WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: Robot Teachers & Dating Younger? 0:00:10.379 --> 0:00:14.219 Hi Heart podcasts, hear more Kiss podcast playlist and listen 0:00:14.259 --> 0:00:20.418 live on the Free iHeart app A good pickup with 0:00:20.539 --> 0:00:23.139 Britt Hockley and Laura Burn Radio. 0:00:23.339 --> 0:00:25.578 What our windows down? 0:00:25.819 --> 0:00:29.619 That's my world, risen the dust, only good babs all round. 0:00:30.619 --> 0:00:34.979 I don't much, but yeah I know I'll big get. 0:00:34.659 --> 0:00:35.619 And what I want. 0:00:35.899 --> 0:00:38.859 It don't matter. Where does this is the pickup? 0:00:39.379 --> 0:00:42.259 Hi guys, it's the pickup with Britt Hockley and Laura Burn. 0:00:42.899 --> 0:00:43.139 Hey. 0:00:43.419 --> 0:00:47.699 Now there's no confirmation, but there is speculation that Beyonce 0:00:48.179 --> 0:00:50.299 could be coming to Australia on part of her tour. 0:00:50.939 --> 0:00:54.499 I would, hands down go and see that in a heartbeat. 0:00:54.139 --> 0:00:56.139 Yeah, saying, hey, what about Katy Perry? Though she isn't 0:00:56.179 --> 0:00:57.459 she You're gonna go see her? 0:00:57.939 --> 0:01:00.099 She just annoys me a little bit too much now 0:01:00.179 --> 0:01:04.219 and I feel like it's interrupting my feelings about the music. 0:01:04.499 --> 0:01:06.099 I am at a point now where I feel a 0:01:06.099 --> 0:01:07.259 bit sorry for Katy Perry. 0:01:07.298 --> 0:01:07.699 I think the. 0:01:07.658 --> 0:01:10.459 Pylon is hard and swift, even if she does come 0:01:10.499 --> 0:01:13.018 across a little bit insufferable, but she's still very harsh. 0:01:13.378 --> 0:01:15.139 Yeah, it was pretty fast, wasn't It was like a 0:01:15.219 --> 0:01:18.818 rocket The pylon get it. It's not funny. I thought 0:01:18.818 --> 0:01:20.019 it was funny. No, But what I want to talk 0:01:20.018 --> 0:01:21.619 about Beyonce, not the fact that I would go to 0:01:21.658 --> 0:01:24.099 her concept. But I read this this morning and it 0:01:24.179 --> 0:01:28.818 really pissed me off. People are slamming her and saying 0:01:28.859 --> 0:01:31.339 like she's a failure and she's done and all of 0:01:31.378 --> 0:01:35.139 this stuff because her concert didn't immediately sell out. And 0:01:35.219 --> 0:01:37.298 there are some people that are selling tickets for like 0:01:37.339 --> 0:01:38.818 twenty thirty dollars. 0:01:38.619 --> 0:01:40.738 So the resell on like the resell. 0:01:40.458 --> 0:01:42.459 Yeah, like some people like, hey, just here's a ticket. 0:01:42.458 --> 0:01:44.298 It's cheap, and everyone's like comparing it to the same 0:01:44.298 --> 0:01:48.099 price as a happy meal, And I'm like, this is Beyonce. 0:01:48.259 --> 0:01:50.178 We love to see it, like this woman has been 0:01:50.219 --> 0:01:52.419 at the top of her game for twenty years. We 0:01:52.619 --> 0:01:55.139 love to wait for like the tiniest thing that we 0:01:55.139 --> 0:01:57.659 can grasp onto because maybe she didn't sell out a 0:01:57.659 --> 0:01:58.619 show for the first time. 0:01:58.819 --> 0:02:00.819 When you say resell value, does this turn It is 0:02:00.819 --> 0:02:02.699 the people trying to scout tickets, so like people who 0:02:02.739 --> 0:02:05.299 have bought lots of tickets, they do it at a 0:02:05.299 --> 0:02:06.859 bet that it's going to sell out quickly and then 0:02:06.899 --> 0:02:08.459 they can resell it for a higher value. 0:02:08.579 --> 0:02:11.179 Yeah, well I then assume that's what the twenty dollars resell. Yeah. 0:02:11.179 --> 0:02:13.859 I kind of think, well, if anything like sucks to 0:02:13.899 --> 0:02:16.339 be them, like you deserve that, because it's so annoying 0:02:16.379 --> 0:02:18.538 when you had these people who buy out so many 0:02:18.538 --> 0:02:20.579 tickets and then try and resell it for more expensive 0:02:20.659 --> 0:02:22.059 Like it's just such a shitty business plan. 0:02:22.138 --> 0:02:24.099 I just was annoyed at the headlines trying to like 0:02:24.179 --> 0:02:26.858 slam on a woman just because you know, she's just 0:02:26.899 --> 0:02:28.979 won Album of the Year. The woman is not failing. 0:02:29.019 --> 0:02:31.059 The woman is a billionaire. The woman has an amazing 0:02:31.099 --> 0:02:32.858 family and a husband. And I just hate the fact 0:02:32.859 --> 0:02:35.699 that we're like, yes, we knew what you suck. You're done, Like, 0:02:35.819 --> 0:02:37.659 get a life. Anyway, if she comes here, I'm gonna 0:02:37.698 --> 0:02:38.978 go see he for twenty bucks. 0:02:39.019 --> 0:02:41.019 Well maybe I'm going to go and see Katie Perry 0:02:41.019 --> 0:02:41.419 as well. 0:02:41.779 --> 0:02:42.578 I actually yours. 0:02:42.739 --> 0:02:44.259 I would like to go and see her. I'm not 0:02:44.299 --> 0:02:46.899 against it, Okay, So no one's coming with me, right. 0:02:48.339 --> 0:02:50.899 I want to talk to you today, Laura about AI 0:02:51.258 --> 0:02:53.018 and teaching. Now. I know there's a lot of people 0:02:53.059 --> 0:02:54.699 in the world that are scared that AI is going 0:02:54.739 --> 0:02:57.339 to end up taking over and taking jobs because it's 0:02:57.379 --> 0:02:58.979 sort of what it's doing, like it's putting a lot 0:02:59.019 --> 0:03:00.858 of people out of work. And there are a lot 0:03:00.899 --> 0:03:04.179 of people saying that AI is very close to out 0:03:04.258 --> 0:03:07.939 smarting us as humans, like they don't need us anymore 0:03:07.978 --> 0:03:10.379 to repro themselves. Now, that will be a scary day. 0:03:10.579 --> 0:03:12.419 I mean, that doesn't surprise me though, Like, I mean, 0:03:12.459 --> 0:03:15.019 they have the answers to everything since it is constantly 0:03:15.019 --> 0:03:15.979 connected to the Internet. 0:03:16.179 --> 0:03:18.939 Well, something very controversial is happening over in the UK. 0:03:19.299 --> 0:03:21.698 So there is a college, a private school in London 0:03:21.779 --> 0:03:25.299 called David Game College, and it is about to open 0:03:25.499 --> 0:03:29.699 its first class of teacherless courses to twenty people. Now 0:03:29.698 --> 0:03:32.099 it's done a trial with seven students. This is a 0:03:32.179 --> 0:03:35.499 course that is going to be run almost one hundred 0:03:35.539 --> 0:03:38.979 percent solely on AI robots. So the teacher is going 0:03:39.019 --> 0:03:41.499 to be a robot that is programmed for them. They 0:03:41.539 --> 0:03:44.219 will learn just with headsets. Like there's a photo here. 0:03:44.259 --> 0:03:46.059 This is what the classroom's going to look like. Right, 0:03:46.099 --> 0:03:48.099 you'll go to school, You'll put an AI headset on. 0:03:48.139 --> 0:03:51.139 Looks like a virtual reality headset. Yeah, virtual reality, And 0:03:51.979 --> 0:03:53.459 that's how it's going to be taught. There's going to 0:03:53.459 --> 0:03:56.019 be three people like still real humans that are going 0:03:56.059 --> 0:03:58.299 to be like helpers to the robot that will be 0:03:58.459 --> 0:04:01.539 in the room to help with things like emotional support 0:04:01.619 --> 0:04:04.779 and teach the things that the AI robot isn't good at. Now, 0:04:04.899 --> 0:04:06.979 the things that the AI robot isn't good at is 0:04:07.059 --> 0:04:09.299 like sex education and things like that, because I guess 0:04:09.379 --> 0:04:11.939 robots don't have sex apparently, so they don't know how 0:04:11.979 --> 0:04:14.299 to teach that. But I don't know how I feel 0:04:14.379 --> 0:04:16.939 like I really did this deep dive into it. At 0:04:16.979 --> 0:04:19.059 the start, when I heard that a robot could be 0:04:19.099 --> 0:04:21.979 teaching the class, I was like, that is wild. I 0:04:21.979 --> 0:04:24.379 would never want my kid to be taught by AI. 0:04:24.459 --> 0:04:26.699 And then when I read a little bit more about it, 0:04:26.699 --> 0:04:29.019 it definitely has some pros in it as well. So 0:04:29.179 --> 0:04:33.219 like each child does its studies on a computer with 0:04:33.259 --> 0:04:35.379 its headset, but they're not all the same. So the 0:04:35.379 --> 0:04:38.619 computer and the AI will learn what that particular student 0:04:38.659 --> 0:04:41.179 is excelling at and what they're not excelling at. Then 0:04:41.219 --> 0:04:44.939 it tailors its course and its curriculum to push it 0:04:45.059 --> 0:04:47.499 in so it becomes like an even playing field for everyone. 0:04:47.539 --> 0:04:49.499 So if it sees that you're lacking in something, whether 0:04:49.539 --> 0:04:53.219 that's maths or science or chemistry. It tailors its program 0:04:53.379 --> 0:04:56.019 to your specific needs, and so there are parts of 0:04:56.059 --> 0:04:58.579 it like that where I'm like, well, that's pretty cool. 0:04:58.739 --> 0:05:00.859 When I first saw this, when you said David Game College, 0:05:00.859 --> 0:05:02.139 I just looked it up because I was like, oh, 0:05:02.179 --> 0:05:03.939 it might be like a coding school, Like it might 0:05:03.979 --> 0:05:06.379 be like David Game I don't know, like gamer. 0:05:06.579 --> 0:05:06.739 Yeah. 0:05:06.779 --> 0:05:08.299 I was like, maybe it's like a school for people 0:05:08.299 --> 0:05:10.339 who who are who are gamers. 0:05:10.619 --> 0:05:10.899 It's not. 0:05:10.939 --> 0:05:15.058 It's just a normal private school. I think that most 0:05:15.099 --> 0:05:16.779 parents would have an issue with this. I think that 0:05:16.779 --> 0:05:19.738 that most people out there would feel as though, you know, look, 0:05:19.899 --> 0:05:22.459 I understand that this might come into being a standard 0:05:22.459 --> 0:05:24.939 in the future, but no one wants their kids to 0:05:24.979 --> 0:05:27.579 be the guinea pigs of a new procedure. And that 0:05:27.619 --> 0:05:28.899 would be the thing that I would be the most 0:05:28.939 --> 0:05:32.179 concerned about, because AI, yes it's very smart, and yes 0:05:32.259 --> 0:05:34.579 it can adapt to people's learning skills and everything else, 0:05:34.779 --> 0:05:37.059 but it doesn't have empathy. It doesn't know how to 0:05:37.099 --> 0:05:41.219 show emotional intelligence, it doesn't know how to cater to students' 0:05:41.299 --> 0:05:44.019 very unique needs, and it also doesn't know how to 0:05:44.059 --> 0:05:46.299 read how someone's feeling, like a kid could be feeling 0:05:46.619 --> 0:05:48.739 panicked about the information that they're getting, or they could 0:05:48.739 --> 0:05:52.099 be feeling stressed or have anxiety or whatever, and there's 0:05:52.139 --> 0:05:54.939 no way for AI to pick up on those social cues. 0:05:55.419 --> 0:05:57.619 So I think that this really only suits a very 0:05:57.659 --> 0:06:00.419 specific type of learning, And what we've all learned from 0:06:00.419 --> 0:06:04.099 going through school is that all kids learn differently, and 0:06:04.219 --> 0:06:07.699 all kids need different support structures and support systems in place. 0:06:08.059 --> 0:06:10.339 And I think that this goes backwards, not forwards. 0:06:10.339 --> 0:06:12.619 With that, I think we need to come to this 0:06:12.739 --> 0:06:15.059 sort of acceptance and realization in the world that we 0:06:15.139 --> 0:06:18.179 can't beat AI. AI is our future. It is going 0:06:18.219 --> 0:06:20.899 to be integrated into all aspects of our life. And 0:06:20.939 --> 0:06:23.019 I do think it's going to come into schools and 0:06:23.019 --> 0:06:25.739 colleges around the world, but I don't think it should 0:06:25.779 --> 0:06:27.939 ever come in one hundred percent, Like I think we 0:06:27.979 --> 0:06:31.139 should be working alongside it. So maybe it's okay that 0:06:31.139 --> 0:06:33.619 they've still got three support teachers in the classroom, and 0:06:33.619 --> 0:06:35.699 maybe that's the part where the empathy comes in and 0:06:35.739 --> 0:06:36.299 things like that. 0:06:36.459 --> 0:06:36.859 I don't know. 0:06:36.939 --> 0:06:38.819 My other point to these is is, like I mean, 0:06:38.859 --> 0:06:41.299 looking at this and looking at these kids sitting with 0:06:41.379 --> 0:06:43.259 virtual reality goggles on. 0:06:43.259 --> 0:06:44.259 In a classroom. 0:06:44.659 --> 0:06:48.099 There's something really isolating about that, like they're not having 0:06:48.099 --> 0:06:49.619 a combined learning experience. 0:06:49.659 --> 0:06:51.779 I think so much learning, and I think. 0:06:51.699 --> 0:06:54.659 About this from a workplace as well, comes from the brainstorming. 0:06:54.699 --> 0:06:56.939 It comes from the creativity of what other people think, 0:06:57.019 --> 0:07:00.019 or the questions that other people have, because that question 0:07:00.099 --> 0:07:02.259 might spark something that's of interest to you. You know, 0:07:02.339 --> 0:07:06.019 it's a collaborative learning experience in a classroom, and this 0:07:06.099 --> 0:07:09.179 makes learning very isolated and individual and I don't know 0:07:09.179 --> 0:07:12.299 if that is actually socially a benefit to kids. 0:07:12.499 --> 0:07:14.539 Well. The other thing that people are kicking off about, 0:07:14.619 --> 0:07:18.579 and I think fair, is that per year per student, 0:07:19.259 --> 0:07:21.819 this school costs thirty five thousand dollars. 0:07:21.899 --> 0:07:23.779 And now they've removed some teachers from the equation that 0:07:23.939 --> 0:07:25.979 employ less people but still make the same amount of money. 0:07:26.059 --> 0:07:28.059 Everyone's like, what, how an't you paying the robot? How 0:07:28.179 --> 0:07:29.979 much you paying them? Is their salary more than the 0:07:30.019 --> 0:07:33.179 average teacher, like thirty five thousand dollars per I. 0:07:33.219 --> 0:07:35.299 Mean, look, I understand that it's something that we're not 0:07:35.339 --> 0:07:36.779 going to be able to move away from in the future, 0:07:36.859 --> 0:07:39.539 but I would not want my kids being the guinea 0:07:39.539 --> 0:07:41.619 pig for this type of learning at all like, And 0:07:41.699 --> 0:07:44.979 I think schools and teachers have such a huge responsibility 0:07:45.019 --> 0:07:47.099 as it is, there is so much on them in 0:07:47.219 --> 0:07:49.619 terms of what they have to provide. But I don't 0:07:49.619 --> 0:07:52.019 think that this is the solution to that problem. I 0:07:52.059 --> 0:07:53.859 think more support for teachers is the solution. 0:07:54.019 --> 0:07:56.139 It's also crazy. I think that one day our kids 0:07:56.179 --> 0:07:58.259 will say to us, Oh my god, I can't believe 0:07:58.259 --> 0:08:00.419 you were taught by like a human. That's so lame. 0:08:00.579 --> 0:08:02.899 But also like, why are we increasing screen time? Like 0:08:02.939 --> 0:08:05.499 there's no there's so many refugere flags about this. 0:08:07.179 --> 0:08:07.339 Now. 0:08:07.339 --> 0:08:10.019 The other week, if you guys will this, I told 0:08:10.059 --> 0:08:13.059 a story about how the dummy Fairy came to our 0:08:13.179 --> 0:08:16.899 house and she took my daughter, who is four years old, Lola, 0:08:16.979 --> 0:08:20.379 her prize possession, and that was her five dummies that 0:08:20.459 --> 0:08:24.019 she has had since literally the day she was born. 0:08:24.139 --> 0:08:26.659 She loves these dummies more than she loves anything that's 0:08:26.699 --> 0:08:27.419 ever existed. 0:08:27.539 --> 0:08:29.299 Yeah, and we had to bring the dummy fairy in 0:08:29.379 --> 0:08:31.579 because she's going to school next year, and there was 0:08:31.619 --> 0:08:32.899 no other way for you to get rid of them. 0:08:32.899 --> 0:08:34.098 So we're like, what can we do? 0:08:34.458 --> 0:08:36.579 In my defense, she wasn't supposed to be going to 0:08:36.578 --> 0:08:38.699 school next year, we thought, we have another year of daycare, 0:08:38.739 --> 0:08:40.899 but she's still four. Yeah, she's four, all right, Look 0:08:40.899 --> 0:08:43.459 it's my faults. It was really hard because it's the 0:08:43.499 --> 0:08:45.179 one thing that she just loved more than anything in 0:08:45.179 --> 0:08:47.539 the world. And like any night that we'd ever done 0:08:47.579 --> 0:08:49.899 without a dummy, she only has it to go to sleep, 0:08:50.219 --> 0:08:52.339 and then we take it off her when she is asleep. 0:08:52.339 --> 0:08:54.979 So it's just that transition period that any night that 0:08:55.019 --> 0:08:57.179 we'd ever forgotten it, or we'd been at a hotel, 0:08:57.299 --> 0:09:01.259 or she'd lost or anything like that, it was like, yeah, 0:09:01.579 --> 0:09:03.619 I don't have anything to compare it to. I honestly 0:09:03.659 --> 0:09:05.338 thought that getting rid of the dummies was going to 0:09:05.379 --> 0:09:08.739 be the worst part of our parenting experience. But we 0:09:08.779 --> 0:09:11.859 did the Dummy Fairy, and the Dummy Fairy came and 0:09:11.899 --> 0:09:14.419 she brought a present, and you know, it was a 0:09:14.459 --> 0:09:17.859 really exciting positive change. And I think Lola was the 0:09:17.859 --> 0:09:19.499 one who was ready. She said, you know, I'm ready 0:09:19.539 --> 0:09:21.059 for the Dummy Fairy and I'm ready to get rid 0:09:21.059 --> 0:09:26.899 of them, and everything seemingly has been going great. I 0:09:26.939 --> 0:09:28.779 even got on the show and talked about how cocky 0:09:28.859 --> 0:09:31.699 I was that actually, the dummy Fairy is a genius. 0:09:32.259 --> 0:09:35.019 Idea and yeah, look, I feel like I cracked the 0:09:35.019 --> 0:09:38.019 code with it, with like the specific way of the. 0:09:37.979 --> 0:09:39.299 Dummy fairy coming and visiting. 0:09:39.419 --> 0:09:40.939 Why do I feel like this sounds too good to 0:09:40.979 --> 0:09:41.499 be true? 0:09:41.699 --> 0:09:45.218 So over the long weekends that just passed, we went 0:09:45.259 --> 0:09:47.699 away for a little weekend. I took my travel makeup 0:09:47.739 --> 0:09:50.979 case with me. I don't unpack it very often. It's 0:09:50.979 --> 0:09:52.459 got a lot of junk in it, but you know, 0:09:52.499 --> 0:09:53.819 it's a good one to take with me because if 0:09:53.819 --> 0:09:54.259 I lose it, I. 0:09:54.219 --> 0:09:54.859 Don't really care. 0:09:55.539 --> 0:09:58.379 And we're in the bathroom and Lola was just going 0:09:58.379 --> 0:10:00.939 through my makeup as she normally does, and then I 0:10:00.979 --> 0:10:01.419 hear her go. 0:10:02.819 --> 0:10:05.499 I was like, what's that? And I looked down and 0:10:05.539 --> 0:10:06.059 there it is. 0:10:06.139 --> 0:10:07.099 You missed a dummy. 0:10:07.499 --> 0:10:11.578 We missed a dummy. One job, Laura, we missed one 0:10:11.939 --> 0:10:13.499 hidden rogue dummy. 0:10:13.699 --> 0:10:16.099 This dummy is so fairal It has been floating around 0:10:16.099 --> 0:10:18.459 the bottom of my makeup case probably for two years, 0:10:18.979 --> 0:10:21.459 like that dummy is an infection waiting to happen. And 0:10:21.499 --> 0:10:23.019 she picked it up and she created it in her 0:10:23.019 --> 0:10:25.139 hands and instantly started rubbing it on her face and. 0:10:25.059 --> 0:10:26.499 I was like, so I didn't go in the mouth. 0:10:26.539 --> 0:10:27.059 She rubs it on. 0:10:27.139 --> 0:10:30.659 She rubs it on her face. Yeah, does she God? Yeah, 0:10:30.659 --> 0:10:32.338 she rubs it on her cheek. She likes the feeling, 0:10:32.379 --> 0:10:33.859 and then of course she puts it in her mouth. 0:10:34.059 --> 0:10:36.699 But I got in there. I intercepted before it happened. 0:10:37.139 --> 0:10:41.738 But it has completely derailed us. Okay, so now we're 0:10:41.779 --> 0:10:44.299 like two months clear of the dummy Fairy, and now 0:10:44.499 --> 0:10:46.459 every night she's like, but what about that one? 0:10:47.339 --> 0:10:50.779 So she's probably relapsed. She's had a relap, she's relapsed, 0:10:50.899 --> 0:10:53.299 she's back in rehab, dummy rehab. 0:10:53.339 --> 0:10:54.019 I do I don't know. 0:10:54.059 --> 0:10:56.099 Does the dummy Fairy come again and take the next time? 0:10:56.179 --> 0:10:57.419 Like she knows that it's there. 0:10:57.699 --> 0:11:00.859 No, stop pandering. You get some scissors and you cut it, 0:11:01.099 --> 0:11:02.779 and you cut it in front of her. I've heard 0:11:02.779 --> 0:11:06.179 people say it, that's so true. No, she's going to school, 0:11:06.219 --> 0:11:09.219 she needs to loan. She's old enough. You cut dummy's 0:11:09.339 --> 0:11:09.779 and then. 0:11:09.659 --> 0:11:12.099 You smack her And no, I'm joking. 0:11:12.099 --> 0:11:14.699 Sorry, you expac people, we've all got trouble. 0:11:14.859 --> 0:11:15.739 You grew up in the eighties. 0:11:15.779 --> 0:11:17.699 You just say, look, now it doesn't work, it's broken, 0:11:17.739 --> 0:11:19.819 and you also tell her that it's an infection. You're like, look, 0:11:19.859 --> 0:11:21.659 how dirty. This is you will get so sick if 0:11:21.659 --> 0:11:23.739 you have this. We have to cut it. Now, you 0:11:23.779 --> 0:11:26.259 cut it. She sees that it's gone, none of this 0:11:26.339 --> 0:11:29.419 dummy fairy anymore. She's gone to school. Life doesn't pander 0:11:29.499 --> 0:11:31.899 to us. She needs to know that sometimes we make 0:11:31.939 --> 0:11:35.339 hard decisions. I think, go hard with the dummy. 0:11:35.659 --> 0:11:37.459 If I was a child and I got to choose 0:11:37.459 --> 0:11:40.819 whether I was like I had me, I'm not choosing 0:11:40.819 --> 0:11:42.379 bread my child. 0:11:42.619 --> 0:11:45.179 I tell you what they're not. No, they will be 0:11:45.219 --> 0:11:46.419 doing just fine in life. 0:11:46.539 --> 0:11:47.819 I agree. I agree. 0:11:47.899 --> 0:11:49.579 Look, there are times when I do think that we 0:11:49.619 --> 0:11:50.779 are too soft in our kids. 0:11:50.819 --> 0:11:52.139 But I also know that this. 0:11:52.219 --> 0:11:54.338 Is like the one thing for Lola that's a very 0:11:54.379 --> 0:11:56.859 big deal for her, and it's going to be bigger deals. 0:11:56.899 --> 0:11:58.619 Don't get me wrong, Like I haven't given it to her. 0:11:58.659 --> 0:12:00.819 I don't want anyone to think that I've caved. I've 0:12:00.819 --> 0:12:04.179 stayed strong. But it's just it's been journey last couple 0:12:04.179 --> 0:12:04.419 of days. 0:12:04.419 --> 0:12:05.779 Why need to get something else to rub on a 0:12:05.859 --> 0:12:10.019 face that feels nice? Serious? Like if it's like a 0:12:10.059 --> 0:12:12.339 sensory thing, go as something else. It's not that she 0:12:12.419 --> 0:12:13.739 can't put in a mouth. 0:12:13.939 --> 0:12:14.499 That's the problem. 0:12:14.579 --> 0:12:17.059 The problem we have now is is that anything she 0:12:17.139 --> 0:12:19.259 picks up like it could be a hair elastic, it 0:12:19.259 --> 0:12:22.139 could be a toy, a piece of lego. Anything she 0:12:22.219 --> 0:12:24.259 picks up now straight in the mouth, she'll just put 0:12:24.259 --> 0:12:25.939 it in her mouth and should chill on it. And 0:12:26.019 --> 0:12:27.859 she never ever used to do that when she had 0:12:27.899 --> 0:12:29.659 the dummy at nighttime. But I think it's because she's 0:12:29.739 --> 0:12:31.859 just trying to find other things to sell South. 0:12:32.299 --> 0:12:33.499 So every time I look at her. 0:12:33.379 --> 0:12:35.699 She's put some choking hazard is gone into a mouth 0:12:35.819 --> 0:12:36.578 that is hard. 0:12:36.739 --> 0:12:39.099 Yeah, all day I am on like choke watch. 0:12:39.259 --> 0:12:41.299 I feel like this whole conversation, you'd be like, take 0:12:41.339 --> 0:12:41.739 that back. 0:12:43.139 --> 0:12:45.419 Do you know what, don't come to me for parenting advice. 0:12:45.459 --> 0:12:47.899 That's what we've established it. That's pretty much it. 0:12:49.419 --> 0:12:53.579 Now we are talking dating age ranges, whether people like 0:12:53.619 --> 0:12:56.099 to date down in age or date up in range. 0:12:56.419 --> 0:12:58.539 Britt was spoken about this a little bit before, because 0:12:58.619 --> 0:13:01.539 you you have gone on record and clearly don't mind 0:13:01.579 --> 0:13:03.499 you're dating someone who's a bit younger than you. 0:13:03.499 --> 0:13:05.819 Well, I'm marrying someone younger than me. That's true. 0:13:05.859 --> 0:13:08.259 You're engaged to someone who is a little bit younger 0:13:08.259 --> 0:13:10.939 than you that you have no qualms in dating down 0:13:11.019 --> 0:13:13.859 in terms of age. No, my fiance Ben is five 0:13:13.939 --> 0:13:17.219 years younger than me, and me to the oldest age 0:13:17.219 --> 0:13:19.779 gap though that you would date down for well, my 0:13:19.899 --> 0:13:23.939 relationship before that was seven years and that's the biggest 0:13:23.939 --> 0:13:27.059 that I've gone seven years down, and I before I 0:13:27.099 --> 0:13:29.099 met him, I probably wouldn't have said I would have 0:13:29.139 --> 0:13:31.579 gone that far in an age gap, Like in my head, 0:13:31.619 --> 0:13:33.819 I probably would have said five would have been about it. 0:13:34.219 --> 0:13:35.899 But I don't know where I pulled that number from. 0:13:35.939 --> 0:13:40.539 That's just come from this preconceived idea that men take 0:13:40.579 --> 0:13:42.379 so much longer to mature, so like I wouldn't have 0:13:42.379 --> 0:13:44.379 wanted to have that big gap. But having said that, 0:13:44.419 --> 0:13:47.819 when I met my the seven year partner difference, he 0:13:47.859 --> 0:13:49.859 was only twenty five at the time, so I was 0:13:49.859 --> 0:13:52.579 in my thirties and twenty five sounds so young. But 0:13:52.619 --> 0:13:55.139 I didn't notice it, so it didn't bother me. But 0:13:55.219 --> 0:13:56.819 I just seemed to be attracted to young men. 0:13:57.099 --> 0:14:00.419 Well, I think I would always have said that I 0:14:00.539 --> 0:14:02.539 date older guys, like I would have said that would 0:14:02.539 --> 0:14:05.899 have been my preference older men. Interestingly, though, is that 0:14:05.939 --> 0:14:08.259 my husband is a year younger than me. 0:14:08.499 --> 0:14:10.059 Which doesn't really well it's not a big deal. 0:14:10.099 --> 0:14:11.979 But sometimes our birthdays because there's like a couple of 0:14:11.979 --> 0:14:13.578 months where they don't align. So there is a few 0:14:13.579 --> 0:14:15.299 months in the year where I'm two years older than him, 0:14:15.339 --> 0:14:16.499 he's two years younger than me. 0:14:16.859 --> 0:14:18.819 But like, I've never really thought about it. 0:14:18.899 --> 0:14:20.819 If I was going to have put my age range 0:14:20.819 --> 0:14:22.739 in tender, I think I would have put my age 0:14:22.819 --> 0:14:24.939 range as like my age and up. I don't think 0:14:24.939 --> 0:14:26.979 I ever would have had that bracket as age down 0:14:27.019 --> 0:14:27.259 at all. 0:14:27.419 --> 0:14:29.179 Nah. You say that as someone that was on that 0:14:29.419 --> 0:14:31.859 for like ten years. It goes to the radiuses is 0:14:31.899 --> 0:14:33.619 because it gets in the age gaps as because it 0:14:33.659 --> 0:14:36.019 gets it's like you end up casting that net far 0:14:36.099 --> 0:14:37.379 and wide. Desperation. 0:14:37.699 --> 0:14:41.419 It's not come on, it's not desperation. No, no options open. 0:14:41.619 --> 0:14:44.459 No. It comes to the point for every woman listening 0:14:44.499 --> 0:14:46.579 in the car right now that has been single and 0:14:46.579 --> 0:14:47.979 on those date a. 0:14:48.019 --> 0:14:50.379 Sixty year old, it would be fine. I got a 0:14:50.379 --> 0:14:51.699 thirty year age GAP's okay. 0:14:51.819 --> 0:14:54.059 I got to the point where it was like extend 0:14:54.139 --> 0:14:56.699 range and it was like you cannot extend the range 0:14:56.699 --> 0:14:58.579 any further. It was like five hour drive away, and 0:14:58.619 --> 0:15:00.339 I feel like I will do it. I will meet 0:15:00.339 --> 0:15:02.219 you halfway, I will go on a date with you. 0:15:02.539 --> 0:15:06.459 But the stereotype definitely is and has always been that 0:15:06.579 --> 0:15:09.099 men date down and women date now. 0:15:09.099 --> 0:15:11.499 The reason why we're talking about this is because, interestingly, 0:15:11.539 --> 0:15:13.259 there's been a research study that's come out of the 0:15:13.339 --> 0:15:17.379 University of California. They did a research study across four 0:15:17.379 --> 0:15:20.619 thousand and five hundred blind dates, and what they found 0:15:20.739 --> 0:15:23.139 is that often people think that they have a perceived 0:15:23.139 --> 0:15:25.539 attraction to an age or they. 0:15:25.499 --> 0:15:26.739 You know, people think they have. 0:15:26.739 --> 0:15:29.419 A type, but when it actually comes from sitting across 0:15:29.419 --> 0:15:32.219 from someone who it is that they're actually attracted to, 0:15:32.299 --> 0:15:35.299 can be very, very different. And what the outcome of 0:15:35.339 --> 0:15:39.819 this study found is that both men and women statistically 0:15:40.179 --> 0:15:43.219 like to date younger So I think for so long 0:15:43.259 --> 0:15:46.419 we've assumed that women would prefer to date older men, 0:15:46.779 --> 0:15:49.819 But interestingly, this study is found that actually women as 0:15:49.819 --> 0:15:51.899 well like to date younger men. Everyone wants someone who's 0:15:51.899 --> 0:15:52.699 a little bit younger than me. 0:15:52.819 --> 0:15:55.779 It doesn't shock me. You know who has taken an 0:15:55.819 --> 0:15:59.179 age gap really really far? Is Madonna? 0:16:00.379 --> 0:16:00.899 What's the game? 0:16:01.259 --> 0:16:04.099 Madonna is sixty six and her partner is twenty eight 0:16:05.139 --> 0:16:09.299 and share so share is seventy eight years old, which 0:16:09.339 --> 0:16:11.499 is wild to me, Like, I still think of her 0:16:11.499 --> 0:16:13.299 so young. I don't think of her as nearly eighteen 0:16:13.379 --> 0:16:16.459 years old so young. Yeah, and Shar's partner is thirty eight. 0:16:16.979 --> 0:16:19.779 Those are big differences for women to date down I'm. 0:16:19.619 --> 0:16:22.299 Like, ah, get it, girl, I agree, and I disagree 0:16:22.339 --> 0:16:24.899