Speaker 1: Hey, there's a bit of a dumping pit happening online.
Speaker 2: At the moment, I feel like this is just the
Speaker 2: standard TikTok, Right, something goes viral, then everyone complains in
Speaker 2: the comments.
Speaker 1: But this one is about labor.
Speaker 2: So there's a TikToker named Shenie Sinclair who shared a
Speaker 2: nine minute TikTok about her narcissistic partner and how he
Speaker 2: missed the birth of their child because he was such
Speaker 2: a He put a beep in.
Speaker 1: So basically, when I didn't have that, I didn't have.
Speaker 2: The beep ready, so I just said beep insert beep here.
Speaker 2: So basically, she started to complain that she was having
Speaker 2: labor pains, that she was like to her partner, hey,
Speaker 2: I'm going into labor, Like this is happening. He kept
Speaker 2: dismissing her, saying, no, you're not false contractions, just basically
Speaker 2: ignored her.
Speaker 3: That's so ridiculous, especially if you are actually due.
Speaker 1: Why would it. Why would a partner ever be like, no,
Speaker 1: you're not a labor.
Speaker 4: No she wasn't, but that's a very important information she
Speaker 4: must be.
Speaker 2: So as her contractions intensified, he decided it was the
Speaker 2: perfect time to go and get his beard done, so
Speaker 2: he went and got it like shaped and cut and.
Speaker 1: Trimmed because he wanted to look good for the birth too.
Speaker 2: Then he decided he was hungry, so he went and
Speaker 2: got lunch. I got fast food, didn't get takeaway, sat
Speaker 2: down to eat it.
Speaker 1: So was it in a rush to get there.
Speaker 2: So she's ended up going to the hospital and she
Speaker 2: gave birth without him.
Speaker 1: She ended up having to give birth a loan.
Speaker 3: He didn't even make it to the birth.
Speaker 1: Yep. Then it gets better.
Speaker 2: He said, I have to go home and rest because
Speaker 2: it's important that one of us is rested.
Speaker 1: So he went home because he said he needed to
Speaker 1: keep his strength up. God knows for what what to eat?
Speaker 1: The Chinese food? He then spent all of his time
Speaker 1: on the phone.
Speaker 2: Didn't help shundle responsibilities, like just a wanker.
Speaker 1: And people coming out in droves with their stories. And
Speaker 1: I know, I remember you had a labor story, Laura.
Speaker 3: I have a labor story.
Speaker 1: But my husband is an absolute saint.
Speaker 3: Like if that is something that your partner is doing
Speaker 3: during labor, like they shouldn't.
Speaker 1: Be your part.
Speaker 2: I don't think so a lot of people are commenting saying,
Speaker 2: like why are you still with him, So I don't
Speaker 2: know if they've broken up.
Speaker 1: Now I didn't. I don't follow her.
Speaker 3: You almost can't tell a story like that and then
Speaker 3: follow it up with oh, yeah, and we're still together,
Speaker 3: Like what a horrible partner.
Speaker 4: And the caption says, what it's like giving birth with
Speaker 4: a narcissistic partner.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'd hope I reckon they're over.
Speaker 3: That's so rank my No, my husband, he was an
Speaker 3: amazing birth partner, like he was actually very very good.
Speaker 3: But I was induced, so we didn't kind of know
Speaker 3: what to expect. So I rocked up at the hospital
Speaker 3: that day for the induction thinking I was going to
Speaker 3: go home. So I rocked up with no bag, no nothing,
Speaker 3: because I hadn't strange Laura, they hadn't told me anything.
Speaker 3: I didn't realize, and I'd been bounced around a few
Speaker 3: different healthcare workers, so I think they'd just kind of
Speaker 3: forgotten that really important piece of information. So I rocked
Speaker 3: up and they're like, wow, you're traveling light, and I
Speaker 3: was like, what do you mean, Like, well, you're having
Speaker 3: a baby today. And I thought I was just being
Speaker 3: induced and I would come back once labor started. But anyway,
Speaker 3: we were so unprepared. I stayed Matt's mum went home
Speaker 3: and they got all my stuff, and then I was
Speaker 3: in labor for such a long time, but I could
Speaker 3: feel like it was getting closer. I could feel I
Speaker 3: was like eight hours, not a long long time, but
Speaker 3: like it was an eight hour labor, and I could
Speaker 3: feel that I was like pretty ready to go. And
Speaker 3: I was like, I think I'm gonna have a baby
Speaker 3: pretty soon. And Matt was like, oh, do you think
Speaker 3: I have time to go and get a chicken sandwich?
Speaker 1: Probably not that, probably not. I was like, I don't
Speaker 1: think you do. And he was like, I'll just duck down.
Speaker 1: And I was like, are you going to risk it?
Speaker 1: He was like, I'll be quick, and he ran down
Speaker 1: and got a chicken rap.
Speaker 3: As you are birthing, you're trying, and I was nine
Speaker 3: centimeters dilated.
Speaker 1: No, I wasn't birthing it.
Speaker 4: He made it.
Speaker 3: He was there for every step of the way.
Speaker 1: But he did with his chicken stand. She'd risk it
Speaker 1: for that chicken.
Speaker 3: Rap because he'd been waiting for eight hours and left
Speaker 3: it to the last minute to be like, I need
Speaker 3: some sustenance to make it through the berth.
Speaker 4: I think that's fine, Yes, of course, it's fine.
Speaker 2: Like sitting back watching a movie, like as you're giving birth.
Speaker 2: He's just like with his popcorn and his chicken sandwich.
Speaker 3: No, he's just handled. He didn't light the blood and
Speaker 3: he just did. He didn't want to be down the
Speaker 3: business end, like it wasn't for him, and I was
Speaker 3: the opposite. I was like, I'm sorry, if I'm doing
Speaker 3: the birthing, get down the business end.
Speaker 1: You're going to cut that unbillical cord.
Speaker 3: I think I was a bit of a drill ste Oh,
Speaker 3: We've got to call hey, Linda, what happened to you labor?
Speaker 5: Yes, so my first labor, my husband. The nurses bought
Speaker 5: in a chicken parmejana. So he sat over there eating
Speaker 5: his chicken parmejana while I was contracting and pushing away
Speaker 5: and you can.
Speaker 1: Eat with your hands.
Speaker 5: Yeah. So they've just come in and opened the door,
Speaker 5: as you know, spread eagle and yeah, they've just said
Speaker 5: you want your lunch now, And he sort of looked
Speaker 5: at me and I'm like, you do you mate, thinking
Speaker 5: he'll be like na, na na.
Speaker 2: You know, I'd be like, if I'm not eating, you're
Speaker 2: not eating.
Speaker 4: My sister just gave birth for the first first time,
Speaker 4: and I turned up the next day to visit them
Speaker 4: and the baby. And there's my brother in law, Kurt,
Speaker 4: the father of Remy, having a high tea with a
Speaker 4: little finger sandwich with the cucumber and maynaid pickle to go.
Speaker 4: Where's Becky's I gotta know she's getting some sort of
Speaker 4: fixing ups done. And he was sitting there drinking tea
Speaker 4: out of China.
Speaker 5: It's very exhausting for the bloke, isn't it all right?
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