WEBVTT - MINI: What happened when you were in labour? 🤰

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, there's a bit of a dumping pit happening online.

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<v Speaker 2>At the moment, I feel like this is just the

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<v Speaker 2>standard TikTok, Right, something goes viral, then everyone complains in

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<v Speaker 2>the comments.

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<v Speaker 1>But this one is about labor.

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<v Speaker 2>So there's a TikToker named Shenie Sinclair who shared a

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<v Speaker 2>nine minute TikTok about her narcissistic partner and how he

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<v Speaker 2>missed the birth of their child because he was such

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<v Speaker 2>a He put a beep in.

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<v Speaker 1>So basically, when I didn't have that, I didn't have.

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<v Speaker 2>The beep ready, so I just said beep insert beep here.

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<v Speaker 2>So basically, she started to complain that she was having

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<v Speaker 2>labor pains, that she was like to her partner, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going into labor, Like this is happening. He kept

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<v Speaker 2>dismissing her, saying, no, you're not false contractions, just basically

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<v Speaker 2>ignored her.

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<v Speaker 3>That's so ridiculous, especially if you are actually due.

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<v Speaker 1>Why would it. Why would a partner ever be like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not a labor.

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<v Speaker 4>No she wasn't, but that's a very important information she

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<v Speaker 4>must be.

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<v Speaker 2>So as her contractions intensified, he decided it was the

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<v Speaker 2>perfect time to go and get his beard done, so

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<v Speaker 2>he went and got it like shaped and cut and.

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<v Speaker 1>Trimmed because he wanted to look good for the birth too.

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<v Speaker 2>Then he decided he was hungry, so he went and

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<v Speaker 2>got lunch. I got fast food, didn't get takeaway, sat

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<v Speaker 2>down to eat it.

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<v Speaker 1>So was it in a rush to get there.

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<v Speaker 2>So she's ended up going to the hospital and she

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<v Speaker 2>gave birth without him.

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<v Speaker 1>She ended up having to give birth a loan.

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<v Speaker 3>He didn't even make it to the birth.

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<v Speaker 1>Yep. Then it gets better.

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<v Speaker 2>He said, I have to go home and rest because

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<v Speaker 2>it's important that one of us is rested.

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<v Speaker 1>So he went home because he said he needed to

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<v Speaker 1>keep his strength up. God knows for what what to eat?

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<v Speaker 1>The Chinese food? He then spent all of his time

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone.

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<v Speaker 2>Didn't help shundle responsibilities, like just a wanker.

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<v Speaker 1>And people coming out in droves with their stories. And

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I remember you had a labor story, Laura.

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<v Speaker 3>I have a labor story.

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<v Speaker 1>But my husband is an absolute saint.

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<v Speaker 3>Like if that is something that your partner is doing

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<v Speaker 3>during labor, like they shouldn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Be your part.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think so a lot of people are commenting saying,

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<v Speaker 2>like why are you still with him, So I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know if they've broken up.

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<v Speaker 1>Now I didn't. I don't follow her.

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<v Speaker 3>You almost can't tell a story like that and then

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<v Speaker 3>follow it up with oh, yeah, and we're still together,

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<v Speaker 3>Like what a horrible partner.

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<v Speaker 4>And the caption says, what it's like giving birth with

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<v Speaker 4>a narcissistic partner.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'd hope I reckon they're over.

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<v Speaker 3>That's so rank my No, my husband, he was an

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<v Speaker 3>amazing birth partner, like he was actually very very good.

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<v Speaker 3>But I was induced, so we didn't kind of know

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<v Speaker 3>what to expect. So I rocked up at the hospital

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<v Speaker 3>that day for the induction thinking I was going to

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<v Speaker 3>go home. So I rocked up with no bag, no nothing,

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<v Speaker 3>because I hadn't strange Laura, they hadn't told me anything.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't realize, and I'd been bounced around a few

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<v Speaker 3>different healthcare workers, so I think they'd just kind of

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<v Speaker 3>forgotten that really important piece of information. So I rocked

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<v Speaker 3>up and they're like, wow, you're traveling light, and I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, what do you mean, Like, well, you're having

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<v Speaker 3>a baby today. And I thought I was just being

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<v Speaker 3>induced and I would come back once labor started. But anyway,

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<v Speaker 3>we were so unprepared. I stayed Matt's mum went home

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<v Speaker 3>and they got all my stuff, and then I was

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<v Speaker 3>in labor for such a long time, but I could

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<v Speaker 3>feel like it was getting closer. I could feel I

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<v Speaker 3>was like eight hours, not a long long time, but

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<v Speaker 3>like it was an eight hour labor, and I could

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<v Speaker 3>feel that I was like pretty ready to go. And

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, I think I'm gonna have a baby

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<v Speaker 3>pretty soon. And Matt was like, oh, do you think

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<v Speaker 3>I have time to go and get a chicken sandwich?

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<v Speaker 1>Probably not that, probably not. I was like, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think you do. And he was like, I'll just duck down.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, are you going to risk it?

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<v Speaker 1>He was like, I'll be quick, and he ran down

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<v Speaker 1>and got a chicken rap.

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<v Speaker 3>As you are birthing, you're trying, and I was nine

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<v Speaker 3>centimeters dilated.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I wasn't birthing it.

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<v Speaker 4>He made it.

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<v Speaker 3>He was there for every step of the way.

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<v Speaker 1>But he did with his chicken stand. She'd risk it

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<v Speaker 1>for that chicken.

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<v Speaker 3>Rap because he'd been waiting for eight hours and left

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<v Speaker 3>it to the last minute to be like, I need

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<v Speaker 3>some sustenance to make it through the berth.

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<v Speaker 4>I think that's fine, Yes, of course, it's fine.

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<v Speaker 2>Like sitting back watching a movie, like as you're giving birth.

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<v Speaker 2>He's just like with his popcorn and his chicken sandwich.

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<v Speaker 3>No, he's just handled. He didn't light the blood and

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<v Speaker 3>he just did. He didn't want to be down the

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<v Speaker 3>business end, like it wasn't for him, and I was

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<v Speaker 3>the opposite. I was like, I'm sorry, if I'm doing

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<v Speaker 3>the birthing, get down the business end.

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<v Speaker 1>You're going to cut that unbillical cord.

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<v Speaker 3>I think I was a bit of a drill ste Oh,

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<v Speaker 3>We've got to call hey, Linda, what happened to you labor?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, so my first labor, my husband. The nurses bought

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<v Speaker 5>in a chicken parmejana. So he sat over there eating

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<v Speaker 5>his chicken parmejana while I was contracting and pushing away

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<v Speaker 5>and you can.

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<v Speaker 1>Eat with your hands.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah. So they've just come in and opened the door,

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<v Speaker 5>as you know, spread eagle and yeah, they've just said

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<v Speaker 5>you want your lunch now, And he sort of looked

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<v Speaker 5>at me and I'm like, you do you mate, thinking

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<v Speaker 5>he'll be like na, na na.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I'd be like, if I'm not eating, you're

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<v Speaker 2>not eating.

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<v Speaker 4>My sister just gave birth for the first first time,

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<v Speaker 4>and I turned up the next day to visit them

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<v Speaker 4>and the baby. And there's my brother in law, Kurt,

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<v Speaker 4>the father of Remy, having a high tea with a

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<v Speaker 4>little finger sandwich with the cucumber and maynaid pickle to go.

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<v Speaker 4>Where's Becky's I gotta know she's getting some sort of

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<v Speaker 4>fixing ups done. And he was sitting there drinking tea

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<v Speaker 4>out of China.

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<v Speaker 5>It's very exhausting for the bloke, isn't it all right?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, listen, we are done for the day. This is

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<v Speaker 5>Happy New Year to you guys, the merry Christmas.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks Linda.

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<v Speaker 3>I hope you realize that she's not getting that she's winning,

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<v Speaker 3>that she could enter.

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<v Speaker 4>Produce a grace. Teller will send her a book or something.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll send hers something tasting all right.

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<v Speaker 4>That's us done.

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<v Speaker 1>Girls.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey guys, ye see you tomorrow.