1 00:00:04,040 --> 00:00:06,479 Speaker 1: It's The Happy Family's Podcast. 2 00:00:07,000 --> 00:00:10,280 Speaker 2: It's the podcast for the time poor parent who just 3 00:00:10,400 --> 00:00:11,280 Speaker 2: wants answers. 4 00:00:11,360 --> 00:00:17,880 Speaker 1: Now, it's Father's Day, this coming Sunday in Australia, and well, 5 00:00:17,880 --> 00:00:20,320 Speaker 1: I'm excited about it. I love Father's Day. I love 6 00:00:20,360 --> 00:00:21,880 Speaker 1: it when the kids come and climb it a bed 7 00:00:21,880 --> 00:00:23,919 Speaker 1: and give me hugs and wrestle me and push me 8 00:00:23,920 --> 00:00:27,800 Speaker 1: out of the bed. Father's Day is a day where, hopefully, 9 00:00:27,800 --> 00:00:30,320 Speaker 1: if your family is doing well, you can really celebrate 10 00:00:30,600 --> 00:00:32,519 Speaker 1: the days in your life. And you know what Dad 11 00:00:32,520 --> 00:00:34,519 Speaker 1: always says when you say what do you want for 12 00:00:34,560 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 1: Father's Day? He always says nothing. I don't want anything. 13 00:00:39,120 --> 00:00:41,120 Speaker 1: I just want to have some nice quality time with 14 00:00:41,159 --> 00:00:45,120 Speaker 1: the kids, nice feet or two and that'll be about it. 15 00:00:45,200 --> 00:00:47,800 Speaker 1: Let's keep it low key, let's keep it relaxed. That's 16 00:00:47,840 --> 00:00:50,280 Speaker 1: a hint, by the way, a big hint from me 17 00:00:50,640 --> 00:00:52,840 Speaker 1: today in The Happy Family's Podcast, it's a two parter. 18 00:00:53,200 --> 00:00:55,080 Speaker 1: Part one, we're going to look at the history of 19 00:00:55,160 --> 00:00:58,160 Speaker 1: dad jokes and Kylie and I have a little bet going. 20 00:00:58,640 --> 00:01:00,600 Speaker 1: The bet is that I'll be a to make Kylie 21 00:01:00,680 --> 00:01:02,240 Speaker 1: laugh more than she'll be able to make me laugh 22 00:01:02,280 --> 00:01:04,800 Speaker 1: with three of the very best dad jokes that we've 23 00:01:04,800 --> 00:01:08,000 Speaker 1: been able to either recall from our growing up or 24 00:01:08,040 --> 00:01:11,160 Speaker 1: that we've been able to find as we've scoured the internet. Incidentally, Kylie, 25 00:01:11,160 --> 00:01:13,319 Speaker 1: did your dad have a classic dad joke that you 26 00:01:13,440 --> 00:01:14,840 Speaker 1: used to hear over and over again? 27 00:01:15,319 --> 00:01:17,520 Speaker 2: No, I don't think my dad was ever into dad jokes. 28 00:01:17,840 --> 00:01:20,039 Speaker 1: Well, I have a few. I got them from my 29 00:01:20,120 --> 00:01:22,800 Speaker 1: dad and I've passed them down to our children and 30 00:01:22,920 --> 00:01:25,000 Speaker 1: I'm hoping that they will pass them to their children. 31 00:01:25,400 --> 00:01:28,120 Speaker 1: My favorite one driving along the road honk the horn. 32 00:01:28,880 --> 00:01:30,040 Speaker 1: The kids say, why'd you honk? 33 00:01:30,120 --> 00:01:30,320 Speaker 2: Dad? 34 00:01:30,360 --> 00:01:34,120 Speaker 1: And I say, saw a cow? Say kiddo, to which 35 00:01:34,160 --> 00:01:39,000 Speaker 1: they reply, what's a cow say? And I laughingly respond, 36 00:01:39,720 --> 00:01:44,240 Speaker 1: move been doing it for well, I've been doing it 37 00:01:44,280 --> 00:01:47,919 Speaker 1: for twenty five years with our kids, but my dad 38 00:01:48,680 --> 00:01:51,600 Speaker 1: from the time I was a kiddo. That was the joke. 39 00:01:52,200 --> 00:01:55,279 Speaker 1: And the other one, the other classic dad one, is Hey, Dad, 40 00:01:55,680 --> 00:01:58,440 Speaker 1: I'm hungry, to which Dad replies. 41 00:01:58,280 --> 00:01:59,279 Speaker 2: You don't look hungry. 42 00:02:00,200 --> 00:02:03,200 Speaker 1: I believe you said that. That's not what Dad saying. See, 43 00:02:03,240 --> 00:02:05,600 Speaker 1: this is why you're a mum, not a dad. Every 44 00:02:05,680 --> 00:02:07,880 Speaker 1: dad who has a child who says Dad, I'm hungry 45 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:11,760 Speaker 1: or Dad, I'm bored, Dad looks at the kid and says, Hi, hungry, 46 00:02:11,960 --> 00:02:15,480 Speaker 1: I'm Dad. I can't believe that you've missed that one. 47 00:02:16,680 --> 00:02:19,360 Speaker 1: This is going to be a long podcast, so okay, 48 00:02:19,440 --> 00:02:21,560 Speaker 1: So Part one we're going to talk We're going to 49 00:02:21,600 --> 00:02:24,560 Speaker 1: talk about the history of dad jokes. Part two we're 50 00:02:24,560 --> 00:02:27,600 Speaker 1: going to talk about creating connection with your kids if 51 00:02:27,639 --> 00:02:30,400 Speaker 1: you're a dad or you know what, just creating connection 52 00:02:30,440 --> 00:02:33,040 Speaker 1: with your kids, but especially in light of Father's Day. 53 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:35,840 Speaker 1: So would you like to know, Kylie, the history of 54 00:02:35,919 --> 00:02:36,480 Speaker 1: dad jokes? 55 00:02:37,080 --> 00:02:39,240 Speaker 2: Whether I do or not, I'm going to find out. 56 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:43,320 Speaker 1: So dad joke has been around. I mean, a dad 57 00:02:43,400 --> 00:02:45,200 Speaker 1: joke is just to play on words. It's a pun, 58 00:02:45,480 --> 00:02:50,680 Speaker 1: it's cheesy, it's intentionally meant to transgress or violate some 59 00:02:50,720 --> 00:02:54,120 Speaker 1: sort of language convention. But it's also really safe and 60 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:56,720 Speaker 1: it just shows that dad's got some humor or whoever's 61 00:02:56,720 --> 00:02:58,560 Speaker 1: doing the dad joke has got that little bit of humor. 62 00:02:59,280 --> 00:03:01,640 Speaker 1: The classic joke, which is not really a dad joke, 63 00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:04,919 Speaker 1: but the classic joke, why did the Chicken cross the 64 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:09,040 Speaker 1: road to get to the other side? Guess what year 65 00:03:09,080 --> 00:03:10,040 Speaker 1: that was first published? 66 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:12,160 Speaker 2: Well, it was Well and Sully around when I was 67 00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:16,280 Speaker 2: a little girl. Well and truly Yeah, so I'm going 68 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:18,360 Speaker 2: to say the nineteen. 69 00:03:18,040 --> 00:03:21,440 Speaker 1: Fifties, eighteen forty seven, what yeah, yeah, yeah. I mean, 70 00:03:21,919 --> 00:03:25,079 Speaker 1: the history of jokes is fascinating. But over time, dad 71 00:03:25,120 --> 00:03:28,600 Speaker 1: jokes have become increasingly popularized, especially into the nineteen hundreds. 72 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:32,760 Speaker 1: In the twentieth century, dad jokes went from they weren't 73 00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:38,080 Speaker 1: just corny punchlines. They actually became cultural currency. And this 74 00:03:38,200 --> 00:03:42,200 Speaker 1: idea of building puns in one line is into predictable jokes. 75 00:03:42,320 --> 00:03:44,920 Speaker 1: But that's the point. The point of dad joke is connection, 76 00:03:45,640 --> 00:03:49,240 Speaker 1: not complexity. The whole idea of humor is to draw 77 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:52,920 Speaker 1: people towards us. And then in the nineteen eighties, the 78 00:03:53,080 --> 00:03:57,280 Speaker 1: dad joke became a thing. It became a badge of uncoolness. 79 00:03:58,160 --> 00:04:03,520 Speaker 1: But here's the twist, the uncool became unstoppable. And now, 80 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:06,720 Speaker 1: if you're fast forward to today, dad jokes are literally 81 00:04:06,760 --> 00:04:11,920 Speaker 1: a cultural phenomenon, their memes, their merchandise. They're the glue 82 00:04:11,920 --> 00:04:15,400 Speaker 1: that binds generations. Why because in a world that's obsessed 83 00:04:15,440 --> 00:04:18,719 Speaker 1: with being edgy, dad jokes are just this beautiful, welcome 84 00:04:18,760 --> 00:04:22,240 Speaker 1: dose of wholesome, predictable humor. It's the comedy equivalent of 85 00:04:22,320 --> 00:04:26,240 Speaker 1: comfort food, and we cannot get enough so that is 86 00:04:26,279 --> 00:04:29,360 Speaker 1: my very brief history of dad jokes after doing I know. 87 00:04:29,360 --> 00:04:32,240 Speaker 2: You say we can't get enough, but I definitely had 88 00:04:32,240 --> 00:04:32,960 Speaker 2: my fast share. 89 00:04:33,240 --> 00:04:35,839 Speaker 1: You're so funny. Where is your sense of human Okay? 90 00:04:36,160 --> 00:04:40,880 Speaker 1: Three dad jokes each, three dad jokes each. You go first. 91 00:04:40,960 --> 00:04:43,279 Speaker 1: The whole object is to get me to laugh. You go, 92 00:04:43,360 --> 00:04:47,599 Speaker 1: then me, then you, then me. Okay, I'm ready. You're 93 00:04:47,680 --> 00:04:50,600 Speaker 1: laughing and you haven't even killed any one yet. Let's 94 00:04:50,600 --> 00:04:50,880 Speaker 1: hear it. 95 00:04:52,279 --> 00:04:54,160 Speaker 2: What do you call cheese that isn't yours? 96 00:04:55,360 --> 00:05:01,560 Speaker 1: I don't know, natcha cheese, nutcha cheese that was that 97 00:05:01,680 --> 00:05:04,279 Speaker 1: was really bad, but your delivery got a really big 98 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:05,200 Speaker 1: smile out of me. 99 00:05:06,960 --> 00:05:07,640 Speaker 2: You're harsh. 100 00:05:07,920 --> 00:05:08,640 Speaker 1: You want to hear my one? 101 00:05:08,720 --> 00:05:09,920 Speaker 2: No, not really. 102 00:05:11,800 --> 00:05:16,159 Speaker 1: I'm reading a book about anti gravity. It's impossible to 103 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:20,200 Speaker 1: put down. You're trying to hold it in. I can 104 00:05:20,240 --> 00:05:22,400 Speaker 1: tell by the look on your face. Okay, go again. 105 00:05:23,279 --> 00:05:25,800 Speaker 2: Okay, what do you call a person who never farts 106 00:05:25,800 --> 00:05:26,320 Speaker 2: in bubblo? 107 00:05:26,480 --> 00:05:29,560 Speaker 1: I can't believe you're asking me a question. You call 108 00:05:29,640 --> 00:05:33,400 Speaker 1: a person who I'm laughing already and I haven't even 109 00:05:33,480 --> 00:05:34,720 Speaker 1: heard the answer. 110 00:05:36,600 --> 00:05:40,279 Speaker 2: A private tutor, A private tutor. 111 00:05:40,640 --> 00:05:45,599 Speaker 1: A private tutor. The question was funnier than the answer. 112 00:05:45,600 --> 00:05:47,000 Speaker 1: I think you have to have an American accent for 113 00:05:47,040 --> 00:05:50,080 Speaker 1: that one. Not working for me. I told my wife 114 00:05:50,240 --> 00:05:54,080 Speaker 1: she was drawing her eyebrows too high. She looked surprised. 115 00:05:57,120 --> 00:05:59,040 Speaker 2: You're so bad. So good? 116 00:06:00,800 --> 00:06:05,520 Speaker 1: All right, come on, last one, last one? Yep? Do 117 00:06:05,600 --> 00:06:08,080 Speaker 1: you sound like you want to keep this going? All 118 00:06:08,080 --> 00:06:10,559 Speaker 1: of a sudden? Was the Sandwick because the sea weed? 119 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:13,200 Speaker 1: I remember that one from when I was about eight. 120 00:06:13,320 --> 00:06:15,880 Speaker 2: I never heard that one. Okay, well, I have to 121 00:06:15,880 --> 00:06:17,240 Speaker 2: have another one because you already near that one. 122 00:06:17,279 --> 00:06:17,760 Speaker 1: No, no, no, no no. 123 00:06:17,960 --> 00:06:19,440 Speaker 2: I think the scarecrow went an award. 124 00:06:20,080 --> 00:06:23,080 Speaker 1: I was outstanding in its field, all right. Last one, 125 00:06:23,920 --> 00:06:28,479 Speaker 1: last one. I'm afraid for the calendar. It's days a number. 126 00:06:29,200 --> 00:06:29,960 Speaker 2: Boom boom. 127 00:06:30,000 --> 00:06:33,760 Speaker 1: Oh gosh, gee, you literally cannot laugh at any of 128 00:06:33,760 --> 00:06:36,760 Speaker 1: my jokes. I think that's so funny. What about our ceilings? 129 00:06:36,760 --> 00:06:38,240 Speaker 1: You like our ceiling? I mean, I'm not saying it's 130 00:06:38,240 --> 00:06:39,720 Speaker 1: the best in the world, but sure is up there. 131 00:06:40,680 --> 00:06:43,200 Speaker 1: Did you hear about the cheese that went to the gym? 132 00:06:43,440 --> 00:06:47,040 Speaker 2: It got shredded? I kept your day job, all right? 133 00:06:47,080 --> 00:06:50,000 Speaker 1: After break, we're going to talk about how you can 134 00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:59,720 Speaker 1: build connection with your kids. This Father's Day. All right, Kylie, 135 00:06:59,720 --> 00:07:02,280 Speaker 1: the jokes were a dismal failure, at least on my part. 136 00:07:02,440 --> 00:07:04,400 Speaker 1: I thought I thought I picked some really good ones. 137 00:07:04,600 --> 00:07:06,760 Speaker 1: I really liked my dad jokes. You didn't like them 138 00:07:06,760 --> 00:07:10,119 Speaker 1: at all. Did you hear about the kidnapping at school? 139 00:07:10,160 --> 00:07:11,680 Speaker 2: What kind of dog come from the bathroom? 140 00:07:12,760 --> 00:07:16,000 Speaker 1: Let's first to be talking about other stuff here, Boodle, 141 00:07:16,640 --> 00:07:19,600 Speaker 1: Oh that's gross. Did you hear about the kidnapping at school? 142 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:20,440 Speaker 2: It was? 143 00:07:20,520 --> 00:07:23,400 Speaker 1: Okay? He woke up. You're laughing at that one? You 144 00:07:23,560 --> 00:07:24,080 Speaker 1: like that one? 145 00:07:24,320 --> 00:07:27,200 Speaker 2: No, I'm not laughing, all right. 146 00:07:27,200 --> 00:07:29,080 Speaker 1: So so stop reading. We're doing a podcast here. We 147 00:07:29,120 --> 00:07:32,520 Speaker 1: need to talk about building connection. We need to talk 148 00:07:32,600 --> 00:07:35,800 Speaker 1: about building connection with kids. I'm going to go over 149 00:07:35,800 --> 00:07:37,400 Speaker 1: a couple of things real quick. You can add some 150 00:07:37,440 --> 00:07:38,960 Speaker 1: color where you want. We're going to wrap this one 151 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:41,320 Speaker 1: up nice and quickly, because we talk about connection all 152 00:07:41,320 --> 00:07:43,800 Speaker 1: the time. First of all, definition connection means feeling seen, 153 00:07:43,920 --> 00:07:46,400 Speaker 1: hurt and valued. Okay, that's what we're looking for. How 154 00:07:46,400 --> 00:07:49,640 Speaker 1: do you build a relationship that feels connective, That is, 155 00:07:49,680 --> 00:07:52,040 Speaker 1: that feels like you and your children are both feeling seen, 156 00:07:52,120 --> 00:07:55,559 Speaker 1: hurt and valued in that relationship. Kids love to im 157 00:07:55,960 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 1: quality time together that is it, playing sports, going for hikes, 158 00:08:00,240 --> 00:08:02,720 Speaker 1: playing board games around the table or card games around 159 00:08:02,720 --> 00:08:05,760 Speaker 1: the table, cooking together, watching a movie and talking about 160 00:08:05,760 --> 00:08:08,320 Speaker 1: it afterwards. Playing push Dad off the bed, which is 161 00:08:08,320 --> 00:08:10,320 Speaker 1: what the kids have really started to enjoy with me lately, 162 00:08:11,160 --> 00:08:12,960 Speaker 1: when we used to play it years ago, and then 163 00:08:13,040 --> 00:08:14,640 Speaker 1: phones got in the way, and we've got rid of phones, 164 00:08:14,640 --> 00:08:16,040 Speaker 1: and all of a sudden, things are so much better. 165 00:08:16,600 --> 00:08:20,720 Speaker 1: Quality time, Quality time, t Im. That's how love is spelt. 166 00:08:20,960 --> 00:08:23,200 Speaker 2: Just the other day, I was talking to her eldest, Chanelle, 167 00:08:23,520 --> 00:08:25,040 Speaker 2: who just acknowledged that. 168 00:08:25,240 --> 00:08:26,880 Speaker 1: And she's in her mid twenties now with her own 169 00:08:26,960 --> 00:08:30,320 Speaker 1: child and husband like living her life. 170 00:08:30,480 --> 00:08:34,400 Speaker 2: She actually just mentioned that she thinks that each of 171 00:08:34,760 --> 00:08:39,679 Speaker 2: her siblings, including herself, just crave time with you because 172 00:08:39,720 --> 00:08:43,080 Speaker 2: it's such it's almost a novelty. Mum is there all 173 00:08:43,120 --> 00:08:45,600 Speaker 2: the time, she's in the kitchen, she's you know, kind 174 00:08:45,600 --> 00:08:47,440 Speaker 2: of doing all of the running around a lot of 175 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:47,840 Speaker 2: the time. 176 00:08:48,040 --> 00:08:49,599 Speaker 1: For it is worth I get in the kitchen and 177 00:08:49,600 --> 00:08:51,960 Speaker 1: just some running around as well. But your point is 178 00:08:52,000 --> 00:08:55,680 Speaker 1: that dads are often often less present than mums, not always, 179 00:08:55,679 --> 00:08:57,000 Speaker 1: but often less present mums. 180 00:08:57,760 --> 00:09:01,400 Speaker 2: And it just made me think about my experiences as 181 00:09:01,480 --> 00:09:06,600 Speaker 2: I was growing up and the acknowledgment that spending time 182 00:09:06,640 --> 00:09:09,560 Speaker 2: with dad was a novelty, but it was also the 183 00:09:09,640 --> 00:09:11,480 Speaker 2: thing that I longed for the most. 184 00:09:11,960 --> 00:09:15,280 Speaker 1: One of our friends, Rob, he passed away. I don't know, 185 00:09:15,400 --> 00:09:18,840 Speaker 1: like ten twelve years ago. Now he wasn't I think 186 00:09:18,840 --> 00:09:21,840 Speaker 1: he'd just reached fifty or he wasn't quite fifty. But 187 00:09:21,880 --> 00:09:24,320 Speaker 1: I remember distinctly. Rob used to make a point of 188 00:09:24,360 --> 00:09:27,200 Speaker 1: sitting on the couch with nothing to do whenever he could, Like, 189 00:09:27,240 --> 00:09:29,679 Speaker 1: he just sit down on the couch in the living room. 190 00:09:29,720 --> 00:09:31,240 Speaker 1: And it wasn't because he was lazy. It was because 191 00:09:31,280 --> 00:09:33,200 Speaker 1: he knew that the kids would walk through the living 192 00:09:33,280 --> 00:09:35,080 Speaker 1: room and see him there, and they'd come and sit 193 00:09:35,120 --> 00:09:37,400 Speaker 1: beside him and start talking. He didn't intrude on them, 194 00:09:37,400 --> 00:09:40,280 Speaker 1: but he made himself available. And because we're going back 195 00:09:40,320 --> 00:09:42,400 Speaker 1: that far, phones weren't really an issue, and so the 196 00:09:42,440 --> 00:09:44,040 Speaker 1: kids would they'd walk through the living room and see 197 00:09:44,120 --> 00:09:46,400 Speaker 1: him and say, oh hey, Dad, and he'd say watch 198 00:09:46,480 --> 00:09:48,760 Speaker 1: up to and then come and sit down and he'd 199 00:09:48,760 --> 00:09:50,880 Speaker 1: have that one on one time. He was just so present. 200 00:09:51,080 --> 00:09:52,880 Speaker 1: And I wrote about it in one of my books 201 00:09:52,880 --> 00:09:57,480 Speaker 1: because I was so impressed with that second thing emotional connection, listening, 202 00:09:57,760 --> 00:10:00,640 Speaker 1: actively listening, showing interest, asked him about their their friends, 203 00:10:00,679 --> 00:10:02,400 Speaker 1: their interests. I guess that's an extension of what I 204 00:10:02,440 --> 00:10:06,080 Speaker 1: was talking about with Rob. And the third and final 205 00:10:06,080 --> 00:10:07,400 Speaker 1: thing that I want to highlight. I mean, we could 206 00:10:07,400 --> 00:10:10,160 Speaker 1: talk about so many things outdoor adventures and family traditions 207 00:10:10,160 --> 00:10:13,120 Speaker 1: and just being involved in their lives and participating in 208 00:10:13,320 --> 00:10:15,000 Speaker 1: school assemblies and things. But the last thing that I 209 00:10:15,000 --> 00:10:18,160 Speaker 1: want to highlight kind of brings our podcast full circle, 210 00:10:18,760 --> 00:10:22,920 Speaker 1: and that is finding opportunities to laugh and have fun. 211 00:10:23,480 --> 00:10:25,400 Speaker 1: The more I've been thinking about this over the last 212 00:10:25,400 --> 00:10:28,280 Speaker 1: couple of months, following on from a seminar that I 213 00:10:28,320 --> 00:10:30,079 Speaker 1: ran where I was asked this question, how do I 214 00:10:30,120 --> 00:10:34,120 Speaker 1: connect better with my kids? There's all these really sensible answers, 215 00:10:35,120 --> 00:10:37,040 Speaker 1: but I feel like the best connections happen when we 216 00:10:37,160 --> 00:10:39,480 Speaker 1: just are enjoying one other's company, when we're laughing, when 217 00:10:39,520 --> 00:10:43,880 Speaker 1: we're telling bad jokes, when we're wrestling, when we're having fun, 218 00:10:43,880 --> 00:10:46,480 Speaker 1: when they're smiles in our faces, and we're just fully 219 00:10:46,559 --> 00:10:47,840 Speaker 1: in the moment, fully present. 220 00:10:48,120 --> 00:10:50,240 Speaker 2: I read an article recently and I shared it with you. 221 00:10:50,640 --> 00:10:53,839 Speaker 2: I can't remember where I read it or. 222 00:10:53,840 --> 00:10:55,840 Speaker 1: Even overload of information a lot. 223 00:10:55,720 --> 00:10:59,080 Speaker 2: Of all the details, but I do remember the acknowledgment 224 00:10:59,559 --> 00:11:03,880 Speaker 2: that the bonding that takes place between a mother and 225 00:11:04,080 --> 00:11:11,160 Speaker 2: child is that of a nurturing and as mothers nurture children, 226 00:11:11,920 --> 00:11:15,079 Speaker 2: you get this massive dose of oxytocin on both sides. 227 00:11:15,720 --> 00:11:16,400 Speaker 1: All that bonding. 228 00:11:16,640 --> 00:11:20,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, But for dads and kids, it's not the nurturing 229 00:11:21,160 --> 00:11:24,200 Speaker 2: where they receive that oxytocin boost. It's when they have 230 00:11:24,400 --> 00:11:29,920 Speaker 2: fun together. It's that energy of coming together and laughing 231 00:11:29,960 --> 00:11:34,120 Speaker 2: and wrestling, and it's the physicality of that relationship that 232 00:11:34,720 --> 00:11:36,160 Speaker 2: increases the level of bond. 233 00:11:36,600 --> 00:11:38,880 Speaker 1: So as we head towards Father's Day this weekend, for 234 00:11:38,960 --> 00:11:42,240 Speaker 1: our Australian audience, at least, we really hope that there's 235 00:11:42,280 --> 00:11:45,280 Speaker 1: lots of laughter, there's lots of play, there's lots of bonding, 236 00:11:45,440 --> 00:11:47,600 Speaker 1: and that you have a wonderful day. Thanks so much 237 00:11:47,600 --> 00:11:49,719 Speaker 1: for listening to the Happy Families podcast produced by Justin 238 00:11:49,800 --> 00:11:52,480 Speaker 1: Ruland from Bridge Media. 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