1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:04,160 Speaker 1: Job Mission with Jonesy and Amanda Curious this Morning. 2 00:00:04,200 --> 00:00:06,440 Speaker 2: Allowing teens to drink at home with parent to a 3 00:00:06,559 --> 00:00:09,559 Speaker 2: parental supervision has been long believed to encourage young people 4 00:00:09,560 --> 00:00:13,000 Speaker 2: to adopt save for drinking habits, but it does anything but. 5 00:00:13,520 --> 00:00:16,280 Speaker 1: A new study by the National Drug and Alcohol Research 6 00:00:16,320 --> 00:00:19,040 Speaker 1: Center at the University of New South Wales has seen 7 00:00:19,920 --> 00:00:26,240 Speaker 1: quite the opposite, that this encourages kids to drink, so 8 00:00:26,440 --> 00:00:28,760 Speaker 1: rather than at being a harm reduction strategy which many 9 00:00:28,800 --> 00:00:32,599 Speaker 1: parents have been led or believed, they found that sipping 10 00:00:33,520 --> 00:00:36,440 Speaker 1: was the most common form of alcohol consumption among children 11 00:00:36,520 --> 00:00:40,360 Speaker 1: and adolescents. So you're getting them used to drinking. They're 12 00:00:40,360 --> 00:00:42,839 Speaker 1: not going out and drinking. You think, well, we can 13 00:00:42,880 --> 00:00:44,800 Speaker 1: do it in a more cultured way at home or whatever. 14 00:00:45,280 --> 00:00:47,159 Speaker 1: This is their only drinking and they're doing it with 15 00:00:47,200 --> 00:00:49,280 Speaker 1: you at home. Is that what you want? You know? 16 00:00:49,360 --> 00:00:53,239 Speaker 1: It's interesting. I think we imagine that they we'd like 17 00:00:53,280 --> 00:00:57,279 Speaker 1: our children to see responsible drinking, and we think that's 18 00:00:57,320 --> 00:00:59,440 Speaker 1: what we're doing in front of our children. What they're 19 00:00:59,480 --> 00:01:04,440 Speaker 1: seeing is probably slurring old people. How we present ourselves 20 00:01:04,560 --> 00:01:07,440 Speaker 1: is not how we always are. So they're watching us 21 00:01:07,520 --> 00:01:10,960 Speaker 1: drink and they're seeing bad habits. They're watching parents binge drink. 22 00:01:11,800 --> 00:01:15,160 Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, Australia has a different relationship to alcohol than 23 00:01:15,200 --> 00:01:17,480 Speaker 2: anywhere else in the world, and that's the big thing. 24 00:01:17,520 --> 00:01:20,160 Speaker 2: A lot of people give the European model are When 25 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:22,160 Speaker 2: I was back in the Old Country, Papa used to 26 00:01:22,200 --> 00:01:25,560 Speaker 2: give me some grappa and all that. In Australia alcohol 27 00:01:25,840 --> 00:01:29,840 Speaker 2: we had the rum core, we dealt, traded in rum 28 00:01:30,200 --> 00:01:34,040 Speaker 2: and booze. And I'm by no step or wowser. But 29 00:01:34,160 --> 00:01:37,360 Speaker 2: when my eldest is or almost twenty seven, I remember 30 00:01:37,440 --> 00:01:39,880 Speaker 2: years ago it is about fifteen, he said can I drink? 31 00:01:40,400 --> 00:01:43,520 Speaker 2: And I was just taking aback. I said, do you 32 00:01:43,560 --> 00:01:45,160 Speaker 2: want to drink? And he said not really, And I said, 33 00:01:45,200 --> 00:01:47,800 Speaker 2: well no, the law is you're eighteen when you drink. 34 00:01:48,000 --> 00:01:50,080 Speaker 2: But I felt like I was the only person back 35 00:01:50,120 --> 00:01:52,360 Speaker 2: then that was the one that was enforcing the rule. 36 00:01:52,360 --> 00:01:54,640 Speaker 2: And I still enforced the rule of My younger son 37 00:01:54,760 --> 00:01:57,600 Speaker 2: is almost he's going to be eighteen in September, and 38 00:01:57,680 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 2: I still don't say I'll make go and have a drink. 39 00:02:00,040 --> 00:02:02,160 Speaker 2: And those parents have said, I'd rather Johnny drink at 40 00:02:02,160 --> 00:02:03,560 Speaker 2: home with all these mates than go out in the 41 00:02:03,560 --> 00:02:05,400 Speaker 2: park and do it. Here's the thing they're going to 42 00:02:05,440 --> 00:02:07,160 Speaker 2: do it at your home and then they'll do it 43 00:02:07,160 --> 00:02:09,280 Speaker 2: in the park, So your parent you have to set 44 00:02:09,280 --> 00:02:11,079 Speaker 2: the boundaries. And for a long time I felt like 45 00:02:11,120 --> 00:02:12,880 Speaker 2: I was the only person. I think the attitudes have 46 00:02:12,960 --> 00:02:14,720 Speaker 2: changed a bit these days, so that's my stance. 47 00:02:14,720 --> 00:02:17,880 Speaker 1: It's an interesting study because I thought, I mean, Jack, 48 00:02:17,919 --> 00:02:22,320 Speaker 1: who's underage, doesn't never drink time. But I thought that 49 00:02:22,440 --> 00:02:24,280 Speaker 1: because Harley, who grew up and lived in Italy for 50 00:02:24,280 --> 00:02:26,600 Speaker 1: a few years and lived in England with his parents, 51 00:02:26,639 --> 00:02:29,200 Speaker 1: would have a little sip with dinner, and he thought 52 00:02:29,200 --> 00:02:31,919 Speaker 1: that that was a good idea for him. But this 53 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:36,760 Speaker 1: study is saying that does not work. So interesting, all right, 54 00:02:37,280 --> 00:02:40,560 Speaker 1: what are we going to call this? Underage teens drinking 55 00:02:40,600 --> 00:02:41,120 Speaker 1: at home? 56 00:02:41,480 --> 00:02:43,520 Speaker 2: Does it pass the pub test? It's a call. 57 00:02:44,919 --> 00:02:47,160 Speaker 1: That it's in our kids gene because I never was 58 00:02:47,240 --> 00:02:49,040 Speaker 1: drank in front of my kids. 59 00:02:49,280 --> 00:02:51,919 Speaker 2: They both loved kids on the fuse all the time. No, 60 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 2: it doesn't pass them up tears. I just think there's 61 00:02:54,639 --> 00:02:58,040 Speaker 2: a certain line between parents and children that shouldn't be crossed, 62 00:02:58,160 --> 00:03:01,280 Speaker 2: you know, that's one of them. Try and cultures consume 63 00:03:01,320 --> 00:03:05,240 Speaker 2: alcohol with food. So the Europeans don't have been drinking 64 00:03:05,280 --> 00:03:08,440 Speaker 2: problems because they think of alcohol as something you drink 65 00:03:08,560 --> 00:03:11,520 Speaker 2: with food, not drinking for the sake of drinking. I 66 00:03:11,600 --> 00:03:16,399 Speaker 2: don't think it does. My youngest snout exchange and he's 67 00:03:16,440 --> 00:03:20,160 Speaker 2: asking if he can drink, and I'm very reluctant. 68 00:03:20,400 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 1: Probably allowed him to have a little bitch, but definitely 69 00:03:23,639 --> 00:03:25,000 Speaker 1: not on a regular basis. 70 00:03:25,600 --> 00:03:28,160 Speaker 2: One of these paradoxes where Luckie, damned if you do, 71 00:03:28,240 --> 00:03:30,040 Speaker 2: damned if you don't. So as long because they're like, 72 00:03:30,160 --> 00:03:32,480 Speaker 2: don't think it is teaching bad habits, you know, I 73 00:03:32,480 --> 00:03:34,920 Speaker 2: would rather Night Team to get drunk in front of 74 00:03:35,000 --> 00:03:37,360 Speaker 2: me and then I can at least laugh at it 75 00:03:37,440 --> 00:03:39,800 Speaker 2: and then tell them all the bad stories that I 76 00:03:39,920 --> 00:03:45,480 Speaker 2: experienced getting myself smacked. Good dad Wow with join Z 77 00:03:45,640 --> 00:03:46,320 Speaker 2: and Amanda