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Speaker 1: It's the Will and Woody podcast.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so how did Edward from Twilight make his money?

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Speaker 3: This came up naturally in the podcast. Well, look, without

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Speaker 3: giving too much away because people will be able to

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Speaker 3: enjoy this in the full show. You effectively refer to

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Speaker 3: Edward the vampire as a sugar daddy now because.

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Speaker 2: He's got he's worth a lot of money. He's worth

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Speaker 3: And he's thinking, you're making these grand assumptions.

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Speaker 4: Vampires are always rich because they've got hundreds of years

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Speaker 5: Okay, and if I'm to accept that, I get there

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Speaker 5: here for hundreds of years.

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Speaker 3: But let's be honest, if I was here for hundreds

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Speaker 5: The vampires doing to make cash?

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Speaker 4: Because you just like invest in a blue chip share

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Speaker 4: and you know you did get to see that share

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Speaker 2: Edward's not five hundred years rather than for twenty years.

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Speaker 4: Edward just went in there bought himself some west Packs

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Speaker 4: when he brought himself one hundred west packs five years ago.

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Speaker 5: But how did he get the cash? He's still cash poor.

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Speaker 2: And even if he might have had, like you, know

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Speaker 4: Sure, but then the way that he invested that into

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Speaker 4: Westpac shares and now he's got billions of dollars.

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Speaker 5: Surely it's property.

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Speaker 2: Boys could be property, but the back shares.

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Speaker 3: I think both of you, though, aren't accepted the father

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Speaker 3: that if his money's tied up in shares, how is

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Speaker 3: he buying his sweet volvo that he drives the school in.

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Speaker 2: Exactly, he drives a sweet vulva. Thank you very Muchey's sweet.

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Speaker 2: You're happy to admit it is a sweet volvo.

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Speaker 4: Now I'm playing in the space thirty t five, baby,

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Speaker 2: I'm playing he last back.

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Speaker 3: I'm playing in the space that he has disposable income now,

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Speaker 3: But how would he have disposable income if his money's

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Speaker 4: Because he gets dividends. Bro, he's getting five hundred year

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Speaker 4: old dividends. That'd be like a million dollars a pop.

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Speaker 3: So for five hundred years, he's not making a lot

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Speaker 3: of money. So you're admitting he was slumming it for

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Speaker 3: five hundred years on the street.

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Speaker 2: Anything. His money's teddy right now.

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Speaker 4: He wears velvet suits and drives a mint vulva, Like

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Speaker 4: it doesn't mean like a thousand, the thousandth year, Edward

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Speaker 4: finally cashesde So you just have to like sacrifice for

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Speaker 2: It doesn't matter because Kara or whatever it.

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Speaker 5: Was, who's Kara?

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Speaker 2: Who's the chick?

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Speaker 5: I don't watch the films Bella Bella, bella.

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Speaker 4: She catches into the end man she shot, doesn't It

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Speaker 4: doesn't matter what your sugar daddy's bank account is like

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Speaker 4: before you meet them. It's all the sugar girls say.

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Speaker 4: It's when you meet the sugar daddy's when you count

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you don't care how he made his money, but

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Speaker 3: like Gatsby, you no, that was a bit dodgy at

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Speaker 2: Beautiful.

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Speaker 2: I enjoyed the podcast tomorrow.

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Speaker 4: Oh, just very quickly before you get into this podcast,

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Speaker 4: if you wanted to get the Share my Mood podcast,

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Speaker 4: which is it's a totally separate podcast, you can get

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Speaker 4: it wherever you get your podcasts as well.

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Speaker 2: Just search share my Mood.

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Speaker 4: And that's all about the journey about how we're going

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Speaker 4: to try and build this mental health app.

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Speaker 2: So check that out as well enjoy.

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Speaker 6: It and where is Boddy?

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Speaker 2: Doesn't care? Listen?

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Speaker 2: What's so?

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Speaker 4: Two years ago you and I sat down on my

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Speaker 4: and how grateful I actually was to you for translating

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Speaker 7: You wanted every other do just forgive me for how

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Speaker 7: many bosses you've talked of a ledge because of how

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Speaker 2: Do you find people like you? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Jeez, that's actually really tough for me to play and

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Speaker 4: Video that you and I did for Auokda is that

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Speaker 4: it's easily the thing that most people speak to us about, Like,

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Speaker 4: thank you so much for doing that video. It helped

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Speaker 4: But about two weeks after you and I sat down

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Speaker 5: And he would have seen that video. I'm sure he

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Speaker 4: Like it's really tragic. And look, the number for Lifeline

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Speaker 4: that audio, mate, it's really special. Look, I think we

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Speaker 4: Like you're really wrong. One in five people suffer with

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Speaker 4: a mental health illness or some sort of duress about stress, anxiety, depression,

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Speaker 4: So look Lifeline's numbers thirteen eleven fourteen if you need

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Speaker 4: got Georgia, who's called Georgia. Yees, so you're eighteen years old, mate,

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Speaker 4: Thanks for calling. This is something developing, an app or

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Speaker 4: Georgia sad movie, Perfect Storm. It's nice to touch on

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Speaker 2: with the Walrus. He works at the aquarium in that one.

444
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Speaker 4: Yeah, he's got his walrus friend, and you learn that

445
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Speaker 4: fact that walrus's penises the largest in proportion to any

446
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Speaker 4: other animal on the planet.

447
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Speaker 5: So right, that's right there you go.

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Speaker 4: Joey, no might Okay, we've got to Joe for sure,

449
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Speaker 4: what else do you want to know about Walrus?

450
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Speaker 2: Is about Walros's penises?

451
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Speaker 9: Or no?

452
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Speaker 5: Nothing?

453
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Speaker 3: No, Joey, do you want to have a guess at

454
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Speaker 3: what movie Will is describing?

455
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Speaker 12: Yes, it's just nineteen a film called Happiness.

456
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Speaker 2: I haven't seen it, Joey, So chances are no.

457
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Speaker 4: I love those writers rooms, so they come with some

458
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Speaker 4: strong names back in those days, just really.

459
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Speaker 2: Threw it at everybody. People want to see that.

460
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Speaker 3: I wouldn't mid have another crack brother castaway, Tom Hanks castaway.

461
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Speaker 3: He loved tuna. He was always fishing for tuna. You

462
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Speaker 3: talk about a lot in the director's cut and try.

463
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Speaker 2: And throw directors fix correct, correct.

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Speaker 4: I'm going to go to Matt though, because I'm happy

465
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Speaker 4: to say it looks like Maddie's got the answer. Matte

466
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Speaker 4: Tunior enthusiast falls out with friend over DVD players.

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Speaker 2: What's the filmot, what's.

468
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Speaker 5: The what's the DVD player?

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Speaker 9: There?

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Speaker 4: So funnily enough, and this is actually just starting to

471
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Speaker 4: show how dated Fast and Furious is as a as

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Speaker 4: a film. And that's what they were stealing from the truck.

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Speaker 4: It was d D players from the trucks, back when

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Speaker 4: d players were not just junk like they were actually

475
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Speaker 4: really expensive bits of equipment.

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Speaker 2: And Paul Walker at the start.

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Speaker 4: Of the movie, the reason that he actually you know,

478
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Speaker 4: or his screen, is because he's into Vin Diesel Sisto,

479
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Speaker 4: who serves the tuna sandwiches at the bar. At the

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Speaker 4: first start, right Maddie, I made his gun. He's just

481
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Speaker 4: all the movie smoke bombed.

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Speaker 3: He always ordered the Turner sandwich and no one believes

483
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Speaker 3: that he's there for the Turner sandwich, which he wasn't.

484
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Speaker 3: He wanted Vinn's sister and he got it wild romance

485
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Speaker 3: that actually it was.

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Speaker 2: A wilder wild romance of a wild romance, and it.

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Speaker 5: Wasn't it into the Toreedo family.

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Speaker 4: But it was hard for him, I argue, was out

489
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Speaker 4: of that actually, Paul Walker like, it was like, you know,

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Speaker 4: you're there for the sister, you're there for the cars,

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Speaker 4: and then you know what are you there for?

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Speaker 15: What?

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Speaker 2: You might be there for the whole thing.

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Speaker 3: And that's why the movie's went on for nine because

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Speaker 3: you have to explain that. You know, that hole is

496
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Speaker 3: kept betting deeper and deeper. Anyway, what's the next plot?

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Speaker 9: Right up?

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Speaker 2: Next? One? Six, five? You know the plot? Please?

499
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Speaker 4: If you know the movie. Please give us a call.

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Speaker 4: This is the plot. Woman is torn between sugar Daddy

501
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Speaker 4: and a dog.

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Speaker 5: Sugar Daddy and dog.

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Speaker 2: You might get this Woods, I'm gonna give you twenty

504
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Speaker 2: seconds to get.

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Speaker 5: Sugar Daddy and dog. Uh, I'm not good with my

506
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Speaker 5: dog movies. You know that. You know it's my achilles heel. Yeah,

507
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Speaker 5: fair enough?

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Speaker 2: After that hurts, all right, we'll go to everybody else.

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Speaker 5: Okay, fair enough.

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Speaker 1: It's the Will and Woody podcast.

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Speaker 2: Oh he must as hell Will and Woody handle the

512
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Speaker 2: true lost.

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Speaker 6: Plots? All right?

514
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Speaker 4: So I explained a movie plot really badly. Based on

515
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Speaker 4: that plot, you have to guess what the film is.

516
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Speaker 4: Thirty one and six five. If you know the movie,

517
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Speaker 4: give us call it any stage. Woody's merciless here like

518
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Speaker 4: he'll he'll happily ruin the bit if it means he.

519
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Speaker 2: Gets it right.

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Speaker 5: Seven psychopaths.

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Speaker 2: See, I haven't even said it. I haven't even said

522
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Speaker 2: the plot. Can I say the plot?

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Speaker 9: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Go for it.

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Speaker 4: Woman is torn between sugar daddy and a dog.

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Speaker 2: And oh, woman oops to Stephanie. Let's go to sane Stephanie.

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Speaker 2: What's a movie? Is it? Annie? Annie? Is he like

528
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Speaker 2: the musical?

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Speaker 9: Yeah?

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Speaker 10: It's a little girl and her dad's really rich.

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Speaker 4: Her and he doesn't like the dog's torn. It's got

532
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Speaker 4: all the got all the building blocks there. It's incorrect. Now, Annie, Stephanie,

533
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Speaker 4: I'm sorry I called you Annie as well. Red Dog,

534
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Speaker 4: Red Dog, Red dog.

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Speaker 2: Have you seen that? It's just because it's got dog

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Speaker 2: in it.

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Speaker 11: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Dog movies are you Achilles Hill? I thought you were

539
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Speaker 2: joking before, but they are.

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Speaker 5: I don't like them.

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Speaker 2: You don't like dog film. These dogs that talk and

542
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Speaker 2: it's just like, how do you feel about Napoleon?

543
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Speaker 5: Very average film.

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Speaker 2: Pretty cute dog, though very unrealistic. It is the cuteness

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Speaker 2: of the dog salvage the plot.

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Speaker 5: Absolutely not. If I want a cute dog, I'll look

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Speaker 5: up cute dogs on Google.

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Speaker 2: We're a big lassy guy.

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Speaker 5: Then I didn't Unleassie. Now Lassie was all right, let's

550
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Speaker 5: go to Janell and thirty one or six five?

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Speaker 3: Janelle, you want to have a go at woman is

552
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Speaker 3: choosing between sugar daddy and dog.

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Speaker 2: What's a movie I'm going to go.

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Speaker 14: I'm gonna go with Beverly Hills.

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Speaker 4: Chuaa Beverly Hills to right now, Janelle, how often do

556
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Speaker 4: you listen to the.

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Speaker 11: Show every now and then.

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Speaker 2: Okay, our show. That's that's that's nice.

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Speaker 4: What do you think the chances are that we've seen

560
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Speaker 4: Beverly Hills Chihuaha.

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Speaker 13: Probably slim to none, think Beverly Hills. There's rich sugar daddies.

562
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Speaker 13: And as a dog, that's.

563
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Speaker 12: The best thing can come up with.

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Speaker 4: Thanks you doing yes, never ending story as in foul

565
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Speaker 4: cause the dog?

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Speaker 5: Yes, who's she?

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Speaker 4: Because woman chooses between sugar daddy and a dog? And

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Speaker 4: who's the sugar daddy? Have you just gone for another

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Speaker 4: dog field? It's not even a dog man?

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Speaker 2: These are there?

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Speaker 11: There?

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Speaker 2: Your Achilles Hill.

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Speaker 5: It's a great theme song.

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Speaker 3: Though you're you're deliberately obscure though, so I'm trying to

575
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Speaker 3: think outside the box, you know, one hundred and Dalmatians.

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Speaker 4: Mate, if you continue, I know that, I know that

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Speaker 4: you're going for dog flicks.

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Speaker 2: I know you are. You're coming off as weak.

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Speaker 5: Oh I don't want that.

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Speaker 12: Now?

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Speaker 4: Is your friend that I need to because there is

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Speaker 4: an obvious answer here, Lion king that's a cat.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, let's go.

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Speaker 2: Oh oh no, come on the.

585
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Speaker 3: Movie with old mate. You know, you know he's in

586
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Speaker 3: all the action movies. What's he called?

587
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Speaker 4: Wolf, or like it's called the Gray, The Gray again?

588
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Speaker 4: Just another dog film. I'm actually starting to get annoyed.

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Speaker 4: Let's go to Tilly, Tilly, Tilly a case of the

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Speaker 4: plot is woman is torn between sugar daddy and a dog.

591
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Speaker 2: What's the film Twilight? It isn't.

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Speaker 5: Don't you look at me smuggling while sipping your tea?

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Speaker 2: Who's the sugar Dad? I will tea?

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Speaker 4: There is nothing more satisfactory than you having guessed fifteen

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Speaker 4: film films?

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00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:02,760
Speaker 2: Why and me? And then just someone coming on and

597
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Speaker 2: finding it in one? Why is it?

598
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Speaker 3: Will take another sip for that, Oh you sip? I'll

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Speaker 3: talk to Tilly Tilly talked to me? Why is Edward

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Speaker 3: of sugar Daddy?

601
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Speaker 13: Because he's old and he's got like accumulated money.

602
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Speaker 2: He's wealthy?

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Speaker 5: Is he rich?

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Speaker 9: Is he?

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Speaker 5: I actually haven't seen the film kidding him?

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Speaker 2: He's so wealthy?

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Speaker 5: Is he really so?

608
00:26:20,560 --> 00:26:21,640
Speaker 2: Like there are vampires?

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Speaker 5: How did he make his cash? What was he doing?

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Speaker 5: What was his vocation?

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Speaker 2: He's just been alive for thousands of years?

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Speaker 5: Pretty sure he went back to school last time.

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Speaker 10: Cover.

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Speaker 5: It's a cover, that's what you do on the side.

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Speaker 2: Was the man of the night? Is he making all

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Speaker 2: his cash at nights. He drives like a mint Volvo.

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Speaker 5: When he's there, you go, he drives a Volvo.

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Speaker 2: Clearly not that rich.

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Speaker 5: How many rich people.

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Speaker 3: He's sixteen seventy was packet rolling around with a Volvo?

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Speaker 5: Don't think so?

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Speaker 2: Get your plots right?

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Speaker 9: What do you capsule?

624
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Speaker 7: Oh?

625
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Speaker 1: Sorry? Had the podcast left on two time speed? There

626
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Speaker 1: sounded like a chipmunk. It's the Will and Woody podcast

627
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Speaker 1: on next day sees the calls extraordinary the three pm

628
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Speaker 1: pick up. She first came to our attention.

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Speaker 2: When she wrote the book Welcome to Your Period.

630
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Speaker 1: We had a great chat about periods just last week,

631
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Speaker 1: trying to find out if they sing up and we

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Speaker 1: still don't know. She's here today to talk to us

633
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Speaker 1: about her new book, Welcome to Consent. Are you my thing?

634
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Speaker 9: That just means sex, but it's not all about sex, Babe, here.

635
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Speaker 6: To tell us all about it.

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Speaker 12: Welcome to the show, Lumie Stein's yeah, thanks for having we.

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Speaker 2: Imorry, welcome, welcome, welcome? Now are you?

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Speaker 4: And before we get into, obviously what the book's about,

639
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Speaker 4: which with the name should be on the tin, But

640
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Speaker 4: I heard a story about you recently, your first day

641
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Speaker 4: of work experience was it We're talking about consent and

642
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Speaker 4: an incident with Robbie.

643
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Speaker 2: Robbie Williams, can you talk to us about that?

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Speaker 15: So it wasn't really work experience. It was like a

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Speaker 15: trial week that had eight or twelve competition finalists and

646
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Speaker 15: one of them was going to be selected to be

647
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Speaker 15: a VJ on the foxtail channel channel V Yes, So

648
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Speaker 15: I was one of those finalists.

649
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Speaker 2: Would you end up going on to I.

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Speaker 15: Won the competition, but I actually there was There were

651
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Speaker 15: two of us. They couldn't decide, so they gave James

652
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Speaker 15: Matheson and I both got the jobs. And part of

653
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Speaker 15: our sort of trial week was to interview various celebrities.

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Speaker 15: So James got Destiny's Child to interview and I got

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Speaker 15: Robbie Williams. So they both happened to be in the

656
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Speaker 15: country that week, and I thought that I was going to,

657
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Speaker 15: you know, really nail Robbie Williams.

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Speaker 2: So to speech.

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Speaker 5: What do you mean the interview Starns?

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Speaker 10: It was.

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Speaker 2: It was pretty hot.

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Speaker 15: He was it was the rock DJ era peak Robbie

663
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Speaker 15: before Yeah, t completely sexy guy. And I just thought, look,

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Speaker 15: I'm pretty green at interviewing rock stars. But I know

665
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Speaker 15: what most women in Australia would like to ask him,

666
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Speaker 15: which is can I please kiss you?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 15: So that was my plan was to you know, just

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Speaker 15: you know, ask real questions, but also ask that one.

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Speaker 15: But I thought I should just check in with him beforehand.

671
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Speaker 15: So we were back in the green room and I said, listen,

672
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Speaker 15: I want to ask you this on air. Is this okay?

673
00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:16,920
Speaker 14: You know?

674
00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:19,920
Speaker 15: Can I can I pash you? And they didn't know

675
00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:23,320
Speaker 15: what pash was. I think in England back then they used.

676
00:29:23,160 --> 00:29:23,920
Speaker 5: The word snog.

677
00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:26,480
Speaker 15: And he was like, oh, yeah, okay, you know worries, yell,

678
00:29:26,520 --> 00:29:29,240
Speaker 15: go and have a mint then, and so we sucked

679
00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:32,120
Speaker 15: on a tic tack or whatever and then but then

680
00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:34,240
Speaker 15: so I thought I was going to ask him the question,

681
00:29:34,320 --> 00:29:36,080
Speaker 15: but he just walked out and was like, so we

682
00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:38,360
Speaker 15: can have a snog then, and he grabbed me and

683
00:29:38,440 --> 00:29:40,920
Speaker 15: kind of almost did like a ballroom dip where he

684
00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:44,160
Speaker 15: dipped me back and kissed my mouth and it was

685
00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:46,280
Speaker 15: extremely hot to.

686
00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:54,440
Speaker 4: Me and there was yeah, shit, wow, first straight up,

687
00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:57,320
Speaker 4: straight a question. He was just like, we're gonna have

688
00:29:57,320 --> 00:29:59,480
Speaker 4: a snog then love and then just dipped you back and.

689
00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:03,360
Speaker 15: Then bang and tongue and there was a live wow,

690
00:30:03,760 --> 00:30:07,560
Speaker 15: screaming teenagers just losing their minds as this happened, and

691
00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:11,560
Speaker 15: as I kind of, you know, re erected myself from

692
00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:14,880
Speaker 15: the dip I wiped to my mouth and I kind

693
00:30:14,880 --> 00:30:16,560
Speaker 15: of went, I reckon, I've got the job.

694
00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:22,560
Speaker 4: So you just kissed the hottest guy in the world.

695
00:30:24,240 --> 00:30:26,880
Speaker 4: Great start to your career and everything. Yeah. The reason

696
00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:31,520
Speaker 4: I bring this up though, is, I mean, like, technically, technically,

697
00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:34,960
Speaker 4: if we're splitting hairs on the consent front, you didn't

698
00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:37,400
Speaker 4: actually give consent for him to do that. You had

699
00:30:37,400 --> 00:30:40,720
Speaker 4: to chat with him backstage. He had a mint struggled

700
00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:45,080
Speaker 4: mint or whatever. Yeah, day he did stick his tongue

701
00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:48,040
Speaker 4: down your throat without you officially.

702
00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:51,880
Speaker 15: Officially, Yeah, I think that you could say I did

703
00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:55,800
Speaker 15: consent since I had asked if I could kiss him. Yes, yeah,

704
00:30:55,800 --> 00:30:57,800
Speaker 15: but he sort of flipped it and kissed me. But

705
00:30:57,880 --> 00:31:00,560
Speaker 15: I would say that, you know, in a negotiation of

706
00:31:00,600 --> 00:31:02,840
Speaker 15: an intimate kind, that would probably be okay.

707
00:31:03,040 --> 00:31:04,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, And that's the reason I want to talk about

708
00:31:04,520 --> 00:31:06,200
Speaker 4: it more. Right Up next, we got more with Umy Steines.

709
00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:08,640
Speaker 4: We've got a brand new book called Welcome to Consent,

710
00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:11,959
Speaker 4: where she dissects all these issues. So stay with us.

711
00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:13,960
Speaker 4: It's Will and Woody brought to Bamacis and we've got

712
00:31:14,040 --> 00:31:16,520
Speaker 4: Umi Signs who joins us in the studio. Yumy's just

713
00:31:16,520 --> 00:31:20,880
Speaker 4: brought out a book called Welcome to consent Ums. Let's

714
00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:24,360
Speaker 4: just talk about a couple of the things that people

715
00:31:24,640 --> 00:31:27,200
Speaker 4: wouldn't expect this book to be about, because it's not

716
00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:28,320
Speaker 4: just about sex, is it.

717
00:31:28,440 --> 00:31:31,440
Speaker 15: No, not at all. It's about intimacy and just basically

718
00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:33,320
Speaker 15: having ownership of your own body.

719
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Speaker 9: Yeah.

720
00:31:33,800 --> 00:31:35,760
Speaker 3: Right, So can you give an example then, outside of

721
00:31:35,920 --> 00:31:38,040
Speaker 3: or sorry, outside of the intimacy and the sex, Umi,

722
00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:39,080
Speaker 3: can you give an example?

723
00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:42,520
Speaker 15: Uhh, yeah, totally. We start the book with a really

724
00:31:42,560 --> 00:31:45,160
Speaker 15: good example, which is like, somebody wants to borrow your

725
00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:47,400
Speaker 15: T shirt and it's your favorite T shirt, So how

726
00:31:47,440 --> 00:31:49,520
Speaker 15: do you give consent for that? And it's you know,

727
00:31:49,640 --> 00:31:52,120
Speaker 15: of course, yeah, you borrow my T shirt. So it

728
00:31:52,400 --> 00:31:55,479
Speaker 15: seems straightforward, but it's a good way to kind of

729
00:31:55,520 --> 00:31:58,520
Speaker 15: make an entry point into the ways it can get complicated.

730
00:31:58,640 --> 00:32:00,880
Speaker 15: So what about if you, yeah, you can borrow my

731
00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:03,240
Speaker 15: T shirt, but then later you change your mind, like

732
00:32:03,480 --> 00:32:05,200
Speaker 15: you're allowed to say, actually, I've changed my mind kind

733
00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:07,320
Speaker 15: of my T shirt back, Or what about if you

734
00:32:07,360 --> 00:32:09,000
Speaker 15: say yeah, you can borrow my T shirt, but you

735
00:32:09,080 --> 00:32:11,840
Speaker 15: don't realize that the person borrowing it is taking it

736
00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:15,560
Speaker 15: camping and they're going to get it filthy. And then

737
00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:18,800
Speaker 15: there's another question that gets really interesting to do with consent,

738
00:32:18,880 --> 00:32:21,520
Speaker 15: which is what about if that person has more power

739
00:32:21,800 --> 00:32:25,200
Speaker 15: than you, like if they're your boss, it's very hard

740
00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:27,680
Speaker 15: to say no, sorry, no, you can't have my T

741
00:32:27,800 --> 00:32:31,120
Speaker 15: shirt to your boss or the most popular kid at school.

742
00:32:31,280 --> 00:32:33,840
Speaker 15: So it's really good to kind of work in those

743
00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:36,680
Speaker 15: ideas before you start talking about sex, because sex can

744
00:32:36,720 --> 00:32:39,240
Speaker 15: be scary, and a lot of people who might not

745
00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:41,680
Speaker 15: be there yet, you know that, are reading this book

746
00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:43,240
Speaker 15: so they can get their heads around a T shirt

747
00:32:43,280 --> 00:32:44,720
Speaker 15: and go, yeah. It would be hard to say no

748
00:32:45,120 --> 00:32:47,600
Speaker 15: if it was my boss asking me, or the teacher're

749
00:32:47,640 --> 00:32:48,120
Speaker 15: asking me.

750
00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:49,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I know.

751
00:32:49,800 --> 00:32:54,080
Speaker 4: The law recently changed in Victoria where to take into

752
00:32:54,160 --> 00:32:58,520
Speaker 4: account that a reasonable person might consider the chance that

753
00:32:58,560 --> 00:33:00,840
Speaker 4: somebody might have changed their mind, not even that they

754
00:33:00,840 --> 00:33:02,840
Speaker 4: had changed their mind. Like, if you're having sex with

755
00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:05,600
Speaker 4: someone and the court thinks that a reasonable person in

756
00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:08,360
Speaker 4: your shoes could have seen that there was a chance

757
00:33:08,400 --> 00:33:10,719
Speaker 4: that they might have changed their mind, you are liable

758
00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:14,000
Speaker 4: for rape. In that instance, so they are not consenting.

759
00:33:14,080 --> 00:33:18,680
Speaker 4: So the game is very heavily geared and increasingly so

760
00:33:18,840 --> 00:33:23,200
Speaker 4: to protect people who aren't consenting. Yeah, and I think

761
00:33:23,200 --> 00:33:25,640
Speaker 4: that's a really good thing. But that means at the

762
00:33:25,640 --> 00:33:27,320
Speaker 4: same time that if you are going to have sex

763
00:33:27,320 --> 00:33:29,320
Speaker 4: with someone and they're not your partner and you haven't

764
00:33:29,360 --> 00:33:30,080
Speaker 4: done it frequently, or.

765
00:33:30,080 --> 00:33:32,280
Speaker 2: Even if they are your partner, like, you really.

766
00:33:32,160 --> 00:33:35,520
Speaker 4: Got to be across what you're able to do, and transparency,

767
00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:38,520
Speaker 4: no matter how awkward, is really the key.

768
00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:38,720
Speaker 2: Isn't it.

769
00:33:38,840 --> 00:33:40,720
Speaker 15: Well. One of the things will that I think is

770
00:33:40,800 --> 00:33:43,280
Speaker 15: worth keeping in mind, and it's why I'm so excited

771
00:33:43,280 --> 00:33:45,680
Speaker 15: to talk to you two today, is because men need

772
00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:48,880
Speaker 15: to be having this conversation and boys as well. I

773
00:33:48,960 --> 00:33:51,480
Speaker 15: think there's this old fashioned idea that we inherited from

774
00:33:51,480 --> 00:33:54,480
Speaker 15: our parents that sex is something that women withhold and

775
00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:57,320
Speaker 15: men try and get or snatch, you know, and it's

776
00:33:57,360 --> 00:33:59,160
Speaker 15: all about trying to grab as much as you can

777
00:33:59,200 --> 00:34:02,240
Speaker 15: before she says. And it shouldn't be like that. It

778
00:34:02,240 --> 00:34:04,280
Speaker 15: should be like, do you want to do this? And

779
00:34:04,520 --> 00:34:07,600
Speaker 15: the two people really want to both be doing it,

780
00:34:07,640 --> 00:34:10,279
Speaker 15: and it doesn't have to be you know, mad love

781
00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:13,440
Speaker 15: and romance and monogamy. It can be in a hookup situation,

782
00:34:13,560 --> 00:34:16,160
Speaker 15: but you still want both people to be into it.

783
00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:18,960
Speaker 15: So if you're not sure, then maybe you need to

784
00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:19,440
Speaker 15: be checking you.

785
00:34:19,520 --> 00:34:20,920
Speaker 2: It's also an exciting conversation.

786
00:34:21,000 --> 00:34:22,239
Speaker 4: I mean, they don't want to put too many of

787
00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:24,319
Speaker 4: my cards on the desk here, but like, no, it is.

788
00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:25,880
Speaker 2: That's a really exciting chat.

789
00:34:25,880 --> 00:34:27,680
Speaker 4: Like if you get a text message or something earlier

790
00:34:27,719 --> 00:34:29,560
Speaker 4: in the day saying like, hey, I'm really keen to

791
00:34:29,600 --> 00:34:33,360
Speaker 4: try this tonight, Like that is just a billion times better,

792
00:34:33,480 --> 00:34:36,520
Speaker 4: Like it's all you're thinking about all afternoon and then

793
00:34:36,760 --> 00:34:39,120
Speaker 4: rather than you know, sure, we all like a surprise,

794
00:34:39,239 --> 00:34:42,160
Speaker 4: but I'm telling you, like the lead up is ten

795
00:34:42,239 --> 00:34:43,160
Speaker 4: times a surprise.

796
00:34:43,360 --> 00:34:45,680
Speaker 15: That is so true. And it's hot for girls, so

797
00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:48,759
Speaker 15: don't think this is a gender thing. It's hot for everybody.

798
00:34:48,880 --> 00:34:50,600
Speaker 3: I was speaking of female friends of mine who say

799
00:34:50,600 --> 00:34:52,439
Speaker 3: that nothing turns them on more than when a guy

800
00:34:52,520 --> 00:34:53,600
Speaker 3: is saying are you okay?

801
00:34:53,640 --> 00:34:54,480
Speaker 5: Are you feeling okay?

802
00:34:54,480 --> 00:34:56,600
Speaker 3: And like checking in with someone, So any guy listening

803
00:34:56,640 --> 00:34:58,280
Speaker 3: it thinks that won't be received, well.

804
00:34:58,160 --> 00:34:59,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, you're a moron.

805
00:34:59,280 --> 00:35:01,879
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, and you know, don't follow and the other

806
00:35:01,880 --> 00:35:04,080
Speaker 3: thing with what you're saying Yumi is don't follow porn

807
00:35:04,120 --> 00:35:06,520
Speaker 3: and movies as well. There's not many Hollywood movies where

808
00:35:06,560 --> 00:35:08,280
Speaker 3: you see I saw a scene. It was a James

809
00:35:08,280 --> 00:35:11,600
Speaker 3: Bond movie. Yeah, James Bond just settles into a shower.

810
00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:15,080
Speaker 15: Oh my god, that scene was horrendous, horrific. I do

811
00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:17,200
Speaker 15: talk about porn in the book as well, that porn

812
00:35:17,280 --> 00:35:20,000
Speaker 15: is basically the worst teacher for how to do sex.

813
00:35:20,480 --> 00:35:22,080
Speaker 15: But for a lot of us, it's the only time

814
00:35:22,080 --> 00:35:24,640
Speaker 15: we ever see people doing it, so it's hard not

815
00:35:24,719 --> 00:35:26,759
Speaker 15: to try and imitate that. But the best thing to

816
00:35:26,800 --> 00:35:29,960
Speaker 15: do is set that to one side and really check

817
00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:31,560
Speaker 15: in with your partner and go is.

818
00:35:31,520 --> 00:35:32,200
Speaker 2: This hot for you?

819
00:35:32,480 --> 00:35:32,959
Speaker 5: Is this hot?

820
00:35:33,239 --> 00:35:34,720
Speaker 15: Because oftentimes it isn't.

821
00:35:34,880 --> 00:35:41,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, great, Well, we've finished on watching porn. Umi Steins

822
00:35:41,400 --> 00:35:43,719
Speaker 4: has got a brand new book. It's called Welcome to

823
00:35:43,960 --> 00:35:46,040
Speaker 4: Consent all Good Bookstores.

824
00:35:46,080 --> 00:35:46,520
Speaker 2: She tells me.

825
00:35:46,560 --> 00:35:48,719
Speaker 4: It's already in the second round of printing, which is

826
00:35:48,760 --> 00:35:52,680
Speaker 4: totally wild and completely deserving for a wonderful author and

827
00:35:52,719 --> 00:35:53,319
Speaker 4: a wonderful woman.

828
00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:55,120
Speaker 2: Yew me, thanks so much for joining us, mate.

829
00:35:55,840 --> 00:35:56,480
Speaker 15: He loved it.

830
00:35:56,600 --> 00:35:57,680
Speaker 2: Thank you, mate.

831
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Speaker 1: A rush, crank up the speed on this podcast. I

832
00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:03,600
Speaker 1: don't get to where you're going any faster, but you'll

833
00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:06,920
Speaker 1: feel like you are. It's the Will and Woody podcast.

834
00:36:07,480 --> 00:36:11,359
Speaker 3: Small Child has solved the problem of bed wedding. I mean,

835
00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:14,560
Speaker 3: this is just it's incredible stuff, really, that it's taken

836
00:36:14,640 --> 00:36:17,040
Speaker 3: so long to solve the problem of bed wedding. This

837
00:36:17,160 --> 00:36:19,799
Speaker 3: small child's mother called the show yesterday, and I mean,

838
00:36:19,920 --> 00:36:23,040
Speaker 3: just sit back and listen to the genius.

839
00:36:23,560 --> 00:36:24,360
Speaker 11: My six or.

840
00:36:24,360 --> 00:36:28,040
Speaker 14: Seven year old son sticky tape his penis shut so that.

841
00:36:28,040 --> 00:36:29,080
Speaker 9: He wouldn't win the bitch.

842
00:36:31,120 --> 00:36:31,759
Speaker 5: And I love this.

843
00:36:31,960 --> 00:36:36,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, I love the I didn't actually solve the issue, no, yeah,

844
00:36:37,360 --> 00:36:39,080
Speaker 4: just in case there are any little boys out there

845
00:36:39,160 --> 00:36:40,480
Speaker 4: who are getting any ideas.

846
00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:44,200
Speaker 3: But it might have been the type of sticky tape. No,

847
00:36:44,239 --> 00:36:47,160
Speaker 3: I don't try that kids. It yeah, can confirm doesn't work.

848
00:36:47,320 --> 00:36:48,640
Speaker 3: But you know what I love about it. I love

849
00:36:48,680 --> 00:36:51,080
Speaker 3: when kids try to think of a practical solution to

850
00:36:51,120 --> 00:36:53,800
Speaker 3: a problem. Yes, and more often than not they stuff

851
00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:55,640
Speaker 3: it up. And if you can relate to that as

852
00:36:55,640 --> 00:36:57,520
Speaker 3: a parent, if you're a parent listening to us right now,

853
00:36:57,560 --> 00:37:00,239
Speaker 3: and your kid has gone for a practical solution to

854
00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:03,720
Speaker 3: something and totally cocked it up, thirteen one oh sixty

855
00:37:03,760 --> 00:37:05,719
Speaker 3: five is our number because I would love to hear

856
00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:08,160
Speaker 3: more of these I remember and this is Look, it's

857
00:37:08,160 --> 00:37:10,399
Speaker 3: another we related one, So I apologize. I don't all

858
00:37:10,440 --> 00:37:12,920
Speaker 3: have to be toilet related. But an issue that I

859
00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:15,960
Speaker 3: had when I was a small child is I didn't

860
00:37:16,040 --> 00:37:19,960
Speaker 3: like the walk from the rumpus room to the toilet.

861
00:37:20,560 --> 00:37:23,120
Speaker 3: It was down the hallway, and for a small child,

862
00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:24,480
Speaker 3: it was just too much. And you know, I only

863
00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:26,719
Speaker 3: had so much time for PlayStation and games, so I

864
00:37:26,760 --> 00:37:28,680
Speaker 3: didn't want to do the walk to the toilet. So

865
00:37:28,840 --> 00:37:33,680
Speaker 3: my practical solution was, ah, it's a little heating event there.

866
00:37:33,840 --> 00:37:35,600
Speaker 2: Ah, what it is?

867
00:37:35,640 --> 00:37:38,520
Speaker 5: We in the heating vent nice and that was working.

868
00:37:38,239 --> 00:37:42,879
Speaker 2: Beautifully, like a halfway like a urinal halfway. You knew

869
00:37:42,880 --> 00:37:43,439
Speaker 2: it was a heater.

870
00:37:43,520 --> 00:37:45,120
Speaker 4: Oh were you just like one day, Wow, what are

871
00:37:45,120 --> 00:37:48,799
Speaker 4: the chances they put urinals in the hall for me?

872
00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:50,920
Speaker 3: Well, that's a good question, but I definitely knew it

873
00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:52,600
Speaker 3: was a heater when the first day of winter rolled

874
00:37:52,640 --> 00:37:54,360
Speaker 3: around and Mum decided to put the heater on for

875
00:37:54,400 --> 00:37:56,920
Speaker 3: the first time for a while, and the whole house

876
00:37:57,120 --> 00:37:58,120
Speaker 3: stank of pissed.

877
00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:00,680
Speaker 5: But again, this is.

878
00:38:00,640 --> 00:38:05,120
Speaker 3: Another practical solution from a kid that goes wrong. So

879
00:38:05,239 --> 00:38:07,400
Speaker 3: thirteen one O six five is a number. Maybe you

880
00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:09,479
Speaker 3: were the kid in the past, or maybe you're a parent.

881
00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:11,440
Speaker 3: What practical solution is your kid gone for?

882
00:38:11,640 --> 00:38:12,960
Speaker 5: Have you ever done it? You're a smart kid?

883
00:38:13,080 --> 00:38:16,720
Speaker 4: Oh well yeah, but again, we think what we're finding

884
00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:19,600
Speaker 4: with these is that it's a practical solution from the

885
00:38:19,719 --> 00:38:20,799
Speaker 4: child's perspective.

886
00:38:20,920 --> 00:38:23,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not necessarily the right way to go about it.

887
00:38:24,320 --> 00:38:26,680
Speaker 4: I don't need to go onto the details here, but

888
00:38:27,160 --> 00:38:29,480
Speaker 4: you know that I used to have a cat, and

889
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Speaker 4: I had been told that the cat wasn't getting enough

890
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Speaker 4: fish in its diet. And I also knew that all

891
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Speaker 4: toilets led to the ocean. Oh my god, we can

892
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Speaker 4: join the remember the story. We can join the dots

893
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Speaker 4: that would have ended awfully.

894
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I did end badly.

895
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Speaker 3: Cave lived cat was all good, Live Cat Live, Shocking

896
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Speaker 3: afternoon for pussy glare though five practical solutions.

897
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Speaker 4: There was a pneumonia related There was a pneumonia death

898
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Speaker 4: later on, but they couldn't link it to me. Well

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Speaker 4: that's what mum and dad said. Anyway, didn't need to

900
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Speaker 4: do that story. I want to hear more of these guys.

901
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Speaker 4: Will take him up next on.

902
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Speaker 2: Willing would have a great driver I've.

903
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Speaker 4: Taken calls right now and children's practical solutions to problems.

904
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Speaker 3: Yeah, we're inspired by a small child. His mum called

905
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Speaker 3: us yesterday and he believed he'd solved the problem of

906
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Speaker 3: wetting the beard.

907
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Speaker 14: My six or seven year old son, Sticky taped his

908
00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:29,600
Speaker 14: penis shut so that.

909
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Speaker 9: He wouldn't wet the bed.

910
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Speaker 2: So I love that.

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Speaker 3: I love that we're in good hands the next generation child. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: he took it by himself. Yeah, yeah, I agree. I agree,

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Speaker 3: And I love that kids just go for it. Yeah,

914
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Speaker 3: you know what I mean. And hopefully we're going to

915
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Speaker 3: hear some more stories like it. We've got Patricia here

916
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Speaker 3: on thirteen one oh six ' five.

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Speaker 5: Patricia, were you the kid or the parent?

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Speaker 13: I'm the parent.

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Speaker 5: What did your kid have a practical solution for?

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Speaker 13: Well, my son used to have this fear of sleeping

921
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Speaker 13: on his own, So about three years old, he decided

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Speaker 13: that rather than coming into our bed at three o'clock

923
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Speaker 13: in the morning, he got a long rope which he

924
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Speaker 13: tied to his wrists and tied to Tad's wrists in

925
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Speaker 13: our bedroom, And every time he got a bit afraid

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Speaker 13: or scared, he s got a tug on the rope

927
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Speaker 13: and Dad would tug back and wow, the problem of

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Speaker 13: handing through I think extraordinary.

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Speaker 3: Now quick question for me though, Patricia. When Dad's going

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Speaker 3: for the midnight whiz, does he go with the rope

931
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Speaker 3: still attached?

932
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Speaker 13: I guess so they could be something interesting that we've

933
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Speaker 13: got of explored.

934
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Speaker 3: Yeah, and I've got a second question as well here Patrician,

935
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Speaker 3: and tell if it's too personal, but if you know,

936
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Speaker 3: you and your hobby were you know, for anniversary. I

937
00:40:50,880 --> 00:40:53,480
Speaker 3: was saying, you're feeling you know, but he brought us

938
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Speaker 3: exciting excited? Would you try and go for it with

939
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Speaker 3: the ropes attached?

940
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Speaker 11: Look, we'd probably untired.

941
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Speaker 12: Yeah, a special occasion.

942
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Speaker 5: Yeah, well said Patricia. Well said, I mean it would

943
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Speaker 5: be be a little bit of fun.

944
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Speaker 3: You've got to keep your wrist still anyway, Let's go

945
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Speaker 3: to Julie.

946
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Speaker 2: Julie.

947
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Speaker 5: Sorry, sick question.

948
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Speaker 2: Julie.

949
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Speaker 5: Your son had a practical solution for something he sure did.

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Speaker 14: He couldn't quite remember. After having a shower to hang

951
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Speaker 14: up the towel, and after telling him time and time again, Marus,

952
00:41:30,880 --> 00:41:33,319
Speaker 14: can you hang up the towel? He thought about it

953
00:41:33,320 --> 00:41:34,799
Speaker 14: and said, Mum, what I think you need to do

954
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Speaker 14: is actually write it on the towel. You should just

955
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Speaker 14: write on the towel, please hang me out. Yeah, right,

956
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Speaker 14: And and we thought about getting a stubby texture and

957
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Speaker 14: writing it on the towel, but we just thought that

958
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Speaker 14: was too embarrassing, so reminding him.

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Speaker 2: So you didn't actually do it, Julie.

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Speaker 11: We should.

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Speaker 14: He's now sixteen. We probably I could probably still do

962
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Speaker 14: it because I'm pretty sure he's sixty.

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Speaker 4: Sorry, I thought you were talking about like a five

964
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Speaker 4: year old here. He's a genuine adolescent.

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Speaker 3: You know, there are those towels, There are towers that

966
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Speaker 3: exist that have on one side there's bum and on

967
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Speaker 3: the other side it says face.

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Speaker 5: So you never get that.

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Speaker 2: Someone to get that balls on face.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, balls on face effectively. Let's go to Jen, which is.

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Speaker 2: Particularly handy when you're sharing a tower with someone.

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Speaker 4: Might I add, no, absolutely, Well, you know when you

973
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Speaker 4: go to the bathroom and you just you know, yeah,

974
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Speaker 4: well we've all been there.

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Speaker 3: I've shared a towell with my father. Interesting, I don't

976
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Speaker 3: need to go on. That's like horrific, Right, you're new

977
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Speaker 3: when you're on the wrong side of the tower. Let

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Speaker 3: me tell you.

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Speaker 5: Let's go to Jenny.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we're bloody, go Jen, Oh great, I'm glad you're

981
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Speaker 3: in a good mood. And we're talking about practical solutions

982
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Speaker 3: that kids go for and this is about bed wedding,

983
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Speaker 3: all right.

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Speaker 16: So yeah, my son is actually thirty two years old now,

985
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Speaker 16: so he's hasty to saying this, right, but gone back

986
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Speaker 16: when he was wrapped, he was already toilet trained and everything,

987
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Speaker 16: and he started wetting the bed. I'm like, what the

988
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Speaker 16: hell's going on here? So two weeks afterwards, I finally

989
00:43:13,480 --> 00:43:17,400
Speaker 16: asked him, why are you wetting the bed? And it

990
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Speaker 16: goes because I'm cold. I put my hands under my

991
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Speaker 16: bum to keep me warm when I see the bed.

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Speaker 2: So he was deliberately wetting the bed himself.

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Speaker 9: Up.

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Speaker 5: What sort of operation are you running at your house?

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Speaker 2: Jam terrible, I.

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Speaker 16: Said to him. I said to him, okay, if you

997
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Speaker 16: stop wedding the bed, I will buy you an electric blanket.

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Speaker 16: And he never wet the bed again.

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Speaker 2: Blood Wow, he was pissing himself to keep warm.

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Speaker 5: That is just like a bootcamp in your house, Jam,

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Speaker 5: I mean that.

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Speaker 3: Is did your feet, William Jam see what you're hearing.

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