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Speaker 1: be honest.

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Speaker 2: Is well, look, all we've been told, or we've been

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Speaker 2: privy too, is that Rude Jude has requested an audience

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Speaker 2: with us.

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Speaker 1: Yes, Rude Jude.

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Speaker 3: If you don't know who Rude Jude is, then yeah,

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Speaker 3: you wouldn't understand why Will is scared.

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Speaker 1: But she's this seventy three year old woman.

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Speaker 3: She lives in Charlieville, eight hours in land from Brisbane,

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Speaker 3: and she runs a bait and tackle store with an

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Speaker 3: aughty corner. Yeah, and her name is Rude Jude. So yeah, live.

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Speaker 1: Interesting, interesting decision.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she wants to be on the show live. She's

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Speaker 2: got an announcement for us.

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Speaker 1: Announcement. Yeah, yeah, what's your gut telling you. I'm actually

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Speaker 1: a bit worried. It's down. I don't Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. It sends there's something different about this.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's because usually she'd tell us, Yeah, it's weird

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Speaker 3: that she want to come on the show to announce it.

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Speaker 1: Yes, world tour. No, I don't think that'll be it anyway.

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Speaker 1: She's on a bit later on sad Who's Going Love?

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Speaker 4: And Where is Barn? Buddy, doesn't care where, what, where,

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Speaker 4: where wherever I care?

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Speaker 2: Listen, listen, listen.

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Speaker 1: Good out Turned Woods Williams. So yeah, Jude, if you don't.

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Speaker 2: Know who she is, there's so many different bits of

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Speaker 2: audio we could play from you guys.

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Speaker 1: She obviously went to the logos with you recently Awards.

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Speaker 1: She's a star.

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Speaker 2: She's surely probably our favorite person we've ever had on

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Speaker 2: this radio show. She's a character, she's she's the heart

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Speaker 2: and soul of this community that she lives in, eight

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Speaker 2: a heart, all of that, and there's lots of different

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Speaker 2: audio we could play you to illustrate who she is

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Speaker 2: and who she is for all these different people, but

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Speaker 2: we think this probably best sums it up.

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Speaker 5: Ninety two You're our woman came in one day. She

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Speaker 5: said she her husband passed away about two years before.

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Speaker 5: She said, I heard that you don't tell anyone. No,

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Speaker 5: I don't tell anyone. And she brought a vibrator and

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Speaker 5: she said, my husband and I had great sex. This

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Speaker 5: is true story, had great sex, and I miss it

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Speaker 5: so much. Lily fainted a long get shine back a

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Speaker 5: week later and said have you got a bigger one?

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Speaker 1: And did you and.

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Speaker 5: A fight?

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Speaker 2: I could not believe it.

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Speaker 5: I've known this woman on the lock. When she passed away,

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Speaker 5: they couldn't turn the bathroo so she was jumping around

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Speaker 1: So yeah, rude as you like.

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Speaker 2: But again, she's the only place out there where they

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Speaker 2: can get this sort of stuff. But she serves as

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Speaker 2: a community literally for one hundred kilometer radius all the

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Speaker 2: way around. Charles Well, she's brilliant. Can't wait to have

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Speaker 2: her on the show. As I said, I don't know

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Speaker 2: what she wants to come on for. She's reached judged

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Speaker 2: that I wanted to live on their So please stay

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Speaker 2: tuned if you can't.

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Speaker 1: Again, I don't know what this is.

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Speaker 2: But if you can't be and you can't get on

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Speaker 2: the podcast with them, would you rather get your podcast?

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Speaker 1: Woulds right up next? Though we all know what an

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Speaker 1: ick is.

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Speaker 2: There's a woman who's written the definitive list of IX

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Speaker 2: and I think that you could tick ninety five percent

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Speaker 1: Couldn't possibly.

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Speaker 2: One of the great joys of being online these days

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Speaker 5: When a guy finishes eating his food, and he will

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Speaker 2: And rint and you hear it, and it's just disgusting

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Speaker 2: wearing a backpack.

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Speaker 6: And I know it might turn simple book literally pickure

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Speaker 6: the hottest person you've ever seen backpack any.

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Speaker 5: Guy like running towards the bus when they get the

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Speaker 7: Is when people use the word literally so loosely.

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Speaker 6: When you're playing beer poles and boys chose after their

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Speaker 5: When and dude take their shirts off and take a photo.

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Speaker 6: When you find a parking spot and they try to

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Speaker 1: Brilliant, they're brilliant.

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Speaker 2: They're as really brilliant, and we're going to all relate to

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Speaker 2: the woods. But I think you in particular a little

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Speaker 2: bit like, well you dig all the boxes here, mate? Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Me the other day that I did another one because

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Speaker 3: she now brings it up in front of me. Speedo's

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Speaker 3: was anick for her very early in our relationships. I've

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Speaker 2: Okay, well you as mister dick. I stumbled across this

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Speaker 2: story today. There's a satirical account called miss double Bay,

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Speaker 2: basically she's written a fifty plus point list of X.

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Speaker 1: Fifty of them.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and I reckon You're I reckon you, I reckon you.

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Speaker 2: You cover at least seventy five percent of them.

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Speaker 1: I do now.

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Speaker 2: I don't know this. I don't know this for a fact.

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Speaker 2: I don't know this for a fact. But you you can't,

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Speaker 2: Like I feel like if you, if you if someone

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Speaker 2: wrote these down, I'd be like, they're looking for my friend, wouldy?

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Speaker 1: So like a wanted post in the description of me?

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Speaker 1: Pretty much, that's good. So what I want to do? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: It, yeah, well I know even if you're not, We're

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Speaker 2: to bottom, and you're not allowed. I just I just

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Speaker 2: need a first up yes or no from you. I

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Speaker 3: I'll be honest, iRED percent, honest, let's do it. Okay,

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Speaker 3: can you give me one? Give me one before the

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Speaker 2: Okay, takes the bus or the tram and talks about it.

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Speaker 1: I thought that was impressive.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly, all right, so we'll fallen once to catch

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Speaker 1: That's definitely me. Yeah, one down.

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Speaker 2: But let's keep going. Okay, are you ready to go?

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Speaker 2: So I said a yes or no from you, I've

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Speaker 2: need a punishment or something if you get over seventy

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Speaker 3: And the punishment is that I'm obviously very unappealing to

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because this is every one thinks some a bit

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Speaker 1: of a nick Yeah, just which will hurt. Well, that'll

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Speaker 1: hurt all around you, all right? Are you ready to go? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Maybe we need a bit of background music actually, just

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Speaker 3: What sort of background are you thinking? Like last samurai

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Speaker 5: You dog?

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Speaker 1: Oh, I'd think that I've still got it. Here we go.

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Speaker 1: It feels like you elevated me as I was talking

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Speaker 1: about it. Getting cut off by your own audio. Gotta

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Speaker 1: be an damn it? All right, hit me alright? Ready?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, taste tests your ice cream flavor with a

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Speaker 2: baby spoon before you have it?

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Speaker 1: Yes, every time, every time?

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Speaker 3: I choose miscrab Do you mean to keep going.

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Speaker 1: To take a while drinking from a bubbler?

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Speaker 1: Can't ride a chair lift or pommel yep, got proof

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Speaker 2: Waiting for waiting for the green man before crossing the road,

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Speaker 1: Don't like that. Doesn't like getting their hair wet?

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, taking the bus or tram and bragging about it,

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Speaker 1: Where's a backpack? Where's a backpack every day.

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Speaker 2: Where they can't find somewhere to put their bag in

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, because I'm trying to be the nice guy

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Speaker 5: Anick?

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Speaker 1: Uses lip? Yeah, where's where's a fit fitness watch? Casually? Yes,

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Speaker 2: Where's lycra Oh yeah, well I'm right, And where's their

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Speaker 2: hat backwards? That's one hundred percent.

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Speaker 3: No lip barm vassaline. Yes, I just said that. I

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Speaker 1: Lip, Where's lip? Calls it vassaline. That's actually on the list.

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Speaker 1: This is freaking me out, This is freaking me out.

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Speaker 3: I'm only my head backwards, I'm wearing sports dogs, I'm

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Speaker 1: Don't take this thing off, Get me out of you.

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Speaker 2: Story today about a TikToker, who hit one of the

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Speaker 8: I am becoming anti group chat. And what I mean

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Speaker 1: So it's interesting, isn't it.

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Speaker 2: Like because I was talking to or was listening to,

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Speaker 2: I should say the imperfects. And they had their psychologist,

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Speaker 2: I spoke about was group chat as well.

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Speaker 1: Oh what they say?

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Speaker 2: Well, I think one of the things that Jivan Collenbig

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Speaker 2: flagged was it's real strange that there are people in

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Speaker 2: corresponding with them more than you would people who you

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Speaker 2: actually see in your everyday life. Sure, and how there

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Speaker 2: say on something can influence how you think about things

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Speaker 2: even though you don't you don't you.

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Speaker 1: Don't care about that person, but you don't that person doesn't

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Speaker 2: It made me think again that it is undeniably a

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Speaker 1: Twenty people that you can't see.

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Speaker 1: Was just got too much for her. Yeah, and I've toyed, You've.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, there's just so many WhatsApp messages there, so that

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and that's why I haven't got rid of it.

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Speaker 3: For example, I'm in a group chat here about going.

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Speaker 1: To a football tomorrow. Yeah. Now, if I remove myself

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Speaker 3: I'm off the comroud, You're out of the guys and

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Speaker 1: Shall we?

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Speaker 3: And how selfish is that for me to then say

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Speaker 2: Situation with Sam as well, because she's from the Netherlands,

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Speaker 2: Let's do it, thirty one or six ' five. Do

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Speaker 3: I'd love to hear if someone has got out of

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Speaker 3: if you've cracked that, Yeah, I would love to hear

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: By the way, just on that thing where you were

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Speaker 2: You work in radio, bro, you talk to a million

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Speaker 1: But I can see you and I can see the

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Speaker 3: I can think about your career, but as long as

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I just assume people bloody love it. In

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Speaker 3: They are currently just like tell me more woody, they're

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Speaker 2: No microphones radios, Melanie, How do you feel about it?

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Speaker 6: Hey, guys, how are you good?

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Speaker 1: So well? So well? You're still on the WhatsApps and

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, I am a little bit like I do

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Speaker 8: But you know, with everyone trying to contact you at once,

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Speaker 6: You can't can't come in contact with everybody.

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Speaker 7: But it's also good.

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Speaker 6: Because the people that live in other states, you know,

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Speaker 1: I think that's an that's an all inclusive sort of

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Speaker 3: I like that Melanie keeps a connection there, you know

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Speaker 1: Because because does it? It's not really connection.

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Speaker 2: You see their name and you go, I'm saying in

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know you anymore. That's a good point.

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Speaker 2: I mean actually could disagree with Melanie, but wouldn't say

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Speaker 1: We'll pulled her faded down.

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Speaker 2: Since then, Michael's called on Thurday one and six five

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Speaker 1: Michael, you're not a fan of group chats.

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Speaker 7: Well, unfortunately, I don't have much of a choice. It's

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Speaker 1: The slack channels and things like that.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, and there's several that we have going so we've

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Speaker 2: But in the middle of the night, see, I just done.

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Speaker 2: I suppose that that for me is the other part.

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Speaker 2: It's a great point, Michael, because I think another part

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Speaker 1: On how quickly do you need to respond?

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Speaker 3: Is there an expectation that you are across or what's

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Speaker 1: And that immediately?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and that you're constantly contributing, But do you have

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Speaker 2: to be I had a friend of mine who has

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Speaker 2: much people have contributed to the group chat throughout and

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Speaker 2: you can.

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Speaker 1: Make a pie chat.

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Speaker 2: And he used to ye, he used to be, you

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Speaker 2: need to talk more next year because you're just to passenger.

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Speaker 1: We had a similar and we're feeding you.

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Speaker 2: All this content and you're not giving us anything back.

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Speaker 3: We found out that I just did laugh faces all

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Speaker 3: which very supportive. But that's contributing absolutely doughnut time to

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Speaker 2: But you're but again, to be fair, you should just

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Speaker 2: just go, guys, I'm not going to be talking.

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Speaker 3: I'm going to be a laugh faced guy. If you

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Speaker 1: Rid of me, just mix it up a little bit.

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Speaker 1: It's just a.

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Speaker 3: Crying la face three of two or three three three

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Speaker 3: if it's if it's a real.

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Speaker 1: You are a big ha ha guy on all messages though,

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Speaker 1: Just put that in there.

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Speaker 2: You actually that's your default start to every message is

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Speaker 2: ha ha ha yeah yeah yeah, what are you find

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Speaker 2: ha ha? Right now Charlie's called a KARLII. Guys, Charlie,

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Speaker 2: do you need to have group chats to be part

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Speaker 2: circles or not?

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Speaker 6: Really, but you really don't have a choice most of

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Speaker 6: a mum's group chat for our school kids. Yeah, and

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Speaker 6: there's just you know, we like put funny things in there,

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Speaker 6: and like, you know, talk rubbish, and there's always that

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Speaker 6: oh God, I'm just waiting for someone else to respond

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Speaker 6: so I can continue on with something else.

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Speaker 2: Don't fel guilty about the fact that nobody just wanted

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Speaker 2: because there was a story this is Yet there was

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Speaker 2: a TikTok who actually said that that's the issue with

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Speaker 2: it is because if you post something in a group

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Speaker 2: makes you feel good about yourself. But if you post

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Speaker 1: I'm in one group that just sends a tumbleweed.

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Speaker 3: So like someone will like lean into the fact that

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Speaker 3: you're like, oh my god, how do I delete that comment?

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Speaker 3: And then one of my mats would have send a

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Speaker 1: And then you'll reply with the dribble love face classic.

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Speaker 1: I never put myself out there again. Got an ethical

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Speaker 1: dilemma that I want to throw you away. William. You

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Speaker 1: like to frequent bars. You're a bar guy? Yeah, yeah, yeah,

444
00:19:16,960 --> 00:19:19,080
Speaker 1: I'm okay with that. I actually quite Yeah, that's that's

445
00:19:19,119 --> 00:19:22,040
Speaker 1: a b Yeah, you enjoy popping to the bar. I'm

446
00:19:22,080 --> 00:19:24,439
Speaker 1: more of a bar guy for sure. Are you a

447
00:19:24,480 --> 00:19:25,000
Speaker 1: bar guy?

448
00:19:25,760 --> 00:19:29,600
Speaker 2: No, I think you're probably more of an outdoor open

449
00:19:29,680 --> 00:19:38,239
Speaker 2: lawn courtyard. Are you talking about a bar as in

450
00:19:38,320 --> 00:19:40,680
Speaker 2: like a shop like a bar versus a pub, or

451
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Speaker 2: are you talking about actually being at the bar, like

452
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Speaker 2: sitting at the bar as.

453
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Speaker 1: In sitting on the piece of wood that the taps

454
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Speaker 1: come out of.

455
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Speaker 3: To be honest, this was a bit of a throwaway

456
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Speaker 3: question at the start that I wasn't expecting to go

457
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Speaker 3: so deep.

458
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Speaker 1: I'm just saying.

459
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Speaker 2: That it's fair for me to talking about me going

460
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Speaker 2: to the actual physical bar, the wooden bench that poor

461
00:20:00,520 --> 00:20:03,679
Speaker 2: drinks at or are you talking about a place that

462
00:20:03,760 --> 00:20:05,560
Speaker 2: serves drinks that is you know.

463
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Speaker 3: I'm specifically talking about going to the wooden bench and

464
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Speaker 3: ordering a drink.

465
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Speaker 1: Okay, And why do I like that? Well, you just

466
00:20:12,240 --> 00:20:14,159
Speaker 1: love to call the shots. You love to order the wine.

467
00:20:14,240 --> 00:20:17,040
Speaker 1: You know, you know your wine regions. And am I

468
00:20:17,119 --> 00:20:20,320
Speaker 1: standing at the bar? Am I bringing it back for everyone? Okay?

469
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Speaker 3: You're bringing it back from it? And this is very important.

470
00:20:22,359 --> 00:20:24,960
Speaker 3: So you've gone to the bar with me, okay. And

471
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Speaker 3: I think this is a situation that everyone's going to

472
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Speaker 3: be able to relate to.

473
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Speaker 2: On I don't think anyone doesn't happen you don't go

474
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Speaker 2: to the bar at all.

475
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Speaker 3: It's just saying, for once in the blue moon, I

476
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Speaker 3: do decide to go to the bus.

477
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Speaker 2: The hypothetical you're going to the bar. Yes, we're going

478
00:20:37,320 --> 00:20:39,000
Speaker 2: to get left your wallet back at the table. A

479
00:20:39,320 --> 00:20:40,560
Speaker 2: killer happens every time.

480
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Speaker 1: What a nightmare.

481
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Speaker 3: I hate this buddy thing. I'd forget my head if

482
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Speaker 3: it wasn't screwed on. Anyway, we're at the bar again,

483
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Speaker 3: I don't have my wallet. We're both ordering a lot

484
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Speaker 3: of drinks though, Okay, just for the group of friends

485
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Speaker 3: that we're with. Okay, you happen to order five beers,

486
00:20:54,040 --> 00:20:56,000
Speaker 3: just beers. They happen quite quickly.

487
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Speaker 1: What do you mean they happen quickly. Oh, it's just

488
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Speaker 1: like it's an easy paw for the the bartender. It's

489
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Speaker 1: going to be a quick process. Okay, yeah, I'll get

490
00:21:02,680 --> 00:21:04,080
Speaker 1: them quickly. Yeah, you get them quickly.

491
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Speaker 3: I decided to order in a Groani, a cocktail that

492
00:21:08,480 --> 00:21:11,960
Speaker 3: historically takes a quite a long time for the bartender

493
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Speaker 3: to make.

494
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Speaker 2: Yep, right, yep, he's double the cost as well.

495
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Speaker 1: But let's let's forget costs.

496
00:21:17,920 --> 00:21:19,800
Speaker 3: Let's forget cost because I've forgot more at the table,

497
00:21:19,840 --> 00:21:22,200
Speaker 3: so you're paying for it anyway, and I'll get your back.

498
00:21:23,359 --> 00:21:25,960
Speaker 3: So in that situation, just focus of the time here

499
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Speaker 3: when you're standing at the bar and your five beers

500
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Speaker 3: are sitting there waiting, and we're standing there waiting for

501
00:21:31,119 --> 00:21:34,280
Speaker 3: cocktail man to finish my cocktail. Do you wait with

502
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Speaker 3: me or do you take all your beers back to

503
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Speaker 3: the table and leave me by myself?

504
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Speaker 1: Are the drinks for other people? Is it? Five beers?

505
00:21:45,400 --> 00:21:46,080
Speaker 1: Five beers?

506
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Speaker 3: You and your drinks are all done. But I'm there

507
00:21:49,800 --> 00:21:51,440
Speaker 3: and I'm waiting for my cocktail. But you'd be leaving

508
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Speaker 3: me by myself. You'd be leaving me by myself if

509
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Speaker 3: you decided to go back to the table.

510
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Speaker 1: I should figure it.

511
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Speaker 2: If I can carry five beers, we can carry two

512
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Speaker 2: either hand.

513
00:22:01,920 --> 00:22:03,560
Speaker 1: You've got you've got to try. Let's say you've got

514
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Speaker 1: to try, and then I put one in the middle

515
00:22:05,160 --> 00:22:07,680
Speaker 1: so I could carry five. Let's say you've got a tray.

516
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Speaker 1: I don't focus on the seriously. Yeah, you're a terrible person.

517
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Speaker 2: We're just we're just talking purely on the numbers game.

518
00:22:18,080 --> 00:22:19,480
Speaker 1: And you want to leave me by What am I

519
00:22:19,480 --> 00:22:20,639
Speaker 1: going to do at the bar? I've just bought you

520
00:22:20,720 --> 00:22:22,800
Speaker 1: in a groany Shove it up your eyes.

521
00:22:26,080 --> 00:22:28,640
Speaker 2: You're not going to give people waiting for beers back there.

522
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Speaker 3: How many people say, what if it is taking a

523
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Speaker 3: beer for one person? What if it's just two beers.

524
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Speaker 1: It's a different game, it's a different ypathetical. Let's play

525
00:22:35,760 --> 00:22:38,640
Speaker 1: that game. I'd wait with you. How many? How many

526
00:22:38,680 --> 00:22:41,600
Speaker 1: does it need to be too to wait? Of numbers?

527
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Speaker 2: There's two people waiting for a drink versus one person

528
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Speaker 2: waiting for a drink. I gont get in there drinks first.

529
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Speaker 1: I just can't. I'm a fair I'm a fair yeah right, drink?

530
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Speaker 3: Okay, so, but I'm a very good friend of yours. Yeah,

531
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Speaker 3: what if this was let's go, let's go say poop

532
00:22:55,560 --> 00:22:58,359
Speaker 3: Pants executive producer, poop pants and a button pushing you.

533
00:22:58,480 --> 00:23:02,399
Speaker 1: And two people you the two turn your mic on.

534
00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:04,360
Speaker 3: They're the two people at the table waiting for their drink.

535
00:23:04,400 --> 00:23:06,760
Speaker 3: Now you how desperate to you to to get your

536
00:23:06,800 --> 00:23:09,520
Speaker 3: drink as fast as possible? Pretty desperate?

537
00:23:09,640 --> 00:23:09,880
Speaker 1: Usually?

538
00:23:09,920 --> 00:23:14,400
Speaker 3: Okay, interesting that, that's an interesting perspective. We've been lifelong friends. Yeah,

539
00:23:14,560 --> 00:23:18,480
Speaker 3: this is a poo pants work colleague. Yeah, before friend,

540
00:23:18,560 --> 00:23:20,920
Speaker 3: i'd say, you know, is your producer?

541
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Speaker 1: Yeah, you banger. We've only known him for two weeks

542
00:23:23,119 --> 00:23:24,720
Speaker 1: of its been a really good two weeks.

543
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Speaker 3: No, so in that situation, yeah, are you waiting with

544
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Speaker 3: me for my cocktail to be made?

545
00:23:31,400 --> 00:23:33,520
Speaker 1: Is it pooh Pants and you and at the table

546
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Speaker 1: by themselves?

547
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Speaker 5: Yeah?

548
00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:38,280
Speaker 1: Well no, not by themselves, though they're together on the table. Yes,

549
00:23:39,119 --> 00:23:41,440
Speaker 1: and the chat's pretty ship over at the table. I'll

550
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Speaker 1: tell you that much. I'm not busting a gut to

551
00:23:43,600 --> 00:23:46,719
Speaker 1: get back there whereas we could be chatting about all

552
00:23:46,760 --> 00:23:48,600
Speaker 1: sorts of amazing things. But I've stupid.

553
00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:50,840
Speaker 2: But still they're both over to drink. I've got a

554
00:23:50,880 --> 00:23:52,560
Speaker 2: drink for that for each of them. And there's two

555
00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:53,480
Speaker 2: of them when there's one of you.

556
00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:55,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, and the drinks have been made. They're ready to go,

557
00:23:55,800 --> 00:23:57,320
Speaker 1: but my cocktail is going to take at least then

558
00:23:57,440 --> 00:23:59,960
Speaker 1: take their drinks back. You son of a bitch, are yourself?

559
00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:06,520
Speaker 1: Why so there's two get left to the bar? It

560
00:24:09,240 --> 00:24:14,840
Speaker 1: because you ordered the Groani Have a seltzer, Have a seltzer?

561
00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:18,680
Speaker 1: I hate this. God make the Cronie's bigger guys.

562
00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:24,240
Speaker 2: Possibly our favorite character on this show has reached out.

563
00:24:24,359 --> 00:24:26,280
Speaker 2: She says she wants to get on the show today.

564
00:24:27,480 --> 00:24:29,040
Speaker 1: You and I are at a bit of a losses

565
00:24:29,040 --> 00:24:31,360
Speaker 1: to what this is about. Seventy three year old woman

566
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Speaker 1: called Rude Jude.

567
00:24:32,560 --> 00:24:36,479
Speaker 3: She lives in Charlieville, runs a baton tackle stalk called

568
00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:39,840
Speaker 3: Judy's Browse in with a Naughty Corner. She has been

569
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Speaker 3: very involved in this radio show and as you said, Wilbert,

570
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Speaker 3: if she wants to be on our radio show, all

571
00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:47,280
Speaker 3: she has to do is ask, and she is here

572
00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:47,760
Speaker 3: right now.

573
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Speaker 6: Hello, Jude, Hello, boys, how are you?

574
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Speaker 1: We're good? Good Judy?

575
00:24:53,359 --> 00:24:53,720
Speaker 5: How are you?

576
00:24:53,920 --> 00:24:56,159
Speaker 2: More importantly, I feel like this is I mean, obviously

577
00:24:56,160 --> 00:24:58,200
Speaker 2: you can get an audience on this show anytime, but

578
00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:01,760
Speaker 2: we're a little bit we're a little bit concerned about

579
00:25:01,800 --> 00:25:02,520
Speaker 2: what this is about.

580
00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:07,760
Speaker 5: Oh well, I thought i'd told you guys that I'd

581
00:25:07,880 --> 00:25:08,760
Speaker 5: sold my shop.

582
00:25:10,280 --> 00:25:11,080
Speaker 6: Did I tell you?

583
00:25:11,560 --> 00:25:14,359
Speaker 3: I thought you were joking when like we were a

584
00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:17,840
Speaker 3: number of sheets to the wind at the logis dude

585
00:25:19,640 --> 00:25:21,959
Speaker 3: and my recollection, And maybe this is more about how

586
00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:23,960
Speaker 3: many I had. I thought you were joking when you

587
00:25:24,040 --> 00:25:28,879
Speaker 3: told me that, no, genuinely sold it.

588
00:25:28,960 --> 00:25:31,600
Speaker 1: You're selling Judy's brows in I know.

589
00:25:31,920 --> 00:25:33,399
Speaker 5: After forty one years.

590
00:25:33,680 --> 00:25:39,440
Speaker 1: Oh my lord, I know. How are you feeling about it?

591
00:25:40,160 --> 00:25:45,399
Speaker 5: Oh? Very mixed emotions, right, you know it's going to

592
00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:49,040
Speaker 5: be a big change in my last and I don't know.

593
00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:49,960
Speaker 5: We all get on.

594
00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:51,720
Speaker 1: What do you? What are you going to so? What

595
00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:52,399
Speaker 1: are you going to do?

596
00:25:54,600 --> 00:25:57,640
Speaker 5: Go and see some clowns, some clowns?

597
00:25:58,320 --> 00:25:58,520
Speaker 4: Yeah?

598
00:25:59,200 --> 00:25:59,840
Speaker 5: Do you Melbourne?

599
00:25:59,840 --> 00:25:59,879
Speaker 7: That?

600
00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:00,359
Speaker 4: I know?

601
00:26:03,240 --> 00:26:05,399
Speaker 3: Well, you've always got a bed to sleep on if

602
00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:07,720
Speaker 3: you're ever in Melbourne, Jude, absolutely.

603
00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:08,920
Speaker 1: I'm not sure she's got a bed at my house.

604
00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:10,760
Speaker 2: I've got a child under my roof these days, and

605
00:26:10,840 --> 00:26:13,359
Speaker 2: I feel like Jude would corrupt her, can't lock up

606
00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:14,920
Speaker 2: with a case of dialdo's.

607
00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:18,000
Speaker 1: All of a sudden she using him like a frisbee

608
00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:18,640
Speaker 1: in the backyard.

609
00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:22,879
Speaker 5: Jude, I love kids, Yeah, no.

610
00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:25,240
Speaker 1: No, no you do, mate, So hang on, Jude, what

611
00:26:25,560 --> 00:26:26,800
Speaker 1: what what's going to happen? Like?

612
00:26:27,040 --> 00:26:29,479
Speaker 2: I mean, because obviously Judy's Browsie and Not operates as

613
00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:32,440
Speaker 2: a as a fishing shop with a naughty corner, a

614
00:26:32,520 --> 00:26:36,119
Speaker 2: ba tackle shop with an area for specialized bait and tackle.

615
00:26:36,200 --> 00:26:37,200
Speaker 1: What are people going to do?

616
00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:37,680
Speaker 5: Like?

617
00:26:37,880 --> 00:26:40,040
Speaker 1: Is it still going to be there? Someone else bought

618
00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:42,080
Speaker 1: the shop going It's.

619
00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:44,240
Speaker 5: Still going to be there and it's your fault.

620
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Speaker 1: Corner. The popularity went through the roof, is that right?

621
00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:55,359
Speaker 1: That's good of That must have helped with the sale.

622
00:26:55,520 --> 00:26:57,720
Speaker 1: That must have helped with the sail though. Am I

623
00:26:57,840 --> 00:27:00,800
Speaker 1: right in saying that local bloke is coffee? Yea?

624
00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:04,479
Speaker 6: He was truly weeks.

625
00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:10,000
Speaker 1: He was very interested in your in your wars cause.

626
00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:15,240
Speaker 5: You know I'm wrong number Cambray. He was stammering and stammering,

627
00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:17,000
Speaker 5: and he didn't know what was going on.

628
00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:17,520
Speaker 1: Cosh.

629
00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:21,800
Speaker 3: He may have been I mean he's a he's a

630
00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:25,280
Speaker 3: free agent. Now he's not doing Breakfast TV anymore. Okay, sorry,

631
00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:27,399
Speaker 3: so I can confirm he's not buying it. It's a

632
00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:28,560
Speaker 3: lot like I was buying it.

633
00:27:28,680 --> 00:27:30,879
Speaker 1: So, but are they going to continue with the Naughty

634
00:27:30,960 --> 00:27:31,600
Speaker 1: Corner dude?

635
00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:34,960
Speaker 5: Yes, I ah no, they're still going to call it

636
00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:39,720
Speaker 5: Judy's brows In if they could do that, I said.

637
00:27:39,600 --> 00:27:40,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, sure, great.

638
00:27:41,119 --> 00:27:43,560
Speaker 5: I've known this guy, of course since he's come to

639
00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:45,840
Speaker 5: Child to Live quite a few years ago.

640
00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:48,600
Speaker 1: Okay, oh great, that's good to hear. Like, are you

641
00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:51,159
Speaker 1: trying to clear stock now or what? What is your

642
00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:52,600
Speaker 1: the time?

643
00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:58,840
Speaker 5: Well, I take over on the first of October, on

644
00:27:58,960 --> 00:28:01,639
Speaker 5: the on the twenty ninth, I think it is on

645
00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:04,480
Speaker 5: the Friday. We shut the doors at five o'clock and

646
00:28:04,560 --> 00:28:07,320
Speaker 5: then Saturday we'll come in and do the stock take

647
00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:11,240
Speaker 5: and it's a long weekend. So yes, we are getting.

648
00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:12,920
Speaker 2: Rid of a bit of stock in terms of what

649
00:28:13,280 --> 00:28:15,120
Speaker 2: you've got left in the Naughty Corner.

650
00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:18,960
Speaker 5: Like, oh, yes, we've still got a few things left there. Yeah. Yeah,

651
00:28:19,040 --> 00:28:21,439
Speaker 5: there's a few butt plugs and.

652
00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:26,560
Speaker 1: Give them. But plus I feel like they were on

653
00:28:26,600 --> 00:28:27,560
Speaker 1: the shelf when we were there.

654
00:28:28,840 --> 00:28:30,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, we've got a lot bit of news stuff in

655
00:28:30,680 --> 00:28:32,040
Speaker 5: since you were out here.

656
00:28:32,560 --> 00:28:32,919
Speaker 1: Plugs.

657
00:28:33,920 --> 00:28:36,280
Speaker 5: I think we'd run out of dolls. Remember that Blake

658
00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:38,840
Speaker 5: that came in every month and bought a black Doly

659
00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:41,000
Speaker 5: Bitter on the tip and she flew out the windows.

660
00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:45,360
Speaker 5: He kept coming back and getting more. So we're out

661
00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:47,000
Speaker 5: of stock when you got out. We have got some

662
00:28:47,120 --> 00:28:48,000
Speaker 5: new ones in there.

663
00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:51,400
Speaker 1: We haven't got to stop buying them. You got to

664
00:28:51,440 --> 00:28:52,760
Speaker 1: sell the shop. You've got to get rid of it.

665
00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:55,880
Speaker 5: I know, well, I have stopped buying. We've got special.

666
00:28:56,600 --> 00:28:58,360
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, let us know if we can help it

667
00:28:58,440 --> 00:29:00,560
Speaker 2: all with getting rid of the stuff from the recorder.

668
00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:03,560
Speaker 1: Okay, Judy, what do you reckon?

669
00:29:03,760 --> 00:29:06,960
Speaker 2: You're sort of enduring memory of the of Judy's browsing

670
00:29:07,080 --> 00:29:07,720
Speaker 2: in Charlville.

671
00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:12,080
Speaker 5: Well, it's the people. It is the people in the town.

672
00:29:12,360 --> 00:29:15,000
Speaker 5: And you know, it's such a good town, good community.

673
00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:19,600
Speaker 5: And yeah, I'm very sad and very happy.

674
00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:21,440
Speaker 7: You know.

675
00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:26,120
Speaker 5: It's just the people, manly that I'll miss. Yeah, yeah,

676
00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:31,320
Speaker 5: and you guys, so you know, but I'll keep in

677
00:29:31,440 --> 00:29:32,720
Speaker 5: touch with you, of course.

678
00:29:32,760 --> 00:29:36,400
Speaker 1: You We hope you will. We hope you will. I mean,

679
00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:38,320
Speaker 1: you've helped so many people in the community.

680
00:29:38,480 --> 00:29:41,200
Speaker 3: Dude like that, you know, like the woman who buried

681
00:29:41,240 --> 00:29:42,440
Speaker 3: herself with the vibrator.

682
00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:43,960
Speaker 1: I mean, that's that's beautiful stuff.

683
00:29:47,800 --> 00:29:52,400
Speaker 5: And then when I'm going to die here and Annie

684
00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:55,800
Speaker 5: with the big fanny, you know, she's take me saying

685
00:29:56,640 --> 00:30:02,320
Speaker 5: get me out of here. What about where we're having

686
00:30:02,360 --> 00:30:04,600
Speaker 5: a rod at the love you.

687
00:30:04,800 --> 00:30:09,920
Speaker 3: Chris Brown, you had a ducking do faking dog.

688
00:30:10,000 --> 00:30:10,160
Speaker 7: Yeah.

689
00:30:10,160 --> 00:30:12,160
Speaker 1: I think you were on ruben from freaking duck.

690
00:30:13,840 --> 00:30:23,160
Speaker 5: Yes, it's all I can hear. It was quick quacks,

691
00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:24,840
Speaker 5: right I've ever had.

692
00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:28,160
Speaker 1: Well yeah, anyone hearing that?

693
00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:30,080
Speaker 2: That was all that was on the red carpet. That

694
00:30:30,320 --> 00:30:33,080
Speaker 2: was all above board. Jude, we love you. We're really

695
00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:35,040
Speaker 2: sad to hear it's going. If anyone wants to buy

696
00:30:35,040 --> 00:30:37,360
Speaker 2: anything from Judy's Browsing, can we find you online? You've

697
00:30:37,360 --> 00:30:40,240
Speaker 2: got a website or something that could buy anything from there?

698
00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:44,920
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, well they ken, I don't know. It's Judy

699
00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:47,920
Speaker 5: Browsing dot com dot are you or something.

700
00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:49,720
Speaker 1: To get there?

701
00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:51,600
Speaker 3: Get to child on the next two weeks. This is

702
00:30:51,640 --> 00:30:53,680
Speaker 3: your last chance to buy something from Judy's bread.

703
00:30:53,840 --> 00:30:58,120
Speaker 5: Kay yay, half the board come on down.

704
00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:01,200
Speaker 1: All right, mate? Well look speak to you before your

705
00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:02,120
Speaker 1: close of course.

706
00:31:02,880 --> 00:31:06,280
Speaker 5: Yeah, well, thank you very much, Will and water, thank

707
00:31:06,320 --> 00:31:07,760
Speaker 5: you and that I love it.

708
00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:09,920
Speaker 1: You should be very proud. I can't think of any

709
00:31:10,040 --> 00:31:11,080
Speaker 1: We love your guts.

710
00:31:10,840 --> 00:31:12,480
Speaker 2: Too, mate, I can't think of many people have done

711
00:31:12,520 --> 00:31:13,560
Speaker 2: something for forty one years.

712
00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:16,160
Speaker 1: That's a that's a serious triumph. Congratulations.

713
00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:19,600
Speaker 5: Yeah, thank you to all the team, l JO and

714
00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:21,560
Speaker 5: all the team and everyone.

715
00:31:21,720 --> 00:31:24,560
Speaker 1: But Will, Yeah, you're not dying, dude. You're just selling

716
00:31:24,640 --> 00:31:37,120
Speaker 1: your shop, are you right? Oh mate? We love you, mate.

717
00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:51,600
Speaker 5: I'm just walking past and giving a puddle for the

718
00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:55,680
Speaker 5: neighbor at the back. Oh, thank you a hell and

719
00:31:55,760 --> 00:32:05,240
Speaker 5: my cat look this brandcast?

720
00:32:06,840 --> 00:32:07,240
Speaker 7: What was that?

721
00:32:08,520 --> 00:32:10,880
Speaker 5: Thanks to help you? Thank you?

722
00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:14,960
Speaker 1: Oh dude. We'll speak to you. We'll speak to you soon. Okay. Yeah,

723
00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:16,080
Speaker 1: we love you.

724
00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:17,440
Speaker 5: I love you God.

725
00:32:17,640 --> 00:32:19,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, we love you mate.

726
00:32:19,320 --> 00:32:22,960
Speaker 5: We had him right, Yeah, Will be here.

727
00:32:23,120 --> 00:32:26,920
Speaker 1: It's still got dude, it's still gone. It's still going good.

728
00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:35,200
Speaker 5: That's good done. Sorry about that training train. He's got

729
00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:38,000
Speaker 5: the shop next door shop.

730
00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:43,360
Speaker 1: Has that acombination flaring about plug. I mean that's that's beautiful.

731
00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:52,000
Speaker 5: Yeah, no, it's very martional. Yeah. Can I just love

732
00:32:52,080 --> 00:32:57,720
Speaker 5: everyone there that works there and old giant Yeah okay.

733
00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:06,600
Speaker 1: Kiri Kiri. Al right, mate, we love you, dude, we

734
00:33:06,760 --> 00:33:10,560
Speaker 1: love you. We'll touch basic again before the shop cells,

735
00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:14,120
Speaker 1: how about that. I'd love to, we'd love to. Congratulations.

736
00:33:14,480 --> 00:33:15,840
Speaker 5: Okay, thanks boys.

737
00:33:20,280 --> 00:33:23,560
Speaker 1: Wow, it's really it's really emotional. Yeah, it is, isn't it.

738
00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:27,520
Speaker 3: And like you said, like it's like so much of

739
00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:31,840
Speaker 3: what we see on radio is the humor around you know,

740
00:33:32,080 --> 00:33:33,720
Speaker 3: selling those adult toys and stuff.

741
00:33:33,800 --> 00:33:33,960
Speaker 6: Yeah.

742
00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:36,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's the heart and soul of the community

743
00:33:37,040 --> 00:33:40,480
Speaker 1: and people dropping. When we were there in Charlville, people

744
00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:42,120
Speaker 1: come into that store all the time.

745
00:33:42,000 --> 00:33:45,040
Speaker 3: And say good as Yeah, we were describing her as

746
00:33:45,080 --> 00:33:47,000
Speaker 3: the godmother of Charlieville.

747
00:33:47,120 --> 00:33:51,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, absolutely, yeah, yeah, yeah, it feels weird.

748
00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:54,040
Speaker 2: Would be good for us to think about maybe trying

749
00:33:54,040 --> 00:33:56,120
Speaker 2: to send her off, send the shop off in the

750
00:33:56,200 --> 00:33:56,600
Speaker 2: right way.

751
00:33:56,680 --> 00:33:59,480
Speaker 3: Actually, at the very least we should help her move

752
00:33:59,560 --> 00:34:01,120
Speaker 3: some of that at the end of the day. We

753
00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:04,480
Speaker 3: are talking to Australia. Yeah, yeah, you know, if you

754
00:34:04,560 --> 00:34:06,400
Speaker 3: can push people to be buying a bit more of

755
00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:07,200
Speaker 3: a yeah, and.

756
00:34:07,240 --> 00:34:09,160
Speaker 2: If anyone's got any good ideas about how we can

757
00:34:09,320 --> 00:34:11,080
Speaker 2: you know, send the shop off in style and maybe

758
00:34:11,080 --> 00:34:12,560
Speaker 2: you hit us up, because I reckon that'd be a

759
00:34:12,600 --> 00:34:14,560
Speaker 2: really lovely thing to do now I'm thinking about it. Yeah,

760
00:34:14,600 --> 00:34:16,680
Speaker 2: great idea, Yeah all right, listen it well and money,

761
00:34:16,719 --> 00:34:17,480
Speaker 2: it's Monday kiss.

762
00:34:24,920 --> 00:34:31,520
Speaker 1: Australia's Easiest quiz somebody let's play alrighty buying the quiz today.

763
00:34:31,520 --> 00:34:36,080
Speaker 1: We've got Danny L. Hello, Danny L. Hi, danniel thirty

764
00:34:36,080 --> 00:34:37,839
Speaker 1: seconds on the clock. Got to get ten questions right.

765
00:34:37,920 --> 00:34:39,960
Speaker 1: You can pass in any question, have to take your

766
00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:41,160
Speaker 1: first answer first, Dannielle.

767
00:34:41,160 --> 00:34:41,680
Speaker 5: Do you know her?

768
00:34:41,840 --> 00:34:42,480
Speaker 1: Rude Jude Is?

769
00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:43,279
Speaker 5: Have you heard of her?

770
00:34:44,840 --> 00:34:48,120
Speaker 1: No kidding, She's one of one of my favorite people

771
00:34:48,200 --> 00:34:52,400
Speaker 1: on the show. Idal lost the quizz already, Danny L.

772
00:34:54,640 --> 00:34:59,399
Speaker 3: She's got the bait and tackle store in Regional Queensland. Yeah,

773
00:34:59,520 --> 00:35:03,279
Speaker 3: hell yes, yeah, Well she's got an announcement up next.

774
00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:05,759
Speaker 3: We don't know what it is, but we're shaken in

775
00:35:05,840 --> 00:35:06,280
Speaker 3: our birds.

776
00:35:06,320 --> 00:35:08,160
Speaker 6: Danny here, let's see what it is.

777
00:35:08,560 --> 00:35:12,080
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, always give him my questions, boys, That's what

778
00:35:12,160 --> 00:35:16,080
Speaker 2: I'm mean for thirty seconds, Daniel, ten questions?

779
00:35:16,120 --> 00:35:16,600
Speaker 1: Are you ready?

780
00:35:17,520 --> 00:35:17,759
Speaker 5: Sure?

781
00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:21,600
Speaker 2: Give me a girl's name starting with the letter pen

782
00:35:21,840 --> 00:35:25,520
Speaker 2: whose head is on the Australian coin. Give me a

783
00:35:25,560 --> 00:35:29,120
Speaker 2: planet that starts with the letter M. Would you rather

784
00:35:29,200 --> 00:35:29,840
Speaker 2: never brush.

785
00:35:29,640 --> 00:35:32,919
Speaker 1: Your teeth or never brush your hair, Never brush my hair?

786
00:35:33,040 --> 00:35:36,840
Speaker 1: Why how many dollars in one hundred cents.

787
00:35:39,760 --> 00:35:40,280
Speaker 5: One hundred?

788
00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:44,920
Speaker 1: What does nineteen plus seven equal? Where's the where's the.

789
00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:47,560
Speaker 2: What?

790
00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:49,520
Speaker 1: Where's the period of geezer?

791
00:35:51,360 --> 00:35:52,120
Speaker 5: Egypt? Yeah?

792
00:35:52,239 --> 00:35:53,040
Speaker 1: It is Egypt?

793
00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:53,520
Speaker 5: Sorry?

794
00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:56,640
Speaker 1: Just how many dollars in one hundred cents? Is a

795
00:35:56,719 --> 00:36:01,360
Speaker 1: dollar a dollar? A dollar? We just don't use coins anymore,

796
00:36:01,520 --> 00:36:02,080
Speaker 1: but you can.

797
00:36:02,640 --> 00:36:06,760
Speaker 2: You can have one hundred dollars to spend at Red Rooster, Woody.

798
00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:09,200
Speaker 1: I'm not going to comment comment on that.

799
00:36:09,440 --> 00:36:11,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, you got one hundred dolls you spent at Red Rooster, Danielle,

800
00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:12,080
Speaker 2: that's all yours, not.

801
00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:12,920
Speaker 7: A whole dollar.

802
00:36:15,760 --> 00:36:17,400
Speaker 2: Hanging after and everyone, it is Will and wood You

803
00:36:17,400 --> 00:36:20,920
Speaker 2: hope you're having a wonderful drive home Woods. Sophie Turner

804
00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:23,640
Speaker 2: and Joe Jonas's marriage has obviously been in the news

805
00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:24,840
Speaker 2: a lot recently.

806
00:36:25,400 --> 00:36:26,279
Speaker 1: They have split up.

807
00:36:26,320 --> 00:36:28,360
Speaker 2: Guys, I if you're just fresh that it has obviously

808
00:36:28,400 --> 00:36:32,040
Speaker 2: been kicking around for a while. But shame after your

809
00:36:32,520 --> 00:36:35,000
Speaker 2: your your prediction, your prophecy about them.

810
00:36:35,239 --> 00:36:38,120
Speaker 1: The latest news about Joe Jonas and Sophie Turner. I

811
00:36:38,239 --> 00:36:42,120
Speaker 1: guarantee their reports tomorrow. They are back on Baby and

812
00:36:42,360 --> 00:36:47,239
Speaker 1: divorce is on the horizon, I mean off the horizon. No,

813
00:36:47,640 --> 00:36:49,360
Speaker 1: divorce is coming.

814
00:36:49,520 --> 00:36:51,680
Speaker 2: Wouldn't be more wrong, big strife. There they're on the rocks,

815
00:36:52,320 --> 00:36:55,399
Speaker 2: so anyway you know they're they're going, they're off the rocks.

816
00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:56,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, wherever that is?

817
00:36:57,239 --> 00:36:57,759
Speaker 5: Where is that?

818
00:36:58,320 --> 00:37:00,520
Speaker 1: Once you go? Once you're on the rocks, you're in

819
00:37:00,560 --> 00:37:04,520
Speaker 1: the ocean. You're in the drink. I imagine ocean. Yeah,

820
00:37:04,600 --> 00:37:07,120
Speaker 1: I more fish in the sea, so you go to

821
00:37:07,160 --> 00:37:09,880
Speaker 1: the sea to find other fish. Absolutely. Yeah, No, I

822
00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:12,919
Speaker 1: think we've unnecessarily extended the metaphor. But now, like your mind,

823
00:37:13,200 --> 00:37:13,440
Speaker 1: thank you.

824
00:37:13,920 --> 00:37:16,680
Speaker 2: So the bit is that I think is really interesting

825
00:37:16,719 --> 00:37:19,520
Speaker 2: is apparently Sophie Turner felt trapped in the marriage. She

826
00:37:19,600 --> 00:37:22,040
Speaker 2: wants to relive her youth after marrying and having kids young.

827
00:37:22,160 --> 00:37:25,000
Speaker 2: She said that, you know, well, she's been seen downing

828
00:37:25,040 --> 00:37:28,680
Speaker 2: shots and smacking cocktails look good on her, and I

829
00:37:29,080 --> 00:37:29,840
Speaker 2: can't condone.

830
00:37:29,640 --> 00:37:30,160
Speaker 1: Drinking a lot.

831
00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:36,200
Speaker 2: As a parent, I can kind of empathize with this

832
00:37:36,440 --> 00:37:40,880
Speaker 2: idea of losing your sense of play when you become

833
00:37:41,160 --> 00:37:45,880
Speaker 2: a parent, and it's sort of it kind of reminded

834
00:37:45,960 --> 00:37:48,200
Speaker 2: me a little bit of a moment that you had

835
00:37:48,239 --> 00:37:50,960
Speaker 2: when you're enonymously get me out of here where you

836
00:37:51,120 --> 00:37:54,800
Speaker 2: thought you were being suspended over a waterfall and you

837
00:37:54,840 --> 00:37:56,680
Speaker 2: had to walk, had to walk a plank.

838
00:37:56,880 --> 00:37:58,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I think it was a high you know,

839
00:37:58,560 --> 00:38:00,200
Speaker 1: you thought there was a high risk activity. Is that

840
00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:01,080
Speaker 1: the whole thing was just stitch up?

841
00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:02,919
Speaker 2: But yeah, you at the time, one hundred percent thought

842
00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:05,960
Speaker 2: that this was going to be you know, life life threatening.

843
00:38:06,040 --> 00:38:09,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, have a listen. Everything changes when you've got a daughter.

844
00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:15,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, previously I reckon I would have just run out

845
00:38:15,640 --> 00:38:20,719
Speaker 3: there and not worried so much. Yet it's just the

846
00:38:20,800 --> 00:38:24,800
Speaker 3: idea of hurting myself now is really really scary.

847
00:38:26,600 --> 00:38:27,959
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's true.

848
00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:30,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, because I'm not saying I had a death witch

849
00:38:30,760 --> 00:38:32,800
Speaker 3: before I had a baby. But you know, you're definitely

850
00:38:33,000 --> 00:38:35,440
Speaker 3: like things like jumping out of a plane, bungee jumping,

851
00:38:35,760 --> 00:38:38,399
Speaker 3: walking over a waterfall. They're all like, oh, well, look

852
00:38:38,440 --> 00:38:40,680
Speaker 3: if this goes badly and I hurt myself really badly

853
00:38:40,840 --> 00:38:43,560
Speaker 3: or die, it's not it's not I don't have another

854
00:38:43,640 --> 00:38:44,920
Speaker 3: life to look after it. But as soon as you

855
00:38:45,000 --> 00:38:48,359
Speaker 3: have this, this child that like you really rely on me, Yeah,

856
00:38:48,600 --> 00:38:52,160
Speaker 3: I just think twice before yeah, doing dangerous things.

857
00:38:52,120 --> 00:38:55,560
Speaker 2: And obviously you were applying that exact same philosophy when

858
00:38:55,600 --> 00:38:57,880
Speaker 2: you went down a mountain nerd on a tricycle recently.

859
00:39:01,000 --> 00:39:03,520
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Oh my god, he's always got a

860
00:39:03,560 --> 00:39:15,239
Speaker 1: lot of street in the chop. There, he's ship, he's

861
00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:21,160
Speaker 1: got set off, he's got shut off. That's a set up.

862
00:39:21,520 --> 00:39:24,759
Speaker 1: That's a setup, that is plain and simple. Day's a

863
00:39:24,800 --> 00:39:28,600
Speaker 1: set up. Did you set this whole thing up so

864
00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:32,000
Speaker 1: I would look like a walking contradiction? That audio was

865
00:39:33,360 --> 00:39:36,239
Speaker 1: absolutely no. Man, Look, you really think about these things

866
00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:41,919
Speaker 1: when you're yeah, I almost died, then there's no doubt

867
00:39:41,920 --> 00:39:45,960
Speaker 1: about it is so good. It worked a lot better

868
00:39:46,000 --> 00:39:49,200
Speaker 1: than I thought it could have. Let's talk a bit

869
00:39:49,239 --> 00:39:51,960
Speaker 1: more about this. This wasn't just a setup, you know,

870
00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:55,320
Speaker 1: gene chat that I want to trap.

871
00:39:55,400 --> 00:39:58,040
Speaker 2: That was absolutely yeah, yeah, yeah, a bit of a

872
00:39:58,080 --> 00:40:00,040
Speaker 2: trap to start things off. But right up next I

873
00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:01,880
Speaker 2: do want to talk about because I think it actually

874
00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:06,000
Speaker 2: touches into this deeper question which is on the surface

875
00:40:06,000 --> 00:40:11,040
Speaker 2: we're talking about can you play? Can do you lose

876
00:40:11,080 --> 00:40:12,680
Speaker 2: your sense of play when you become a parent?

877
00:40:13,160 --> 00:40:15,120
Speaker 1: Right? Or how do you stay in touch with that

878
00:40:15,200 --> 00:40:15,759
Speaker 1: sense of play?

879
00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:18,239
Speaker 2: But even the deeper question there, which I think is

880
00:40:18,640 --> 00:40:21,880
Speaker 2: attached to that or part of that is losing your

881
00:40:22,000 --> 00:40:26,000
Speaker 2: identity as an individual versus losing your identity.

882
00:40:25,600 --> 00:40:26,080
Speaker 1: As a parent.

883
00:40:26,360 --> 00:40:29,359
Speaker 2: Your identity is an individual when you become a parent. Now,

884
00:40:29,640 --> 00:40:32,120
Speaker 2: the reason we're talking about it is Sophie Turner and

885
00:40:32,200 --> 00:40:33,880
Speaker 2: Joe Jonas. Obviously the end of their marriage has been

886
00:40:33,920 --> 00:40:35,640
Speaker 2: everywhere in the news over the last couple of weeks.

887
00:40:36,000 --> 00:40:39,399
Speaker 2: It's sad, but I think it's really interesting that she said,

888
00:40:39,480 --> 00:40:41,440
Speaker 2: or a friend of hers has said, A close source,

889
00:40:41,480 --> 00:40:44,200
Speaker 2: I should say, has probably said that she wants to

890
00:40:44,239 --> 00:40:46,480
Speaker 2: relive her youth because she had kids young, and she's

891
00:40:46,520 --> 00:40:49,120
Speaker 2: been seen downing shots and cocktails in Birmingham. And look,

892
00:40:49,560 --> 00:40:51,560
Speaker 2: as I said, I can't condone just you know, hitting

893
00:40:51,560 --> 00:40:54,359
Speaker 2: the turps way you've got children. But the other side

894
00:40:54,400 --> 00:40:59,160
Speaker 2: of this is I can empathize with her in particularly

895
00:40:59,160 --> 00:41:02,400
Speaker 2: early on having kid and having nights out where I

896
00:41:02,440 --> 00:41:05,360
Speaker 2: would just blow the bloody doors off with this sense

897
00:41:05,440 --> 00:41:11,440
Speaker 2: of reckless recklessness where I was propelled by I've got

898
00:41:11,520 --> 00:41:13,719
Speaker 2: to try and relive what I used to be able

899
00:41:13,760 --> 00:41:14,560
Speaker 2: to do because I was so.

900
00:41:14,640 --> 00:41:21,360
Speaker 3: Scared that I lost my sense of play. But my

901
00:41:21,440 --> 00:41:23,839
Speaker 3: only things to that is I feel like interestingly enough

902
00:41:24,560 --> 00:41:28,360
Speaker 3: I play. I mean, the definition of play is obviously

903
00:41:28,440 --> 00:41:30,840
Speaker 3: quite a broad one. I think I play more with

904
00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:33,120
Speaker 3: a baby, Like, for example, this morning, I was genuinely

905
00:41:33,120 --> 00:41:35,759
Speaker 3: playing on a playground and I found my love again

906
00:41:35,800 --> 00:41:38,000
Speaker 3: of just like just mucking around with my daughter.

907
00:41:40,160 --> 00:41:41,799
Speaker 1: That's one of the best parts about having you. It's

908
00:41:42,120 --> 00:41:44,319
Speaker 1: you all of sudden find the joy in all these

909
00:41:44,360 --> 00:41:45,120
Speaker 1: little things which you.

910
00:41:45,160 --> 00:41:48,400
Speaker 2: Got over to see things through their eyes again and

911
00:41:49,200 --> 00:41:53,120
Speaker 2: become re enchanted with the world's.

912
00:41:52,760 --> 00:41:54,400
Speaker 1: Hide and seeking. The living room and that was the

913
00:41:54,600 --> 00:41:57,480
Speaker 1: best fun I've had for years. Started splashing in puddles

914
00:41:57,600 --> 00:41:59,640
Speaker 1: is great again also, and you almost like see it

915
00:42:00,160 --> 00:42:01,960
Speaker 1: with them. You're like, yeah, why did I stop finding

916
00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:03,640
Speaker 1: it's fun? This is awesome percent.

917
00:42:03,760 --> 00:42:06,400
Speaker 3: But if then you take the definition of play to

918
00:42:06,680 --> 00:42:09,560
Speaker 3: your nights out, yeap, or let's just call it under

919
00:42:09,600 --> 00:42:12,480
Speaker 3: the term partying. Ye Maybe there are some parents. I

920
00:42:12,480 --> 00:42:14,000
Speaker 3: think they still can do it as much as they

921
00:42:14,080 --> 00:42:17,919
Speaker 3: did before, but it's definitely pulled back because.

922
00:42:17,680 --> 00:42:19,799
Speaker 1: It has to because you've got a responsibility to a child.

923
00:42:19,960 --> 00:42:20,080
Speaker 2: Right.

924
00:42:20,239 --> 00:42:20,439
Speaker 1: Yeah.

925
00:42:20,760 --> 00:42:22,320
Speaker 2: I actually don't want to focus too much on the

926
00:42:22,360 --> 00:42:25,000
Speaker 2: partying thing because I do. Yeah, I agree with you.

927
00:42:25,239 --> 00:42:27,000
Speaker 2: You do it as much as you like, but ultimately,

928
00:42:27,200 --> 00:42:30,600
Speaker 2: if you're abusing that then you are neglecting your relationship

929
00:42:30,640 --> 00:42:33,319
Speaker 2: with your kid, because we all know having a child hungover. Yes,

930
00:42:33,400 --> 00:42:35,440
Speaker 2: you can get through it, but jeez, you're not really there.

931
00:42:35,480 --> 00:42:38,120
Speaker 2: You're just kind of counting the ails until naptime. But

932
00:42:38,200 --> 00:42:43,840
Speaker 2: I'm talking also about this sense of role or responsibility,

933
00:42:44,200 --> 00:42:47,279
Speaker 2: because yes, you can obviously enter the play zone with them.

934
00:42:48,040 --> 00:42:51,120
Speaker 2: For example, Max has started throwing her food recently. Yeah,

935
00:42:51,239 --> 00:42:53,000
Speaker 2: thinks it's the best thing in the world. It makes

936
00:42:53,000 --> 00:42:55,600
Speaker 2: a noise, absolutely pisses herself when it hits the ground.

937
00:42:55,760 --> 00:42:57,640
Speaker 1: It is pretty close. It's classic. And the bigger the

938
00:42:57,680 --> 00:42:59,239
Speaker 1: thing that the you know, the better the throw.

939
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:01,960
Speaker 2: And you know, the first time I did it, the

940
00:43:02,000 --> 00:43:03,719
Speaker 2: first time I came home and I saw her doing it,

941
00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:05,640
Speaker 2: I absolutely pissed myself.

942
00:43:05,760 --> 00:43:08,160
Speaker 1: And she looked at me and was like, ah, yes,

943
00:43:08,840 --> 00:43:11,279
Speaker 1: how good is this. I've got permission now, yes, yeah,

944
00:43:11,400 --> 00:43:12,879
Speaker 1: Dad finds it funny. Yes yeah.

945
00:43:13,120 --> 00:43:16,960
Speaker 2: And Sam's looking at me, going can you not yeah,

946
00:43:17,360 --> 00:43:22,240
Speaker 2: because you're enabling this? Yeah, right, And a really tricky

947
00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:28,080
Speaker 2: balance to strike between when you're with your child, how

948
00:43:28,239 --> 00:43:32,759
Speaker 2: much of my identity can I retain without infringing upon

949
00:43:33,160 --> 00:43:36,080
Speaker 2: who I am to them as a role model and

950
00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:39,520
Speaker 2: oh yeah, wow, yeah, because I think that's a really

951
00:43:39,640 --> 00:43:43,280
Speaker 2: tricky bit Like that, for me is nearly the trickiest

952
00:43:43,320 --> 00:43:44,560
Speaker 2: part about being a parent.

953
00:43:45,400 --> 00:43:47,520
Speaker 3: I'm supposed to be the responsible one here. I'm the

954
00:43:47,520 --> 00:43:49,319
Speaker 3: one whos supposed to teach you what's right and what's wrong.

955
00:43:49,400 --> 00:43:51,399
Speaker 3: And if I keep going down this, yes we throw

956
00:43:51,480 --> 00:43:52,520
Speaker 3: food and we have fun.

957
00:43:52,480 --> 00:43:54,560
Speaker 2: Yes, But then if you tip the scales too far

958
00:43:54,640 --> 00:43:56,799
Speaker 2: the other way, you get these you know, top down

959
00:43:56,920 --> 00:43:59,520
Speaker 2: parenting structures where you know, we all know those parents

960
00:43:59,520 --> 00:44:01,880
Speaker 2: where it was just like geez, you like a ring

961
00:44:02,040 --> 00:44:03,080
Speaker 2: marshal for these kids.

962
00:44:03,480 --> 00:44:05,960
Speaker 1: I know it well, not speaking from experience, but I

963
00:44:06,080 --> 00:44:06,480
Speaker 1: know it well.

964
00:44:08,120 --> 00:44:10,759
Speaker 3: But I reckon in that particular situation there, with the

965
00:44:10,960 --> 00:44:13,399
Speaker 3: with the food fighting, for example, so I the way

966
00:44:13,440 --> 00:44:15,200
Speaker 3: I would meet that. And whether this was right or wrong,

967
00:44:15,239 --> 00:44:17,120
Speaker 3: I don't know, but just for me personally, I reckon

968
00:44:17,160 --> 00:44:19,719
Speaker 3: I would go, let's have the food fight. Let's this

969
00:44:19,880 --> 00:44:21,880
Speaker 3: is awesome. I'm down for throwing food. Let me go

970
00:44:21,920 --> 00:44:23,440
Speaker 3: and get some supplies because there's going to be some

971
00:44:23,560 --> 00:44:26,279
Speaker 3: return serves here. But if she then went to throw

972
00:44:26,280 --> 00:44:28,680
Speaker 3: out mummy and mummy wasn't involved, I go, hey, ram,

973
00:44:28,920 --> 00:44:29,760
Speaker 3: mummy wasn't playing.

974
00:44:30,160 --> 00:44:32,399
Speaker 1: I mean, mmy mummy has a nice I just don't

975
00:44:32,640 --> 00:44:35,839
Speaker 1: has a nice outfit. On come on now, you mean.

976
00:44:37,440 --> 00:44:37,600
Speaker 4: Yet?

977
00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:40,320
Speaker 1: No, I haven't, no, because once you open that floodgate

978
00:44:41,960 --> 00:44:44,400
Speaker 1: and I have food fights though with I, I don't know.

979
00:44:44,800 --> 00:44:46,120
Speaker 1: I reckon you can.

980
00:44:46,320 --> 00:44:48,600
Speaker 2: But maybe it's just about setting boundaries. So you can't

981
00:44:48,640 --> 00:44:50,040
Speaker 2: have food fights while you're eating dinner.

982
00:44:50,360 --> 00:44:54,759
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, okay, cool, all right, now, don't save those

983
00:44:54,800 --> 00:44:58,759
Speaker 1: grapes for the fight. But you've done eating, all right,

984
00:44:58,840 --> 00:45:00,400
Speaker 1: let's yeah at each other.

985
00:45:00,560 --> 00:45:03,080
Speaker 2: Yeah. I don't know, mate, You know you're asking someone

986
00:45:03,120 --> 00:45:04,520
Speaker 2: who's trying to get it out at the same time

987
00:45:04,600 --> 00:45:04,880
Speaker 2: as you do.

988
00:45:05,200 --> 00:45:05,680
Speaker 1: I don't know.

989
00:45:06,000 --> 00:45:08,200
Speaker 2: I can't take an empathize with Sophie Turner though, because

990
00:45:08,239 --> 00:45:10,560
Speaker 2: she's obviously in adition where she's young and she yeah,

991
00:45:11,400 --> 00:45:13,040
Speaker 2: he's over being a mum.

992
00:45:13,160 --> 00:45:15,279
Speaker 1: Yeah we're almost we're almost forty. We've had that time,

993
00:45:15,360 --> 00:45:18,160
Speaker 1: haven't we. Yeah, well speak for yourself, but yeah.

994
00:45:18,200 --> 00:45:24,600
Speaker 3: You're younger than you do. Remind me of you, I reckon.

995
00:45:24,640 --> 00:45:27,120
Speaker 3: The trick is you're not going to get it right. Yeah,

996
00:45:27,160 --> 00:45:28,399
Speaker 3: so stop seeking right.

997
00:45:28,480 --> 00:45:30,360
Speaker 1: There's no such thing. Yeah, you're going to get it

998
00:45:30,400 --> 00:45:32,560
Speaker 1: wrong and that's okay, Yeah, which is what he says.

999
00:45:32,600 --> 00:45:35,719
Speaker 2: When he brings out the brings out the Plato, brings

1000
00:45:35,760 --> 00:45:37,560
Speaker 2: out the Plato and the mashed potato, and puts it

1001
00:45:37,600 --> 00:45:40,759
Speaker 2: in his daughter's hands in a sling shot. I'm not

1002
00:45:40,840 --> 00:45:45,239
Speaker 2: going to get it right, son of us.

1003
00:45:45,280 --> 00:45:50,200
Speaker 1: Get it right, man all right, arms up for him, really,