for more money on top. 0:06:06.379 --> 0:06:06.739 I don't know. 0:06:06.859 --> 0:06:10.379 Is she not a very self aware person generally speaking? 0:06:11.379 --> 0:06:13.179 No, she is self aware, but I think I'm just 0:06:13.179 --> 0:06:15.099 a person she's speaking to the most about the wedding, 0:06:15.179 --> 0:06:17.339 so she's like natural persons fly to me. But I 0:06:17.379 --> 0:06:19.059 don't know if that means that then that's also the 0:06:19.099 --> 0:06:20.059 expectation on me. 0:06:20.539 --> 0:06:23.019 I think you can just to be honest, write a 0:06:23.059 --> 0:06:25.779 really nice card, put the card in, and if she 0:06:26.859 --> 0:06:29.899 is self aware and she has been friends with you 0:06:29.939 --> 0:06:31.899 for a long time, she also knows what she's asked 0:06:31.899 --> 0:06:33.939 you to pay. She knows you've flown. I don't think 0:06:33.939 --> 0:06:35.259 you need to sit down and say, hey, I can't 0:06:35.259 --> 0:06:37.019 afford it. I think she will know that, and I 0:06:37.059 --> 0:06:39.099 think you can just write a really nice card wishing her, 0:06:39.419 --> 0:06:41.019 you know, all the love and happiness in the world. 0:06:41.059 --> 0:06:43.419 But if it ever does come up, but I would 0:06:43.419 --> 0:06:45.059 hate for you to feel guilty. And I feel like 0:06:45.179 --> 0:06:47.259 at a friendship like that, you can just say like, hey, 0:06:47.699 --> 0:06:49.459 this has cost me so much money. I just haven't 0:06:49.499 --> 0:06:51.659 I just didn't have anything else to give. I'm so sorry. 0:06:51.699 --> 0:06:54.339 Like also, though, I think international weddings are a whole 0:06:54.339 --> 0:06:56.539 different kettle of fish. I don't even think the guests 0:06:56.579 --> 0:06:59.259 need to necessarily give money for an international wedding. 0:06:59.499 --> 0:07:02.219 No, that's what I'm saying. I say this, Bri. It's like, well, 0:07:02.219 --> 0:07:03.739 on my wedding comes around. 0:07:03.699 --> 0:07:07.659 But I'm not even my I literally wrote on my 0:07:07.739 --> 0:07:12.219 wedding imitation to everybody, do not bring a gift, do 0:07:12.419 --> 0:07:14.579 not give money in a card. There will be no 0:07:14.619 --> 0:07:17.779 wishing well, Like, I don't want and would never expect 0:07:17.779 --> 0:07:20.099 anyone to bring anything because people are already flying. 0:07:20.259 --> 0:07:24.139 Yeah, but weddings are tricky because everyone has different expectations. 0:07:24.139 --> 0:07:25.459 And I think unless you're really rich. 0:07:25.459 --> 0:07:26.939 Sorry, if you're listening, you're really rich and you're coming 0:07:26.939 --> 0:07:28.819 to my wedding and you can bring money. 0:07:31.939 --> 0:07:33.699 No. But I do think it's tricky because I think 0:07:33.739 --> 0:07:35.819 a lot of people, there are a lot of people 0:07:35.859 --> 0:07:38.299 who have the perception of like, well, you know, if 0:07:38.379 --> 0:07:41.259 I'm putting on this big thing, then obviously the responsibility 0:07:41.419 --> 0:07:42.579 is for me to pay for it. 0:07:42.859 --> 0:07:44.139 But then there are other people. 0:07:44.139 --> 0:07:45.859 And I think it also can be cultural as well, 0:07:46.259 --> 0:07:49.379 that there's an expectation that they're going to make some 0:07:49.499 --> 0:07:50.699 money back from it, from. 0:07:50.539 --> 0:07:52.299 The gift and the wishing well and everything else. It's 0:07:52.339 --> 0:07:53.979 really cas it's very tricky. 0:07:54.019 --> 0:07:56.219 But look to answer your question, No, you don't need 0:07:56.259 --> 0:07:57.459 to put anything in the wishing. 0:07:57.179 --> 0:07:58.819 Well, but you can just write a nice card. 0:07:58.659 --> 0:08:01.259 And just sell there when you're done with it. That 0:08:01.819 --> 0:08:03.819 it was no joke, like you just sell it, make 0:08:03.859 --> 0:08:06.539 your money back, but have fun at the wedding. 0:08:06.779 --> 0:08:09.139 Give thank you so much. 0:08:09.499 --> 0:08:11.859 Well, if you had some great advice like that, guys. 0:08:11.979 --> 0:08:13.819 You can go and you can mean right to us 0:08:13.899 --> 0:08:15.619 to pick up on Instagram where you can send us 0:08:15.659 --> 0:08:17.219 your question on the wind page and get on next 0:08:17.219 --> 0:08:19.179 week for Asking Cart, where we will do our best 0:08:19.499 --> 0:08:21.979 to answer your life conundrums. 0:08:22.979 --> 0:08:24.059 Now, if you were listening to. 0:08:23.979 --> 0:08:27.459 The show yesterday, you would have heard I mean also, 0:08:27.499 --> 0:08:27.979 I feel like. 0:08:27.899 --> 0:08:29.499 It's all we've been talking about now. 0:08:29.659 --> 0:08:32.299 It's probably our the next five months of our content really. 0:08:32.619 --> 0:08:37.139 But yesterday we spoke about how I am having another baby. 0:08:37.219 --> 0:08:40.819 We're having baby number three in our household, and we 0:08:40.859 --> 0:08:44.379 shared a really really cute little bit of audio from Lola, 0:08:44.459 --> 0:08:46.659 who is our she's our younger, she's four years old. 0:08:47.099 --> 0:08:48.419 I need to be the middle child. 0:08:48.659 --> 0:08:50.259 Yeah, I don't know how she's gonna cope's a middle 0:08:50.299 --> 0:08:52.259 child be she doesn't have middle child energy. 0:08:52.659 --> 0:08:54.859 She's born to be the youngest. She doesn't have any. 0:08:54.899 --> 0:08:56.739 I don't even know what kind of energy she's got. 0:08:56.779 --> 0:08:57.899 She's an unusual thing. 0:08:58.019 --> 0:09:00.459 I cook, no in a good way, but she's like, 0:09:00.579 --> 0:09:02.299 you can't. You just can't pick what you're gonna get 0:09:02.339 --> 0:09:02.539 with her. 0:09:02.819 --> 0:09:02.979 Yeah. 0:09:03.059 --> 0:09:05.259 No, she's the wildcard. We always call her the personality 0:09:05.339 --> 0:09:06.979 higher of the family. But then someone told me that 0:09:06.979 --> 0:09:07.819 that was actually kind. 0:09:07.659 --> 0:09:11.019 Of the it is part of me. She hasn't done school. 0:09:11.499 --> 0:09:14.219 She's a funny, funny kid, and she has swung round 0:09:14.619 --> 0:09:17.619 with such excitement. So the little audio grab we shared 0:09:17.699 --> 0:09:21.939 yesterday was her being so so so excited about her 0:09:21.979 --> 0:09:22.619 new baby. 0:09:23.139 --> 0:09:25.139 But so many people have. 0:09:25.139 --> 0:09:27.459 Been asking how did the kids react when we first 0:09:27.619 --> 0:09:29.299 told them, Because I think when you've already got two 0:09:29.339 --> 0:09:31.939 kids and Marley's five laws four, like they get it. 0:09:31.979 --> 0:09:34.458 They understand this time, like you know, they understand that 0:09:34.539 --> 0:09:37.819 mummy's having a baby. They'll tell everyone. They were already 0:09:37.819 --> 0:09:39.939 telling people down the park before we were able to 0:09:39.979 --> 0:09:40.939 talk about it ourselves. 0:09:41.619 --> 0:09:43.139 That was the leak to the Daily Mail. 0:09:43.259 --> 0:09:46.379 Absolutely it was ever going to get out before yesterdays announcement, 0:09:46.379 --> 0:09:49.299 it was Mally and Lola. But the thing is, Molly 0:09:49.379 --> 0:09:52.259 has always been excited like she is such a good 0:09:52.299 --> 0:09:52.939 big sister. 0:09:53.419 --> 0:09:54.739 Lola has issues sharing. 0:09:55.059 --> 0:09:58.299 She is not quite ready or wasn't quite ready when 0:09:58.299 --> 0:10:01.659 we told her to receive that information in a positive way. 0:10:01.699 --> 0:10:03.859 Put it that way. So when we told the. 0:10:03.819 --> 0:10:06.259 Girls, they had completely different reactions. 0:10:06.419 --> 0:10:09.899 Haveles into this. Yes, what mommy and Daddy have to 0:10:09.899 --> 0:10:13.859 tell you? I'm much step truck. We're not getting a 0:10:13.939 --> 0:10:22.859 monster truck. We're not getting a tiny ball to We're 0:10:22.899 --> 0:10:27.499 not getting well, there's no plastic about about something that. 0:10:27.659 --> 0:10:29.979 What do you think we're getting? My it's something very. 0:10:29.819 --> 0:10:33.099 Special, something that you guys will get to give a 0:10:33.099 --> 0:10:34.699 cuddle to. 0:10:35.499 --> 0:10:39.179 No, okay, I'll give you a clue. 0:10:39.939 --> 0:10:42.339 It's in mummy's tommy. 0:10:42.899 --> 0:10:52.819 Okay, yeah, I'm not baby. 0:10:53.819 --> 0:10:59.939 I mean really, Oh are you excited? 0:11:04.979 --> 0:11:07.219 You can also hear that she's stormed away. She's like 0:11:07.259 --> 0:11:11.259 hit another room. I imagine I'm getting out of here. Actually, 0:11:11.339 --> 0:11:13.979 she was so pissed off. She want a toy, not 0:11:14.019 --> 0:11:15.259 a baby in your belly. 0:11:15.539 --> 0:11:18.859 Really unusual things that she wanted above the baby, plastic, 0:11:19.179 --> 0:11:22.459 a tree, a monster trutch, like she tripled down on 0:11:22.499 --> 0:11:23.458 the toy, like the. 0:11:23.459 --> 0:11:26.218 Baby, Yeah, you get a toy. No, she make She's 0:11:26.219 --> 0:11:28.579 got enough toy. She does not need a toy. I'm 0:11:28.619 --> 0:11:30.458 plastic about you just get to roll a clinger out? 0:11:30.539 --> 0:11:31.019 Like where did that? 0:11:31.459 --> 0:11:31.979 Do you know what? 0:11:32.059 --> 0:11:35.259 I was like around, like you know, like what do 0:11:35.299 --> 0:11:37.419 you want? She looked around, She's like table, she looks around, 0:11:37.419 --> 0:11:38.939 she sees some plastic plastic. 0:11:39.219 --> 0:11:42.299 I honestly, I have no idea what's going through her 0:11:42.299 --> 0:11:43.379 brain ninety percent of the time. 0:11:43.419 --> 0:11:44.819 But she was really upset. 0:11:44.859 --> 0:11:47.539 She stormed off, and she put herself in a time 0:11:47.579 --> 0:11:48.259 out upstairs. 0:11:48.259 --> 0:11:49.979 She shut her bedroom door and she went and. 0:11:49.939 --> 0:11:52.819 Got into bed, and I came in very shortly afterwards, 0:11:52.819 --> 0:11:55.339 so like Molly was stoked Lola. I went in and 0:11:55.379 --> 0:11:57.139 I sat down in the bed and I was like, sweetie, 0:11:57.139 --> 0:11:59.579 what's what's wrong. I was like, it's okay, you know, mummy, 0:11:59.699 --> 0:12:01.699 Mammy's gonna have a baby. But you love and like 0:12:02.179 --> 0:12:04.299 she loves babies, so I was like, that was a 0:12:04.339 --> 0:12:07.939 weird reaction from her. And she burst out crying and 0:12:07.979 --> 0:12:10.899 she said, she said, Mummy, you'll have a baby and 0:12:10.939 --> 0:12:12.859 then I have to share you and you won't love me, 0:12:12.979 --> 0:12:15.979 You'll love the baby. And I was like, oh, sweetie, 0:12:16.019 --> 0:12:18.099 I get it. That is a rough thing to try 0:12:18.139 --> 0:12:20.899 and process when you are like, she's the baby. 0:12:21.299 --> 0:12:21.659 Yeah. 0:12:21.699 --> 0:12:23.539 And so then we had to spend some time, you know, 0:12:23.619 --> 0:12:26.179 reassuring her that even though there's another baby coming along, 0:12:26.259 --> 0:12:28.699 that she's still the baby and you know, she has 0:12:28.739 --> 0:12:30.139 such an important role to play. 0:12:30.179 --> 0:12:31.579 But I don't know, I. 0:12:31.499 --> 0:12:34.299 Wasn't expecting that reaction, and it was it was it 0:12:34.339 --> 0:12:35.139 broke my little heart. 0:12:35.339 --> 0:12:37.218 If she won't be the baby, sure, she'll be a 0:12:37.259 --> 0:12:39.979 big sister now, Like that's a whole different role and 0:12:40.019 --> 0:12:44.019 she probably doesn't understand like the fact that there's something 0:12:44.019 --> 0:12:46.139 else that will be taking your attention. Yeah, Like does 0:12:46.139 --> 0:12:48.339 that mean that you don't have enough love. 0:12:48.259 --> 0:12:50.819 To go around? Like maybe they don't understand that yet. 0:12:50.899 --> 0:12:52.699 Well, it was the other thing she said. She was like, 0:12:52.739 --> 0:12:54.859 you don't need a baby. I'm your baby, And I 0:12:54.899 --> 0:12:56.979 was like, oh, darling, I was like, you're too old 0:12:56.979 --> 0:12:58.619 now to be a baby going to school. 0:12:58.699 --> 0:13:02.499 Yeah, we took the dummy off you. 0:13:02.579 --> 0:13:05.019 No, she has come around, she really has, and they're 0:13:05.059 --> 0:13:07.739 both so excited. But I wasn't expecting her to get 0:13:07.739 --> 0:13:10.219 that upset. By it, and I really hadn't thought about 0:13:10.259 --> 0:13:13.939 how complex their little emotions are around sharing and around 0:13:13.979 --> 0:13:17.539 feeling in competition with their siblings, for like their parents. 0:13:17.579 --> 0:13:19.499 You know. Yeah, so that was like a big learning 0:13:19.499 --> 0:13:20.299 curve for me as mum. 0:13:20.539 --> 0:13:22.499 I'm going to take that anytime I have an argument 0:13:22.499 --> 0:13:24.619 with someone, I'm going to take that line from Lola. 0:13:25.059 --> 0:13:28.939 I'm getting out of here. Actually, are you excited? 0:13:29.259 --> 0:13:29.299 No? 0:13:32.099 --> 0:13:34.098 Oh, well, I'm glad they've come around. It's nice to 0:13:34.139 --> 0:13:34.379 hear that. 0:13:34.419 --> 0:13:36.459 It's full circle and she hasn't sat in those feelings 0:13:36.499 --> 0:13:40.019 for too long. I did not see this on my 0:13:40.139 --> 0:13:43.619 bingo card today, but I have become a bit obsessed 0:13:43.619 --> 0:13:46.338 and equally grossed out with a story about a woman 0:13:46.339 --> 0:13:51.219 that is going viral online for her own beauty DIY hack. Now, 0:13:51.659 --> 0:13:54.619 she has a mole, quite a big mole on her face. 0:13:55.299 --> 0:13:59.059 She got quoted between five hundred and one thousand dollars 0:13:59.099 --> 0:14:03.059 to cut it off, So she decided to cut her 0:14:03.139 --> 0:14:05.338 own mole off her face at home. 0:14:05.779 --> 0:14:10.579 A listen, let's talk about the ball situation, shall we. 0:14:11.259 --> 0:14:14.379 The scissors that I use, I would take some alcohol 0:14:14.459 --> 0:14:17.459 boom booms, pray on it, and then I just kind 0:14:17.459 --> 0:14:20.499 of took it out and I just went in like that. 0:14:21.099 --> 0:14:23.819 It didn't hurt, It wasn't painful. 0:14:24.579 --> 0:14:25.939 She used manicure scissors. 0:14:25.939 --> 0:14:28.579 Firstly, I just have to say this, So Produce a 0:14:28.619 --> 0:14:31.099 Grace created a prep sheet for this, and there is 0:14:31.139 --> 0:14:33.459 a great big photo of this woman holding her mole 0:14:33.579 --> 0:14:35.579 up to the camera. She just plucked it up off 0:14:35.579 --> 0:14:37.539 the table that it fell down on, and she's holding 0:14:37.779 --> 0:14:40.459 a full I'm talking, this mole is like the size 0:14:40.499 --> 0:14:41.819 of a pinky fingernail. 0:14:41.859 --> 0:14:42.459 It's huge. 0:14:42.859 --> 0:14:45.779 Yeah, it makes me feel like viscually unwell to think 0:14:45.779 --> 0:14:46.659 about and look at. 0:14:46.739 --> 0:14:47.699 And also I don't. 0:14:47.499 --> 0:14:49.379 Know how she said has got no pain, because moles 0:14:49.419 --> 0:14:51.939 and stuff have blood supply, Like you can feel that. 0:14:52.019 --> 0:14:54.859 You can't just take a pair of scissors at home and. 0:14:54.859 --> 0:14:55.779 Hack your face off. 0:14:55.819 --> 0:14:58.379 I understand that some things are expensive, but there's still 0:14:58.419 --> 0:14:59.739 some things that we shouldn't diy. 0:14:59.939 --> 0:15:01.539 I learn a lesson the hard way. 0:15:01.459 --> 0:15:04.019 When I was in my early twenties, so I've always 0:15:04.019 --> 0:15:06.739 had well, like probably from my early twenties, I started 0:15:06.739 --> 0:15:09.019 to get some sunspots right, like little bits of pegmentation, 0:15:09.579 --> 0:15:12.859 and I really noticed it around the age of twenty four. Anyway, 0:15:12.939 --> 0:15:15.699 of course, back then trying to book in to go 0:15:15.739 --> 0:15:16.899 and see Imbautisian or whatever. 0:15:16.939 --> 0:15:17.659 Too expensive. 0:15:18.019 --> 0:15:20.259 So I went and I did my own googling online, 0:15:20.299 --> 0:15:25.019 and I read on some Reddit forum somewhere that wart. 0:15:24.859 --> 0:15:27.379 Kill so like the stuff you would use to kill 0:15:27.379 --> 0:15:28.419 off warts on your feet. 0:15:28.499 --> 0:15:32.019 Literally toxic is really good for removing pigmentation. So I 0:15:32.099 --> 0:15:34.699 painted it onto my face and I gave myself a 0:15:34.699 --> 0:15:37.659 third degree burn on my forehead, which the scar is 0:15:37.739 --> 0:15:38.619 still there now. 0:15:38.659 --> 0:15:40.339 It looks I made it ten times worse, but it 0:15:40.379 --> 0:15:43.819 is literally on my forehead where I burnt myself. Wat 0:15:43.939 --> 0:15:46.779 you could you be so twenty four? 0:15:46.979 --> 0:15:49.459 All right, Well, I've actually called up. Do you remember 0:15:49.659 --> 0:15:52.299 Tilly Whitfield. She was on Big Brother. She's just a 0:15:52.299 --> 0:15:54.499 breath of fresh air. She's the best. But one of 0:15:54.539 --> 0:15:57.179 the things that she was speaking about is a DIY 0:15:57.339 --> 0:15:59.539 beauty hack that she tried to do that was like 0:15:59.619 --> 0:16:02.859 an absolute fail. So I want you to hear it 0:16:02.979 --> 0:16:05.219 from her, Tilly, Welcome to the pickup. 0:16:05.859 --> 0:16:07.699 Hi, guys, how are you hi? 0:16:08.019 --> 0:16:08.899 How are you wait? 0:16:08.939 --> 0:16:11.499 Wait? Can I say something before you even go into that? 0:16:11.899 --> 0:16:14.459 When you were talking about warts, you're gonna diet this. 0:16:15.139 --> 0:16:23.099 My uncle used to bite my cousin's water. No. Yeah, 0:16:23.139 --> 0:16:25.139 I come from a DIY family. 0:16:24.939 --> 0:16:28.139 So that's not Wait he put his mouth on the 0:16:28.139 --> 0:16:29.259 water and just bit it down. 0:16:29.619 --> 0:16:30.579 Yeah, he'd bite them. 0:16:31.939 --> 0:16:34.219 Are we talking like a normal water or a place? Wait, 0:16:34.259 --> 0:16:37.299 didn't matter. So he did it to himself or anyway, you. 0:16:37.339 --> 0:16:38.579 Know, his kids, his kids. 0:16:38.659 --> 0:16:40.259 You can't bite a water for child. 0:16:40.379 --> 0:16:43.139 I could vomit in my mouth, I actually feel. But 0:16:43.299 --> 0:16:46.459 also clearly no, wonder you trying to tattoo your own face. 0:16:46.619 --> 0:16:49.619 I was like, gods, okay, that's a whole other conversation, 0:16:49.739 --> 0:16:50.259 the war thing. 0:16:50.499 --> 0:16:51.979 Tell us what you did. 0:16:51.819 --> 0:16:54.859 And why I was going on to big brother. I 0:16:54.899 --> 0:16:57.179 had to have like all the permanent makeups, so I 0:16:57.259 --> 0:16:59.899