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<v Speaker 1>Laura, Come on.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello everyone, Hi, Hi Laura Mita you right over there?

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<v Speaker 3>Are you right? What's wrong?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that there are some foods that should not

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<v Speaker 2>be consumed in confined spaces. We can all agree that

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<v Speaker 2>tuna is one of them, and you know another one

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<v Speaker 2>is banana.

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<v Speaker 4>I sit on a plane and eat a banana? Are you?

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<v Speaker 1>I would strongly disagree with both those things. I eat

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<v Speaker 1>tuna and bananas in a room.

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<v Speaker 4>Would you eat it? Would you eat tuna on a plane? Absolutely?

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<v Speaker 2>You would sit on a plane and open a can

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<v Speaker 2>of tuna next to someone?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? Absolutely, This is so dramatic.

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<v Speaker 5>A radio station to a plane is completely different.

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<v Speaker 4>We're in the tiniest room. We are in a canon.

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<v Speaker 4>I did eat but it was raw, so didn't smell you.

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<v Speaker 4>That would really be.

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<v Speaker 3>A hypocritical happy Monday show. We're all best.

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<v Speaker 4>Sorry, we love each other.

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<v Speaker 3>Banana are eating freak?

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<v Speaker 5>Listen you just say raw sashimi? I'm like, what is

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<v Speaker 5>that smell? Is someone painting? No, Laura's got with sabi.

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<v Speaker 5>You whip it out on sashimi on the desk three

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<v Speaker 5>pm as well, mate, Userson.

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<v Speaker 1>No, this is the same person that wouldn't let you

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<v Speaker 1>come into this room if you had chewing gum in

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<v Speaker 1>your mouth.

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<v Speaker 4>So I think grain of salt with Laura Burn.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe I have a pain in my ears. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm the pain in your ask Mitch, don't I sorry?

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<v Speaker 5>Let me eat a banana and live. Guys like I

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<v Speaker 5>need some sustenance. It's because we're doing pick up put

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<v Speaker 5>down next to start the show. We do it every

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<v Speaker 5>week all the big stories from the weekend that the

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<v Speaker 5>world have been talking about. Everyone thinks, God, should we

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<v Speaker 5>carry on these conversations into the weekend. Let's ask what

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<v Speaker 5>Britney Hockley and Laura Burn have to say about these topics.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, the problem is they're never the big topics. But

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<v Speaker 2>we've established that now.

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<v Speaker 5>Well listen, Australia could soon face a national g string

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<v Speaker 5>band and two of.

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<v Speaker 3>The biggest purchases of these items in this room with me.

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<v Speaker 3>So you're one of them, yes, and the other. We'll

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<v Speaker 3>do that next Here on the pickup. Welcome, it's Monday.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's celebrate here your dead.

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<v Speaker 5>I have collated all the big stories from the weekend Britain, Laura,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm going to bring them to you what I deem them.

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<v Speaker 5>I've talked about stories in the world.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you think Mitch has ever actually read the news?

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<v Speaker 4>I reckon he just watches it on TikTok one hundred percent.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think you've ever read.

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<v Speaker 3>Just the hick and reason.

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<v Speaker 4>No, just full stop. I think you only read the headlines.

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<v Speaker 4>That's what That's what you do, right, Laura, you can't talk.

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<v Speaker 1>You are the worst for a clickbait headline.

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<v Speaker 5>All right, you guys decide whether or not we keep

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<v Speaker 5>talking about these topic, So we move on. Last week

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<v Speaker 5>on the show, I was talking about my lunch on

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<v Speaker 5>the way to work.

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<v Speaker 3>This is what I said, if you missed it.

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<v Speaker 5>I had this boiled egg in my left hand, driving

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<v Speaker 5>the steering wheel with my right. I get this egg

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<v Speaker 5>and I smash it against the gearstick knob and I

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<v Speaker 5>get the most perfect crack in the world. And I

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<v Speaker 5>had a couple of treacherous turns coming up, so I thought,

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<v Speaker 5>all right, I'll put this egg on my chair, and

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<v Speaker 5>the egg rolls back into the egg shell, so pick

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<v Speaker 5>it up. Now this egg man is covered in eggshell.

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<v Speaker 5>And then I end up throwing it out the window

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<v Speaker 5>because I'm so pissed off. I've already heard today Laura,

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<v Speaker 5>you've got feelings about my work snacks, Mitch.

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<v Speaker 2>I have feelings about this whole segment. This is meant

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<v Speaker 2>to be about the news. And now you've done a

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<v Speaker 2>takeover about your eggs, which also stink, and I have

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<v Speaker 2>a problem with you eating them in small, confined spaces.

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<v Speaker 4>What's the pickup?

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<v Speaker 3>Put down? What is the question? We had feedback saying

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<v Speaker 3>you should not be eating eggs at all?

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<v Speaker 1>As I say you, one of my favorite snacks is

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<v Speaker 1>a boiled egg.

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<v Speaker 3>So that's my question. Eggs as a snack.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I have eggs as a snack in my bag.

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<v Speaker 4>Now are you a toddler? Are you kidding?

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<v Speaker 1>It's such high protein, it's so good for you, it's healthy,

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<v Speaker 1>and it keeps you full.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just really again, I'm really against snacks that stink. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want stinky snacks.

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<v Speaker 4>Boiled eggs. Don't putting it down.

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<v Speaker 5>If you do them right, they're good, Laura, All right, cool,

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<v Speaker 5>I try to take eggs.

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<v Speaker 3>Are sponsoring myself?

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<v Speaker 5>All right?

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<v Speaker 3>Pick up? Put down? Banning nicknames for your children?

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<v Speaker 4>What I don't have kids?

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<v Speaker 2>Put it down, put it down. And I say this

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<v Speaker 2>with all the loving respect to.

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<v Speaker 4>My beautiful sister and her husband, Mikey, my brother in law.

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<v Speaker 2>When when Archer was born, my nephew, they said no

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<v Speaker 2>one's allowed to call him Archie, and now no one

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<v Speaker 2>calls him Archie, but I always have the urge I

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<v Speaker 2>really want to do it. So I think you shouldn't

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<v Speaker 2>bear nicknames because.

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<v Speaker 4>What's the mean? And then you can bear them.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, Mum's net, which is like an online mummy blogger,

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<v Speaker 5>sounds like my personal hell to be honest. Friends and

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<v Speaker 5>family have commented saying that the baby at daycare has

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<v Speaker 5>been told from the daycare, we're not going to refer

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<v Speaker 5>to you as your nickname.

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<v Speaker 3>You have to be you have to use your normal nickname,

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<v Speaker 3>and the mum's upset.

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<v Speaker 1>Why.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I don't mind it.

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<v Speaker 1>My nickname was p head, so I wouldn't mind if

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<v Speaker 1>that was banned, or ski jump nose because I had.

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<v Speaker 4>A little nose.

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<v Speaker 2>Ski jump nose is actually a compliment and people pay

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of money for that nose.

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<v Speaker 1>But actually a lot of my payouts were to do

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<v Speaker 1>with my face, which is concern.

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<v Speaker 3>Pritty early person.

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<v Speaker 5>She's like in high school, you know what they called me,

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<v Speaker 5>gorgeous cheek bones, pick up put down G string bikinis.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to say, you pick it up.

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<v Speaker 5>I have them right, well, I know you have them,

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<v Speaker 5>but I find of a woman wearing the G string

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<v Speaker 5>banger has gone viral. Now the debate in Australia has

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<v Speaker 5>been set off. Should we ban them? Some people are

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<v Speaker 5>going as far to say let's ban them. A pole

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<v Speaker 5>said around seven thousand people said yes, ban them. Six thousand,

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<v Speaker 5>six hundred people said no, don't ban them.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna say, put it down because it makes me

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<v Speaker 2>feel inferior, because my poor flat mum bum can't wear

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<v Speaker 2>a G string bikini anymore.

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<v Speaker 4>No, it's so flat.

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<v Speaker 2>This something happens after you give birth to kids. No

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<v Speaker 2>one talks about it, but it's like your your butt

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<v Speaker 2>goes concave, it goes the opposite way and it flattens

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<v Speaker 2>down against your That's got.

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<v Speaker 4>Nothing to do with having kids.

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<v Speaker 1>You haven't exercised in months.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, that really pointed, and I hurt me a little bit.

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<v Speaker 3>He told me that I.

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<v Speaker 4>Can't wear a G string bikini. And I see some

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<v Speaker 4>of the I sound like, yeah, I sound like such an.

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<v Speaker 2>Old lady, but I see some really young girls at

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<v Speaker 2>the beach wearing G string bikinis and I'm like, please

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<v Speaker 2>put us the wrong on.

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<v Speaker 4>It's too much. I Matt, cover your eyes.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have G string bikinis, but I have like

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<v Speaker 1>the Brazilian ones that are smaller and sometimes my butt

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<v Speaker 1>sucks it up.

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<v Speaker 5>That's actually me sorry that your butt is so strong

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<v Speaker 5>it's sucks seeing any material and turns it into.

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<v Speaker 4>A gdu You should feel my glutes.

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<v Speaker 1>If you want, you can punch it time, Peter, thank

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<v Speaker 1>you so much for that for the offer.

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<v Speaker 4>But I'm okay, do you want to punch it my

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<v Speaker 4>gluere Oh.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, now punch mine you'll lose your hand.

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<v Speaker 2>That really took a turn from Monday. I can punch

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<v Speaker 2>it later, manuch, No, I'm all right there. You all

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<v Speaker 2>right back after this, I would pick up.

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<v Speaker 4>Laws.

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<v Speaker 1>You've had a little bit of a rough trot lately,

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<v Speaker 1>and you want to talk a bit about it today.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, something we've been talking about over the last few

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<v Speaker 2>months is something very important to me and I appreciate

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<v Speaker 2>you guys giving me the space to share it. My stepdad, Neil,

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<v Speaker 2>who's been a part of my life for the past

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<v Speaker 2>twenty years. He was diagnosed with prostate cancer nine years ago. Now,

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<v Speaker 2>I shared that he was in palliative care and we

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<v Speaker 2>spoke about the importance of talking to the men in

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<v Speaker 2>your life that you love around checking their prostate, and

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<v Speaker 2>we had acuch an incredible response on this show. We

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<v Speaker 2>had so many of you who went home and had

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<v Speaker 2>those conversations with your dad, and for that, I am

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<v Speaker 2>so grateful. This was actually Maddie was one of the

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<v Speaker 2>girls that we spoke to, and this is what she

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<v Speaker 2>had to say.

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<v Speaker 6>So gave my bars and was just like, hey, heard

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<v Speaker 6>this really sad story on the radio, but like just

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<v Speaker 6>making sure you've had your checks and hey, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 6>he's the full man with sixties and he was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 6>I do you want to talk about that?

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<v Speaker 7>You know?

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<v Speaker 6>And I actually had a like my own blood test.

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<v Speaker 6>I didn't get my checks, nothing too exciting, and I

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<v Speaker 6>was like, come on tomorrow morning, I'm going to pick

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<v Speaker 6>you up. We'll go get our blood tests on together

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<v Speaker 6>and then we can't go get brecky wort a date.

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<v Speaker 1>For blood test.

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<v Speaker 6>So it was actually really nice.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, the reason why I wanted to talk about it

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<v Speaker 2>is because Neil passed away on Tuesday, So sorry laws.

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<v Speaker 2>He fought so hard. He fought for nine years, right

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<v Speaker 2>until the very end, and sorry, guys, give me one step.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you? Do you want tish? She can we get

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<v Speaker 3>all rung? We prepared. Oh, she's got.

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<v Speaker 2>Them right until the very end. And he was surrounded

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<v Speaker 2>by his two children, my mum, and I.

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<v Speaker 4>Was able to be there to say goodbye.

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<v Speaker 2>But I feel so grateful to have this platform, and

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<v Speaker 2>I feel so grateful to be able to do the

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<v Speaker 2>show with you guys, and to talk about something that

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<v Speaker 2>is so important to me because Neil was only in

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<v Speaker 2>his sixties. He has six amazing grandchildren, and he played

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<v Speaker 2>such a huge part in all of our lives. But

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<v Speaker 2>he never went and got his prostate checked. And in

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<v Speaker 2>our family, we never spoke about it. It just wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>ever something that I think anyone thought to have the

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<v Speaker 2>conversation with. And now for me, it's something that I realized.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I know it's weird. I know it's strange.

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<v Speaker 2>I know no thirty year old women are thinking, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to go talk to my dad about his prostate.

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<v Speaker 2>But god, I wish one of us had thought that.

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<v Speaker 2>And there were so many signs that something was wrong,

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<v Speaker 2>and it took getting to a point where it was

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<v Speaker 2>almost undeniable before he took himself to the doctors.

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<v Speaker 4>And it's just such a huge shame.

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<v Speaker 2>He was truly an amazing man, such a great granddad,

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<v Speaker 2>such a wonderful husband to my mum.

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<v Speaker 4>And he told the worst dad jokes.

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<v Speaker 2>He loved a pun and it was so hard saying

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<v Speaker 2>goodbye to him.

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<v Speaker 4>So he loved a Hawaiian shirt. He loved a Hawaiian shirt.

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<v Speaker 3>I remember Dance.

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<v Speaker 2>Your wedding, yea man on the dance flo didn't he

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<v Speaker 2>just But I mean, there's so many conversations that we

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<v Speaker 2>have around cancer, and for anyone who's experienced it in

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<v Speaker 2>their family, it's horrific no matter what the cancer is.

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<v Speaker 2>But I think prostate cancer is one of those ones

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<v Speaker 2>that's just a bit icky to talk about. And I

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<v Speaker 2>think a lot of men in particular feel very private

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<v Speaker 2>about the health and feel very private about things that

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<v Speaker 2>they're going through.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, it's not something that's normal to talk about.

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<v Speaker 2>If you have a man in your life, whether it's

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<v Speaker 2>your uncle or your dad or your husband, if it's

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<v Speaker 2>a conversation that you've never had with them, please just

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<v Speaker 2>send a text message or the next time you're on

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<v Speaker 2>the phone, just ask them when did they go and

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<v Speaker 2>get their prostate checked? Because it's such a simple test

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<v Speaker 2>these days, it's it's a blood test. They check their

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<v Speaker 2>PSA and that's kind of the indicator of the cancer.

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<v Speaker 2>And yeah, just it really could save their life and

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<v Speaker 2>you could be you know, could save another family from

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<v Speaker 2>being in the situation that we are in.

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<v Speaker 4>Now.

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<v Speaker 1>The message here is, guys, you do need to advocate

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<v Speaker 1>for your own health because no one else is going

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<v Speaker 1>to do it for you.

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<v Speaker 3>We love you, We're here for you.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you so much, guys.

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<v Speaker 3>All right back after this on the pickup, So.

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<v Speaker 1>Mitch and Laura is someone that has just recently gotten engaged,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I'm sor yes, Oh I was like

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<v Speaker 1>what anyway, someone that just recently got engaged. I get

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<v Speaker 1>served a lot of engagement content.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, you're the target audience.

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<v Speaker 1>Now I am the target audience. And there's this one

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<v Speaker 1>viral TikTok debate at the moment from this woman that

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<v Speaker 1>has completely divided the internet because she's gone on to

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<v Speaker 1>say that if a man can't pick being gaged ring

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<v Speaker 1>on his own accord, that he's not the right man

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<v Speaker 1>for you.

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<v Speaker 7>Have a listen call me old fashion, but I think

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<v Speaker 7>it is so weird when the girl knows exactly what

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<v Speaker 7>ring she's getting. I feel like women have gotten so

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<v Speaker 7>insecure and so entitled about their ring because of social

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<v Speaker 7>media and how it will look to other people that

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<v Speaker 7>they've forgotten what the proposal and what the ring even symbolizes.

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<v Speaker 7>If you even have anxiety that your man is going

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<v Speaker 7>to get you the wrong ring, you're with the wrong guy.

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<v Speaker 7>Woman to women, the right guy will not fok that up.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, she sounds horrible.

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<v Speaker 1>She actually like when I listen to it again, she

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<v Speaker 1>sounded like a mold does she sounds awful?

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<v Speaker 4>Like that is not a red flag.

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<v Speaker 1>If your partner cannot quite pick the exact right ring,

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't mean he's the wrong person.

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<v Speaker 5>Also, if you want to go back to the roots

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<v Speaker 5>of marriage, it's so the man can own the woman.

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<v Speaker 5>Like she's like, go back to the original.

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<v Speaker 4>Old fashion.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, firstly, there's a photo here of her ring. Of course,

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<v Speaker 2>she's not complaining. She's going to be dragging her knuckles

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<v Speaker 2>around on the floor with that thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I look, I sort of agree with the sentiment a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit, like what she's trying to say in the messaging,

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<v Speaker 1>but the way she says it is so rude and

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<v Speaker 1>so offensive. I understand where she's like, just let him

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<v Speaker 1>pick it. I get that because there's something quite nice

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<v Speaker 1>in that. I let Ben, my fiance, pick mine. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't tell him exactly what I wanted.

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<v Speaker 2>I did him save enough images though in your Instagram,

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<v Speaker 2>which I found them all and sent them to him.

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<v Speaker 2>He had a very clear indication of what you wanted,

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<v Speaker 2>but not one ring was the same. Well, I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>I think that there's different ways that you can split this.

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<v Speaker 2>She's saying that people are insecure about what other people think,

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<v Speaker 2>and that's why people are concerned about their ring.

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<v Speaker 4>But I think for some men it is so overwhelming.

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<v Speaker 2>There is so much pressure on choosing the right ring,

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<v Speaker 2>on getting things perfect, that they almost feel debilitated by

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<v Speaker 2>the choice. So if somebody doesn't get the right ring,

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<v Speaker 2>or it's not exactly your style, or they've asked for

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<v Speaker 2>your help or you've given them some direction, it doesn't

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<v Speaker 2>mean that they're a bad partner, doesn't mean that they're

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<v Speaker 2>the wrong person. I just think this is a superficial

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<v Speaker 2>way of looking at it, that she's being superficial.

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<v Speaker 3>And Alissa's gives his a call. Hay, Melissa, what are

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<v Speaker 3>your thoughts on this?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, hey, Mitch, my husband he picked it all himself,

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<v Speaker 6>did the did everything, did the research, the cut, clarity

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<v Speaker 6>and all that went to a diamond dealer and yes.

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<v Speaker 3>Happy Did you like it?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh?

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<v Speaker 6>I loved it. Yeah, it's the best. Yeah, it's just

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<v Speaker 6>a classic. Looks like a Tiffany ring, but not as

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<v Speaker 6>expensive as Tiffany ring.

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<v Speaker 4>Beautiful.

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<v Speaker 3>Sorry, we've got to ask the spell. Does he have

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<v Speaker 3>a taste? Is he into style?

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<v Speaker 6>He's got, he's got, he's got great style.

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<v Speaker 3>That has a taste. And then a man who's not

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<v Speaker 3>into it.

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<v Speaker 2>But you can't hold that against them, Like, just because

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<v Speaker 2>they don't have very good taste doesn't mean they would

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<v Speaker 2>make a terribles.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't mean they're the wrong person. And Ben, I

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<v Speaker 1>know my fiance almost brought me white gold. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>wear white gold. I know if he did, I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>have said, oh, red flag and dumbed him like I still.

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<v Speaker 3>Would have married it.

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<v Speaker 5>It made sure for the sake of your relationship that

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<v Speaker 5>it wasn't yet gold.

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<v Speaker 2>I set him in a really good direction for that,

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<v Speaker 2>I reckon. You can thank me for your ring Britt. Actually,

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<v Speaker 2>thank you for.

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