1 00:00:01,320 --> 00:00:05,320 Speaker 1: And Amanda gam Nation. When Limphus went to Newcastle Uni 2 00:00:06,800 --> 00:00:09,119 Speaker 1: that he was only there for a couple of maybe 3 00:00:09,200 --> 00:00:12,239 Speaker 1: six weeks when because of COVID everyone who lived on 4 00:00:12,280 --> 00:00:15,480 Speaker 1: the campuses and the college had to come home. And 5 00:00:15,520 --> 00:00:17,600 Speaker 1: one of his friends came home to find that her 6 00:00:17,600 --> 00:00:21,599 Speaker 1: bedroom had been turned into a gym. The second she went, oh, darling, 7 00:00:21,680 --> 00:00:24,040 Speaker 1: will miss you? Quick get the renovators in. 8 00:00:24,200 --> 00:00:26,400 Speaker 2: How comes the tape measure fair enough and goes to 9 00:00:26,400 --> 00:00:27,040 Speaker 2: the train set. 10 00:00:27,120 --> 00:00:30,760 Speaker 1: What's hard these days is that kids, and as a child, 11 00:00:30,800 --> 00:00:33,920 Speaker 1: you expect your room to stay exactly as it is. 12 00:00:33,960 --> 00:00:36,600 Speaker 1: I remember when I was in my forties, went to 13 00:00:36,680 --> 00:00:38,159 Speaker 1: visit Mum and dad and they had a box of 14 00:00:38,200 --> 00:00:40,400 Speaker 1: all my things to give me back. So it's your 15 00:00:40,520 --> 00:00:42,800 Speaker 1: job to look after that for the rest of my life. 16 00:00:42,800 --> 00:00:45,160 Speaker 1: That's what I thought. I was outrage. So they can't 17 00:00:45,159 --> 00:00:47,479 Speaker 1: hang on to your crap forever. You think so. But 18 00:00:47,520 --> 00:00:49,280 Speaker 1: I don't want it either. But I don't want I 19 00:00:49,280 --> 00:00:51,919 Speaker 1: don't want it to disappear. I can't take it. They 20 00:00:51,920 --> 00:00:52,479 Speaker 1: should keep it. 21 00:00:52,520 --> 00:00:54,960 Speaker 2: My oldest son's got this giant blue teddy bear that 22 00:00:55,000 --> 00:00:56,080 Speaker 2: he got when he was born. 23 00:00:56,320 --> 00:00:59,080 Speaker 1: It's huge, It's like a human sized teddy bear. Where 24 00:00:59,120 --> 00:01:02,280 Speaker 1: is it under a house? In a cupboard? So he 25 00:01:02,320 --> 00:01:04,240 Speaker 1: doesn't want you to get rid of it? I can't, 26 00:01:04,280 --> 00:01:05,360 Speaker 1: but I'm sentimental. 27 00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:06,000 Speaker 3: I'm a holder. 28 00:01:06,040 --> 00:01:08,560 Speaker 1: I can't get rid of it either. Centermental is underneath 29 00:01:08,600 --> 00:01:12,080 Speaker 1: the house, surrounded by mold, dead bodies. As long as 30 00:01:12,160 --> 00:01:14,480 Speaker 1: it's around, that's the thing, As long as it's around. 31 00:01:14,680 --> 00:01:16,800 Speaker 2: But it's like that episode of Kath and kimber Kath 32 00:01:16,880 --> 00:01:20,400 Speaker 2: and Kim, when Kimi wanted to move back in. 33 00:01:20,480 --> 00:01:21,560 Speaker 1: I think I wanted to move back in. 34 00:01:22,280 --> 00:01:23,840 Speaker 4: Look like look of Kim looking? 35 00:01:24,120 --> 00:01:27,040 Speaker 1: Look at your bedroom? Is now my exercise room. I 36 00:01:27,120 --> 00:01:33,080 Speaker 1: do my pumping here. Polities police, what what have you 37 00:01:33,200 --> 00:01:35,480 Speaker 1: done to my room? Where am I campy? 38 00:01:36,280 --> 00:01:36,440 Speaker 3: Look? 39 00:01:36,520 --> 00:01:39,760 Speaker 1: This is my townhouse now, And frankly, I'm enjoying the 40 00:01:39,880 --> 00:01:43,200 Speaker 1: an empty Nesta. I haven't got room for you here anymore. 41 00:01:44,560 --> 00:01:48,360 Speaker 1: It's life's passages, it really is, it really is? Well, 42 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:50,120 Speaker 1: how about this? The tribal drum is going to beat 43 00:01:50,200 --> 00:01:54,720 Speaker 1: for my childhood? Bedroom is now a dog? What have 44 00:01:54,800 --> 00:01:57,720 Speaker 1: you done to my room? Where am I campy? Where 45 00:01:57,840 --> 00:02:00,720 Speaker 1: am I care? At some point you're allowed to reclaim 46 00:02:00,800 --> 00:02:03,880 Speaker 1: your own spaces. Christie has joined us. Hello Christian, I Christie, 47 00:02:03,920 --> 00:02:05,680 Speaker 1: what happened childhood bedroom? 48 00:02:06,520 --> 00:02:09,720 Speaker 4: Well, I moved out of home and I visited after 49 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:12,000 Speaker 4: a short time and they had knocked out a wall 50 00:02:12,160 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 4: and put a spar in, so I don't have a 51 00:02:14,840 --> 00:02:16,040 Speaker 4: childhood bedroom anymore. 52 00:02:16,160 --> 00:02:19,399 Speaker 1: They put a far in. No spa, No a spa. Yeah, 53 00:02:19,600 --> 00:02:22,239 Speaker 1: oh wow, you gotta put waterproof because the whole thing's 54 00:02:22,320 --> 00:02:24,240 Speaker 1: a whole thing. You were never going to go back there, 55 00:02:24,320 --> 00:02:25,920 Speaker 1: they ruled you right, did you go. 56 00:02:26,040 --> 00:02:26,480 Speaker 2: In the spa? 57 00:02:26,680 --> 00:02:33,440 Speaker 1: Christie? No, mom and dad spa. Best to keep away 58 00:02:33,480 --> 00:02:36,720 Speaker 1: from that, Thank you. Kerry's joined us. Hello, carry what's 59 00:02:36,760 --> 00:02:37,919 Speaker 1: happened to your bedroom? 60 00:02:38,600 --> 00:02:41,840 Speaker 3: Good morning? Well, while the UNI, I was living out 61 00:02:41,880 --> 00:02:43,760 Speaker 3: of home, so I was coming back home every so 62 00:02:43,840 --> 00:02:45,080 Speaker 3: of and my bedroom. 63 00:02:44,760 --> 00:02:45,280 Speaker 1: Was still there. 64 00:02:45,600 --> 00:02:48,200 Speaker 3: But my mum had started this little hobby and she 65 00:02:48,440 --> 00:02:51,440 Speaker 3: was learning how to paint. And then I went away 66 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:53,959 Speaker 3: and I went to the work overseas, and I came 67 00:02:54,040 --> 00:02:56,280 Speaker 3: back after being away for two or three years, I 68 00:02:56,320 --> 00:02:59,359 Speaker 3: can't remember, and she decided to start her own home 69 00:02:59,440 --> 00:03:02,840 Speaker 3: business of teaching paintings. As she was doing these little 70 00:03:02,880 --> 00:03:06,280 Speaker 3: sip and create classes in my bedroom and she was 71 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:09,520 Speaker 3: even using my childhood toys as part. 72 00:03:09,360 --> 00:03:12,440 Speaker 1: Of the still life set up. You know, it's interesting 73 00:03:12,480 --> 00:03:16,840 Speaker 1: though you've been away for two years, your mother is in. 74 00:03:17,160 --> 00:03:19,400 Speaker 1: But is it funny the assumption that my parents better 75 00:03:19,480 --> 00:03:21,480 Speaker 1: not touch my bedroom? They were sealed up like some 76 00:03:21,639 --> 00:03:24,520 Speaker 1: shry jocks, still sitting on the end of the bed. 77 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:27,680 Speaker 1: Love it? Thank you Kerry. 78 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:30,959 Speaker 2: Are the travel dramas beating my childhood bedroom is? 79 00:03:31,120 --> 00:03:34,600 Speaker 1: Now? What have you done to my room? Where are 80 00:03:34,639 --> 00:03:38,400 Speaker 1: my cheaper? Danny has joined us. Hello Danny? What happened 81 00:03:38,400 --> 00:03:38,960 Speaker 1: to your room? 82 00:03:39,760 --> 00:03:42,839 Speaker 4: Good morning guys. Well, I'm one of four children, three 83 00:03:42,880 --> 00:03:45,760 Speaker 4: girls and a boy. Anyways, mum waiters until all of 84 00:03:45,840 --> 00:03:49,040 Speaker 4: us three girls were off in our down nest. They 85 00:03:49,080 --> 00:03:53,080 Speaker 4: she decided to sell the house, move down size and 86 00:03:53,120 --> 00:03:55,080 Speaker 4: literally got rid of our room. U left one room 87 00:03:55,520 --> 00:03:56,720 Speaker 4: just for my brother and his batty. 88 00:03:57,080 --> 00:04:02,280 Speaker 1: Oh favorites much. Mothers are like that, aren't they. Gill's 89 00:04:02,320 --> 00:04:04,760 Speaker 1: just them for yourselves. But your brother's different. Your brother 90 00:04:04,880 --> 00:04:08,520 Speaker 1: needs help? Yeah, and how does that? How does that 91 00:04:08,600 --> 00:04:10,400 Speaker 1: sit with you? Danny? At Christmas and things? 92 00:04:11,960 --> 00:04:14,200 Speaker 4: Us three girls are not very impressed about it. It's like, yeah, 93 00:04:14,440 --> 00:04:15,880 Speaker 4: he's the baby, he's the favorite. 94 00:04:15,920 --> 00:04:21,200 Speaker 1: What about us yet? Our needs? Hello Cheryl, Thanks Danny, Yl, 95 00:04:21,240 --> 00:04:25,000 Speaker 1: what happened? Oh? My room. 96 00:04:25,080 --> 00:04:27,560 Speaker 3: After being married for a few years, I came back 97 00:04:27,640 --> 00:04:28,039 Speaker 3: and it was. 98 00:04:28,160 --> 00:04:32,159 Speaker 4: Demolished, and now it's the family room, so everybody sits 99 00:04:32,200 --> 00:04:32,360 Speaker 4: in it. 100 00:04:32,480 --> 00:04:35,360 Speaker 3: So the whole place an area got renovated, and I went, 101 00:04:35,720 --> 00:04:38,560 Speaker 3: where's all myself? I got all my stuff from my 102 00:04:38,720 --> 00:04:41,000 Speaker 3: mum and dad. I took it home and now my 103 00:04:41,200 --> 00:04:44,039 Speaker 3: children have all my care bears. 104 00:04:43,800 --> 00:04:45,560 Speaker 4: And all my little things that I had, and they're 105 00:04:45,600 --> 00:04:45,960 Speaker 4: loving it. 106 00:04:46,279 --> 00:04:47,960 Speaker 3: But yeah, it was just completely demolished. 107 00:04:48,240 --> 00:04:48,880 Speaker 1: Nothing was there. 108 00:04:48,920 --> 00:04:50,320 Speaker 3: It was just a family room now. 109 00:04:51,320 --> 00:04:53,000 Speaker 1: And it's weird to think all the stuff you probably 110 00:04:53,120 --> 00:04:55,120 Speaker 1: dreamt of in that bedroom and now your mum's sitting 111 00:04:55,160 --> 00:04:56,520 Speaker 1: there watching Tipping Point. 112 00:04:57,279 --> 00:04:59,440 Speaker 2: Because my wife when I met Helen, when I worked 113 00:04:59,480 --> 00:05:01,680 Speaker 2: down the snow with her, and when she came back 114 00:05:01,720 --> 00:05:02,400 Speaker 2: from the side. 115 00:05:02,160 --> 00:05:05,440 Speaker 1: Of the parents had sold the house and they put 116 00:05:05,960 --> 00:05:08,920 Speaker 1: a page of the directory in a lunch box. We've 117 00:05:08,960 --> 00:05:10,279 Speaker 1: moved to the next grid.