WEBVTT - Our new year's resolutions, the universe & marital affairs! ☕️ 0:00:00.400 --> 0:00:04.440 The Rise and Conquer Podcast acknowledges the traditional custodians of 0:00:04.519 --> 0:00:07.680 the land which this episode is being recorded, the yugen 0:00:07.720 --> 0:00:12.200 Bah region. We further acknowledge country throughout Australia and their 0:00:12.200 --> 0:00:16.000 connections to land, sea and community. We pay our respect 0:00:16.040 --> 0:00:19.640 to their elders past and present and extend that respect 0:00:19.680 --> 0:00:32.879 to all Aboriginal and terrest Raid Islander peoples today. Hello 0:00:33.080 --> 0:00:36.440 and welcome back to the Rise and Conquer Podcasts. This 0:00:36.520 --> 0:00:39.159 is the podcast for ordinary people who want to do 0:00:39.360 --> 0:00:53.599 extraordinary things. Hello and welcome back to the Rising Conker Podcast. 0:00:53.760 --> 0:00:57.640 It is your host, Georgie Stephenson, lawyer turned entrepreneur, business owner, 0:00:57.800 --> 0:01:01.200 new mum All the Things Today episode is one of 0:01:01.240 --> 0:01:04.600 our classic Geez hotline It's been a while. 0:01:04.920 --> 0:01:06.000 It's been a while. 0:01:06.360 --> 0:01:09.400 It's been a while, but we're back with the hot lines. 0:01:09.480 --> 0:01:12.080 So these are our fun Friday epps where you send 0:01:12.080 --> 0:01:15.720 in your life dilemmas and a tear and I provide 0:01:15.720 --> 0:01:19.080 our very unqualified two cents on the situation. We've got 0:01:19.120 --> 0:01:21.840 a couple of quick fire ones as well. Yeah, they're 0:01:21.840 --> 0:01:24.440 a bit fun. They're a bit fun. So in today's 0:01:24.440 --> 0:01:28.760 app we answer what are our New Year's resolutions. Me 0:01:28.840 --> 0:01:31.200 and a tea get into that, we answer what we're 0:01:31.319 --> 0:01:34.479 leaving behind in twenty twenty two, and then we get 0:01:34.520 --> 0:01:40.240 into some saucy little ah they are saucy ones today. 0:01:40.319 --> 0:01:44.080 So first of all, what can you do when the 0:01:44.200 --> 0:01:46.600 universe kind of gives you what you want and then 0:01:46.680 --> 0:01:50.720 takes it away hard one? Yeah, very disappointing. And then 0:01:50.800 --> 0:01:53.640 also what do you do about a cheating best friend, 0:01:54.000 --> 0:01:58.720 especially when it involves marriage and children? Yeah? 0:01:59.160 --> 0:02:01.840 Emphasis on the qualified guys. 0:02:01.280 --> 0:02:04.360 So unqualified guys. It's a bit yeah, I don't want 0:02:04.360 --> 0:02:06.520 to say fun one now it's a bit of an 0:02:06.560 --> 0:02:10.680 interesting one. But quickly a tear Happy New Year, Happy 0:02:10.720 --> 0:02:11.200 New Year? 0:02:15.560 --> 0:02:19.320 Can you tell this is recordedpording, guys where I'm. 0:02:19.200 --> 0:02:20.720 Not even going to try and lie to you guys. 0:02:20.760 --> 0:02:22.639 But also when you listen to this Happy New Year, 0:02:23.200 --> 0:02:25.480 I can't update your my New Year because I'm still 0:02:25.520 --> 0:02:26.760 stuck in twenty twenty two. 0:02:27.480 --> 0:02:29.080 New Year's update coming next week? 0:02:29.440 --> 0:02:31.760 Yes, amazing. Do you want to give them a quick 0:02:31.840 --> 0:02:34.000 wreck or we've got no rex. 0:02:34.360 --> 0:02:37.840 If you haven't already watched Wednesday on Netflix, you can't. 0:02:37.919 --> 0:02:46.639 Just really I love that though, Yeah, my rec will 0:02:46.720 --> 0:02:50.080 be the do it for your Future Self course because 0:02:50.120 --> 0:02:52.040 we'll be in the middle of it. I'll finally have 0:02:52.120 --> 0:02:54.280 been able to do it because Georgie hasn't let me 0:02:54.320 --> 0:02:57.360 do it yet, and I just know it's so good. 0:02:58.320 --> 0:03:02.480 Oh, you're so funny, shameless pug. Yes, guys, So the 0:03:02.560 --> 0:03:05.839 do It for Your Future Self course is still available. 0:03:06.080 --> 0:03:08.959 The price does increase literally in the next couple of days. 0:03:09.000 --> 0:03:11.320 So if you want to get clear on your twenty 0:03:11.360 --> 0:03:13.959 twenty three, if you want to, you know, make a 0:03:14.040 --> 0:03:17.280 plan and be very intentionable and just do things a 0:03:17.320 --> 0:03:19.680 little bit differently. This year, we do have a seven 0:03:19.800 --> 0:03:23.320 day mini course where a module opens each day. It's 0:03:23.360 --> 0:03:26.040 only thirty minutes and it's all about getting clear and 0:03:26.080 --> 0:03:28.880 really being intentional with this new year and just having 0:03:28.960 --> 0:03:30.680 a bit of a plan, having a bit of a 0:03:30.720 --> 0:03:35.200 guide map so you can make this year magical and 0:03:35.320 --> 0:03:37.800 we will put the links in the show notes. Also 0:03:37.960 --> 0:03:43.040 very exciting. The project is coming back for round six enrollment. 0:03:43.560 --> 0:03:47.800 Very exciting. This is our manifesting course and we'll have 0:03:47.840 --> 0:03:50.280 more details of when the car opens. It's not starting 0:03:50.320 --> 0:03:52.400 to feb so we just wanted to give you guys, 0:03:52.720 --> 0:03:54.760 you know, a bit of time because we know it's 0:03:54.800 --> 0:03:58.800 an investment of your time and energy, and it's you know, 0:03:58.880 --> 0:04:00.880 it's a life changing call. But we just wanted to 0:04:00.920 --> 0:04:03.160 keep you notice. But yeah, I really hope you're enjoying 0:04:03.200 --> 0:04:06.480 your new year, and I hope you enjoy this little hotline, 0:04:06.720 --> 0:04:15.840 and yeah, we'll be back in your ears next Tuesday. 0:04:17.120 --> 0:04:22.400 So our first question was starting with some quick fire ones. 0:04:22.960 --> 0:04:25.720 What are your New Year's resolutions? 0:04:26.440 --> 0:04:28.800 M do you want to go first? You want me, Joe, 0:04:28.920 --> 0:04:31.520 you go first. I wonder if we'll have similar I 0:04:31.520 --> 0:04:32.440 feel like you know mine? 0:04:33.000 --> 0:04:33.440 Not really? 0:04:33.680 --> 0:04:36.680 No, all right, let's get into it. So I'm excited 0:04:36.720 --> 0:04:39.880 to answer this because I'm going to completely be a 0:04:39.920 --> 0:04:42.359 bit crazy. And I think I've said this in a 0:04:42.360 --> 0:04:47.000 previous episode, but when I did that night away with 0:04:47.040 --> 0:04:49.800 my girlfriend, and you know, I had already planned the 0:04:49.880 --> 0:04:52.799 year for Naked Harvest and RNC and had my goals 0:04:52.800 --> 0:04:56.000 for that, but I hadn't done anything personally, and so 0:04:56.160 --> 0:04:57.479 for me, and I'm just going to go through my 0:04:57.520 --> 0:04:59.440 personal goals because others will be here all day if 0:04:59.480 --> 0:05:03.320 we're going through all my business Jesus Frost, very exciting 0:05:03.320 --> 0:05:07.240 things happening, but personally a big thing for me and 0:05:07.360 --> 0:05:13.680 my like New Year's Resolutions is really about stepping into 0:05:15.320 --> 0:05:22.359 the unknown and absolutely trusting, like full body trusting, because 0:05:22.360 --> 0:05:24.520 I don't think I've ever done this, because I've always 0:05:24.600 --> 0:05:28.160 had some sort of line, some sort of rope of 0:05:28.240 --> 0:05:30.440 where I was going, so I kind of knew. But 0:05:31.320 --> 0:05:35.919 I'm just going to like create space, have such a 0:05:36.080 --> 0:05:40.039 strong intention, and just let the universe do its thing. 0:05:40.480 --> 0:05:41.839 I can't wait to see what happened. 0:05:43.200 --> 0:05:46.920 So like literally I've said to the universe, I've done 0:05:46.920 --> 0:05:49.240 a lot of this in the new do it for 0:05:49.360 --> 0:05:53.680 your future self. Course of like I'm not clear on 0:05:53.880 --> 0:05:56.640 like the visuals, because I was even having this conversation 0:05:57.160 --> 0:05:59.960 with Cooper because human actually just made a beautiful couples 0:06:00.080 --> 0:06:03.359 vision board together. Oh I know, so sweet, And I 0:06:03.440 --> 0:06:05.159 was explaining because he's like, you need to do it, 0:06:05.200 --> 0:06:07.720 and I was like, pes, get yourself a brother who 0:06:07.800 --> 0:06:08.760 makes a vision bond. 0:06:10.600 --> 0:06:10.960 Vibes. 0:06:11.960 --> 0:06:14.479 I'm sorry that was a ran. I'm not actually doing 0:06:14.520 --> 0:06:17.960 the vision board this year. Previous years very much help me. 0:06:18.080 --> 0:06:22.799 I vibe it, but I can't actually put a picture 0:06:23.120 --> 0:06:26.480 on the vision board because I feel like this year 0:06:27.080 --> 0:06:31.839 that would be limiting myself. Does that make sense? You're 0:06:31.880 --> 0:06:35.560 like one level up further I'm so much further than 0:06:35.600 --> 0:06:39.039 you guys. I'm my god to know I'll still be 0:06:39.080 --> 0:06:42.680 doing the vision bond. But it's like, intuitively, it just 0:06:42.720 --> 0:06:45.839 feels like I'm clear on the vibe, and the vibe 0:06:46.080 --> 0:06:50.400 is super strong with my boundaries, super strong with knowing 0:06:50.480 --> 0:06:55.520 my worth, super strong with my priorities of family time 0:06:56.400 --> 0:07:01.760 obviously ivy and tim yeah, my happiness, my own time yeah, 0:07:01.800 --> 0:07:03.799 and then my businesses. 0:07:04.320 --> 0:07:08.760 And value them all equally well yeah, like giving more 0:07:08.800 --> 0:07:12.120 time to your family or just it's just about. 0:07:11.840 --> 0:07:14.960 Being so strong in those parties. So when opportunities come 0:07:15.120 --> 0:07:18.640 or decisions come, I look at them and I'm like, hey, 0:07:18.960 --> 0:07:21.000 is this going to honor my parities? 0:07:21.120 --> 0:07:21.400 Yeah? 0:07:21.480 --> 0:07:23.440 Or is this going to take away from them? Or 0:07:23.480 --> 0:07:27.480 is this in an even energy exchange. That's a huge 0:07:27.560 --> 0:07:31.160 thing that I'm like leaning into because I think previous 0:07:31.240 --> 0:07:34.280 years I get I get really excited about shiny things. 0:07:35.360 --> 0:07:40.480 Oh my god, they really get me, and I like 0:07:40.560 --> 0:07:43.160 go off chasing the shiny thing, where in reality it's 0:07:43.200 --> 0:07:46.840 like I didn't really like go within and be like 0:07:47.160 --> 0:07:49.520 is this really a party? Is this really the thing 0:07:49.560 --> 0:07:51.720 I want? Or is it just because it's on someone 0:07:51.760 --> 0:07:55.960 else's vision board or someone else has had that success. Yeah, 0:07:56.000 --> 0:07:59.840 so really like she's she's in like the inner layers. 0:08:00.800 --> 0:08:02.680 And it's the first time I felt like this and 0:08:02.720 --> 0:08:05.600 the first time I've gone and I've said no to 0:08:05.680 --> 0:08:09.000 a lot of things already. I usually have like my 0:08:09.040 --> 0:08:12.440 whole you know, year planned out, even personally, and I've 0:08:12.480 --> 0:08:16.240 gone no, I'm going to just be really really strong 0:08:16.520 --> 0:08:20.160 on the energy I'm attracting, fucking leave some space for 0:08:20.240 --> 0:08:22.920 once and literally just see what happens. And I'm just 0:08:22.920 --> 0:08:23.560 so excited. 0:08:23.800 --> 0:08:25.040 That is so exciting. 0:08:25.320 --> 0:08:27.960 But it's weird though, because I love a vision board. 0:08:28.040 --> 0:08:34.280 I love like specific things and numbers and like specifics. 0:08:34.520 --> 0:08:37.040 I love the control. So I'm letting go of the 0:08:37.040 --> 0:08:40.439 control and I'm leaning into of I know, the vibe 0:08:40.920 --> 0:08:44.120 and vibe check and every time something comes along, is this, 0:08:44.520 --> 0:08:46.480 you know I love that what I said I'm going 0:08:46.559 --> 0:08:49.040 to do, or is this kind of a sparkly thing 0:08:49.559 --> 0:08:52.040 that is just going to leave to me feeling like 0:08:52.120 --> 0:08:58.760 empty m super blank. So yeah, that is like, that's 0:08:58.960 --> 0:09:01.559 my vibe for next year. Are very different something I've 0:09:01.559 --> 0:09:05.160 never done. Look, I hope I am continuing to be 0:09:05.240 --> 0:09:07.600 accountable to this, so I will check in with you guys. 0:09:07.640 --> 0:09:10.520 Obviously this year and we'll kind of see how this changes, 0:09:10.559 --> 0:09:13.240 because this is another thing to and obviously speak about 0:09:13.800 --> 0:09:15.520 this a lot in my Do It for your Future 0:09:15.559 --> 0:09:19.600 self course and the project of if you are feeling 0:09:19.679 --> 0:09:22.440 out of alignment and things just aren't feeling good, it 0:09:22.559 --> 0:09:25.200 is usually because you have shifted or you've gone to 0:09:25.240 --> 0:09:28.560 a new season and it's time to change things. It's 0:09:28.600 --> 0:09:31.280 time to ask your why again. It's time to get 0:09:31.320 --> 0:09:34.520 back to those basics, check in with yourself and be like, hey, 0:09:34.920 --> 0:09:39.240 are my priorities in my reality actually reflecting my priorities 0:09:39.280 --> 0:09:39.880 in my heart? 0:09:41.760 --> 0:09:46.520 Yeah? What about your tire, I've got two bigorizations. 0:09:46.760 --> 0:09:48.560 Yeah, they better not to be ado. 0:09:50.000 --> 0:09:51.280 That would be a resolute. 0:09:51.520 --> 0:09:52.640 This is a really big. 0:09:52.440 --> 0:09:57.680 Goal in my Like, yeah, kind might be here forever, 0:10:00.200 --> 0:10:02.840 but we were a family. We are family. 0:10:03.120 --> 0:10:04.560 Okay, Okay, I'm joking. 0:10:05.160 --> 0:10:10.680 My two big resolutions are. Number one, which was inspired 0:10:10.720 --> 0:10:16.000 from an episode, is making my word law I love. 0:10:16.480 --> 0:10:17.960 Yeah. 0:10:18.760 --> 0:10:20.520 That is a big one for me because I think 0:10:20.559 --> 0:10:23.720 it's something that I've really not done and I need 0:10:23.720 --> 0:10:25.800 to and I need to be able to set that 0:10:25.840 --> 0:10:28.680 standard for myself in that I'm the only person that 0:10:28.720 --> 0:10:32.240 can hold myself accountable. I'm the only person I have 0:10:32.320 --> 0:10:33.720 to answer to it at the end of the day. 0:10:33.840 --> 0:10:35.480 And it's like respecting yourself. 0:10:35.679 --> 0:10:38.360 Yeah, respecting myself. And I really want to work on 0:10:38.400 --> 0:10:40.440 that because I think that I'm not very good at 0:10:40.480 --> 0:10:44.680 it at the moment. And then like a boundary to yes, 0:10:44.720 --> 0:10:48.800 absolutely self boundary. And my second one is to become 0:10:49.200 --> 0:10:54.040 better at letting things happen and feeling good when things 0:10:54.080 --> 0:10:54.559 go wrong. 0:10:56.600 --> 0:10:58.199 I tear your life happens for us, I. 0:10:58.160 --> 0:11:01.000 Know, and I just want to embrace that. And I 0:11:01.120 --> 0:11:03.400 want to. I love that because I'm good at it. 0:11:03.440 --> 0:11:06.200 In certain aspects. I'm like, that's fine, we'll work around it. 0:11:06.240 --> 0:11:09.319 But then in other things, it just and it's because 0:11:09.320 --> 0:11:11.439 I've got steps planned out, and then if a step 0:11:11.440 --> 0:11:13.959 gets knocked out, I'm like, well, this is shit. Nothing 0:11:13.960 --> 0:11:17.400 I'm gonna go right anymore. But it always ends up 0:11:17.440 --> 0:11:18.000 working out. 0:11:18.200 --> 0:11:20.680 So life is a mystery and we need to embrace it. 0:11:20.800 --> 0:11:22.240 Yeah, So that's my second one. 0:11:22.280 --> 0:11:24.520 I love that. That's literally like what we're talking about 0:11:24.520 --> 0:11:26.199 before with our U know whatce. 0:11:27.480 --> 0:11:29.439 We can't say yeah, should we tell them? 0:11:29.600 --> 0:11:35.040 No, guys, we have an exciting product coming out. I'm 0:11:35.040 --> 0:11:37.120 not going to tell them what it is, tell them 0:11:37.120 --> 0:11:40.080 the story and literally this is like our first for us. 0:11:40.160 --> 0:11:42.800 Were so excited, so much fucking time and energy has 0:11:42.840 --> 0:11:45.079 gone into this, and we like get it, and it's 0:11:45.400 --> 0:11:46.920 wrong in. 0:11:46.960 --> 0:11:51.319 It the part of it that's wrong. The text on 0:11:51.360 --> 0:11:54.960 it literally says my favorite quote, life happens for me, 0:11:56.200 --> 0:11:58.120 and that part of the product is wrong, and we're 0:11:58.160 --> 0:11:59.679 trying to get mad, but then we're like. 0:12:00.240 --> 0:12:03.480 But it's just kind of funny. I just and I 0:12:03.600 --> 0:12:07.600 just have no like wits left, like, oh look, it's 0:12:07.679 --> 0:12:11.040 kind of fucking funny. And also life does happen for us. 0:12:11.080 --> 0:12:13.040 So obviously that was not meant to launch when we 0:12:13.080 --> 0:12:14.840 thought it was gonna launch, and it's gonna launch some 0:12:14.880 --> 0:12:19.040 other time and it's gonna be amazing. Yes, I love 0:12:19.080 --> 0:12:21.559 those New Year's resolutions. They are two great ones. 0:12:21.679 --> 0:12:22.880 I love yours. I'm excited. 0:12:22.960 --> 0:12:24.959 I'm gonna really keep you accountable and be like a 0:12:25.080 --> 0:12:26.920 tear is your word law. 0:12:27.360 --> 0:12:30.320 I know I'm going to say to work on that one. 0:12:31.040 --> 0:12:34.440 I think so. I've maybe we'll do monthly news resolution 0:12:34.600 --> 0:12:36.320 check ins on the podcast make. 0:12:36.240 --> 0:12:39.440 It Happen, put in your little sheet. 0:12:40.800 --> 0:12:46.520 All right, next year, what is the most powerful thing 0:12:46.640 --> 0:12:48.920 I can do? Now to propel me to achieve my 0:12:49.000 --> 0:12:50.440 news resolutions this year. 0:12:51.480 --> 0:12:55.880 Oh, I love this question. I think the most powerful 0:12:56.040 --> 0:12:59.520 thing you can do is well, I think the most 0:12:59.559 --> 0:13:04.400 powerful you can do is like obviously get clear on 0:13:04.640 --> 0:13:08.120 what you want. That's like the huge big thing of 0:13:08.160 --> 0:13:11.520 like get really clear and not even like the specifics 0:13:11.559 --> 0:13:14.320 like I would get clear on like the feeling you 0:13:14.360 --> 0:13:18.600 were wanting to attract. Yeah, and also obviously we do 0:13:18.640 --> 0:13:20.320 this and then do it for your future self course 0:13:20.360 --> 0:13:21.840 of like wit just stell. 0:13:21.720 --> 0:13:24.720 Seventy seven dollars and seventy seven cents. 0:13:24.880 --> 0:13:28.080 Quick in the course, Like we talk about life buckets, 0:13:28.120 --> 0:13:31.880 and it's really about creating goals that are well rounded 0:13:32.200 --> 0:13:35.160 and not just like a specific thing. Because a big 0:13:35.240 --> 0:13:38.760 learning curve that I've had is like I'll have these amazing, 0:13:39.040 --> 0:13:43.400 you know, goals that are very high achieving, and I'll 0:13:43.440 --> 0:13:46.960 reach them, and i won't feel as good because I've 0:13:47.080 --> 0:13:50.120 let a lot of other shit slide and like be 0:13:50.240 --> 0:13:52.440 less important when that was actually really important to me. 0:13:52.520 --> 0:13:54.679 So like creating you know, getting clear on what you 0:13:54.720 --> 0:13:57.120 actually want and creating well rounded goals around it. But 0:13:57.720 --> 0:14:00.600 I don't know the biggest, biggest thing to like move 0:14:00.679 --> 0:14:04.720 the needle forward is like checking in with yourself with 0:14:05.120 --> 0:14:12.080 your intention of that goal or where you're going more regularly, Yeah, 0:14:12.280 --> 0:14:15.439 don't you reckon instead of just like setting and forgetting. 0:14:15.920 --> 0:14:19.400 It's like, so something new I'm doing. Let me go 0:14:19.480 --> 0:14:22.160 to my calendar and I put this in when I 0:14:22.200 --> 0:14:25.440 had that weekend with my bestie, because like the vibe 0:14:25.440 --> 0:14:29.920 for me is my goals might change. I'm going to change, 0:14:29.960 --> 0:14:32.320 like I've noticed so much. This is so relevant to 0:14:32.360 --> 0:14:35.320 me now becoming a mom of like life does change. 0:14:35.360 --> 0:14:39.040 And if you're got this goal over here and it's 0:14:39.080 --> 0:14:42.360 actually no longer important to you or what you need 0:14:42.400 --> 0:14:44.320 in that moment, but you're trying to get it, things 0:14:44.320 --> 0:14:46.040 are going to feel hard, they're going to feel like 0:14:46.080 --> 0:14:48.600 a slog, and they're not going to be great. So 0:14:48.960 --> 0:14:51.640 literally every single month, so I've got this thing that 0:14:51.680 --> 0:14:55.320 says monthly audit, go of your buckets, go of your goals, 0:14:55.640 --> 0:14:56.760 what's working. 0:14:56.520 --> 0:14:58.280 What isn't. I love it. 0:14:58.320 --> 0:15:00.880 I've got it every single month. So it's like checking 0:15:01.000 --> 0:15:05.200 in with that intention, having a you know, Google Cow moment, 0:15:05.320 --> 0:15:08.520 checking with the attention and just like seeing where your 0:15:08.760 --> 0:15:13.040 energy currently is because you know where intention goes. Energy 0:15:13.080 --> 0:15:16.800 flows like that so that's like a huge thing of 0:15:16.920 --> 0:15:21.000 just being very intentional. I don't know that did that 0:15:21.080 --> 0:15:22.160 kind of answer the question to you? 0:15:22.360 --> 0:15:25.840 I think, so do you have any points ironic for me? 0:15:25.960 --> 0:15:27.760 But I think the most powerful thing you can do 0:15:27.840 --> 0:15:30.200 to propel yourself to achieve your goals is make your 0:15:30.200 --> 0:15:30.720 word law. 0:15:31.800 --> 0:15:32.720 Are you really into it out? 0:15:32.760 --> 0:15:38.080 You? Well, just do it, like, just fucking do it. 0:15:38.240 --> 0:15:40.280 You just have to flip the switch. And I know 0:15:40.320 --> 0:15:43.760 it's shitty to say that. There's not some magical fix. 0:15:43.880 --> 0:15:46.800 It's got to come from the inside. So find find 0:15:46.840 --> 0:15:51.920 your why, probably is probably my advice, and attach every 0:15:51.960 --> 0:15:54.080 goal to your why. And if your goal doesn't clearly 0:15:54.120 --> 0:15:56.600 attached to your why, is it actually your goal or 0:15:56.680 --> 0:15:58.320 is it something that you think you should want? 0:15:58.600 --> 0:16:01.520 Yes? Huge, huge, which love that. 0:16:01.400 --> 0:16:07.240 That's probably motive. All right, Our next question, what are 0:16:07.280 --> 0:16:09.080 you letting go of from twenty twenty two? 0:16:10.440 --> 0:16:18.400 Oh? Everything, very much literally and ready that's the noise 0:16:18.600 --> 0:16:22.840 better already here flicking gross energy off us. I'm letting 0:16:22.880 --> 0:16:26.080 go of so much. So a big thing for me 0:16:27.000 --> 0:16:34.280 in twenty twenty two was thinking I had to, like 0:16:34.320 --> 0:16:36.160 I've done so much in a work of like not 0:16:36.200 --> 0:16:38.240 putting myself in a box, and I still fucking put 0:16:38.240 --> 0:16:40.080 myself in a box, but just like it was a 0:16:40.120 --> 0:16:47.080 new box. So like we're letting go of the I 0:16:47.280 --> 0:16:49.920 have to be a certain way. A big thing for 0:16:50.000 --> 0:16:54.280 me was like mentally, I held on a lot of 0:16:54.720 --> 0:16:59.320 should in twenty twenty two of I should be creative, 0:16:59.480 --> 0:17:01.840 I should be better mum, I should be a better partner, 0:17:01.920 --> 0:17:04.200 I should do this, I should want to feel this way, 0:17:04.240 --> 0:17:06.679 blah blah blah blah, and I'm just fucking over it. 0:17:08.480 --> 0:17:11.680 And so twenty twenty three is all about meeting myself 0:17:11.760 --> 0:17:14.960 where I am. Yeah, So that's accepting my body where 0:17:14.960 --> 0:17:17.840 I am. And this isn't to say that I don't 0:17:18.000 --> 0:17:22.560 have goals and I don't have things I'm looking towards, 0:17:23.000 --> 0:17:25.679 but I'm like, I'm so I was just like so 0:17:26.119 --> 0:17:29.840 sick of myself in the way of not accepting me 0:17:30.080 --> 0:17:34.080 as I was. Because there's this beautiful saying by like 0:17:34.080 --> 0:17:37.720 like a really famous psychologist. I think it's called Carl 0:17:37.920 --> 0:17:42.760 John or I don't know anyway, but he says, like, 0:17:42.960 --> 0:17:47.359 you cannot change until you accept yourself as you are now, 0:17:48.200 --> 0:17:51.640 you cannot I'm probably butchering up anyway, And like that's 0:17:51.640 --> 0:17:54.520 such a beautiful thing of like meet yourself where you 0:17:54.560 --> 0:17:58.639 are right now and accept yourself and like embrace it. 0:17:58.680 --> 0:18:01.240 And I felt like I was an really embracing myself. 0:18:01.320 --> 0:18:03.720 Last year, I spent a lot of time chasing the 0:18:03.760 --> 0:18:07.080 old me of like trying to get back to and 0:18:07.119 --> 0:18:10.960 I'm doing quotes here, quote unquote myself pre baby. But 0:18:11.000 --> 0:18:13.639 it's like, no, fuck that we're going forward. We're meeting 0:18:13.640 --> 0:18:17.119 this new person and we're like meeting ourselves where we're at, 0:18:17.400 --> 0:18:21.919 rather than constantly putting these like pressure of myself to 0:18:22.080 --> 0:18:25.159 be a certain person. And it was always something different 0:18:25.160 --> 0:18:28.320 to what I currently was. And I'm like no, because 0:18:28.320 --> 0:18:30.920 it really messed me up mentally for a little bit there. 0:18:31.320 --> 0:18:34.680 I love that it was not good. So dropping that shit, 0:18:34.800 --> 0:18:35.520 what are you dropping? 0:18:36.359 --> 0:18:38.399 I'm dropping leaky energy? 0:18:38.920 --> 0:18:40.120 Oh yes, love. 0:18:40.400 --> 0:18:42.720 Yeah. I think it's something I've noticed that I've done 0:18:42.760 --> 0:18:45.480 a lot this year, is when I've been disappointed about 0:18:45.480 --> 0:18:49.160 something or something's gone wrong or things. 0:18:48.960 --> 0:18:49.720 You like, let it. 0:18:49.920 --> 0:18:51.520 I just really fester. 0:18:52.800 --> 0:18:53.720 What I did that. 0:18:54.240 --> 0:18:57.040 Yeah, And it's such a waste of time because the 0:18:57.119 --> 0:19:00.720 other person carries on with their life. I'm here sulking, 0:19:00.920 --> 0:19:04.600 and it's a mean any person losing out and I 0:19:04.680 --> 0:19:08.560 think just getting better at having the confidence to bring 0:19:08.640 --> 0:19:11.119 things up when they happen. If it's a problem for me, 0:19:11.440 --> 0:19:13.680 nip it in the bud and then move on, tie 0:19:13.680 --> 0:19:17.480 it up and move on, because I just don't want 0:19:17.520 --> 0:19:19.280 to feel that gross. 0:19:19.040 --> 0:19:22.800 Like yeah, and like then you get resent for and 0:19:22.840 --> 0:19:25.320 you get these feelings the other person has fucking noidy 0:19:25.320 --> 0:19:25.880 what's happening? 0:19:26.000 --> 0:19:27.760 Yeah, and then it's like too late to bring it up, 0:19:27.800 --> 0:19:30.000 and it's just the whole thing. I love that. So 0:19:30.080 --> 0:19:32.080 that's my big thing that I want to leave behind 0:19:32.080 --> 0:19:32.920 in twenty twenty two. 0:19:33.040 --> 0:19:36.080 And I think also a big thing like I resonate 0:19:36.119 --> 0:19:42.000 with that and really not letting yourself overthink things and 0:19:42.160 --> 0:19:45.040 just going like, let's just fucking call it as it is. 0:19:45.160 --> 0:19:48.640 Let's like take action now if something is bothering, talk 0:19:48.680 --> 0:19:52.239 to the person or change something, and like, yeah, not 0:19:52.320 --> 0:19:54.440 let it fester. I love that word. Yeah, well I 0:19:54.480 --> 0:19:56.160 don't love it, you know what I mean? Yeah, great 0:19:56.200 --> 0:19:56.960 describing word. 0:19:57.119 --> 0:19:57.520 Thank you. 0:19:57.680 --> 0:20:03.240 Another thing I'm letting go of is saying yes because 0:20:03.280 --> 0:20:06.359 I think I should or I think I'm gonna like 0:20:06.480 --> 0:20:09.400 let the person down, or like this weird people pleasing 0:20:09.480 --> 0:20:13.760 energy which i've randomly picked up last year. I've never 0:20:13.800 --> 0:20:16.399 been like a people pleas and I've really picked up 0:20:16.400 --> 0:20:21.320 people pleasing energy. Fuck, so we're not doing that. And 0:20:21.359 --> 0:20:24.159 like twenty twenty three is all about if it's not 0:20:24.240 --> 0:20:27.080 a hell, yes, it's a no. I love if it's 0:20:27.119 --> 0:20:30.720 not a fuck, yes it's no, and just like being 0:20:30.800 --> 0:20:34.359 so unapologetic and just being like, you know, let's say 0:20:34.400 --> 0:20:37.280 it is someone else. It's just like, hey, I'm not 0:20:37.320 --> 0:20:40.119 currently in that season, that's not on my party, so 0:20:40.200 --> 0:20:43.040 I'm gonna have to decline or not do that thing. 0:20:43.440 --> 0:20:46.639 I hope you can understand. And that's that because I 0:20:46.760 --> 0:20:49.600 just had a couple of scenarios last year when it 0:20:49.640 --> 0:20:51.760 was very like I just said yes because I thought 0:20:51.800 --> 0:20:55.560 I had to, or again like shiny things or like 0:20:55.720 --> 0:20:58.760 you know that sort of thing, and then I was 0:20:59.240 --> 0:21:03.200 stuck with resment not for the person, for myself, yeah, 0:21:03.240 --> 0:21:06.320 because I was like, Georgia, you know this, and you 0:21:06.359 --> 0:21:08.560 said yes when you knew you should have said no. 0:21:09.320 --> 0:21:13.200 And I was like angry at myself. Yeah, well, I'm 0:21:13.240 --> 0:21:20.560 just not doing it anymore. Let's get into the hotline keeers. Yes, Okay, so. 0:21:20.560 --> 0:21:22.919 Our first one this is a little bit long, but 0:21:23.000 --> 0:21:27.560 I think the context is necessary, so I need some help. 0:21:28.040 --> 0:21:31.399 I'm relatively new to manifesting, but have been really getting 0:21:31.440 --> 0:21:33.760 into it and journaling. I'm a mom of two and 0:21:33.800 --> 0:21:37.479 have been manifesting a new career with decent pay, a 0:21:37.520 --> 0:21:40.520 good working environment, and a daycare that makes my kids 0:21:40.520 --> 0:21:43.399 happy as well. In the space of a week, I 0:21:43.560 --> 0:21:46.880 found both a job I could build a career in 0:21:47.000 --> 0:21:50.320 and actually enjoy, with work from home available for some 0:21:50.359 --> 0:21:53.080 of the week. My two kids ended up in a 0:21:53.160 --> 0:21:56.840 daycare literally across the road from my new office. It 0:21:56.960 --> 0:22:00.159 all just fell into place really quickly and easily, as 0:22:00.160 --> 0:22:03.040 if the universe just had my back and knew what 0:22:03.119 --> 0:22:07.359