WEBVTT - Britt & Ben Got MARRIED!! 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:12.800 This episode was recorded on Cameragle Land. Hi guys, and 0:00:12.880 --> 0:00:14.640 welcome back to another episode of Life on Cut. 0:00:14.640 --> 0:00:18.720 I'm Laura and I'm missus Segress. Somebody girl married. 0:00:20.920 --> 0:00:23.239 Firstly, let's address the fact that this has dropped on 0:00:23.239 --> 0:00:25.599 a Tuesday, because we simply could not wait to blow 0:00:25.600 --> 0:00:29.240 our load and record this and get this out. 0:00:28.800 --> 0:00:30.880 Way to start the episode. We couldn't wait. 0:00:31.280 --> 0:00:33.080 It's too much, so romantic, but. 0:00:33.000 --> 0:00:35.280 We're so happy you and it was the most amazing 0:00:35.280 --> 0:00:38.879 wedding ever. And this, for anybody who is curious, is 0:00:38.920 --> 0:00:41.600 purely just an ode to Brittany and Ben. This is 0:00:41.640 --> 0:00:44.200 a wedding special and you are going to get all 0:00:44.200 --> 0:00:44.920 the details. 0:00:45.000 --> 0:00:47.960 Yeah, I am officially and never thought I would say 0:00:47.960 --> 0:00:51.760 this officially married. Actually it's not official, but I had 0:00:51.760 --> 0:00:53.200 a actually not married. 0:00:54.040 --> 0:00:58.240 We Okay, first things first, obviously, like there's like logistics 0:00:58.240 --> 0:01:01.440 around getting married and like the processes that need to 0:01:01.480 --> 0:01:04.240 be followed in order for it to be legally were. 0:01:04.760 --> 0:01:06.880 How are we starting the wedding episode with so not 0:01:06.959 --> 0:01:11.759 actually married spoiler? You brought it up, Yeah, so it's well, yeah, 0:01:11.840 --> 0:01:14.720 let's just start with that. You do have a choice 0:01:15.120 --> 0:01:18.360 if you want to, like, you can get married internationally, 0:01:18.400 --> 0:01:20.720 like you can, but you jump through way more hoops. 0:01:20.720 --> 0:01:23.440 There's a lot more legislation. For Ben and myself, it 0:01:23.520 --> 0:01:26.360 was way more tricky because we're already from two different 0:01:26.360 --> 0:01:29.479 countries getting married in a third country. It was too much, 0:01:29.560 --> 0:01:32.600 So we just have to officially legally sign the documents here. 0:01:33.120 --> 0:01:37.280 But by all other accounts, it was exactly like the 0:01:37.360 --> 0:01:39.920 proceedings were a wedding. Anyone that was there that I 0:01:39.959 --> 0:01:42.839 didn't tell because everyone thought it was legal, no one knows. 0:01:42.920 --> 0:01:45.520 But you guys all in on the secret. We're not 0:01:45.560 --> 0:01:46.280 actually married. 0:01:48.400 --> 0:01:50.280 You can't say that you are married. It was an 0:01:50.320 --> 0:01:53.560 incredible wedding. And also, I mean, like there's a lot 0:01:53.600 --> 0:01:55.880 happening in this episode. Ben's joining us later, we're answering 0:01:55.920 --> 0:01:59.639 he to your questions. But also I just wanted to say, 0:01:59.840 --> 0:02:02.920 it's really quite special, how full circle this feels to 0:02:02.960 --> 0:02:06.120 have this conversation, because when we started this podcast six 0:02:06.240 --> 0:02:08.079 years ago, and for any of our OG lifeers who 0:02:08.120 --> 0:02:10.800 have been along the very turbulent ride at different times, 0:02:11.280 --> 0:02:15.000 like this started with you talking about like the absolute 0:02:15.080 --> 0:02:18.440 treachery of dating and and what you had been through 0:02:18.440 --> 0:02:20.360 in your dating life, and kind of like I guess 0:02:20.360 --> 0:02:22.040 like the roles that we played on this podcast for 0:02:22.080 --> 0:02:24.320 a really long time was like I had just had 0:02:24.400 --> 0:02:26.680 a baby and you were in a different phase of 0:02:26.720 --> 0:02:29.360 life with dating and navigating what that looked like, and 0:02:29.400 --> 0:02:33.079 now you're missus Secrets, and I like, am so unbelievably 0:02:33.080 --> 0:02:36.800 happy for you. I also genuinely can't believe it happened. 0:02:37.360 --> 0:02:40.119 She she's crying. Yeah, really it's Over the last couple 0:02:40.160 --> 0:02:42.480 of days. It's been really interesting to me the different 0:02:42.639 --> 0:02:44.880 moments I've become really emotional. They haven't been the ones 0:02:44.919 --> 0:02:47.160 that I expected. But just coming to work this morning, 0:02:47.639 --> 0:02:50.600 I had that realization where I was like, oh my god, 0:02:50.639 --> 0:02:52.840 we're going to work today. Firstly, it's a public holiday 0:02:53.840 --> 0:02:57.080 because none of us knew that's why she's crying, And 0:02:57.160 --> 0:02:59.360 I just thought, I can't believe that we're actually about 0:02:59.360 --> 0:03:01.320 to go. We're about to go and record the episode 0:03:01.320 --> 0:03:04.800 where Britt talks about getting married to the love of 0:03:04.840 --> 0:03:07.320 her life. Like, you know, obviously we've all been friends 0:03:07.360 --> 0:03:09.960 for so long, and we've been there through some really 0:03:10.480 --> 0:03:15.000 not great romantic experiences, and it just felt so beautiful 0:03:15.080 --> 0:03:17.519 to be like, Wow, we're going to talk about kind 0:03:17.520 --> 0:03:21.320 of the final chapter of that dating story. I definitely 0:03:21.400 --> 0:03:24.560 had those moments. I don't know, I'm assuming it's normal, 0:03:24.600 --> 0:03:26.679 but so many times in the week before I would 0:03:26.720 --> 0:03:29.720 look over at Ben and I'd be like, we're getting married. 0:03:29.919 --> 0:03:32.160 I was like, You're gonna be my husband? Like, how 0:03:32.200 --> 0:03:33.000 has this happened? 0:03:33.560 --> 0:03:36.160 Do you feel any different now? I know people always 0:03:36.200 --> 0:03:38.800 ask like, do you feel any different after the wedding? 0:03:38.960 --> 0:03:40.760 You know, in comparison to before the wedding, you know, 0:03:40.840 --> 0:03:43.160 being now that you're married versus not being married. 0:03:43.280 --> 0:03:47.320 I do. I feel like nothing has changed, obviously because 0:03:47.320 --> 0:03:51.360 it's again we didn't even reallydo it. I't focus on that, 0:03:51.440 --> 0:03:55.280 But no, nothing has changed. But I did feel different. 0:03:55.400 --> 0:03:58.720 I felt like we had cemented the next chapter and 0:03:58.840 --> 0:04:01.280 we really were enty in a next chapter of life. 0:04:01.320 --> 0:04:03.400 Do you feel relief that you don't have to peacock anymore? 0:04:03.480 --> 0:04:05.840 Like you don't have to It's so funny. That's another 0:04:05.880 --> 0:04:08.760 story too, Like one day after the wedding, I accidentally 0:04:08.760 --> 0:04:13.440 farted in the bed and Ben and Ben was like, wow, 0:04:13.480 --> 0:04:16.760 you weren't joking about letting yourself go watching cop It's all. 0:04:16.640 --> 0:04:17.920 Downhill from me, but it was. 0:04:18.240 --> 0:04:20.440 It was really nice. Like I had this moment where 0:04:20.440 --> 0:04:22.520 I thought how lucky are we to have done this 0:04:22.560 --> 0:04:25.719 podcast for just over six years now six and a half. Yeah, 0:04:25.800 --> 0:04:26.640 just over six years. 0:04:26.839 --> 0:04:27.960 This is like in July. 0:04:28.360 --> 0:04:31.840 Yeah, it's like a diary. We have a verbal diary 0:04:31.880 --> 0:04:34.640 of everything that happens in our life because we're oversharers, 0:04:34.680 --> 0:04:36.800 all of us. But it means you can go back 0:04:36.839 --> 0:04:39.440 and reflect on those things. And when I think about 0:04:39.560 --> 0:04:42.680 that first conversation on when I hooked up with Ben, 0:04:42.839 --> 0:04:44.600 the conversation that we had. 0:04:44.800 --> 0:04:47.719 I would just like to say none of it was positive. 0:04:47.720 --> 0:04:48.320 From my side. 0:04:48.440 --> 0:04:51.479 I was like, this is a disaster waiting to happen. Yeah, 0:04:51.560 --> 0:04:53.640 this feels like a terrible idea. And I remember when 0:04:53.680 --> 0:04:56.240 you came back from the first time you went over 0:04:56.320 --> 0:04:59.559 to see Europe and you like to see Ben only love, 0:05:00.320 --> 0:05:04.160 And I honestly was like, this sounds like the worst 0:05:04.160 --> 0:05:05.279 thing I have ever heard. 0:05:05.320 --> 0:05:07.320 And I'm very, very glad that I was wrong. 0:05:07.640 --> 0:05:10.800 But the context in that also, I think is really important, 0:05:10.800 --> 0:05:12.919 because you know, I remember so many life is like, 0:05:12.960 --> 0:05:15.320 why can't you just be happy for Britain. I was like, dude, 0:05:15.560 --> 0:05:18.440 I have just nursed her through the worst breakup with 0:05:18.480 --> 0:05:22.280 someone who lived overseas where every day you would come 0:05:22.320 --> 0:05:24.680 in and be like I am unlovable and I'm never 0:05:24.720 --> 0:05:27.719 going to find someone, And all I could see was 0:05:27.800 --> 0:05:30.480 the fucking red flags of like, this is going to 0:05:30.600 --> 0:05:32.840 end badly and you're going to be hurt again. Yeah, 0:05:32.880 --> 0:05:35.080 And you know, I don't know how to describe it, because, like, 0:05:35.120 --> 0:05:37.240 I definitely don't feel bad. I feel like any friend 0:05:37.240 --> 0:05:39.560 who was in that position would be like, hey, I 0:05:39.600 --> 0:05:42.720 want to protect you from doing something that for ninety 0:05:42.800 --> 0:05:45.200 nine point nine percent of people does not work out 0:05:45.240 --> 0:05:48.560 the way it did, And your relationship is absolutely the exception. 0:05:49.040 --> 0:05:49.919 It is not the rule. 0:05:50.040 --> 0:05:53.120 But I think what people don't realize is it's funny 0:05:53.320 --> 0:05:56.240 the reason that you said those things. There was a reason. 0:05:56.560 --> 0:05:58.520 At the end of the day, I came in and 0:05:58.560 --> 0:05:59.880 told you I was head over heels with a guy 0:05:59.920 --> 0:06:03.360 I banged that lived overseas. Like any normal friend is 0:06:03.440 --> 0:06:05.320 going to react like that. It's not like you weren't 0:06:05.320 --> 0:06:09.440 supportive totally. I was like, Dude, this guy he's so hot, 0:06:09.520 --> 0:06:11.640 he's an a flute, he lives overseas. I'm never going 0:06:11.680 --> 0:06:14.040 to see him. I love him. No, if you're not 0:06:14.040 --> 0:06:17.480 going to be When we met Ben the first weekend 0:06:17.520 --> 0:06:20.120 you'd hooked up with him. It was the three of 0:06:20.240 --> 0:06:23.280 us plus Matt at your house because we were recording 0:06:23.400 --> 0:06:24.719 Laura's wedding episode. 0:06:25.040 --> 0:06:27.720 Yeah, oh my gosh. That's a little Peter behind a curtain, 0:06:27.800 --> 0:06:28.160 isn't it. 0:06:28.240 --> 0:06:29.839 So you and Matt went away for one week for 0:06:30.080 --> 0:06:32.160 like your honeymoon, and then it was as soon as 0:06:32.160 --> 0:06:34.640 you guys got back into the country. Britt had had 0:06:34.680 --> 0:06:35.719 a hook went away. 0:06:35.600 --> 0:06:36.080 For four days. 0:06:36.120 --> 0:06:38.880 We just stayed in Aladulla. Than you sound fancy. Yeah, 0:06:38.920 --> 0:06:39.920 we don't get a honeymoon. 0:06:40.000 --> 0:06:40.240 Gee. 0:06:40.279 --> 0:06:42.640 Sorry, No, that was a nine months later with my 0:06:42.720 --> 0:06:43.400 sister for her. 0:06:44.040 --> 0:06:46.480 My timeline is off, but this part I do remember. 0:06:46.560 --> 0:06:49.240 It was the first episode that we recorded, and that's 0:06:49.279 --> 0:06:51.400 why Matt was there, because it was all about your 0:06:51.440 --> 0:06:54.480 wedding and everything that happened at your wedding. And Britt 0:06:54.760 --> 0:06:58.240 was like, guys, I know you could leave, but I 0:06:58.320 --> 0:06:59.719 kind of want you to stay just for an extra 0:06:59.800 --> 0:07:01.640 five to ten minutes because there's this really hot guy 0:07:01.680 --> 0:07:03.719 that I've been hooking up with over the weekend and 0:07:03.800 --> 0:07:06.320 he's gonna be here and I just kind of want 0:07:06.400 --> 0:07:07.839 him to I want you to meet him just so 0:07:07.880 --> 0:07:09.680 you can see how hot he is. No, I just 0:07:09.720 --> 0:07:12.040 wanted bragging rights too, because it was funny, but it 0:07:12.080 --> 0:07:14.520 was It was so funny because I said to Ben, hey, 0:07:14.600 --> 0:07:16.440 you can come. I've just finished working. Come over. They'll 0:07:16.480 --> 0:07:18.360 be gone, like they're heading now. But then I went 0:07:18.400 --> 0:07:20.320 to you guys, I was like, don't go purposely stay 0:07:20.360 --> 0:07:21.960 and overlap. And then Ben walked in and I was like, 0:07:22.000 --> 0:07:25.080 I'm so sorry they're still here. I was like, I 0:07:25.120 --> 0:07:26.640 was like, oh my god, and you guys work, sorry, 0:07:26.640 --> 0:07:29.240 just tidying up, finishing up, just faked it. So Ben 0:07:29.360 --> 0:07:32.520 was so awkward. But I can see why you would 0:07:32.560 --> 0:07:34.040 say that, Laura, Like, I don't think you need to 0:07:34.080 --> 0:07:36.280 feel bad, and if anyone has made you feel bad, sorry, 0:07:36.320 --> 0:07:39.280 But like that's also a pretty standardized thing. Like if 0:07:39.320 --> 0:07:41.200 any if Keisha had have come to us one day 0:07:41.200 --> 0:07:42.520 and said she fell in love with the guy that 0:07:42.560 --> 0:07:44.520 she had hooked up with two days in a row 0:07:44.560 --> 0:07:46.880 and lived overseas, we would have also wrapped a red 0:07:46.920 --> 0:07:48.880 flag around her face. Try to stuff agator. 0:07:49.080 --> 0:07:51.280 I am just I mean, genuinely, I know we've spoken 0:07:51.280 --> 0:07:53.160 about it last five days on stop, but like, I'm 0:07:53.200 --> 0:07:56.040 so so unbelievably happy for you guys, Like it was 0:07:56.040 --> 0:07:59.640 an incredible wedding it was so beautiful from a timeline 0:07:59.760 --> 0:08:04.000 per perspective for everyone listening. Britt got married on the Wednesday, 0:08:04.280 --> 0:08:08.160 so Tuesday there was like a get together party that happened. 0:08:08.160 --> 0:08:11.640 First Wednesday was the wedding and then Thursday was the recovery. 0:08:11.680 --> 0:08:13.480 And so we've come in as soon as we've gotten 0:08:13.520 --> 0:08:16.560 back from Bali. We are in recording on Monday. And 0:08:16.600 --> 0:08:18.680 the reason why we drop this on Tuesday, which is 0:08:19.000 --> 0:08:21.480 very out of our normal scheduling. To be excited, is 0:08:21.520 --> 0:08:22.640 because we wanted to be able to get it to 0:08:22.680 --> 0:08:23.640 you as quickly as possible. 0:08:23.760 --> 0:08:26.000 Yeah, and I think we kick start with a few 0:08:26.000 --> 0:08:30.760 people saying, you know that I didn't maybe make it 0:08:30.760 --> 0:08:32.920 really public when the wedding was or where it was, 0:08:32.960 --> 0:08:34.600 and maybe I was alluding to the fact that I 0:08:34.640 --> 0:08:37.000 was still in Italy when we're in Bali. And that 0:08:37.080 --> 0:08:39.000 was all very intentional, and I know a lot of 0:08:39.000 --> 0:08:42.520 people understand why, you know, we share a lot. I 0:08:42.600 --> 0:08:44.760 did want to try to keep the wedding private. There 0:08:44.760 --> 0:08:46.920 were some media outlets that we're trying to find out 0:08:47.000 --> 0:08:49.280 when and where and what and why, and I just 0:08:49.320 --> 0:08:51.679 wanted to do my best to protect that. And that 0:08:51.760 --> 0:08:53.839 wasn't intentional. To you guys, and I know most of 0:08:53.880 --> 0:08:56.559 you understand, but I don't want anyone to feel like 0:08:56.600 --> 0:08:58.440 I was trying to lie or leave them down a 0:08:58.440 --> 0:09:00.720 garden path. There was just to protect one special day 0:09:00.920 --> 0:09:03.600 and we successfully did that. It was beautiful. No one 0:09:03.679 --> 0:09:06.080 was there to interrupt it or ruin it. What would 0:09:06.080 --> 0:09:09.440 have happened if they were Brittany, Well, we had people 0:09:09.440 --> 0:09:12.240 on the roof with laser beams. Lucky they weren't rifles. 0:09:12.240 --> 0:09:14.560 That's a story we'll get into later. But yeah, so 0:09:14.640 --> 0:09:16.400 I just wanted to start by saying that. So I'm 0:09:16.400 --> 0:09:18.560 sorry if anyone did feel misled, because I know we 0:09:18.640 --> 0:09:20.120 are a really big family. 0:09:19.800 --> 0:09:22.280 Here, but to give people contacts on that, Like the 0:09:22.320 --> 0:09:26.200 perps traveled to Italy for Anna Heinrich's wedding, they came 0:09:26.240 --> 0:09:27.360 down to Alidalla for mine. 0:09:27.400 --> 0:09:28.840 I know that's a really big voyage for them. 0:09:29.480 --> 0:09:34.120 But you and they published Timmy Hembrow's whole They had 0:09:34.160 --> 0:09:37.560 like a drone at Timmy Hembrows. Quite recently they published 0:09:37.600 --> 0:09:41.360 the whole thing. Yeah, at Laura's wedding, Laura's vowels were 0:09:41.400 --> 0:09:43.679 online published whilst we were. 0:09:43.559 --> 0:09:46.240 At the reception, Like yeah, and you know the thing 0:09:46.280 --> 0:09:48.480 that was the most upsetting, Like, obviously we got over it. 0:09:48.520 --> 0:09:49.880 I wasn't gonna let it ruin my wedding. 0:09:49.880 --> 0:09:52.199 But the most upsetting thing was that there were media 0:09:52.240 --> 0:09:54.360 outlets that tried to frame that we were in on 0:09:54.400 --> 0:09:57.200 the perps being there, and I will swear on everything 0:09:57.240 --> 0:09:59.720 in my life that we had no idea and the 0:09:59.760 --> 0:10:02.040 only reason why they were able to record the vows 0:10:02.080 --> 0:10:04.320 just for anyone who maybe was well, how did they 0:10:04.360 --> 0:10:07.000 get the audio because we were speaking on a microphone 0:10:07.400 --> 0:10:10.800 and it was projected across everyone who was there, and 0:10:10.800 --> 0:10:13.920 they were hiding in a bush recording everything and filming everything, 0:10:14.040 --> 0:10:18.160 and so like it felt so invasive, and so we 0:10:18.240 --> 0:10:20.480 really wanted to make sure that that wasn't something that 0:10:20.520 --> 0:10:22.719 you experienced, brit And because we've kind of like we've 0:10:22.960 --> 0:10:25.040 traveled the road already, we knew a little bit better 0:10:25.040 --> 0:10:28.360 as to how to protect it. Unfortunately, my husband wasn't 0:10:28.400 --> 0:10:32.360 on board with that. So something happened on the day 0:10:32.920 --> 0:10:36.440 of Brut's wedding. You guys know, our Wednesday episode comes out. 0:10:36.559 --> 0:10:40.080 We had a great chat around fertility waiting rooms and 0:10:40.440 --> 0:10:42.640 we just had our normal episode which we pre recorded 0:10:42.679 --> 0:10:43.240 before we went. 0:10:43.160 --> 0:10:43.839 Away, like fake it. 0:10:43.920 --> 0:10:47.120 Tim make it Yes, great love that for us. 0:10:48.080 --> 0:10:52.160 Matthew Johnson and his wonderful podcast partner Ash. They also 0:10:52.240 --> 0:10:54.760 pre recorded the podcast. Now I cannot tell you how 0:10:54.760 --> 0:10:57.120 many times I said to my husband, I cannot tell 0:10:57.160 --> 0:10:59.400 you Brut's wedding. We're not talking about it. We're not 0:10:59.440 --> 0:11:01.839 gonna tell people that were there. You're just coming over 0:11:01.880 --> 0:11:03.880 for a holiday, like you know, off the back of 0:11:03.920 --> 0:11:06.240 my work week. And he was like, yeap, got it good. 0:11:07.320 --> 0:11:10.240 The morning of BRIT's wedding, his podcast episode comes out 0:11:10.400 --> 0:11:12.920 in which he says, yeah, so we're heading over to 0:11:12.920 --> 0:11:14.040 Bally for BRIT's wedding. 0:11:14.880 --> 0:11:17.840 Just he got the timeline role. 0:11:18.000 --> 0:11:20.720 The amount of messages I received which were like, oh 0:11:20.760 --> 0:11:24.040 my god, did Matt just accidentally spoil the fact that 0:11:24.080 --> 0:11:25.160 BRIT's wedding is in Bali? 0:11:25.200 --> 0:11:27.439 And it was the day of and then I received it. 0:11:27.480 --> 0:11:29.760 We were sitting at a cafe and Keisha sent me a 0:11:29.800 --> 0:11:32.720 screenshot from one of you guys who'd written in and 0:11:32.920 --> 0:11:35.320 my stomach dropped. I think I yelled at him in 0:11:35.320 --> 0:11:37.880 the cafe. I was so upset at him, and then 0:11:37.960 --> 0:11:41.079 he got so upset. Matt was almost in tears because 0:11:41.320 --> 0:11:44.559 it was the second thing that he accidentally unveiled that week. 0:11:44.920 --> 0:11:46.839 Baby Names and my Wedding Good one. Matt, You're on 0:11:46.880 --> 0:11:47.200 a roll. 0:11:47.679 --> 0:11:49.800 He was like, I need some headline to dudding dad. 0:11:49.920 --> 0:11:52.400 How can I spice this up? Can I say relevant? 0:11:54.480 --> 0:11:57.680 And they ended up deleting the episode almost immediately, but 0:11:57.720 --> 0:12:00.920 it had had quite a few downloads. So I just 0:12:01.240 --> 0:12:05.000 honestly spent the entire day praying to every God that 0:12:05.040 --> 0:12:07.040 there is under the sun that like, please don't let 0:12:07.080 --> 0:12:08.319 that get out, Please don't let Britain. 0:12:08.320 --> 0:12:10.120 No, it's so funny. I did walk up to Mad 0:12:10.160 --> 0:12:12.360 at the wedding and pretend I was mad, Like how 0:12:12.400 --> 0:12:15.080 to go at him? I told you though, that's how you. Yes, yes, 0:12:15.120 --> 0:12:17.360 you already told me, And I mean I wasn't mad. 0:12:17.679 --> 0:12:18.720 Was it a careless error? 0:12:18.840 --> 0:12:19.080 Yes? 0:12:22.080 --> 0:12:26.920 Absolutely. But there was a media outlet that had released 0:12:27.040 --> 0:12:30.840 the venue location and approximate date, but they didn't have 0:12:30.880 --> 0:12:34.320 the exact date right. They had a window and I 0:12:34.360 --> 0:12:36.439 had called my wedding planner. I had a wedding planet 0:12:36.440 --> 0:12:38.719 in Bali. I had easy weddings here in Australia who 0:12:38.720 --> 0:12:40.640 were amazing, and then I got some They had some 0:12:40.679 --> 0:12:42.880 people on the ground over there as well, and I 0:12:42.880 --> 0:12:44.040 sent it to them and I said, I don't know 0:12:44.040 --> 0:12:45.880 how this has gone out because we did have different 0:12:45.960 --> 0:12:50.360 names and whatever, and they immediately went They're like, don't worry, 0:12:50.440 --> 0:12:51.880 we've got this, Like we're going to sort this out. 0:12:51.880 --> 0:12:53.480 We're going to make sure no one gets in. And 0:12:53.559 --> 0:12:55.760 it's a huge private estate. The only way to get 0:12:55.800 --> 0:12:58.840 in for a paparazzi was with a drone. And I said, 0:12:58.840 --> 0:13:02.240 they can, well guest where Yeah, all the guest list 0:13:02.240 --> 0:13:04.280 because they weren't checking names off, apparently. 0:13:04.360 --> 0:13:06.040 All the guest lists, because the people at the door 0:13:06.040 --> 0:13:08.120 were just showing the entire guest list and saying, which 0:13:08.200 --> 0:13:08.960 name is yours? 0:13:12.920 --> 0:13:16.960 And so because we got married, like it is stunning, 0:13:16.960 --> 0:13:19.000 I cannot wait to show you. But it's on a cliff, right, 0:13:19.040 --> 0:13:21.440 Like Ben and I were on a floating stage on 0:13:21.559 --> 0:13:23.800 an infinity pool. We couldn't have been closer to a cliff. 0:13:23.840 --> 0:13:26.000 If a paparazzi wanted to with a drone, he could 0:13:26.040 --> 0:13:27.720 have been like half a meter away and got the 0:13:27.720 --> 0:13:28.439 best content. 0:13:28.520 --> 0:13:28.720 Ever. 0:13:29.559 --> 0:13:32.120 So they were like the wedding planners in the Bilin 0:13:32.200 --> 0:13:34.600 East Side, We're like, Okay, we've got this, We're on it. 0:13:34.760 --> 0:13:36.800 We've got security. They're going to sit on top of 0:13:36.800 --> 0:13:38.679 the roof. They've got rifles. They're going to shoot the 0:13:38.760 --> 0:13:41.280 drone out of the air, and I was like, sorry, 0:13:41.440 --> 0:13:44.800 what rewind like just an air rifle with air or 0:13:44.840 --> 0:13:47.240 like a like a rifle rifle like a gun. They're like, no, 0:13:47.320 --> 0:13:49.080 we're gonna shoot it with bullets out of the sky. 0:13:49.280 --> 0:13:52.440 And I was like, okay, slow down. I cannot be 0:13:52.559 --> 0:13:55.480 responsible for accidentally killing someone in Bali with a rifle 0:13:55.520 --> 0:13:57.040 at my wedding. Imagine that headline. 0:13:57.280 --> 0:14:01.520 Can I say? Though it sounds okay in but imagine. 0:14:01.000 --> 0:14:03.600 Being mid vow. Yeah. 0:14:03.880 --> 0:14:06.040 The thing that either was the funniest is that you 0:14:06.280 --> 0:14:09.360 also had a drone, and so I pictured that they 0:14:09.400 --> 0:14:13.360 wouldn't know which one was which. So let's imagine that 0:14:13.480 --> 0:14:15.800 they accidentally shot your drone and then you had to 0:14:15.840 --> 0:14:18.840 ask the perps for their foot Sorry, can you actually 0:14:19.120 --> 0:14:23.080 drop boxing back? Can you just edge? Because we lost 0:14:23.120 --> 0:14:25.600 all of ours? It's just got like Daily Mail's trademark 0:14:25.600 --> 0:14:27.560 on it. But they I had to talk them off 0:14:27.560 --> 0:14:30.320 the ledge and I was like, look, I don't know 0:14:30.360 --> 0:14:32.520 if that's legal in Bali, and I don't want to 0:14:32.560 --> 0:14:34.760 go to prison for shooting rifles and my wedding or 0:14:34.760 --> 0:14:38.120 accidentally shooting somebody, so we settled for laser beam. 0:14:38.240 --> 0:14:38.800 So they had. 0:14:38.680 --> 0:14:41.040 Like like it was so funny. I feel like it 0:14:41.040 --> 0:14:42.800 could have been out of a movie. This guy in 0:14:42.840 --> 0:14:44.440 the roof with a laser beam and if a drone 0:14:44.480 --> 0:14:46.600 came past, he could It's like shining a light in 0:14:46.640 --> 0:14:48.600 the eye and it stops them from being a film. 0:14:48.880 --> 0:14:51.280 Very very funny. But we didn't need to use any rifles. 0:14:51.520 --> 0:14:52.920 I do not want that going out. 0:14:53.000 --> 0:14:54.600 And the guy on the roof with the laser beam 0:14:54.640 --> 0:14:56.680 was just sitting the drawing pictures on the roof. 0:14:56.720 --> 0:14:58.040 I watched him behalf of it and he was just 0:14:58.120 --> 0:15:00.520 like it was drawing a cat, was not. 0:15:01.040 --> 0:15:06.600 He was not watching the ceremony anyway. But Ben is 0:15:06.600 --> 0:15:08.440 going to join us, and so you know, so many 0:15:08.440 --> 0:15:10.040 of you guys wrote in questions and there is so 0:15:10.080 --> 0:15:13.160 many details around it, but Kisha, you had one very 0:15:13.200 --> 0:15:17.880 specific and important role, probably the most important. Is also 0:15:17.920 --> 0:15:21.480 the heaviest actually technically and logistically the heaviest role, because 0:15:21.480 --> 0:15:23.280 we also how much fabric was in bridge dress. 0:15:24.960 --> 0:15:27.280 So a couple of months ago I think it might 0:15:27.320 --> 0:15:29.280 have been we were actually sitting at a cafe near 0:15:29.280 --> 0:15:30.760 work and Britt turns to me and she's like, hey, 0:15:30.800 --> 0:15:32.880 I have a favor to ask you. It's a big one. 0:15:33.040 --> 0:15:36.280 She goes, I'm not going to be going to Balley 0:15:36.400 --> 0:15:38.680 from Australia. I'm actually going to be going with Europe 0:15:38.760 --> 0:15:40.800 first because we've got our friend's wedding. So I'm wondering 0:15:40.840 --> 0:15:42.600 if it's okay if you take my wedding dress over. 0:15:42.720 --> 0:15:44.360 And I was like, yeah, yeah, of course, no worries. 0:15:44.400 --> 0:15:47.120 Like I think a lot of these moments, I'm kind 0:15:47.160 --> 0:15:49.320 of just a no worries type of person, and I 0:15:49.360 --> 0:15:52.400 don't really think about like the actual logistics of certain 0:15:52.400 --> 0:15:54.800 things until I'm in the moment, until you become worried. 0:15:55.360 --> 0:15:57.560 And I was like, it's not exactly small. 0:15:58.000 --> 0:16:01.080 So Britt brings. 0:16:00.320 --> 0:16:02.440 The dress over and it's a Stephen Khalil dress. And 0:16:02.480 --> 0:16:05.360 Stephen Khalil shop used to be just down the street 0:16:05.360 --> 0:16:07.000 from where I lived, and so I would look in 0:16:07.040 --> 0:16:09.240 the window every time, you know, after I found out 0:16:09.240 --> 0:16:12.320 that he was your designer, and I kind of started 0:16:12.360 --> 0:16:15.240 to grasp like, oh, he makes big dresses, Like he 0:16:15.280 --> 0:16:19.280 doesn't do anything subtle, you know. The day that Britt 0:16:19.320 --> 0:16:21.880 was about to go over to Europe, she's like, I 0:16:21.960 --> 0:16:23.520 just need to drop my dress and I've just picked 0:16:23.520 --> 0:16:26.040 it up from you know, down the street, and you 0:16:26.080 --> 0:16:27.600 had this thing where you were like, I don't want 0:16:27.640 --> 0:16:28.800 you to look at it. You know. There was a 0:16:28.800 --> 0:16:30.440 bit of a joke that the reason you weren't asked, 0:16:30.480 --> 0:16:32.280 Laura is because we all knew that you would look 0:16:32.280 --> 0:16:33.440 at the dress if you try it on. 0:16:33.840 --> 0:16:35.360 Even if I had looked at it, there was so 0:16:35.440 --> 0:16:37.040 much dress you wouldn't have been able to make out 0:16:37.080 --> 0:16:38.280 what was going on inside of that. 0:16:38.600 --> 0:16:41.720 My favorite image just still if it's not ever real, 0:16:41.760 --> 0:16:43.520 but my favorite visual is if I gave to Laura 0:16:43.520 --> 0:16:44.920 and she was just walking around a house with it on, 0:16:45.120 --> 0:16:47.600 Like the entire bodice of your dress wouldn't fit one 0:16:47.600 --> 0:16:49.760 boob at the moment, Yeah, I couldn't breathe, but looked great. 0:16:49.920 --> 0:16:50.440 It looked great. 0:16:50.680 --> 0:16:53.200 Sore brings the dress over to the house and I 0:16:53.240 --> 0:16:55.840 have this photo. If you're watching this episode on YouTube, 0:16:55.880 --> 0:16:58.480 I'll make sure that Uness includes it. There is a 0:16:58.520 --> 0:17:01.480 picture of the dress next to and I just remember 0:17:01.600 --> 0:17:03.520 standing there and looking at it and I was like, 0:17:04.840 --> 0:17:10.360 I was just gonna that's really large. Like if we 0:17:10.359 --> 0:17:12.119 were to give this a size, this is like triple 0:17:12.280 --> 0:17:15.160 XL in terms of address, but I was like, all right, 0:17:15.240 --> 0:17:17.880 no worries, it'll be fine, It'll be fine. We got 0:17:17.880 --> 0:17:20.040 to the day that we had to actually go to 0:17:20.080 --> 0:17:23.280 the airport, and so I didn't kind of grasp until 0:17:23.320 --> 0:17:25.959