1 00:00:02,960 --> 00:00:08,360 Speaker 1: Get a I'm Lola Berry, nutritionist, author, actor, TV presenter, 2 00:00:08,640 --> 00:00:14,080 Speaker 1: and professional overshare us. This podcast is all about celebrating 3 00:00:14,160 --> 00:00:17,760 Speaker 1: failure because I believe it's a chance for us to learn, 4 00:00:18,320 --> 00:00:22,720 Speaker 1: grow and face our blind spots. Each week I'll interview 5 00:00:22,800 --> 00:00:26,200 Speaker 1: a different guest about their highs as well as their lows, 6 00:00:26,760 --> 00:00:35,120 Speaker 1: all in a bid to inspire us to fearlessly fail. Right. Oh, 7 00:00:35,159 --> 00:00:39,240 Speaker 1: today on the pod we have Emma Dunn Woody. Now, 8 00:00:40,640 --> 00:00:45,680 Speaker 1: this episode is for human design newbies like me, So 9 00:00:45,800 --> 00:00:48,360 Speaker 1: if you are just interested in learning about human design, 10 00:00:48,760 --> 00:00:51,479 Speaker 1: Emma breaks it all down for us. So she breaks 11 00:00:51,520 --> 00:00:54,480 Speaker 1: down what is human design, where it came from, how 12 00:00:54,480 --> 00:00:57,360 Speaker 1: it was originated, how it came to be. Then she 13 00:00:57,480 --> 00:01:01,880 Speaker 1: breaks down the five different types and explains the different 14 00:01:02,120 --> 00:01:06,880 Speaker 1: traits and personality types. She's so passionate about human behavior 15 00:01:07,360 --> 00:01:11,360 Speaker 1: and very passionate about people living to their fullest potential. 16 00:01:12,319 --> 00:01:14,400 Speaker 1: So we learn all about that. I did get a 17 00:01:14,400 --> 00:01:16,920 Speaker 1: little reading as well, which is really exciting. And in 18 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:19,880 Speaker 1: this pod you'll hear how to get your own free 19 00:01:20,560 --> 00:01:24,640 Speaker 1: human design chart. And yeah, it's great. I learned so much. 20 00:01:24,680 --> 00:01:27,720 Speaker 1: I'm still learning more. I cannot wait to deep dive 21 00:01:27,840 --> 00:01:31,240 Speaker 1: down this rabbit hole of all things human design. Emma, 22 00:01:31,440 --> 00:01:33,440 Speaker 1: you taught me loads. Thank you for being such a 23 00:01:33,560 --> 00:01:39,640 Speaker 1: kind and wonderful human being. Emma Dunwoodie, Welcome to the 24 00:01:39,680 --> 00:01:40,319 Speaker 1: pod mate. 25 00:01:40,640 --> 00:01:42,759 Speaker 2: Thank you so much for having me. It's so cool 26 00:01:42,880 --> 00:01:45,880 Speaker 2: just to hear your accent. Oh you being here in 27 00:01:45,920 --> 00:01:47,840 Speaker 2: America and everyone looks at me funny and they can't 28 00:01:47,920 --> 00:01:50,080 Speaker 2: understand me, like what is that? How can they not 29 00:01:50,160 --> 00:01:51,920 Speaker 2: understand it us? Like, dude, you're the other one with 30 00:01:51,960 --> 00:01:52,320 Speaker 2: the accent. 31 00:01:52,440 --> 00:01:56,639 Speaker 1: Yeah, do you know what? Ordering or asking for water 32 00:01:57,120 --> 00:02:00,760 Speaker 1: is the hardest thing over here? But I just feel like, 33 00:02:01,240 --> 00:02:03,200 Speaker 1: do you know that when we met each other in 34 00:02:03,280 --> 00:02:06,400 Speaker 1: the flesh in real life? It was less than a 35 00:02:06,400 --> 00:02:09,120 Speaker 1: week before. I was coming over here and You're like, 36 00:02:09,160 --> 00:02:10,480 Speaker 1: I want to get your mypod and I was like, 37 00:02:10,480 --> 00:02:12,079 Speaker 1: I want to get your mypod. There is no way 38 00:02:12,080 --> 00:02:14,480 Speaker 1: we've got time to just squeeze it really, so we've 39 00:02:14,720 --> 00:02:18,040 Speaker 1: I've jumped on your pod since being here, and now 40 00:02:18,040 --> 00:02:20,160 Speaker 1: you're jumping on mine in the flesh. 41 00:02:20,560 --> 00:02:22,519 Speaker 2: So cute, so excited. 42 00:02:22,680 --> 00:02:25,800 Speaker 1: I am so excited to pick your brains. I have 43 00:02:25,960 --> 00:02:30,040 Speaker 1: only apart from meeting you, I had heard of human 44 00:02:30,080 --> 00:02:32,320 Speaker 1: design and some people would look at me and be like, oh, 45 00:02:32,480 --> 00:02:37,880 Speaker 1: you're a manifesting generator. I'm like, okay, kill kill kill, 46 00:02:38,120 --> 00:02:41,440 Speaker 1: so treat me like a novice. YEP that said, I 47 00:02:41,480 --> 00:02:45,519 Speaker 1: have had so much fun researching you on both sides. 48 00:02:45,560 --> 00:02:48,680 Speaker 1: You have such a wonderful, incredible pod over three hundred 49 00:02:48,680 --> 00:02:51,760 Speaker 1: and fifty EP's mate. Yeah, you love podcasting. 50 00:02:51,919 --> 00:02:54,120 Speaker 2: I love it, and of course in my design, like 51 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 2: part of my purpose is to use my voice, and 52 00:02:57,520 --> 00:03:01,080 Speaker 2: it started like way before the pandemic. It was something 53 00:03:01,080 --> 00:03:04,200 Speaker 2: that I just loved, loved, love to do. So yeah, 54 00:03:04,200 --> 00:03:06,800 Speaker 2: I think it's like my really resourceful addiction. 55 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:11,120 Speaker 1: I love that you said it's an addiction because people 56 00:03:11,240 --> 00:03:15,480 Speaker 1: say to me, I'm like, I love podcasting. It's interesting 57 00:03:15,600 --> 00:03:18,440 Speaker 1: for you how it's like a use of voice, and 58 00:03:18,480 --> 00:03:22,320 Speaker 1: I can see like that totally tracks now, having like 59 00:03:22,560 --> 00:03:25,240 Speaker 1: stalked you quite heavily and the lead up to this appreciations. 60 00:03:26,240 --> 00:03:28,840 Speaker 1: But for me, like because I know exactly why I 61 00:03:28,840 --> 00:03:31,960 Speaker 1: love podcasting and it's all about like connecting and then 62 00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:36,200 Speaker 1: holding space for passion. That's like you could, like a 63 00:03:36,280 --> 00:03:38,360 Speaker 1: horse whisperer could come on this pod and I'd be 64 00:03:38,440 --> 00:03:42,000 Speaker 1: that wrapped because I'm learning about their passion. Yeah, and 65 00:03:42,040 --> 00:03:44,360 Speaker 1: that's my whole shtick, and I'm like, oh, that's that's 66 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:47,760 Speaker 1: why I do this thing, isn't it interesting? Like what 67 00:03:48,000 --> 00:03:49,320 Speaker 1: drives us? And this is why? 68 00:03:49,480 --> 00:03:51,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, and you know it's so so cool about what 69 00:03:51,720 --> 00:03:53,920 Speaker 2: you just said is from a human design perspective, like 70 00:03:54,480 --> 00:03:57,800 Speaker 2: your podcast. In human design, you have, your profile is 71 00:03:57,840 --> 00:04:00,400 Speaker 2: what we call a trans personal profile, so you all 72 00:04:00,440 --> 00:04:03,839 Speaker 2: about the other, like you're really focused on the other, right, 73 00:04:03,960 --> 00:04:05,760 Speaker 2: like what do you do and how do you do it? 74 00:04:05,960 --> 00:04:07,920 Speaker 2: And why do you do it? And da da, Whereas 75 00:04:07,960 --> 00:04:11,000 Speaker 2: for me, I'm a personal profile. So I'm a person 76 00:04:11,040 --> 00:04:13,040 Speaker 2: who has had a number of bumps in life, Like 77 00:04:13,040 --> 00:04:15,520 Speaker 2: I've kind of slammed into a number of challenges. You know, 78 00:04:15,640 --> 00:04:17,320 Speaker 2: my life's sort of up and down in a really 79 00:04:17,360 --> 00:04:19,679 Speaker 2: good way these days. So a lot of the people 80 00:04:19,680 --> 00:04:22,760 Speaker 2: I have on I'm like, Okay, well I've experienced this thing. 81 00:04:23,320 --> 00:04:27,039 Speaker 2: How can what you do help me solve whatever? You 82 00:04:27,040 --> 00:04:30,920 Speaker 2: know I'm going through? And then I'm so curious, Like 83 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:33,279 Speaker 2: I've got to be the most curious person on the planet. 84 00:04:33,320 --> 00:04:34,960 Speaker 2: So as soon as I'm sitting in front of someone, 85 00:04:35,160 --> 00:04:37,240 Speaker 2: I just want to ask them everything. I just want 86 00:04:37,240 --> 00:04:40,240 Speaker 2: to understand why they do what they do. I'm obsessed 87 00:04:40,240 --> 00:04:42,480 Speaker 2: with human potential. You know, Like the thing for me 88 00:04:42,560 --> 00:04:46,200 Speaker 2: is like I know that there is greatness in this 89 00:04:46,320 --> 00:04:48,520 Speaker 2: meat suit of mine. You know, there's a soul in 90 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:51,919 Speaker 2: there that's driving it. And ever since I was tiny, 91 00:04:51,960 --> 00:04:54,160 Speaker 2: I've always been really obsessed with well, how do I 92 00:04:54,200 --> 00:04:58,599 Speaker 2: know my potential, my greatness and my work. Now, you know, 93 00:04:58,640 --> 00:05:02,039 Speaker 2: over the years, I've it really started to tap in. 94 00:05:02,080 --> 00:05:04,599 Speaker 2: You know, there's this very famous quote that we have 95 00:05:04,760 --> 00:05:07,200 Speaker 2: everything that we need within us, and it used to 96 00:05:07,440 --> 00:05:09,840 Speaker 2: just pisce me off because I was like, I can 97 00:05:09,880 --> 00:05:13,120 Speaker 2: feel that super true, right, But how do I get 98 00:05:13,160 --> 00:05:14,640 Speaker 2: at it? You know? I was like, how do I 99 00:05:14,720 --> 00:05:19,240 Speaker 2: get at the stuff within me? And this process, like 100 00:05:19,480 --> 00:05:22,280 Speaker 2: this last twenty years for me has been like discovering 101 00:05:22,279 --> 00:05:24,640 Speaker 2: that and then just discovering all the humans, like getting 102 00:05:24,640 --> 00:05:26,839 Speaker 2: to talk to all the humans that have found their 103 00:05:26,960 --> 00:05:29,839 Speaker 2: way to their potential and then they're teaching that in 104 00:05:29,839 --> 00:05:30,240 Speaker 2: the world. 105 00:05:30,640 --> 00:05:32,520 Speaker 1: Well, I love that you've got this passion of human 106 00:05:32,520 --> 00:05:35,279 Speaker 1: design that I am going to completely dive into with you. 107 00:05:35,760 --> 00:05:38,919 Speaker 1: But I love the way on your pod You'll be like, 108 00:05:38,960 --> 00:05:40,920 Speaker 1: oh this every time you interview someone, You're like, well, 109 00:05:40,960 --> 00:05:43,039 Speaker 1: this tracks you because you've got a line da da 110 00:05:43,080 --> 00:05:45,279 Speaker 1: da da da, and you're this this, and I'm like, 111 00:05:45,360 --> 00:05:48,040 Speaker 1: oh my goodness, it's like it's almost like, I know, 112 00:05:48,120 --> 00:05:50,680 Speaker 1: it's like this. I've heard you say it's like a combinator. 113 00:05:50,680 --> 00:05:53,720 Speaker 1: It's more almost science y based. Yeah, but it does 114 00:05:53,839 --> 00:05:56,080 Speaker 1: feel kind of hippie and woo woo. And I mean 115 00:05:56,120 --> 00:05:57,600 Speaker 1: that in a good way, like it feels kind of 116 00:05:57,680 --> 00:06:02,159 Speaker 1: esoteric and spiratual. So so can we go backtracking a 117 00:06:02,160 --> 00:06:05,080 Speaker 1: little bit, because I want to know what led you 118 00:06:05,600 --> 00:06:08,919 Speaker 1: to this kind of like passion, this passion. I know 119 00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:10,839 Speaker 1: you've had so many ups and downs. You speak really 120 00:06:10,839 --> 00:06:14,920 Speaker 1: openly about depression and panic disorder. So was it just 121 00:06:14,960 --> 00:06:16,680 Speaker 1: like there was a point, a turning point in your 122 00:06:16,680 --> 00:06:18,960 Speaker 1: life where you're like, fuck it, I got to try 123 00:06:18,960 --> 00:06:19,320 Speaker 1: this thing. 124 00:06:19,600 --> 00:06:22,359 Speaker 2: Well, it all started twenty years ago when I was 125 00:06:22,400 --> 00:06:25,440 Speaker 2: diagnosed with depression and panic disorder and I was sitting 126 00:06:25,560 --> 00:06:29,760 Speaker 2: in the leading specialist office in Melbourne and he just 127 00:06:29,800 --> 00:06:33,160 Speaker 2: looked at me and kind of said, really matter of factly, like, well, 128 00:06:33,320 --> 00:06:36,080 Speaker 2: you will never heal from this, but you'll learn how 129 00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:39,120 Speaker 2: to manage it. And in that moment, like my heart 130 00:06:39,200 --> 00:06:41,920 Speaker 2: dropped and I was like, no, you don't understand. If 131 00:06:41,960 --> 00:06:45,400 Speaker 2: you can just tell me how I got here. I 132 00:06:45,680 --> 00:06:48,320 Speaker 2: know I can get myself out of this, and you know, 133 00:06:48,360 --> 00:06:53,880 Speaker 2: he really dismissed me, and you know, just discouraged me basically. 134 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:55,760 Speaker 2: And the whole idea for him was like, we'll just 135 00:06:55,800 --> 00:06:58,120 Speaker 2: put you on meds. And you know, again, I'm not 136 00:06:58,160 --> 00:07:00,320 Speaker 2: at all judgmental. You know, everyone's got to do what 137 00:07:00,320 --> 00:07:02,440 Speaker 2: they got to do. But that didn't feel correct for 138 00:07:02,480 --> 00:07:05,279 Speaker 2: me either. And I just remember walking across the car 139 00:07:05,320 --> 00:07:07,920 Speaker 2: park back to my car and thinking to myself, well, 140 00:07:07,920 --> 00:07:09,640 Speaker 2: I've got two options as far as I see it. 141 00:07:10,760 --> 00:07:13,200 Speaker 2: Number one, I just end it. And I was serious, 142 00:07:13,280 --> 00:07:15,240 Speaker 2: you know, like I was at that place that I'd 143 00:07:15,240 --> 00:07:17,360 Speaker 2: thought about taking my life for many years. It was 144 00:07:17,560 --> 00:07:21,280 Speaker 2: that uncomfortable to experience the mental health journey that I 145 00:07:21,360 --> 00:07:25,440 Speaker 2: was experiencing. Or I work out how to solve this problem. 146 00:07:25,480 --> 00:07:29,280 Speaker 2: I work out how to heal myself. And yeah, that's 147 00:07:29,360 --> 00:07:32,200 Speaker 2: what I did, Like I worked out how my brain worked. 148 00:07:32,320 --> 00:07:34,760 Speaker 2: I discovered all of these things that they don't teach you, 149 00:07:34,800 --> 00:07:38,560 Speaker 2: they don't tell you, and basically rewide my brain. And 150 00:07:39,080 --> 00:07:42,400 Speaker 2: through that process, you know, I healed my mental health. 151 00:07:42,440 --> 00:07:47,000 Speaker 2: I completely changed my life. I had a very successful 152 00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:51,880 Speaker 2: advertising career that was also burnt out and ultimately probably 153 00:07:52,360 --> 00:07:56,280 Speaker 2: until about twenty fifteen. So that was, you know, nearly 154 00:07:56,320 --> 00:07:59,560 Speaker 2: fifteen years of just learning myself, or at least nearly 155 00:07:59,600 --> 00:08:03,840 Speaker 2: twelve years of just learning myself human behavior, the brain, neuroscience, 156 00:08:04,800 --> 00:08:09,000 Speaker 2: quantum physics, like all of it, and then retraining to 157 00:08:09,040 --> 00:08:11,360 Speaker 2: become a master coach because I'm like, hang on a second, 158 00:08:11,360 --> 00:08:13,960 Speaker 2: people really need to understand this. They need to understand 159 00:08:14,000 --> 00:08:17,880 Speaker 2: that we are so we are taught to be powerless 160 00:08:18,000 --> 00:08:20,880 Speaker 2: and we are in fact, incredibly powerful. And it was 161 00:08:20,920 --> 00:08:24,520 Speaker 2: about it was actually twenty eighteen that I finally picked 162 00:08:24,560 --> 00:08:26,920 Speaker 2: up human design. It had come to me a few times, 163 00:08:27,200 --> 00:08:30,760 Speaker 2: but I was really, you know, I'm a qualified master coach, 164 00:08:30,840 --> 00:08:33,800 Speaker 2: I'm a profiler like all of these things, and I 165 00:08:33,880 --> 00:08:37,720 Speaker 2: was very very science based. And the thing with human 166 00:08:37,760 --> 00:08:39,400 Speaker 2: design is it keep can't coming to me. But I 167 00:08:39,440 --> 00:08:41,840 Speaker 2: was like, I can't talk to my CEOs about this. 168 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:44,960 Speaker 2: I can't talk to my you know, these really corporate 169 00:08:45,000 --> 00:08:50,200 Speaker 2: clients of mine. And the crazy story is that I 170 00:08:50,280 --> 00:08:52,680 Speaker 2: said to the universe at a very very pivotal point 171 00:08:52,720 --> 00:08:54,800 Speaker 2: in my life, I'm like, okay, Universe, I get it. 172 00:08:54,920 --> 00:08:57,920 Speaker 2: I've transformed my life. I've retrained I've got this business. 173 00:08:57,920 --> 00:09:01,400 Speaker 2: This is growing really beautifully on the side. At that stage, 174 00:09:01,400 --> 00:09:04,040 Speaker 2: I had sort of healed my relationship, had two kids. 175 00:09:04,080 --> 00:09:07,480 Speaker 2: We completely transformed, I completely transform my life, and I 176 00:09:07,480 --> 00:09:09,840 Speaker 2: feel like there was still this hole within me, like 177 00:09:10,240 --> 00:09:12,240 Speaker 2: why am I here? What am I here to do? 178 00:09:12,960 --> 00:09:15,720 Speaker 2: And when I put out to the universe, I was like, 179 00:09:15,760 --> 00:09:17,840 Speaker 2: you need to smack me in the face that you 180 00:09:17,880 --> 00:09:20,360 Speaker 2: have to be so clear what this missing piece is 181 00:09:20,840 --> 00:09:23,600 Speaker 2: that I swear once I realize what it is, I 182 00:09:23,640 --> 00:09:27,199 Speaker 2: will commit to it. And that's when human Design appeared. 183 00:09:27,360 --> 00:09:30,080 Speaker 2: And literally after I'd made the request to the universe, 184 00:09:30,320 --> 00:09:32,959 Speaker 2: within a forty eight hour period, human design just hit me, 185 00:09:33,080 --> 00:09:35,280 Speaker 2: hit me, hit me, hit me over and over again. 186 00:09:35,880 --> 00:09:39,040 Speaker 2: And within a month I ad met like the leading 187 00:09:39,120 --> 00:09:41,920 Speaker 2: human design person in Australia. She lived one suburb away 188 00:09:41,920 --> 00:09:46,079 Speaker 2: from me. It was crazy. I already had a podcast 189 00:09:46,160 --> 00:09:49,120 Speaker 2: and I was following my human Design experiment, and I 190 00:09:49,160 --> 00:09:51,760 Speaker 2: had an insight that was telling me to change the 191 00:09:51,840 --> 00:09:54,560 Speaker 2: name of my podcast to the Human Design Podcast. And 192 00:09:54,640 --> 00:09:56,160 Speaker 2: my ego is like, you can't do that. 193 00:09:56,280 --> 00:09:56,800 Speaker 1: How are you? 194 00:09:56,800 --> 00:09:59,800 Speaker 2: You don't know enough, Like it's just screaming judgment and criticism, 195 00:10:00,280 --> 00:10:03,120 Speaker 2: and I'm like, well, I'm just following my strategy and authority, 196 00:10:03,160 --> 00:10:06,200 Speaker 2: and I'm a manifesting generator, so I can't act on 197 00:10:06,280 --> 00:10:09,400 Speaker 2: an inspiration. So I just wrote it down. Next day, 198 00:10:09,400 --> 00:10:11,400 Speaker 2: a mentor says to me, I mean, you need to 199 00:10:11,440 --> 00:10:14,600 Speaker 2: do this as a podcast, and I'm like, you cannot 200 00:10:14,640 --> 00:10:17,320 Speaker 2: make this stuff all right? So I changed the name 201 00:10:17,360 --> 00:10:19,680 Speaker 2: of my podcast, and then everything started to change because 202 00:10:19,720 --> 00:10:23,520 Speaker 2: I committed to my human design experiment. And the craziest 203 00:10:23,559 --> 00:10:26,360 Speaker 2: thing of all of it was that I was so 204 00:10:26,480 --> 00:10:30,439 Speaker 2: afraid of telling or asking my first clients like can 205 00:10:30,480 --> 00:10:33,600 Speaker 2: I get your time of birth? You know, like it 206 00:10:33,720 --> 00:10:37,440 Speaker 2: was so scary because it seemed so woo woo. However, 207 00:10:37,800 --> 00:10:40,520 Speaker 2: the moment I did it, like no one flinched, no 208 00:10:40,559 --> 00:10:44,320 Speaker 2: one hesitated, and the results, like the difference not only 209 00:10:44,360 --> 00:10:46,960 Speaker 2: in my life but all my clients' lives. They just 210 00:10:47,120 --> 00:10:49,640 Speaker 2: it was like night and day. It was crazy amazing 211 00:10:49,679 --> 00:10:51,840 Speaker 2: how powerful this thing is. And I've been using other 212 00:10:51,880 --> 00:10:56,760 Speaker 2: behavioral personality tools which had had great success, but nothing 213 00:10:56,920 --> 00:10:57,240 Speaker 2: like this. 214 00:10:57,960 --> 00:11:02,679 Speaker 1: Okay, teach me, friend, what is human design? Where does 215 00:11:02,679 --> 00:11:03,120 Speaker 1: it come from? 216 00:11:03,120 --> 00:11:05,240 Speaker 2: Okay? So human design? And again like this is where 217 00:11:05,240 --> 00:11:08,679 Speaker 2: the woo wu piece comes in. So human design was 218 00:11:08,679 --> 00:11:13,400 Speaker 2: actually channeled. So this guy Alan who we now call 219 00:11:13,960 --> 00:11:18,120 Speaker 2: rah Uru, who he changed his name, He was in Ibitha. 220 00:11:18,280 --> 00:11:21,480 Speaker 2: He was at the time a burnt out ad executive 221 00:11:22,280 --> 00:11:27,360 Speaker 2: divorcing his wife. All the things went to Ibitha. Probably 222 00:11:27,360 --> 00:11:32,840 Speaker 2: took way too many drugs. However, he then was contacted 223 00:11:33,360 --> 00:11:37,240 Speaker 2: channeled this information over eight days by what he called 224 00:11:37,240 --> 00:11:40,839 Speaker 2: the voice. And as much as this sounds crazy and 225 00:11:40,920 --> 00:11:46,000 Speaker 2: out there, my very logical, practical brain puts it together 226 00:11:46,080 --> 00:11:49,920 Speaker 2: like this human design is put together by four ancient wisdoms, 227 00:11:50,160 --> 00:11:53,920 Speaker 2: so Western astrology, the Hindu chakra system, the Kabbala Tree 228 00:11:53,920 --> 00:12:00,000 Speaker 2: of life, and the Chinese Eichin. And over eight days, 229 00:12:00,320 --> 00:12:03,679 Speaker 2: this voice told him how to mathematically map together these 230 00:12:03,720 --> 00:12:06,480 Speaker 2: four ancient wisdoms. So no human brain could do that 231 00:12:07,000 --> 00:12:09,880 Speaker 2: in eight days, Like that's just not possible. So not 232 00:12:09,960 --> 00:12:12,280 Speaker 2: only do they all you know, they all put together, 233 00:12:13,040 --> 00:12:16,200 Speaker 2: it also teaches him how to use this thing called 234 00:12:16,240 --> 00:12:19,120 Speaker 2: human design. And the whole goal was that we would 235 00:12:19,160 --> 00:12:23,160 Speaker 2: teach our children to live in alignment with their design, 236 00:12:23,600 --> 00:12:26,160 Speaker 2: because if we do that, then the whole world changes, 237 00:12:26,240 --> 00:12:29,040 Speaker 2: because every single one of us is conditioned from the 238 00:12:29,080 --> 00:12:31,200 Speaker 2: age of zero to seven told who we need to 239 00:12:31,240 --> 00:12:34,720 Speaker 2: be to receive love, nurturing, and to belong, whereas human 240 00:12:34,760 --> 00:12:37,160 Speaker 2: design is the opposite. It's like, okay, well, when I 241 00:12:37,200 --> 00:12:41,480 Speaker 2: connect to my truth, my heart, my soul, my wisdom first, 242 00:12:41,760 --> 00:12:44,480 Speaker 2: then I have so much more to give to the 243 00:12:44,480 --> 00:12:47,280 Speaker 2: rest of the world. So yeah, that's where it started, 244 00:12:47,320 --> 00:12:48,880 Speaker 2: and I beat that in nineteen eighty eight. 245 00:12:49,600 --> 00:12:52,960 Speaker 1: I love it. I love it. I've been getting so 246 00:12:53,080 --> 00:12:55,920 Speaker 1: into astrology lately because I'm a TikTok gal love a 247 00:12:55,960 --> 00:12:58,280 Speaker 1: bit of TikTok. But it's so, I bet you the 248 00:12:58,320 --> 00:13:00,640 Speaker 1: second I write human design into tick, I'm going to 249 00:13:00,679 --> 00:13:04,760 Speaker 1: get so many great insights, so much so, can you 250 00:13:04,800 --> 00:13:05,720 Speaker 1: teach me the types? 251 00:13:05,880 --> 00:13:08,600 Speaker 2: There's five, right, yep, there's five. Well, technically there's four 252 00:13:08,640 --> 00:13:11,480 Speaker 2: and a hybrid. Yeah okay, So I like to think 253 00:13:11,520 --> 00:13:13,520 Speaker 2: of it as five types because I am the hybrid. 254 00:13:13,600 --> 00:13:17,880 Speaker 2: I like saying, as you manifesting generator. So the first 255 00:13:17,920 --> 00:13:20,480 Speaker 2: one is the manifesto. So the manifest is around ten 256 00:13:20,520 --> 00:13:23,360 Speaker 2: percent of the population. These are the people that are 257 00:13:23,400 --> 00:13:26,560 Speaker 2: here to start something new, to light something on fire. 258 00:13:27,720 --> 00:13:30,000 Speaker 2: They're the ones that often will have a new idea 259 00:13:30,040 --> 00:13:33,040 Speaker 2: and create a new movement. Their job is to inspire 260 00:13:33,080 --> 00:13:37,439 Speaker 2: people into action. Biggest challenge for a manifesto is that 261 00:13:37,880 --> 00:13:40,640 Speaker 2: they have a polarizing energy, so that means that some 262 00:13:40,640 --> 00:13:43,240 Speaker 2: people love them and other people don't love them. So 263 00:13:43,280 --> 00:13:45,520 Speaker 2: as kids they learn to be people pleasers to make 264 00:13:45,559 --> 00:13:48,760 Speaker 2: everybody happy. And if you're a manifesto, stop it, like 265 00:13:48,880 --> 00:13:51,200 Speaker 2: just stop it. You just be authentically you, because you're 266 00:13:51,240 --> 00:13:54,560 Speaker 2: here to inspire very specific people into action so that 267 00:13:54,600 --> 00:13:56,880 Speaker 2: they can basically build this new world that we're in 268 00:13:56,920 --> 00:14:01,079 Speaker 2: this middle part of kind of birthing right now. Then 269 00:14:01,080 --> 00:14:03,880 Speaker 2: we have generators, and generators are the ones that are 270 00:14:03,920 --> 00:14:06,680 Speaker 2: here to be inspired into action. So they're the ones 271 00:14:06,679 --> 00:14:11,960 Speaker 2: that are here to build the big between generators and 272 00:14:12,000 --> 00:14:13,920 Speaker 2: I'll get to manifesting generators in a minute, Like these 273 00:14:13,960 --> 00:14:16,160 Speaker 2: are seventy percent of the global population. These are the 274 00:14:16,160 --> 00:14:19,480 Speaker 2: people who are setting the life force energy and in 275 00:14:19,520 --> 00:14:22,720 Speaker 2: the past, in history, these are the people who have 276 00:14:22,960 --> 00:14:25,160 Speaker 2: just had the energy to just keep going, keep going, 277 00:14:25,240 --> 00:14:27,600 Speaker 2: keep going, the ones that are kind of almost forced 278 00:14:27,640 --> 00:14:31,080 Speaker 2: to do the work. Whereas what human design teaches us 279 00:14:31,200 --> 00:14:34,600 Speaker 2: is the power lies in being lit up, being excited 280 00:14:34,600 --> 00:14:36,800 Speaker 2: by what you do, and then when you do that, 281 00:14:36,960 --> 00:14:39,040 Speaker 2: you have endless, boundless energy. 282 00:14:39,120 --> 00:14:41,360 Speaker 1: I love that. It just makes total sense, right you 283 00:14:41,360 --> 00:14:42,960 Speaker 1: don't even need to think about it, you just feel 284 00:14:43,000 --> 00:14:43,720 Speaker 1: it exactly. 285 00:14:44,160 --> 00:14:46,480 Speaker 2: And you know, like generators are here to as I said, 286 00:14:46,520 --> 00:14:48,440 Speaker 2: like build what lights them up. They're the ones that 287 00:14:48,480 --> 00:14:52,240 Speaker 2: once they get an experience or an idea or something, 288 00:14:52,360 --> 00:14:53,880 Speaker 2: they're like, oh my god, I just want to build 289 00:14:53,960 --> 00:14:55,480 Speaker 2: on this. I want to take it to the people. 290 00:14:56,360 --> 00:14:59,520 Speaker 2: And they're here to respond. So generators, they're not here 291 00:14:59,560 --> 00:15:01,400 Speaker 2: to a niche. And we do live in this world. 292 00:15:01,400 --> 00:15:03,480 Speaker 2: It's like take massive action, you know, go out there, 293 00:15:03,520 --> 00:15:06,840 Speaker 2: do the thing where really it's all about response in 294 00:15:06,920 --> 00:15:09,560 Speaker 2: every moment you're sacred. Your gut is saying yes I 295 00:15:09,600 --> 00:15:11,880 Speaker 2: have energy for this, or no I don't. And one 296 00:15:11,880 --> 00:15:13,760 Speaker 2: of the big things with human design is shifting is 297 00:15:13,800 --> 00:15:15,800 Speaker 2: out of the head and into the body and where 298 00:15:15,800 --> 00:15:19,160 Speaker 2: we get our decisions. Now, I'm a behaviorist, I'm not 299 00:15:19,280 --> 00:15:22,320 Speaker 2: knocking the brain. I'm not knocking the mind. It's really 300 00:15:22,360 --> 00:15:25,080 Speaker 2: really powerful. It creates the reality that each one of 301 00:15:25,160 --> 00:15:30,480 Speaker 2: us lives. However, it is not designed to lead our body, 302 00:15:30,600 --> 00:15:33,960 Speaker 2: our soul, our heart. You know, we now know scientifically 303 00:15:33,960 --> 00:15:39,000 Speaker 2: that the heart actually has neuropeptides, sorry neurons within it 304 00:15:39,280 --> 00:15:41,800 Speaker 2: that are these little antennas that go out to the field, 305 00:15:42,000 --> 00:15:44,360 Speaker 2: the quantum, whatever you want to call it, gather the 306 00:15:44,400 --> 00:15:47,160 Speaker 2: information that we need. So this is where we need 307 00:15:47,200 --> 00:15:50,400 Speaker 2: to be leading from. So generators have to lead from 308 00:15:50,400 --> 00:15:53,600 Speaker 2: the body like what lights them up, but always in response. 309 00:15:54,480 --> 00:15:58,800 Speaker 2: Then manifesting generators are this combination of a manifesto and 310 00:15:59,000 --> 00:16:02,240 Speaker 2: a generator. Here they're always in response. They can't initiate 311 00:16:02,280 --> 00:16:05,160 Speaker 2: like a manifesto. However, these are the ones. These are 312 00:16:05,160 --> 00:16:08,200 Speaker 2: the people who have the ability and they're here on 313 00:16:08,240 --> 00:16:11,440 Speaker 2: the world to actually demonstrate human potential. So they tend 314 00:16:11,440 --> 00:16:13,240 Speaker 2: to be like I always joke, I'm kind of messy, 315 00:16:13,280 --> 00:16:15,160 Speaker 2: Like I run around and I bang into things a lot. 316 00:16:15,200 --> 00:16:17,920 Speaker 2: I will skip steps, you know, I learn faster, get 317 00:16:17,920 --> 00:16:23,280 Speaker 2: out quicker. There nonlinear beings. However, to the outside world 318 00:16:23,320 --> 00:16:25,600 Speaker 2: they look a little bit superhuman because the things that 319 00:16:25,640 --> 00:16:27,760 Speaker 2: they can create, the things that they can bring together, 320 00:16:28,480 --> 00:16:32,200 Speaker 2: they will often do more than one thing. So even 321 00:16:32,240 --> 00:16:34,240 Speaker 2: though they might like for me, for example, I love 322 00:16:34,320 --> 00:16:36,600 Speaker 2: my business, I love podcasting, there's you know, I love 323 00:16:36,720 --> 00:16:40,120 Speaker 2: speaking on stage. I love teaching exactly, and then I've 324 00:16:40,160 --> 00:16:42,400 Speaker 2: got this whole other life where you know, I have 325 00:16:42,520 --> 00:16:45,680 Speaker 2: this stressage horse and I this question now you know, 326 00:16:45,840 --> 00:16:50,000 Speaker 2: and it's like completely different. But yeah, that's how MG's 327 00:16:50,040 --> 00:16:54,120 Speaker 2: are desired to work. Then we have they're pretty epic. 328 00:16:54,360 --> 00:16:55,800 Speaker 2: I mean they're all epic, and this is the thing. 329 00:16:55,840 --> 00:16:58,880 Speaker 2: They all fit perfectly together like a puzzle piece. Then 330 00:16:58,880 --> 00:17:01,920 Speaker 2: we have projectors, and projectors are about fourteen percent of 331 00:17:01,920 --> 00:17:05,880 Speaker 2: the global population and they're our guides. Now. The challenge 332 00:17:05,880 --> 00:17:08,160 Speaker 2: with projectors is they're here to be seen and recognized, 333 00:17:08,520 --> 00:17:11,720 Speaker 2: and most people don't see and recognize them, So they 334 00:17:11,720 --> 00:17:13,639 Speaker 2: tend to be the people that are trying to force 335 00:17:13,880 --> 00:17:17,480 Speaker 2: others to see them, force other people to give them attention. 336 00:17:18,119 --> 00:17:20,159 Speaker 2: But really what they need to be focused on is 337 00:17:20,160 --> 00:17:23,080 Speaker 2: this wisdom that lies within them because they see the 338 00:17:23,119 --> 00:17:27,600 Speaker 2: world inefficiencies, so they see how everything can be done better, 339 00:17:28,080 --> 00:17:31,720 Speaker 2: you know, they see how they can you know, drop 340 00:17:31,880 --> 00:17:36,240 Speaker 2: drop things, add things, improve systems, all sorts of stuff. 341 00:17:36,440 --> 00:17:39,639 Speaker 2: But they have to be invited in. If their wisdom 342 00:17:39,680 --> 00:17:43,680 Speaker 2: isn't invited in, then they feel they feel really bitter, 343 00:17:43,800 --> 00:17:47,200 Speaker 2: they feel really like they're not seen and not valued, 344 00:17:47,480 --> 00:17:50,199 Speaker 2: and oftentimes it's because they're not valuing themselves. So if 345 00:17:50,240 --> 00:17:52,320 Speaker 2: you're a projector, go and obsess about whatever it is 346 00:17:52,359 --> 00:17:54,320 Speaker 2: you want to obsess about, because there's something you want 347 00:17:54,359 --> 00:17:58,639 Speaker 2: to obsess about and love it like wholeheartedly share it 348 00:17:58,680 --> 00:18:02,920 Speaker 2: with your friends, and then watch how people be then 349 00:18:03,080 --> 00:18:05,640 Speaker 2: really drawn to your wisdom and invited in totally. 350 00:18:05,720 --> 00:18:07,439 Speaker 1: It's so funny as you explain all this, I'm like, 351 00:18:07,480 --> 00:18:09,280 Speaker 1: I bet you that person's a projector. I bet you 352 00:18:09,320 --> 00:18:14,320 Speaker 1: that person's genera Like it's fascinating how this kind of fits. 353 00:18:14,800 --> 00:18:16,960 Speaker 1: I bet you you feel that. I bet you can 354 00:18:17,119 --> 00:18:20,000 Speaker 1: when you meet someone, especially that Launchry metat you would 355 00:18:20,000 --> 00:18:22,200 Speaker 1: have met somebody, I bet you could have almost gone 356 00:18:22,200 --> 00:18:23,760 Speaker 1: around the room been like, I bet that that. I 357 00:18:23,800 --> 00:18:26,080 Speaker 1: bet it? Can you do you notice you there is? 358 00:18:26,200 --> 00:18:29,600 Speaker 2: There is definitely a bit of that. But and so 359 00:18:30,040 --> 00:18:32,159 Speaker 2: the funny thing is when I was using things like 360 00:18:32,280 --> 00:18:34,159 Speaker 2: Myers Briggs, or I was using e disc or I 361 00:18:34,200 --> 00:18:36,840 Speaker 2: was using these other models, like, I could pick it 362 00:18:37,040 --> 00:18:39,119 Speaker 2: so easily. I could pick what people were like with 363 00:18:39,119 --> 00:18:42,600 Speaker 2: my eyes closed. But with human design, the beauty of 364 00:18:42,640 --> 00:18:46,360 Speaker 2: human design and why it's so much more powerful than 365 00:18:46,600 --> 00:18:49,600 Speaker 2: astrology on its own or any of these personality things 366 00:18:50,080 --> 00:18:54,439 Speaker 2: is it's it's detail, like, so you can feel certain 367 00:18:54,560 --> 00:18:56,879 Speaker 2: energies in a person, but that same energy could be 368 00:18:56,920 --> 00:19:00,560 Speaker 2: shared with a projector or a manifesto or or generator, 369 00:19:00,920 --> 00:19:04,880 Speaker 2: so you can feel these energies but actually getting really 370 00:19:04,960 --> 00:19:08,280 Speaker 2: like one hundred percent that's a generator or that's a 371 00:19:08,400 --> 00:19:10,800 Speaker 2: projector you know, I think I've probably got about an 372 00:19:10,800 --> 00:19:13,320 Speaker 2: eighty percent hit rate, whereas the others always bang on 373 00:19:13,400 --> 00:19:13,840 Speaker 2: every time. 374 00:19:13,920 --> 00:19:16,240 Speaker 1: Really yeah, yeah, okay, I've cut you off. 375 00:19:16,280 --> 00:19:18,360 Speaker 2: So it was reflectors and reflectors is the last one. 376 00:19:18,400 --> 00:19:20,560 Speaker 2: So this is only one percent of the global apulation. 377 00:19:22,119 --> 00:19:25,720 Speaker 2: And they are literally these people that are all energy. 378 00:19:25,800 --> 00:19:29,159 Speaker 2: So as you probably know we are, even though we 379 00:19:29,160 --> 00:19:31,399 Speaker 2: look like we have these really solid meat suits, we're not. 380 00:19:31,480 --> 00:19:33,680 Speaker 2: It's all energy. We live in an energetic universe, a 381 00:19:33,760 --> 00:19:37,080 Speaker 2: quantum universe. And these are these people that are always 382 00:19:37,560 --> 00:19:40,840 Speaker 2: taking in other people's energy, amplifying it, and reflecting it back. 383 00:19:41,040 --> 00:19:43,520 Speaker 2: Whoa yeah. So these are the kids that you know 384 00:19:43,520 --> 00:19:44,560 Speaker 2: when you say what do you want to be when 385 00:19:44,600 --> 00:19:47,560 Speaker 2: you grow up? They're like an astronaut, a doctor, a 386 00:19:47,600 --> 00:19:51,080 Speaker 2: gardener of it like everything, because they're feeling all of 387 00:19:51,119 --> 00:19:54,280 Speaker 2: these things. So they're these people that are constantly ebbing 388 00:19:54,320 --> 00:19:56,679 Speaker 2: and flowing and changing depending on the people and the 389 00:19:56,760 --> 00:20:00,879 Speaker 2: environments that they're in. Now, if manifest are inspiring us 390 00:20:00,920 --> 00:20:03,679 Speaker 2: into action and generators are manifesting, generators are building it, 391 00:20:03,720 --> 00:20:07,040 Speaker 2: and projectors are refining the things that they're doing. Reflectors 392 00:20:07,119 --> 00:20:10,520 Speaker 2: show us the truth of where we're at. Whoa yes, 393 00:20:10,600 --> 00:20:15,960 Speaker 2: So they are literally reflecting back the relationship, the family, 394 00:20:16,200 --> 00:20:20,879 Speaker 2: the community, the whatever. So when you are a reflector, 395 00:20:21,840 --> 00:20:24,760 Speaker 2: it's so important that you surround yourself with people and 396 00:20:24,800 --> 00:20:27,879 Speaker 2: in environments and opportunities that feel good to you, because 397 00:20:27,880 --> 00:20:31,240 Speaker 2: you're amplifying that energy and therefore helping us create more 398 00:20:31,320 --> 00:20:31,640 Speaker 2: of it. 399 00:20:32,280 --> 00:20:34,959 Speaker 1: Oh, it's like a clear courts in the crystal, right, 400 00:20:35,520 --> 00:20:37,480 Speaker 1: you know how they can amplify all the other crystals. 401 00:20:37,520 --> 00:20:40,840 Speaker 1: Oh my goodness. So for somebody listening now, that's like, okay, 402 00:20:41,040 --> 00:20:45,120 Speaker 1: this sounds amazing. Essentially, you need to know where you're born, 403 00:20:45,200 --> 00:20:48,480 Speaker 1: time of birth, is that correct? And then you've got 404 00:20:48,480 --> 00:20:51,159 Speaker 1: a free chart on your website as well, and then 405 00:20:51,280 --> 00:20:53,400 Speaker 1: they can book in for like a session with you. 406 00:20:53,760 --> 00:20:55,520 Speaker 2: Well, i don't do the one on one sessions anymore, 407 00:20:55,520 --> 00:20:57,280 Speaker 2: but I've got a whole team. Great, we've got a 408 00:20:57,359 --> 00:21:00,200 Speaker 2: whole tech people and you can just work out who 409 00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:02,080 Speaker 2: you want it yep, all on the website. Yet, the 410 00:21:02,080 --> 00:21:04,280 Speaker 2: big thing is all you need is your accurate time 411 00:21:04,280 --> 00:21:07,080 Speaker 2: of birth yep. Obviously your birthday and where you're born, 412 00:21:07,200 --> 00:21:08,919 Speaker 2: and you can just go to the website punch in 413 00:21:08,920 --> 00:21:11,560 Speaker 2: the details, it'll spit out the chart for you. But 414 00:21:11,600 --> 00:21:15,119 Speaker 2: we also send you like, if you're a manifestor, we're 415 00:21:15,119 --> 00:21:17,320 Speaker 2: going to send you to the Manifesto podcast, and if 416 00:21:17,320 --> 00:21:19,879 Speaker 2: you have emotional authority, we're going to send you to 417 00:21:19,920 --> 00:21:23,240 Speaker 2: the Emotional Authority podcast. Because the one thing with human 418 00:21:23,240 --> 00:21:26,760 Speaker 2: design is it's so complicated, and that's the thing that 419 00:21:26,800 --> 00:21:28,920 Speaker 2: most people kind of turn around and walk away from 420 00:21:28,960 --> 00:21:32,320 Speaker 2: because it's so detailed and complicated. And my big thing 421 00:21:32,600 --> 00:21:35,520 Speaker 2: is that I want to simplify it. I want to 422 00:21:35,520 --> 00:21:37,680 Speaker 2: make sure that people can actually integrate it into their 423 00:21:37,680 --> 00:21:39,080 Speaker 2: life because it's a game changer. 424 00:21:39,480 --> 00:21:42,160 Speaker 1: I love that you said it's the most authentic permission 425 00:21:42,200 --> 00:21:45,160 Speaker 1: slip to be you. Now I want to ask about you. 426 00:21:45,240 --> 00:21:51,280 Speaker 1: So you are a three five emotional manifesting generator, correct, 427 00:21:51,840 --> 00:21:54,960 Speaker 1: and your talent is insight and breakthroughs. 428 00:21:55,160 --> 00:21:59,000 Speaker 2: Yes, my god, you have done your homework. I'm I'm impressed. 429 00:21:59,080 --> 00:22:00,760 Speaker 1: Can you break that down for me a little bit 430 00:22:00,800 --> 00:22:02,720 Speaker 1: like what that means? Because I know you and I 431 00:22:02,760 --> 00:22:05,600 Speaker 1: are both manifesting generators and it sounds like we're different 432 00:22:06,280 --> 00:22:10,320 Speaker 1: different flavors of that exactly can you teach me about you? 433 00:22:09,960 --> 00:22:11,320 Speaker 1: And can you teach me about me? 434 00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:15,480 Speaker 2: So so fun with human design, we talk about this. 435 00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:17,800 Speaker 2: The two primary things we want to talk about or 436 00:22:17,800 --> 00:22:20,760 Speaker 2: we want to understand, is our strategy and our authority. Okay, 437 00:22:20,840 --> 00:22:23,680 Speaker 2: so our strategy comes from our type. So for us, 438 00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:28,880 Speaker 2: our strategy is to inform and respond. So what that 439 00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:31,399 Speaker 2: means is that we want to declare the direction of 440 00:22:31,400 --> 00:22:33,200 Speaker 2: our energy. We want to actually, even though it feels 441 00:22:33,240 --> 00:22:36,160 Speaker 2: uncomfortable for us, we want to say I'm going here, 442 00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:39,439 Speaker 2: I'm doing this, I need an hour for that. This 443 00:22:39,520 --> 00:22:42,040 Speaker 2: is the thing I'm working on because when we do that, 444 00:22:42,400 --> 00:22:45,240 Speaker 2: people get out of that way. Now MG's move really 445 00:22:45,240 --> 00:22:49,320 Speaker 2: really fast. So for me personally, what I've discovered is 446 00:22:49,359 --> 00:22:51,600 Speaker 2: the more that I've informed and the more that I've responded, 447 00:22:51,600 --> 00:22:53,760 Speaker 2: so I can have the insight and intuition. I've got 448 00:22:53,760 --> 00:22:58,000 Speaker 2: crazy ass intuition. I never thought idea, but it's just crazy. 449 00:22:58,040 --> 00:22:59,600 Speaker 2: Like literally, a friend of mine said to me the 450 00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:02,399 Speaker 2: other day, I wonder how they make decaf coffee, and 451 00:23:02,480 --> 00:23:04,520 Speaker 2: just out of my mouth and this is my core talent, 452 00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:06,639 Speaker 2: and out of my mouth goes comes. I think they 453 00:23:06,680 --> 00:23:08,919 Speaker 2: soak it in water. And then the next moment, I'm like, 454 00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:11,480 Speaker 2: I have no idea where that came from. And sure 455 00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:13,679 Speaker 2: enough we google it and what I was what I 456 00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:16,119 Speaker 2: said the process that I like, I went into more detail. 457 00:23:16,160 --> 00:23:19,120 Speaker 2: They're like, that's exactly how they Oh, I had no idea, right, 458 00:23:19,560 --> 00:23:23,480 Speaker 2: So for me, a lot of my core talent and 459 00:23:23,520 --> 00:23:24,879 Speaker 2: for those of you, if you've heard about it and 460 00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:29,480 Speaker 2: you've got your chart, it's your design mars okay, and 461 00:23:29,520 --> 00:23:32,280 Speaker 2: we can look at yours in a minute. So my 462 00:23:32,520 --> 00:23:36,040 Speaker 2: core talent is actually the insights that drive and I 463 00:23:36,080 --> 00:23:38,359 Speaker 2: have this like, my core talent is also to simplify, 464 00:23:38,400 --> 00:23:40,360 Speaker 2: which is crazy. I've got a book coming out in September, 465 00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:43,880 Speaker 2: Human Design Made Simple? Do you really? Yes? I really do? 466 00:23:44,600 --> 00:23:45,040 Speaker 2: So good. 467 00:23:45,080 --> 00:23:47,320 Speaker 1: I have to get you back on the pod when September. 468 00:23:47,960 --> 00:23:50,040 Speaker 2: We can give you a link for the pre sale 469 00:23:50,040 --> 00:23:53,679 Speaker 2: and all this stuff, yes in there. But so a 470 00:23:53,680 --> 00:23:56,760 Speaker 2: lot of my core talent is simplifying. So I have 471 00:23:56,840 --> 00:24:01,560 Speaker 2: this talent of I can take really really big concepts. 472 00:24:02,880 --> 00:24:05,560 Speaker 2: I can not only bring them down to the three 473 00:24:05,600 --> 00:24:08,040 Speaker 2: things that matter, because that's actually you know, if you're 474 00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:12,160 Speaker 2: actually like working or learning from an expert, a real 475 00:24:12,240 --> 00:24:16,000 Speaker 2: expert is someone who can simplify something complicated, right, and 476 00:24:16,040 --> 00:24:19,359 Speaker 2: that's my core talent. So I can take quantum physics, 477 00:24:19,440 --> 00:24:24,600 Speaker 2: human design, neuroscience, all of these things and map it 478 00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:27,440 Speaker 2: together really really easily. Again, it's part of my core talent. 479 00:24:29,480 --> 00:24:33,080 Speaker 2: But this is like really really like the core thing 480 00:24:33,160 --> 00:24:34,520 Speaker 2: that I'm here to do in the world. So when 481 00:24:34,520 --> 00:24:38,080 Speaker 2: we understand what our core talent is, then it's you 482 00:24:38,119 --> 00:24:40,040 Speaker 2: see how it just turns up in every area of 483 00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:42,440 Speaker 2: your life. And we do a lot of work with business, 484 00:24:42,840 --> 00:24:45,680 Speaker 2: and you know, the old school model for business is well, 485 00:24:45,680 --> 00:24:47,320 Speaker 2: these are the strategies, this is how you do it, 486 00:24:47,320 --> 00:24:48,679 Speaker 2: this is how you do branding, this is how you 487 00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:51,320 Speaker 2: grow business, this is how you scale. And one of 488 00:24:51,400 --> 00:24:53,560 Speaker 2: the things that we've done is we've built this huge, 489 00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:57,600 Speaker 2: you know, huge seven figure business and broken every single 490 00:24:57,680 --> 00:25:01,199 Speaker 2: rule because yeah, because I'm a manifesting generator. So what 491 00:25:01,240 --> 00:25:04,119 Speaker 2: do I do. I follow what lights me up. I 492 00:25:04,200 --> 00:25:06,840 Speaker 2: respond to things, So I don't initiate. Most people in 493 00:25:06,920 --> 00:25:09,159 Speaker 2: business in life, they initiate. They're like, well I have 494 00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:11,840 Speaker 2: to do something this way, Whereas what I've done is 495 00:25:11,880 --> 00:25:14,240 Speaker 2: I've been like, okay, well, the book's the perfect example. 496 00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:16,000 Speaker 2: I just put it out there like I'm going to 497 00:25:16,040 --> 00:25:18,640 Speaker 2: write a book this year. And the way it happened 498 00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:21,800 Speaker 2: was purely in alignment with my design. Because a friend 499 00:25:21,840 --> 00:25:24,479 Speaker 2: of mine was approached in London to write a book. 500 00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:27,240 Speaker 2: She didn't want to do it. She gave them my name. 501 00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:30,040 Speaker 2: I was in Spain walking the Camino and at the 502 00:25:30,119 --> 00:25:32,360 Speaker 2: end of the Camino, I met up with the aid 503 00:25:32,359 --> 00:25:34,800 Speaker 2: book agent. I signed with a book agent. She got 504 00:25:34,840 --> 00:25:38,760 Speaker 2: a few interviews with publishing houses. I got a book deal. 505 00:25:39,080 --> 00:25:39,560 Speaker 1: Amazing. 506 00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:41,679 Speaker 2: Then, you know, because I was walking the Camino. When 507 00:25:41,720 --> 00:25:43,600 Speaker 2: we were trying to get the book deal, we had 508 00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:48,080 Speaker 2: this this writer come in and summarize all because I've 509 00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:52,840 Speaker 2: got so much content. So she did pay a chapter 510 00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:55,679 Speaker 2: that helped just get the deal. Then she and I'm like, 511 00:25:55,720 --> 00:25:57,600 Speaker 2: can she help write the whole book? So she literally 512 00:25:57,680 --> 00:25:59,679 Speaker 2: took all my content, put it in a framework, and 513 00:25:59,680 --> 00:26:02,000 Speaker 2: then I just basically edited all of it like it's 514 00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:05,840 Speaker 2: all my words, and through this whole process, even when 515 00:26:05,880 --> 00:26:08,440 Speaker 2: we got to and we're just at final stages now, 516 00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:12,119 Speaker 2: you know, the everyone that I've worked with, they're like, 517 00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:14,400 Speaker 2: I don't not understand. This is the easiest book I've 518 00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:17,439 Speaker 2: ever worked on. This just all just flowed, and it 519 00:26:17,520 --> 00:26:20,040 Speaker 2: was because everything was in alignment with my design. I 520 00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:22,160 Speaker 2: was constantly in response. I was sticking to the things 521 00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:25,000 Speaker 2: that I'm good at. I was listening to my emotional authority. 522 00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:28,840 Speaker 2: So you're an emotional authority as well. So when anyone 523 00:26:28,880 --> 00:26:30,840 Speaker 2: puts pressure on me to give them a decision straight away, 524 00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:33,040 Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, I'll come back to you, yeap. Even 525 00:26:33,080 --> 00:26:35,040 Speaker 2: my kids, Like even my kids will come to me 526 00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:36,760 Speaker 2: and say, hey, Mom, I want to do this, or 527 00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:38,040 Speaker 2: I was thinking about that, or what do you think 528 00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:40,399 Speaker 2: of this. I'm just putting it on the table for 529 00:26:40,480 --> 00:26:42,040 Speaker 2: your mum. Just come back to me when you read it. 530 00:26:42,160 --> 00:26:42,880 Speaker 1: Oh, I love it. 531 00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:45,600 Speaker 2: And when you actually start to tell people when you 532 00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:48,440 Speaker 2: have an emotional authority, which is half the global population, 533 00:26:49,119 --> 00:26:52,399 Speaker 2: when you slow down enough to wait for what we 534 00:26:52,440 --> 00:26:55,199 Speaker 2: call emotional clarity, all of a sudden, the decisions you 535 00:26:55,280 --> 00:26:58,679 Speaker 2: make jump like all these things that you don't have 536 00:26:58,760 --> 00:27:02,560 Speaker 2: to do, you go fast as possible road and everyone 537 00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:05,280 Speaker 2: when you listen to your strategy and authority, you're just 538 00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:06,200 Speaker 2: going to skip bits. 539 00:27:06,280 --> 00:27:08,840 Speaker 1: And that's half the population that have that emotional authority. 540 00:27:09,040 --> 00:27:13,040 Speaker 1: Oh so interesting and it's superpower, but it's. 541 00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:18,719 Speaker 2: Also like understanding that half the population he is emotional, 542 00:27:18,800 --> 00:27:22,240 Speaker 2: so half the population has to make decisions over time. 543 00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:25,600 Speaker 2: So they're not indecisive, they're not flip flip floppy, they're 544 00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:28,760 Speaker 2: not unable to make a decision. They're not like overly 545 00:27:28,800 --> 00:27:31,359 Speaker 2: emotional all the things that they get labeled with. It's 546 00:27:31,440 --> 00:27:34,199 Speaker 2: just that this part of them tells them when they 547 00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:37,359 Speaker 2: have emotional clarity that now is the time to move. 548 00:27:38,280 --> 00:27:40,080 Speaker 2: But in our world we're told you need to be 549 00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:42,000 Speaker 2: able to make a decision now. The other half of 550 00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:45,360 Speaker 2: the population just in the minute boom, they know, they 551 00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:48,719 Speaker 2: know what the thing is, and it's like two completely 552 00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:52,159 Speaker 2: different walks of life. But once you get it, like 553 00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:55,159 Speaker 2: so myself and then Taylor that I work with, so 554 00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:58,040 Speaker 2: I'm emotional and she's a non emotional and a sacral being, 555 00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:00,399 Speaker 2: so everything for her is in the minute yes no, yes, no, 556 00:28:00,520 --> 00:28:02,159 Speaker 2: yes no. But when you get the two of them 557 00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:05,199 Speaker 2: working together and understand it, it's the whole dynamic changes 558 00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:06,440 Speaker 2: is so powerful. 559 00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:09,240 Speaker 1: And do you find because you're linked to your voice 560 00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:12,760 Speaker 1: as well, that if you need to like process something 561 00:28:12,840 --> 00:28:14,400 Speaker 1: or think about you almost need to talk it out. 562 00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:18,120 Speaker 2: So a lot of manifesting generators and there's a cup 563 00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:19,919 Speaker 2: there's a number of things within human design that are 564 00:28:19,920 --> 00:28:21,879 Speaker 2: going to talk about. There's even some of the authorities 565 00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:24,320 Speaker 2: that need to talk ab out, but often with mgs 566 00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:27,480 Speaker 2: because we you know, this is a detailed people don't 567 00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:29,600 Speaker 2: really need to know until they dive deeper. But we 568 00:28:29,680 --> 00:28:33,560 Speaker 2: have a motor connected to our throat, so oftentimes we 569 00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:36,840 Speaker 2: actually when we speak, when we talk, we're like, oh, 570 00:28:37,119 --> 00:28:39,280 Speaker 2: oh right, like I do even even know that I 571 00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:41,480 Speaker 2: hadn't thought of it that way, because it's actually getting 572 00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:45,520 Speaker 2: the energy moving out through the throat that helps us 573 00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:48,360 Speaker 2: to understand what's correct for us or what we'd want 574 00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:48,960 Speaker 2: to do, or. 575 00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:51,760 Speaker 1: Oh it makes total sense. So can you talk to 576 00:28:51,800 --> 00:28:55,040 Speaker 1: me about your three five? They're called lines. 577 00:28:55,240 --> 00:28:57,560 Speaker 2: That's right, it's the profile. So we all have these 578 00:28:57,600 --> 00:29:00,200 Speaker 2: two numbers. So you're a five to one. I'm a 579 00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:05,000 Speaker 2: three five, and our profile is how we move through life. 580 00:29:05,000 --> 00:29:07,640 Speaker 2: It's how we serve the planet, it's how we learn. 581 00:29:08,240 --> 00:29:10,800 Speaker 2: It's these really significant themes that are continually going to 582 00:29:10,800 --> 00:29:13,160 Speaker 2: show up. So I'm a line three, So I'm an 583 00:29:13,200 --> 00:29:17,880 Speaker 2: experiential learner. I'm all about trial and error. I often 584 00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:20,520 Speaker 2: cannot like I don't know if I have questions or 585 00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:22,840 Speaker 2: want to do something till I've had an experience of it, 586 00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:27,200 Speaker 2: and we are very very approachable, Like people are really 587 00:29:27,280 --> 00:29:30,200 Speaker 2: drawn to us because we really have walked in their shoes, 588 00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:33,600 Speaker 2: you know, Like we tend to be people that the 589 00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:36,680 Speaker 2: original knowledge kind of talks about the life bumps into us. 590 00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:39,520 Speaker 2: So these things kind of happen to us. However, there's 591 00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:42,120 Speaker 2: so much wisdom in experience, like we know it doesn't 592 00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:43,680 Speaker 2: work because we've done. 593 00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:44,320 Speaker 1: It, you've lived in it. 594 00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:48,240 Speaker 2: Yeah. And then the line five, which is the same 595 00:29:48,280 --> 00:29:52,360 Speaker 2: as you. The line five is all about the superhero, 596 00:29:52,560 --> 00:29:55,880 Speaker 2: like we are unresourcefully we can be the savior, and 597 00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:58,880 Speaker 2: resourcefully we can be the savior. So we literally have 598 00:29:58,920 --> 00:30:02,160 Speaker 2: a beacon on our like aura that's like I can help, 599 00:30:02,240 --> 00:30:04,480 Speaker 2: I can help. And if we don't have boundaries, and 600 00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:06,920 Speaker 2: we end up helping lots and lots of people, you know, 601 00:30:07,000 --> 00:30:13,920 Speaker 2: solving problems. Unfortunately, we also people project their wound onto us. 602 00:30:14,040 --> 00:30:17,000 Speaker 2: So often if you haven't done the internal work within you, 603 00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:20,840 Speaker 2: then you're going to show up and life constantly battered 604 00:30:20,840 --> 00:30:22,600 Speaker 2: with people going you are this and you did that, 605 00:30:22,760 --> 00:30:26,160 Speaker 2: and like this random stuff kind of projected onto you. 606 00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:29,440 Speaker 2: Because you need to clear up the fears within you. 607 00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:32,120 Speaker 2: It's not got anything to do with you. And I 608 00:30:32,320 --> 00:30:36,400 Speaker 2: remember when I was in advertising and it was a 609 00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:39,000 Speaker 2: time when I was feeling very insecure in that world. 610 00:30:40,520 --> 00:30:44,000 Speaker 2: And it was probably in the space of about three 611 00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:49,840 Speaker 2: months and three times someone from my department came up 612 00:30:49,880 --> 00:30:52,360 Speaker 2: to me at a party drunk, put their arm around me, 613 00:30:52,520 --> 00:30:54,960 Speaker 2: and just said to me, I thought you were such 614 00:30:55,000 --> 00:30:55,800 Speaker 2: a bitch. 615 00:30:56,200 --> 00:30:57,400 Speaker 1: Oh my, it's out. 616 00:30:57,520 --> 00:31:02,640 Speaker 2: You are absolutely lovely. And I was like, what, because like, 617 00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:04,200 Speaker 2: I genuinely am the kindest person. 618 00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:06,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, like I'm just nice. Yeah. 619 00:31:06,400 --> 00:31:08,560 Speaker 2: And it blew my mind and it kept happening and 620 00:31:08,600 --> 00:31:11,400 Speaker 2: happening and happening. But what was happening was they were 621 00:31:11,440 --> 00:31:14,680 Speaker 2: projecting their stuff onto me. So it wasn't about what 622 00:31:14,720 --> 00:31:16,840 Speaker 2: she was saying. It was about what it brought up 623 00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:19,479 Speaker 2: in me. And the insecurity that I had is that 624 00:31:19,520 --> 00:31:23,760 Speaker 2: nobody would like me. So because I had this programming 625 00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:27,120 Speaker 2: within me, no one would like me. Her almost puzzle 626 00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:30,640 Speaker 2: piece of her trauma and her unresourceful beliefs just got 627 00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:31,440 Speaker 2: painted onto me. 628 00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:33,640 Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of people can relate to this, 629 00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:36,400 Speaker 1: because I know I'm thirty eight now and sometimes someone 630 00:31:36,400 --> 00:31:39,800 Speaker 1: will say something and I'll be like, oh, that's actually 631 00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:42,600 Speaker 1: your shit. Yes, and I can be like I can 632 00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:46,160 Speaker 1: sider in it and see it. But that is years 633 00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:49,840 Speaker 1: of mental health years and years of like figuring out 634 00:31:50,360 --> 00:31:52,960 Speaker 1: and fate and sitting in the discomfort of understanding what 635 00:31:53,040 --> 00:31:55,400 Speaker 1: our own wounds are. But it is fact. I think 636 00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:59,440 Speaker 1: that's really helpful for people because people do put their 637 00:31:59,480 --> 00:32:03,200 Speaker 1: own their own fear, their own unprocessed stuff. So it's 638 00:32:03,240 --> 00:32:04,080 Speaker 1: so fascinating. 639 00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:06,880 Speaker 2: Well, all humans, so all humans see the world as 640 00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:12,080 Speaker 2: they are, not as it is, okay, So with a 641 00:32:12,120 --> 00:32:15,520 Speaker 2: line five that's amplified, so they literally see the wound 642 00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:19,080 Speaker 2: that's within them on you. Wow. So one of the 643 00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:23,320 Speaker 2: best books out there the Four Agreements by Don Miguel Rui, 644 00:32:23,840 --> 00:32:25,880 Speaker 2: and one of the agreements is not to take it personally. 645 00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:28,840 Speaker 2: And it's like, I think everyone needs to take this advice, 646 00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:32,120 Speaker 2: but especially line fives because it's not about you. It's 647 00:32:32,120 --> 00:32:35,760 Speaker 2: never about you. People's reactions and responses are not about you. 648 00:32:36,160 --> 00:32:37,719 Speaker 2: And for the person who's in there going, well, it 649 00:32:37,720 --> 00:32:39,200 Speaker 2: was really about me because they said my name and 650 00:32:39,200 --> 00:32:42,080 Speaker 2: their pointing the fee, it's not they are just projecting 651 00:32:42,160 --> 00:32:47,040 Speaker 2: their wounding, their perceptions, their beliefs. So what is really 652 00:32:47,120 --> 00:32:52,520 Speaker 2: really important to understand everyone, especially line fives, is not 653 00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:55,400 Speaker 2: to take it personally. You want to pay attention to 654 00:32:55,440 --> 00:32:57,920 Speaker 2: what it brings up in you because that's what needs healing. 655 00:32:58,360 --> 00:33:00,400 Speaker 2: But whatever is actually projected onto you is none of 656 00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:01,000 Speaker 2: your business. 657 00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:02,000 Speaker 1: Yes, totally. 658 00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:04,800 Speaker 2: That is somebody else's stuff. And when you start to 659 00:33:04,840 --> 00:33:07,000 Speaker 2: realize these projections are not about you and in fact 660 00:33:07,000 --> 00:33:09,960 Speaker 2: it's about that other person, I know. For me very quickly, 661 00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:12,720 Speaker 2: I shifted to compassion because I'm like, wow, if you're 662 00:33:12,760 --> 00:33:16,400 Speaker 2: saying that stuff, then there's some really ugly stuff going 663 00:33:16,440 --> 00:33:19,080 Speaker 2: on inside of you at you you know. 664 00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:20,320 Speaker 1: Oh you're good that you switch. 665 00:33:20,560 --> 00:33:24,720 Speaker 2: I'm like, bye, yeah, yeah that comes first. Like there's 666 00:33:24,760 --> 00:33:26,200 Speaker 2: a lot of compassion in there as well. 667 00:33:27,760 --> 00:33:31,320 Speaker 1: Okay, I have to ask. I was like, I can't 668 00:33:31,320 --> 00:33:33,640 Speaker 1: have you on this pod because you blew my socks 669 00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:35,960 Speaker 1: off when I jumped on your pod and you're like, 670 00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:39,680 Speaker 1: you're a and I was like, I have no idea 671 00:33:39,800 --> 00:33:41,600 Speaker 1: about it, So I want you to do it little, 672 00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:43,719 Speaker 1: if you're comfortable to let me know a little bit 673 00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:48,160 Speaker 1: about myself. Yeah, yeah, let's dive in. I'm so excited, yes, 674 00:33:48,440 --> 00:33:54,440 Speaker 1: so slash excited, and I feel so I feel like 675 00:33:54,800 --> 00:33:56,320 Speaker 1: and I know this won't be too hippy or woo 676 00:33:56,360 --> 00:33:59,280 Speaker 1: woo for you to hear. But I feel like this 677 00:33:59,320 --> 00:34:01,800 Speaker 1: stuff comes to you when you're ready as well. 678 00:34:02,040 --> 00:34:05,840 Speaker 2: So I think that's one of the things. Like I'm 679 00:34:05,880 --> 00:34:09,600 Speaker 2: not tied to anything in particular, you know, Like there's 680 00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:10,920 Speaker 2: a lot of people that want to do a bunch 681 00:34:10,960 --> 00:34:12,680 Speaker 2: of different things. Like we were having this conversation and 682 00:34:12,719 --> 00:34:15,719 Speaker 2: my retreat last week, people talking about plant medicine. You know, 683 00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:18,680 Speaker 2: one of them is a facilitator, another one's never done it, 684 00:34:18,719 --> 00:34:21,600 Speaker 2: another one's done it sometimes, like and one of the 685 00:34:21,600 --> 00:34:23,640 Speaker 2: things we're talking about is how it calls to you. 686 00:34:24,160 --> 00:34:26,359 Speaker 2: I think everything calls to you. So if you pay 687 00:34:26,400 --> 00:34:28,040 Speaker 2: attention to the things that call to you and just 688 00:34:28,080 --> 00:34:30,360 Speaker 2: follow that, and again, your human design, your strategy, and 689 00:34:30,360 --> 00:34:33,879 Speaker 2: authority is going to take you there. Because I spent 690 00:34:33,960 --> 00:34:35,920 Speaker 2: so many years doing the things that everyone else was 691 00:34:35,960 --> 00:34:38,279 Speaker 2: doing because everyone else was doing them, whereas now I 692 00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:40,279 Speaker 2: just don't bother. I'm like, Okay, well, if I don't 693 00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:42,200 Speaker 2: have the energy for it as an MG, then I'm 694 00:34:42,239 --> 00:34:45,239 Speaker 2: not even going to waste my time because otherwise, you know, 695 00:34:45,320 --> 00:34:48,120 Speaker 2: I could be discovering something incredible just around the corner. 696 00:34:48,719 --> 00:34:50,960 Speaker 1: Oh. I love that It's funny because I used to 697 00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:55,359 Speaker 1: practice a lot as a nutritionist, and I remember being like, oh, 698 00:34:55,440 --> 00:34:57,680 Speaker 1: this is not lighting, this is not lighting me up. 699 00:34:57,680 --> 00:35:00,239 Speaker 1: And I kept saying I'm just not patient enough. But 700 00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:02,680 Speaker 1: someone said to me, why you practicing nutrition while you're 701 00:35:02,680 --> 00:35:05,080 Speaker 1: in LA And it's so funny. Even when I put 702 00:35:05,120 --> 00:35:07,880 Speaker 1: out that I coach people book in for like cheerlead, 703 00:35:07,960 --> 00:35:11,000 Speaker 1: like mentoring around writing a book or creating a pod, 704 00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:12,880 Speaker 1: and I'm like, even when I open it up, it 705 00:35:12,920 --> 00:35:15,440 Speaker 1: still doesn't come back to me because it's not aligned 706 00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:16,480 Speaker 1: anymore exactly. 707 00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:18,480 Speaker 2: And that's the whole point, Like, that's what human design 708 00:35:18,480 --> 00:35:20,640 Speaker 2: gives us. Like the thing I love to say often, 709 00:35:20,680 --> 00:35:23,960 Speaker 2: and you kind of touched on it before, is that 710 00:35:24,080 --> 00:35:27,600 Speaker 2: I've now looked at thousands of charts, I've worked with 711 00:35:27,800 --> 00:35:31,520 Speaker 2: so many people, and never ever have I heard oh 712 00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:36,720 Speaker 2: that's new. Yeah, I hear every single time, and usually 713 00:35:36,760 --> 00:35:39,880 Speaker 2: coupled with a lot of tears. You've just given me 714 00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:40,719 Speaker 2: permission to be me. 715 00:35:41,200 --> 00:35:41,960 Speaker 1: Ah. 716 00:35:42,040 --> 00:35:43,919 Speaker 2: You know, the thing about human design is it gives 717 00:35:44,040 --> 00:35:47,400 Speaker 2: language to what you feel on the inside. You know, 718 00:35:47,640 --> 00:35:50,520 Speaker 2: like everybody else, I felt like I was different, I 719 00:35:50,560 --> 00:35:53,600 Speaker 2: didn't fit in, I was too much, I was all 720 00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:56,000 Speaker 2: of these things that everyone else out there listening is 721 00:35:56,040 --> 00:35:59,320 Speaker 2: like yep, yep, yep, yep. And what human design does 722 00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:02,360 Speaker 2: is it makes you realize that you don't need the 723 00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:04,879 Speaker 2: masks anymore, you don't need the conditioning, you don't need 724 00:36:04,920 --> 00:36:07,239 Speaker 2: to change yourself. You know. I actually said to one 725 00:36:07,280 --> 00:36:09,560 Speaker 2: of the girls at my retreat last week, an MG 726 00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:12,920 Speaker 2: like us. I said, Babe, you are too much. So 727 00:36:13,080 --> 00:36:16,439 Speaker 2: find the people that love you're too much, because you're 728 00:36:16,480 --> 00:36:19,759 Speaker 2: here to be extraordinary. You're not here just to sit 729 00:36:19,800 --> 00:36:23,280 Speaker 2: on your hands. And you know, just that release because 730 00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:26,320 Speaker 2: so many of the bigger energies, like the manifestors and 731 00:36:26,320 --> 00:36:29,399 Speaker 2: the manifesting generators, they spend most of their life trying 732 00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:32,360 Speaker 2: to make themselves smaller, and they're not here to be small. 733 00:36:32,400 --> 00:36:36,000 Speaker 2: They're here to be extraordinary. So I think that's the 734 00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:38,560 Speaker 2: biggest thing for me with human design is it's this 735 00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:41,960 Speaker 2: permission slip. It's this oh my god, that's exactly what 736 00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:44,160 Speaker 2: I feel on the inside. I've just never had words 737 00:36:44,200 --> 00:36:45,160 Speaker 2: to articulate it. 738 00:36:45,280 --> 00:36:45,960 Speaker 1: So love it. 739 00:36:46,080 --> 00:36:50,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, let's talk about you bring it on. So yep, 740 00:36:50,040 --> 00:36:54,960 Speaker 2: you're a manifesting generator, So that nonlinear piece, that's that's 741 00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:57,120 Speaker 2: the first thing that really set me free understanding that 742 00:36:57,160 --> 00:37:00,799 Speaker 2: you're here to be, to be multi passionate, to have 743 00:37:00,960 --> 00:37:03,080 Speaker 2: different to have the nutrition, to have the podcast and 744 00:37:03,160 --> 00:37:05,120 Speaker 2: have the book, to have the yoga, to have that acting. 745 00:37:05,480 --> 00:37:09,200 Speaker 2: That's bang on for a manifesting generator. Again, our conditioning 746 00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:12,160 Speaker 2: tells us that there's something broken with that model, but 747 00:37:12,239 --> 00:37:15,040 Speaker 2: our energy is like, no, I need all the things 748 00:37:15,120 --> 00:37:17,600 Speaker 2: because as a manifesting generator on some level, I'm going 749 00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:18,720 Speaker 2: to bring all the things together. 750 00:37:19,000 --> 00:37:19,200 Speaker 1: Yeah. 751 00:37:20,760 --> 00:37:24,160 Speaker 2: So you're a five to one. So five ones and 752 00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:27,120 Speaker 2: I always say this, like, I don't have a favorite 753 00:37:27,200 --> 00:37:31,000 Speaker 2: in anything, but five ones. You guys are extraordinary. So 754 00:37:31,640 --> 00:37:34,000 Speaker 2: when you put your mind to something, you can build 755 00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:38,160 Speaker 2: anything because the one energy for you is all about research, 756 00:37:38,239 --> 00:37:40,640 Speaker 2: Like this is no surprise that you've done all this research. 757 00:37:40,719 --> 00:37:43,120 Speaker 2: You know. These are the people who go super deep 758 00:37:43,239 --> 00:37:46,920 Speaker 2: into the details. And because you love knowledge and learning 759 00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:50,799 Speaker 2: and going deep, you ultimately become the authority and the 760 00:37:50,840 --> 00:37:52,400 Speaker 2: thing that you give back to the world. To that 761 00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:55,600 Speaker 2: line one is you give people safe foundations. The line 762 00:37:55,600 --> 00:37:59,320 Speaker 2: one is all about creating safety through knowledge and foundations. 763 00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:03,680 Speaker 2: You're also that, as I said, authority piece that people 764 00:38:03,719 --> 00:38:06,920 Speaker 2: really turn to and trust. The challenge for you is 765 00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:10,399 Speaker 2: that you do see all the micro moments, You see 766 00:38:10,400 --> 00:38:15,200 Speaker 2: all the details. You see how people interact and affect 767 00:38:15,239 --> 00:38:19,520 Speaker 2: each other, and so many things that other people don't see, 768 00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:22,239 Speaker 2: and a ligne one will tend to go internal, so 769 00:38:22,239 --> 00:38:24,080 Speaker 2: they'll take all that and they won't talk about it. 770 00:38:24,120 --> 00:38:27,719 Speaker 2: They'll just keep it to themselves, and you know, like 771 00:38:27,840 --> 00:38:31,600 Speaker 2: ultimately that's when mental health stuff starts to show up. 772 00:38:31,920 --> 00:38:33,719 Speaker 2: So one of the big things is aligned one is 773 00:38:33,760 --> 00:38:35,640 Speaker 2: making sure that you have your people that you can 774 00:38:35,640 --> 00:38:38,479 Speaker 2: talk it out with, that you can actually talk through 775 00:38:38,560 --> 00:38:43,640 Speaker 2: what you see, what hurts, what you feel, all of 776 00:38:43,680 --> 00:38:46,799 Speaker 2: those things, because otherwise it'll all get trapped inside because 777 00:38:46,840 --> 00:38:48,880 Speaker 2: you just have that tendency to be like, I've got this, 778 00:38:49,040 --> 00:38:50,120 Speaker 2: I'll just take care of myself. 779 00:38:50,320 --> 00:38:53,799 Speaker 1: God, it makes sense. People go, yeah, people go, what's 780 00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:56,400 Speaker 1: your secret to success? I was like, therapy, Yeah, no, 781 00:38:56,480 --> 00:38:58,520 Speaker 1: because you need I also need to be able to 782 00:38:58,600 --> 00:39:04,440 Speaker 1: like log logically understand something that I'm feeling internally. It's 783 00:39:04,600 --> 00:39:05,320 Speaker 1: very important. 784 00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:08,040 Speaker 2: And it's really interesting that you'd say that because you're 785 00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:11,200 Speaker 2: what we call a triple split, so you have three 786 00:39:11,280 --> 00:39:14,920 Speaker 2: separate areas of definition, three separate areas of consistent energy, 787 00:39:14,960 --> 00:39:18,480 Speaker 2: within the body chart. Within your body, one is mental, 788 00:39:19,680 --> 00:39:23,680 Speaker 2: one is really directional and work, and one is emotional 789 00:39:23,840 --> 00:39:26,800 Speaker 2: and voice. So it feels like there's these three parts 790 00:39:26,840 --> 00:39:30,120 Speaker 2: of you within you that butt heads, especially when you're 791 00:39:30,120 --> 00:39:35,960 Speaker 2: on your own. So success and how to really get 792 00:39:35,960 --> 00:39:38,000 Speaker 2: your energy moving is always going to be in a 793 00:39:38,000 --> 00:39:41,560 Speaker 2: way in a place where you can have more people 794 00:39:41,640 --> 00:39:44,319 Speaker 2: around you. So that could be working in a small team, 795 00:39:44,400 --> 00:39:46,240 Speaker 2: that could be just you know, if you ever feel 796 00:39:46,280 --> 00:39:50,359 Speaker 2: stuck energetically or mentally or physically, get out with these 797 00:39:50,400 --> 00:39:52,080 Speaker 2: other people so you can be in aura up with 798 00:39:52,120 --> 00:39:54,200 Speaker 2: other people and it's going to help bridge those gaps. 799 00:39:54,480 --> 00:39:59,440 Speaker 2: But oftentimes we call in partners, you know, work groups 800 00:39:59,520 --> 00:40:02,120 Speaker 2: that those gaps, Like my kids have both of my 801 00:40:02,400 --> 00:40:06,040 Speaker 2: bridge gates. Taylor that I work with has one of 802 00:40:06,040 --> 00:40:09,480 Speaker 2: my bridge gates. So my energy runs brilliantly when I'm 803 00:40:09,520 --> 00:40:12,720 Speaker 2: around those people. It's all one thing. So we should 804 00:40:12,719 --> 00:40:19,760 Speaker 2: actually look at Matt. Matt's Yeah. So then the five piece, 805 00:40:19,800 --> 00:40:21,640 Speaker 2: So the five. I sort of talked a lot about 806 00:40:21,640 --> 00:40:23,160 Speaker 2: the five. The other thing with the five is it's 807 00:40:23,200 --> 00:40:27,239 Speaker 2: about leadership and it's about this thing called universalizing. So 808 00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:29,319 Speaker 2: a line five wants to have an impact, A line 809 00:40:29,320 --> 00:40:30,759 Speaker 2: five is going to be someone who says, you know what, 810 00:40:30,800 --> 00:40:32,520 Speaker 2: I want to make a difference in the world. It matters, 811 00:40:32,600 --> 00:40:36,000 Speaker 2: legacy matters, impact matters. They're the ones that want to 812 00:40:36,080 --> 00:40:39,160 Speaker 2: have this bigger expression of life. And the way they 813 00:40:39,160 --> 00:40:41,160 Speaker 2: do that is they take all the things that they're 814 00:40:41,239 --> 00:40:44,440 Speaker 2: learning and they take it to everybody. They lead with it, 815 00:40:44,480 --> 00:40:47,319 Speaker 2: and they want everyone to have that information. Does that 816 00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:48,440 Speaker 2: resonate totally? 817 00:40:48,840 --> 00:40:50,640 Speaker 1: You and I are both tad about breathwork before and 818 00:40:50,680 --> 00:40:53,960 Speaker 1: I did this breath work session and followed by meditation 819 00:40:54,840 --> 00:40:57,399 Speaker 1: and my beautiful breathwork friend Daisy was like, what's come 820 00:40:57,480 --> 00:41:00,399 Speaker 1: up for you? And I was like, winning an Emmy? Yeah, 821 00:41:00,680 --> 00:41:02,879 Speaker 1: And I said, but when I win that Emmy, I 822 00:41:02,960 --> 00:41:05,000 Speaker 1: want to teach people how to win an Emmy. Yep, 823 00:41:05,040 --> 00:41:08,239 Speaker 1: whether it's write a book or go and teach actors, 824 00:41:08,280 --> 00:41:10,920 Speaker 1: Like these are the things that work for me because 825 00:41:10,920 --> 00:41:14,080 Speaker 1: it is such a mental game as well. And I said, so, like, 826 00:41:14,120 --> 00:41:15,920 Speaker 1: I want to win that thing, whether it's for a 827 00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:19,560 Speaker 1: talk show host or being in a sitcom. I said, 828 00:41:19,560 --> 00:41:22,200 Speaker 1: but then I want to share it. And it's really 829 00:41:22,200 --> 00:41:24,279 Speaker 1: important that I can then use that wisdom that you 830 00:41:24,280 --> 00:41:26,880 Speaker 1: were talking about and then help other people access it 831 00:41:26,920 --> 00:41:29,040 Speaker 1: as well as opposed to winning it for. 832 00:41:29,040 --> 00:41:32,400 Speaker 2: Me, yeaper, and that's the trans personal. So you've the 833 00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:34,560 Speaker 2: transpersonal means you've got the big number on your profile 834 00:41:34,600 --> 00:41:39,359 Speaker 2: five to one first, so you really are guided by 835 00:41:39,400 --> 00:41:43,400 Speaker 2: the other so by other people, whereas for me, as 836 00:41:43,400 --> 00:41:47,000 Speaker 2: I said earlier, it's personal small number first. The cool 837 00:41:47,040 --> 00:41:49,240 Speaker 2: thing that you also just said, so your core talent 838 00:41:49,280 --> 00:41:52,600 Speaker 2: sits in a gate called what's gate fifteen, and it's 839 00:41:52,600 --> 00:41:55,920 Speaker 2: the love of humanity. It's also the gate of extremes. 840 00:41:56,080 --> 00:41:59,239 Speaker 2: So it's this energy of like you can't do the 841 00:41:59,280 --> 00:42:00,840 Speaker 2: same thing every day. You've got to do things the 842 00:42:00,920 --> 00:42:02,719 Speaker 2: way you want to do them. Something works for a 843 00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:04,400 Speaker 2: week and then you need to blow it up and 844 00:42:04,400 --> 00:42:10,000 Speaker 2: do something completely different. It's a very very powerful gain 845 00:42:10,000 --> 00:42:11,759 Speaker 2: and you've got it in the line six as well. 846 00:42:11,840 --> 00:42:14,560 Speaker 2: So this is the teacher again, it's what you're talking about. 847 00:42:14,600 --> 00:42:16,920 Speaker 2: It's like, I actually want to go out there and 848 00:42:16,960 --> 00:42:19,200 Speaker 2: be the visionary. I want to be able to teach 849 00:42:19,239 --> 00:42:24,680 Speaker 2: what I know and support humanity through that process. 850 00:42:24,760 --> 00:42:27,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's so cool. This is very empowering. 851 00:42:28,080 --> 00:42:30,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, well, this is the thing I think what I 852 00:42:30,440 --> 00:42:32,000 Speaker 2: love about human design. I mean, there's a lot of 853 00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:33,960 Speaker 2: teachers out there that are teaching it as a dogma. 854 00:42:34,120 --> 00:42:36,600 Speaker 2: It's not a freaking dogma. It's not like, don't let 855 00:42:36,680 --> 00:42:39,200 Speaker 2: anyone tell you who are through the frame of your 856 00:42:39,239 --> 00:42:42,200 Speaker 2: human design. What you want is you want to experiment. 857 00:42:42,320 --> 00:42:43,960 Speaker 2: You want to like listen to these things. You want 858 00:42:43,960 --> 00:42:45,920 Speaker 2: to do the things and notice in your physical body 859 00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:49,360 Speaker 2: does that resonate? Again, we live in an energetic universe 860 00:42:49,719 --> 00:42:52,960 Speaker 2: the whole time, we are being given biofeedback in our body, 861 00:42:53,120 --> 00:42:55,640 Speaker 2: and if something resonates, that's truth. You know, it's literally 862 00:42:55,680 --> 00:42:56,640 Speaker 2: ourselves going. 863 00:42:56,520 --> 00:42:57,680 Speaker 1: Yep, yep, that's true. 864 00:42:57,760 --> 00:43:01,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, but we're so conditioned to ignore it. We're conditioned 865 00:43:01,719 --> 00:43:05,360 Speaker 2: to ignore our biofeedback. Like what do we do. We 866 00:43:05,400 --> 00:43:07,560 Speaker 2: go to the doctor because we think the doctor is 867 00:43:07,560 --> 00:43:09,799 Speaker 2: the authority in our body. But where the authority on 868 00:43:09,840 --> 00:43:13,200 Speaker 2: our body? You know? We go to school to university 869 00:43:13,320 --> 00:43:17,319 Speaker 2: to learn something because we think the authority and I mean, 870 00:43:17,680 --> 00:43:20,160 Speaker 2: now we know that's so much of the stuff that 871 00:43:20,200 --> 00:43:24,760 Speaker 2: has taught in universities is actually wrong. You know it's wrong. 872 00:43:25,400 --> 00:43:28,160 Speaker 2: So the big thing for me for human design is 873 00:43:28,200 --> 00:43:31,600 Speaker 2: actually being able to access the truth that lies within you. 874 00:43:31,719 --> 00:43:34,560 Speaker 2: What is correct for you? I mean, I've healed my 875 00:43:34,600 --> 00:43:39,280 Speaker 2: body through human design. I've built a business, I've raised 876 00:43:39,280 --> 00:43:43,279 Speaker 2: my kids in alignment with their design. And it's just 877 00:43:43,360 --> 00:43:46,640 Speaker 2: this way of like setting you free, you know, and 878 00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:48,759 Speaker 2: being the ultimate authority in your own life and not 879 00:43:48,800 --> 00:43:49,720 Speaker 2: giving you power away. 880 00:43:50,040 --> 00:43:53,560 Speaker 1: I love it. Oh my goodness. I couldn't flipping ask 881 00:43:53,680 --> 00:43:57,280 Speaker 1: you so many things. But I think for somebody listening 882 00:43:57,360 --> 00:43:59,040 Speaker 1: that wants to have this experience, this is what you 883 00:43:59,040 --> 00:44:00,880 Speaker 1: were saying about on your web. You can get your 884 00:44:00,920 --> 00:44:03,719 Speaker 1: chart that's free, right, and then and then you can 885 00:44:03,719 --> 00:44:05,200 Speaker 1: figure out where you are and get someone to sit 886 00:44:05,239 --> 00:44:07,719 Speaker 1: with you, like what you're doing with me, and it 887 00:44:07,800 --> 00:44:11,080 Speaker 1: is so it feels like what you're doing is give 888 00:44:11,120 --> 00:44:14,000 Speaker 1: me a little spark. That's how I can best describe it. 889 00:44:14,280 --> 00:44:17,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's that, well, you know, a manifesting generator being 890 00:44:17,120 --> 00:44:21,400 Speaker 2: inspired into action. No like and yeah, with the getting 891 00:44:21,440 --> 00:44:24,080 Speaker 2: your free chart on the website, we give you a 892 00:44:24,080 --> 00:44:26,479 Speaker 2: lot of this information. So when you get your chart, 893 00:44:26,520 --> 00:44:29,640 Speaker 2: you won't just get the weird picture. You will get it. 894 00:44:29,480 --> 00:44:31,120 Speaker 1: Is a weird picture by the picture. 895 00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:35,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, you will get like if you're a manifestor, this 896 00:44:35,560 --> 00:44:37,480 Speaker 2: is what a manifestor is that this is what your 897 00:44:37,520 --> 00:44:39,799 Speaker 2: authority is and that's what this is what it means, 898 00:44:39,800 --> 00:44:41,520 Speaker 2: and this is your profile and that's what it means. 899 00:44:41,600 --> 00:44:44,880 Speaker 2: And we actually give you quite a bit of information 900 00:44:45,520 --> 00:44:46,799 Speaker 2: just to kick off. 901 00:44:47,280 --> 00:44:51,000 Speaker 1: I've heard you talk before about and this might line 902 00:44:51,080 --> 00:44:52,799 Speaker 1: up with what you were just saying, but you've talked 903 00:44:52,800 --> 00:44:57,520 Speaker 1: about two things that I found really interesting. But one 904 00:44:57,600 --> 00:44:59,880 Speaker 1: like the power of saying no. And I think that 905 00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:03,640 Speaker 1: this would affect every human being I imagine, and how 906 00:45:03,680 --> 00:45:07,880 Speaker 1: that in a human design blueprint, how that kind of 907 00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:10,080 Speaker 1: like can be really empowering. Can you share a little bit. 908 00:45:10,080 --> 00:45:11,640 Speaker 1: I know I'm asking not very specifically. 909 00:45:11,719 --> 00:45:13,319 Speaker 2: Now, it's fine, I know what you're talking about. So 910 00:45:14,320 --> 00:45:16,160 Speaker 2: one of the big things with human design is all 911 00:45:16,160 --> 00:45:19,560 Speaker 2: about making decisions with our own internal guidance system, our 912 00:45:19,600 --> 00:45:23,000 Speaker 2: authority that I've spoken about now, between the ages of 913 00:45:23,080 --> 00:45:25,799 Speaker 2: zero to seven, we're conditioned. Our brain is in fade 914 00:45:25,800 --> 00:45:29,000 Speaker 2: at brain wave. We don't have analytics, we don't know right, wrong, 915 00:45:29,040 --> 00:45:31,000 Speaker 2: good or bad. All we know is we need love, 916 00:45:31,080 --> 00:45:33,640 Speaker 2: we need nurturing, and we need to belong. And what 917 00:45:33,680 --> 00:45:35,879 Speaker 2: we what we do is we discover who we need 918 00:45:35,920 --> 00:45:38,920 Speaker 2: to be to receive those things. That becomes our conditioning, 919 00:45:38,960 --> 00:45:41,759 Speaker 2: that becomes our adult identity. That's who most people are 920 00:45:41,760 --> 00:45:44,920 Speaker 2: walking around on the planet being that's not who you are. 921 00:45:45,640 --> 00:45:47,840 Speaker 2: That's who you needed to be to receive the things 922 00:45:47,840 --> 00:45:52,759 Speaker 2: to survive. Now, when we get to the almost like 923 00:45:52,800 --> 00:45:55,279 Speaker 2: the boundaries piece, the yes no, our human design will 924 00:45:55,320 --> 00:45:57,160 Speaker 2: tell us always if it's a yes or a no, 925 00:45:57,280 --> 00:45:59,240 Speaker 2: if it's something that's correct for us or not correct 926 00:45:59,239 --> 00:46:02,719 Speaker 2: for us. And ultimately, if you're like a projector for example, 927 00:46:03,239 --> 00:46:05,960 Speaker 2: these people are like less is more, so they actually 928 00:46:06,000 --> 00:46:10,120 Speaker 2: should be sitting on the couch relatively speaking a whole 929 00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:12,520 Speaker 2: lot more. You and I like if we sit still 930 00:46:12,520 --> 00:46:14,719 Speaker 2: for long enough. In fact, We're all in the pool 931 00:46:15,280 --> 00:46:18,000 Speaker 2: in Mexico and I'm a retreat. It was hilarious. There 932 00:46:18,000 --> 00:46:19,480 Speaker 2: was one MG in the pool. I was sitting on 933 00:46:19,480 --> 00:46:21,960 Speaker 2: the edge and she's just bouncing up and down. I'm like, 934 00:46:22,120 --> 00:46:23,920 Speaker 2: you can tell you can tell the MG because they 935 00:46:23,960 --> 00:46:26,960 Speaker 2: have to burn the energy, right, So this is all 936 00:46:27,000 --> 00:46:30,840 Speaker 2: line one behavior all but yeah, it's really normal, Like 937 00:46:31,040 --> 00:46:33,040 Speaker 2: that's what that's what this is what Taylor. Taylor's a 938 00:46:33,080 --> 00:46:33,520 Speaker 2: five one. 939 00:46:33,840 --> 00:46:38,439 Speaker 1: I couldn't interview someone without like this. The guests before you, Yeah, 940 00:46:38,760 --> 00:46:40,920 Speaker 1: a few days like these are all my podive planned 941 00:46:40,960 --> 00:46:41,399 Speaker 1: for the year. 942 00:46:41,520 --> 00:46:44,600 Speaker 2: Yep. And that's like completely in alignment, as long as 943 00:46:44,600 --> 00:46:46,200 Speaker 2: it doesn't stop you taking action. 944 00:46:46,520 --> 00:46:49,240 Speaker 1: Oh no, I love. It's the biggest challenge for the line. 945 00:46:49,000 --> 00:46:52,279 Speaker 2: Ones is that they're constantly looking for more information and 946 00:46:52,360 --> 00:46:54,320 Speaker 2: they can get stuck in well, I need more information 947 00:46:54,400 --> 00:46:55,360 Speaker 2: before I can act. 948 00:46:55,640 --> 00:46:58,480 Speaker 1: So it's funny that you even say that my acts. 949 00:46:58,520 --> 00:47:01,239 Speaker 1: I've trained as an actor for seven years now and 950 00:47:01,280 --> 00:47:04,960 Speaker 1: my acting coach in Australia. I flew down to Melbourne. 951 00:47:05,000 --> 00:47:07,080 Speaker 1: I was like, I'm not going to prepare a scene 952 00:47:07,080 --> 00:47:09,040 Speaker 1: for you today for the first time ever. I was like, 953 00:47:09,080 --> 00:47:11,400 Speaker 1: you need to give it to me real and he's like, 954 00:47:11,440 --> 00:47:13,000 Speaker 1: I'm going back to la and he's like, okay, do 955 00:47:13,000 --> 00:47:15,000 Speaker 1: you want me to be honest? He's like every time 956 00:47:15,080 --> 00:47:17,239 Speaker 1: he goes, every time I see you work, he goes, 957 00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:19,480 Speaker 1: I can see the work you've done. It's important to 958 00:47:19,560 --> 00:47:22,120 Speaker 1: you that I know that you've worked hard on the scene. 959 00:47:22,400 --> 00:47:25,719 Speaker 1: He's like, you outwork every single one of my students. 960 00:47:26,239 --> 00:47:28,359 Speaker 1: We know it, he said, But you need to let 961 00:47:28,360 --> 00:47:31,200 Speaker 1: the fuck go right now. And he's like, that's your superpower. 962 00:47:31,600 --> 00:47:31,839 Speaker 2: Yeah. 963 00:47:31,920 --> 00:47:33,560 Speaker 1: And it was funny. I was writing a book and 964 00:47:33,600 --> 00:47:35,440 Speaker 1: I there was a bit I needed to edit and 965 00:47:35,440 --> 00:47:37,600 Speaker 1: I couldn't let go of it, hold on tight, and 966 00:47:37,640 --> 00:47:39,399 Speaker 1: I had a shot of whiskey and then I wrote, 967 00:47:39,400 --> 00:47:42,160 Speaker 1: and he goes, you need a metaphorical shot of whiskey. 968 00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:44,640 Speaker 1: Let the fuck go move. He's like, that's where your 969 00:47:44,680 --> 00:47:47,160 Speaker 1: magic will be. And I think it's like the way 970 00:47:47,160 --> 00:47:50,440 Speaker 1: you're describing this line one and it's that. So it's 971 00:47:50,480 --> 00:47:53,360 Speaker 1: your authority, you know, so what you need to what 972 00:47:53,520 --> 00:47:56,160 Speaker 1: you need to trust, So you have an emotional authority. 973 00:47:56,160 --> 00:47:57,480 Speaker 2: So all the big decision is going to be made 974 00:47:57,480 --> 00:48:01,520 Speaker 2: over time. But when you're let's say you're or preparing 975 00:48:01,560 --> 00:48:04,240 Speaker 2: for something, or you're about to go into an interview, 976 00:48:04,239 --> 00:48:07,000 Speaker 2: you're about to go into a casting, I don't know. 977 00:48:07,080 --> 00:48:08,520 Speaker 2: And if you just all of a sudden you feel 978 00:48:08,560 --> 00:48:10,279 Speaker 2: in your gut like okay, it's go time. 979 00:48:10,400 --> 00:48:11,000 Speaker 1: I've got energy. 980 00:48:11,000 --> 00:48:14,239 Speaker 2: If it is, you have to trust it. No more 981 00:48:14,239 --> 00:48:14,440 Speaker 2: of this. 982 00:48:14,680 --> 00:48:15,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, the brain's got to get out. 983 00:48:17,040 --> 00:48:19,479 Speaker 2: Just trust the gut. And the thing being an MG 984 00:48:19,600 --> 00:48:23,000 Speaker 2: is you're always in response, So be focused on you 985 00:48:23,040 --> 00:48:25,440 Speaker 2: know what they're asking, If you have any questions or 986 00:48:25,480 --> 00:48:28,080 Speaker 2: whoever you're acting opposite like, just focus on them. 987 00:48:28,000 --> 00:48:30,320 Speaker 1: And just respond, just respond just as curious. 988 00:48:30,560 --> 00:48:35,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like I don't prepare I don't prepare. No, 989 00:48:35,200 --> 00:48:38,160 Speaker 2: but you have a defined head and asna, which means 990 00:48:38,160 --> 00:48:42,560 Speaker 2: that you're designed to prepare. But I don't. The more 991 00:48:42,640 --> 00:48:44,880 Speaker 2: I prepare, the less. 992 00:48:44,960 --> 00:48:47,680 Speaker 1: Powerful I am because it doesn't free You're not freeing anyone. 993 00:48:47,680 --> 00:48:49,759 Speaker 2: When you can put me on any stage in front 994 00:48:49,760 --> 00:48:53,760 Speaker 2: of anyone, you can ask me anything. I so funny. 995 00:48:53,760 --> 00:48:55,719 Speaker 1: I used to tour as a speaker the same way 996 00:48:55,719 --> 00:48:58,920 Speaker 1: you are. And I remember it was backstage with another 997 00:48:58,960 --> 00:49:01,080 Speaker 1: friend and I had all my note I was just 998 00:49:01,160 --> 00:49:03,000 Speaker 1: like going over my notes. I'd done this speech. I 999 00:49:03,000 --> 00:49:05,160 Speaker 1: couldn't tell you how many times, like I knew it 1000 00:49:05,440 --> 00:49:09,440 Speaker 1: backwards and I don't take notes on stage. And my 1001 00:49:09,440 --> 00:49:11,640 Speaker 1: friend was up after me. I was like, what are 1002 00:49:11,640 --> 00:49:13,000 Speaker 1: you going to speak about? It's like o't to see 1003 00:49:13,000 --> 00:49:15,160 Speaker 1: what comes to me, And I was like, are you kidding? 1004 00:49:15,440 --> 00:49:18,440 Speaker 1: Like that made me feel like my palms were sweating 1005 00:49:18,440 --> 00:49:20,239 Speaker 1: at the thought of it. So it's obviously like just 1006 00:49:20,320 --> 00:49:21,480 Speaker 1: that complete different. 1007 00:49:21,640 --> 00:49:24,640 Speaker 2: Well, it's got a lot to do with our mental energy. 1008 00:49:24,760 --> 00:49:27,840 Speaker 2: So with human designing to talk about defined or undefined. 1009 00:49:28,400 --> 00:49:31,239 Speaker 2: So for you, the way you're designed to think, because 1010 00:49:31,239 --> 00:49:33,600 Speaker 2: you have definition in the head, in the ashna, it 1011 00:49:33,680 --> 00:49:37,840 Speaker 2: means that you already think two, three, eight steps ahead 1012 00:49:37,800 --> 00:49:41,000 Speaker 2: and everyone else, and you think in process, whether it's 1013 00:49:41,000 --> 00:49:44,920 Speaker 2: a strategy, you can see the steps, you know, it's logical, 1014 00:49:45,120 --> 00:49:49,480 Speaker 2: it's a pathway. In my head, it's an absolute shambles, 1015 00:49:49,640 --> 00:49:53,239 Speaker 2: Like if I want clarity in my mind, I have 1016 00:49:53,320 --> 00:49:56,440 Speaker 2: to write it down. Yeah, because I'm actually wide open. 1017 00:49:56,480 --> 00:49:58,560 Speaker 2: So what happens is that I'm just grasping at the 1018 00:49:58,600 --> 00:50:01,279 Speaker 2: field the whole time. My mind just grasping at the field. 1019 00:50:01,360 --> 00:50:04,960 Speaker 2: It'll just take whatever it needs, you know. I often 1020 00:50:05,400 --> 00:50:06,799 Speaker 2: one of the ways I like to put it is 1021 00:50:07,640 --> 00:50:10,439 Speaker 2: I have studied. I've learned so much in the last 1022 00:50:10,480 --> 00:50:14,600 Speaker 2: twenty years, and part of it I think, well, I've 1023 00:50:14,640 --> 00:50:16,200 Speaker 2: just learned this stuff, so I've got the language for 1024 00:50:16,239 --> 00:50:19,080 Speaker 2: the universe because I don't prepare, like I can pull 1025 00:50:19,160 --> 00:50:21,920 Speaker 2: something from twenty years ago to put it with something 1026 00:50:21,920 --> 00:50:24,120 Speaker 2: I learned twenty minutes ago, Oh my goodness, and just 1027 00:50:24,160 --> 00:50:24,880 Speaker 2: map them together. 1028 00:50:24,920 --> 00:50:26,200 Speaker 1: You're like the limitless person. 1029 00:50:26,640 --> 00:50:30,640 Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, But because I have this this open head 1030 00:50:30,680 --> 00:50:33,000 Speaker 2: and ashna meaning that it's constantly just getting all the 1031 00:50:33,000 --> 00:50:36,520 Speaker 2: pieces it needs from the field, whereas yours is mapping out. 1032 00:50:36,840 --> 00:50:39,280 Speaker 2: But yours is a superpower as well. Like the story 1033 00:50:39,320 --> 00:50:43,160 Speaker 2: I love to tell about Taylor and I same deal. 1034 00:50:43,200 --> 00:50:46,600 Speaker 2: She has a definition in the ASHNA. I came to her. 1035 00:50:46,840 --> 00:50:48,319 Speaker 2: This is probably two years ago. I'm like, right, I've 1036 00:50:48,360 --> 00:50:50,360 Speaker 2: got this idea. This is what i want to build. 1037 00:50:50,520 --> 00:50:52,200 Speaker 2: It's going to look like this, da da da, and 1038 00:50:52,280 --> 00:50:53,920 Speaker 2: this is what I want to teach. And she just 1039 00:50:53,960 --> 00:50:56,400 Speaker 2: looked at me and went, oh, I wonder what that was. 1040 00:50:56,880 --> 00:50:59,040 Speaker 2: What do you mean? Because I've been mapping that out 1041 00:50:59,040 --> 00:51:00,839 Speaker 2: in my head for the last weeks. I just didn't 1042 00:51:00,880 --> 00:51:05,000 Speaker 2: know what it was. So for you, it's always up 1043 00:51:05,000 --> 00:51:08,400 Speaker 2: there mapping stuff out. Whatever the stuff is, it's okay. 1044 00:51:08,440 --> 00:51:11,280 Speaker 2: It's just as long as you stay in that place 1045 00:51:11,320 --> 00:51:14,520 Speaker 2: of curiosity not fear, because fear is the thing that 1046 00:51:15,320 --> 00:51:17,080 Speaker 2: you know, pumps the brakes, and you don't want to 1047 00:51:17,080 --> 00:51:18,200 Speaker 2: be pumping the brakes. Yeah. 1048 00:51:18,400 --> 00:51:19,120 Speaker 1: Oh, I love it. 1049 00:51:19,160 --> 00:51:19,520 Speaker 2: I love it. 1050 00:51:19,560 --> 00:51:21,520 Speaker 1: Final question, because I could talk to you all day long. 1051 00:51:22,239 --> 00:51:26,160 Speaker 1: I've heard you describe two types of burnout. So one 1052 00:51:26,239 --> 00:51:29,600 Speaker 1: is like the traditional burnout that we passed out cold 1053 00:51:29,600 --> 00:51:31,839 Speaker 1: on the couch, yeah, and then the other one, I've 1054 00:51:31,840 --> 00:51:35,239 Speaker 1: written it all down here, is more this functional functional. 1055 00:51:35,360 --> 00:51:36,200 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1056 00:51:36,560 --> 00:51:39,160 Speaker 1: So can you explain the two different to me and 1057 00:51:39,239 --> 00:51:41,759 Speaker 1: how it links back to our human design. 1058 00:51:41,600 --> 00:51:45,600 Speaker 2: Yep, okay, So functional burnout is something that from a 1059 00:51:45,680 --> 00:51:50,040 Speaker 2: human design perspective, generators and manifesting generators do. Burnout is 1060 00:51:50,080 --> 00:51:52,719 Speaker 2: what most of the rest of the population do. So 1061 00:51:53,000 --> 00:51:57,799 Speaker 2: if you're a non sacral being, manifesto projector reflector, when 1062 00:51:57,840 --> 00:52:01,879 Speaker 2: you burn out, everybody knows about it. You've got hashimotos, 1063 00:52:02,040 --> 00:52:05,640 Speaker 2: you're in the hospital, you're on the couch, like your 1064 00:52:05,680 --> 00:52:08,359 Speaker 2: body is like we're done, We're out. I can't do this. 1065 00:52:09,200 --> 00:52:12,040 Speaker 2: But functional burnout is the thing that generators and manifesting 1066 00:52:12,080 --> 00:52:16,279 Speaker 2: generators do because they can just keep going. So the 1067 00:52:16,320 --> 00:52:19,839 Speaker 2: way it shows up is they lose all passion, all 1068 00:52:19,960 --> 00:52:24,040 Speaker 2: lust for life, like what's the point and they live 1069 00:52:24,120 --> 00:52:27,040 Speaker 2: this groundhog day And it's because they no longer have 1070 00:52:27,080 --> 00:52:30,000 Speaker 2: access to their sacral energy. When their sacrele energy is 1071 00:52:30,000 --> 00:52:31,880 Speaker 2: the lit up energy, it's the thing that's actually going 1072 00:52:31,960 --> 00:52:33,680 Speaker 2: to go. It's their north star, it's the thing that's 1073 00:52:33,680 --> 00:52:36,240 Speaker 2: moving them through life. It's the thing that's the magnet 1074 00:52:36,640 --> 00:52:40,440 Speaker 2: that brings all the things to respond to. So they 1075 00:52:40,480 --> 00:52:42,239 Speaker 2: will I mean, and yes they can still get sick, 1076 00:52:42,239 --> 00:52:43,960 Speaker 2: and yes they can still do all of those things, 1077 00:52:44,440 --> 00:52:46,840 Speaker 2: but it's almost a little bit more insidious because you 1078 00:52:46,880 --> 00:52:52,120 Speaker 2: don't know it's there. But I would say most generators 1079 00:52:53,280 --> 00:52:58,680 Speaker 2: are or have experienced this functional burnout generators and manifesting generators. 1080 00:52:59,040 --> 00:53:01,760 Speaker 2: You know, I've I've definitely, like I had my first 1081 00:53:01,760 --> 00:53:04,000 Speaker 2: burnout when I was twenty eight. I sorry, twenty four. 1082 00:53:04,560 --> 00:53:06,399 Speaker 2: I've done it a few times since then. I've even 1083 00:53:06,440 --> 00:53:09,480 Speaker 2: done it from the perspective of growing my business. And 1084 00:53:09,520 --> 00:53:13,720 Speaker 2: I just loved it so much because as a sacral 1085 00:53:13,719 --> 00:53:17,080 Speaker 2: being generator and a manifesting generator, work is the thing that 1086 00:53:17,120 --> 00:53:19,880 Speaker 2: we love, so we can get really addicted to it. 1087 00:53:20,360 --> 00:53:23,080 Speaker 2: You know. I found it really challenging to have, you know, 1088 00:53:23,160 --> 00:53:25,440 Speaker 2: my two little baby, my kids when they were little, 1089 00:53:25,719 --> 00:53:27,440 Speaker 2: because all I wanted to do was work. I just 1090 00:53:27,480 --> 00:53:28,799 Speaker 2: wanted to work, but there was this part of me 1091 00:53:28,920 --> 00:53:32,160 Speaker 2: is like, no, I really also simultaneously want to be 1092 00:53:32,200 --> 00:53:36,479 Speaker 2: home with my kids. So we are designed to work. 1093 00:53:36,520 --> 00:53:39,400 Speaker 2: We are designed to build something in this life, but 1094 00:53:39,520 --> 00:53:43,319 Speaker 2: from a place of joy, from excitement from this, like 1095 00:53:43,360 --> 00:53:45,560 Speaker 2: I have so much, I've bound loss energy to keep 1096 00:53:45,560 --> 00:53:49,520 Speaker 2: going and do this thing. Whereas most people work corporate 1097 00:53:49,600 --> 00:53:52,919 Speaker 2: jobs or you know, in an office or just doing 1098 00:53:52,920 --> 00:53:55,160 Speaker 2: the same thing day and day out, and it just 1099 00:53:55,440 --> 00:53:58,279 Speaker 2: literally zaps their life force and puts them in this 1100 00:53:58,360 --> 00:54:01,240 Speaker 2: place that they don't even have access to the things 1101 00:54:01,520 --> 00:54:02,640 Speaker 2: that light them up anymore. 1102 00:54:02,760 --> 00:54:05,279 Speaker 1: How do you catch yourself though? Like, how is it 1103 00:54:05,320 --> 00:54:07,160 Speaker 1: that you notice that spark's kind of gone? 1104 00:54:07,239 --> 00:54:09,600 Speaker 2: And but you just notice you live in groundhog day? 1105 00:54:09,840 --> 00:54:12,319 Speaker 2: You know, like you're just living the same thing day 1106 00:54:12,360 --> 00:54:15,120 Speaker 2: in day out. And what's the point you've lost the 1107 00:54:15,239 --> 00:54:18,600 Speaker 2: lust for life? There's no passion, there's no enthusiasm. You 1108 00:54:18,680 --> 00:54:20,360 Speaker 2: go and do something that you used to love and 1109 00:54:20,360 --> 00:54:22,840 Speaker 2: you couldn't give a crap. It just doesn't bother, Like 1110 00:54:22,880 --> 00:54:26,919 Speaker 2: you're not interested anymore. And it's because there's no energy left, 1111 00:54:27,120 --> 00:54:31,640 Speaker 2: you know. And one of the big things is when 1112 00:54:31,680 --> 00:54:35,160 Speaker 2: you get to that point, you have to rest. You 1113 00:54:35,320 --> 00:54:37,840 Speaker 2: absolutely have to rest. And the next thing you have 1114 00:54:37,880 --> 00:54:41,520 Speaker 2: to do is play. Yeah, you have to play because 1115 00:54:41,800 --> 00:54:46,360 Speaker 2: the sacral energy is a very enthusiastic, childlike energy. And 1116 00:54:46,440 --> 00:54:49,840 Speaker 2: if you are like super serious and pushing yourself to 1117 00:54:49,880 --> 00:54:51,200 Speaker 2: do things you've got to do because you've got to 1118 00:54:51,200 --> 00:54:54,040 Speaker 2: pay the bills and blah blah blah, then I'm telling 1119 00:54:54,120 --> 00:54:56,400 Speaker 2: you you're doing it the hard way because the moment 1120 00:54:56,440 --> 00:54:58,920 Speaker 2: you get access to that sacral energy and you follow 1121 00:54:58,960 --> 00:55:03,400 Speaker 2: what you love. Money is easy, Relationships ten times easier 1122 00:55:03,400 --> 00:55:06,120 Speaker 2: when you going back to your initial Your other question 1123 00:55:06,120 --> 00:55:08,720 Speaker 2: about the yeares no, Like the beauty of human design 1124 00:55:08,760 --> 00:55:11,200 Speaker 2: is it's going to Your body is telling you all 1125 00:55:11,239 --> 00:55:12,959 Speaker 2: the time what is correct for you and what isn't. 1126 00:55:13,520 --> 00:55:16,560 Speaker 2: The moment you choose to listen to it is the 1127 00:55:16,560 --> 00:55:19,719 Speaker 2: moment your life gets easier. Yeah, because the moment you 1128 00:55:20,480 --> 00:55:23,399 Speaker 2: start to live more in flow. But you also need 1129 00:55:23,440 --> 00:55:25,560 Speaker 2: to be brave because it's the moment you realize that 1130 00:55:25,600 --> 00:55:29,000 Speaker 2: the relationship isn't working, or this group of friends are toxic, 1131 00:55:29,200 --> 00:55:31,120 Speaker 2: or this job is not correct for you, And then 1132 00:55:31,160 --> 00:55:33,400 Speaker 2: you need to be brave enough to continue to listen 1133 00:55:33,400 --> 00:55:37,160 Speaker 2: to your strategy and authority to take you over the 1134 00:55:37,200 --> 00:55:39,400 Speaker 2: bridge to this new life that you deserve. 1135 00:55:40,520 --> 00:55:41,600 Speaker 1: You know, Like how good? 1136 00:55:41,719 --> 00:55:43,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, And that's the biggest thing, Like just having the 1137 00:55:43,520 --> 00:55:45,799 Speaker 2: courage to keep listening to it and keep going. And 1138 00:55:46,239 --> 00:55:49,560 Speaker 2: you know, in my life, it's it's been an absolute 1139 00:55:49,560 --> 00:55:51,560 Speaker 2: game changer, Like I feel like I live the dream. 1140 00:55:51,920 --> 00:55:54,560 Speaker 1: Oh mate, you one hundred percent. And I don't know 1141 00:55:54,560 --> 00:55:57,560 Speaker 1: if you remember this, but when we met at that lunch, 1142 00:55:57,719 --> 00:56:00,879 Speaker 1: just have a full circle moment. I remember I knew no, well, 1143 00:56:00,960 --> 00:56:04,279 Speaker 1: I didn't know anyone personally now other than Launa. Yeah, 1144 00:56:04,640 --> 00:56:06,839 Speaker 1: and we were at a lawna Jane lunch. But I 1145 00:56:06,880 --> 00:56:09,880 Speaker 1: walked in and my hands were sweating, and I was like, oh, 1146 00:56:10,000 --> 00:56:12,560 Speaker 1: like cause I'm I know you're introverted, yeah as well, 1147 00:56:12,560 --> 00:56:14,680 Speaker 1: but very much. And it seems like when I say that, 1148 00:56:14,719 --> 00:56:17,359 Speaker 1: people they're like what, and I'm like, yeah, I might no, no, no, 1149 00:56:18,520 --> 00:56:21,240 Speaker 1: And I was like, oh, this is really like uncomfortable 1150 00:56:21,280 --> 00:56:24,120 Speaker 1: for me. I didn't really know how to be that, 1151 00:56:24,280 --> 00:56:26,920 Speaker 1: like it sounds really weat saying it. And I remember 1152 00:56:26,960 --> 00:56:28,799 Speaker 1: I was talking to like one of the start like 1153 00:56:28,880 --> 00:56:30,680 Speaker 1: one of their pr girls that were helping run the 1154 00:56:30,800 --> 00:56:33,200 Speaker 1: and I was like, okay, one nice person like chatting 1155 00:56:33,200 --> 00:56:35,840 Speaker 1: to me. Well, like a lot of influencers getting picky, 1156 00:56:35,960 --> 00:56:38,960 Speaker 1: said all this kind of thing, and then I remember 1157 00:56:38,960 --> 00:56:40,759 Speaker 1: it it's like you were staying there with a friend 1158 00:56:40,760 --> 00:56:42,680 Speaker 1: and I don't know how, but I walked over to 1159 00:56:42,719 --> 00:56:45,880 Speaker 1: you and that you were like my anchor essentially, and 1160 00:56:45,880 --> 00:56:48,280 Speaker 1: then we got seated next to each other randomly yep, 1161 00:56:48,480 --> 00:56:51,200 Speaker 1: And it was It was really interesting because I find 1162 00:56:51,239 --> 00:56:54,359 Speaker 1: those kind of events quite confronting. I think it's because 1163 00:56:54,400 --> 00:56:58,080 Speaker 1: I like, for me like I can't do And I'm 1164 00:56:58,080 --> 00:57:01,520 Speaker 1: not saying influencers in that world is fake, but sometimes 1165 00:57:01,520 --> 00:57:04,279 Speaker 1: some people have masks on in those scenarios, which is understandable. 1166 00:57:04,280 --> 00:57:06,080 Speaker 1: We're in a room of strangers. We want to be 1167 00:57:06,120 --> 00:57:09,520 Speaker 1: perceived a certain way, and it really makes me feel 1168 00:57:09,560 --> 00:57:12,040 Speaker 1: like I can't reaither. I don't know if I should 1169 00:57:12,040 --> 00:57:14,400 Speaker 1: be here. I just want to be and like it 1170 00:57:14,960 --> 00:57:17,200 Speaker 1: makes me kind of feel like slightly uneasy. It's always 1171 00:57:17,200 --> 00:57:19,680 Speaker 1: really nice to have like this grounding of you that 1172 00:57:20,080 --> 00:57:22,280 Speaker 1: thank you and ended up being a beautiful, lovely day 1173 00:57:22,320 --> 00:57:25,040 Speaker 1: and everyone was super lovely, but that initial feeling I 1174 00:57:25,080 --> 00:57:28,600 Speaker 1: was like. 1175 00:57:26,920 --> 00:57:29,880 Speaker 2: Like, yeah, and thank you, you appreciate that. And we 1176 00:57:29,960 --> 00:57:34,640 Speaker 2: know what's crazy is like my primary energy is this 1177 00:57:34,720 --> 00:57:37,760 Speaker 2: gate called the gate of friendship. So when people meet me, 1178 00:57:37,840 --> 00:57:40,000 Speaker 2: they feel they like I often get a feed they're like, 1179 00:57:40,080 --> 00:57:42,439 Speaker 2: you're just an like feel like an old friend, Like, yeah, 1180 00:57:42,480 --> 00:57:45,000 Speaker 2: that's my energy, And I mean, yes, I am that person, 1181 00:57:45,160 --> 00:57:48,360 Speaker 2: Like I get that feedback a lot, and I think 1182 00:57:48,360 --> 00:57:51,280 Speaker 2: it's because I've been there, you know, like I'm you know, 1183 00:57:51,320 --> 00:57:56,040 Speaker 2: fundamentally shy. Yeah, they're definitely introverted. When I turned up 1184 00:57:56,040 --> 00:57:59,080 Speaker 2: to that lunch and saw my friend Sophie, I was like, 1185 00:57:59,160 --> 00:58:03,680 Speaker 2: oh god, you know, like same deal as all these 1186 00:58:03,720 --> 00:58:06,280 Speaker 2: influencers having the photos taken, and I'm like, oh god, 1187 00:58:07,200 --> 00:58:11,120 Speaker 2: I don't belong here, you know, But that's just human nature. 1188 00:58:11,240 --> 00:58:14,160 Speaker 2: I think. One of the things, you know, people say 1189 00:58:14,160 --> 00:58:16,240 Speaker 2: to me a lot is like, wow, you're so confident, 1190 00:58:16,960 --> 00:58:20,600 Speaker 2: and which makes me giggle because I spent most of 1191 00:58:20,640 --> 00:58:24,000 Speaker 2: my childhood so shut down. Like all I wanted to 1192 00:58:24,000 --> 00:58:27,600 Speaker 2: be was confident. I just was not confident, and I even, 1193 00:58:27,760 --> 00:58:30,360 Speaker 2: you know, to this day, I'm like, am I confident? Well, 1194 00:58:30,440 --> 00:58:34,880 Speaker 2: yes i am. However, the big shift is that I'm 1195 00:58:34,920 --> 00:58:38,080 Speaker 2: authentically me. So when I turn up to places and 1196 00:58:38,160 --> 00:58:42,160 Speaker 2: situations like that, I no longer can be anything than me. 1197 00:58:42,480 --> 00:58:44,600 Speaker 2: I just can't. Like I just can't. Like once you 1198 00:58:44,680 --> 00:58:47,320 Speaker 2: do this work, once you go to this place and 1199 00:58:47,360 --> 00:58:50,960 Speaker 2: you love, trust and accept yourself as you are and 1200 00:58:51,000 --> 00:58:54,600 Speaker 2: the greatness that lies within you, like you can't be 1201 00:58:54,880 --> 00:58:59,160 Speaker 2: anything else. And I am so curious in those situations, 1202 00:58:59,160 --> 00:59:01,200 Speaker 2: like you're right, and especially your line one, like you're 1203 00:59:01,320 --> 00:59:04,680 Speaker 2: seeing all the masks, You're seeing the you know, just 1204 00:59:04,760 --> 00:59:07,600 Speaker 2: the turn of phrase or the look or whatever, and 1205 00:59:07,640 --> 00:59:10,920 Speaker 2: you're like, oh God, like that's insincere or that whatever. 1206 00:59:12,360 --> 00:59:14,760 Speaker 2: But it's just about going, well, that's your talent. So 1207 00:59:14,880 --> 00:59:18,240 Speaker 2: instead of it being something that that slows you down 1208 00:59:18,400 --> 00:59:20,680 Speaker 2: or causes you to kind of step back, you in 1209 00:59:20,760 --> 00:59:22,680 Speaker 2: fact want to lean into it and think, well, you 1210 00:59:22,720 --> 00:59:25,760 Speaker 2: know what they're feeling a bit, they're feeling this at 1211 00:59:25,800 --> 00:59:28,800 Speaker 2: the moment. I can feel that they're feeling a bit uneasy. 1212 00:59:28,880 --> 00:59:31,600 Speaker 2: So maybe I can befriend them and support there because 1213 00:59:31,640 --> 00:59:36,720 Speaker 2: you are the most approachable, easy human to be around, 1214 00:59:36,880 --> 00:59:39,320 Speaker 2: like so comfortable to be around. Like I was the same. 1215 00:59:39,360 --> 00:59:41,320 Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god, it's so nice just 1216 00:59:41,360 --> 00:59:42,800 Speaker 2: to be with a normal human. 1217 00:59:42,720 --> 00:59:46,960 Speaker 1: You know, thank you, thank you, my whole stickers. Just 1218 00:59:47,000 --> 00:59:49,080 Speaker 1: be real. I'm like, it's never going to f me up. 1219 00:59:49,200 --> 00:59:50,360 Speaker 2: Like I'm saying. 1220 00:59:50,440 --> 00:59:53,400 Speaker 1: It's that leading with truth thing that you've touched on 1221 00:59:53,480 --> 00:59:56,160 Speaker 1: quite a bit today, and so I thank you. I 1222 00:59:56,160 --> 00:59:59,640 Speaker 1: could talk to you all day long. Quickly. I know. 1223 01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:02,720 Speaker 1: I'm going to link your insta, your website in the 1224 01:00:02,720 --> 01:00:05,080 Speaker 1: show notes and you will have a pre order link 1225 01:00:05,120 --> 01:00:07,080 Speaker 1: for the book as well. Yes, yes, so we'll give 1226 01:00:07,120 --> 01:00:10,880 Speaker 1: you all of that, which is super exciting, and anything 1227 01:00:10,880 --> 01:00:13,160 Speaker 1: else that you want to mention or like anything else 1228 01:00:13,200 --> 01:00:14,200 Speaker 1: that's coming up for you. 1229 01:00:14,240 --> 01:00:19,360 Speaker 2: No, no, just yeah. Look, ultimately, when I was in 1230 01:00:19,400 --> 01:00:23,440 Speaker 2: the darkest days of my journey, you know, I didn't 1231 01:00:23,440 --> 01:00:26,680 Speaker 2: have much money, I didn't have much time, and I 1232 01:00:26,720 --> 01:00:30,120 Speaker 2: didn't have the opportunity to get resources like this. So 1233 01:00:30,600 --> 01:00:32,520 Speaker 2: if you're out there and you're listening to this, like 1234 01:00:33,240 --> 01:00:35,560 Speaker 2: everything that we put out is set up to help people, 1235 01:00:35,640 --> 01:00:38,360 Speaker 2: because if you can just help yourself first, if you 1236 01:00:38,400 --> 01:00:42,400 Speaker 2: go and get your free chart, get onto the podcast, 1237 01:00:42,600 --> 01:00:46,280 Speaker 2: help yourself navigate through it. You know, we've got plenty 1238 01:00:46,320 --> 01:00:49,880 Speaker 2: of resources that if you want to go further, and 1239 01:00:49,920 --> 01:00:52,240 Speaker 2: even you can follow me on Instagram. There's so much 1240 01:00:52,240 --> 01:00:58,040 Speaker 2: information there because ultimately, I fundamentally believe that if we 1241 01:00:58,960 --> 01:01:02,720 Speaker 2: discover the PA that is within us, like, it's going 1242 01:01:02,760 --> 01:01:07,000 Speaker 2: to change the world. So yeah, you're ALLEGI. 1243 01:01:07,000 --> 01:01:10,160 Speaker 1: You are a legend. Thank you so much. You are wonderful. 1244 01:01:10,360 --> 01:01:12,080 Speaker 1: I can't wait till we get to cross paths again. 1245 01:01:12,160 --> 01:01:15,000 Speaker 2: I know in a week soon you're exactly looking forward 1246 01:01:15,040 --> 01:01:15,280 Speaker 2: to it. 1247 01:01:17,480 --> 01:01:23,120 Speaker 1: That's a wrap on another episode of Fearlessly Failing. As always, 1248 01:01:23,280 --> 01:01:26,640 Speaker 1: thank you to our guests, and let's continue the conversation 1249 01:01:26,800 --> 01:01:32,560 Speaker 1: on Instagram. I'm at Yumo Lollerberry. This potty my word 1250 01:01:32,600 --> 01:01:37,360 Speaker 1: for podcast is available on all streaming platforms. I'd love 1251 01:01:37,360 --> 01:01:40,440 Speaker 1: it if you could subscribe, rape and comment, and of 1252 01:01:40,520 --> 01:01:42,040 Speaker 1: course spread the love.