Speaker 1: Flex and Frooms, Flex and Frooms. This is the Flex
Speaker 1: and Frooms catch up podcast. You're back with Flex and
Speaker 1: Frooms and Flex. We have a love line that's been
Speaker 1: sent in by a follower, a listener of the show.
Speaker 1: The title is Mistaken Identity. So I'm excited already.
Speaker 2: He needs some work that one Mistaken Identity. It's really
Speaker 2: great song in Delta. Oh true cut, Oh true cut.
Speaker 2: All right, and she starts. I've gotten myself into a
Speaker 2: little pickle. I met a guy over the weekend and
Speaker 2: we really vibed. One thing led to another. Let's just
Speaker 2: say we had a really good kinky time. Yeah, okay.
Speaker 1: He left an impression on me and I was keen
Speaker 1: to meet up with him again, but I didn't want
Speaker 1: to make the first move.
Speaker 2: This is flash sick Hicks these days.
Speaker 1: I got into work on Monday and he still hadn't
Speaker 1: messaged me since Saturday night. I went to a few
Speaker 1: friends and coworkers to get their opinions brain trust on
Speaker 1: what I should do, and they all eventually told.
Speaker 2: Me to message him first, unanimous.
Speaker 1: I went for something super casual and said, hey, how's
Speaker 1: the rest of your weekend? As you know what, the
Speaker 1: Flex and frim show. How'd you pull up?
Speaker 2: Classic?
Speaker 1: Is more we you should have done? But we'll you
Speaker 1: get away with that one. I gotta reply twenty minutes
Speaker 1: later saying, hey Georgia, my name is Jemma.
Speaker 2: Anything else to round that one out? Any more context?
Speaker 1: I just kept the conversation going. But we are meeting
Speaker 1: next week. Is it too late to say, hey, that's
Speaker 1: not actually my name?
Speaker 2: Or am I now? Or is it too late now
Speaker 2: the sor we've gotta add a playlists?
Speaker 1: So with these I am freaking out? Do I really
Speaker 1: like this person?
Speaker 2: You're catching a vibe, but it's like it's one one
Speaker 2: romantic night bit of a lull and you're just starting
Speaker 2: conversations sober so really it's a stranger.
Speaker 1: What you need to do is hit them with a
Speaker 1: completely random name in return. Yes, so let's say their
Speaker 1: name is Tom. Switch it around, say hey Tim, too close?
Speaker 1: All right? Hey Matt, Hey Jim? Terry, Ah, Terry, he said,
Speaker 1: I think I didn't you think I'm fifty?
Speaker 2: You message?
Speaker 1: The other guy meant, who's fifty years old? At the path, Terry.
Speaker 1: I've never met someone called Terry who's not sixty five
Speaker 1: and lives in Sorrento and has a caravan. Shout out
Speaker 1: Terry and a wife with short hair. It's slightly spiked
Speaker 1: in the bag little. I'm just gonna say, its like
Speaker 1: it's unfortunate if there was alcohol involved. That's on you both.
Speaker 1: I think this can be really nice meet you. You
Speaker 1: can probably talk about it later on when you have kids.
Speaker 2: So what you're advocating for is if you're dating someone
Speaker 2: in the early stages where you should be using all
Speaker 2: this start to determine if they're a good match for you.
Speaker 2: If they happen to get your name wrong. In one
Speaker 2: of the earliest interactions, let it go water of the bridge.
Speaker 1: And gas light them back, say Terry. It's been a pleasure.
Speaker 2: Gosh, talk of red flags and like love bombing, gas lighting,
Speaker 2: but we've not figured out the basics. What do you
Speaker 2: do when someone gets your name wrong?
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