1 00:00:03,320 --> 00:00:06,960 Speaker 1: It's the Happy Families Podcast. It's the podcast for the 2 00:00:07,040 --> 00:00:10,000 Speaker 1: time poor parent who just wants answers. 3 00:00:10,080 --> 00:00:12,840 Speaker 2: Now, can we do like a pyramid or do we 4 00:00:12,880 --> 00:00:17,200 Speaker 2: need toimny out us? Family photos are generally quite hard 5 00:00:17,200 --> 00:00:19,280 Speaker 2: work to get them to smile, and in the past 6 00:00:19,400 --> 00:00:21,920 Speaker 2: or the photos we've got up our whole way probably 7 00:00:21,960 --> 00:00:25,319 Speaker 2: a result of Tony dropping his pants behind camera to 8 00:00:25,360 --> 00:00:27,200 Speaker 2: try and get a genuine smile. 9 00:00:26,920 --> 00:00:27,600 Speaker 3: Out of them. 10 00:00:27,640 --> 00:00:31,080 Speaker 4: Just the bottom, just the Butcher. I love Fridays. It 11 00:00:31,120 --> 00:00:33,600 Speaker 4: always feels so good. Hello. This is doctor Justin Coilson, 12 00:00:33,920 --> 00:00:35,920 Speaker 4: the fount of Happy Families dot Common. Today you and 13 00:00:35,960 --> 00:00:37,760 Speaker 4: it's so good to have you as part of the 14 00:00:37,800 --> 00:00:41,440 Speaker 4: Happy Families Podcast. Today, I'll do Better Tomorrow. Every Friday, 15 00:00:41,479 --> 00:00:43,960 Speaker 4: we reflect on what's gone well for the week that 16 00:00:44,240 --> 00:00:46,000 Speaker 4: was and try to work out how we can be 17 00:00:46,000 --> 00:00:49,159 Speaker 4: better parents moving forward. Kylie and I sat down with 18 00:00:49,159 --> 00:00:51,120 Speaker 4: our kids at the end of parental Guidance and had 19 00:00:51,120 --> 00:00:53,720 Speaker 4: a bit of a family conversation, a family meeting about 20 00:00:53,760 --> 00:00:56,120 Speaker 4: how we can make our family happier based on the 21 00:00:56,120 --> 00:00:58,480 Speaker 4: things that we learned from the TV show, and we 22 00:00:58,520 --> 00:01:00,600 Speaker 4: thought we would share some of that convers with you 23 00:01:00,640 --> 00:01:02,520 Speaker 4: with our children's permission. Of course, they knew that we 24 00:01:02,520 --> 00:01:05,319 Speaker 4: were recording it, and we wanted to share bits and 25 00:01:05,360 --> 00:01:09,000 Speaker 4: pieces of that conversation as we reflected on what the 26 00:01:09,040 --> 00:01:11,080 Speaker 4: TV show meant for us as a family and how 27 00:01:11,080 --> 00:01:13,759 Speaker 4: it can help us to be happier. So normally when 28 00:01:13,760 --> 00:01:16,640 Speaker 4: we have our family meetings, we talk about three things, 29 00:01:16,640 --> 00:01:18,440 Speaker 4: what went well, what didn't, what we're going to improve on. 30 00:01:19,120 --> 00:01:21,520 Speaker 4: We're not going to follow that exactly for this meeting, 31 00:01:21,840 --> 00:01:24,200 Speaker 4: but we're going to play around with those ideas and 32 00:01:24,240 --> 00:01:26,560 Speaker 4: see how we go. So what I would love to 33 00:01:27,360 --> 00:01:30,760 Speaker 4: have happen right now is for everyone really quickly to 34 00:01:30,840 --> 00:01:33,800 Speaker 4: introduce themselves, one after the other, from oldest to youngest. 35 00:01:33,840 --> 00:01:37,520 Speaker 5: Go Aba, I'm Annie, I'm. 36 00:01:39,840 --> 00:01:39,880 Speaker 2: So. 37 00:01:41,440 --> 00:01:43,520 Speaker 4: We've got Abby who's now an adult, Ello who will 38 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:46,200 Speaker 4: be one in the next couple of months, Annie, who 39 00:01:46,240 --> 00:01:48,360 Speaker 4: is in about to go to grade nine. Lily starts 40 00:01:48,440 --> 00:01:50,200 Speaker 4: high school next year. In Emily, what great are you 41 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:57,520 Speaker 4: going into next year? Well, okay, I had pass. Yeah, 42 00:01:57,520 --> 00:01:59,000 Speaker 4: we gave you prep twice because we wanted you to 43 00:01:59,040 --> 00:02:00,800 Speaker 4: be a bit bigger and have more time to play, 44 00:02:00,840 --> 00:02:01,240 Speaker 4: didn't we. 45 00:02:01,600 --> 00:02:03,560 Speaker 3: All right, Kylie, First question. 46 00:02:03,320 --> 00:02:06,920 Speaker 6: For the girls, Well, now that you've watched the show Girls, 47 00:02:07,560 --> 00:02:09,320 Speaker 6: what style of parents. 48 00:02:09,360 --> 00:02:12,720 Speaker 7: Do you think mummy and daddy are no idea mix 49 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:14,040 Speaker 7: of everything. 50 00:02:13,880 --> 00:02:19,359 Speaker 5: Mix of everything, free range French. 51 00:02:20,240 --> 00:02:24,880 Speaker 3: Oh you think we're friend oh, monsieur mademoiselle. 52 00:02:25,880 --> 00:02:31,600 Speaker 8: I don't think that you guys stick to one specific 53 00:02:32,080 --> 00:02:36,400 Speaker 8: parents in style, Like I've never seen parents that's set 54 00:02:36,760 --> 00:02:41,440 Speaker 8: in a style before, because my friends all take bits 55 00:02:41,480 --> 00:02:45,000 Speaker 8: and pieces from different styles, and that's kind of how 56 00:02:45,040 --> 00:02:46,680 Speaker 8: I feel like you guys do it sometimes. 57 00:02:47,320 --> 00:02:49,600 Speaker 4: Okay, so we've got French, so we treat you like 58 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:52,600 Speaker 4: you're actually adults who are capable of figuring things out. 59 00:02:52,880 --> 00:02:56,480 Speaker 3: We've got free range. We can't let you work out 60 00:02:56,520 --> 00:02:57,160 Speaker 3: your own limits. 61 00:02:57,280 --> 00:03:04,720 Speaker 5: Sometimes. Yeah, it's just different because there's some. 62 00:03:04,960 --> 00:03:08,799 Speaker 1: Days where like there's certain activities like you know that 63 00:03:08,919 --> 00:03:10,960 Speaker 1: we can do it by ourselves, so you let us 64 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:14,840 Speaker 1: go free range. And then there's other activities where you're like, okay, 65 00:03:15,000 --> 00:03:19,799 Speaker 1: we need to do this. There's definitely limits, and so 66 00:03:20,080 --> 00:03:23,280 Speaker 1: that kind of makes it difficult to pick. 67 00:03:23,120 --> 00:03:25,600 Speaker 9: Which one you are, because I'd say that the type 68 00:03:25,639 --> 00:03:27,560 Speaker 9: that you're definitely not is the helicopter. 69 00:03:28,280 --> 00:03:31,120 Speaker 5: You're definitely not wondering over us all the time. You 70 00:03:31,240 --> 00:03:33,560 Speaker 5: love it to do our own little thing, have our 71 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:36,160 Speaker 5: own little privacy and I'm alwast tanying eight. 72 00:03:37,480 --> 00:03:42,160 Speaker 3: And we're not homeschool later, No, I think that was 73 00:03:42,240 --> 00:03:43,040 Speaker 3: what you wanted to do. 74 00:03:43,360 --> 00:03:46,040 Speaker 9: Yeah, we wanted to do some of the principles of homeschool, 75 00:03:46,440 --> 00:03:48,760 Speaker 9: Like without being a homeschool parent, you have some of 76 00:03:48,840 --> 00:03:52,120 Speaker 9: the principles that she puts into her own kids, Like 77 00:03:52,280 --> 00:03:54,480 Speaker 9: you are constantly teaching us when we are at home, 78 00:03:55,560 --> 00:04:00,800 Speaker 9: and we have the same sort of relationship as siblings 79 00:04:00,920 --> 00:04:03,080 Speaker 9: as they do because of the way that they were raised. 80 00:04:03,400 --> 00:04:06,720 Speaker 6: I think I have to know who were your favorite 81 00:04:06,840 --> 00:04:08,480 Speaker 6: parents this one? 82 00:04:09,160 --> 00:04:09,600 Speaker 3: Who are they? 83 00:04:09,720 --> 00:04:09,960 Speaker 4: Lily? 84 00:04:10,800 --> 00:04:14,400 Speaker 5: So, I really like our free range parents Penny and Daniel. 85 00:04:15,320 --> 00:04:18,599 Speaker 3: I Actually she sounds like she should be on the sounds. 86 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:23,680 Speaker 3: It sounds like, why do you like them? 87 00:04:24,520 --> 00:04:24,960 Speaker 5: Biggus? 88 00:04:26,640 --> 00:04:29,640 Speaker 1: I see like I just love like she literally just 89 00:04:29,800 --> 00:04:32,680 Speaker 1: walked outside and he was at the very top of 90 00:04:32,800 --> 00:04:34,880 Speaker 1: a lamp post, and she just went, do you want 91 00:04:34,920 --> 00:04:35,719 Speaker 1: some grk and Molly? 92 00:04:36,400 --> 00:04:38,400 Speaker 5: And then she just walked back inside. She was like, 93 00:04:38,560 --> 00:04:41,720 Speaker 5: oh my gosh, she gets blunt down. She was just 94 00:04:41,880 --> 00:04:42,479 Speaker 5: really calm. 95 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:46,400 Speaker 3: She sure was What about you, Annie, I would. 96 00:04:46,240 --> 00:04:52,000 Speaker 10: Have to say either homeschooling or free range, free range, 97 00:04:52,120 --> 00:04:54,800 Speaker 10: because they're just so relaxed and they're constantly having fun 98 00:04:54,880 --> 00:04:56,040 Speaker 10: and they really don't care. 99 00:04:56,120 --> 00:04:57,479 Speaker 5: They're happy to do whatever. 100 00:04:58,320 --> 00:05:01,560 Speaker 10: And then homeschooling was just really interesting because she's a 101 00:05:01,640 --> 00:05:05,800 Speaker 10: single mom who's raising six kids, and it was just 102 00:05:05,960 --> 00:05:09,040 Speaker 10: crazy because she's doing homeschooling and I was just like, 103 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:11,560 Speaker 10: I could never see my. 104 00:05:11,720 --> 00:05:13,880 Speaker 5: Parents doing that, Like that was so cool that she's 105 00:05:13,960 --> 00:05:14,320 Speaker 5: doing that. 106 00:05:14,560 --> 00:05:16,560 Speaker 3: Thanks Annie, What. 107 00:05:16,640 --> 00:05:17,240 Speaker 5: About your girls? 108 00:05:18,160 --> 00:05:22,840 Speaker 9: I think for me it's the Routine Parents and the 109 00:05:24,279 --> 00:05:27,200 Speaker 9: homeschooling mum, because I think one of the things I 110 00:05:27,279 --> 00:05:31,560 Speaker 9: loved about the Routine Parents was the way that when 111 00:05:31,560 --> 00:05:35,840 Speaker 9: they did the Opposite Day challenge, their kids chose to 112 00:05:35,960 --> 00:05:38,000 Speaker 9: go on a date night, because I thought that that 113 00:05:38,200 --> 00:05:42,160 Speaker 9: was like, it shows that they see their parents and 114 00:05:42,279 --> 00:05:44,840 Speaker 9: how much love they have for each other, and their 115 00:05:44,920 --> 00:05:48,040 Speaker 9: parents prioritize their relationship as well as the way that 116 00:05:48,160 --> 00:05:50,200 Speaker 9: they take care of their kids, which I think is 117 00:05:50,279 --> 00:05:54,560 Speaker 9: really awesome because a lot of parents these days, at 118 00:05:54,680 --> 00:05:57,359 Speaker 9: least the ones that I see, they don't prioritize date 119 00:05:57,480 --> 00:05:59,480 Speaker 9: nights because they've got so much other stuff going on. 120 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:05,680 Speaker 6: So I'm wondering, after watching the show, what parenting style 121 00:06:05,880 --> 00:06:09,919 Speaker 6: you think you will take into your family. 122 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:15,560 Speaker 5: Free range French or routine. 123 00:06:16,480 --> 00:06:17,120 Speaker 8: Yeah, I don't know. 124 00:06:17,560 --> 00:06:21,400 Speaker 9: I don't want to be set in one way. I 125 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:26,080 Speaker 9: want to like because I like the ideas of French 126 00:06:26,240 --> 00:06:29,280 Speaker 9: and being able to treat my child like an adult. 127 00:06:29,320 --> 00:06:30,080 Speaker 8: But I also. 128 00:06:32,160 --> 00:06:35,240 Speaker 9: Of having a kid be a kid and letting them 129 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:39,880 Speaker 9: have their free range style. But I also like a routine, 130 00:06:40,040 --> 00:06:43,880 Speaker 9: and I like to stick to a routine. So I 131 00:06:44,000 --> 00:06:47,160 Speaker 9: think that the three of those all together would. 132 00:06:47,080 --> 00:06:48,479 Speaker 3: Make an interesting combination. 133 00:06:49,360 --> 00:06:53,000 Speaker 9: What about you, Ella, I like the free range because 134 00:06:53,160 --> 00:06:54,960 Speaker 9: that means that no one has to show up on 135 00:06:55,040 --> 00:06:56,120 Speaker 9: time for anything and we can. 136 00:06:56,120 --> 00:06:57,000 Speaker 5: Just got our own pace. 137 00:06:57,080 --> 00:06:57,440 Speaker 9: I love that. 138 00:06:58,440 --> 00:07:02,039 Speaker 3: I don't think I've gone to school like on time. 139 00:07:09,560 --> 00:07:10,880 Speaker 5: Yeah, I like the free range. 140 00:07:11,320 --> 00:07:13,160 Speaker 3: I keep saying on time is late. 141 00:07:14,840 --> 00:07:17,800 Speaker 5: I get to work half an hour early every day. 142 00:07:17,920 --> 00:07:21,240 Speaker 1: That's that's just over ten minutes. 143 00:07:22,440 --> 00:07:22,640 Speaker 11: Sorry. 144 00:07:22,680 --> 00:07:23,880 Speaker 3: I like that with the free range. 145 00:07:23,920 --> 00:07:27,480 Speaker 9: But then I think that all of them have their 146 00:07:27,760 --> 00:07:29,560 Speaker 9: pros and cons, and I want to take all of 147 00:07:29,600 --> 00:07:30,560 Speaker 9: the pros into that. 148 00:07:30,800 --> 00:07:34,119 Speaker 5: What about your assembly, Well, I like the free range 149 00:07:34,480 --> 00:07:35,560 Speaker 5: because in. 150 00:07:35,720 --> 00:07:38,120 Speaker 3: The because but what sort of parent do you want 151 00:07:38,160 --> 00:07:38,240 Speaker 3: to be? 152 00:07:38,800 --> 00:07:39,480 Speaker 5: I want to be. 153 00:07:40,240 --> 00:07:44,440 Speaker 11: Free range because I just want to pretend like children 154 00:07:44,520 --> 00:07:45,680 Speaker 11: can do whatever they want. 155 00:07:46,120 --> 00:07:47,800 Speaker 3: She wants to pretend she doesn't want them to. 156 00:07:47,920 --> 00:07:50,240 Speaker 5: Actually they actually can. 157 00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:53,680 Speaker 11: I mean they can do whatever they want, they can 158 00:07:53,760 --> 00:07:56,960 Speaker 11: have some fun, they can do whatever they want. 159 00:07:57,040 --> 00:07:58,080 Speaker 5: Basically, that's what. 160 00:07:58,160 --> 00:07:58,680 Speaker 2: I want to be. 161 00:07:59,320 --> 00:08:00,440 Speaker 3: None of you said that you just want to be 162 00:08:00,520 --> 00:08:02,160 Speaker 3: like Mum and dad because you're. 163 00:08:02,000 --> 00:08:03,560 Speaker 5: Not a parenting style on the show. 164 00:08:05,240 --> 00:08:10,120 Speaker 9: About parents and style on the shows style, I thought 165 00:08:10,120 --> 00:08:11,760 Speaker 9: you were going to see, he's not a parenting expert. 166 00:08:14,000 --> 00:08:17,240 Speaker 3: What I love about what you've realized girls, as you've. 167 00:08:17,120 --> 00:08:19,640 Speaker 7: Watched the show is the fact that each of the 168 00:08:19,760 --> 00:08:23,600 Speaker 7: parenting styles have really good qualities within them, and that 169 00:08:23,720 --> 00:08:27,600 Speaker 7: we don't have to be stuck into one parenting style, 170 00:08:27,680 --> 00:08:29,840 Speaker 7: that we can be a little bit of everything, and 171 00:08:29,960 --> 00:08:31,920 Speaker 7: that you recognize and see the things that Mum and 172 00:08:32,040 --> 00:08:35,040 Speaker 7: Dad do from each of the styles that add to 173 00:08:35,240 --> 00:08:37,080 Speaker 7: the qualities that we have in our home and the. 174 00:08:37,080 --> 00:08:39,040 Speaker 4: Field that we have. But what you're really saying is 175 00:08:39,080 --> 00:08:41,760 Speaker 4: that we are authoritative parents with parents who give you 176 00:08:41,800 --> 00:08:43,880 Speaker 4: lots of love, lots of limits, but also the opportunity 177 00:08:43,920 --> 00:08:44,679 Speaker 4: to develop. 178 00:08:44,400 --> 00:08:49,240 Speaker 3: Your own way for later limits. Yeah, and autonomy support. 179 00:08:49,559 --> 00:08:52,440 Speaker 6: All right, Lucky, last question, now that you've watched the show, 180 00:08:53,400 --> 00:08:55,240 Speaker 6: what's one thing you would. 181 00:08:55,120 --> 00:08:57,280 Speaker 3: Like to see our family do more. 182 00:08:57,240 --> 00:09:02,120 Speaker 5: Of well, I like to see us go swimming more. 183 00:09:03,440 --> 00:09:03,920 Speaker 3: Jumping. 184 00:09:05,480 --> 00:09:10,520 Speaker 5: Of winter, and we're about to go swimming more. There's 185 00:09:10,600 --> 00:09:14,000 Speaker 5: this thing I want to say. One week go if 186 00:09:14,080 --> 00:09:17,920 Speaker 5: we do do the do do you just say do do? 187 00:09:18,559 --> 00:09:21,640 Speaker 11: If we do the car challenge where you have to 188 00:09:21,880 --> 00:09:25,320 Speaker 11: go around under the map, I'm going to say to you, guys, 189 00:09:25,679 --> 00:09:26,560 Speaker 11: aren't taken you to. 190 00:09:31,600 --> 00:09:32,120 Speaker 10: What at you? 191 00:09:33,679 --> 00:09:36,439 Speaker 9: I don't know, because I think we should bring sweep 192 00:09:36,520 --> 00:09:37,880 Speaker 9: Saturdays back, but I don't. 193 00:09:37,679 --> 00:09:40,560 Speaker 3: Want to wake up at Hey, we've been doing super Saturdays. 194 00:09:40,640 --> 00:09:43,400 Speaker 3: You just haven't been awake for them exactly. I took 195 00:09:43,440 --> 00:09:43,959 Speaker 3: everyone out. 196 00:09:44,040 --> 00:09:46,160 Speaker 4: We bought milkshakes together that I can't believe I spent 197 00:09:46,240 --> 00:09:48,360 Speaker 4: as much on the milkshake for the family. I could 198 00:09:48,360 --> 00:09:50,319 Speaker 4: have bought ice cream and milk and topping and we 199 00:09:50,360 --> 00:09:52,360 Speaker 4: could have had milkshakes for a month at home for 200 00:09:52,480 --> 00:09:53,520 Speaker 4: what it cost for milkshakes. 201 00:09:55,640 --> 00:09:59,120 Speaker 9: Yeah, but we've got to do, he got, and then 202 00:09:59,200 --> 00:10:01,599 Speaker 9: he went back and asked them if it was the 203 00:10:01,720 --> 00:10:05,040 Speaker 9: right price for the Croisso had a three minute talk. 204 00:10:04,880 --> 00:10:07,880 Speaker 4: To the ladies saying it cost it cost eighteen dollars 205 00:10:07,960 --> 00:10:10,559 Speaker 4: for a croissant and a cupcake eighteen dollars. 206 00:10:10,600 --> 00:10:11,960 Speaker 3: I said that that doesn't make sense. 207 00:10:12,160 --> 00:10:15,120 Speaker 4: Like another price list, it said that the cupcake was 208 00:10:15,160 --> 00:10:18,839 Speaker 4: six dollars, which was just horrendous anyway, and then the 209 00:10:18,920 --> 00:10:20,679 Speaker 4: Croissan all like, so you charged me twelve dollars for 210 00:10:20,679 --> 00:10:23,080 Speaker 4: a croissant, but it said eight dollars on the price list, 211 00:10:23,520 --> 00:10:25,120 Speaker 4: And she said, I know the croissant that I gave 212 00:10:25,160 --> 00:10:26,200 Speaker 4: you has got the ham and the. 213 00:10:27,679 --> 00:10:30,319 Speaker 5: Tomato's and tomato for the vegetarian and the family. 214 00:10:30,880 --> 00:10:33,160 Speaker 4: Well, I never thought it was it was an almond croissant, 215 00:10:33,240 --> 00:10:34,719 Speaker 4: but she didn't hear me say arm, and she just 216 00:10:34,760 --> 00:10:35,600 Speaker 4: heard me say Croissan. 217 00:10:35,760 --> 00:10:37,040 Speaker 3: So she charged me twelve bucks for. 218 00:10:37,040 --> 00:10:40,840 Speaker 4: A ham, cheese and tomato, said twenty and eat because 219 00:10:40,840 --> 00:10:42,959 Speaker 4: it had what's going. 220 00:10:42,800 --> 00:10:44,920 Speaker 3: On in the world. So I gave the hand to 221 00:10:44,960 --> 00:10:46,600 Speaker 3: the dog that was sitting at the table next to us. 222 00:10:46,640 --> 00:10:49,480 Speaker 7: George, the five minute meeting that's taken twenty. 223 00:10:49,679 --> 00:10:51,320 Speaker 3: That's because your girls keep them interrupting. 224 00:10:51,600 --> 00:10:57,079 Speaker 10: Hey, honestly, I feel like more routine. I feel like 225 00:10:57,120 --> 00:10:59,679 Speaker 10: we could add more routine into our lives because. 226 00:10:59,840 --> 00:11:01,640 Speaker 5: We don't really have rig and we say that we're 227 00:11:01,640 --> 00:11:01,880 Speaker 5: going to. 228 00:11:01,880 --> 00:11:04,839 Speaker 4: Do a routine every Sunday meeting. What we decide on 229 00:11:04,920 --> 00:11:07,080 Speaker 4: we're going to get our routine happening, and guess who. 230 00:11:07,040 --> 00:11:07,559 Speaker 3: Doesn't do it? 231 00:11:10,600 --> 00:11:13,000 Speaker 5: You make up each morning and you go for a 232 00:11:13,160 --> 00:11:14,120 Speaker 5: bike ride and then. 233 00:11:14,120 --> 00:11:15,400 Speaker 3: We I've got my routine. 234 00:11:15,600 --> 00:11:18,199 Speaker 4: I have my routine, I said to Lily, And he 235 00:11:18,280 --> 00:11:20,079 Speaker 4: said that the one thing that we can improve on 236 00:11:20,080 --> 00:11:21,319 Speaker 4: and learn from the show is that we can have 237 00:11:21,440 --> 00:11:22,080 Speaker 4: more routine. 238 00:11:22,640 --> 00:11:24,079 Speaker 3: Can't believe that she said that, what about you? 239 00:11:24,200 --> 00:11:24,440 Speaker 5: Really? 240 00:11:24,520 --> 00:11:27,800 Speaker 1: Well, I don't know if this is the parenting style, 241 00:11:27,920 --> 00:11:35,160 Speaker 1: but the homeschooling and the helicopter parents, both kids on 242 00:11:35,320 --> 00:11:38,880 Speaker 1: each one were really nice and loving to each other, 243 00:11:39,160 --> 00:11:42,920 Speaker 1: like else was upset, and Gracia was like, let's just 244 00:11:43,080 --> 00:11:45,520 Speaker 1: rewind this whole thing and you can go find the keys. 245 00:11:46,280 --> 00:11:51,280 Speaker 1: And then Fletcher or Fletch, I can't remember, he jumped 246 00:11:51,320 --> 00:11:54,600 Speaker 1: over the diving order to show Lulu it was okay. 247 00:11:55,880 --> 00:11:58,600 Speaker 5: And they were just really nice and loving towards each other. 248 00:11:58,720 --> 00:12:01,280 Speaker 5: So I think we could adopt some of that into 249 00:12:01,400 --> 00:12:02,240 Speaker 5: our family. 250 00:12:02,640 --> 00:12:04,400 Speaker 3: We can always be nicer, can't we? 251 00:12:05,040 --> 00:12:06,319 Speaker 7: And that's a great. 252 00:12:08,240 --> 00:12:11,840 Speaker 5: The doctor justin Paul's podcast all the time, I think 253 00:12:12,360 --> 00:12:12,839 Speaker 5: great one. 254 00:12:13,800 --> 00:12:15,760 Speaker 4: Well, we hope that that was an interesting and helpful 255 00:12:15,800 --> 00:12:18,480 Speaker 4: conversation for you We're all about reflecting on family life 256 00:12:18,520 --> 00:12:21,040 Speaker 4: and being better, being more intentional about how we do 257 00:12:21,200 --> 00:12:23,400 Speaker 4: family life. Thank you so much for joining us for 258 00:12:23,480 --> 00:12:26,439 Speaker 4: the conversation. Enjoy your weekend. On Monday, we talk with 259 00:12:26,600 --> 00:12:29,720 Speaker 4: Kevin and Debbie, the Tiger Parents, about what they learned 260 00:12:29,720 --> 00:12:31,079 Speaker 4: from the show. We're also going to catch up with 261 00:12:31,120 --> 00:12:35,040 Speaker 4: Brett and Tony our routine parents, and Andrew and Miriam 262 00:12:35,080 --> 00:12:37,640 Speaker 4: our Strict Parents. They were the final three families that 263 00:12:37,720 --> 00:12:40,199 Speaker 4: made it through to that crowded house and participated in 264 00:12:40,280 --> 00:12:44,240 Speaker 4: those super challenges. Can't wait to have you join us 265 00:12:44,360 --> 00:12:47,080 Speaker 4: for those three conversations and a whole lot more next 266 00:12:47,120 --> 00:12:49,800 Speaker 4: week with the Happy Families Podcast. 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