1 00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:02,320 Speaker 1: This is a will and Woody podcast. 2 00:00:02,520 --> 00:00:04,960 Speaker 2: Mimi very excited to say, share my food. Finally have 3 00:00:05,120 --> 00:00:06,160 Speaker 2: bigs tomorrow night. 4 00:00:07,040 --> 00:00:11,280 Speaker 3: You guys a chance to have better connections with your mates. 5 00:00:11,720 --> 00:00:14,520 Speaker 3: Just invite them over head to willim Woody on Instagram 6 00:00:14,840 --> 00:00:17,200 Speaker 3: and follow three very simple activities. 7 00:00:17,960 --> 00:00:24,000 Speaker 1: Share your food with your da, share your food, get 8 00:00:24,000 --> 00:00:30,400 Speaker 1: it out you're betta, share your food, eat Thetata, share 9 00:00:30,480 --> 00:00:32,360 Speaker 1: your food, get. 10 00:00:32,240 --> 00:00:36,360 Speaker 3: See the Nada. Now, we wouldn't just go and tell 11 00:00:36,360 --> 00:00:37,680 Speaker 3: you guys to do this if we were going to 12 00:00:37,680 --> 00:00:38,480 Speaker 3: do it ourselves. 13 00:00:38,600 --> 00:00:39,560 Speaker 4: Try before you buy. 14 00:00:39,840 --> 00:00:43,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's that's exactly right, mate. And we sat down 15 00:00:43,600 --> 00:00:45,519 Speaker 3: with the girls from lifel on Cut, Britt Hockley and 16 00:00:45,560 --> 00:00:49,160 Speaker 3: Laura Byrn, two totally brilliant women who, to be fair, 17 00:00:49,159 --> 00:00:51,319 Speaker 3: we didn't really know from a bar of soo and. 18 00:00:51,280 --> 00:00:54,520 Speaker 4: We probably we didn't know if they were going to 19 00:00:54,720 --> 00:00:58,240 Speaker 4: fully engage. You'll fully commit to the process and really 20 00:00:58,280 --> 00:01:01,320 Speaker 4: open up. And I mean that was all assured very 21 00:01:01,400 --> 00:01:03,520 Speaker 4: very quickly. We just played audio a bit. Hockley before 22 00:01:03,560 --> 00:01:06,319 Speaker 4: like really that being really honest and vulnerable. Laura was 23 00:01:06,360 --> 00:01:09,080 Speaker 4: exactly the same, but like always, will you led the 24 00:01:09,160 --> 00:01:12,520 Speaker 4: charge of my friend. You were incredibly open and honest 25 00:01:12,560 --> 00:01:14,920 Speaker 4: about a situation that you're going through with the new 26 00:01:14,959 --> 00:01:19,320 Speaker 4: baby Max. So yeah, I think, without further ado, here's 27 00:01:19,360 --> 00:01:20,240 Speaker 4: you talking about it. 28 00:01:20,800 --> 00:01:24,400 Speaker 5: What is your greater struggling Do you struggle this week? 29 00:01:27,240 --> 00:01:30,600 Speaker 3: No surprise, I have a newborn. 30 00:01:32,120 --> 00:01:35,679 Speaker 5: The first I didn't think this was going to be. 31 00:01:35,600 --> 00:01:36,520 Speaker 3: A hard part of it. 32 00:01:36,560 --> 00:01:41,440 Speaker 5: But I had a moment and my partner sort of 33 00:01:41,480 --> 00:01:43,760 Speaker 5: picked up on me that something wasn't right, and she 34 00:01:43,880 --> 00:01:45,200 Speaker 5: came over to me and she was like, Oh, what's 35 00:01:45,240 --> 00:01:48,000 Speaker 5: going on? And I said, I'm just kind of feeling 36 00:01:48,080 --> 00:01:53,000 Speaker 5: like I'm not connected with Max at all. But then 37 00:01:54,200 --> 00:01:55,720 Speaker 5: she was like, oh, that's okay, and she sort of 38 00:01:55,760 --> 00:01:59,960 Speaker 5: hugging me, and then she said, she said, I really 39 00:02:00,200 --> 00:02:05,040 Speaker 5: miss you. And instantly I realized that the connection I 40 00:02:05,080 --> 00:02:08,160 Speaker 5: was missing wasn't with my daughter, it was with my partner, 41 00:02:09,560 --> 00:02:11,840 Speaker 5: and that, I think something that was really hard for 42 00:02:11,880 --> 00:02:14,960 Speaker 5: me is almost like realizing, and I think we both 43 00:02:15,040 --> 00:02:17,880 Speaker 5: realized in that moment we kind of were both hugging 44 00:02:17,880 --> 00:02:22,000 Speaker 5: and holding each other, that that this will be our 45 00:02:22,080 --> 00:02:27,760 Speaker 5: lives going forward, is that will always we'll always be 46 00:02:27,840 --> 00:02:32,000 Speaker 5: scrapping for the love that we and the time and 47 00:02:32,080 --> 00:02:35,079 Speaker 5: the devotion that we once had because there's something else 48 00:02:35,120 --> 00:02:38,680 Speaker 5: that we love more, which is beautiful, which is the 49 00:02:38,680 --> 00:02:39,639 Speaker 5: way that it needs to be. 50 00:02:39,720 --> 00:02:45,760 Speaker 6: But that was really hard for me to realize this week. Yeah, yeah, 51 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:46,639 Speaker 6: I was full on. 52 00:02:48,680 --> 00:02:49,600 Speaker 3: Yeah. 53 00:02:49,720 --> 00:02:53,200 Speaker 6: Do you think that you're mourning a loss of a 54 00:02:53,280 --> 00:02:54,520 Speaker 6: relationship in a way. 55 00:02:54,360 --> 00:02:57,400 Speaker 5: Because it's like one hundred I'm. 56 00:02:57,200 --> 00:02:57,960 Speaker 2: Not ready to. 57 00:02:59,440 --> 00:03:02,760 Speaker 6: Let go of her because it feels yeah, like it. 58 00:03:02,880 --> 00:03:08,280 Speaker 6: It really feels like I'm yeah and saying goodbye to 59 00:03:08,440 --> 00:03:11,919 Speaker 6: like something that yeah, I'm just not real to say 60 00:03:11,919 --> 00:03:15,600 Speaker 6: goodbye too, and it feels like we're on the And 61 00:03:15,639 --> 00:03:19,160 Speaker 6: the other thing is like, within the first moments of 62 00:03:19,240 --> 00:03:22,520 Speaker 6: having a child, I knew that nothing else would ever 63 00:03:22,520 --> 00:03:25,919 Speaker 6: be the same ever again and and almost exactly. Not 64 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:29,040 Speaker 6: just mourning the loss of my relationship, I'm also mourning 65 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:33,800 Speaker 6: the loss of myself, which is its own phenomenon. 66 00:03:34,880 --> 00:03:35,680 Speaker 4: Powerful stuff. 67 00:03:36,520 --> 00:03:39,360 Speaker 3: Yeah to you, wiz, and I think we'd probably only 68 00:03:39,400 --> 00:03:42,120 Speaker 3: known the girls through about ten or fifteen minutes. Yeah, 69 00:03:42,560 --> 00:03:44,640 Speaker 3: that's how these questions are designed. We put them together 70 00:03:44,680 --> 00:03:48,560 Speaker 3: with Butterfish services. They're online for you guys to do 71 00:03:48,760 --> 00:03:51,240 Speaker 3: with your friends. As I said before, do as your partner. 72 00:03:51,280 --> 00:03:52,720 Speaker 3: I've had lots of my friends who have said they're 73 00:03:52,720 --> 00:03:55,120 Speaker 3: really pumped at it with their partner William Wood. You 74 00:03:55,160 --> 00:03:57,440 Speaker 3: on Instagram if you want to hear the full podcast. 75 00:03:57,520 --> 00:04:00,000 Speaker 3: If you're listening to this and you're like, still not convinced, 76 00:04:00,040 --> 00:04:02,920 Speaker 3: blays our full share My food Dinner is a recorded 77 00:04:02,960 --> 00:04:05,200 Speaker 3: It's an hour long episode on Will and Witty. Wherever 78 00:04:05,240 --> 00:04:06,920 Speaker 3: you get your podcast, just search it and you can 79 00:04:07,040 --> 00:04:09,400 Speaker 3: hear how bloody brilliant this stuff is. And as you 80 00:04:09,440 --> 00:04:11,960 Speaker 3: put it out so correctly beforewards, yes we get to 81 00:04:12,040 --> 00:04:14,160 Speaker 3: a vulnerable place. Yes, it gets through a place where 82 00:04:14,200 --> 00:04:18,560 Speaker 3: we feel exposed. But once you get that vulnerable with someone, 83 00:04:19,480 --> 00:04:22,800 Speaker 3: you have this brilliant moment afterwards where your connection is 84 00:04:23,720 --> 00:04:27,200 Speaker 3: like a billion times better. Then is so much better 85 00:04:27,200 --> 00:04:30,680 Speaker 3: the lightness exactly Conversely, all this all of a sudden 86 00:04:30,760 --> 00:04:33,120 Speaker 3: that the sweet don't taste is sweet without that's our 87 00:04:33,279 --> 00:04:35,920 Speaker 3: It is stunning, and you can hear how elated we 88 00:04:35,960 --> 00:04:37,479 Speaker 3: are at the end of the dinner as well. 89 00:04:37,480 --> 00:04:49,599 Speaker 2: Listen my friends to hang out anyway. 90 00:04:49,680 --> 00:04:51,279 Speaker 6: I feel like it was five four. 91 00:04:54,320 --> 00:04:56,680 Speaker 3: It's almost indiscernible what we're saying because we're all so 92 00:04:56,800 --> 00:04:57,880 Speaker 3: giddy that we've had such a. 93 00:04:57,839 --> 00:04:58,880 Speaker 1: Good time with each other. 94 00:04:59,240 --> 00:05:00,960 Speaker 3: The videos will be I William, but you on Instagram, 95 00:05:01,000 --> 00:05:02,760 Speaker 3: but again tomorrow night. It's over to you, guys. That's 96 00:05:02,760 --> 00:05:05,280 Speaker 3: when it is happening. Cannot wait to hear how it's 97 00:05:05,279 --> 00:05:06,560 Speaker 3: all going to go down. 98 00:05:06,680 --> 00:05:09,480 Speaker 1: You're more of the boys on the Full Show podcast. 99 00:05:09,720 --> 00:05:10,880 Speaker 5: You know you want to