WEBVTT - Baby Number Three is Coming 0:00:02.279 --> 0:00:05.920 Hello, and welcome to Outspoken. It's a very special episode, 0:00:05.960 --> 0:00:08.640 and I am getting deja vous because I literally just 0:00:08.680 --> 0:00:11.640 recorded the same episode Amy with you a couple. 0:00:11.360 --> 0:00:11.960 Of weeks ago. 0:00:12.600 --> 0:00:15.720 Sophie, you were also pregnant eight weeks out from Amy. 0:00:15.840 --> 0:00:17.360 I feel like this is a bit old hat, like 0:00:17.360 --> 0:00:19.040 I keep having to announce it to people and then 0:00:19.079 --> 0:00:21.240 I'm like, sorry, this really isn't that interesting. I think 0:00:21.280 --> 0:00:23.400 there's a lot of questions about whether you guys planned 0:00:23.400 --> 0:00:26.159 your pregnancies to be this close together. I mean, it 0:00:26.200 --> 0:00:28.240 was a shock for me because I've just got back 0:00:28.240 --> 0:00:30.200 from maternity leave, and I feel like I was left 0:00:30.200 --> 0:00:32.600 out of a lot of things, Like you guys were 0:00:32.600 --> 0:00:35.560 off doing your thing and I was at home, and 0:00:36.080 --> 0:00:38.360 when you guys announced me that you're both pregnant, I 0:00:38.400 --> 0:00:40.239 was like, oh my god, am I going to be 0:00:40.320 --> 0:00:42.839 just doing some monologue for the podcast. But we are 0:00:42.920 --> 0:00:45.720 in discussions. The podcast will still keep running. We're working 0:00:45.720 --> 0:00:47.400 out what that's going to look like. The ironic thing 0:00:47.560 --> 0:00:50.600 is that if you rewind to our weddings earlier this year, 0:00:50.680 --> 0:00:53.320 our weddings were two months apart, and now we're having 0:00:53.440 --> 0:00:56.520 children two months apart. The honeymoon babies well, no, no, 0:00:56.560 --> 0:00:59.000 if they weren't, I was pregnant on my honeymoon, which 0:00:59.400 --> 0:01:02.279 probably wasn't a good idea. Like I thought, Oh, I'm 0:01:02.240 --> 0:01:04.640 going to feel so good in my bathers, I'm gonna 0:01:04.640 --> 0:01:07.200 be so fit, And it was the very early stages. 0:01:07.240 --> 0:01:09.920 But it's those stages where you were so bloated, like 0:01:09.959 --> 0:01:12.840 it's not even a baby bump. You were just disgustingly 0:01:12.880 --> 0:01:15.560 bloated and uncomfortable. I hate to say it, but I 0:01:15.680 --> 0:01:18.399 warned you because I was already pregnant. When you warned me, no, no, 0:01:18.440 --> 0:01:21.560 you weren't. You went at all. What well I was trying? Yeah, yeah, 0:01:21.560 --> 0:01:23.240 I said to you. I knew you were trying, and 0:01:23.240 --> 0:01:26.120 I said, look, so, to be honest, being pregnant is 0:01:26.160 --> 0:01:28.880 actually fucking shit in the first trimester, and you do 0:01:28.959 --> 0:01:30.840 not want to be pregnant on your honeymoon. I'd wait 0:01:30.880 --> 0:01:32.840 and try and conceive the baby on the honey To 0:01:32.920 --> 0:01:35.880 be honest, I mean, apart from maybe feeling slightly unconfident 0:01:36.000 --> 0:01:38.880 in my bathers, I actually have been lucky that I 0:01:39.040 --> 0:01:41.120 seemed to turn a corner on my honeymoon and I 0:01:41.120 --> 0:01:43.480 felt a lot better and more like myself. When I 0:01:43.560 --> 0:01:46.520 first found out. I don't know if it was mental 0:01:46.720 --> 0:01:50.360 or what. I felt like shit, Like no, I it 0:01:50.440 --> 0:01:53.280 wasn't like I had a terrible headache. Sophie, You're not 0:01:53.360 --> 0:01:55.640 really a glass half full kind of person. You're a 0:01:55.640 --> 0:01:58.280 glass And do you type a person from someone who's 0:01:58.320 --> 0:02:00.680 been through it eight weeks earlier? To Sophie, I felt 0:02:00.720 --> 0:02:03.160 like shit. I feel like anybody who says that they 0:02:03.200 --> 0:02:05.520 feel like she should be listened to because it's seen 0:02:05.560 --> 0:02:08.160 a terrible period. It's ring of all these people having 0:02:08.200 --> 0:02:10.600 these huge naps during the day, I suppose people working 0:02:10.600 --> 0:02:12.720 from home. I didn't have any of that. I pushed 0:02:12.760 --> 0:02:14.960 through it, which probably didn't help. And we're very social people. 0:02:14.960 --> 0:02:17.480 We're out a lot of or not use so much anymore, Kate, 0:02:17.560 --> 0:02:19.760 because you have a child, but you know this is 0:02:19.800 --> 0:02:22.959 our last harah six months to enjoy it. But we're 0:02:22.960 --> 0:02:25.520 out most nights with friends or doing stuff. So I 0:02:25.600 --> 0:02:27.480 just kept pushing myself. And it's not like I could 0:02:27.480 --> 0:02:30.920 say to my friends, I'm fucking tired. I can't, isn't it. 0:02:30.960 --> 0:02:33.000 A lot of people say, yeah, that you can't even 0:02:33.080 --> 0:02:36.200 complain about it or explain why maybe you look so tired, 0:02:36.320 --> 0:02:38.400 and the whole thing is because as soon as I 0:02:38.440 --> 0:02:40.760 found out I was pregnant, I found TikTok a really 0:02:41.120 --> 0:02:43.280 great place to go to because I found that a 0:02:43.320 --> 0:02:46.320 lot of women would pre record moments from the first 0:02:46.320 --> 0:02:49.160 trimester and talk about like the cravings they were having 0:02:49.240 --> 0:02:51.480 or whether they were feeling like shit. And for me, 0:02:51.880 --> 0:02:54.240 I wanted to know straight away what the gender is 0:02:54.639 --> 0:02:57.560 because I mean, you guys are having boys. Growing up 0:02:57.600 --> 0:02:59.880 as girls, I've always thought one day I really want 0:02:59.919 --> 0:03:02.720 to have a girl. So I was so like, oh, like, 0:03:02.760 --> 0:03:04.600 I want to look into what the cravings are for 0:03:04.639 --> 0:03:07.160 a girl. I straight away knew that I was having 0:03:07.160 --> 0:03:12.040 a boy, which wives tail old wives tails aren't well. 0:03:12.080 --> 0:03:14.360 They said that if you're having a boy, you absolutely 0:03:14.360 --> 0:03:17.160 crave salty food. All they wanted to eat was two 0:03:17.240 --> 0:03:20.960 minute noodles and chips. And I got my cravings. I 0:03:20.960 --> 0:03:25.400 think yours were because you did do a gender reveal, 0:03:25.960 --> 0:03:29.040 and Amy and I got our cakes from the same person, 0:03:29.080 --> 0:03:31.080 but you wanted to be different. You got a different one, 0:03:31.200 --> 0:03:33.360 and you went and picked the cake up and you 0:03:33.480 --> 0:03:36.880 rang me and you were like, oh my god, it's 0:03:36.880 --> 0:03:41.040 got blue specks in the ice. Please. It was a 0:03:41.160 --> 0:03:44.320 vintage love heart cake that had white icing, and it 0:03:44.360 --> 0:03:48.200 had blue and pink love hearts on it, and within 0:03:48.280 --> 0:03:50.600 the icing it looked like there was black. It was 0:03:51.040 --> 0:03:53.560 and I was like, it was vanilla, vanilla bean, I 0:03:53.600 --> 0:03:57.080 told you. But the cake lady said that she was 0:03:57.120 --> 0:03:59.320 either going to bake like a blue or pink cake, 0:03:59.360 --> 0:04:01.600 and I thought, maybe she hasn't done that. It was 0:04:01.680 --> 0:04:04.800 clearly black having a melt done because it was a boy. 0:04:04.840 --> 0:04:06.280 I was having a melt done because I didn't want 0:04:06.280 --> 0:04:08.560 the surprise to be that. Yet you continue to like 0:04:08.640 --> 0:04:10.960 look at the cake with a microscope, and I said, Sophie, 0:04:11.320 --> 0:04:13.680 this a similar thing happened to me. There was a 0:04:13.680 --> 0:04:15.960 little bit of pink on the icing, and I was like, 0:04:16.080 --> 0:04:18.240 definitely a girl. And that's why when I pulled out 0:04:18.279 --> 0:04:21.840 the blue I was like, what Dale said, There's no 0:04:21.960 --> 0:04:24.200 way that Sophie hasn't looked in the envelope before we 0:04:24.240 --> 0:04:27.040 went to the gender Ville. I said, honestly, she doesn't know. 0:04:27.360 --> 0:04:29.640 I said, she really doesn't need Even Brandon was worried 0:04:29.680 --> 0:04:33.039 that she was peaking. In the end, Sophie's not known 0:04:33.080 --> 0:04:36.000 for keeping secrets, didn't he say, Like you asked him, like, oh, 0:04:36.040 --> 0:04:37.680 so have you thought of any more? Boys' names, and 0:04:37.720 --> 0:04:40.160 he's like, you've looked in the envelope, haven't you. I 0:04:40.160 --> 0:04:42.159 promise I didn't know. It's funny because I was speaking 0:04:42.240 --> 0:04:46.039 to some older relatives who had no idea about a 0:04:46.080 --> 0:04:48.320 gender reveal, Like I think there's like that group of 0:04:48.320 --> 0:04:49.720 people who were like, oh, I didn't even know you 0:04:49.720 --> 0:04:51.440 could find out the gender. They never did that back 0:04:51.480 --> 0:04:53.039 in our day. Well they did because they didn't have 0:04:53.040 --> 0:04:55.320 the technology. And they're like, how does it work? So 0:04:55.680 --> 0:04:58.320 do you know beforehand? And then you tell the baker. 0:04:58.360 --> 0:05:00.400 I'm like, no, you just collect an end. But some 0:05:00.480 --> 0:05:03.240 people would do. Some people actually they just find out 0:05:03.240 --> 0:05:05.280 privately with their partner and then they have it as 0:05:05.320 --> 0:05:08.200 a surprise for the family, which, in hindsight, that's probably 0:05:08.320 --> 0:05:10.719 quite a nice idea. Only when I was finding out together, 0:05:10.839 --> 0:05:13.800 my hand was shaking. I cut the I was supposed 0:05:13.839 --> 0:05:15.839 to cut like a nice, big fat piece of cake. 0:05:15.920 --> 0:05:18.680 To make the I cut the smallest piece. You could 0:05:18.720 --> 0:05:20.159 barely pull it out. 0:05:20.200 --> 0:05:22.480 I just knew from your face because I saw so. 0:05:22.640 --> 0:05:25.520 My advice to Sophie was close your eyes when you 0:05:25.560 --> 0:05:27.720 pulled the knife out, because what happened was when I 0:05:27.760 --> 0:05:29.680 cut into mind and pulled the knife out. I saw 0:05:29.720 --> 0:05:31.919 the blue and not to pretend, So I didn't have 0:05:32.000 --> 0:05:34.520 much of a reaction in my video because I'd already knew. 0:05:35.160 --> 0:05:37.239 And then yeah, and then in mind I had red jams, 0:05:37.240 --> 0:05:39.320 so I was like really confused. So then Sophie cut 0:05:39.360 --> 0:05:41.279 the smallest piece and she went to pick it up 0:05:41.320 --> 0:05:43.200 with the cake server and it all crumbled. But I 0:05:43.240 --> 0:05:45.240 saw her face and I was like, it's a boy. 0:05:45.360 --> 0:05:48.839 I like had my hands over. It was more that 0:05:48.920 --> 0:05:51.840 I just couldn't believe that we were all having boys. 0:05:52.640 --> 0:05:54.600 What is going on? Like from growing up in the 0:05:54.920 --> 0:05:59.560 household where everything's girly, we never had to watch boys stuff. Like. 0:06:00.040 --> 0:06:03.400 I was so excited because I know, originally you wanted 0:06:03.400 --> 0:06:05.360 a girl, and I think we all have said I've 0:06:05.360 --> 0:06:06.680 been on the record and said I want a girl. 0:06:06.720 --> 0:06:08.240 Now that I have a boy, I'm like, I could 0:06:08.240 --> 0:06:10.520 not imagine my life without a boy. Absolutely love him. 0:06:10.520 --> 0:06:12.479 I love being a boy, Mum. I know you guys 0:06:12.520 --> 0:06:14.280 are going to love it. And when it was a boy, 0:06:14.400 --> 0:06:17.400 I was so excited because they're all just going to 0:06:17.480 --> 0:06:20.440 get along. So well, we keep calling them the triplets. Yeah, 0:06:20.520 --> 0:06:22.800 well you've been saying, Kate, how they're going to be 0:06:22.839 --> 0:06:26.360 actually biologically like half siblings. Yes, So I don't want 0:06:26.360 --> 0:06:28.599 to get into the specifics because I was talking to 0:06:28.600 --> 0:06:30.840 my uncle who is a GP, and I was like, oh, yeah, 0:06:30.880 --> 0:06:34.479 apparently genetically they're like half siblings. And he looked at 0:06:34.520 --> 0:06:37.120 me as if I was on crack and I'm like, no, no, 0:06:37.160 --> 0:06:39.560 it's true. And how you asked me to explain it? 0:06:39.600 --> 0:06:42.200 And I feel uncomfortable ela to a doctor, can you 0:06:42.200 --> 0:06:42.839 explain it to me? 0:06:42.880 --> 0:06:45.800 But yeah, so the way I explained it is it 0:06:45.800 --> 0:06:48.880 would essentially be like if I had a baby with 0:06:49.000 --> 0:06:52.479 rhys Dale and Brandon. So the DNA from me is 0:06:52.520 --> 0:06:54.960 the same, but the DNA from the husband's is different. 0:06:55.120 --> 0:06:57.839 And I have clarire Jesse Stevens talking about that that 0:06:57.920 --> 0:07:02.200 their children are technically half seas. Yeah. Yeah, so I 0:07:02.240 --> 0:07:04.360 actually have a prediction that all of the boys are 0:07:04.360 --> 0:07:05.960 going to look like their dads and we're going to 0:07:06.040 --> 0:07:09.880 grow up with basically Reesdale and Brandon's minimes. I do 0:07:10.000 --> 0:07:11.960 hope that the child looks a little bit like me. 0:07:12.000 --> 0:07:13.440 I feel like i'd be fair if it was half 0:07:13.480 --> 0:07:15.960 half because as the woman you do so much to 0:07:16.000 --> 0:07:17.840 the heavy lifting, you have to be pregnant, you have 0:07:17.880 --> 0:07:21.400 to mostly stereotypically take time off work, but seems like 0:07:21.440 --> 0:07:24.040 a biological thing. It makes sense as women, we get 0:07:24.040 --> 0:07:25.880 to bond with the baby during the nine months of 0:07:25.960 --> 0:07:28.680 being pregnant, and then when the baby comes out and 0:07:28.680 --> 0:07:30.360 it looks like the dad, they're going to have more 0:07:30.360 --> 0:07:32.680 of an affiliation and connection and bond with the baby 0:07:32.760 --> 0:07:34.400 quicker if it looks like So if I want to know, 0:07:34.560 --> 0:07:37.440 how did you break this news to Brandon? Well, because 0:07:37.440 --> 0:07:39.640 it was planned. I feel like Brandon obviously had some 0:07:39.800 --> 0:07:42.480 idea and he knew that my period was coming on 0:07:42.520 --> 0:07:44.640 a certain day, so I was like, I want to 0:07:44.800 --> 0:07:46.760 still announce it in acute way, like it's not going 0:07:46.800 --> 0:07:50.880 to be the biggest surprise. So he goes for port Power, 0:07:50.920 --> 0:07:53.720 which is a footage thing. I need to interject, so vi, 0:07:54.240 --> 0:07:56.560 they haven't been port Power for about fifteen years. It's 0:07:56.600 --> 0:07:59.320 port Adelaide. Yeah, I don't really care. Brown and gets 0:07:59.320 --> 0:08:00.920 so annoyed by like the port Power. I feel like 0:08:00.920 --> 0:08:03.760 it's almost trolling them when I say it. But for context, 0:08:03.880 --> 0:08:07.560 we grew up as massive Crow supporters who hated Port Adelaide. Yeah, 0:08:07.640 --> 0:08:11.280 so I'm probably going to kick myself in future years. 0:08:11.320 --> 0:08:13.480 But I thought it'd be cute to buy him a 0:08:13.680 --> 0:08:16.040 little port powered teddy bear that was my first teddy 0:08:16.040 --> 0:08:17.840 Bear to give to the baby, as well as like 0:08:17.880 --> 0:08:20.240 a mini football that's my first football, because I just 0:08:20.240 --> 0:08:23.240 thought that would get him really excited about the news, 0:08:23.800 --> 0:08:25.440 and I just thought it was a cute way to 0:08:25.440 --> 0:08:28.160 do it. So basically, he came home and I had 0:08:28.160 --> 0:08:30.520 it on the table ready to surprise him. So it 0:08:30.560 --> 0:08:32.920 was nothing dramatic and huge, and what was his reaction? 0:08:33.040 --> 0:08:36.200 Like he just couldn't believe it. He's like, this doesn't 0:08:36.240 --> 0:08:38.480 feel real, Like I can't get my head around it. 0:08:38.600 --> 0:08:40.800 I still find it hard to get my head around 0:08:40.800 --> 0:08:42.560 the fact that both are you were pregnant at the 0:08:42.559 --> 0:08:44.160 same time, and I'm a little bit jealous because you 0:08:44.160 --> 0:08:46.400 guys are going to be able to spend maternity leave together. 0:08:46.600 --> 0:08:48.559 A few of our friends have also just announced it 0:08:48.600 --> 0:08:51.240 they're pregnant and they're having boys as well, which is exciting. 0:08:51.280 --> 0:08:53.200 We've literally nearly got a basketball team. I think we 0:08:53.240 --> 0:08:56.120 need like one more member to make the five. It 0:08:56.160 --> 0:08:58.520 only starts to feel real though, when you feel the 0:08:58.520 --> 0:09:01.120 baby kicking. So I'm at that stage where he's kicking 0:09:01.200 --> 0:09:02.960 quite a lot, and I'm really excited so for you 0:09:03.000 --> 0:09:05.680 to experience that, well, my placenta is at the front, 0:09:05.800 --> 0:09:07.560 so I think it will take a little bit longer 0:09:07.600 --> 0:09:09.840 for me to feel any kicks, which is quite interesting 0:09:09.840 --> 0:09:11.679 because yours was at the front as well, and yours 0:09:11.679 --> 0:09:14.120 is at the back. What is even weirder, Sophie, and 0:09:14.160 --> 0:09:16.800 this is what really shocked me and kind of I 0:09:16.840 --> 0:09:20.000 don't annoyed me a little bit, is that your due 0:09:20.080 --> 0:09:26.160 date two days before Jack's due date, before his birthday. Yeah, 0:09:26.280 --> 0:09:30.280 so essentially you're probably going to go into labor, I know, 0:09:30.320 --> 0:09:33.160 two days before his birthday. So now selfishly, I'm like, 0:09:33.280 --> 0:09:35.320 when am I holding my son's first birthday party? Because 0:09:35.320 --> 0:09:37.280 I've been planning his first birthday party in my life. 0:09:38.080 --> 0:09:40.280 If you're to have a baby on Jack's birthday, I know, 0:09:40.520 --> 0:09:42.559 so I be getting in trouble with everyone. I'm getting 0:09:42.559 --> 0:09:44.240 in trouble with you that it's too close to you. 0:09:44.360 --> 0:09:46.160 I'm getting in trouble with you that's close to your 0:09:46.160 --> 0:09:47.960 son's But I don't know issue would have been close. 0:09:48.040 --> 0:09:50.400 I'm just concerned from a work perspective. But we are 0:09:50.440 --> 0:09:52.240 in the process, as we said, of sorting that out. 0:09:53.360 --> 0:09:56.480 It's so exciting, like we should be so grateful because 0:09:56.600 --> 0:09:58.959 how amazing these kids are going to be so close 0:09:59.000 --> 0:10:01.720 in age. Yeah, you're I was saying, they're the triplets, 0:10:01.760 --> 0:10:04.120 like the boy triplets. Yeah, so Amy, your son is 0:10:04.160 --> 0:10:06.280 going to be well, Jack will be ten months older 0:10:06.320 --> 0:10:09.480 than your son and twelve months older than Sophie's and 0:10:09.520 --> 0:10:11.400 then the boys will be Your. 0:10:11.280 --> 0:10:12.440 Boys will be eight weeks apart. 0:10:12.559 --> 0:10:16.600 Yeah. Well, I found out recently that my child is 0:10:16.640 --> 0:10:19.800 either going to go to school with Jack or Sophie's child, 0:10:19.800 --> 0:10:23.200 because the way that the years unfold for schooling, they're 0:10:23.240 --> 0:10:24.840 not all going to be in the same year. So 0:10:24.880 --> 0:10:27.600 it's either baby h is with Sophi or with joll. 0:10:27.679 --> 0:10:29.720 Surely he'd be with mine if they're closer in it, 0:10:29.840 --> 0:10:32.200 but it might be that Jack does a few terms 0:10:32.200 --> 0:10:32.640 of reception. 0:10:32.720 --> 0:10:34.720 Anyway, we'll hold him back so they can be in 0:10:34.720 --> 0:10:35.319 the same year. 0:10:35.720 --> 0:10:38.000 Hey, I think it's cool for you, Sophie because you 0:10:38.200 --> 0:10:41.120 have someone in a sense to compare things to, because 0:10:41.200 --> 0:10:44.360 I keep saying to you, well, exactly this time next year, 0:10:44.480 --> 0:10:46.640 you're going to have a six month old like I have. 0:10:46.720 --> 0:10:49.320 And yeah, it is kind of helpful the timeline. 0:10:48.880 --> 0:10:50.280 Yeah, you can kind of track it along. 0:10:50.440 --> 0:10:52.720 But the other thing is So my sister in law 0:10:52.880 --> 0:10:55.800 is also having a baby in February, so it's just 0:10:55.840 --> 0:10:57.760 going to be all these babies. We don't know the 0:10:57.800 --> 0:10:59.920 gender she's waiting to find out. I'm hoping it's a 0:11:00.080 --> 0:11:02.200 boy so that they not that they won't get along 0:11:02.200 --> 0:11:04.840 if it's different genders, but it'd be quite cute anyway. 0:11:05.000 --> 0:11:08.040 And but the thing that I don't like is that 0:11:08.200 --> 0:11:10.480 I'm last to give birth, So I feel like I'm 0:11:10.520 --> 0:11:12.760 going to hear all of these fucking horror stories and 0:11:12.800 --> 0:11:14.679 it's going to freak me out. Like I'm going to 0:11:14.760 --> 0:11:17.760 be heavily pregnant at the hospital Amy waiting for you, 0:11:17.880 --> 0:11:20.040 just knowing that I'm going to be there, and I'm glad. 0:11:20.080 --> 0:11:22.640 I'm actually so glad that I'm having the baby before 0:11:22.679 --> 0:11:25.440 you because the song and dance that Sophie would have 0:11:25.440 --> 0:11:27.920 put on maybe, So I'm like, I'm sorry, I think 0:11:27.960 --> 0:11:30.160 anyone gets a bit nervous about child. No, I know, 0:11:30.400 --> 0:11:32.400 but you just it's kind of like when you lined 0:11:32.480 --> 0:11:34.400 up for to get it back saying at school, and 0:11:34.440 --> 0:11:35.760 you wanted to be the first one to get it 0:11:35.800 --> 0:11:40.240 over and done. Also, when you have a baby, every 0:11:40.360 --> 0:11:43.679 milestone you hit, you feel like I've progressed, like, you know, 0:11:44.080 --> 0:11:46.880 he doesn't need to be fed as many times overnight. 0:11:46.960 --> 0:11:49.240 I've dropped that night feed, So you're always going to 0:11:49.320 --> 0:11:53.240 be eight weeks ahead of Sophie and the Saren, and 0:11:53.240 --> 0:11:55.160 then your sister in law is going to be is 0:11:55.320 --> 0:11:58.800 four months ahead of you, so you're aways gonna hear. 0:11:58.800 --> 0:11:59.959 Oh, you should be doing this. 0:12:00.240 --> 0:12:03.360 Something I'm excited about is Sofi and I have been 0:12:03.400 --> 0:12:06.760 discussing how we want to get some prammed, but the 0:12:06.760 --> 0:12:10.920 ones that are connected, because yeah, the site of three 0:12:10.960 --> 0:12:12.800 of us going for a walk with three separate prams, 0:12:12.800 --> 0:12:14.120 I mean, that's just not going to work. So we 0:12:14.160 --> 0:12:17.920 weren't kind of like, yeah, like some kind of joined PRAM. 0:12:18.080 --> 0:12:21.200 But we were also saying that during work days, Sof 0:12:21.240 --> 0:12:23.200 and I going to try and bring the babies together 0:12:23.280 --> 0:12:25.720 because I know when we were little we slept really 0:12:25.760 --> 0:12:28.320 well together because one you'd kind of wake up and 0:12:28.400 --> 0:12:30.000 just sort of see each other and then fall back 0:12:30.040 --> 0:12:31.680 to sleep. Like we kind of want to set up 0:12:31.720 --> 0:12:33.960 like nurseries at our house so we can get work done. 0:12:34.040 --> 0:12:36.440 But also, I mean we're on the same routine as well, 0:12:36.440 --> 0:12:39.400 which I just bought a portcot so I can bring 0:12:39.480 --> 0:12:39.920 Jack here. 0:12:40.160 --> 0:12:41.480 Do you know what I want to know? 0:12:41.600 --> 0:12:44.000 Would you be open to breastfeeding each other's kids because 0:12:44.000 --> 0:12:46.600 you could be your own wetness. I found out that 0:12:46.679 --> 0:12:48.640 my next door neighbor she had a baby on a 0:12:48.720 --> 0:12:51.040 couple of months after me, and I was like, Jesus 0:12:51.040 --> 0:12:52.239 if I was better friends. 0:12:51.960 --> 0:12:54.520 With her because apparently she had an epic milkflow, like. 0:12:54.480 --> 0:12:58.319 She said that that yeah, yeah, And so I was like, really, look, 0:12:58.360 --> 0:13:01.760 why are we both waking up very look? Sof and 0:13:01.800 --> 0:13:03.880 I aren't like Sarah's day at Christmas party. I'm not 0:13:03.880 --> 0:13:06.080 going to be offering everyone to drink my breast milk? 0:13:06.160 --> 0:13:08.120 Why not if you guys are genetically the same? 0:13:08.320 --> 0:13:09.840 Sorry, but I think that you're going to have enough 0:13:09.840 --> 0:13:11.600 strain in your body that you don't really feel like 0:13:11.640 --> 0:13:14.240 feeding another child, like even if it is your nephew 0:13:14.400 --> 0:13:17.400 both sides and then one. But I mean, from a 0:13:17.559 --> 0:13:21.120 very limited experience in children, don't you feed them on 0:13:21.120 --> 0:13:22.880 one and then the other? Okay, you're still going to 0:13:22.880 --> 0:13:25.640 be breastfeeding at the time. Maybe would you be wetnes 0:13:25.800 --> 0:13:28.520 breastfeeds children milk may have drawn up by then. I 0:13:28.520 --> 0:13:29.880 don't know. I think that's a bit gross. Maybe I 0:13:29.880 --> 0:13:31.679 could push it to when Amy, you get birth and 0:13:31.720 --> 0:13:33.360 then you can start feeding you. I'll put this out 0:13:33.360 --> 0:13:35.679 there because I can just imagine like someone picking up 0:13:35.679 --> 0:13:40.040 on this being like triplets breastfeed theameid. No, we're not 0:13:40.080 --> 0:13:41.679 doing that. That's a big no. 0:13:41.920 --> 0:13:43.160 I think it's too fas. 0:13:43.280 --> 0:13:45.800 Now. I also want to know, and I'm not trying 0:13:45.800 --> 0:13:47.120 to stir trouble, but it probably will. 0:13:47.480 --> 0:13:49.640 Are you going to be fighting over boys' names? 0:13:49.840 --> 0:13:51.720 Well, we've both written up a bit of a list, 0:13:51.760 --> 0:13:54.560 and there are some names that cross over, but I 0:13:54.600 --> 0:13:57.640 think that the names that were really keen on aren't 0:13:57.880 --> 0:13:58.240 the same. 0:13:58.360 --> 0:14:00.959 Is it a first in best dress? So does Amy 0:14:01.000 --> 0:14:01.920 have the one up on you? 0:14:01.920 --> 0:14:03.840 Say, Amy, if there was a name that you both liked, 0:14:04.360 --> 0:14:06.720 how are you gonna work that out? Well? I suppose 0:14:06.800 --> 0:14:09.959 because I've thrown out names ahead of knowing that Sophie 0:14:10.040 --> 0:14:12.440 was pregnant, I feel like she's been very respectful and 0:14:12.480 --> 0:14:15.640 hasn't been targeting those names because it's quite funny because 0:14:15.679 --> 0:14:18.040 when we found out you were having a boy, because 0:14:18.040 --> 0:14:19.640 there was a little bit of stress because if I 0:14:19.760 --> 0:14:22.480 was to go around two and had a girl, then 0:14:22.920 --> 0:14:25.480 you potentially could have stolen some of the girls' names. 0:14:25.480 --> 0:14:27.240 That I want, but we all like similar names. 0:14:27.880 --> 0:14:29.960 I think a lot of people will be wondering, how 0:14:30.000 --> 0:14:31.960 did you break the news to us, because obviously when 0:14:31.960 --> 0:14:34.240 I told you, I told you on the podcast. I 0:14:34.280 --> 0:14:37.200 told Kate separately. Well, the thing is that you guys 0:14:37.360 --> 0:14:39.760 knew that I was trying. So I felt like it 0:14:39.800 --> 0:14:41.680 was hard to make it a big surprise, and I 0:14:41.680 --> 0:14:43.720 felt like you guys were cottoning on to the fact 0:14:43.720 --> 0:14:45.920 that something was going on. There was a lot of 0:14:46.360 --> 0:14:48.640 even at family dinners, it's like, oh, I bet that 0:14:48.680 --> 0:14:50.880 Sophie's pregnant, Like there are all these comments. So I 0:14:50.880 --> 0:14:53.920 felt like I had to tell you guys. Well, I 0:14:53.920 --> 0:14:57.360 think everyone is when they're pregnant. So I decided to 0:14:57.400 --> 0:14:59.640 tell you at six weeks because I thought, well, if 0:14:59.640 --> 0:15:02.280 God for bid something happened, i'd want the support of 0:15:02.280 --> 0:15:06.400 you guys anyway. So I ended up telling you and 0:15:06.480 --> 0:15:09.160 my mum and at the same time at a little 0:15:09.160 --> 0:15:11.360 cafe near our house, and I just pulled out a 0:15:11.760 --> 0:15:15.040 toy and the pregnancy test, and then we thought, oh fuck, 0:15:15.080 --> 0:15:17.880 we didn't tell Dad. He might be offended. So then 0:15:17.920 --> 0:15:20.240 that night we had to pretend that we were telling 0:15:20.320 --> 0:15:23.600 him at dinner, and then I told my in laws 0:15:23.680 --> 0:15:26.480 the next day at my husband's birthday dinner. So we 0:15:26.520 --> 0:15:28.720 came back to my house and we got a little 0:15:28.760 --> 0:15:31.160 bandana for my dog Archie and it said big brother 0:15:31.280 --> 0:15:33.480 on it, so we made him run out and see everyone. 0:15:33.960 --> 0:15:36.720 So in terms of Archie, because he is your first son, 0:15:36.960 --> 0:15:39.440 and yeah, you very much treat him like a child. 0:15:40.160 --> 0:15:43.400 How are you feeling about integrating a baby into that. Yeah, 0:15:43.440 --> 0:15:45.720 we were a bit nervous about it because Archie hasn't 0:15:45.720 --> 0:15:48.640 really been around children heats. But I feel a lot 0:15:48.680 --> 0:15:51.560 more confident now that he's been around Jack, and Jack 0:15:52.120 --> 0:15:54.960 loves him, like they have a little cute bond going on. 0:15:55.040 --> 0:15:57.880 I have Archie on my screensaver of my phone, and 0:15:57.960 --> 0:16:00.880 every time I showed Jack, he just smiled at Archie. 0:16:00.920 --> 0:16:03.760 So I'm really excited to see the bond that Archie 0:16:04.040 --> 0:16:07.760 and the baby will have. Brandon has already been practicing, 0:16:07.840 --> 0:16:10.840 so he has got a blanket and he'll get his 0:16:10.960 --> 0:16:14.200 phone and search babies crying on YouTube, and he'll have 0:16:14.400 --> 0:16:17.280 the phone in the blanket and see how Archie reacts, 0:16:17.320 --> 0:16:19.440 just to try and get him used to that sound. 0:16:19.800 --> 0:16:22.280 I mean, I'm sure with any animal, it's always going 0:16:22.320 --> 0:16:25.360 to be difficult and like a slow process of helping 0:16:25.440 --> 0:16:27.640 them bond and getting them used to it, because it's 0:16:27.640 --> 0:16:30.040 a big change for everyone. See, if you ever want 0:16:30.040 --> 0:16:32.800 a babysit Jack and get Archie used to crying or anything. 0:16:32.880 --> 0:16:34.640 Let me know. Well, the thing is, I think because 0:16:34.680 --> 0:16:37.440 the first time you ever brought Jack around, he was 0:16:37.520 --> 0:16:39.960 so small, and Archie had never seen a baby, and 0:16:40.000 --> 0:16:42.120 I think he was like, oh my god, what is that. 0:16:42.560 --> 0:16:44.480 So when he's seen Jack, when he's a bit bigger, 0:16:44.480 --> 0:16:46.440 I think that's when he was a bit more like, oh, 0:16:46.520 --> 0:16:48.680 it's a human, and Jack was interactive with him because 0:16:48.680 --> 0:16:50.840 he was What do you think has been the most 0:16:50.920 --> 0:16:55.520 surprising thing about becoming pregnant because people often say, oh, 0:16:55.840 --> 0:16:58.040 you know, it's wild what people will ask you, or 0:16:58.120 --> 0:17:00.520 I can't believe that this is how I feel immediately. 0:17:00.680 --> 0:17:02.920 There's a few things like I think I was so 0:17:03.000 --> 0:17:05.399 concerned that I wouldn't be able to feel pregnant that 0:17:05.440 --> 0:17:07.760 I never really allowed myself to think about what it 0:17:07.760 --> 0:17:11.600