1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,640 Speaker 1: I would like to acknowledge the traditional owners of the 2 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:06,279 Speaker 1: land on which this episode is being recorded, the Combomb 3 00:00:06,320 --> 00:00:11,080 Speaker 1: Merry people. They've been having conversations and telling stories on 4 00:00:11,119 --> 00:00:14,280 Speaker 1: this land for thousands of years, and we show our 5 00:00:14,320 --> 00:00:21,000 Speaker 1: gratitude and respect for their contribution to our environment and culture. 6 00:00:21,920 --> 00:00:26,280 Speaker 1: This is Rise and Conquer, the podcast where we strive 7 00:00:26,480 --> 00:00:32,400 Speaker 1: to become the highest version of ourselves through curious conversations, 8 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:37,919 Speaker 1: healthy mindsets, laughter, connection, and a deep desire to evolve. 9 00:00:39,760 --> 00:00:46,360 Speaker 1: I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson. Join me as we explore parenthood, business, manifestation, 10 00:00:46,680 --> 00:00:50,720 Speaker 1: and so much more. It's positive, it's practical, and it's 11 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:54,720 Speaker 1: about putting you in the driver's seat of your own life. 12 00:00:55,280 --> 00:01:00,600 Speaker 1: Are you ready? Hello, my loves and world, Welcome back 13 00:01:00,600 --> 00:01:05,280 Speaker 1: to the podcast. Today we have another amazing guest episode 14 00:01:05,319 --> 00:01:08,400 Speaker 1: for you, and I'm so excited for you to hear 15 00:01:08,680 --> 00:01:15,040 Speaker 1: everything about spinal energetics with doctor Sarah Jane. Essentially, what 16 00:01:15,080 --> 00:01:17,959 Speaker 1: we dive in today is how stored trauma in your 17 00:01:18,000 --> 00:01:21,920 Speaker 1: body could be holding you back from your dream life, 18 00:01:22,319 --> 00:01:25,000 Speaker 1: how to identify it, what to do about it, and 19 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:28,600 Speaker 1: how to step through it in pursuit of your highest 20 00:01:28,720 --> 00:01:32,520 Speaker 1: level self. This episode was personally so interesting for me. 21 00:01:32,680 --> 00:01:35,640 Speaker 1: So I just know you guys will absolutely love it. 22 00:01:36,080 --> 00:01:39,560 Speaker 1: And after you've finished, make sure you check out doctor Sarah. 23 00:01:39,640 --> 00:01:47,600 Speaker 1: She's just incredible. Doctor Sarah, Welcome to the Rise and 24 00:01:47,600 --> 00:01:48,480 Speaker 1: Conker Podcast. 25 00:01:48,600 --> 00:01:50,440 Speaker 2: Thank you for having me. I'm so excited to be 26 00:01:50,480 --> 00:01:50,840 Speaker 2: here with you. 27 00:01:51,200 --> 00:01:53,360 Speaker 1: I'm so excited we get to talk on the podcast 28 00:01:53,440 --> 00:01:57,160 Speaker 1: because we have just had or I have just had 29 00:01:58,360 --> 00:02:01,960 Speaker 1: or you also did. Ye, I have just had a 30 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:08,560 Speaker 1: personal spinal energetics session. It was so interesting, kind of 31 00:02:08,600 --> 00:02:11,960 Speaker 1: like you did. Also specifically didn't look into it too 32 00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:15,840 Speaker 1: much because I wanted to be very fresh eyes, fresh approach, 33 00:02:15,919 --> 00:02:17,720 Speaker 1: and I know you did the exact same thing with me, 34 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:21,440 Speaker 1: so that that's funny. Before I actually get into my 35 00:02:21,600 --> 00:02:24,200 Speaker 1: aha moments. Yeah, so we just did a session together. 36 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:27,080 Speaker 1: Now we're talking on the podcast. I cannot wait to 37 00:02:27,280 --> 00:02:31,960 Speaker 1: chat because so different, so wild. But also everyone needs 38 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:36,399 Speaker 1: to know about this, That's how I felt. Yeah, yeah, 39 00:02:36,400 --> 00:02:39,480 Speaker 1: that's why I start teaching it incredible, like everyone needs 40 00:02:39,480 --> 00:02:42,440 Speaker 1: to be under accesses, yeah and not and be able 41 00:02:42,480 --> 00:02:43,960 Speaker 1: to think in a different way and do things in 42 00:02:44,000 --> 00:02:47,240 Speaker 1: a different way. So before we get into the juicy stuff, 43 00:02:47,280 --> 00:02:49,600 Speaker 1: do you want to just introduce yourself and give the 44 00:02:49,639 --> 00:02:52,320 Speaker 1: audience a little rundown of who doctor Sarah is. 45 00:02:52,560 --> 00:02:57,799 Speaker 2: A big question? Give us the men you feel. Basically, 46 00:02:57,840 --> 00:03:00,640 Speaker 2: I came from a psychology chiropractic background, so I was 47 00:03:00,639 --> 00:03:03,919 Speaker 2: really interested in both the mind and the physicality, also 48 00:03:04,160 --> 00:03:07,520 Speaker 2: from a really large spiritual interest. As a child, you know, 49 00:03:07,639 --> 00:03:11,160 Speaker 2: I loved learning about the world, asking questions why we're here. 50 00:03:11,280 --> 00:03:14,040 Speaker 2: It was always that weird kid that was interested in 51 00:03:14,520 --> 00:03:16,720 Speaker 2: you know, what is this all for? Why am I here? 52 00:03:17,560 --> 00:03:20,639 Speaker 2: You know, it's always different, always looking for something new, 53 00:03:20,720 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 2: quite a creative mind. Never really fit into the traditional 54 00:03:23,760 --> 00:03:27,240 Speaker 2: you know, school systems. Socializing was always okay, but I 55 00:03:27,240 --> 00:03:30,680 Speaker 2: always felt like a bit different. And yeah, I just 56 00:03:30,760 --> 00:03:32,720 Speaker 2: knew I was always going to pave I guess, pay 57 00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:35,040 Speaker 2: the way to something a bit different. Pave the way. 58 00:03:35,080 --> 00:03:37,480 Speaker 1: Did I say, pay pave the way? Now we got young, 59 00:03:39,040 --> 00:03:39,480 Speaker 1: pave the. 60 00:03:39,400 --> 00:03:41,600 Speaker 2: Way to something different, because I think the world needs 61 00:03:41,640 --> 00:03:44,480 Speaker 2: more you know, innovators, more creatives, and more people who 62 00:03:44,560 --> 00:03:46,600 Speaker 2: are just willing to show up in a non traditional 63 00:03:46,680 --> 00:03:49,200 Speaker 2: way and a unexpected way to help each other. 64 00:03:50,680 --> 00:03:53,200 Speaker 1: And so can you give us a brief description what 65 00:03:53,360 --> 00:03:54,640 Speaker 1: is spinal energetics. 66 00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:57,080 Speaker 2: It's a tough thing. To describe with words, but I'll 67 00:03:57,080 --> 00:04:00,320 Speaker 2: try so. Basically, it's a modality. I call it a somatical. 68 00:04:00,640 --> 00:04:02,640 Speaker 2: Most people call it an energetic healing the delity because 69 00:04:02,640 --> 00:04:04,680 Speaker 2: we are working off the body in the field as well. 70 00:04:05,080 --> 00:04:09,080 Speaker 2: So we believe blending both Eastern and Western perspectives, and 71 00:04:09,200 --> 00:04:11,600 Speaker 2: we believe things that store in the physicality, such as 72 00:04:11,600 --> 00:04:14,560 Speaker 2: our emotions, our experiences. So when I look at your body, 73 00:04:14,640 --> 00:04:17,240 Speaker 2: like when I was assessing you before, what I'm finding 74 00:04:17,320 --> 00:04:20,640 Speaker 2: is almost like your life experiences, what you've gone through, 75 00:04:20,640 --> 00:04:23,400 Speaker 2: what you've held on to, what has affected you, what 76 00:04:23,520 --> 00:04:27,320 Speaker 2: have been your external circumstances, or you know, even traumatic 77 00:04:27,440 --> 00:04:31,080 Speaker 2: experiences that are stored in your body that haven't quite 78 00:04:31,080 --> 00:04:33,800 Speaker 2: integrated in a way for you to kind of be 79 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:35,640 Speaker 2: your best self and be your true self. 80 00:04:36,279 --> 00:04:39,120 Speaker 1: No, that makes complete sense, And like where my mind 81 00:04:39,440 --> 00:04:42,719 Speaker 1: just went then, which correct me if I'm wrong. It's 82 00:04:42,800 --> 00:04:45,200 Speaker 1: kind of like, you know, when someone turns out to 83 00:04:45,240 --> 00:04:48,839 Speaker 1: be a horrible person. Something I'll say to my husband 84 00:04:48,920 --> 00:04:51,359 Speaker 1: is like, well, they weren't born that way. You know, 85 00:04:51,440 --> 00:04:53,440 Speaker 1: something would have happened to them and then it would 86 00:04:53,480 --> 00:04:57,039 Speaker 1: have caused this chain of events where I believe, like 87 00:04:57,120 --> 00:04:59,560 Speaker 1: you know, as I've had a baby. You see this 88 00:04:59,600 --> 00:05:03,599 Speaker 1: little bit and it's pure love, like, you know, pure everything. 89 00:05:03,760 --> 00:05:08,760 Speaker 1: So things have happened, trauma have happened to create someone's personality, 90 00:05:09,080 --> 00:05:11,600 Speaker 1: how they deal with situations and whatnot. So is that 91 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:12,760 Speaker 1: kind of what you're saying. 92 00:05:12,960 --> 00:05:15,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like, definitely, we are all shaped by our environment, 93 00:05:15,640 --> 00:05:19,080 Speaker 2: by our experiences and also our perception on those experiences, 94 00:05:19,839 --> 00:05:23,400 Speaker 2: but also our childhoods. You know, they're actually a really large, 95 00:05:24,080 --> 00:05:26,760 Speaker 2: large impactor for who we are as adults as well. 96 00:05:26,800 --> 00:05:30,120 Speaker 2: A lot of the times where children disguising adult bodies, 97 00:05:30,279 --> 00:05:33,919 Speaker 2: you know, absolutely like we look like an adult just 98 00:05:33,920 --> 00:05:36,920 Speaker 2: like babies we are, and a lot of our you know, 99 00:05:36,920 --> 00:05:39,920 Speaker 2: protecting mechanisms, our strategies, they've come from things that we've 100 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:42,760 Speaker 2: had to learn in our life. Sometimes we have this 101 00:05:42,839 --> 00:05:45,000 Speaker 2: mindset that was good or that was bad, and that's 102 00:05:45,080 --> 00:05:48,760 Speaker 2: not necessarily what I'm saying. I think things in our 103 00:05:48,760 --> 00:05:52,240 Speaker 2: lives shape us, and some of the most painful experiences 104 00:05:52,240 --> 00:05:56,000 Speaker 2: we've had have been some of the most beneficial experiences 105 00:05:55,800 --> 00:05:59,400 Speaker 2: in hindsight as well. You know, it's it's more about 106 00:05:59,839 --> 00:06:04,720 Speaker 2: is this stopping me from having experiences that are true 107 00:06:04,720 --> 00:06:07,760 Speaker 2: to my authentic self or optimal for me? Like it's 108 00:06:07,960 --> 00:06:10,760 Speaker 2: a breakup from ten years ago holding me back from 109 00:06:10,960 --> 00:06:13,200 Speaker 2: maybe finding the love of my life that I actually 110 00:06:13,279 --> 00:06:16,919 Speaker 2: genuinely want authentically inside myself. You know, we carry so 111 00:06:17,040 --> 00:06:19,320 Speaker 2: much from the past, or we think so much about 112 00:06:19,360 --> 00:06:22,839 Speaker 2: the future that it can impact our physicality as well. 113 00:06:23,080 --> 00:06:26,440 Speaker 2: So we still sometimes I think we're getting much better, 114 00:06:26,880 --> 00:06:29,880 Speaker 2: but we still sometimes treat them as separate entities. Just 115 00:06:29,960 --> 00:06:33,440 Speaker 2: like you know, a psychologist or talk therapist. They will 116 00:06:33,480 --> 00:06:35,760 Speaker 2: talk to you and they'll go over and over the story, 117 00:06:35,800 --> 00:06:39,560 Speaker 2: but they've never necessarily touched the body or assessed the 118 00:06:39,600 --> 00:06:43,560 Speaker 2: body and how that emotion's impacting and vice versa. Normally, 119 00:06:43,600 --> 00:06:47,000 Speaker 2: like a physical therapist won't ever ask you about your childhood, 120 00:06:47,040 --> 00:06:50,000 Speaker 2: about your experiences, about your context in life, and why 121 00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:55,360 Speaker 2: your body is communicating this way. And we just believe 122 00:06:55,400 --> 00:06:57,960 Speaker 2: that the body is a reflection of your interaction with 123 00:06:58,000 --> 00:06:58,400 Speaker 2: the world. 124 00:06:58,880 --> 00:07:02,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I one hundred percent believe that. And like 125 00:07:02,200 --> 00:07:06,800 Speaker 1: I was telling you off air, I had hashimotos, you know, 126 00:07:06,839 --> 00:07:11,240 Speaker 1: a thioid disease, and I, you know, was told by 127 00:07:11,680 --> 00:07:13,840 Speaker 1: a physician that it's like I'm gonna have to take 128 00:07:13,880 --> 00:07:15,840 Speaker 1: medication for the rest of my life if I want 129 00:07:15,840 --> 00:07:18,480 Speaker 1: to maintain that if I want to have a baby, 130 00:07:18,680 --> 00:07:21,480 Speaker 1: all those sorts of things. And I worked with a 131 00:07:21,480 --> 00:07:26,520 Speaker 1: practitioner and we did what was the body M E 132 00:07:26,880 --> 00:07:30,600 Speaker 1: D M R. Guys, don't ask me what this says for, 133 00:07:31,400 --> 00:07:33,840 Speaker 1: but we did, you know, kind of similar to the 134 00:07:33,840 --> 00:07:36,680 Speaker 1: work that you were doing, just different, not talk therapy, 135 00:07:37,080 --> 00:07:40,960 Speaker 1: very working with my subconscious where we worked through trauma 136 00:07:41,040 --> 00:07:43,800 Speaker 1: in my body and I was able to put that 137 00:07:43,960 --> 00:07:48,120 Speaker 1: into remission and technically reverse it, which is a condition 138 00:07:48,200 --> 00:07:52,760 Speaker 1: I told was not reversible. So I one hundred percent 139 00:07:52,800 --> 00:07:55,720 Speaker 1: believe this, love this and think so many more people 140 00:07:55,760 --> 00:07:59,400 Speaker 1: should know about it because we're often you know, doctors 141 00:07:59,440 --> 00:08:01,600 Speaker 1: will say one thing, We're like, Okay, I'll take this medication, 142 00:08:01,640 --> 00:08:03,880 Speaker 1: but the rest of my life, and not realizing how 143 00:08:03,880 --> 00:08:07,880 Speaker 1: many of our physical problems are to do with the subconscious, 144 00:08:07,880 --> 00:08:09,960 Speaker 1: with the body, with the trauma, all that sort of thing. 145 00:08:10,120 --> 00:08:12,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, well that's what they're trained in. You're not trained 146 00:08:12,880 --> 00:08:15,040 Speaker 2: to think outside of that. No, and if anything, they're 147 00:08:15,080 --> 00:08:18,320 Speaker 2: stigmatized if they ever try to. So they've been given 148 00:08:18,360 --> 00:08:21,160 Speaker 2: an education that's one way, and in their lens, in 149 00:08:21,200 --> 00:08:24,320 Speaker 2: their perspective, in their belief system, that's true. You would 150 00:08:24,360 --> 00:08:26,360 Speaker 2: need to take that medication for the rest of your life. 151 00:08:26,640 --> 00:08:28,960 Speaker 2: But there's a whole other world out there, and a 152 00:08:28,960 --> 00:08:33,040 Speaker 2: whole other intelligence that unfortunately our traditional systems not necessarily 153 00:08:33,120 --> 00:08:35,959 Speaker 2: exposed to, and you know, things like thyroid. Like I 154 00:08:35,960 --> 00:08:37,880 Speaker 2: think we were discussing what, you know, some of the 155 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:41,400 Speaker 2: things that we found and expression and repression and finding 156 00:08:41,720 --> 00:08:44,320 Speaker 2: there's a lot of correlation between people who haven't had 157 00:08:44,360 --> 00:08:47,920 Speaker 2: the ability to express themselves throughout their life in a 158 00:08:47,960 --> 00:08:51,400 Speaker 2: way that is aligned with them then developing things that 159 00:08:51,440 --> 00:08:53,960 Speaker 2: affect It's like, just like the thyroid. It's also while 160 00:08:53,960 --> 00:08:57,240 Speaker 2: we're seeing an increase in order immune conditions and all 161 00:08:57,280 --> 00:09:01,000 Speaker 2: sorts of things. It's not coincidence. The way that we're 162 00:09:01,000 --> 00:09:04,240 Speaker 2: living our lives, the way that society is kind of 163 00:09:04,280 --> 00:09:07,320 Speaker 2: structured and how we are nurtured is a huge thing, 164 00:09:07,360 --> 00:09:11,280 Speaker 2: and it's not something to be underestimated. You know, genetics 165 00:09:11,280 --> 00:09:13,240 Speaker 2: are one thing, but Bruce Lipton talks a lot about 166 00:09:13,520 --> 00:09:16,559 Speaker 2: you know, epigenetics and how them switching on is a 167 00:09:16,679 --> 00:09:19,560 Speaker 2: very different thing to being genetically predisposed. You know, I 168 00:09:19,600 --> 00:09:21,760 Speaker 2: don't believe that a lot of these things are genetic. 169 00:09:21,880 --> 00:09:25,199 Speaker 2: And if there's an idiopathic disease, like for example, the 170 00:09:25,280 --> 00:09:27,440 Speaker 2: thorate thyroid. We don't know why all of a sudden 171 00:09:27,480 --> 00:09:30,080 Speaker 2: you have a thyroid issue and before you didn't. Well, 172 00:09:30,280 --> 00:09:32,960 Speaker 2: that's usually going to be contextual to your life and 173 00:09:33,000 --> 00:09:35,960 Speaker 2: your experiences, the stress you are under, all sorts of things. 174 00:09:36,000 --> 00:09:38,559 Speaker 2: And it's really interesting because the glands actually correlate to 175 00:09:38,600 --> 00:09:40,880 Speaker 2: the chakras and the energetic centers and things like that. 176 00:09:41,040 --> 00:09:44,120 Speaker 2: So that's kind of our perspective. That's not to say 177 00:09:44,240 --> 00:09:47,840 Speaker 2: every disease under the sun is no emotional, It's not 178 00:09:47,840 --> 00:09:49,080 Speaker 2: what I'm trying to say, but there is a lot 179 00:09:49,120 --> 00:09:52,959 Speaker 2: of psychosomatic things that are going on, and unfortunately that's 180 00:09:53,000 --> 00:09:54,920 Speaker 2: why we're a bit of a last resort and why 181 00:09:54,960 --> 00:09:58,480 Speaker 2: people can get assistance that they weren't getting otherwise, similar 182 00:09:58,480 --> 00:10:01,000 Speaker 2: to like the EMDR, which is working with trauma as well. 183 00:10:02,040 --> 00:10:04,920 Speaker 1: And so, how did you kind of, you know, go 184 00:10:05,120 --> 00:10:09,480 Speaker 1: from chiropracta to finding spinal energetics. What was like the 185 00:10:09,559 --> 00:10:10,640 Speaker 1: momental the thing for you? 186 00:10:11,120 --> 00:10:14,360 Speaker 2: I wouldn't say it was like a aha moment directly. 187 00:10:15,480 --> 00:10:19,520 Speaker 2: I was studying psychology originally, then when I went into chiropractic, 188 00:10:19,600 --> 00:10:22,320 Speaker 2: I really wanted to blend them both. So when I 189 00:10:22,360 --> 00:10:24,760 Speaker 2: was a coiro or down that route. In that world, 190 00:10:24,760 --> 00:10:27,160 Speaker 2: it was very much the physical body is what our 191 00:10:27,200 --> 00:10:29,760 Speaker 2: focus is, the nervous systems what our focus is, which 192 00:10:29,760 --> 00:10:32,040 Speaker 2: I think is huge. But then there wasn't much about 193 00:10:32,200 --> 00:10:34,400 Speaker 2: what their experience was, what they were going through mentally 194 00:10:34,440 --> 00:10:39,280 Speaker 2: and emotionally and spiritually. So I love like trans personal psychotherapy. 195 00:10:39,320 --> 00:10:41,760 Speaker 2: I loved Ken Wilber all these philosophers who spoke about, 196 00:10:42,160 --> 00:10:44,600 Speaker 2: you know, blending all of those things as one, And 197 00:10:44,640 --> 00:10:47,320 Speaker 2: I was like, how amazing would it be if you 198 00:10:47,720 --> 00:10:51,319 Speaker 2: were getting your mind and your body together worked on holistically? 199 00:10:51,800 --> 00:10:54,480 Speaker 2: And I believe that when we work in the field, 200 00:10:54,600 --> 00:10:56,880 Speaker 2: in the energetic field, that we're working with the actual 201 00:10:56,920 --> 00:10:59,640 Speaker 2: intelligence of your body. So the same in the intelligence 202 00:10:59,640 --> 00:11:02,240 Speaker 2: that create that symptom in the first place is then 203 00:11:02,280 --> 00:11:04,680 Speaker 2: the same intelligence that we're working with. So I don't 204 00:11:04,760 --> 00:11:07,720 Speaker 2: think I do anything to anyone. What I think I'm 205 00:11:07,720 --> 00:11:10,640 Speaker 2: doing is I'm listening to your body and then communicating 206 00:11:10,720 --> 00:11:14,679 Speaker 2: through the wisdom. The same wisdom that created that thyroid issue, 207 00:11:14,720 --> 00:11:18,559 Speaker 2: for example, is now the same wisdom that then can 208 00:11:18,640 --> 00:11:19,200 Speaker 2: reverse it. 209 00:11:20,120 --> 00:11:23,760 Speaker 1: Okay, so sorry, I'm trying to process. It's fine, my 210 00:11:23,840 --> 00:11:29,160 Speaker 1: brains sticking. So you're saying like you're not necessarily healing. 211 00:11:29,679 --> 00:11:33,280 Speaker 1: You're working in the field, you're almost like telling the 212 00:11:33,360 --> 00:11:34,960 Speaker 1: trauma it's safe to leave. 213 00:11:35,040 --> 00:11:38,480 Speaker 2: Correct that is that kind of Yeah, we're only creating safety, 214 00:11:38,480 --> 00:11:41,640 Speaker 2: and then the body then does everything else. Your field, 215 00:11:41,679 --> 00:11:43,640 Speaker 2: your body, your soul, whatever you want to be is 216 00:11:43,640 --> 00:11:45,480 Speaker 2: doing it. That's why we call it a co facilitation 217 00:11:46,400 --> 00:11:48,880 Speaker 2: because also otherwise people are coming to me saying, can 218 00:11:48,880 --> 00:11:51,240 Speaker 2: you fix this for me? Can you like there's something wrong? 219 00:11:51,280 --> 00:11:54,760 Speaker 2: There's something What your body's saying is not necessarily wrong. 220 00:11:54,760 --> 00:11:56,680 Speaker 2: It's trying to communicate to you that there's something deeper 221 00:11:56,720 --> 00:11:59,400 Speaker 2: going on. And so we just believe that working with 222 00:11:59,440 --> 00:12:03,800 Speaker 2: that same wisdom you know that created that protective strategy, 223 00:12:03,800 --> 00:12:06,600 Speaker 2: if you can then make that feel safe, feel heard, 224 00:12:06,840 --> 00:12:11,000 Speaker 2: you're seen, then it will no longer need that protective strategy. 225 00:12:11,360 --> 00:12:15,200 Speaker 2: It's like walking down a dark aisle at night, for example, 226 00:12:15,360 --> 00:12:18,320 Speaker 2: like an alleyway, and there's you will want to be protected, yeah, 227 00:12:18,360 --> 00:12:20,400 Speaker 2: but then your body might get confused and treat every 228 00:12:20,440 --> 00:12:23,280 Speaker 2: street like it's a dark alleyway and it's not. So 229 00:12:23,520 --> 00:12:27,439 Speaker 2: it's about giving context and safety when it's required. 230 00:12:28,640 --> 00:12:32,120 Speaker 1: So, for example, with the session we just did, I'm 231 00:12:32,120 --> 00:12:34,920 Speaker 1: happy for you to kind of talk about it, what's 232 00:12:34,960 --> 00:12:37,840 Speaker 1: an example of something that you noticed in my body 233 00:12:38,080 --> 00:12:41,840 Speaker 1: and you know, gave it safety or spoke to the intelligence. 234 00:12:41,880 --> 00:12:44,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, well you were interesting because consciously you know a lot, 235 00:12:44,679 --> 00:12:48,360 Speaker 2: so rationally consciously you've already processed a lot. So that's 236 00:12:48,400 --> 00:12:52,120 Speaker 2: not problem. So to speak. Where there becomes a little 237 00:12:52,160 --> 00:12:54,360 Speaker 2: bit more of tension in your body is more from 238 00:12:54,440 --> 00:12:57,000 Speaker 2: the unconscious. So that's why I said to you things 239 00:12:57,040 --> 00:13:01,040 Speaker 2: like an mdr. Spinal energetics hypno therapy things where not 240 00:13:01,080 --> 00:13:03,599 Speaker 2: a talk therapy, you're traditional talk therapy. It's going to 241 00:13:03,679 --> 00:13:06,080 Speaker 2: be a more benefit for you because you mentally and 242 00:13:06,200 --> 00:13:08,680 Speaker 2: rationally understand a lot of this. But it's that other 243 00:13:08,800 --> 00:13:10,840 Speaker 2: ninety five percent that we want to work with that 244 00:13:10,880 --> 00:13:14,640 Speaker 2: can just be you know, holding you back and not consciously. Ye, 245 00:13:15,480 --> 00:13:18,920 Speaker 2: unconsciously and like I did say to you're pretty pretty good. 246 00:13:19,559 --> 00:13:21,880 Speaker 2: These are just fine tuning things that we could do 247 00:13:22,040 --> 00:13:25,360 Speaker 2: just to really get you on that next elevation. But 248 00:13:25,960 --> 00:13:28,160 Speaker 2: you would have felt me like pushing in certain areas 249 00:13:28,200 --> 00:13:31,360 Speaker 2: that represent certain things like that represented you know, your 250 00:13:31,400 --> 00:13:34,040 Speaker 2: mum and your experience with her, and then certain strategies 251 00:13:34,040 --> 00:13:36,400 Speaker 2: were developed from that moment in time that were still 252 00:13:36,400 --> 00:13:40,120 Speaker 2: held in the body. So by that release that we did, 253 00:13:40,240 --> 00:13:43,240 Speaker 2: it was basically telling the body like, hey, you no 254 00:13:43,280 --> 00:13:45,080 Speaker 2: longer need to hold that You're not that child in 255 00:13:45,120 --> 00:13:49,080 Speaker 2: that situation anymore. And me telling you that is not 256 00:13:49,120 --> 00:13:50,040 Speaker 2: going to work for you. 257 00:13:50,160 --> 00:13:52,000 Speaker 1: Now you already know that the body needs to. 258 00:13:52,080 --> 00:13:54,760 Speaker 2: Body needs to experience it, So the body needs to 259 00:13:54,880 --> 00:13:58,320 Speaker 2: feel safe, not be told it's safe. Yeah, especially for 260 00:13:58,840 --> 00:14:00,800 Speaker 2: you know, people who live in their mind their mentality, 261 00:14:00,880 --> 00:14:03,160 Speaker 2: like you, like a black and white thinker. You know, 262 00:14:03,960 --> 00:14:06,439 Speaker 2: they're my favorite kind of client to work with because 263 00:14:07,120 --> 00:14:09,560 Speaker 2: this is kind of like a strange thing to experience. 264 00:14:09,600 --> 00:14:11,800 Speaker 2: I'd expect you to be a little bit skeptical about 265 00:14:11,800 --> 00:14:14,240 Speaker 2: what I do, and I actually enjoy that because I 266 00:14:14,440 --> 00:14:16,280 Speaker 2: can't believe I work in this field, and I never 267 00:14:16,280 --> 00:14:18,320 Speaker 2: would have thought I did. And if I hadn't felt 268 00:14:18,360 --> 00:14:20,840 Speaker 2: it and changed my whole life around it, I wouldn't 269 00:14:20,880 --> 00:14:24,040 Speaker 2: have believed it. Lack a better term either, But hopefully 270 00:14:24,120 --> 00:14:26,560 Speaker 2: after this the session and you're experiencing it, and you're 271 00:14:26,560 --> 00:14:29,080 Speaker 2: feeling the energy moving through the body and the breath changing, 272 00:14:29,160 --> 00:14:32,800 Speaker 2: and the things that we found being you know, relatable, 273 00:14:33,280 --> 00:14:36,360 Speaker 2: and they're quite specific. They're not you know, generic terms 274 00:14:36,360 --> 00:14:36,760 Speaker 2: as such. 275 00:14:36,920 --> 00:14:41,080 Speaker 1: No, well, even for context. For example, doctor Sarah laid 276 00:14:41,120 --> 00:14:44,560 Speaker 1: me down, was touching kind of what's like the collarbone, 277 00:14:45,200 --> 00:14:49,080 Speaker 1: the chest, and it was so painful where you were touching, 278 00:14:49,080 --> 00:14:51,120 Speaker 1: and I was like, oh my god, why is that 279 00:14:51,200 --> 00:14:53,840 Speaker 1: so painful? And like you said, it was like there 280 00:14:53,920 --> 00:14:57,480 Speaker 1: was something around my mum in my childhood and it 281 00:14:57,560 --> 00:15:00,720 Speaker 1: was you know, her not kind of accepting me as 282 00:15:00,760 --> 00:15:03,560 Speaker 1: a child and therefore like there was a lot of 283 00:15:03,680 --> 00:15:07,080 Speaker 1: rules and like not accepting my authentic self and like 284 00:15:07,160 --> 00:15:09,440 Speaker 1: she said that straight away and I was like yes. 285 00:15:11,040 --> 00:15:14,000 Speaker 1: And then you also you said about like my dad 286 00:15:14,040 --> 00:15:15,880 Speaker 1: and you're like, oh, is your dad an immigrant? I'm 287 00:15:15,920 --> 00:15:18,080 Speaker 1: like yes. And then how you said have you been 288 00:15:18,080 --> 00:15:20,240 Speaker 1: with your partner for a very long time? And guys, 289 00:15:20,240 --> 00:15:22,920 Speaker 1: doctor Sarah doesn't have me on Instagram, she doesn't know 290 00:15:22,960 --> 00:15:29,800 Speaker 1: me like you guys know me. Yes, we're we're friends now. 291 00:15:29,920 --> 00:15:34,480 Speaker 1: I'm not very good at social media. That's why you 292 00:15:34,480 --> 00:15:34,920 Speaker 1: have a team. 293 00:15:35,040 --> 00:15:35,240 Speaker 2: Yeah. 294 00:15:35,440 --> 00:15:39,440 Speaker 1: I have a team too. It's important. Yeah, And you're like, 295 00:15:39,480 --> 00:15:41,240 Speaker 1: have you been with your partner for very very long time? 296 00:15:41,240 --> 00:15:43,840 Speaker 1: And she said very specific things that I was like, 297 00:15:43,920 --> 00:15:49,280 Speaker 1: oh wow, yes, and even yeah, even stuff around She's like, oh, 298 00:15:49,560 --> 00:15:52,080 Speaker 1: I think you try and hide it. From you know people, 299 00:15:52,120 --> 00:15:55,480 Speaker 1: but you're actually you know, repressing and like certain things 300 00:15:55,520 --> 00:15:57,920 Speaker 1: that you guys would probably see my social media and 301 00:15:57,920 --> 00:16:01,520 Speaker 1: never believe. And she said in to me, and I'm like, yeah, yeah, 302 00:16:01,640 --> 00:16:05,440 Speaker 1: or you don't express yourself enough, and like I'm like, yeah, wow, no, 303 00:16:05,600 --> 00:16:08,600 Speaker 1: So straight away when right at the start of your session, 304 00:16:08,720 --> 00:16:10,040 Speaker 1: I was like, she's legit. 305 00:16:10,080 --> 00:16:12,040 Speaker 2: But even I was shocked, like when I found that, 306 00:16:12,400 --> 00:16:14,840 Speaker 2: you know, because I was like, oh, you seem very expressive. 307 00:16:14,840 --> 00:16:16,920 Speaker 2: But that's what I mean, Like, that's why. It's not 308 00:16:17,000 --> 00:16:19,800 Speaker 2: about what I think. It's not what my mind is thinking. 309 00:16:19,880 --> 00:16:22,200 Speaker 2: It's what is the what is the body communicating, and 310 00:16:22,240 --> 00:16:24,680 Speaker 2: that's what the body communicated, and that's always a stronger 311 00:16:24,920 --> 00:16:27,640 Speaker 2: priority than what I believe you could be as a person, 312 00:16:29,160 --> 00:16:31,560 Speaker 2: you know. So it's about learning to listen to what 313 00:16:31,600 --> 00:16:34,120 Speaker 2: the body is saying. And it feels different, it stores different, 314 00:16:34,360 --> 00:16:37,920 Speaker 2: I think sometimes me even saying that it challenges the 315 00:16:37,960 --> 00:16:40,320 Speaker 2: perceptions and the beliefs about the work, and then to 316 00:16:40,360 --> 00:16:42,800 Speaker 2: actually feel it, like in the arm and feel the 317 00:16:42,840 --> 00:16:46,080 Speaker 2: release and feel you know, just the experience. It's it's 318 00:16:46,080 --> 00:16:49,160 Speaker 2: something that's far more I don't know, impactful than me 319 00:16:49,360 --> 00:16:52,560 Speaker 2: just talking about what spinal is because it's a lot 320 00:16:52,600 --> 00:16:54,320 Speaker 2: of words that I can use to describe it, but 321 00:16:54,400 --> 00:16:57,680 Speaker 2: it's not really a tangible way of really justifying what 322 00:16:57,720 --> 00:16:58,680 Speaker 2: the modality is. 323 00:16:59,120 --> 00:17:01,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, well you you have to experience it. It's like my 324 00:17:01,560 --> 00:17:05,960 Speaker 1: experience without other modality and then integrating it. I was like, 325 00:17:06,040 --> 00:17:10,280 Speaker 1: holy shit, Yeah, these are movements work, but they're mild. 326 00:17:10,520 --> 00:17:14,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, liked there's simple things like simple things, and even 327 00:17:14,720 --> 00:17:16,879 Speaker 2: during the session for something like an MDR or this, 328 00:17:16,960 --> 00:17:20,040 Speaker 2: you're not necessarily having these profound experiences, not during it, 329 00:17:20,040 --> 00:17:22,760 Speaker 2: which is what people think when they see social media 330 00:17:22,800 --> 00:17:25,800 Speaker 2: all the time. It's not necessarily true. The session still 331 00:17:25,840 --> 00:17:30,439 Speaker 2: unwinding for hours and days upon after, So your experience 332 00:17:30,560 --> 00:17:32,679 Speaker 2: could be two days from now you have a really 333 00:17:32,920 --> 00:17:35,760 Speaker 2: you know, maybe there's more clarity or something comes through. 334 00:17:35,840 --> 00:17:38,879 Speaker 2: Something comes through, and it takes time for the body 335 00:17:38,880 --> 00:17:41,440 Speaker 2: to integrate, you know, the new information and a new 336 00:17:41,440 --> 00:17:44,480 Speaker 2: way of being, just like through other somatic modalities too. 337 00:17:49,080 --> 00:17:52,359 Speaker 1: So what are kind of some like telltale signs, Like 338 00:17:52,400 --> 00:17:55,479 Speaker 1: I know we're all walking around carrying trauma, but what 339 00:17:55,520 --> 00:17:59,280 Speaker 1: are some telltale signs that someone is really storing trauma 340 00:17:59,359 --> 00:18:00,120 Speaker 1: in their body? 341 00:18:00,240 --> 00:18:03,760 Speaker 2: Probably ailments that kind of relate to the psychosomatic system, 342 00:18:03,880 --> 00:18:08,919 Speaker 2: So things like fibromyosia, that's quite related to trauma, you know. 343 00:18:08,960 --> 00:18:10,840 Speaker 2: In terms of our medical system, what they do is 344 00:18:10,880 --> 00:18:12,840 Speaker 2: they give you an antidepressant, and that seems to be 345 00:18:12,880 --> 00:18:15,399 Speaker 2: the only way that we can assist people currently in 346 00:18:15,440 --> 00:18:20,119 Speaker 2: the traditional system with pain disorders like fibromosia, which already 347 00:18:20,119 --> 00:18:22,520 Speaker 2: suggests that it's something to do with the emotional and 348 00:18:22,600 --> 00:18:25,560 Speaker 2: mental state. And I'm yet to find anyone who hasn't 349 00:18:25,600 --> 00:18:30,080 Speaker 2: gone through pretty intense trauma to then develop something like that. 350 00:18:30,480 --> 00:18:33,119 Speaker 2: The other thing would be you know, panic attacks, you know, 351 00:18:33,240 --> 00:18:39,240 Speaker 2: anxiety pain for no physical reason, gut issues. Us being 352 00:18:39,240 --> 00:18:41,399 Speaker 2: in that stress response all the time can really change 353 00:18:41,640 --> 00:18:45,119 Speaker 2: the way that our gut functions, headaches for no reason, 354 00:18:45,240 --> 00:18:47,439 Speaker 2: a lot of those things where you know, you go 355 00:18:47,480 --> 00:18:49,600 Speaker 2: to the doctor, your blood works fine, but you're experiencing 356 00:18:49,640 --> 00:18:53,360 Speaker 2: these symptoms. I think things like that is something where 357 00:18:53,440 --> 00:18:56,120 Speaker 2: people need to look at and go, Okay, what can 358 00:18:56,160 --> 00:18:58,120 Speaker 2: we do here? And it's it's almost a good sign 359 00:18:58,119 --> 00:18:59,880 Speaker 2: if it's not showing up in that way yet, because 360 00:18:59,880 --> 00:19:03,040 Speaker 2: it means you're at the stage where you can hopefully 361 00:19:03,080 --> 00:19:06,520 Speaker 2: prevent it too. But I do believe that we are 362 00:19:06,640 --> 00:19:09,679 Speaker 2: mouldible and things can change when we work on the 363 00:19:09,720 --> 00:19:11,880 Speaker 2: deeper layer of ourselves. 364 00:19:12,480 --> 00:19:15,480 Speaker 1: Interesting story. So my brother who's the co founder of 365 00:19:15,560 --> 00:19:18,560 Speaker 1: Naked Harvest, he went through the same work that I did. 366 00:19:18,640 --> 00:19:22,040 Speaker 1: And I remember ever since I was younger, he had 367 00:19:22,680 --> 00:19:26,080 Speaker 1: really bad headaches, Like we would go shopping and he'd 368 00:19:26,080 --> 00:19:27,960 Speaker 1: be like, I've got a headache. When I have to 369 00:19:27,920 --> 00:19:31,160 Speaker 1: get her money used to be like so annoying, ruin date. 370 00:19:31,520 --> 00:19:37,479 Speaker 1: I know, he's so weak, So it's my personality. And 371 00:19:37,560 --> 00:19:40,280 Speaker 1: even like he'd do a sport carnival, like one day 372 00:19:40,280 --> 00:19:42,040 Speaker 1: of like running and then like the next day you'd 373 00:19:42,119 --> 00:19:45,800 Speaker 1: have to have school, love and very interesting things where 374 00:19:45,840 --> 00:19:47,520 Speaker 1: like you know, he'd get all the tests done and 375 00:19:47,560 --> 00:19:50,879 Speaker 1: they were like he's healthy, he's fine. And even even 376 00:19:50,960 --> 00:19:55,639 Speaker 1: previously to him doing this kind of deeper work, he 377 00:19:55,640 --> 00:19:57,760 Speaker 1: would sleep on his pillar wrong and he'd be like 378 00:19:57,840 --> 00:20:00,359 Speaker 1: knocked out the whole day. And there's sort of and 379 00:20:00,359 --> 00:20:03,320 Speaker 1: then he did that work. He even and this is 380 00:20:03,400 --> 00:20:05,520 Speaker 1: kind of his story to tell, but I'll try and 381 00:20:06,200 --> 00:20:08,800 Speaker 1: articulate it, but he said, like it got to the 382 00:20:08,800 --> 00:20:12,480 Speaker 1: point where he kind of and it makes sense now 383 00:20:12,480 --> 00:20:15,679 Speaker 1: that you're saying it. He kind of spoke to his 384 00:20:15,920 --> 00:20:20,159 Speaker 1: pain and like was like I want from yeah, like 385 00:20:20,640 --> 00:20:22,560 Speaker 1: we don't actually like I don't actually need to have 386 00:20:22,600 --> 00:20:24,760 Speaker 1: a headache right now. And he will speak to his 387 00:20:24,920 --> 00:20:27,040 Speaker 1: pain and he's gotten to the point where he's learnt 388 00:20:27,280 --> 00:20:31,240 Speaker 1: the work from our practitioner and he doesn't get headaches 389 00:20:31,240 --> 00:20:33,639 Speaker 1: anymore and he doesn't get wiped out, and he's like 390 00:20:34,320 --> 00:20:38,159 Speaker 1: moved through it. And it's so interesting. Again, I think 391 00:20:38,240 --> 00:20:40,640 Speaker 1: it would be really interesting to him have a conversation 392 00:20:40,720 --> 00:20:43,320 Speaker 1: with you or even on the podcast. But this is 393 00:20:43,359 --> 00:20:46,159 Speaker 1: like something that's like his whole life. I remember his 394 00:20:46,200 --> 00:20:49,359 Speaker 1: whole life, and then now it's just something that's past 395 00:20:49,440 --> 00:20:52,480 Speaker 1: because he's like moved through it and he was able 396 00:20:52,520 --> 00:20:56,560 Speaker 1: to it. Sounds like so fuss fetch he was able 397 00:20:56,600 --> 00:20:59,160 Speaker 1: to talk to his pain and move through it. 398 00:20:59,320 --> 00:21:01,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, but it makes a lot of sense because he's 399 00:21:01,080 --> 00:21:03,960 Speaker 2: acknowledging why the pain is there, So it's not just. 400 00:21:03,920 --> 00:21:06,280 Speaker 1: The sitting in it, not just taking a nerve and 401 00:21:06,359 --> 00:21:08,520 Speaker 1: not just like going straight to the pain killers, like 402 00:21:08,920 --> 00:21:09,919 Speaker 1: sitting with her and being like. 403 00:21:11,880 --> 00:21:15,359 Speaker 2: Him. And I think for him what's coming through is 404 00:21:15,400 --> 00:21:18,240 Speaker 2: there was some kind of bullying in school, so his 405 00:21:18,359 --> 00:21:21,600 Speaker 2: emotional capacity was so what happens is you should have 406 00:21:21,600 --> 00:21:23,960 Speaker 2: an innate intelligence at that age, for example, where you 407 00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:26,560 Speaker 2: can go do a running event at a sporting carnival 408 00:21:26,800 --> 00:21:29,000 Speaker 2: and then your body have the intelligence to be able 409 00:21:29,040 --> 00:21:31,880 Speaker 2: to recover without needing a whole day off the next 410 00:21:31,960 --> 00:21:34,560 Speaker 2: day at that age if he was ninety, would make sense, 411 00:21:34,640 --> 00:21:37,040 Speaker 2: you know what I mean. Yeah, So the context doesn't match, 412 00:21:37,440 --> 00:21:40,360 Speaker 2: which tells me that he had so much emotional things 413 00:21:40,480 --> 00:21:42,560 Speaker 2: going on that was building up his cup so much 414 00:21:42,680 --> 00:21:44,920 Speaker 2: that he's innate wisdom only had that much to work 415 00:21:44,960 --> 00:21:48,919 Speaker 2: with to kind of recover. There wasn't enough in his 416 00:21:49,080 --> 00:21:53,600 Speaker 2: cup to to recuperate. But it's also a big sign 417 00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:58,160 Speaker 2: that he's a sensitive persons, very sensitive person, and so 418 00:21:58,920 --> 00:22:02,200 Speaker 2: other people's nscitivities aren't as large, so they can take 419 00:22:02,240 --> 00:22:06,000 Speaker 2: in a lot more and you know, deal with more, 420 00:22:06,240 --> 00:22:11,199 Speaker 2: so to speak, and not just mentally, but also energetically, 421 00:22:11,640 --> 00:22:14,199 Speaker 2: and for other people that can literally drain them and 422 00:22:14,240 --> 00:22:17,840 Speaker 2: wipe them out. So he's probably sensitive. But I would 423 00:22:17,840 --> 00:22:20,440 Speaker 2: say there's there was something in school which was ordering. 424 00:22:20,640 --> 00:22:22,720 Speaker 1: It's funny because you know how with my stuff it's 425 00:22:22,760 --> 00:22:23,760 Speaker 1: about like the mom. 426 00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:27,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, his stuff is the dad. Yeah, always the way, 427 00:22:27,240 --> 00:22:30,399 Speaker 2: I always the way, sweet boy. Yeah, it's a lot, 428 00:22:30,520 --> 00:22:32,960 Speaker 2: you know for us to deal with here, this is 429 00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:35,840 Speaker 2: this is not meant to be a simple life necessarily 430 00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:37,639 Speaker 2: were meant to go through these things. But you can 431 00:22:37,680 --> 00:22:39,000 Speaker 2: still have a beautiful life. 432 00:22:39,119 --> 00:22:41,840 Speaker 1: Yes, you know, yeah, well that's even like the stuff 433 00:22:41,880 --> 00:22:45,560 Speaker 1: with like my thyroid. Now looking back, I was really 434 00:22:45,680 --> 00:22:48,679 Speaker 1: kind of living a life that wasn't sustainable, you know, 435 00:22:48,760 --> 00:22:51,639 Speaker 1: the quarters, all the stress. Like a lot of people 436 00:22:51,720 --> 00:22:53,800 Speaker 1: will look at my journey and be like, oh my god, 437 00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:56,359 Speaker 1: how how did you do so much when you're so young, 438 00:22:56,920 --> 00:23:00,840 Speaker 1: And I'm like, well, I developed an That's how I do. 439 00:23:00,840 --> 00:23:01,560 Speaker 1: Do you know what I mean? 440 00:23:01,760 --> 00:23:02,440 Speaker 2: That makes sense? 441 00:23:02,640 --> 00:23:03,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, it makes complete sense. 442 00:23:04,240 --> 00:23:07,080 Speaker 2: Like I'm not shocked now I did because you were 443 00:23:07,160 --> 00:23:10,880 Speaker 2: running at a point of this drata isn't sustainable. 444 00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:13,399 Speaker 1: And I was like that for so long that I 445 00:23:13,400 --> 00:23:16,760 Speaker 1: didn't know how to run it any other capacity. And 446 00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:20,879 Speaker 1: consciously it was like, oh, I even remember I used 447 00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:23,560 Speaker 1: to go to numerous practitioners and they'd be like, you 448 00:23:23,640 --> 00:23:25,879 Speaker 1: just need a stress less and you just need to 449 00:23:25,960 --> 00:23:29,359 Speaker 1: like relax, And I used to be like, it doesn't 450 00:23:29,359 --> 00:23:31,520 Speaker 1: matter how much I know. I'm like, this is the 451 00:23:31,520 --> 00:23:35,160 Speaker 1: most unhelpful thing I've ever experienced, And yet it wasn't 452 00:23:35,240 --> 00:23:38,280 Speaker 1: until I worked with the subconscious that I was able. 453 00:23:38,359 --> 00:23:43,040 Speaker 1: So all that was protection skills strategies that I had 454 00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:46,600 Speaker 1: learned that worked really well to get me certain things 455 00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:47,480 Speaker 1: in life. 456 00:23:47,400 --> 00:23:49,760 Speaker 2: In the Western world, it work, yes, to be successful. 457 00:23:49,920 --> 00:23:52,919 Speaker 1: No, yeah, none of them. Not not my poor body. 458 00:23:53,520 --> 00:23:55,960 Speaker 1: And I had to unlearn it, and I had to 459 00:23:56,359 --> 00:23:59,040 Speaker 1: again kind of talk to my body and be like, 460 00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:02,399 Speaker 1: would just be like, it's okay, we don't have to 461 00:24:02,560 --> 00:24:06,280 Speaker 1: always prove ourselves. We don't have to constantly succeed to 462 00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:08,840 Speaker 1: be worthy, and like all these kind of wounds I 463 00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:09,640 Speaker 1: had to work through. 464 00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:11,760 Speaker 2: So true. And you said something really important, which was 465 00:24:12,119 --> 00:24:14,600 Speaker 2: when you weren't in alignment. So when you weren't listening, 466 00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:17,520 Speaker 2: when you weren't in alignment, that's when there's more friction 467 00:24:17,840 --> 00:24:22,320 Speaker 2: and more chaos. And like I was saying to you before, 468 00:24:22,359 --> 00:24:25,000 Speaker 2: I don't think you live necessarily a quiet life now, 469 00:24:25,040 --> 00:24:27,760 Speaker 2: but it's a definitely more aligned life, which is why 470 00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:32,320 Speaker 2: you don't get fatigued working at this level because it matches. 471 00:24:33,440 --> 00:24:36,600 Speaker 2: But it's when there's friction there that you won't have 472 00:24:36,680 --> 00:24:39,840 Speaker 2: as much to work with the body. The body is 473 00:24:39,840 --> 00:24:43,280 Speaker 2: telling you again, okay, something's not right. Here, and especially 474 00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:45,840 Speaker 2: with autoimmune diseases, you know, the body is not meant 475 00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:48,400 Speaker 2: to attack itself for lack of better words. With that, 476 00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:52,240 Speaker 2: the body is literally confuse and turns on itself to 477 00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:56,160 Speaker 2: get your attention. And that usually comes from other things 478 00:24:56,200 --> 00:25:00,280 Speaker 2: as well. But yeah, you're very aware mentally, so the 479 00:25:00,320 --> 00:25:03,920 Speaker 2: awareness isn't enough. No, you know a lot of people 480 00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:06,520 Speaker 2: that come to me are very intelligent, highly intelligent people 481 00:25:06,680 --> 00:25:09,359 Speaker 2: who know all this, like even this conversation. Yet I 482 00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:11,919 Speaker 2: know that I know I should stress less, but again 483 00:25:12,080 --> 00:25:15,399 Speaker 2: that's not actually solving you know what the experience is 484 00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:17,200 Speaker 2: for that individual telling someone that. 485 00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:21,760 Speaker 1: No at all. Yeah, well it's actually very interesting because, yeah, 486 00:25:21,760 --> 00:25:24,119 Speaker 1: Cooper came into my office the other day and obviously 487 00:25:24,200 --> 00:25:26,919 Speaker 1: he was dealing with whatever he was going through, but 488 00:25:26,960 --> 00:25:32,879 Speaker 1: he goes, he goes, You're so relaxed, were spicy, Georgie, 489 00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:36,399 Speaker 1: And you know, he's talking about something in business and 490 00:25:36,440 --> 00:25:38,960 Speaker 1: he wants to like go to the next level and whatnot, 491 00:25:39,040 --> 00:25:41,159 Speaker 1: and I'm like, I'm just I'm not stressed about it, 492 00:25:41,240 --> 00:25:43,200 Speaker 1: Like I I know I will get there, like I'm 493 00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:45,920 Speaker 1: not stressed. And you can tell he was getting worked 494 00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:50,080 Speaker 1: up and probably going into old strategies and I just 495 00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:53,280 Speaker 1: was like Cooper, it's fine, and he's like, I don't 496 00:25:53,320 --> 00:25:56,160 Speaker 1: like this, Georgie, but you. 497 00:25:56,080 --> 00:25:58,560 Speaker 2: Won't letting him play out the story. No, I wasn't 498 00:25:58,600 --> 00:25:58,879 Speaker 2: wanted to. 499 00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:00,679 Speaker 1: I know, I wasn't letting hm him playing to the 500 00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:02,000 Speaker 1: pattern we usually play. 501 00:26:01,800 --> 00:26:04,320 Speaker 2: In tea and especially as siblings, Like there would be 502 00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:06,159 Speaker 2: a pattern there that you both could have jumped on 503 00:26:06,200 --> 00:26:08,399 Speaker 2: the train for. So you were annoying him in that regard. 504 00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:10,960 Speaker 2: But I like that. But you've also developed enough in 505 00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:15,600 Speaker 2: a resilience now and knowing that things always work out, yes, 506 00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:19,480 Speaker 2: and stressing about it, you actually can't think clear. Like 507 00:26:19,520 --> 00:26:22,760 Speaker 2: when you're stressed, you're reacting instead of actually you know, 508 00:26:22,880 --> 00:26:26,840 Speaker 2: taking a moment to actually respond in a clear way, 509 00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:27,920 Speaker 2: in an appropriate way. 510 00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:31,480 Speaker 1: So, well, like my big mission kind of right now 511 00:26:31,600 --> 00:26:34,199 Speaker 1: is like I have kind of proved to myself that 512 00:26:34,320 --> 00:26:38,919 Speaker 1: I can do really incredible things at very fast paced 513 00:26:38,960 --> 00:26:41,560 Speaker 1: and you know, all the things. But I'm like, okay, 514 00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:44,160 Speaker 1: so my next mission is like I can do all that, 515 00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:49,240 Speaker 1: but not in these Yeah, not in the high cortisol, 516 00:26:49,520 --> 00:26:53,480 Speaker 1: in the hustle, in that masculine energy. And so my 517 00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:55,720 Speaker 1: whole journey at the moment is like very stepping into 518 00:26:55,720 --> 00:26:59,720 Speaker 1: the feminine, healing that and then showing people it's like, well, 519 00:26:59,760 --> 00:27:02,640 Speaker 1: you can do it this way too. I've experienced that way. 520 00:27:02,680 --> 00:27:04,960 Speaker 1: It's just I developed a lot of issues. 521 00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:07,560 Speaker 2: I think it's really goodful that you're touching on that 522 00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:12,439 Speaker 2: because for me as as a female entrepreneur as well, 523 00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:15,520 Speaker 2: I've had to be quite masculine to gain success in 524 00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:17,680 Speaker 2: a certain way as well. And I'm really at a 525 00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:20,719 Speaker 2: point now too where i'm just you know, I'm in 526 00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:23,280 Speaker 2: the flow of things as well, Like even coming up here, 527 00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:24,800 Speaker 2: this is the last minute kind of trip, but I 528 00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:27,640 Speaker 2: was like, Okay, I'll bring Pepper and Katy, you'll look 529 00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:30,440 Speaker 2: after it. Whereas before, if we got lost, for example, 530 00:27:30,480 --> 00:27:32,240 Speaker 2: before if that had to happen before we were gone, 531 00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:34,200 Speaker 2: where are we going, We're gonna be last at an 532 00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:40,760 Speaker 2: Whereas it's more enjoyable when it's not so stressful. 533 00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:43,880 Speaker 1: I can feel your energy and it's very much even 534 00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:46,720 Speaker 1: matching like what I'm trying to embody, and it's so 535 00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:51,160 Speaker 1: nice to be around. And I think about before and 536 00:27:51,200 --> 00:27:53,280 Speaker 1: the energy I would have been in, and it's like 537 00:27:53,320 --> 00:27:55,879 Speaker 1: it would have been very intense for other people. Oh 538 00:27:55,920 --> 00:28:00,720 Speaker 1: you don't work for me though, Georgie said, don't get 539 00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:02,760 Speaker 1: me wrong, like Sarah, you don't want any. 540 00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:06,560 Speaker 2: Georgie and I are both difficult to work with. But 541 00:28:06,640 --> 00:28:10,040 Speaker 2: that's okay, that's a whole nother podcast difficult. We just 542 00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:10,640 Speaker 2: we've got. 543 00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:14,119 Speaker 1: Sarah literally goes to my session. You're quite difficult to 544 00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:17,560 Speaker 1: work for. You have very high expectations and you want 545 00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:19,679 Speaker 1: everyone to do it like you. And I was like, 546 00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:21,280 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, she's so right. 547 00:28:21,680 --> 00:28:25,280 Speaker 2: It takes one to know one, so I understand. But yeah, like. 548 00:28:26,800 --> 00:28:30,560 Speaker 1: Girls laugh when they listen to this podcast, they'll be like, 549 00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:32,919 Speaker 1: oh my god, she's actually you know. 550 00:28:33,080 --> 00:28:35,800 Speaker 2: I think it's you wouldn't be where you are if 551 00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:37,680 Speaker 2: you didn't have those standards. So I get it. But 552 00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:39,440 Speaker 2: then it comes a point where you have to grow, 553 00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:40,960 Speaker 2: you have to evolve, and you have to bring people 554 00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:45,520 Speaker 2: in and you have to let go of things being perfect. Yeah, 555 00:28:45,560 --> 00:28:48,600 Speaker 2: and I think, yeah, every person that owns a business 556 00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:51,280 Speaker 2: gets to that point where they're like, Okay, I can't 557 00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:53,160 Speaker 2: literally do everything myself and. 558 00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:55,760 Speaker 1: Don't have the capacity. Yeah, no, I want to kind 559 00:28:55,760 --> 00:28:58,560 Speaker 1: of talk to you a little bit more about For example, 560 00:28:58,640 --> 00:29:00,840 Speaker 1: I also has been diagnosed so like p so o, 561 00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:03,920 Speaker 1: ass is this something that you have worked with with 562 00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:08,080 Speaker 1: clients and maybe also like you rually spoke about the 563 00:29:08,080 --> 00:29:10,240 Speaker 1: other one buts and like endometriosis. 564 00:29:10,280 --> 00:29:13,920 Speaker 2: Actually yeah, So for me, anything that's inflammatory in the 565 00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:16,240 Speaker 2: system is something I'm interested in. You did say its 566 00:29:16,360 --> 00:29:20,080 Speaker 2: very say you had inflammas yea perfect, that's just a 567 00:29:20,120 --> 00:29:23,280 Speaker 2: tendency to inflame. Yeah, that doesn't shock me. Knowing your 568 00:29:23,360 --> 00:29:25,440 Speaker 2: nature and knowing the way that you know your life 569 00:29:25,520 --> 00:29:27,120 Speaker 2: is and also what you've gone through in your life. 570 00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:30,080 Speaker 2: Inflammation is you know, related to grief and sadness as 571 00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:34,520 Speaker 2: well as uh, you know, just constant pushing, pushing, pushing. 572 00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:37,120 Speaker 2: So I have a really large interest in any kind 573 00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:40,680 Speaker 2: of inflammatory disease because anything that ends in itis, for example, 574 00:29:42,600 --> 00:29:43,600 Speaker 2: is known as inflammatory. 575 00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:45,880 Speaker 1: And it's like, well, why is this person so inflamed? 576 00:29:46,240 --> 00:29:50,400 Speaker 1: Like why can I sorry? Just to be specifically, what 577 00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:51,520 Speaker 1: is inflame to mean? 578 00:29:51,800 --> 00:29:54,560 Speaker 2: It basically just means that the body is having a 579 00:29:54,680 --> 00:29:58,840 Speaker 2: hyper response to something. There's a lot of like rheumatoid arthritis, 580 00:29:59,160 --> 00:30:03,680 Speaker 2: for example, is an inflammatory disease, and Jimmy triosis and 581 00:30:03,720 --> 00:30:07,080 Speaker 2: things like that. There's things going on in the lining 582 00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:09,920 Speaker 2: and there has to be some kind of emotional component 583 00:30:09,960 --> 00:30:12,120 Speaker 2: because why do some people have it and some people don't. 584 00:30:12,200 --> 00:30:15,480 Speaker 2: The other interesting part is, you know you can get 585 00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:18,120 Speaker 2: you know, surgery and things like that, and then it 586 00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:20,680 Speaker 2: grows back, you know, So why is it growing back? 587 00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:24,480 Speaker 2: Things like crisis that have a large interest in exma, 588 00:30:24,680 --> 00:30:29,320 Speaker 2: even like gluten intolerance and things like that, even like 589 00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:33,520 Speaker 2: inflammatory bow disease IBS, things like that, gut syndromes where 590 00:30:33,720 --> 00:30:36,560 Speaker 2: there's no real reason what's going on. We can't find anything. 591 00:30:36,600 --> 00:30:40,480 Speaker 2: You just have an irritated gut. So anythink you eat, 592 00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:42,120 Speaker 2: you have to go on this diet for the rest 593 00:30:42,120 --> 00:30:44,600 Speaker 2: of your life. A lot of that. No one's been 594 00:30:44,640 --> 00:30:46,840 Speaker 2: asked again about their emotions, what they've gone through in 595 00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:50,440 Speaker 2: their life, what's been passed through their families. For example, 596 00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:54,080 Speaker 2: has there been sexual trauma in the family, has there 597 00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:57,480 Speaker 2: been emotional trauma in the family. What's happened in your 598 00:30:57,520 --> 00:31:00,640 Speaker 2: life that the body has decided that that era is 599 00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:04,040 Speaker 2: the area it could be matched with any disease. But 600 00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:07,640 Speaker 2: I have a special interest in inflammatory conditions and especially 601 00:31:07,640 --> 00:31:11,200 Speaker 2: autoimmune So like in my family, my mum is currently 602 00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:14,200 Speaker 2: in care from a really rare brain disease called adem 603 00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:17,640 Speaker 2: which is a cute demylination kephemyelitis, which is a bit 604 00:31:17,640 --> 00:31:20,600 Speaker 2: of a big mouthful, but it's basically an autoimmune condition 605 00:31:20,680 --> 00:31:24,240 Speaker 2: and an instantaneous MS. She was sixty eight when it happened, healthy, happy, 606 00:31:24,280 --> 00:31:26,040 Speaker 2: in the next minute was in a coma and she's 607 00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:28,440 Speaker 2: now brain damage as a result of this really rare disease. 608 00:31:29,480 --> 00:31:32,640 Speaker 2: I had MS in my family, I had Parkinson's in 609 00:31:32,680 --> 00:31:35,320 Speaker 2: my family. I had M and D in my family. 610 00:31:35,840 --> 00:31:38,520 Speaker 2: So there was also an extensive amount of trauma in 611 00:31:38,560 --> 00:31:41,480 Speaker 2: my mum's family, and so for me, it was like, well, 612 00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:43,520 Speaker 2: and they didn't work on it either. But you know, 613 00:31:45,080 --> 00:31:47,520 Speaker 2: that wasn't something my mum ever really spoke about or did. 614 00:31:47,520 --> 00:31:49,800 Speaker 2: I never remember my mum doing any of the things 615 00:31:49,800 --> 00:31:54,080 Speaker 2: that we are doing. So for me, I wanted to 616 00:31:54,800 --> 00:31:56,400 Speaker 2: I didn't want that to happen to me. And I 617 00:31:56,440 --> 00:31:58,680 Speaker 2: do believe that we have impact. What we do in 618 00:31:58,680 --> 00:32:01,440 Speaker 2: this life does have impact, working with our emotions and 619 00:32:01,720 --> 00:32:04,400 Speaker 2: what we've gone through. If we don't, it will catch 620 00:32:04,480 --> 00:32:07,040 Speaker 2: up with us later. And you know, we are all 621 00:32:07,080 --> 00:32:10,960 Speaker 2: designed to eventually leave this planet. That's okay, But I 622 00:32:10,960 --> 00:32:13,960 Speaker 2: think there's things that we can do that aren't necessarily 623 00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:17,880 Speaker 2: you know, genetic in the line, but nurtured through the line. 624 00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:23,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, so someone does have, like you said, in inflammatory Yeah, case, 625 00:32:24,560 --> 00:32:27,800 Speaker 1: what's your sort of recommendations? What are the steps? Yeah, 626 00:32:27,840 --> 00:32:30,720 Speaker 1: well you know, my lawyer, what do we do? 627 00:32:31,080 --> 00:32:33,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, I get it. There's no point having the information 628 00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:34,120 Speaker 2: without knowing what to do with it. 629 00:32:34,240 --> 00:32:34,480 Speaker 1: Yeah. 630 00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:36,400 Speaker 2: So the reason I love spinal energetics is that it 631 00:32:36,480 --> 00:32:39,080 Speaker 2: changes the nervous system response. So it takes you out 632 00:32:39,080 --> 00:32:41,680 Speaker 2: of that sympathetic state, which is that cartersol driven state, 633 00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:44,800 Speaker 2: that fight or flight state, and into a parasympathetic state. 634 00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:46,960 Speaker 2: So you can't have that kind of you can. 635 00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:49,960 Speaker 1: Rest and recover. Yeah, yeah, okay. 636 00:32:49,600 --> 00:32:51,560 Speaker 2: So you can't have that kind of inflammation going on 637 00:32:51,600 --> 00:32:54,280 Speaker 2: if you are in your parasympathetic state at times. You 638 00:32:54,320 --> 00:32:56,560 Speaker 2: can only be in one at a moment in time 639 00:32:56,600 --> 00:32:59,240 Speaker 2: as well, so if you're stressed, you're not in parasympathetic, 640 00:32:59,280 --> 00:33:00,000 Speaker 2: you can only be in one. 641 00:33:00,560 --> 00:33:02,800 Speaker 1: So the way that I've heard someone explain this to me, 642 00:33:02,880 --> 00:33:05,800 Speaker 1: which was really helpful, was he was saying, like, you know, 643 00:33:05,920 --> 00:33:09,000 Speaker 1: if you've had a lot of traumas and certain coping, 644 00:33:09,040 --> 00:33:13,080 Speaker 1: then you implant coping mechanisms and like whatnot. And he 645 00:33:13,320 --> 00:33:17,560 Speaker 1: explained it like it feels like there's seventeen tigers around you, 646 00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:20,480 Speaker 1: and like you know, in the wild, we see a tiger, 647 00:33:20,560 --> 00:33:25,880 Speaker 1: we're stressed. And so unless you're resolving these traumas and 648 00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:29,240 Speaker 1: working through them, you're constantly going to be in a 649 00:33:29,320 --> 00:33:33,240 Speaker 1: state of survival. So if a tiger is chasing you, 650 00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:37,160 Speaker 1: you're not digesting food, you're not healing, you're not resting. 651 00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:40,160 Speaker 1: And so that just made so much sense to me. 652 00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:42,160 Speaker 1: And so his whole thing is like he was like, 653 00:33:42,240 --> 00:33:45,680 Speaker 1: so we need to reduce the tigers and then you 654 00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:47,920 Speaker 1: will be in a state. And he's like, you're you know, 655 00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:51,480 Speaker 1: Hashimotos will heal itself because your body knows how to 656 00:33:51,520 --> 00:33:55,040 Speaker 1: do it, It created it, it knows how to resolve it. 657 00:33:55,120 --> 00:33:58,400 Speaker 1: But you need to be in an environment where you're 658 00:33:58,440 --> 00:34:00,920 Speaker 1: not in survival, you're not stress rest all the time. 659 00:34:01,280 --> 00:34:05,240 Speaker 1: And like you said, for me, consciously, I know all 660 00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:07,360 Speaker 1: the things. And it's like if you consciously said that 661 00:34:07,360 --> 00:34:09,560 Speaker 1: to me, I'm like cool, But it's. 662 00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:12,000 Speaker 2: How do I yea feel that? How do I embody that? 663 00:34:12,080 --> 00:34:13,960 Speaker 1: How do I embody? And that's why you're saying, like 664 00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:16,960 Speaker 1: we need to work with an energetic field because it's 665 00:34:16,960 --> 00:34:19,200 Speaker 1: not a conscious talk therapy situation. 666 00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:22,399 Speaker 2: No, no, Otherwise, you know, you could do thirty talk 667 00:34:22,400 --> 00:34:26,600 Speaker 2: therapy sessions about the tigers, and it's not especially for you. 668 00:34:26,680 --> 00:34:29,400 Speaker 2: It's not going to change your physiology. So Peter Levine, 669 00:34:29,440 --> 00:34:31,719 Speaker 2: he's a Semitic therapist, and he spoke a lot about this. 670 00:34:31,800 --> 00:34:34,759 Speaker 2: He has a book called Waking the Tiger. Yeah, it's 671 00:34:34,760 --> 00:34:37,560 Speaker 2: really really interesting. What I see a lot is exactly 672 00:34:37,600 --> 00:34:39,840 Speaker 2: what you know, You're other practitioner was saying. But and 673 00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:44,360 Speaker 2: emails the tiger instead, or you know, not getting a 674 00:34:44,400 --> 00:34:46,959 Speaker 2: cart spots the tiger instead, or your partner not being 675 00:34:47,000 --> 00:34:49,759 Speaker 2: twenty minutes late is the tiger instead. It's an accumulation, 676 00:34:50,160 --> 00:34:53,840 Speaker 2: So we don't respond in a way that's necessarily relatable 677 00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:57,160 Speaker 2: to that one event. All of a sudden, it's it's 678 00:34:57,200 --> 00:35:00,000 Speaker 2: an accumulation of every other thing that's ever gone wrong, 679 00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:02,000 Speaker 2: and you explode at that point. And that's just because 680 00:35:02,000 --> 00:35:05,080 Speaker 2: we're in this constant, constant stress state. And the Western 681 00:35:05,120 --> 00:35:09,239 Speaker 2: world praises people in that state. What we deem successful. 682 00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:11,520 Speaker 2: A lot of people don't know how to do in 683 00:35:11,560 --> 00:35:13,880 Speaker 2: a state of flow. So you can get all these 684 00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:17,120 Speaker 2: amazing things and not necessarily have to grind yourself like 685 00:35:17,160 --> 00:35:20,560 Speaker 2: to death to do it. It doesn't mean that it's simple. 686 00:35:20,600 --> 00:35:22,000 Speaker 2: It's not. You still have to work hard. I do 687 00:35:22,120 --> 00:35:26,440 Speaker 2: believe that, but not to the point where you're going 688 00:35:26,480 --> 00:35:29,239 Speaker 2: to have to hurt yourself to get it, or you know, 689 00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:33,359 Speaker 2: experience pain. Like what's the point of having everything if 690 00:35:33,400 --> 00:35:35,319 Speaker 2: you wake up every day in pain? Like your health 691 00:35:35,440 --> 00:35:39,400 Speaker 2: is is everything? Yeah, unfortunately we are all pretty stressed 692 00:35:39,440 --> 00:35:42,080 Speaker 2: in the in the West. If you go to somewhere 693 00:35:42,120 --> 00:35:44,200 Speaker 2: like you know, so I love traveling because you learn 694 00:35:44,239 --> 00:35:46,440 Speaker 2: so much from different cultures. But if you go somewhere 695 00:35:46,480 --> 00:35:50,200 Speaker 2: like you know, Southeast Asia or India or whatever, they're 696 00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:54,760 Speaker 2: they're happy people, even amongst the chaos. I remember seeing, 697 00:35:54,960 --> 00:35:57,320 Speaker 2: you know, Buddhists and being like, why are they so happy? 698 00:35:57,320 --> 00:36:01,360 Speaker 2: And we're so miserable And they're not having that friction 699 00:36:01,719 --> 00:36:04,600 Speaker 2: against life as much as we are. That's that's what 700 00:36:04,640 --> 00:36:07,040 Speaker 2: got me interested in this work. Like, you know, you 701 00:36:07,080 --> 00:36:08,880 Speaker 2: have to have your own trauma story to be interested 702 00:36:08,920 --> 00:36:11,960 Speaker 2: into this work. So obviously that's where it's come from. 703 00:36:12,360 --> 00:36:17,680 Speaker 2: But who are you without identifying with it? And who 704 00:36:17,719 --> 00:36:20,920 Speaker 2: do you want to be because of it? And despite 705 00:36:20,920 --> 00:36:23,879 Speaker 2: of it? And I like to help people return back 706 00:36:23,920 --> 00:36:26,360 Speaker 2: to their true self instead of being this hijacked version 707 00:36:26,400 --> 00:36:30,720 Speaker 2: of them and what's happened to them? 708 00:36:32,080 --> 00:36:34,759 Speaker 1: And so when you work with someone, obviously you do 709 00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:39,279 Speaker 1: one on one sessions and do you also do oh 710 00:36:39,320 --> 00:36:44,400 Speaker 1: you don't do just for me? I do feel very 711 00:36:45,200 --> 00:36:48,640 Speaker 1: so thank you. Obviously you work with people and you 712 00:36:48,680 --> 00:36:51,719 Speaker 1: teach them this work. Yeah, what's the kind of you know, 713 00:36:51,800 --> 00:36:55,000 Speaker 1: like process of how you work with people. 714 00:36:55,120 --> 00:36:56,960 Speaker 2: That's how it all started. I started in clinic and 715 00:36:57,239 --> 00:37:00,200 Speaker 2: for example, you know, rubbing out a sow muscle. I 716 00:37:00,239 --> 00:37:03,239 Speaker 2: would come back next week. So I wasn't working with 717 00:37:03,280 --> 00:37:06,400 Speaker 2: the intelligence. I was almost trying to override the intelligence 718 00:37:06,640 --> 00:37:08,640 Speaker 2: by smoothing it out, telling it what to do, and 719 00:37:08,640 --> 00:37:11,200 Speaker 2: then the next week would be back. Or I would 720 00:37:11,239 --> 00:37:14,680 Speaker 2: work on, say like a tension pattern in the neck, 721 00:37:14,719 --> 00:37:16,760 Speaker 2: and I would go just work on the neck, thinking 722 00:37:16,800 --> 00:37:18,480 Speaker 2: if I wanted to help someone's neck, I had to 723 00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:22,040 Speaker 2: work purely on their neck. They felt good for three days, 724 00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:24,800 Speaker 2: four days, next minute it's back again. So why is 725 00:37:24,840 --> 00:37:26,880 Speaker 2: it coming back Because we're not working with the actual 726 00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:30,239 Speaker 2: intelligence that created that tension. So once I started working 727 00:37:30,239 --> 00:37:34,600 Speaker 2: with energy and in the field, people weren't experiencing these 728 00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:37,600 Speaker 2: symptoms coming back again straight away. Like if anything like 729 00:37:37,680 --> 00:37:40,400 Speaker 2: maybe once a year, and then when we worked at 730 00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:42,719 Speaker 2: that again, it moved and shifted so much quicker again, 731 00:37:42,800 --> 00:37:46,160 Speaker 2: because you're working with the actual part of you that 732 00:37:46,200 --> 00:37:48,400 Speaker 2: created it, rather than trying to fight it, do you 733 00:37:48,480 --> 00:37:50,600 Speaker 2: know what I mean? Yeah, And we work in the 734 00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:54,239 Speaker 2: areas of ease. So let's say, for example, your right 735 00:37:54,280 --> 00:37:56,640 Speaker 2: neck is super tight. Just as an example. What we 736 00:37:56,719 --> 00:37:58,680 Speaker 2: do is we look for the areas that are working well. 737 00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:03,680 Speaker 2: We then work more with those, and then that shares 738 00:38:03,719 --> 00:38:06,839 Speaker 2: that richness to the other areas that are more energy poor, 739 00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:10,680 Speaker 2: for example, like the Robin hoods of of energy. Like, 740 00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:13,360 Speaker 2: here's richness, we can send that to the area of 741 00:38:13,480 --> 00:38:16,440 Speaker 2: that's not working as well. Again, that even changes the 742 00:38:16,480 --> 00:38:19,000 Speaker 2: perspective of the client, like instead of thinking what's wrong 743 00:38:19,040 --> 00:38:21,799 Speaker 2: with them? And how do I fix it? How can 744 00:38:21,840 --> 00:38:23,960 Speaker 2: I listen to the body and communicate it and work 745 00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:27,440 Speaker 2: with the intelligence to have this person feel safer and 746 00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:31,960 Speaker 2: more loved as a person. That's our main goal. Yeah, Like, 747 00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:33,880 Speaker 2: if I'm looking at what's wrong with you? 748 00:38:34,360 --> 00:38:35,040 Speaker 1: What's wrong with you? 749 00:38:35,160 --> 00:38:39,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a very different lens. We have that enough, 750 00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:43,120 Speaker 2: you know. And so my goal isn't to fix anyone. 751 00:38:43,120 --> 00:38:45,880 Speaker 2: I don't believe anyone needs to be fixed. I believe, 752 00:38:45,920 --> 00:38:50,319 Speaker 2: like for example, with your thyroid, Yes, that's communication, but 753 00:38:50,400 --> 00:38:52,719 Speaker 2: if we didn't listen to it, you might have kept 754 00:38:52,760 --> 00:38:53,640 Speaker 2: living life that way. 755 00:38:54,640 --> 00:38:56,880 Speaker 1: Well yeah, and it was completely out of the linement. 756 00:38:56,960 --> 00:39:00,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, so let's bring you back into that and not 757 00:39:00,600 --> 00:39:04,799 Speaker 2: just through conscious words, but through actual experiential feeling of 758 00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:07,239 Speaker 2: feeling who you really are and feeling like what is 759 00:39:07,280 --> 00:39:09,960 Speaker 2: you and what isn't you? So then you can you know, 760 00:39:10,320 --> 00:39:13,200 Speaker 2: flow far more easier of even decision making. No, that 761 00:39:13,360 --> 00:39:15,520 Speaker 2: is a line with me though, That isn't who are 762 00:39:15,560 --> 00:39:18,280 Speaker 2: you as a person. It's like everything that really matters 763 00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:21,399 Speaker 2: you feel it on the table, almost like a really 764 00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:25,359 Speaker 2: good meditation or you know sometimes even you know people 765 00:39:25,360 --> 00:39:27,560 Speaker 2: are really into yoga, they get this sense of connecting 766 00:39:27,560 --> 00:39:29,800 Speaker 2: with themselves and the bigger picture and all that noise 767 00:39:29,880 --> 00:39:31,040 Speaker 2: gets not so loud. 768 00:39:31,920 --> 00:39:34,840 Speaker 1: Someone asked me the other day, like, what's like a 769 00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:39,680 Speaker 1: really peaceful moment you've had recently? And straight away I thought, oh, 770 00:39:39,760 --> 00:39:43,800 Speaker 1: six months ago when I did a yin yoga class. 771 00:39:43,960 --> 00:39:46,920 Speaker 1: It's like I've never felt so And then I was like, 772 00:39:46,960 --> 00:39:48,680 Speaker 1: oh my god, that was six months ago. What am 773 00:39:48,719 --> 00:39:49,360 Speaker 1: I doing? 774 00:39:50,520 --> 00:39:50,759 Speaker 2: Why? 775 00:39:51,000 --> 00:39:53,960 Speaker 1: And this is sorry, this is a random question, why 776 00:39:54,000 --> 00:39:57,960 Speaker 1: do you think we because a lot of us we 777 00:39:58,239 --> 00:40:01,520 Speaker 1: for example, someone like me, who has access to people 778 00:40:02,040 --> 00:40:05,960 Speaker 1: like you, who does have resources, who does have time 779 00:40:06,000 --> 00:40:11,160 Speaker 1: and money. Why do you think we don't gravitate towards 780 00:40:11,200 --> 00:40:15,880 Speaker 1: the things that can distress us, that can help our body, 781 00:40:15,960 --> 00:40:19,360 Speaker 1: that can talk to our intelligence, and it takes to 782 00:40:19,400 --> 00:40:21,960 Speaker 1: the point of us getting sick to then go and 783 00:40:22,000 --> 00:40:24,000 Speaker 1: figure out and go on this big journey like why 784 00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:25,719 Speaker 1: do you think we don't go, Oh, well, I'm just 785 00:40:25,800 --> 00:40:27,080 Speaker 1: going to do a yin class weekly. 786 00:40:27,239 --> 00:40:33,640 Speaker 2: Very good question for me. Change is hard, so we 787 00:40:33,719 --> 00:40:37,560 Speaker 2: may not want to change. Yeah, Number one, so a 788 00:40:37,560 --> 00:40:41,760 Speaker 2: lot of us don't change until we have to. Number two, 789 00:40:42,000 --> 00:40:43,760 Speaker 2: we don't really want to listen to what the body 790 00:40:43,760 --> 00:40:46,480 Speaker 2: has to say. We might tell us something we don't 791 00:40:46,520 --> 00:40:49,759 Speaker 2: really want to hear, so we avoid that moment and 792 00:40:49,880 --> 00:40:52,239 Speaker 2: that quiet time with ourselves and having to listen to 793 00:40:52,280 --> 00:40:53,960 Speaker 2: We might have to make some decisions we don't want 794 00:40:54,000 --> 00:40:57,479 Speaker 2: to make, or you know, there might have to be 795 00:40:57,560 --> 00:41:00,759 Speaker 2: some changes made. So I think that they're kind of 796 00:41:00,840 --> 00:41:02,760 Speaker 2: a lot of the reasons. Another reason might be self 797 00:41:02,800 --> 00:41:05,640 Speaker 2: sabotage or you know, I don't deserve to feel like 798 00:41:05,680 --> 00:41:08,440 Speaker 2: that I don't deserve to feel peaceful. I only know 799 00:41:08,600 --> 00:41:10,920 Speaker 2: this feeling of being stressed all the time. So it 800 00:41:10,920 --> 00:41:13,520 Speaker 2: can be, you know, just being familiar with an environment 801 00:41:13,600 --> 00:41:14,520 Speaker 2: that feels. 802 00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:17,360 Speaker 1: Stressful creatures of comfort, aren't we Well. 803 00:41:17,239 --> 00:41:20,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, we'll always choose, you know, what feels familiar rather 804 00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:22,960 Speaker 2: than even what's best for us. You know, there's a 805 00:41:23,000 --> 00:41:26,960 Speaker 2: study done makes me say, because I love dogs, but 806 00:41:27,000 --> 00:41:29,960 Speaker 2: there was a study done on doggies where they're in 807 00:41:29,960 --> 00:41:32,160 Speaker 2: a cage and they would get electrocuted every time they 808 00:41:32,160 --> 00:41:34,520 Speaker 2: tried to leave the cage. And then they just left 809 00:41:34,520 --> 00:41:38,200 Speaker 2: the doors open and they no longer electrocuted them, and 810 00:41:38,239 --> 00:41:40,759 Speaker 2: not one dog left. I know, you don't have to 811 00:41:40,760 --> 00:41:44,600 Speaker 2: put this in. I love animals, by the way, so 812 00:41:44,880 --> 00:41:46,799 Speaker 2: it makes me really sad too. Would never get past 813 00:41:46,880 --> 00:41:49,200 Speaker 2: these days. But what we can learn from that is 814 00:41:50,200 --> 00:41:53,239 Speaker 2: we're not really much different. We're in these cages of 815 00:41:53,280 --> 00:41:56,880 Speaker 2: these expectations of what society says we should be, shouldn't 816 00:41:56,920 --> 00:42:00,520 Speaker 2: be what our chraunmeries can be that you know, that 817 00:42:00,680 --> 00:42:04,080 Speaker 2: electrocution and then when we have the chance to free 818 00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:06,840 Speaker 2: ourselves from it, even though that's something we deeply deeply 819 00:42:06,880 --> 00:42:09,799 Speaker 2: want and yearn for, the safety the survival still can 820 00:42:09,840 --> 00:42:12,839 Speaker 2: be larger, and that is not a world I want 821 00:42:12,880 --> 00:42:14,120 Speaker 2: to live in. I want to live in with people 822 00:42:14,160 --> 00:42:18,760 Speaker 2: who who have managed to have that courage to step 823 00:42:18,800 --> 00:42:19,960 Speaker 2: out even when it hurts. 824 00:42:20,920 --> 00:42:23,680 Speaker 1: There's a really great quote that sums that up, and 825 00:42:23,719 --> 00:42:27,279 Speaker 1: it's like, you'll always pick a familiar hell over an 826 00:42:27,360 --> 00:42:31,160 Speaker 1: unfamiliar heaven. Hmm. That's what we're kind of trained to do. 827 00:42:31,520 --> 00:42:33,560 Speaker 2: And again, it's not a conscious choice. No one would 828 00:42:33,560 --> 00:42:35,080 Speaker 2: consciously want to stay in the cage. 829 00:42:35,320 --> 00:42:38,120 Speaker 1: No, and that's why we need to work with a subconscious. 830 00:42:38,200 --> 00:42:40,040 Speaker 2: Yes, it is, and that's why we get such you 831 00:42:40,080 --> 00:42:43,400 Speaker 2: know amazing. You know, people once they have a session, 832 00:42:43,440 --> 00:42:45,239 Speaker 2: they tell everyone about it. And the reason they tell 833 00:42:45,280 --> 00:42:49,120 Speaker 2: everyone about it is because there's a certain like wanting 834 00:42:49,160 --> 00:42:52,359 Speaker 2: to share this gift with people, the of being able 835 00:42:52,400 --> 00:42:55,319 Speaker 2: to connect back to yourself. But again, people like you 836 00:42:55,320 --> 00:42:58,080 Speaker 2: were saying about the inn, sometimes avoid trying this because 837 00:42:58,080 --> 00:42:59,520 Speaker 2: it's like, well, I don't know what could come up, 838 00:42:59,600 --> 00:43:02,200 Speaker 2: I don't know what I might feel. There's a reason 839 00:43:02,239 --> 00:43:06,400 Speaker 2: there's this feeling of oh, because you know, what will 840 00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:09,759 Speaker 2: what will I have to do? 841 00:43:10,320 --> 00:43:14,000 Speaker 1: I have a friend who has had someone really close 842 00:43:14,040 --> 00:43:16,640 Speaker 1: to them pass away. You know, a couple of years ago, 843 00:43:17,120 --> 00:43:20,279 Speaker 1: and they are very intelligent, they're very spiritual, but they 844 00:43:20,320 --> 00:43:23,799 Speaker 1: said it's like too hard. I can't go to it 845 00:43:23,880 --> 00:43:26,960 Speaker 1: and process it. It's like I know I should, and 846 00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:28,799 Speaker 1: I know it's what I need to do, but it's 847 00:43:28,880 --> 00:43:32,760 Speaker 1: like the thought of it, like it's too crippling. Hearing 848 00:43:33,320 --> 00:43:36,040 Speaker 1: that breaks my heart because you know, this person's even 849 00:43:36,120 --> 00:43:40,719 Speaker 1: conscious and they like it's too hard. So you can 850 00:43:40,760 --> 00:43:44,040 Speaker 1: imagine someone who isn't aware of this work, who's not 851 00:43:44,239 --> 00:43:47,840 Speaker 1: very conscious the sort of patterns and the sort of 852 00:43:47,920 --> 00:43:51,680 Speaker 1: health issues that would be happening because they refuse to, 853 00:43:52,000 --> 00:43:53,640 Speaker 1: you know, work through that trauma. 854 00:43:53,400 --> 00:43:55,920 Speaker 2: And grief is hard. You know, grief is like, out 855 00:43:55,960 --> 00:43:58,880 Speaker 2: of everything I've ever experienced, grief has been the hardest 856 00:43:58,880 --> 00:44:02,000 Speaker 2: thing I've experienced. But what we can do with spinal 857 00:44:02,040 --> 00:44:03,960 Speaker 2: which is what I love about it as well, is yes, 858 00:44:04,040 --> 00:44:07,040 Speaker 2: we're working with the experiences, but it doesn't come up 859 00:44:07,080 --> 00:44:10,640 Speaker 2: while you're on the table, so you won't get specific 860 00:44:11,360 --> 00:44:14,759 Speaker 2: things about like you know what your trauma is specifically 861 00:44:14,800 --> 00:44:18,600 Speaker 2: as such, you'll just feel this ease in your body 862 00:44:18,680 --> 00:44:21,239 Speaker 2: or this movement in your body, so it's not rehashing 863 00:44:21,280 --> 00:44:22,200 Speaker 2: trauma as such. 864 00:44:22,560 --> 00:44:25,200 Speaker 1: You know, I didn't have any specific trauma came up, Like, 865 00:44:25,280 --> 00:44:27,640 Speaker 1: there was a lot of thoughts and feelings, and I 866 00:44:27,680 --> 00:44:29,480 Speaker 1: felt like I went through a lot of waves of 867 00:44:29,560 --> 00:44:33,920 Speaker 1: like really fast thoughts and then like a letdown and 868 00:44:33,960 --> 00:44:34,680 Speaker 1: then fast. 869 00:44:34,440 --> 00:44:36,840 Speaker 2: Thoughts should feel kind of like yeah, a ride. 870 00:44:37,080 --> 00:44:40,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's exactly what I felt through your emotional states 871 00:44:40,280 --> 00:44:41,560 Speaker 1: and through states of consciousness. 872 00:44:41,560 --> 00:44:45,000 Speaker 2: But I understand why people find it challenging. But then 873 00:44:45,400 --> 00:44:47,919 Speaker 2: you know what's more challenging living a life like that 874 00:44:48,600 --> 00:44:51,759 Speaker 2: in pain forever. And grief is such a beautiful thing too, 875 00:44:52,600 --> 00:44:55,719 Speaker 2: Like it means you love someone you know, and you're 876 00:44:55,719 --> 00:44:57,120 Speaker 2: not going to get to that straight away, and maybe 877 00:44:57,160 --> 00:44:58,120 Speaker 2: she's just not ready yet. 878 00:44:58,200 --> 00:44:58,799 Speaker 1: Yeah you know. 879 00:44:59,200 --> 00:45:01,319 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I mean, every day I miss a lot 880 00:45:01,360 --> 00:45:05,000 Speaker 2: of things, but it's also because they meant something to me. 881 00:45:05,920 --> 00:45:07,680 Speaker 2: Some people don't get to have. 882 00:45:07,560 --> 00:45:11,520 Speaker 1: That on the scale of emotions. If you can feel 883 00:45:11,560 --> 00:45:16,600 Speaker 1: the depths of grief and sadness and disappointment, it's because 884 00:45:16,680 --> 00:45:19,839 Speaker 1: you can also feel the highs, And it's like, what 885 00:45:19,920 --> 00:45:24,080 Speaker 1: a beautiful thing, because without feeling this, you're never going 886 00:45:24,120 --> 00:45:27,000 Speaker 1: to feel that, And what a sad life to just 887 00:45:27,080 --> 00:45:30,759 Speaker 1: stay in the middle and feel nothing. Yeah, Oh that's 888 00:45:30,800 --> 00:45:33,319 Speaker 1: why you and I have such interesting experiences in life 889 00:45:33,360 --> 00:45:33,759 Speaker 1: though too. 890 00:45:33,840 --> 00:45:38,640 Speaker 2: They're very drastically over here to hear. But that's what 891 00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:41,520 Speaker 2: you said makes perfect sense. You can't have these amazingly 892 00:45:41,680 --> 00:45:45,080 Speaker 2: beautiful life experiences that are almost unheard of for most 893 00:45:45,080 --> 00:45:48,279 Speaker 2: people's life, Yeah, and then expect the other end of 894 00:45:48,320 --> 00:45:51,680 Speaker 2: the spectrum to not be in existence as well. It's 895 00:45:51,719 --> 00:45:54,439 Speaker 2: got to balance out somewhere. There's two sides to every coin, 896 00:45:54,719 --> 00:45:57,080 Speaker 2: you know, and you wouldn't know the true beauty of 897 00:45:57,120 --> 00:45:59,160 Speaker 2: it if you hadn't known the true hell of it. 898 00:45:59,320 --> 00:46:02,120 Speaker 2: So that's why. Also, I think you're calmer and got 899 00:46:02,120 --> 00:46:05,359 Speaker 2: more resilience because you're just like, well, I've been there, 900 00:46:06,120 --> 00:46:08,080 Speaker 2: I've got myself out of the worst of the worst, 901 00:46:08,640 --> 00:46:10,080 Speaker 2: so I can do it again if I have to. 902 00:46:10,600 --> 00:46:12,680 Speaker 2: So there's a sense of calm which comes from that 903 00:46:12,760 --> 00:46:15,200 Speaker 2: learning about yourself. I know. 904 00:46:16,040 --> 00:46:19,360 Speaker 1: Doctor Sarah Guys did say that I'm due for hard life. 905 00:46:19,480 --> 00:46:23,640 Speaker 1: So not a hard life, but two trict life, an 906 00:46:23,680 --> 00:46:26,480 Speaker 1: intricate life, And that's no, that's very much here. And 907 00:46:26,520 --> 00:46:29,520 Speaker 1: I think even though on my social media obviously a 908 00:46:29,560 --> 00:46:31,640 Speaker 1: lot of people would see the highlights, they would see 909 00:46:31,680 --> 00:46:34,520 Speaker 1: the life I live, what I've created, but what they 910 00:46:34,520 --> 00:46:37,719 Speaker 1: don't see is the depths that I've gone to in 911 00:46:37,920 --> 00:46:40,840 Speaker 1: order to be able to be someone that creates that. 912 00:46:41,160 --> 00:46:43,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, well we don't tend to film that bit, no 913 00:46:45,040 --> 00:46:47,680 Speaker 2: people Ane is interested in watching that sometimes. But that's 914 00:46:47,719 --> 00:46:50,640 Speaker 2: why for me, like whenever I see someone living, you know, 915 00:46:50,760 --> 00:46:53,160 Speaker 2: something that I inspire to live by as well, I 916 00:46:53,239 --> 00:46:55,520 Speaker 2: just know that that didn't come easy for that person. 917 00:46:56,440 --> 00:46:58,960 Speaker 2: There's just you know, even overnight success doesn't exist, you. 918 00:46:58,920 --> 00:47:01,239 Speaker 1: Know, it doesn't exist, does not not a thing, not 919 00:47:01,280 --> 00:47:01,600 Speaker 1: a thing. 920 00:47:02,040 --> 00:47:05,680 Speaker 2: For me, I find Australia culture quite different in that way. 921 00:47:05,960 --> 00:47:08,200 Speaker 2: You know, if you're really successful, it's it's an interesting 922 00:47:08,239 --> 00:47:10,439 Speaker 2: thing that shows up for people that you know, where 923 00:47:10,440 --> 00:47:12,920 Speaker 2: as opposed to say someone like America or that. 924 00:47:13,000 --> 00:47:14,000 Speaker 1: We have the tall poppies. 925 00:47:14,200 --> 00:47:17,200 Speaker 2: Yeah we really do, We really do. Yeah, because you're 926 00:47:17,480 --> 00:47:23,080 Speaker 2: from from born Australian and just the difference in attitude 927 00:47:23,200 --> 00:47:26,719 Speaker 2: is yeah, you know, it's wild. It is wild when 928 00:47:26,719 --> 00:47:29,920 Speaker 2: you really value and understand that, like how incredible that 929 00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:32,400 Speaker 2: someone can create that for themselves when like odds are 930 00:47:32,440 --> 00:47:35,320 Speaker 2: against them. Yeah, like be inspired by it. 931 00:47:35,520 --> 00:47:37,759 Speaker 1: Yes, But also that's what I kind of talk to 932 00:47:37,800 --> 00:47:39,719 Speaker 1: people about when they do, you know, say like I'm 933 00:47:39,719 --> 00:47:43,200 Speaker 1: going through it's really bad hardship or you know, express 934 00:47:43,320 --> 00:47:45,840 Speaker 1: how you know, hurt their feelings. Something I say is, 935 00:47:46,760 --> 00:47:50,840 Speaker 1: you know every inspiring person that is, you know the 936 00:47:50,880 --> 00:47:54,600 Speaker 1: Tony Robbins that all those people their background, like you 937 00:47:54,680 --> 00:47:56,960 Speaker 1: hear about it and you're like, oh my god, that's 938 00:47:57,200 --> 00:48:00,799 Speaker 1: it's so much. And so I try and instilling them 939 00:48:00,840 --> 00:48:03,080 Speaker 1: that it's like, yes, this is hard at the moment, 940 00:48:03,120 --> 00:48:06,000 Speaker 1: but your mess is your message, and this is something 941 00:48:06,080 --> 00:48:08,640 Speaker 1: that you'll use and you will carry if you choose to. 942 00:48:09,360 --> 00:48:12,200 Speaker 1: So it's like, yes, we can go through these really 943 00:48:12,320 --> 00:48:16,040 Speaker 1: dark and hard times, but it is molding us into 944 00:48:16,600 --> 00:48:20,800 Speaker 1: the motion you know, credible best us, higher self us, 945 00:48:21,480 --> 00:48:25,200 Speaker 1: and how important because other ways we cannot become that 946 00:48:25,280 --> 00:48:29,080 Speaker 1: person without those experiences. Like if just everything went right, 947 00:48:29,200 --> 00:48:34,680 Speaker 1: you had no hardships or anything like that, you you 948 00:48:34,680 --> 00:48:37,000 Speaker 1: wouldn't know how to relate to people, You wouldn't know 949 00:48:37,040 --> 00:48:39,440 Speaker 1: how to express yourself, you wouldn't know how to feel 950 00:48:40,520 --> 00:48:42,640 Speaker 1: it just it wouldn't Really That's why you see a 951 00:48:42,680 --> 00:48:46,160 Speaker 1: lot of you know, maybe like celebrity children who get 952 00:48:46,239 --> 00:48:49,319 Speaker 1: born into a certain sort of privilege who end up 953 00:48:49,360 --> 00:48:52,600 Speaker 1: like doing drugs and going off the rails because they 954 00:48:52,760 --> 00:48:55,239 Speaker 1: they're like, I want to feel something. They've never had 955 00:48:55,239 --> 00:48:57,640 Speaker 1: to struggle. They create their own struggle. 956 00:48:57,800 --> 00:49:00,000 Speaker 2: Yeah. I couldn't think of anything worse than being given 957 00:49:00,040 --> 00:49:03,640 Speaker 2: and absolutely everything and anything. That's why when people become famous, 958 00:49:03,640 --> 00:49:06,920 Speaker 2: for example, it's so challenging for them because it's like 959 00:49:07,080 --> 00:49:10,560 Speaker 2: they have access to anything and everything, and then what's 960 00:49:10,640 --> 00:49:14,440 Speaker 2: life about? Then? You know, that's why even celebrity culture 961 00:49:14,560 --> 00:49:16,160 Speaker 2: is not as easy as people. 962 00:49:15,880 --> 00:49:17,320 Speaker 1: Think it is not I would hate. 963 00:49:17,960 --> 00:49:20,759 Speaker 2: It's really weird how many people want to be absolutely 964 00:49:20,880 --> 00:49:21,840 Speaker 2: not but you're. 965 00:49:21,680 --> 00:49:23,960 Speaker 1: Not being able to go to the grocery store or 966 00:49:24,080 --> 00:49:26,640 Speaker 1: just they have really simple privacies. 967 00:49:27,200 --> 00:49:30,080 Speaker 2: I like that I've had a life that's shaped me 968 00:49:30,120 --> 00:49:32,759 Speaker 2: in that way. I think it's made me understand people more, 969 00:49:32,800 --> 00:49:35,520 Speaker 2: like you said, but not just from like the words 970 00:49:35,520 --> 00:49:38,000 Speaker 2: of it, but truly, like you can look at someone 971 00:49:38,000 --> 00:49:41,719 Speaker 2: and know when they've been through like real pain. And 972 00:49:41,719 --> 00:49:43,799 Speaker 2: that's why a lot of the time, like traditional you know, 973 00:49:43,840 --> 00:49:46,560 Speaker 2: therapy sessions may not work because the person's listening to you, 974 00:49:46,680 --> 00:49:48,960 Speaker 2: but you're like, you don't know what I'm talking about. 975 00:49:49,000 --> 00:49:51,120 Speaker 2: You've read this in a book, but you haven't experienced it. 976 00:49:51,760 --> 00:49:55,200 Speaker 2: So when someone has experienced it, there's a knowing between 977 00:49:55,239 --> 00:49:57,719 Speaker 2: the two and two people, there's an intelligence that goes, 978 00:49:58,080 --> 00:50:02,200 Speaker 2: this person has been to that place and pick themselves 979 00:50:02,239 --> 00:50:04,719 Speaker 2: back up again. You know, I probably wouldn't be in 980 00:50:04,719 --> 00:50:07,640 Speaker 2: this field of work and do well at it necessarily 981 00:50:07,760 --> 00:50:12,120 Speaker 2: if I hadn't had that experience. I couldn't imagine having 982 00:50:12,160 --> 00:50:15,160 Speaker 2: a perfect life and being able to work in this field. Yeah. 983 00:50:15,400 --> 00:50:17,799 Speaker 1: Even kind of what we spoke about off air, you 984 00:50:17,840 --> 00:50:21,040 Speaker 1: can see that that has all your hardships and everything 985 00:50:21,040 --> 00:50:24,480 Speaker 1: it has gone through has built this current. 986 00:50:24,360 --> 00:50:28,239 Speaker 2: Usually birthed it. You know, the hardest time of my 987 00:50:28,280 --> 00:50:31,960 Speaker 2: life burst it. I had to do something. It was 988 00:50:32,000 --> 00:50:33,920 Speaker 2: like all this stuff had happened and I had to 989 00:50:33,960 --> 00:50:36,280 Speaker 2: do something with it, and if I didn't do something 990 00:50:36,280 --> 00:50:40,160 Speaker 2: with it, it was just gonna overtew me. Yeah, Like I 991 00:50:40,200 --> 00:50:42,399 Speaker 2: was just so I had to do something and something 992 00:50:42,440 --> 00:50:46,520 Speaker 2: bigger than myself, you know, to help, because if it 993 00:50:46,560 --> 00:50:48,560 Speaker 2: was just about me, then that wouldn't be enough either. 994 00:50:49,120 --> 00:50:52,080 Speaker 2: And you've done that as well. People say like, oh, 995 00:50:52,160 --> 00:50:53,719 Speaker 2: this is your modality and things like that. I don't 996 00:50:53,760 --> 00:50:56,239 Speaker 2: necessarily believe that. I believe that I've that's something you 997 00:50:56,400 --> 00:50:58,560 Speaker 2: fostered out. Yeah, yeah, yeah, And a lot of what 998 00:50:58,600 --> 00:51:01,120 Speaker 2: I talk about is not new, just a different way 999 00:51:01,160 --> 00:51:02,239 Speaker 2: of expressing it. 1000 00:51:02,520 --> 00:51:04,520 Speaker 1: You know, I do a lot of mindset work with 1001 00:51:04,640 --> 00:51:09,080 Speaker 1: my community, and you know, talk about manifestation and spiritual principles, 1002 00:51:09,160 --> 00:51:11,160 Speaker 1: and you know, people ask, oh, you know, should I 1003 00:51:11,160 --> 00:51:13,279 Speaker 1: do your course? Should I join you know, the community, 1004 00:51:13,760 --> 00:51:15,720 Speaker 1: And I kind of explained to them, I'm like, well, 1005 00:51:16,000 --> 00:51:19,560 Speaker 1: when you listen to me, does it activate you? Do 1006 00:51:19,600 --> 00:51:22,680 Speaker 1: you feel something? Because I'm going to be for certain 1007 00:51:22,719 --> 00:51:25,520 Speaker 1: people and I'll say something to someone and it will 1008 00:51:25,560 --> 00:51:28,320 Speaker 1: be AHA moment and it will be like life change. 1009 00:51:28,560 --> 00:51:31,799 Speaker 1: But there will be other people that there's nothing. And 1010 00:51:31,840 --> 00:51:34,640 Speaker 1: so I love that you said that because it's like 1011 00:51:34,800 --> 00:51:36,920 Speaker 1: there will be certain people with you that it's like 1012 00:51:37,400 --> 00:51:38,080 Speaker 1: life changing. 1013 00:51:38,360 --> 00:51:38,839 Speaker 2: This is it. 1014 00:51:39,120 --> 00:51:41,719 Speaker 1: This is the thing in saying that though you have 1015 00:51:41,840 --> 00:51:45,760 Speaker 1: literally created a movement, So do not doubt only movement. 1016 00:51:46,000 --> 00:51:50,080 Speaker 1: You know, yes, tools too, Yes, don't downplay your incrediblen. 1017 00:51:50,719 --> 00:51:53,080 Speaker 1: What do you feel like is next for spinal energetics? 1018 00:51:53,280 --> 00:51:54,600 Speaker 2: You know what? I actually don't know. I've never been 1019 00:51:54,600 --> 00:51:57,080 Speaker 2: a planner. Scared this is scary? 1020 00:51:57,200 --> 00:52:00,600 Speaker 1: No, yeah, absolutely, I never planned this first place. 1021 00:52:01,480 --> 00:52:04,160 Speaker 2: So I kind of just go with what I feel. 1022 00:52:05,520 --> 00:52:06,840 Speaker 2: You know, if you had told me that i'd be 1023 00:52:06,840 --> 00:52:08,600 Speaker 2: out of practice, you know. Two years ago, i'd be 1024 00:52:08,600 --> 00:52:10,560 Speaker 2: like no, no, no, no, because I love working with clients. 1025 00:52:10,680 --> 00:52:14,000 Speaker 2: But now I'm really passionate about teaching. Currently, We've got 1026 00:52:14,000 --> 00:52:16,799 Speaker 2: six hundred or so practitioners around the world, and I've 1027 00:52:16,800 --> 00:52:19,040 Speaker 2: taught every single one of them. I'm really proud of 1028 00:52:19,040 --> 00:52:21,799 Speaker 2: the integrity of the medality and I want to expand it, 1029 00:52:21,840 --> 00:52:24,160 Speaker 2: but not at the cost of the reverence of the work. 1030 00:52:24,280 --> 00:52:26,920 Speaker 2: So I'm kind of in that period now, like how 1031 00:52:26,960 --> 00:52:30,000 Speaker 2: do I figure out it? But not losing to the 1032 00:52:30,120 --> 00:52:33,360 Speaker 2: heart of it too. So that's kind of where my 1033 00:52:33,480 --> 00:52:35,759 Speaker 2: mind is at the moment. But I love my life 1034 00:52:35,800 --> 00:52:38,239 Speaker 2: is pretty much coming and doing things like this now, 1035 00:52:38,280 --> 00:52:41,520 Speaker 2: and just I want to get as many people hearing 1036 00:52:41,560 --> 00:52:45,080 Speaker 2: about it so that they aren't missing out on something 1037 00:52:45,080 --> 00:52:47,800 Speaker 2: that could really assist them because it changed my life. 1038 00:52:47,960 --> 00:52:49,759 Speaker 2: I know it's anecdotal, but I've seen it change so 1039 00:52:49,800 --> 00:52:53,160 Speaker 2: many people's lives. And you know, if even one person 1040 00:52:53,239 --> 00:52:56,600 Speaker 2: hears this and goes and tries it and has happiness 1041 00:52:56,640 --> 00:52:58,839 Speaker 2: and joy and hope in their life again, then that's 1042 00:52:58,920 --> 00:53:01,120 Speaker 2: just I've done my job. You've done it, Yeah done, 1043 00:53:01,280 --> 00:53:02,240 Speaker 2: Yeah done? 1044 00:53:02,520 --> 00:53:06,319 Speaker 1: So how can someone go and get around the work experience. 1045 00:53:06,560 --> 00:53:09,640 Speaker 2: It give us all the plugs well, even online. So 1046 00:53:09,640 --> 00:53:11,120 Speaker 2: if you hadn't told me it worked online, would not 1047 00:53:11,160 --> 00:53:13,319 Speaker 2: have believed you. But I started doing work online in 1048 00:53:13,440 --> 00:53:15,840 Speaker 2: COVID and it worked, and I was like, this is crazy. 1049 00:53:15,920 --> 00:53:19,160 Speaker 2: And again we'll get into this. Tony robbins that she 1050 00:53:19,200 --> 00:53:22,000 Speaker 2: has a result experiment on it. He's just released papers 1051 00:53:22,000 --> 00:53:26,160 Speaker 2: on his online upw and the physiological changes you get 1052 00:53:26,320 --> 00:53:28,440 Speaker 2: from mirror neurons and things like that. So there's actual 1053 00:53:28,440 --> 00:53:30,879 Speaker 2: science that show that online is just as powerful as 1054 00:53:31,040 --> 00:53:32,400 Speaker 2: in person. There's no difference. 1055 00:53:32,480 --> 00:53:34,719 Speaker 1: That makes complete sense to me though, because if you 1056 00:53:34,760 --> 00:53:38,280 Speaker 1: think about social media and the movement of social media, 1057 00:53:38,320 --> 00:53:40,560 Speaker 1: of TikTok of you know what I mean, Like, there 1058 00:53:40,840 --> 00:53:43,160 Speaker 1: has to be somethin in it, otherwise it would not 1059 00:53:43,239 --> 00:53:43,800 Speaker 1: make sense. 1060 00:53:43,960 --> 00:53:46,920 Speaker 2: I think even with spunk, people can feel it the video. 1061 00:53:47,400 --> 00:53:49,120 Speaker 2: That's why people either love it or hate it, because 1062 00:53:49,160 --> 00:53:50,800 Speaker 2: this is this like it provokes. 1063 00:53:50,880 --> 00:53:52,400 Speaker 1: I loved it, touch me on. 1064 00:53:53,760 --> 00:53:56,960 Speaker 2: People provoked something so I can't remember what I was saying, 1065 00:53:56,960 --> 00:53:58,920 Speaker 2: but there's something around that. So online you can get 1066 00:53:59,360 --> 00:54:01,960 Speaker 2: a spinaline, so people do online sessions in person. We've 1067 00:54:01,960 --> 00:54:04,080 Speaker 2: got a beautiful studio in Richmond, which is our headquarters 1068 00:54:05,160 --> 00:54:07,840 Speaker 2: where the practitioners work closer with me, so they're probably 1069 00:54:07,840 --> 00:54:11,640 Speaker 2: the most experience in terms of time with me. Otherwise, 1070 00:54:11,640 --> 00:54:15,040 Speaker 2: we've got practitioners all over the world. We've got a 1071 00:54:15,080 --> 00:54:17,080 Speaker 2: little map where you can type in where you're from 1072 00:54:17,160 --> 00:54:19,320 Speaker 2: and see who your closest person is if you prefer 1073 00:54:19,400 --> 00:54:19,880 Speaker 2: in person. 1074 00:54:20,520 --> 00:54:21,719 Speaker 1: Is anyone on the Gold Coast? 1075 00:54:22,160 --> 00:54:24,080 Speaker 2: There is, there is people on the Gold Coast. 1076 00:54:24,120 --> 00:54:24,560 Speaker 1: Amazing. 1077 00:54:24,600 --> 00:54:27,239 Speaker 2: I'm not allowed to say who I look favorite like, 1078 00:54:27,280 --> 00:54:30,560 Speaker 2: I'm absolutely there's I think three or four on the 1079 00:54:30,560 --> 00:54:31,359 Speaker 2: Goldie Cool. 1080 00:54:31,520 --> 00:54:35,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, amazing. Well, we'll make sure we link everything in 1081 00:54:35,719 --> 00:54:38,960 Speaker 1: the show notes. But thank you so much for coming 1082 00:54:38,960 --> 00:54:40,800 Speaker 1: on the show. Thank you so much for my private 1083 00:54:40,840 --> 00:54:43,680 Speaker 1: such I feel so special, guys. I know it was 1084 00:54:43,760 --> 00:54:47,440 Speaker 1: honestly incredible, and like you said, I've dipped my toe 1085 00:54:47,520 --> 00:54:50,359 Speaker 1: into this work, so I one hundred percent believe in it. 1086 00:54:50,880 --> 00:54:54,719 Speaker 1: And like you said, for me, it honestly saved my 1087 00:54:54,880 --> 00:54:58,080 Speaker 1: health to work with my subconscious to put my throat 1088 00:54:58,160 --> 00:55:01,719 Speaker 1: into remissions. So yeah, thank you so much for explaining 1089 00:55:01,800 --> 00:55:04,680 Speaker 1: for your time, for being here with us. We really 1090 00:55:04,680 --> 00:55:05,279 Speaker 1: appreciate it. 1091 00:55:05,280 --> 00:55:07,080 Speaker 2: Thank you for sharing your story of that as well. 1092 00:55:07,320 --> 00:55:09,600 Speaker 2: I think it's always people when they hear someone like 1093 00:55:09,640 --> 00:55:12,359 Speaker 2: yourself having experienced something like that and then working with 1094 00:55:12,800 --> 00:55:15,560 Speaker 2: a modality like this and it changing you. I think 1095 00:55:15,760 --> 00:55:18,799 Speaker 2: we'll definitely get some people who maybe wouldn't necessarily look 1096 00:55:18,840 --> 00:55:20,400 Speaker 2: into something like this to look into it. 1097 00:55:20,440 --> 00:55:23,800 Speaker 1: So thank you for helping me spread the word so welcome. 1098 00:55:24,400 --> 00:55:30,000 Speaker 1: You think I'm closed off? Do you think I repress 1099 00:55:30,040 --> 00:55:43,719 Speaker 1: sometimes conjectually? Thank you so much, Sarah,