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Speaker 1: Hey guys, and welcome back to another episode of Life
Speaker 1: One Cut.
Speaker 3: I'm Brittany and.
Speaker 2: I'm Laura, and this is our Ask Uncut episode, our saucy,
Speaker 2: little down and dirty. It actually is a bit dirty,
Speaker 2: this one episode where we answer all.
Speaker 1: If you're deep, you're dark, and you're burning question. We
Speaker 1: call it therapy Thursday, and sometimes it's their No, that
Speaker 1: was not seductive at all, if that's if that's what
Speaker 1: you would come.
Speaker 2: I feel like every week I try and get weirder
Speaker 2: and it just doesn't.
Speaker 1: I mean, it gets weirder, but it doesn't get better.
Speaker 1: Definitely gets weird, but no, we call it therapy Thursday.
Speaker 1: But sometimes I think it's just as much therapy for us, Laura,
Speaker 1: than it is for anyone else.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, the amount of self development and self growth
Speaker 2: I have done because I've had to research things for
Speaker 2: questions that you have asked.
Speaker 3: It's been very beneficial.
Speaker 1: Sometimes when I'm answering a question and give you my advice,
Speaker 1: my internal monologue is like, Brittany, clock.
Speaker 3: This and take your own advice.
Speaker 2: Also, when we get into one of the questions from today,
Speaker 2: sometimes there's a bit too much research that goes into it.
Speaker 2: There's a bit too much trying to unpack what is
Speaker 2: the right and wrong way about doing things? And some
Speaker 2: of it all you go and give yourself an enemom,
Speaker 2: did you take the due diligence one step too far?
Speaker 2: We may be talking about anal sex on today's episode,
Speaker 2: not from personal experience, but from the experience and the
Speaker 2: lived moments of.
Speaker 1: You guys lived experience. Yeah, that's it.
Speaker 2: This one is not coming from person Daily Mail before,
Speaker 2: and I know as soon as we put out an
Speaker 2: episode like this, there's some conversations about anal play.
Speaker 1: There's a Daily Mail.
Speaker 2: Journalist listening to this right now, just hoping that we
Speaker 2: say something messed up.
Speaker 1: They are rubbing their little mits together.
Speaker 2: Let me tell you you will not find anything personal here.
Speaker 1: We've all tried it. It's not for us before. No
Speaker 1: judgment though, that'll bit straight before we do get into it. Though,
Speaker 1: I if you follow me on Instagram, I just wanted
Speaker 1: to say something and I feel like it's a Brinie
Speaker 1: underscore hockey. Go follow her.
Speaker 3: That is also out leading in.
Speaker 1: A cat That is not what I was gonna say. No,
Speaker 1: if you followly on Instagram, you might have seen a
Speaker 1: couple of days ago. I am very hormonal at the moment.
Speaker 3: Saying I'm very horny.
Speaker 1: I'm horny to we all, Yeah, like I'm horny too,
Speaker 1: I'm hormonal, I'm horny. They come hand in hand, right. No,
Speaker 1: I'm very hormonal at the moment. I don't know why
Speaker 1: that is that time of the month. I don't know
Speaker 1: if my emotions have just been so high for the
Speaker 1: last couple of months. But I'm crying a lot. Things
Speaker 1: are touching me a lot, not physically, I can confirm,
Speaker 1: definitely not physically. So still getting to eat on this episode.
Speaker 1: Don't worry, guys, nothing and no one is touching me.
Speaker 1: Things are touching me, like emotionally, they're pointing my heartstrings.
Speaker 1: But why don't you just say the stuff that is
Speaker 1: going down in our discussion group on Facebook At the moment,
Speaker 1: I hope, And I know there's sixty thousand members, so
Speaker 1: I know not all of you are members, but a
Speaker 1: lot of you obviously are sixty thousand of you. It's
Speaker 1: a really big, beautiful group, and I think a lot
Speaker 1: of people still don't know the stuff that goes down
Speaker 1: in the group. They don't know what it is. And look,
Speaker 1: there is not a lane, there is not a theme.
Speaker 1: There's nothing that I can say goes on in the
Speaker 1: Facebook group, because so much goes on. But what I
Speaker 1: wanted to say is, lately, you guys have just been
Speaker 1: the best humans and so much good is coming from
Speaker 1: it that I just felt, really I just wanted to
Speaker 1: shout out every single one of you and every single
Speaker 1: life that's involved in it for being such good humans.
Speaker 1: And you yourselves have created that group. You yourselves contribute
Speaker 1: to it every day. You're the ones that are helping people,
Speaker 1: You're the ones that are supporting each other, and it's
Speaker 1: so like, it's so nice to see that. I just
Speaker 1: wanted to make sure you all realize how special you
Speaker 1: all are and how much you're contributing to each other,
Speaker 1: because in the last little I guess couple of months specifically,
Speaker 1: they've done you guys have done things like Dennis. A
Speaker 1: lot of you might remember Dennis, the elderly man that
Speaker 1: was getting kicked out of his home up north on
Speaker 1: the Gold Coast. And we had a member, Jamie, who
Speaker 1: really went out on a limb to help him. She
Speaker 1: fundraised for him, She got him removalless, she found him
Speaker 1: new accommodation, she ensured he wasn't homeless, she raised money
Speaker 1: for him to live a really great life. Then we've
Speaker 1: had members saving and rescuing animals. We've had people giving
Speaker 1: to each other when they need it, supporting each other,
Speaker 1: really really helping each other. And everything that is happening
Speaker 1: in that group is happening very organically, just purely because
Speaker 1: you all have really really good hearts. And like I said,
Speaker 1: I'm emotional, but even if I was, and I just
Speaker 1: wanted to say thank you to everyone. Everyone in a group,
Speaker 1: he's I'm not crying your crime.
Speaker 3: Do you know what though?
Speaker 2: I mean, we have spoken about the Facebook group since inception,
Speaker 2: like since the very very beginning, when it very first started,
Speaker 2: and it's been I mean, it's been such a journey
Speaker 2: because when it very first started, it was only a
Speaker 2: couple hundred people and then it grew to a couple
Speaker 2: of thousand people, and it was really easy to manage
Speaker 2: when it was really really small. And now there is
Speaker 2: sixty thousand of you in the Facebook and you're all wild.
Speaker 1: And we can't control you yeo, And we don't moderate.
Speaker 2: So this is the big thing about the Life un
Speaker 2: Cut discussion group. Britta and I and produce a Keisha.
Speaker 2: We're a super small team. We do not moderate that group.
Speaker 2: We have the it would be impossible, well, I mean,
Speaker 2: we'd have to have a dedicated social media team to
Speaker 2: do that. And we kind of run it under the
Speaker 2: impression that everybody who was a part of the lifelung
Speaker 2: cut community, everyone who is part of the Facebook discussion
Speaker 2: group as an adult, everyone treats each other with the
Speaker 2: respect and the kindness that you would treat another adult,
Speaker 2: or that you would treat any other human. And obviously
Speaker 2: there are definitely times where we have to jump in
Speaker 2: and we do moderate things, and we're like the cranky
Speaker 2: school teachers when we say, hey, hey, come on, guys,
Speaker 2: like let's all be a little bit softer and a
Speaker 2: little bit more gentle towards each other. But recently there
Speaker 2: have been so many wonderful things that have taken place recently.
Speaker 2: There was a mermaid hair wand that was exchange, and
Speaker 2: it seems like something that was mundane. And for example,
Speaker 2: there was one post that came up recently and one
Speaker 2: of the Life on Cut members had written, if you
Speaker 2: could buy yourself anything right now, if there's one thing
Speaker 2: that you could get for yourself, what would it be?
Speaker 2: And another Life Uncut member had written that she wanted
Speaker 2: a mermaid hair wand one of the things that make.
Speaker 1: Your hair or curly.
Speaker 2: And you know, you don't know where somebody is in
Speaker 2: their financial journey, You don't know what somebody's other external
Speaker 2: pressures are. And somebody else in the Facebook group reached
Speaker 2: out and sent her the one that she had, and I.
Speaker 1: Know that she just said, Hey, I'm not using it
Speaker 1: so like you use it totally. Here it is, I'm
Speaker 1: going to send it to you.
Speaker 2: And I know that that is such a small, what
Speaker 2: seems like an insignificant act, but sometimes these very very
Speaker 2: small acts of kindness can have really profound impacts on
Speaker 2: people's life. And I am so a Britta and I
Speaker 2: we are both just so grateful for the Life on
Speaker 2: Cut discussion group. If you are not a member of
Speaker 2: their please go on and join. And just for everybody
Speaker 2: who contributes to making it such a special place and
Speaker 2: such a supportive place, we're so grateful for that.
Speaker 1: And there are just so you guys know too, there
Speaker 1: are a huns and that's not an exaggeration. Hundreds of
Speaker 1: posts and comments a day. It's impossible for Laura and
Speaker 1: I to get on there and respond to everyone. But
Speaker 1: I want you to know that we see these things
Speaker 1: going down and we discuss them personally, like lurking in
Speaker 1: the background. We are, we lurk like we lurk, but
Speaker 1: we see them and we talk about it all the
Speaker 1: time with each other. We're just like, how bloody good
Speaker 1: are our listeners? Like how amazing all these humans do?
Speaker 1: We feel like we're just like so brivateym anyway.
Speaker 2: That's it, And we're like secretly screenshotting the shit that
Speaker 2: you guys do and sending it to each other in
Speaker 2: our WhatsApp dms.
Speaker 1: That's what's going down.
Speaker 2: So this is your friendly reminder that if you were
Speaker 2: not part of the Facebook discussion group, stop what you're doing,
Speaker 2: put us on pause, Go type in life on cut
Speaker 2: discussion group, Join the group and you'll.
Speaker 1: Be part of the party. Anyhow, you have something you
Speaker 1: want to talk to me about.
Speaker 2: Okay, I have a question for you, And this is
Speaker 2: before we get into actual ask uncut questions. Now, you guys,
Speaker 2: if you are a bit of a Maths fan, as
Speaker 2: we all know that I am, you may remember a
Speaker 2: Maths contestant from a few years back. Her name was
Speaker 2: Kathy Evans. She's been really vocal on social media recently.
Speaker 2: She's had a lip persuction and she kind of followed
Speaker 2: her journey of life persuction and cosmetic surgery.
Speaker 1: I remember Kathy, and most celebrities.
Speaker 2: When they go and they get cosmetic enhancements, they do
Speaker 2: it on the slide like they don't want people to know.
Speaker 2: But Kathy I really got into following her last year
Speaker 2: because I quite enjoyed how frank she was about the
Speaker 2: alterations that she was making to her body.
Speaker 1: And she was a different person.
Speaker 2: But she wasn't even trying to hide it, you know,
Speaker 2: she was like super authentic about it and was you know,
Speaker 2: communicating that with her audience. Anyway, this has got nothing
Speaker 2: to do with that. I just was trying to make
Speaker 2: the correlation. Anyone had forgotten who she is now Kathy
Speaker 2: has posted something recently they got me thinking, and it
Speaker 2: is something to do with children on planes, which we
Speaker 2: all know can be a very polarizing thing. But she
Speaker 2: wrote this picture this. You're on a flight with a
Speaker 2: young child seated behind you. For the entire duration of
Speaker 2: the flight. The child is rapid kicking the back of
Speaker 2: your seat. However, the back is thin, so you feel
Speaker 2: every single kick to your spine. The child then starts
Speaker 2: slapping the top of everyone's head seated in front of them,
Speaker 2: and the noise is insane.
Speaker 1: Now, she glanced.
Speaker 2: Over at the parents to try and visually communicate that
Speaker 2: she wasn't happy with what their child.
Speaker 1: Like, communicate your displeasure with your eyes.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, like you know, like I control your
Speaker 2: child kind of thing. My question is is it okay
Speaker 2: for a complete stranger, because in this this is wild,
Speaker 2: Like if a child is doing this on a plane
Speaker 2: and you are stuck, you're trapped. You can't leave, You've
Speaker 2: got to put up with this kid behind you trying
Speaker 2: to ruin your entire two hours. Different to like a
Speaker 2: crying child. This is like a misbehaving child. Is it
Speaker 2: okay to turn around and reprimand the child?
Speaker 1: Or do you have to go through the parent. Oh,
Speaker 1: this is a difficult one. I feel like the right
Speaker 1: answer and generally the answer would be go through the
Speaker 1: parent if it's just a misbehaving child. But if a child,
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to put myself. If a child is
Speaker 1: slapping me, physically slapping me in.
Speaker 2: The head, I can I can picture this now. I'm
Speaker 2: just imagining a kid hanging over the seat and like
Speaker 2: banging bongo drums on your head.
Speaker 1: If a kid, Yes, I think that you can say
Speaker 1: something to the child, but you also have to say
Speaker 1: something to the adult. And I think what you say
Speaker 1: to the child has to be pretty nice, like you
Speaker 1: just have to say, excuse me, you don't hit people,
Speaker 1: you know, like something like that. But I think it
Speaker 1: probably needs to go through the parent, like can you
Speaker 1: contain your child? What gets me in this situation is
Speaker 1: what parent anywhere lets their child on a plane or not,
Speaker 1: but especially a confined space, what parent lets their child
Speaker 1: physically be hitting people and drawing on property like a plane,
Speaker 1: Because I'm guessing that's what Kathy means by tagging drawing
Speaker 1: on them that they're drawing. So this child's drawing on
Speaker 1: people on the walls, on the seats on her on
Speaker 1: her like, how how is his parent letting that happen?
Speaker 2: I okay, Like, look, not defending the parents at all,
Speaker 2: but I do think that sometimes when your child is occupied,
Speaker 2: no matter what they're doing, if they're just occupied, you're like,
Speaker 2: I don't need to worry about them, Like they're not screaming,
Speaker 2: so I'm just gonna like let them go. And I
Speaker 2: don't think that that's the solution. Obviously, if your child
Speaker 2: is occupied by absolutely ruining somebody else's time, you're doing,
Speaker 2: it's a terrible a terrible job of keeping them under control.
Speaker 1: But almost sometimes we can.
Speaker 2: Be immune to how annoying they are because they're our kids,
Speaker 2: and we don't We're like, we're used to the annoyingness,
Speaker 2: but we think that everybody else is used to annoying kids.
Speaker 1: But you wouldn't let the kids be physically slapping other
Speaker 1: people on a plane. Not Oh my god, do you
Speaker 1: know what I once did?
Speaker 2: Okay, The reason why I thought about this is because
Speaker 2: it brought up a memory from the past, a pre
Speaker 2: child memory that I had. I was very deep that
Speaker 2: I was at a restaurant this one time and I
Speaker 2: was sitting in my seat and we were sitting along
Speaker 2: like a row of chairs that kind of went along
Speaker 2: the wall. So everyone sits on the same row of chairs.
Speaker 2: Does that make it like a bench? Like a bench?
Speaker 2: So the tables were all facing the bench, and then
Speaker 2: the people on the opposite side had a chair. But
Speaker 2: I was sitting on a bench and I was next
Speaker 2: to this child who was on the table next to me.
Speaker 2: Now the child had like left their parents and was
Speaker 2: like right next to my side of the seat on
Speaker 2: the bench, and he had a fork and he was
Speaker 2: banging the fork against the brick wall next to my head.
Speaker 1: And I had said a couple of times, Oh, could
Speaker 1: you stop that?
Speaker 3: Like I was trying.
Speaker 1: I was on a day and I was trying to
Speaker 1: have a date, have a chat to my.
Speaker 3: Date, and he was banging.
Speaker 1: Show him I was good with children.
Speaker 2: I was like, I also at the time didn't know
Speaker 2: whether I wanted kids, and I had a really short
Speaker 2: like patience with children. And he was banging and banging
Speaker 2: and banging, and I was like, oh, can you please
Speaker 2: stop that?
Speaker 1: Can you please?
Speaker 2: I think I asked about four times. I made the
Speaker 2: eye contact with the parents. It didn't commute, and then
Speaker 2: I snapped, snapped, I fucking snapped. I turned around and
Speaker 2: I yelled at this like four year old and I was.
Speaker 1: Like, God, you stop banging that against the all. And
Speaker 1: that is a recise moment my date I exited the building.
Speaker 3: No, he actually started laughing.
Speaker 2: But the parents, I was expecting the parents to be
Speaker 2: angry at me, Like I was like, I mean, obviously
Speaker 2: I wasn't like I didn't I wasn't gonna.
Speaker 1: Smack the chart or anything.
Speaker 2: But I was like, I made it very clear that
Speaker 2: I was not happy, and the parents were like, see,
Speaker 2: you shouldn't be doing that. You know, we've told you
Speaker 2: to stop doing these things. But they had become immune
Speaker 2: to it. They were like they're used to like channeling
Speaker 2: that shit out you. It becomes so good as a parent,
Speaker 2: are like blocking out what you're own child does that
Speaker 2: you just don't even necessarily realize or don't even see
Speaker 2: how bad it is when it's impacting other people.
Speaker 1: Well, I guess, see, I guess being childless, I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't know that side of it because I mean,
Speaker 1: like I say, my nieces and nephews do it. But
Speaker 1: I definitely have seen the other side.
Speaker 3: I've been you.
Speaker 1: I've been on the bench. I'm not.
Speaker 3: I have wanted to snap.
Speaker 1: But I'm pretty good. But generally I think there is
Speaker 1: like a rule that you should go through the parents.
Speaker 3: I don't know, I don't know.
Speaker 2: I think that if my kids are being super naughty.
Speaker 2: Of course, I don't want some stranger to yell at
Speaker 2: my children at all, but I do think if they
Speaker 2: were being super naughty, if my kid was being naughty
Speaker 2: to another kid in the park, or if they were, like,
Speaker 2: you know, doing something that is really destructive, I would
Speaker 2: be I think, okay with somebody else saying hey, you
Speaker 2: need to stop that, because I think sometimes children would.
Speaker 1: Be yelled in their face like you, I don't drop you.
Speaker 1: I feel like you would be like, don't you speak
Speaker 1: to my child like that? Probably actually to be fair.
Speaker 2: And I've definitely been on a plane where I've just
Speaker 2: like let Laula hang over the seat trying to make faces.
Speaker 2: I'm like, it's cute, not cute to the other person.
Speaker 1: I have done the thing before where you're on a
Speaker 1: plane and you know that the kids kicking the seat
Speaker 1: and you're like, okay, I'm just gonna let go for
Speaker 1: a little while. It might have been a sporadic kick
Speaker 1: might have been an accident. Might he might have tried
Speaker 1: get up, but this constant kicking. But I've done the
Speaker 1: thing where you put your head between the seats and
Speaker 1: just like hard core, Yeah, you penetrate the parent with
Speaker 1: your eyes.
Speaker 3: Like I know I'm on point with my word penetrating.
Speaker 1: Do you know that deep guttural like that stare that
Speaker 1: every answer of your body is going into that look
Speaker 1: to the parent. But then you give you know, they
Speaker 1: give the kid a little look. But I think I
Speaker 1: don't know. I don't think anyone should go in and
Speaker 1: abuse a child without going through the parents first. But
Speaker 1: why don't have kids?
Speaker 3: So I don't know.
Speaker 1: But this is what Kylie did and it didn't to
Speaker 1: no avail.
Speaker 3: It didn't work out.
Speaker 2: Here's my question to you guys slide into the DMS.
Speaker 2: Do you think it's okay to get annoyed at somebody
Speaker 2: else's kid if the parent has decided that they don't
Speaker 2: care about the behavior.
Speaker 1: Well, it's sort of like continuing on this, can you
Speaker 1: discipline another child, like just say your friend's child. It
Speaker 1: might be a sister, brother's child, like someone you know,
Speaker 1: are alway to discipline them?
Speaker 2: I think you can discipline them in a way that's
Speaker 2: like you can give a child a time out or
Speaker 2: something like if they're in your care and they're being
Speaker 2: really naughty, you can give a time out. But I
Speaker 2: always find anyway with Mally, like if anybody else tells
Speaker 2: her not to do something, it's so much more impactful
Speaker 2: coming from someone else.
Speaker 1: Like if her auntie's or her uncles say.
Speaker 2: Mallie, don't do that, she's on the floor bawling her
Speaker 2: eyes out. And if I say Marley, don't do that,
Speaker 2: She's like, whooa, how far can I run away from?
Speaker 1: Mom? Watch me run onto the phone? Yeah, watch me
Speaker 1: run onto the road mom. Okay?
Speaker 3: Anyway, that is enough.
Speaker 1: For my question.
Speaker 2: If you have any thoughts on this, if it's okay
Speaker 2: or not okay, I would love to know where you
Speaker 2: sit on this. What would you do in this situation?
Speaker 2: And is it okay to discipline somebody else's child? Question
Speaker 2: number one from the actual questions, though, here we go
Speaker 2: Question number one. June last year, I met my penguin.
Speaker 2: Also I thought he was the one that I was
Speaker 2: going to be with forever. We moved in together and
Speaker 2: had the most amazing life together. He is my complete
Speaker 2: world and I love him so much. My dog passed away,
Speaker 2: and my grandfather passed away, which hit me really hard.
Speaker 2: Then his older brother passed away, and it's just been
Speaker 2: incredibly hard ever since. However, I have been there for
Speaker 2: him every step of the way and completely put my
Speaker 2: life on hold for him because I thought he was
Speaker 2: the one. Recently, he was telling me that we're going
Speaker 2: to spend the rest of our lives together, and it
Speaker 2: made me so happy. But then all of a sudden,
Speaker 2: he left me. I feel like my entire world has
Speaker 2: been broken. He just all of a sudden said he
Speaker 2: doesn't want to be in a relationship anymore, and he
Speaker 2: doesn't want to be with me anymore. He wanted me
Speaker 2: to leave, so I have left the house and he's
Speaker 2: been packing his stuff up ever since, and soon he
Speaker 2: will be gone and we will not be living together anymore.
Speaker 2: I went back there two times and tried to physically
Speaker 2: fight for him. I don't think she means she physically
Speaker 2: fought for him, but she tried to fight for him
Speaker 2: and five spirit literally, but he was like a completely different,
Speaker 2: horrible person. I've messaged him to see if I could
Speaker 2: say goodbye, since I don't know if I'm ever going
Speaker 2: to see him again, and he won't even see me,
Speaker 2: and now it feels like he's gone forever. What is
Speaker 2: the next right step for me? What should I do now?
Speaker 2: I guess maybe Britt might be able to relate to this,
Speaker 2: knowing that she has been through a difficult breakup.
Speaker 1: I just feel so lost. Oh my heart breaks. This
Speaker 1: is really really horrible, Like that is so horrible to
Speaker 1: be on that receiving end.
Speaker 3: Especially.
Speaker 1: It just sounds like it came really out of the
Speaker 1: blue for you. Maybe it didn't for him. Maybe this
Speaker 1: is something that he's been sitting on for a little while.
Speaker 1: But I completely completely feel for you. I think there's
Speaker 1: a few layers to this, which makes it difficult because
Speaker 1: we don't know what reason or if there's any other
Speaker 1: context that he has given you. But from the information
Speaker 1: you've given us, it sounds like you've both been through
Speaker 1: a really tough time and you've both had some pretty
Speaker 1: big life events happened to you. You had, you know, your
Speaker 1: grandpa and your dog pass away, and a dog we
Speaker 1: all know like a dog is a family member. That
Speaker 1: is a really big loss totally, and your partner had
Speaker 1: his brother pass away.
Speaker 3: You haven't given us.
Speaker 1: An age, but I'm going to assume that still means
Speaker 1: that he was probably pretty young if they were really close.
Speaker 1: Even if they weren't close, this might be something that
Speaker 1: has been a bit of a delayed reaction for him.
Speaker 3: Maybe he's still.
Speaker 1: Going through a horrific amount of grief and going through
Speaker 1: a real process of dealing with that. As we know,
Speaker 1: nothing grief and loss and breakups and nothing in life.
Speaker 1: Nothing is linear, nothing makes sense, nothing is out of
Speaker 1: a textbook. I don't know how much time has passed
Speaker 1: since he's lost his brother, but he might be having
Speaker 1: a real moment with himself where he's questioning what he wants,
Speaker 1: who he is, what life is. Maybe he needs to
Speaker 1: go deal with some things emotionally himself. Internally. This is
Speaker 1: something that we can't answer. But maybe you, I mean,
Speaker 1: need to try to speak to him about it. Sounds
Speaker 1: like you have tried, and at the moment it sounds
Speaker 1: like he doesn't want a bar of that, and he,
Speaker 1: for whatever reason, he might be having an internal breakdown.
Speaker 1: He needs to go and deal with some stuff on
Speaker 1: his own, evidently, And it sucks so much if you
Speaker 1: hadn't gone to speak to him twice already. I would
Speaker 1: have one hundred percent suggested that you go and try
Speaker 1: and sit down and have an adult conversation and work
Speaker 1: out why. But it sounds like you've done that and
Speaker 1: he still just needs his own space, so you really
Speaker 1: can't do much else at this moment. Rather than let
Speaker 1: him go and have a breather, i'p give it some
Speaker 1: time and then maybe you can go and approach the
Speaker 1: situation again. I agree with you.
Speaker 2: I mean, in every breakup, I would say, if you
Speaker 2: still want to be with the person, like trying to fight,
Speaker 2: shack fight, yeah, fight, fucking try and make it work,
Speaker 2: you know, say all the things it to the bed, No,
Speaker 2: don't lock them in the basement.
Speaker 1: Put everything out on the table.
Speaker 2: During that part of a breakup when you feel like
Speaker 2: you've lost somebody who you want to be in a
Speaker 2: relationship with, you are not going to lose anything by
Speaker 2: saying everything in terms of like saying everything that you
Speaker 2: want to say, telling them exactly how you feel, just
Speaker 2: giving it that one last ditch effort to try and
Speaker 2: make the relationship or change their mind if that doesn't work. However,
Speaker 2: there literally isn't anything that you need to do, And
Speaker 2: it sounds like in this situation, especially when there is
Speaker 2: death and there is grief and so much grief involved.
Speaker 2: Sometimes it's not something that you can do on your own,
Speaker 2: Like he needs to one acknowledge that there is some
Speaker 2: very very big life things he needs to deal with
Speaker 2: and potentially go and get some therapy for that.
Speaker 1: And I think that.
Speaker 2: Like no amount of loving someone, no amount of like
Speaker 2: a beautiful relationship, can fix grief, and he needs to
Speaker 2: really sit down with a therapist and work through that
Speaker 2: and talk through how he's feeling. But the other part
Speaker 2: of this is, like I think, sometimes when people go
Speaker 2: through huge amounts of loss and they're really struggling with grief,
Speaker 2: a reaction to that can also be to push people
Speaker 2: away who they love because the fear of losing them
Speaker 2: becomes very real. The fear of losing things that you're
Speaker 2: attached to or that you love so much can also
Speaker 2: just mean that everything is too difficult and you can
Speaker 2: be blinded by your own personal grief. In what you said,
Speaker 2: brit like that there is no linear way to this,
Speaker 2: but there is no right and wrong reaction to this.
Speaker 2: And sometimes when you are so in your own black hole,
Speaker 2: you take it out on the people that are closest
Speaker 2: to you, and unfortunately, at this point in time, with
Speaker 2: him pushing you away in the way that he is
Speaker 2: and in him saying that he doesn't want the relationship anymore,
Speaker 2: you have to focus on yourself. You have to focus
Speaker 2: on healing yourself elf more than healing him. That's his
Speaker 2: job to.
Speaker 1: Do now, and that is sometimes so again, this is
Speaker 1: all speculation, and we're just giving you our opinions. But
Speaker 1: sometimes that is people's reaction when they're hurting. Is you
Speaker 1: said he's been horrible and he's a different person. Sometimes
Speaker 1: that is what they do. They want to push, they
Speaker 1: want He probably wants you to hate him. He probably
Speaker 1: wants it to be easier to split, for him to leave,
Speaker 1: so he's been horrible so that he doesn't have to
Speaker 1: sit there and what you cry and feel bad about it.
Speaker 1: He's probably trying to not feel the guilt because, no doubt,
Speaker 1: if you're two saying you want to spend your life together,
Speaker 1: he is going to be hurting as well, and he's
Speaker 1: going to feel guilt, Like nobody wants to hurt each other.
Speaker 3: But this is his reaction.
Speaker 1: Now, we are also making an assumption that this reaction
Speaker 1: is purely based on him going through something traumatic. There
Speaker 1: is a very good chance that maybe he just doesn't
Speaker 1: feel the same way. And that is also a really, really,
Speaker 1: really hard pill to swallow, and I know because I've
Speaker 1: swallowed that pill.
Speaker 2: And also confusing because he's just said, in one sentence
Speaker 2: he said, I want to spend my life with you,
Speaker 2: and then in the next sentence he said, I don't
Speaker 2: want to be with you anymore. People change their mind
Speaker 2: and it happens every fucking day, and.
Speaker 1: It doesn't make sense. It doesn't make sense.
Speaker 2: And it hurts hugely because it leaves you. It leaves
Speaker 2: you with the emotional whiplash where you're like, but you
Speaker 2: said this, if only in relationships people didn't change their mind,
Speaker 2: if only people said I love you and I want
Speaker 2: to be with you and then didn't cheat or have
Speaker 2: affairs or you know, move on or break up. I mean,
Speaker 2: marriages end every single day because people change their mind.
Speaker 2: And I think, like, that is such a like you said,
Speaker 2: but it's such a fucking hard pill to swallow.
Speaker 1: It's worse. It's it's most jagged pill. It's like it's
Speaker 1: like Alanas Morrissa jagged little pill.
Speaker 3: I get. That's how she wrote that song.
Speaker 1: Now it's not a smooth, little sugar coated and europine
Speaker 1: pill that slips right down.
Speaker 3: It's like a big, shitty, jagged.
Speaker 1: But okay, the next part of this question is now,
Speaker 1: what can you do and how do you move forward?
Speaker 1: And does it get better? Yeah, it gets better, but
Speaker 1: that could be a long way away, and you are
Speaker 1: no doubt going to go through a very tumultuous, heart
Speaker 1: wrenching few months with you guys listened to Tuesday's episode.
Speaker 1: I spoke quite openly about the fact that I'm still
Speaker 1: going through that. I'm still navigating that, and it's been
Speaker 1: months and months, and I felt like I should be
Speaker 1: back on track now. I felt like I'd had my
Speaker 1: lows and I should be on my high now. But
Speaker 1: I'm still having my lows. I'm still up and down
Speaker 1: my ebs and flows. I'm climbing that mountain. I'm almost
Speaker 1: at the summit, and then I tumble back down. That
Speaker 1: was a good metaphor, just made that up now, But
Speaker 1: it's the idea is I don't want to tell you
Speaker 1: time hills. I don't want to be this toxic positivity
Speaker 1: and say time he'lls or wounds. It does for sure, Well,
Speaker 1: you know what, it actually doesn't. It doesn't even heal.
Speaker 1: It just gets easier until one day is easy enough
Speaker 1: for you to live with and you don't think about
Speaker 1: every day and you move forward and that time will
Speaker 1: come for you. But it's going to take a bit
Speaker 1: of time and a bit of healing and some really
Speaker 1: really low moments. And that's okay for us to feel
Speaker 1: those light moments as well, as long as you are
Speaker 1: surrounding yourself with people that will help you and understand
Speaker 1: and you're not going through it alone, which I have
Speaker 1: a really really bad habit of doing. But once I
Speaker 1: actually got help and I spoke to Laura and Keisha
Speaker 1: and some friends, it does get better. But yeah, I mean,
Speaker 1: I just want to be really honest with you that
Speaker 1: you're going to feel pretty shitty for a long time.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I think one of the big things on
Speaker 2: this and like the last thing I want to add
Speaker 2: to this in terms of breakups and when you're at
Speaker 2: the lowest point in your relationships, like when you're in
Speaker 2: the throes of a breakup, and something that we have
Speaker 2: learnt and from all the people that we've spoken to
Speaker 2: and all the conversations we've had around breakups on this podcast,
Speaker 2: it's impossible to understand at the time when you are
Speaker 2: going through heartbreak why it's impossible for it to make sense.
Speaker 2: You think it can't possibly make sense, and you keep
Speaker 2: trying to hold on to what it is that you
Speaker 2: used to have, especially when and I love it when
Speaker 2: people say everything happens for a reason, Like I love
Speaker 2: that saying.
Speaker 1: But sometimes you're like, well, what the fuck is this?
Speaker 1: When you're in it, you don't get it totally.
Speaker 2: But you can't see the forest for the trees, right,
Speaker 2: Like you can't see what life will be like one
Speaker 2: day and what is in store for you, Like there
Speaker 2: is no we have no window to the future.
Speaker 1: We can't look into the future and.
Speaker 2: Go, oh, in two years time, I'm actually going to
Speaker 2: meet someone who I'm going to fall desperate in love with.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna get married, I'm gonna you know, whatever it
Speaker 2: is that you want for your life is going to happen.
Speaker 2: Great things are coming, they're just not here today. And
Speaker 2: I think that that is like something that we struggle
Speaker 2: to see when we're going through heartbreak and we're going
Speaker 2: through grief and we're going through this feelings of our
Speaker 2: entire life and what we wanted for ourselves. The identity
Speaker 2: we're creating has shifted. But it's just it's so true.
Speaker 1: And don't force it. Don't force the healing, and don't
Speaker 1: force the moving on, and don't force yourself back out
Speaker 1: into the dating world and you know all that kind
Speaker 1: of stuff. You've just got to ride the wave. And
Speaker 1: I have no doubt that you will speak to him again.
Speaker 1: I don't think it's the last time you are ever
Speaker 1: going to see or hear from him, or have any
Speaker 1: connection to him again. I'm sure at some stage, once
Speaker 1: he figures out whatever is going through his head, it
Speaker 1: might not be the outcome you want, but I think
Speaker 1: he'll make a reappearance in your life. And I do
Speaker 1: think you'll have a chat about it. But anyway, good
Speaker 1: luck and I yeah, I feel for you and you
Speaker 1: will be okay. Now, moving on to something that is.
Speaker 3: A little bit less in oh, I want to bring it.
Speaker 1: I want to bring you one, Olga.
Speaker 2: I've got a couple here that are one of them
Speaker 2: did some research and one of them I don't want
Speaker 2: to know what you do, but here we go, Britnye
Speaker 2: hit me.
Speaker 1: Okay, this one I just thought I thought This was
Speaker 1: really funny. My friends and I were talking about how
Speaker 1: we use toilet paper when going to the bathroom, so
Speaker 1: they must have been talking about, you know, dear.
Speaker 3: Fold, dear scrunch you folder, a scruncher.
Speaker 1: I'm a scruncher with scruncher. Yeah, I'm a scrunchy. You're
Speaker 1: a scruncher. It's probably like the thing we bonded over.
Speaker 2: I think if you're creative, you're a scruncher, and if
Speaker 2: you're analytical, you're a folder.
Speaker 1: Oh this is like when you told me I sit
Speaker 1: with my legs up because I'm creative. Ye.
Speaker 2: Creative people can't sit with their legs on the floor.
Speaker 2: Creative people always have to have their legs weirdly crossed
Speaker 2: and stuff.
Speaker 1: Well, it makes sense that I sit weirdly and I
Speaker 1: swing you scrunch o chaos. Okay, So my friends and
Speaker 1: I are talking about how are you toilet paper when
Speaker 1: going to the bathroom, and one of our friends aka Me,
Speaker 1: mentioned that she spits on her toilet paper if she
Speaker 1: needs extra help with her clean No. Yes, I assumed
Speaker 1: this was something everyone would agree was normal, but to
Speaker 1: my shock and so prize, everyone thought that I was
Speaker 1: really weird. Does anyone else do this? Or am I
Speaker 1: the only one that spits and whips?
Speaker 2: You know what they say about assuming it makes an
Speaker 2: ass of you and me?
Speaker 1: Literally, I yes, one hundred percent, So I think for
Speaker 1: this one I can only speak on behalf of my soulf.
Speaker 1: The question is, does anyone else do this? I definitely
Speaker 1: do not. I do not spitch on my toilet paper
Speaker 1: and wipe. I don't think I have ever done that.
Speaker 1: I have a good idea.
Speaker 2: There are plenty of what are the wet white you
Speaker 2: get wet wipes, literal adult wet wives, flushable wet wipes
Speaker 2: that you can use.
Speaker 1: I don't even say I can say, hand on heart.
Speaker 2: Never in my life have I spat on toilet paper
Speaker 2: to wipe my butt, and never crazy. I have done
Speaker 2: some fucking kinky shit in my last time one that
Speaker 2: never did. I think I would ever say those words
Speaker 2: on this podcast, But.
Speaker 1: Never have I done it?
Speaker 3: Do you know what?
Speaker 1: I Okay, I want to say this. I get the premise,
Speaker 1: like I get why you're doing it. It is a wet wipe,
Speaker 1: I get it. But just get the wet white wet wipe.
Speaker 1: Just get the wet wipe, like I don't think you
Speaker 1: that that's not No, it's not for me. I don't.
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure I will speak on behalf of everyone else.
Speaker 1: I don't think it's that common.
Speaker 2: Isn't it funny though, that, like there must be some
Speaker 2: things that we all do that are.
Speaker 1: Actually a bit weird. But because think normal, we think normal,
Speaker 1: because we don't ever talk about it. I wish we
Speaker 1: prethought about this, because surely there's.
Speaker 3: Something I'm gonna put out.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna we're gonna do this.
Speaker 2: We're gonna put a pole out or something and figure
Speaker 2: out what are all the weird things that you do
Speaker 2: in secret that you think And I mean like picking
Speaker 2: the nose, not even the or every single mom out
Speaker 2: there goes, oh, my child doesn't pick their nose. Every
Speaker 2: sale toddler under the sun that's ever been born on
Speaker 2: this earth has picked their nose. Anyone who says they
Speaker 2: didn't pick their nose as a kid is lying. And
Speaker 2: that's how I feel about it.
Speaker 1: Well, it's not even just that, it's not even just
Speaker 1: the weird gross stuff. It's like, when I think back,
Speaker 1: I thought that everyone I thought that the fart fart.
Speaker 1: I thought every single person in the world called it
Speaker 1: a wiz pop. I thought no, because that's because it's
Speaker 1: what my I found the grut with. So when I
Speaker 1: firked out it wasn't, I was like, you don't what,
Speaker 1: Like I'm the only person that called it.
Speaker 2: A w all thing is like so annoyingly g rated. Okay,
Speaker 2: it's like me, say me saying everyone likes a finger
Speaker 2: in the ass, and then all of the hundred of
Speaker 2: people who listen to this podcast you message me to
Speaker 2: tell me that they don't like a finger in this
Speaker 2: like you.
Speaker 1: Saying, yeah, doesn't everyone's boyfriend have sex with the back
Speaker 1: of their legs. No, I knew that was weird.
Speaker 3: I've always I've always.
Speaker 1: Known that was strange. Still my absolute favorite story. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm never going to live it down anyway.
Speaker 2: To the person who wrote this in I think it's
Speaker 2: very weird, but I guarantee that there will be other
Speaker 2: very weird people who will message us to tell us
Speaker 2: that they did the same thing.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we want to hear about it. Actually, do you
Speaker 1: know what?
Speaker 2: We'll get back to you with any responses we have
Speaker 2: on this. I have another one which is kind of
Speaker 2: whether it's weird or not weird. I had to put
Speaker 2: a pole out on our Instagram for this. If you
Speaker 2: if you on my Instagram on Monday, you might have
Speaker 2: seen this. I put a pole out to find out
Speaker 2: if you are somebody who has anal sex and enjoys
Speaker 2: anal sex, whether you douche or do an enema before
Speaker 2: having anal sex. I'm gonna get into the pole and
Speaker 2: the answers after this, because you guys know we do
Speaker 2: our research on this podcast.
Speaker 1: Well, anyone that doesn't know actually what an enema or
Speaker 1: douchi is. It's essentially just evacuating the contents of your bow.
Speaker 3: So it's just clearing out the pipe.
Speaker 1: It's clearing out parte. Do you know that? That's what? Okay,
Speaker 1: some people don't know this about me. My job.
Speaker 2: I've had many animals in my time because I love
Speaker 2: anal sex. I haven't had any right that daily maid.
Speaker 1: My job was to give enemies. I have given so
Speaker 1: many enemies to patients. That was my job. I used
Speaker 1: to put something in their butt and clear it out.
Speaker 1: That's very intimate. And when people wouldn't know that.
Speaker 2: When Britt says that was her job, it's because she
Speaker 2: used to work as a radiographer in hospitals.
Speaker 1: I didn't just go to people's house personally. No, it
Speaker 1: was part of a job in radiology. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yes, she's not doing this new age at home treatment
Speaker 2: where she comes and gives people enemies.
Speaker 1: There are so many radiographers out there right now being like, amen, girl,
Speaker 1: I feel you, But what's the actual question? Okay?
Speaker 2: So I was hanging out with one of my new
Speaker 2: friends with benefits this morning and he mentions that most
Speaker 2: girls give themselves enemies before anal play these days. He said,
Speaker 2: it's not just for porn stars, and if girls know
Speaker 2: that they're going to have anal sex coming up later on,
Speaker 2: when they clean themselves out, He and I haven't done
Speaker 2: any anal play yet, but you know what, we probably will.
Speaker 2: And I have never done a clear out before. Doesn't
Speaker 2: everyone just know that if anal sex is happening, there
Speaker 2: is a little risk of things not being one hundred
Speaker 2: percent clean all of the time. So does this mean
Speaker 2: that the expectation on dates is now that I'm going
Speaker 2: to shave from the neck down. I'm gonna have my
Speaker 2: nails done nice, I'm gonna do my hair, I'm gonna
Speaker 2: do my makeup, I'm gonna put on fake ten, I'm
Speaker 2: gonna make sure I look banging, and I'm also going
Speaker 2: to find time to invest in clearing out the back
Speaker 2: door too.
Speaker 3: It is so much fucking work.
Speaker 2: I would love to know how many girls out there
Speaker 2: are actually giving themselves a cleanout before doing anal or
Speaker 2: going on a date where anal may follow.
Speaker 1: I'm glad you specified shaving from the neck down. I
Speaker 1: hate if you're like waxed off your armbrows before you
Speaker 1: went on your date.
Speaker 3: Just below the bottom eyelashes.
Speaker 1: So funny because when you put it like that, when
Speaker 1: you say, do I have to get my nails done?
Speaker 1: Do I get a tan? Do I get a new appit?
Speaker 1: Do I get a hair done? Do I do my makeup?
Speaker 2: Do?
Speaker 1: I like? Yes? That is so exhausting. And when you
Speaker 1: think about what women do to go on a date,
Speaker 1: it's like, this is why people get dating fatigues. They're like,
Speaker 1: I have had enough. There is no way I'm anning
Speaker 1: enema to my date route he ever, And I'm also
Speaker 1: going to say that if some guy is telling you
Speaker 1: that it's the norm, I have done the research. It
Speaker 1: is not the norm. This was the question I asked a.
Speaker 2: Very important graphic ask uncut question for you all, if
Speaker 2: you are having anal sex, do you douche slash enema? First,
Speaker 2: twenty six percent of y'all said yes, clean as a
Speaker 2: whistle down there, and seventy four percent of you said nah.
Speaker 1: Wing it.
Speaker 2: So my thing to this, he I mean, look, okay,
Speaker 2: I can tell you how many people have answered this.
Speaker 2: Now there's over four thousand people who have replied to this,
Speaker 2: So this is like over three thousand people have said
Speaker 2: that they wing it, and less than that have.
Speaker 1: Said I can't actually see that.
Speaker 2: Exacs have said yes, they clean it out and that's
Speaker 2: clean as a whistle. I'm sorry, but to me, this
Speaker 2: is a guy who wants all of the reward with
Speaker 2: none of the work. I genuinely think that if you're
Speaker 2: out there and you're gonna have spontaneous anal sex, you
Speaker 2: just have to deal with the fact as a guy
Speaker 2: that maybe there may be a little bit of aftermath.
Speaker 3: You said, it's just pun pass right. Yeah, you're gonna
Speaker 3: get down freaking in the back door.
Speaker 2: You have to be okay with and also not just
Speaker 2: expect that she's going to go to all this preparation
Speaker 2: work and you just show up with an erect penis.
Speaker 1: Lol. But I think the antithesis of that, this is
Speaker 1: talking about spontaneously, like you don't just do it in
Speaker 1: case one day maybe you'll do it that night. But
Speaker 1: I think in like relationships and obviously a lot of
Speaker 1: gay relationships, it is a thing you do prepare yourself.
Speaker 1: They do douch the amount if it's something that's prepared
Speaker 1: that you know, people suggest that you do do it.
Speaker 1: So we're talking more about like are we supposed to
Speaker 1: sporadically clear ourselves out in case maybe we go out
Speaker 1: on a date, get lucky and decide to do anal sex.
Speaker 1: Like it's a lot of preparation. I think if it's
Speaker 1: spontaneous and you don't know what's coming, I was like,
Speaker 1: just live your best life, whatever happened.
Speaker 2: And I yeah, I just think, Okay, look, yes, Britt,
Speaker 2: you're absolutely right. If it's something that you've prepared and
Speaker 2: you know that you're going to be having anal sex
Speaker 2: that night, probably don't go out have a big meal
Speaker 2: and then come home and not have done anything for
Speaker 2: the back door.
Speaker 1: But don't go out to Indian and you don't have
Speaker 1: a binderloo.
Speaker 2: And then worry you're setting yourself up for a disaster girlfriend.
Speaker 2: But I just think it more actually is on the female,
Speaker 2: like or whoever it is, who's the receiver. I shouldn't
Speaker 2: say female because it works both ways. But whoever is
Speaker 2: the receiver if they're not embarrassed, if you're not worried
Speaker 2: about having a bit of an accident, then they should.
Speaker 2: It's the guy or whoever it is that's sticking the
Speaker 2: thing in your backside. Sure as hell should not be worried.
Speaker 1: I should just feel lucky.
Speaker 3: Really, yeah, I mean any holes a goal.
Speaker 1: As a goal Laura burn famous last.
Speaker 2: But we did get one person, one life who wrote in.
Speaker 2: And I know that this is like kind of going
Speaker 2: against what an ask gun cut episode is, But I
Speaker 2: have got I have an accidentally unfiltered for you.
Speaker 1: Which is, oh you got rogue?
Speaker 2: Well it came in off the back of the pole,
Speaker 2: off the back of there's Timny Pun's in this all right,
Speaker 2: So this person's doing this confessional time. Let me tell
Speaker 2: you a story. The one and only time I didn't
Speaker 2: do an enema or a big pooh before having anal sex.
Speaker 2: Me and my partner were out partying, We've been drinking
Speaker 2: and all the other good stuff.
Speaker 1: All day, she had an ni encourage.
Speaker 2: Sure she'd been having the vindaaloo and maybe a few
Speaker 2: other things.
Speaker 1: She had a vnderloo and didn't do a big poo.
Speaker 2: We went back to our five star apartment at the
Speaker 2: casino to get freaky.
Speaker 1: We had sex for hours, ending with anal sex. It
Speaker 1: was dark and.
Speaker 3: We couldn't really see much.
Speaker 2: Keep in mind we were also drunk af Anyways, next
Speaker 2: minute I get this nasty pooh smell. I tried to
Speaker 2: clay it off because I know, you know, sometimes it happens,
Speaker 2: And I was like, Bay, let's go and have sex
Speaker 2: in the shower. So we turned on the lights and
Speaker 2: there was a literally poo everywhere. I'm so sorry to
Speaker 2: the hotel cleaners, rip to those one thousand thread count sheets.
Speaker 2: But literally, this is my advice to every single person
Speaker 2: out there. Do an enema before a night out on
Speaker 2: the town when you think you might be having anal sex. Ok.
Speaker 1: Hey, well this goes against every person that answered the
Speaker 1: poll and said no, go row, but I guess this
Speaker 1: is why people do it. This is the whole reason
Speaker 1: people prepare for this.
Speaker 2: I'm checking this again. It's still sitting at seventy four percent. Saying, nah,
Speaker 2: go for it.
Speaker 1: What are you do in that situation? Surely you take
Speaker 1: the sheets off and steal them. You don't leave that.
Speaker 1: You don't leave a big poop in the sheet.
Speaker 2: You stripped the bed, bundle it up and leave it
Speaker 2: in the bathroom so that nothing happens.
Speaker 1: Yea, I manage it from us. Guys.
Speaker 2: That is the three short, sharp, and definitely not sexy questions.
Speaker 1: It was so une very unsexy sexiest ask come.
Speaker 3: Cut we have ever done.
Speaker 1: But please keep your questions coming into the DM's Instagram
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Speaker 1: really want to hear your ask on cut aftermaths, as
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Speaker 1: we've ever answered your question, or you know we've answered
Speaker 1: your friend's question, please ride into us and maybe rehash
Speaker 1: what the question was, the original question, and then let
Speaker 1: us know the outcome because we really love it and
Speaker 1: from the episode that we did. You guys really really
Speaker 1: loved that episode. You love following up as much as
Speaker 1: we did. Well, I mean it's it's like the ending
Speaker 1: to the story. No one wants to just the end.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but nobody wants to watch a movie and then
Speaker 2: ten minutes before the ending, the fucking how it cuts
Speaker 2: out exactly.
Speaker 1: That's like your worst nightmare. So please keep those coming.
Speaker 2: We're gonna try and do one of these like once
Speaker 2: a month here or there. We're not going to promise
Speaker 2: anything because who knows what could happen if.
Speaker 1: These follow up after maths are flowing in. If we're
Speaker 1: getting a lot of them, then we will do more
Speaker 1: of them. But we need the answers to be able
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Speaker 2: Episodes, so if we have, please please let us know.
Speaker 2: So tell me if you keep on doing animals before
Speaker 2: you have sex. Anyways, and that is a bit from us.
Speaker 1: Guys.
Speaker 2: We will be back on Saturday with the radio show.
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