WEBVTT - The Guy I Like Called Me The Wrong Name! 💀

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<v Speaker 1>Flex and Frooms, Flex and Frooms. This is the Flex

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<v Speaker 1>and Frooms catch up podcast. You're back with Flex and

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<v Speaker 1>Frooms and Flex. We have a love line that's been

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<v Speaker 1>sent in by a follower, a listener of the show.

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<v Speaker 1>The title is Mistaken Identity. So I'm excited already.

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<v Speaker 2>He needs some work that one Mistaken Identity. It's really

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<v Speaker 2>great song in Delta. Oh true cut, Oh true cut.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, and she starts. I've gotten myself into a

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<v Speaker 2>little pickle. I met a guy over the weekend and

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<v Speaker 2>we really vibed. One thing led to another. Let's just

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<v Speaker 2>say we had a really good kinky time. Yeah, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>He left an impression on me and I was keen

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<v Speaker 1>to meet up with him again, but I didn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to make the first move.

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<v Speaker 2>This is flash sick Hicks these days.

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<v Speaker 1>I got into work on Monday and he still hadn't

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<v Speaker 1>messaged me since Saturday night. I went to a few

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<v Speaker 1>friends and coworkers to get their opinions brain trust on

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<v Speaker 1>what I should do, and they all eventually told.

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<v Speaker 2>Me to message him first, unanimous.

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<v Speaker 1>I went for something super casual and said, hey, how's

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<v Speaker 1>the rest of your weekend? As you know what, the

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<v Speaker 1>Flex and frim show. How'd you pull up?

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<v Speaker 2>Classic?

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<v Speaker 1>Is more we you should have done? But we'll you

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<v Speaker 1>get away with that one. I gotta reply twenty minutes

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<v Speaker 1>later saying, hey Georgia, my name is Jemma.

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<v Speaker 2>Anything else to round that one out? Any more context?

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<v Speaker 1>I just kept the conversation going. But we are meeting

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<v Speaker 1>next week. Is it too late to say, hey, that's

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<v Speaker 1>not actually my name?

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<v Speaker 2>Or am I now? Or is it too late now

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<v Speaker 2>the sor we've gotta add a playlists?

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<v Speaker 1>So with these I am freaking out? Do I really

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<v Speaker 1>like this person?

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<v Speaker 2>You're catching a vibe, but it's like it's one one

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<v Speaker 2>romantic night bit of a lull and you're just starting

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<v Speaker 2>conversations sober so really it's a stranger.

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<v Speaker 1>What you need to do is hit them with a

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<v Speaker 1>completely random name in return. Yes, so let's say their

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<v Speaker 1>name is Tom. Switch it around, say hey Tim, too close?

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<v Speaker 1>All right? Hey Matt, Hey Jim? Terry, Ah, Terry, he said,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I didn't you think I'm fifty?

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<v Speaker 2>You message?

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<v Speaker 1>The other guy meant, who's fifty years old? At the path, Terry.

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<v Speaker 1>I've never met someone called Terry who's not sixty five

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<v Speaker 1>and lives in Sorrento and has a caravan. Shout out

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<v Speaker 1>Terry and a wife with short hair. It's slightly spiked

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<v Speaker 1>in the bag little. I'm just gonna say, its like

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<v Speaker 1>it's unfortunate if there was alcohol involved. That's on you both.

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<v Speaker 1>I think this can be really nice meet you. You

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<v Speaker 1>can probably talk about it later on when you have kids.

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<v Speaker 2>So what you're advocating for is if you're dating someone

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<v Speaker 2>in the early stages where you should be using all

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<v Speaker 2>this start to determine if they're a good match for you.

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<v Speaker 2>If they happen to get your name wrong. In one

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<v Speaker 2>of the earliest interactions, let it go water of the bridge.

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<v Speaker 1>And gas light them back, say Terry. It's been a pleasure.

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<v Speaker 2>Gosh, talk of red flags and like love bombing, gas lighting,

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<v Speaker 2>but we've not figured out the basics. What do you

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<v Speaker 2>do when someone gets your name wrong?

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