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Speaker 1: The Rising Conquer Podcast acknowledges the traditional custodians of the

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Speaker 1: land which this episode is being recorded, the Yugen Bay region.

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Speaker 1: We further acknowledge country throughout Australia and their connections to land,

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Speaker 1: sea and community. We pay our respect to their elders

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Speaker 1: past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal

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Speaker 1: and terrestriid islander peoples today. Hello, and welcome back to

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Speaker 1: the Rising Conquer Podcasts. This is the podcast for ordinary

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Speaker 1: people who want to do extraordinary things.

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Speaker 2: And then the idea of been like chasing after a ball,

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Speaker 2: but then like trying to pick up what they.

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Speaker 3: Miss trying to pick up the ball, and they're like chasing.

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Speaker 2: After and you're like I had a dog, Yeah, like

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Speaker 3: Tennis ball, like a ping pong ball.

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Speaker 1: Hello and welcome back to the Rise and Conquer Potty.

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Speaker 1: It is your host, Georgie Stevenson, lower turned entrepreneur, mum,

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Speaker 1: business owner, all the things, guys.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 1: Fridays are our fun g hotline episodes where you give

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Speaker 1: us your life dilemmas and we provide you with very

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Speaker 1: unqualified two cents on the situation. Except today we are

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Speaker 1: joined by some very special guests. Sal and Awl from

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Speaker 1: the Two Broke Chicks podcast join me and we chat

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Speaker 1: about all things love, dating, and just going through life

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Speaker 1: in your twenties. I've been in a relationship since I

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Speaker 1: was seventeen, so I loved having the girls on because

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Speaker 1: I didn't know a lot of these things and it

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Speaker 1: was just hilarious. We talk about X, we talk about

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Speaker 1: red flags, green flags, all the things. We have so

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Speaker 1: much fun. These girls are just they're so funny. They

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Speaker 1: are too much. You guys are gonna be obsessed with

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Speaker 1: this episode. But before we get into the show, can

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Speaker 1: I tell them?

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Speaker 4: Sure? You can tell them again.

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Speaker 1: I haven't told them, but pretty much have.

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, I tel You's about as subtle as

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Speaker 5: a gun when it comes to launching what like, I

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Speaker 2: All the time.

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Speaker 1: The field hight All right, guys, you've probably seen it

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Speaker 1: all over my Instagram, and if you haven't guessed it

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Speaker 1: by now, you're not a true R and C fan.

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Speaker 1: Let's just say that, so we have officially. I think

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Speaker 1: you guys will see a bit later today.

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Speaker 4: No, they'll see it on Sunday.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, all right, So we officially are going to

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Speaker 4: But because you're my gang, you're the club we want

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Speaker 4: to remember. Watch you for listening to the podcast We

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Speaker 4: Love the rn C Club.

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Speaker 1: You guys may have seen, but we're launching a beautiful

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Speaker 1: rn C time stamped Sunset water bottle. It's not really sunset,

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Speaker 1: it's our brain colors, but that's the fo So I've

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Speaker 1: you may have seen the sample a lot in my stories,

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Speaker 1: and it's because I've been using it for a very

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Speaker 4: It's so bloody cute, it's stunning.

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Speaker 5: It's like I loved it when it first got here,

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Speaker 4: A two years obsessed. But basically these are launching on Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: Stay tuned. But we were just thinking we want to

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Speaker 1: do something fun at the end of the year, and

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Speaker 1: how fun would it be if you know, you're sitting

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Speaker 4: So more deeds of that will be on our Instagram

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Speaker 5: And join the Facebook group if you want to see

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Speaker 1: We just will of course we tell the fate the

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Speaker 5: Yes, what's your recommendation this week, Georgie.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Sal and Owl, I'm gonna call you all episode. So,

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Speaker 1: first of all, before we get into the fun Friday

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Speaker 2: Sure one of you to take? So Saal and I

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Speaker 2: have been best friends for six years. We met both

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Speaker 3: Now we have four matching tattoos.

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Speaker 4: What star signed?

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Speaker 1: So you're Aries and I'm a Pisces.

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Speaker 1: How did it kind of get picked up?

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Speaker 6: Goss Well, pretty much, our bosses saw us interacting in

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Speaker 6: But yeah, our bosses saw us interacting and saw us

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Speaker 6: and then we were like, you know how besties are always.

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Speaker 1: You some the fact that you do never shut up.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Everyone at work was like when our desks got

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Speaker 3: And we definitely got an always.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, absolutely, yeah, we got like because you could send

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Speaker 3: But do you think that they could maybe keep it

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Speaker 6: We got in trouble, were giving people what they want exactly,

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Speaker 6: We're got in trouble.

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Speaker 1: And so do you guys still work, like, like do

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so we've kind of moved more into like sours

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Speaker 2: of how the brand started a little bit, like Two

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Speaker 2: Boat Chicks was a lot more about shopping, and yeah,

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Speaker 2: then it's just kind of built to be everything, but

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Speaker 2: we still have crippling shopping addictions.

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Speaker 4: Did it literally just come from shopping?

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Speaker 1: I'm so excited for this because, like I said off air,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no one knows anything.

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Speaker 4: No one knows anything.

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Speaker 2: So I still don't know.

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Speaker 1: Shit, I'm twenty six.

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Speaker 3: Where where no no no learning?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, life lessence And well so how.

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Speaker 4: Long have you been with your partner? Fourteen years?

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Speaker 1: Wow? Eating me?

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Speaker 4: Breaking Coorage.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we're breaking.

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Speaker 1: More out there they exist, can you believe me? Me

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Speaker 4: Like, we are such nice people, how could you not

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Speaker 3: Equal got commitment issues, and I'm like, bye, well, yeah.

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Speaker 1: You have like lots of lots of wisdom, lots of knowledge,

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Speaker 1: so this is going to.

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Speaker 4: Be perfect for this segment.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so take all of our advice and.

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Speaker 4: The RNC gangs like trying to listen his voices. We

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Speaker 1: So first question, I love this. We're going straight in

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Speaker 1: what do we like? What do you do if you

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Speaker 4: Really like him?

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Speaker 2: Okay, it's never gonna work, like it's just because as

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Speaker 2: well if I mean, you know, sometimes you can lock

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Speaker 3: Don't do the what are we?

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Speaker 2: Don't give them that power, be like I feel this,

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Speaker 2: I'm enjoying this. I would like to continue it. How

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what about if you've done that? You defined I

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Speaker 4: I did move on.

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Speaker 4: And who they are.

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Speaker 2: Someone being flaky is like sales most hate. Yeah, get

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Speaker 3: If they like if they bail on plans or like

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Speaker 4: Most commitment issue.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and just the dating stage, it's like this is

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Speaker 4: And it just shows that they don't respect your time.

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Speaker 4: Oh nothing annoys me more. Yeah, time is so precious.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, And people give you.

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Speaker 4: There, I would be a little bit worried.

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Speaker 6: retelling that story and then you're thinking like, oh, actually

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00:20:02,119 --> 00:20:03,919
Speaker 6: they fucked a bunch of other people and lied to

449
00:20:03,960 --> 00:20:05,440
Speaker 6: me about it, and like.

450
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Speaker 1: That's our origin story.

451
00:20:07,040 --> 00:20:09,440
Speaker 4: Like no one wants to bully me. So he was

452
00:20:09,520 --> 00:20:13,280
Speaker 4: saving the speech giving the bridesmaid speech.

453
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I was really shit with breaking up with like

454
00:20:15,720 --> 00:20:17,840
Speaker 2: my last boyfriend, Like we were so on and off

455
00:20:17,880 --> 00:20:20,160
Speaker 2: for so long, and like I would say to Sal,

456
00:20:20,160 --> 00:20:22,399
Speaker 2: I'd be like, oh, I imagine like the wedding speech

457
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Speaker 2: if we got married and sales like there wouldn't be

458
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Speaker 2: one so.

459
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Speaker 1: I couldn't speak. So you don't want to hear what

460
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Speaker 1: I have to say.

461
00:20:28,680 --> 00:20:32,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's got like a slideshow presentation of like twelve

462
00:20:32,040 --> 00:20:34,040
Speaker 2: reasons you two should not get married.

463
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Speaker 7: Number one I Hate You April eleven, twenty sixty twelve

464
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Speaker 7: fifty four.

465
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Speaker 1: Bit it is a bit like that, I definitely feel

466
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Speaker 1: like at the start. It also kind of tarnishes things,

467
00:20:49,600 --> 00:20:53,480
Speaker 1: like you will constantly think back to that time. I like,

468
00:20:53,800 --> 00:20:56,000
Speaker 1: I would love to think that people can change, and

469
00:20:56,040 --> 00:20:59,720
Speaker 1: like our whole podcast is about personal development, and you

470
00:20:59,760 --> 00:21:02,560
Speaker 1: know that you can change as a person, but there

471
00:21:02,560 --> 00:21:04,680
Speaker 1: definitely are key things where you just like.

472
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Speaker 2: Hm, I feel like as well, when you're watching a

473
00:21:07,640 --> 00:21:10,800
Speaker 2: friend go through that, Like I'm sure you've probably watched friends, Yeah,

474
00:21:10,880 --> 00:21:11,640
Speaker 2: date fuck boys.

475
00:21:11,680 --> 00:21:14,080
Speaker 3: You're just there and you're like, what are you doing.

476
00:21:14,600 --> 00:21:17,280
Speaker 2: There's this term that I definitely didn't coin, but I

477
00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:19,240
Speaker 2: don't know where it came from. And it's called dixand

478
00:21:19,240 --> 00:21:23,000
Speaker 2: and it's like quicksand can I swear? Yeah, Okay, cute dixan.

479
00:21:23,119 --> 00:21:27,359
Speaker 2: So so like you're stunning sand but it's dixan, So

480
00:21:27,400 --> 00:21:29,000
Speaker 2: you have to stop having sex with the person and

481
00:21:29,040 --> 00:21:29,879
Speaker 2: get out of the dixan.

482
00:21:30,560 --> 00:21:35,720
Speaker 1: Well, okay, so my next question, let's just say fuck boy.

483
00:21:35,840 --> 00:21:39,359
Speaker 1: You both you know said what it is. You do

484
00:21:39,720 --> 00:21:42,760
Speaker 1: like him, but you're like, do I just continue to

485
00:21:44,080 --> 00:21:45,520
Speaker 1: no oxytocin.

486
00:21:45,800 --> 00:21:49,000
Speaker 2: Oxytocin is like the chemical that releases in your brain.

487
00:21:48,800 --> 00:21:49,880
Speaker 3: When you have sex.

488
00:21:50,040 --> 00:21:51,840
Speaker 2: It's such a trick, and the more you have sex

489
00:21:51,880 --> 00:21:54,879
Speaker 2: with this person, the more like oxytocin will be released

490
00:21:54,960 --> 00:21:57,680
Speaker 2: and you'll relate that feeling to that person.

491
00:21:58,320 --> 00:21:59,400
Speaker 3: I always say that there's like.

492
00:21:59,320 --> 00:22:01,679
Speaker 2: A certain lim it on, like how many times I

493
00:22:01,680 --> 00:22:03,520
Speaker 2: can have sex with someone at six? By the way,

494
00:22:05,920 --> 00:22:08,760
Speaker 2: I get six because you're wondering, and then I'm like, ah,

495
00:22:08,800 --> 00:22:10,080
Speaker 2: she I got feelings for them.

496
00:22:10,960 --> 00:22:12,200
Speaker 4: Okay, so that's the formula.

497
00:22:12,480 --> 00:22:14,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like if I'm like seeing something you.

498
00:22:14,800 --> 00:22:18,440
Speaker 1: Don't want to have feelings, You're like five, I'm out.

499
00:22:19,560 --> 00:22:25,520
Speaker 7: Stand kicked the door and I'm like wrong, Yeah, you're

500
00:22:25,560 --> 00:22:31,240
Speaker 7: like West, I love that she's got you back.

501
00:22:31,520 --> 00:22:33,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's like get out of there, get.

502
00:22:33,800 --> 00:22:36,160
Speaker 3: Her out, get her out, Redhoy.

503
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Speaker 1: It's amazing that you figured that out though, and you're

504
00:22:41,680 --> 00:22:44,639
Speaker 1: very self aware about it too. Have you ever been

505
00:22:44,680 --> 00:22:48,000
Speaker 1: in that situation where you know exactly what's happening and.

506
00:22:47,960 --> 00:22:48,360
Speaker 6: You're like.

507
00:22:49,920 --> 00:22:52,040
Speaker 2: Sometimes I would just be like in my head and

508
00:22:52,080 --> 00:22:56,680
Speaker 2: I was like whatever, what my feelings are fully gonna

509
00:22:56,680 --> 00:22:58,040
Speaker 2: get her? And I was like fuck it.

510
00:22:58,600 --> 00:22:59,720
Speaker 3: I was like, let's do it.

511
00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:00,960
Speaker 4: Like when you drink.

512
00:23:01,200 --> 00:23:03,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, like you know you're gonna have the worst hungover,

513
00:23:03,960 --> 00:23:05,600
Speaker 1: but you're like, oh, look I've gone this far.

514
00:23:05,840 --> 00:23:06,640
Speaker 4: Yeah exactly.

515
00:23:07,560 --> 00:23:09,000
Speaker 3: So and I would be all night. So I'd be like,

516
00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:09,680
Speaker 3: anyway I'm going.

517
00:23:09,720 --> 00:23:10,560
Speaker 1: She'd be like where are you going?

518
00:23:10,600 --> 00:23:12,080
Speaker 3: I just look at her and she'd be like no,

519
00:23:13,080 --> 00:23:13,680
Speaker 3: I'd like.

520
00:23:14,320 --> 00:23:16,000
Speaker 4: Came down around a shop for me please.

521
00:23:18,200 --> 00:23:22,040
Speaker 2: She's just like there with like the sad saloon, and

522
00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:24,480
Speaker 2: I'm like I'm I literally have left sale, being like

523
00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:27,760
Speaker 2: I'm off to go and make a terrible decisione Yeah.

524
00:23:27,800 --> 00:23:30,239
Speaker 2: And so I was like she used to try and

525
00:23:30,280 --> 00:23:33,120
Speaker 2: be like no, don't like stop blah blah blah blah blah.

526
00:23:33,160 --> 00:23:35,200
Speaker 3: But at this point it's like, oh.

527
00:23:35,080 --> 00:23:37,320
Speaker 1: You've got to make your own decisions.

528
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Speaker 3: So that's the other thing.

529
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Speaker 2: If your friends dating a fuck boy, I would say like,

530
00:23:41,960 --> 00:23:46,199
Speaker 2: just don't get involved. Like you can to a certain extent,

531
00:23:46,560 --> 00:23:48,800
Speaker 2: but like the more you invest emotionally in it, the

532
00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:52,080
Speaker 2: more that relationship will start to come between, like your friendship.

533
00:23:52,280 --> 00:23:54,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, So it's exhausting, and then.

534
00:23:54,280 --> 00:23:55,760
Speaker 3: Your friends will just lie to you, like I would

535
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Speaker 3: like to out.

536
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Speaker 6: True to me, I would give advice and have like

537
00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:02,600
Speaker 6: a serious converse about it three times and then after

538
00:24:02,640 --> 00:24:03,920
Speaker 6: that like they're on their own.

539
00:24:03,960 --> 00:24:04,280
Speaker 4: Yeah.

540
00:24:04,440 --> 00:24:06,359
Speaker 6: But then like I would communicate to al, I'd be

541
00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:09,120
Speaker 6: like sick, but like I'm not going to give you advice. Yes,

542
00:24:09,320 --> 00:24:11,960
Speaker 6: like of course I'll be there for you, but like

543
00:24:12,520 --> 00:24:14,440
Speaker 6: I can give you the script of what I'll say

544
00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:16,639
Speaker 6: and you can like read over, like my opinion's not

545
00:24:16,640 --> 00:24:17,120
Speaker 6: going to change.

546
00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:21,680
Speaker 1: It's like that TikTok it is. And that's what I

547
00:24:21,720 --> 00:24:22,040
Speaker 1: would be.

548
00:24:22,040 --> 00:24:24,000
Speaker 2: I'd be in that situation, be like, this is a

549
00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:26,640
Speaker 2: bad decision whatever.

550
00:24:26,480 --> 00:24:30,800
Speaker 1: It's for the plot. That's what we're saying, Yeah, make

551
00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:31,600
Speaker 1: a bad decision.

552
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Speaker 6: Love.

553
00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:35,720
Speaker 1: Well, well, let's talk about because I was listening to

554
00:24:35,760 --> 00:24:38,280
Speaker 1: an episode where you guys were speaking about I actually

555
00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:41,080
Speaker 1: think you're speaking to someone else. But like red and

556
00:24:41,119 --> 00:24:44,280
Speaker 1: green flags in a relationship at the start.

557
00:24:44,119 --> 00:24:47,000
Speaker 6: Okay, so the green flags, green and red flags.

558
00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:48,680
Speaker 4: Let's do green first and then we'll go to red.

559
00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:52,520
Speaker 6: M So I think at the beginning of the relationship,

560
00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:56,000
Speaker 6: the green flag is if they're they show that they're

561
00:24:56,000 --> 00:24:58,600
Speaker 6: into you and you're not confused about that.

562
00:24:58,720 --> 00:24:59,240
Speaker 4: So simple.

563
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Speaker 6: Yeah, I love it because I think that so many

564
00:25:01,400 --> 00:25:02,040
Speaker 6: people are.

565
00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:07,480
Speaker 4: But like so many people by that though, like people

566
00:25:07,480 --> 00:25:07,840
Speaker 4: are like.

567
00:25:07,840 --> 00:25:09,679
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, but I don't know, Like one day he

568
00:25:09,760 --> 00:25:11,480
Speaker 6: treated me like this and then the other day didn't

569
00:25:11,480 --> 00:25:14,080
Speaker 6: hear from him for four days, and it's just like

570
00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:15,399
Speaker 6: it is that simple.

571
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Speaker 4: I think.

572
00:25:16,520 --> 00:25:19,480
Speaker 1: I feel like men are quite simple, and it's like

573
00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:22,840
Speaker 1: what you see is what you get exactly. So at

574
00:25:22,840 --> 00:25:25,440
Speaker 1: the start, if they're giving you those questionable thoughts, it's

575
00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:29,239
Speaker 1: like he's telling you what he how he feels, like

576
00:25:29,320 --> 00:25:30,480
Speaker 1: the famous oult.

577
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Speaker 3: If they wanted to, they.

578
00:25:31,320 --> 00:25:32,960
Speaker 1: Would yeah, yeah, exactly.

579
00:25:33,119 --> 00:25:34,960
Speaker 6: And again, like I think it's a good sign for

580
00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:38,560
Speaker 6: how they will communicate later down in the relationship, like

581
00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:41,240
Speaker 6: when you're having serious conversations, Like if they can't even

582
00:25:41,280 --> 00:25:44,160
Speaker 6: communicate to you that they are keen on you, how

583
00:25:44,160 --> 00:25:46,080
Speaker 6: are you going to have like a serious and complicated

584
00:25:46,119 --> 00:25:48,120
Speaker 6: relationship when you get into.

585
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Speaker 1: It interesting next screen, Vire, would you say, he goes no, go,

586
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Speaker 1: I didn't.

587
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Speaker 4: I was just gonna say, you just said communication.

588
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Speaker 1: Would you say that's a huge green flag of they

589
00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:03,520
Speaker 1: know how to communicate with you?

590
00:26:03,600 --> 00:26:06,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think yes, But like to communicate in the

591
00:26:06,400 --> 00:26:07,640
Speaker 2: same way, so.

592
00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:10,520
Speaker 4: Like some people yeah.

593
00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:12,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, So like I am not a big texter,

594
00:26:12,880 --> 00:26:14,800
Speaker 2: like I hate texting during the day. I hate being

595
00:26:14,840 --> 00:26:17,800
Speaker 2: on my phone, and so someone that you.

596
00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:23,280
Speaker 1: Were cooler, Yes I am not, especially where I've had

597
00:26:23,320 --> 00:26:24,119
Speaker 1: a few beverages.

598
00:26:24,359 --> 00:26:28,320
Speaker 3: I'm like, Hi, I like you. I much prefer a call.

599
00:26:28,800 --> 00:26:31,320
Speaker 1: Interesting, but I just hate texting all day.

600
00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:33,159
Speaker 3: So if someone was like texting.

601
00:26:32,760 --> 00:26:35,280
Speaker 2: Me all day, I'd be like, this is too much,

602
00:26:35,359 --> 00:26:38,280
Speaker 2: Like I'm overwhelmed. So like making sure that you're on

603
00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:40,760
Speaker 2: the same page with how you like to communicate yah,

604
00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:43,199
Speaker 2: and being like I just prefer, you know, like a

605
00:26:43,240 --> 00:26:45,000
Speaker 2: call at the end of the day, just be like, hey,

606
00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:46,879
Speaker 2: how's your day being bang bong done?

607
00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:49,240
Speaker 1: Almost like yeah, making sure you're on the same page.

608
00:26:49,119 --> 00:26:49,679
Speaker 4: Yeah, exactly.

609
00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:53,399
Speaker 6: So nobody's feelings are getting hurt. And I think another

610
00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:56,000
Speaker 6: green flag, which you kind of mentioned before, is making

611
00:26:56,000 --> 00:26:59,840
Speaker 6: sure that your love languages align. So if your love

612
00:26:59,840 --> 00:27:03,720
Speaker 6: lianguage is words of affirmation, but the other person doesn't

613
00:27:03,760 --> 00:27:06,479
Speaker 6: really like to talk about their feelings or you know,

614
00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:08,679
Speaker 6: wear their hard on their sleeve and they're more like

615
00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:12,200
Speaker 6: touchy feely, or they like to spend quality time with you,

616
00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:15,800
Speaker 6: like you're going to be left feeling unsatisfied with that

617
00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:17,840
Speaker 6: relationship if they're not telling you all the things that

618
00:27:17,880 --> 00:27:18,400
Speaker 6: you want to hear.

619
00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:21,440
Speaker 2: So I think that's really important too.

620
00:27:21,400 --> 00:27:23,120
Speaker 6: Like you can have different ones, but I think there

621
00:27:23,160 --> 00:27:25,080
Speaker 6: needs to be some that align.

622
00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:29,560
Speaker 1: Would you agree that that's a conversation like you would

623
00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:31,840
Speaker 1: want to have at the start of your relationship.

624
00:27:31,880 --> 00:27:33,760
Speaker 4: That's completely I think.

625
00:27:33,840 --> 00:27:36,560
Speaker 2: So that's always something that I throw out, and.

626
00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:39,080
Speaker 4: I think, like it's good. It's a good icebreaker as well.

627
00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:42,280
Speaker 6: Yes, I have a five minute quiz.

628
00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:45,720
Speaker 4: I just need you to feel this point. Yeah, yeah,

629
00:27:45,800 --> 00:27:46,119
Speaker 4: I'm not.

630
00:27:46,280 --> 00:27:48,840
Speaker 3: It's more of a warning, like my love language is physical.

631
00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:50,440
Speaker 2: Touch, so I will try to crawl inside your skin,

632
00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:53,680
Speaker 2: like I will be like I need to be touching

633
00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:56,560
Speaker 2: you all times the git Yeah exactly.

634
00:27:56,560 --> 00:27:58,520
Speaker 6: I feel like it's the twenty twenty two version of

635
00:27:58,560 --> 00:28:02,040
Speaker 6: what's Your Sign? So people are used to it now

636
00:28:02,080 --> 00:28:04,040
Speaker 6: as well, So I think it's a good icebreaker on

637
00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:07,040
Speaker 6: a first date as well, without it being too serious.

638
00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:09,480
Speaker 3: But it's good to know what your own.

639
00:28:09,960 --> 00:28:11,879
Speaker 2: It's good to know what their love language is and

640
00:28:11,920 --> 00:28:15,399
Speaker 2: your love language is, because for example, like sours is

641
00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:19,000
Speaker 2: all of them, she's very needy. Yeah, it's exhausting being

642
00:28:19,040 --> 00:28:20,080
Speaker 2: her best friend.

643
00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:20,560
Speaker 3: I love you.

644
00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:24,400
Speaker 2: But so for example, if you're dating someone, like when

645
00:28:24,440 --> 00:28:26,639
Speaker 2: I date someone, my love language is physical touch. That's

646
00:28:26,680 --> 00:28:28,359
Speaker 2: how I want to be loved and that's how I

647
00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:32,120
Speaker 2: show love. But if their love language is acts of service,

648
00:28:32,840 --> 00:28:36,200
Speaker 2: then they're not going to feel loved when I'm giving

649
00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:38,400
Speaker 2: them physical touch because that's not how they.

650
00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:41,040
Speaker 4: They will not do anything for them. So I buy

651
00:28:41,080 --> 00:28:42,160
Speaker 4: me a coffee now.

652
00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:44,840
Speaker 2: But if I like, you know, go get petrol, go

653
00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:46,440
Speaker 2: in and get them a kit Cat because I know

654
00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:49,040
Speaker 2: that their favorite like chocolate, is a kit Cat.

655
00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:49,760
Speaker 3: And bring that to them.

656
00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:52,120
Speaker 2: That is going to make them feel so much more

657
00:28:52,160 --> 00:28:54,640
Speaker 2: loved than like cuddling on the couch for half an hour. Yeah,

658
00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:57,840
Speaker 2: so understanding, Like, so that is it's so important. It's

659
00:28:57,840 --> 00:28:58,440
Speaker 2: not important.

660
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Speaker 1: It's funny because yeah, I've been with him for like

661
00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:04,320
Speaker 1: ten years and we literally did the test the other

662
00:29:04,400 --> 00:29:05,720
Speaker 1: day and I did not.

663
00:29:06,040 --> 00:29:09,160
Speaker 4: Guess what was yours. Mine was acts of service.

664
00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:12,520
Speaker 1: So anytime you because time is such a thing for

665
00:29:12,600 --> 00:29:14,800
Speaker 1: me if I just feel so overwhelmed and busy most

666
00:29:14,840 --> 00:29:16,880
Speaker 1: of the time that if you can do something that

667
00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:20,680
Speaker 1: gives me back my time, I'm like, oh, love, love,

668
00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:24,040
Speaker 1: what was his His is words of affirmation, which I

669
00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:25,120
Speaker 1: would not have picked.

670
00:29:25,520 --> 00:29:25,760
Speaker 6: Wow.

671
00:29:26,120 --> 00:29:28,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then like physical touch after that, like a

672
00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:31,720
Speaker 1: lot of men. But it's just so interesting because I

673
00:29:31,760 --> 00:29:34,200
Speaker 1: didn't know that, and it was just it's funny now

674
00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:37,040
Speaker 1: that I think of it, though, he's so huge on

675
00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:40,200
Speaker 1: talking to me, and I'm just like, oh, I've like

676
00:29:40,400 --> 00:29:41,760
Speaker 1: never given him that.

677
00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:44,720
Speaker 4: I'm not a huge like I love you.

678
00:29:44,880 --> 00:29:46,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was he is.

679
00:29:47,040 --> 00:29:48,200
Speaker 3: You're like, you're hot, babe.

680
00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:54,080
Speaker 1: Cas.

681
00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:56,560
Speaker 3: He like says the most like beautiful thing to you,

682
00:29:56,600 --> 00:29:57,080
Speaker 3: and you're.

683
00:29:56,880 --> 00:29:59,040
Speaker 1: Like, kid, yeah, your wedding vows.

684
00:29:59,080 --> 00:30:01,200
Speaker 3: It's like he has a big and you're like same,

685
00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:02,560
Speaker 3: You're like.

686
00:30:04,600 --> 00:30:05,240
Speaker 4: What he said?

687
00:30:06,280 --> 00:30:09,000
Speaker 2: Can we just replay done?

688
00:30:09,160 --> 00:30:10,840
Speaker 4: So yeah, I think that's so important.

689
00:30:10,840 --> 00:30:14,479
Speaker 1: But in saying that, just off the communication side, I

690
00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:18,040
Speaker 1: remember when I first met Tim, his communication was quite

691
00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:20,840
Speaker 1: shocking that he almost didn't speak a lot.

692
00:30:21,240 --> 00:30:23,920
Speaker 4: And I like, I've got a podcast. I love to chat,

693
00:30:24,600 --> 00:30:25,080
Speaker 4: so I'd.

694
00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:27,880
Speaker 8: Be like, I'd be.

695
00:30:27,840 --> 00:30:30,440
Speaker 1: Like, talk to me about stuff. Yeah, And then in

696
00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:33,280
Speaker 1: saying that, though it was such a huge thing, I

697
00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:37,680
Speaker 1: had to constantly be like, I love talking, I love

698
00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:44,320
Speaker 1: talking about deep tocket topics, pockets, deep my deep pockets.

699
00:30:45,880 --> 00:30:51,680
Speaker 4: I love some deep pockets talking my love language.

700
00:30:53,360 --> 00:30:56,280
Speaker 1: I love deep topics and I had to like instill

701
00:30:56,320 --> 00:30:58,800
Speaker 1: that and then for him to realize and then yeah.

702
00:30:58,720 --> 00:30:59,240
Speaker 4: Build on that.

703
00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:02,160
Speaker 6: But I think you two were also so young when

704
00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:05,240
Speaker 6: you first met, right, so he was also probably like

705
00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:08,600
Speaker 6: growing into himself and who he was and being very comfortable,

706
00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:10,960
Speaker 6: whereas I guess like you have to take you know,

707
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:13,680
Speaker 6: context is key, as we always say, because if it's

708
00:31:13,720 --> 00:31:16,720
Speaker 6: with a thirty year old, you're like, nah, bro, like

709
00:31:16,760 --> 00:31:18,680
Speaker 6: you should know yourself and you should be able to

710
00:31:18,680 --> 00:31:21,640
Speaker 6: speak your truth by then, and you would hope is that.

711
00:31:21,720 --> 00:31:27,040
Speaker 1: Something like you look for in looking at how this

712
00:31:27,200 --> 00:31:30,320
Speaker 1: is I say, not yourself like a new person.

713
00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:31,840
Speaker 4: Are you kind of.

714
00:31:31,600 --> 00:31:33,719
Speaker 1: Being like, oh yeah, like you're thirty, you should kind

715
00:31:33,720 --> 00:31:35,280
Speaker 1: of how you have your shit sorted?

716
00:31:36,040 --> 00:31:36,720
Speaker 3: Yes and no.

717
00:31:37,120 --> 00:31:39,840
Speaker 2: I think it kind of depends because if you go

718
00:31:39,920 --> 00:31:42,240
Speaker 2: in with expectations or you go in with the type,

719
00:31:42,720 --> 00:31:46,120
Speaker 2: you're kind of limiting yourself to learning within that relationship.

720
00:31:46,560 --> 00:31:51,200
Speaker 2: So Jay Sheddy on his podcast, he spoke about how

721
00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:55,120
Speaker 2: good quality relationships aren't ones that last but learn, so

722
00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:57,480
Speaker 2: you kind of and that kind of sounds like what's

723
00:31:57,520 --> 00:32:00,160
Speaker 2: happened with you and Tim is like you learned to,

724
00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:04,120
Speaker 2: you know, have deeper conversations within your relationship rather than

725
00:32:04,200 --> 00:32:07,000
Speaker 2: like going in and expecting them to have like all

726
00:32:07,080 --> 00:32:09,880
Speaker 2: ticks down the line. That's just like not going to happen,

727
00:32:09,880 --> 00:32:12,160
Speaker 2: and it's unachievable, and I'm constantly going to be like

728
00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:14,640
Speaker 2: why A my finger and I an't down anyone. It's

729
00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:20,120
Speaker 2: because they don't exist, no one. It's Henry Cavilly if

730
00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:20,680
Speaker 2: you're listening.

731
00:32:21,840 --> 00:32:23,160
Speaker 4: I think he listens to my podcast.

732
00:32:23,160 --> 00:32:24,960
Speaker 3: I don't know if he does on our podcast.

733
00:32:25,000 --> 00:32:26,520
Speaker 2: I was like, guys, send this to Henry cavill and

734
00:32:26,520 --> 00:32:27,360
Speaker 2: we'll send you a jump up.

735
00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:28,560
Speaker 3: And people did it, and.

736
00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:29,120
Speaker 4: I was like, Bob.

737
00:32:29,840 --> 00:32:31,280
Speaker 3: Then I found out he had a girlfriend.

738
00:32:34,040 --> 00:32:38,240
Speaker 2: I've got two broke chicks for all, right. But yeah,

739
00:32:38,280 --> 00:32:40,760
Speaker 2: so I do kind of look for certain things and

740
00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:44,320
Speaker 2: there will be like certain little red flags like but

741
00:32:44,360 --> 00:32:45,640
Speaker 2: that's just kind of what I want.

742
00:32:45,720 --> 00:32:47,520
Speaker 3: Like if you know they didn't have a job, I'd.

743
00:32:47,440 --> 00:32:50,240
Speaker 2: Be like, okay, like what are you doing? Yeah, and

744
00:32:50,240 --> 00:32:53,480
Speaker 2: at like a certain age context, yeah, yeah, definitely.

745
00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:57,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, So like, well, let's chat about red flags and

746
00:32:57,040 --> 00:32:59,880
Speaker 1: give me five red flags in a relationship.

747
00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:01,560
Speaker 3: You're like, nah, oh my.

748
00:33:01,480 --> 00:33:02,440
Speaker 2: God, a selfish lover.

749
00:33:02,600 --> 00:33:03,680
Speaker 3: I hate a selfish lover.

750
00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:06,600
Speaker 2: What do so like you know that doesn't know how

751
00:33:06,640 --> 00:33:11,120
Speaker 2: to like just only cares about like they're they're all

752
00:33:11,160 --> 00:33:14,160
Speaker 2: gasm you know, those guys that are just like I

753
00:33:14,240 --> 00:33:16,600
Speaker 2: just like don't like going down on girls, but like

754
00:33:16,680 --> 00:33:18,080
Speaker 2: I would really like it if you could give me

755
00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:18,640
Speaker 2: a blowjob.

756
00:33:18,760 --> 00:33:21,240
Speaker 3: Get the fuck out of my bed, now, get out.

757
00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:22,360
Speaker 1: That's fine.

758
00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:23,520
Speaker 3: If you don't want to do.

759
00:33:23,400 --> 00:33:26,840
Speaker 2: That, it's not but like I would just be like nah,

760
00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:29,200
Speaker 2: or like they just don't really care about full play

761
00:33:29,320 --> 00:33:29,840
Speaker 2: or anything.

762
00:33:29,920 --> 00:33:31,000
Speaker 3: It's just like they.

763
00:33:30,920 --> 00:33:33,360
Speaker 1: Almost don't care about your sexual love language.

764
00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:34,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, we all have them.

765
00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:37,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like they just just like yeah, they're just there

766
00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:40,840
Speaker 2: to get off and then afterwards they like don't talk

767
00:33:40,880 --> 00:33:45,120
Speaker 2: to you or like give you a cuddle or whatever.

768
00:33:44,800 --> 00:33:46,600
Speaker 3: And they're just like, well that was fun, and I'm.

769
00:33:46,440 --> 00:33:49,000
Speaker 4: Like ill, yeah, you know, okay, I'm with you.

770
00:33:49,120 --> 00:33:52,960
Speaker 2: Yeah that and then if they don't like listen to you.

771
00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:56,120
Speaker 3: So if they we all love to talk. I love

772
00:33:56,200 --> 00:33:58,959
Speaker 3: telling stories, great storyteller.

773
00:33:59,360 --> 00:34:04,160
Speaker 4: Drama about it, fine, fucking yes I am.

774
00:34:04,600 --> 00:34:08,160
Speaker 2: But like if they don't listen to like my stories,

775
00:34:08,239 --> 00:34:10,520
Speaker 2: or if they don't actually have an interest in me

776
00:34:10,719 --> 00:34:12,560
Speaker 2: or my life and it's they just love to talk

777
00:34:12,600 --> 00:34:13,440
Speaker 2: about themselves.

778
00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:15,680
Speaker 3: Then I'm kind of like I hate that.

779
00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:17,759
Speaker 2: I will sit there and I will pay attention, like

780
00:34:17,800 --> 00:34:20,440
Speaker 2: if I ask someone questions because I love being like,

781
00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:21,040
Speaker 2: oh if.

782
00:34:20,960 --> 00:34:22,319
Speaker 3: You were a fruit, what would you be Like?

783
00:34:22,400 --> 00:34:24,560
Speaker 2: I just like I love just random shit like that.

784
00:34:24,960 --> 00:34:27,359
Speaker 2: I will pay attention to if they ask the question back.

785
00:34:28,040 --> 00:34:29,000
Speaker 2: So true.

786
00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:31,040
Speaker 4: I just with friends too.

787
00:34:31,360 --> 00:34:35,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, very are you even interested or is this a

788
00:34:35,160 --> 00:34:37,560
Speaker 1: one way street? Yeah, because I tend to be someone

789
00:34:37,560 --> 00:34:38,760
Speaker 1: who asked twenty one questions.

790
00:34:39,080 --> 00:34:43,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, so I'm so interested. I were't furious. Yeah.

791
00:34:43,120 --> 00:34:45,600
Speaker 2: I had a partner that was like, oh, I love you,

792
00:34:45,680 --> 00:34:47,279
Speaker 2: I just don't know if I like you, And I

793
00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:50,399
Speaker 2: was like, that is probably one of the meanest things

794
00:34:50,440 --> 00:34:54,240
Speaker 2: anyone's ever said to me, because I know, like I'm

795
00:34:54,400 --> 00:34:56,799
Speaker 2: a certain personality type, Like I know I'm loud, I

796
00:34:56,880 --> 00:35:00,160
Speaker 2: know I'm larry, and I'm like incredibly funny, So.

797
00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:01,680
Speaker 4: I think that he's modest.

798
00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:03,280
Speaker 1: I know I'm a catch.

799
00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:05,719
Speaker 2: Like one time, like he like had boys over at

800
00:35:05,719 --> 00:35:07,279
Speaker 2: his and he was like, yeah, just calm, it's fine,

801
00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:09,160
Speaker 2: Like you get along with everyone anyway. So I went

802
00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:11,320
Speaker 2: over and I was like really like on the money.

803
00:35:11,400 --> 00:35:13,759
Speaker 2: I was like written, but he was mainly the butt

804
00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:16,000
Speaker 2: of all the jokes, but like take it, It's fine.

805
00:35:16,160 --> 00:35:17,600
Speaker 2: And then he was like, can you not like you're

806
00:35:17,640 --> 00:35:19,360
Speaker 2: at boys not like you're not supposed to be the

807
00:35:19,440 --> 00:35:19,920
Speaker 2: funny one.

808
00:35:19,920 --> 00:35:25,120
Speaker 1: And I was like, oh boohoo, Like yeah, so if

809
00:35:25,160 --> 00:35:29,120
Speaker 1: you're funnier, like yeah, funnier exactly.

810
00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:29,920
Speaker 4: I'm not going to go easy on you.

811
00:35:30,160 --> 00:35:32,920
Speaker 2: Yeah. People that are like are also too dependent on

812
00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:36,480
Speaker 2: you to just either like make the plans or like

813
00:35:36,680 --> 00:35:38,239
Speaker 2: they need to lean on you too much because like

814
00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:39,880
Speaker 2: I don't know if you guys could pick up on it,

815
00:35:39,920 --> 00:35:41,799
Speaker 2: but I'm a bit of an extra it, so like

816
00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:46,719
Speaker 2: I like ye all bat so I like, like, you know,

817
00:35:46,800 --> 00:35:48,880
Speaker 2: being able to bring them to a party, for example,

818
00:35:48,920 --> 00:35:50,960
Speaker 2: and then being like all right, see you in an

819
00:35:50,960 --> 00:35:53,080
Speaker 2: hour and split up and.

820
00:35:53,040 --> 00:35:56,200
Speaker 1: Just go like have a my one effect. So you

821
00:35:56,239 --> 00:35:57,799
Speaker 1: could put him in a room and he can talk

822
00:35:57,840 --> 00:36:00,799
Speaker 1: to anyone. And I went see most of the night.

823
00:36:01,040 --> 00:36:04,000
Speaker 1: And that's one thing I've had friends with boyfriends that

824
00:36:04,000 --> 00:36:07,160
Speaker 1: they've got to like sit beside them, and I'm just like, oh,

825
00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:07,839
Speaker 1: I hate it.

826
00:36:08,000 --> 00:36:09,840
Speaker 4: I lived together. I didn't need to be beside you

827
00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:10,279
Speaker 4: at the party.

828
00:36:11,800 --> 00:36:14,160
Speaker 2: The red flag is like when they when you're just

829
00:36:14,239 --> 00:36:17,560
Speaker 2: their entire universe, which like sounds like a good thing,

830
00:36:17,600 --> 00:36:20,360
Speaker 2: but it's not healthy. You shouldn't be like they should

831
00:36:20,360 --> 00:36:22,160
Speaker 2: have their own life and you should be like vibing

832
00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:25,279
Speaker 2: alongside it. But if they just like wanted to make

833
00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:27,520
Speaker 2: me their entire universe, I would just be like.

834
00:36:27,520 --> 00:36:30,400
Speaker 4: Hugh, I can't break. Yeah, it's not sustainable.

835
00:36:30,640 --> 00:36:34,000
Speaker 6: I think kind of related to that is anyone controlling.

836
00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:37,439
Speaker 6: So if you're out on a girl's night and they're

837
00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:40,080
Speaker 6: like blowing up your phone being like where are you

838
00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:43,399
Speaker 6: blah blah, or you know, like they try to make

839
00:36:43,440 --> 00:36:46,799
Speaker 6: decisions for you or aren't supportive.

840
00:36:46,400 --> 00:36:48,080
Speaker 4: Of you, or if they comment on what you were.

841
00:36:48,280 --> 00:36:50,320
Speaker 2: Oh, I was just about to say that if a

842
00:36:50,400 --> 00:36:53,319
Speaker 2: guy I've had that been like because I've got like

843
00:36:53,680 --> 00:36:57,920
Speaker 2: giant boobies, Like they're literally huge, so annoying, but like

844
00:36:58,280 --> 00:37:01,319
Speaker 2: half the time if I wear anything that's fitted, it

845
00:37:01,400 --> 00:37:04,000
Speaker 2: will like to see them. Yeah, like and they'd be like, oh,

846
00:37:04,040 --> 00:37:05,960
Speaker 2: are you're gonna wear that? Are you actually wearing that?

847
00:37:06,040 --> 00:37:08,040
Speaker 2: And I was like, yeah, because my boobs look great.

848
00:37:08,120 --> 00:37:09,959
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, they look good.

849
00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:12,960
Speaker 2: But then like on the other hand, I've like like

850
00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:15,080
Speaker 2: I'm dating someone now and I like put something and

851
00:37:15,120 --> 00:37:17,160
Speaker 2: they're like, fuck, you look good, and they were just

852
00:37:17,239 --> 00:37:19,200
Speaker 2: like they're like I can't wait for just like everyone

853
00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:21,480
Speaker 2: to know that like your mind. Yeah, you know, like

854
00:37:21,600 --> 00:37:24,000
Speaker 2: that's like being like like I didn't care if anyone

855
00:37:24,040 --> 00:37:25,279
Speaker 2: post to you because at the end of the night,

856
00:37:25,320 --> 00:37:26,000
Speaker 2: you're coming home with me.

857
00:37:26,520 --> 00:37:29,320
Speaker 4: That's the energy. Yeah, yeah, that's the vibe.

858
00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:29,680
Speaker 2: Yeah.

859
00:37:29,760 --> 00:37:32,920
Speaker 6: So I think like insecurity as well, like jealous jealousy.

860
00:37:34,160 --> 00:37:35,319
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't have time friends.

861
00:37:35,360 --> 00:37:38,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, jealousy is so like sixteen and getting jealous about

862
00:37:38,520 --> 00:37:40,200
Speaker 2: someone else being like a snapchat best friend.

863
00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:42,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, I would get the upset that I'm not.

864
00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:43,719
Speaker 2: Gonna lie I like this boy, And then there was

865
00:37:43,760 --> 00:37:45,320
Speaker 2: this other cheek that was always above me on a

866
00:37:45,360 --> 00:37:47,040
Speaker 2: Snapchat and I was like, I don't know.

867
00:37:47,080 --> 00:37:49,680
Speaker 6: I think that is a bit of a red flag though, right,

868
00:37:50,120 --> 00:37:52,480
Speaker 6: just with mainly with Snapchat, Like it's fine for your

869
00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:55,440
Speaker 6: friends to have female friends, Like, if anything, I think

870
00:37:55,440 --> 00:37:58,239
Speaker 6: that's preferable because it shows that they have like some

871
00:37:58,400 --> 00:38:01,040
Speaker 6: level of maturity to yeah, a friendship with someone of

872
00:38:01,080 --> 00:38:04,440
Speaker 6: the opposite sex, but snapchats, you know, wishy washy, But

873
00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:06,160
Speaker 6: also who's still using Snapchat.

874
00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:08,080
Speaker 1: To say I don't have snapchats, so I think that's

875
00:38:08,120 --> 00:38:09,560
Speaker 1: what like teenagers use these days.

876
00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:11,799
Speaker 2: I tried to snapchat me like maybe a month ago,

877
00:38:11,840 --> 00:38:14,040
Speaker 2: and I was like, what's happening.

878
00:38:14,120 --> 00:38:14,880
Speaker 3: I don't know how to use this.

879
00:38:15,120 --> 00:38:16,799
Speaker 2: I saw my bit mojie for like the first time

880
00:38:16,840 --> 00:38:17,719
Speaker 2: in about seven years.

881
00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:18,520
Speaker 4: I was like, oh my girl.

882
00:38:20,480 --> 00:38:21,880
Speaker 3: I was like, I did not look at that.

883
00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:25,359
Speaker 2: You know how you would make an avatar and it

884
00:38:25,400 --> 00:38:27,719
Speaker 2: does not look like oh no, you'd be like, yeah, sure,

885
00:38:27,719 --> 00:38:29,120
Speaker 2: I look like that. I've got green eyes.

886
00:38:31,280 --> 00:38:32,120
Speaker 4: Yeah it was a girl.

887
00:38:32,560 --> 00:38:39,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, guys, let's be honest. When we're not sleeping, we're

888
00:38:40,080 --> 00:38:43,520
Speaker 1: pretty much our worst selves. When I wasn't sleeping as

889
00:38:43,560 --> 00:38:47,319
Speaker 1: a newborn, I turned into just the worst. And she's

890
00:38:47,360 --> 00:38:51,239
Speaker 1: sleeping now. But it just made me realize how important

891
00:38:51,320 --> 00:38:55,480
Speaker 1: sleep is. And that's why my absolute holy Grail and

892
00:38:55,760 --> 00:38:58,960
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Speaker 1: get back into the episode. Well, I was gonna ask

919
00:40:32,960 --> 00:40:35,000
Speaker 1: you guys, like what are your biggest X. But I

920
00:40:35,000 --> 00:40:36,000
Speaker 1: feel like we just covered them.

921
00:40:36,040 --> 00:40:37,160
Speaker 3: Oh my god, no, I've got so many.

922
00:40:37,960 --> 00:40:41,160
Speaker 6: I feel like there's a difference between red flags and X.

923
00:40:41,200 --> 00:40:43,680
Speaker 6: We learn it on the podcast with Georgia Grace. So

924
00:40:43,719 --> 00:40:45,759
Speaker 6: I think those were actual red flags. Now we can

925
00:40:45,760 --> 00:40:47,080
Speaker 6: get into the petty IX.

926
00:40:47,280 --> 00:40:52,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, so red flags are like legit, this is actual.

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00:40:52,600 --> 00:40:55,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, IX are what They're just like they're like a

928
00:40:55,200 --> 00:40:57,960
Speaker 2: smaller thing that I'm like, I can't see you naked anymore.

929
00:40:59,000 --> 00:41:03,319
Speaker 2: That yeah, okay, so when okay, the idea of them

930
00:41:03,360 --> 00:41:08,200
Speaker 2: pointing their toes just like in any situation, just like

931
00:41:09,040 --> 00:41:11,479
Speaker 2: just like you imagine they're like lying on the bed

932
00:41:11,680 --> 00:41:14,560
Speaker 2: and then they just point their toes. I fucking hate it.

933
00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:18,359
Speaker 2: Like I hate the idea of it, like imagine like

934
00:41:18,360 --> 00:41:21,479
Speaker 2: like no, it's so grim that and.

935
00:41:21,400 --> 00:41:25,200
Speaker 1: Then trying to think anyone do that because I just

936
00:41:25,239 --> 00:41:26,200
Speaker 1: think about it.

937
00:41:26,760 --> 00:41:29,040
Speaker 3: I'll just think it because then one time this.

938
00:41:29,200 --> 00:41:30,560
Speaker 2: Like someone was trying to set me up with a

939
00:41:30,640 --> 00:41:32,960
Speaker 2: dancer and then I was like and then I just

940
00:41:33,000 --> 00:41:36,320
Speaker 2: pictured them pointing their toes and I was like just off,

941
00:41:36,760 --> 00:41:38,239
Speaker 2: Like imagine when they finished and they're like.

942
00:41:41,440 --> 00:41:41,960
Speaker 4: Just boring.

943
00:41:42,040 --> 00:41:48,839
Speaker 2: I'm like, nah, I can't broke calls to match. I'm like,

944
00:41:49,000 --> 00:41:51,360
Speaker 2: not on, not on that, And then the idea of

945
00:41:51,360 --> 00:41:54,160
Speaker 2: them like chasing after a ball, but then like trying

946
00:41:54,160 --> 00:41:55,240
Speaker 2: to pick it up but they miss.

947
00:41:56,640 --> 00:41:58,480
Speaker 3: They're trying to pick up the ball and.

948
00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:01,240
Speaker 2: They're like chasing after and you're like a dog.

949
00:42:01,960 --> 00:42:05,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, like like a tennis ball, like a ping pong ball.

950
00:42:05,400 --> 00:42:07,560
Speaker 2: Oh god no, that's grimm.

951
00:42:07,600 --> 00:42:10,000
Speaker 3: And then the other one is and I didn't think

952
00:42:10,000 --> 00:42:10,440
Speaker 3: of this one.

953
00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:13,160
Speaker 2: I saw it somewhere, but it really hit when they

954
00:42:13,239 --> 00:42:17,040
Speaker 2: like run out of bird and it doesn't move, like

955
00:42:17,120 --> 00:42:18,840
Speaker 2: if there was like a seagull and they're like go

956
00:42:19,000 --> 00:42:21,279
Speaker 2: and I was like, what are you doing?

957
00:42:21,600 --> 00:42:23,879
Speaker 4: Sea girls like not even yeah, but this is not.

958
00:42:23,880 --> 00:42:26,759
Speaker 1: It Yeah, so true though.

959
00:42:26,880 --> 00:42:29,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, those are like like the three of the main

960
00:42:29,880 --> 00:42:32,839
Speaker 2: ones that I think. Oh also if they like if

961
00:42:32,880 --> 00:42:34,759
Speaker 2: you're in a public space like at the beach and

962
00:42:34,760 --> 00:42:36,920
Speaker 2: then they start playing music out loud.

963
00:42:39,080 --> 00:42:40,879
Speaker 4: I ha baruss.

964
00:42:42,040 --> 00:42:42,799
Speaker 2: And it's probably like.

965
00:42:42,800 --> 00:42:45,520
Speaker 3: Fucking levels by Vichy and I'm like turn it off.

966
00:42:45,800 --> 00:42:50,439
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, it is, so every time.

967
00:42:50,640 --> 00:42:53,120
Speaker 4: It's never like fucking queen I want. Yeah, Like if

968
00:42:53,160 --> 00:42:54,400
Speaker 4: it was a c DC, I'd.

969
00:42:54,239 --> 00:42:56,000
Speaker 3: Be like, you know, I'll let it slide.

970
00:42:56,160 --> 00:42:59,400
Speaker 6: But yeah, yeah, it's so gross. My first one is

971
00:42:59,440 --> 00:43:02,239
Speaker 6: a bad hand and shake. Yeah, so then you know immediately,

972
00:43:02,440 --> 00:43:05,960
Speaker 6: especially when it's like the wet fish soft handshake that's

973
00:43:06,080 --> 00:43:09,959
Speaker 6: just like has no conviction to it. I really hate

974
00:43:10,000 --> 00:43:14,040
Speaker 6: that when people are rude to wait stuff that's my can't.

975
00:43:14,320 --> 00:43:15,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, I can't.

976
00:43:15,520 --> 00:43:19,839
Speaker 6: Like one time I was a teenager because I'm watch

977
00:43:20,760 --> 00:43:23,000
Speaker 6: for four Gris and there was like, you know, some

978
00:43:23,120 --> 00:43:24,799
Speaker 6: guy that I was, you know, going on a little

979
00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:28,359
Speaker 6: date with, and he went like and clicked at the

980
00:43:28,360 --> 00:43:29,839
Speaker 6: weight stuff and I literally was.

981
00:43:29,760 --> 00:43:34,080
Speaker 4: Like, I'm going he was also like fifteen, so what

982
00:43:34,160 --> 00:43:35,640
Speaker 4: was he doing so rude?

983
00:43:35,680 --> 00:43:39,600
Speaker 3: It's like, mum, can I have my pocket money backers?

984
00:43:39,920 --> 00:43:42,440
Speaker 4: That's probably where it was. And then I think the

985
00:43:42,480 --> 00:43:44,759
Speaker 4: third one for me is bad taste in music, So

986
00:43:44,840 --> 00:43:46,160
Speaker 4: again a beachy.

987
00:43:46,040 --> 00:43:49,160
Speaker 2: Sorry, Oh I have another one really try lip bad

988
00:43:50,719 --> 00:43:52,839
Speaker 2: just put some lip balm on Earth, the idea of

989
00:43:52,840 --> 00:43:55,200
Speaker 2: like kissing like krusty flaky Earth, but.

990
00:43:55,160 --> 00:43:57,280
Speaker 4: Also watching a man apply lip balm.

991
00:43:57,320 --> 00:44:02,279
Speaker 1: Just I always like I was.

992
00:44:03,000 --> 00:44:06,120
Speaker 6: Like that not doing it and I coming out with

993
00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:07,360
Speaker 6: like kissable lips.

994
00:44:07,760 --> 00:44:08,160
Speaker 3: Yeah.

995
00:44:08,320 --> 00:44:11,920
Speaker 1: I do love so tim Odie recently so he's thirty,

996
00:44:12,200 --> 00:44:15,439
Speaker 1: only recently has like started. I think he's like really,

997
00:44:15,560 --> 00:44:17,439
Speaker 1: he's thirty and he's like I need to start looking,

998
00:44:18,680 --> 00:44:23,040
Speaker 1: and he like has moisturizer. I love it because I'm like,

999
00:44:23,040 --> 00:44:24,600
Speaker 1: oh my god, he's taking care of himself.

1000
00:44:24,880 --> 00:44:27,160
Speaker 4: That's like, what's the opposite to an neck that's hot?

1001
00:44:27,440 --> 00:44:28,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's heart turn off.

1002
00:44:28,960 --> 00:44:30,160
Speaker 4: That's a turn off. That's an end.

1003
00:44:30,320 --> 00:44:33,840
Speaker 2: Yeah did we just make that?

1004
00:44:34,600 --> 00:44:34,960
Speaker 1: Damn?

1005
00:44:36,239 --> 00:44:36,800
Speaker 3: What are your it?

1006
00:44:37,200 --> 00:44:40,359
Speaker 1: It's so weird because like I haven't dated for so long.

1007
00:44:41,120 --> 00:44:42,840
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think, do I have any it?

1008
00:44:43,239 --> 00:44:43,959
Speaker 4: I feel like.

1009
00:44:44,080 --> 00:44:50,239
Speaker 2: If they pointed their toes, I agree, that's a big yeah, like,

1010
00:44:52,120 --> 00:44:54,080
Speaker 2: well this is done.

1011
00:44:54,760 --> 00:44:59,480
Speaker 1: Sorry, take an ivy. I think the big one for

1012
00:44:59,640 --> 00:45:04,600
Speaker 1: me and men is like how they treat others around them,

1013
00:45:04,920 --> 00:45:07,359
Speaker 1: just like says so much to their character. Big one

1014
00:45:07,400 --> 00:45:10,120
Speaker 1: for me is like if yeah, my favorite thing is

1015
00:45:10,120 --> 00:45:12,799
Speaker 1: how Tim can literally just be so dependent and do

1016
00:45:12,880 --> 00:45:17,680
Speaker 1: things by himself and also talk to anyone. So I

1017
00:45:17,719 --> 00:45:20,120
Speaker 1: feel like I've just met so many guys and their

1018
00:45:20,160 --> 00:45:24,319
Speaker 1: boyfriends and where they talk it's like so awkward or

1019
00:45:24,400 --> 00:45:27,120
Speaker 1: like yeah, don't make you feel very comfortable. That's like

1020
00:45:27,200 --> 00:45:31,320
Speaker 1: a huge thing of like if they can't hold a conversation, yeah,

1021
00:45:31,600 --> 00:45:32,239
Speaker 1: probably not as.

1022
00:45:32,120 --> 00:45:40,480
Speaker 4: Petty as you guys. But I think literally, now that I.

1023
00:45:40,440 --> 00:45:43,319
Speaker 1: Think of that, I'm like, that's so it's embarrassing what

1024
00:45:43,360 --> 00:45:46,759
Speaker 1: I mean. Also, I'm going to be super sexist here too,

1025
00:45:46,880 --> 00:45:49,440
Speaker 1: and like if they can't do like manly things like

1026
00:45:49,719 --> 00:45:52,959
Speaker 1: paying a photo for like you know, Tim is such

1027
00:45:52,960 --> 00:45:56,120
Speaker 1: a hands on, like handyman as the biggest turn one,

1028
00:45:56,520 --> 00:45:58,319
Speaker 1: and I think about all the time if like my

1029
00:45:58,400 --> 00:45:59,320
Speaker 1: husband couldn't do that.

1030
00:45:59,480 --> 00:46:01,680
Speaker 2: You're there, my globes in the house, He's like, oh,

1031
00:46:01,960 --> 00:46:02,359
Speaker 2: what's out?

1032
00:46:04,320 --> 00:46:06,920
Speaker 1: And I love the fact that he's like, yeah, I

1033
00:46:06,960 --> 00:46:10,000
Speaker 1: can just like do those things. Because I can't.

1034
00:46:10,520 --> 00:46:13,800
Speaker 4: I would hate like me trying to figure out those things.

1035
00:46:13,960 --> 00:46:15,720
Speaker 3: Yeah hmmm, he's got it covered.

1036
00:46:15,920 --> 00:46:19,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Okay, So this is something I would love

1037
00:46:19,640 --> 00:46:22,720
Speaker 1: to know. It doesn't have to necessarily be about dating.

1038
00:46:22,880 --> 00:46:27,120
Speaker 1: But could you tell me like your biggest life lesson

1039
00:46:27,400 --> 00:46:28,400
Speaker 1: that you've learned.

1040
00:46:28,520 --> 00:46:29,759
Speaker 4: I would say early.

1041
00:46:29,520 --> 00:46:32,279
Speaker 1: Twenties one each ooh, and it's kind of like it's

1042
00:46:32,280 --> 00:46:35,160
Speaker 1: going to be quite life changing changed you as a person.

1043
00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:39,120
Speaker 2: I would say that, like everything will change and you

1044
00:46:39,200 --> 00:46:41,440
Speaker 2: need to be able to like go without the people

1045
00:46:41,520 --> 00:46:44,319
Speaker 2: that will like come into your life might be there

1046
00:46:44,360 --> 00:46:48,000
Speaker 2: forever might not be, but like everything that happens is

1047
00:46:48,040 --> 00:46:50,359
Speaker 2: going to develop you to who you're supposed to be.

1048
00:46:50,480 --> 00:46:51,959
Speaker 3: So whether or not it is.

1049
00:46:52,000 --> 00:46:54,600
Speaker 2: You know, a really good relationship that maybe it didn't last,

1050
00:46:54,680 --> 00:46:57,000
Speaker 2: you still learned what you really liked in a relationship

1051
00:46:57,040 --> 00:46:59,239
Speaker 2: and what you didn't like in a relationship. Whether it's

1052
00:46:59,320 --> 00:47:01,600
Speaker 2: you know, a friend ship that you felt was going

1053
00:47:01,680 --> 00:47:03,120
Speaker 2: to be like your best friend for the rest of

1054
00:47:03,120 --> 00:47:05,640
Speaker 2: your life and maybe that didn't continue or it just fizzled,

1055
00:47:05,719 --> 00:47:08,880
Speaker 2: you lost touch, you still learn things about yourself within that.

1056
00:47:08,920 --> 00:47:12,319
Speaker 3: Can you tell them Italian? Sometimes I'm like, no.

1057
00:47:12,520 --> 00:47:17,760
Speaker 2: You'll make it the friends, but everything, like things will change,

1058
00:47:17,800 --> 00:47:20,760
Speaker 2: and be comfortable with that, Like lean into it because

1059
00:47:20,880 --> 00:47:22,920
Speaker 2: some of the people that come into your life and

1060
00:47:23,120 --> 00:47:25,480
Speaker 2: maybe some of the best best season of your life

1061
00:47:25,719 --> 00:47:28,520
Speaker 2: and it doesn't continue, it's still like a really nice

1062
00:47:28,560 --> 00:47:30,719
Speaker 2: memory and everything that you learn, all the memories you

1063
00:47:30,760 --> 00:47:31,719
Speaker 2: have are still really nice.

1064
00:47:31,760 --> 00:47:32,920
Speaker 3: So try to lean into.

1065
00:47:32,719 --> 00:47:34,720
Speaker 1: That almost, like don't be afraid of change.

1066
00:47:34,960 --> 00:47:38,600
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, but like the thing is, it will happen.

1067
00:47:39,360 --> 00:47:40,919
Speaker 3: Nothing is going to say the same.

1068
00:47:41,040 --> 00:47:44,759
Speaker 2: Something will change, whether it's your troll free ord know, nah,

1069
00:47:45,080 --> 00:47:48,840
Speaker 2: Like I like I like to kind of navigate the situation,

1070
00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:51,120
Speaker 2: Like I don't know how it's it, but like arias.

1071
00:47:50,800 --> 00:47:53,960
Speaker 6: A born leaders but like I think you like to

1072
00:47:54,000 --> 00:47:56,239
Speaker 6: take charge, but you're not going to get thrown off

1073
00:47:56,320 --> 00:47:59,120
Speaker 6: if like Aspana gets thrown You're like, all right, problem solving.

1074
00:47:59,400 --> 00:48:02,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I'm like I would say I'm pretty good

1075
00:48:02,239 --> 00:48:04,719
Speaker 2: at problem solving, and like that's something that I quite

1076
00:48:04,800 --> 00:48:07,360
Speaker 2: like about myself, like being like all right, this has happened,

1077
00:48:07,560 --> 00:48:11,280
Speaker 2: here are options, Yeah, how can we instead of yeah, and.

1078
00:48:11,200 --> 00:48:13,200
Speaker 4: Like not dealing with the situation, You're like, all right,

1079
00:48:13,239 --> 00:48:13,920
Speaker 4: what are we going to do?

1080
00:48:14,000 --> 00:48:14,439
Speaker 2: Movie? Yeah?

1081
00:48:14,760 --> 00:48:15,439
Speaker 3: And that's a change.

1082
00:48:15,480 --> 00:48:15,680
Speaker 7: Yeah.

1083
00:48:15,719 --> 00:48:17,279
Speaker 2: That's not to say that, you know, I haven't had

1084
00:48:17,320 --> 00:48:19,239
Speaker 2: those moments when like, you know, I broke up with

1085
00:48:19,280 --> 00:48:21,160
Speaker 2: an X and I didn't have my like you know,

1086
00:48:21,239 --> 00:48:23,960
Speaker 2: really upset stage with that. I definitely did. It's not

1087
00:48:23,960 --> 00:48:26,000
Speaker 2: to say that change happens. I'm like, what are Iver

1088
00:48:26,080 --> 00:48:28,359
Speaker 2: Deck's back? I'm amazing and so emotionally strong.

1089
00:48:28,400 --> 00:48:29,000
Speaker 3: That is not OK.

1090
00:48:29,840 --> 00:48:32,520
Speaker 2: But it's just try not to lean into the negative

1091
00:48:32,600 --> 00:48:34,879
Speaker 2: part of it and look at the positive side and

1092
00:48:34,960 --> 00:48:36,160
Speaker 2: just adapt yourself.

1093
00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:39,600
Speaker 1: And I think also like going off that even I

1094
00:48:39,640 --> 00:48:43,279
Speaker 1: feel like every situation, even when it's like a quote

1095
00:48:43,360 --> 00:48:47,799
Speaker 1: unquote negative or bad outcome, there is always something that

1096
00:48:47,880 --> 00:48:50,399
Speaker 1: you can take from that that even evolved you as

1097
00:48:50,400 --> 00:48:54,040
Speaker 1: a person, you know, formed you into who you are,

1098
00:48:54,560 --> 00:48:57,799
Speaker 1: and if you can, like, yeah, lean into that rather

1099
00:48:57,800 --> 00:48:58,960
Speaker 1: than being like this is.

1100
00:48:58,880 --> 00:48:59,840
Speaker 3: Fun, Yeah, don't let it.

1101
00:49:00,320 --> 00:49:03,520
Speaker 6: You basically love that because if anything, you're going to

1102
00:49:03,600 --> 00:49:05,480
Speaker 6: learn what you don't like and what you don't want,

1103
00:49:05,560 --> 00:49:06,239
Speaker 6: and which is that's a.

1104
00:49:06,239 --> 00:49:08,000
Speaker 4: Real important in itself important.

1105
00:49:08,239 --> 00:49:08,680
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1106
00:49:08,840 --> 00:49:11,400
Speaker 6: I think that my biggest life lesson from my early

1107
00:49:11,480 --> 00:49:15,560
Speaker 6: twenties is that you need to make decisions for yourself

1108
00:49:15,680 --> 00:49:19,480
Speaker 6: and for your best interests. So you can't think about

1109
00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:22,080
Speaker 6: what other people may want or expect from you.

1110
00:49:22,080 --> 00:49:24,239
Speaker 4: You just have to think about what's best for me.

1111
00:49:24,440 --> 00:49:26,600
Speaker 6: So an example of that was I was like living

1112
00:49:26,600 --> 00:49:29,520
Speaker 6: at home for ages and hated it and was just

1113
00:49:29,560 --> 00:49:31,120
Speaker 6: like so I was like ready to move out when

1114
00:49:31,160 --> 00:49:33,440
Speaker 6: I was like sixteen, and then I was like maybe

1115
00:49:33,440 --> 00:49:36,080
Speaker 6: turning twenty one, and I was waiting for like my

1116
00:49:36,160 --> 00:49:38,640
Speaker 6: sister and my boyfriend to be ready to move out

1117
00:49:38,640 --> 00:49:41,120
Speaker 6: with me, and I was like chasing them for years

1118
00:49:41,120 --> 00:49:43,040
Speaker 6: and years. It never happened, and then I was like

1119
00:49:43,120 --> 00:49:45,800
Speaker 6: I can't, like I'm just leaving and moved up to Sydney,

1120
00:49:45,880 --> 00:49:47,880
Speaker 6: and I was like, you guys will like either stay

1121
00:49:47,880 --> 00:49:49,799
Speaker 6: with me or you won't. And I was like, I

1122
00:49:49,840 --> 00:49:52,200
Speaker 6: have to put myself first. And it was like the

1123
00:49:52,200 --> 00:49:53,120
Speaker 6: best thing I ever did.

1124
00:49:53,239 --> 00:49:57,640
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I love that, she said, des Yeah.

1125
00:49:57,320 --> 00:50:00,480
Speaker 6: And it like completely changed like my career everything.

1126
00:50:00,719 --> 00:50:02,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, and like imagine if I did, I'd probably still

1127
00:50:02,600 --> 00:50:04,239
Speaker 4: be down in fucking longer and then he never would

1128
00:50:04,239 --> 00:50:07,279
Speaker 4: have met me, exactly, get down there. Yeah you're young,

1129
00:50:09,360 --> 00:50:09,560
Speaker 4: you know.

1130
00:50:09,840 --> 00:50:12,880
Speaker 1: I love that so much, And like I often don't

1131
00:50:12,920 --> 00:50:13,720
Speaker 1: hear that advice.

1132
00:50:13,760 --> 00:50:15,600
Speaker 4: I feel like that's so refreshing.

1133
00:50:15,120 --> 00:50:18,080
Speaker 1: To be like, no, actually, you need to put your

1134
00:50:18,160 --> 00:50:21,600
Speaker 1: needs first because when you do that, that's when things

1135
00:50:21,640 --> 00:50:24,680
Speaker 1: like flourish. Yeah yeah, things work out.

1136
00:50:24,840 --> 00:50:27,000
Speaker 2: And if you have the right people around you, they'll

1137
00:50:27,040 --> 00:50:28,759
Speaker 2: want you to do that. They'll want you to do

1138
00:50:28,800 --> 00:50:31,200
Speaker 2: the thing that is in your best interest because they

1139
00:50:31,239 --> 00:50:32,480
Speaker 2: should want that for you as well.

1140
00:50:32,480 --> 00:50:33,680
Speaker 3: They should want you to be happy.

1141
00:50:33,760 --> 00:50:36,040
Speaker 2: So like, if someone around you is being like, oh

1142
00:50:36,080 --> 00:50:38,719
Speaker 2: but look at how that affects me, well, they're just

1143
00:50:38,760 --> 00:50:40,240
Speaker 2: thinking of themselves exactly.

1144
00:50:40,320 --> 00:50:41,600
Speaker 4: And that's why ended up happening.

1145
00:50:41,680 --> 00:50:43,799
Speaker 6: Like with my boyfriend especially, it was really hard because

1146
00:50:43,800 --> 00:50:46,360
Speaker 6: we were already in a like long term oh sorry,

1147
00:50:46,560 --> 00:50:49,520
Speaker 6: a long distance relationship. We're already like ninety minutes apart,

1148
00:50:49,560 --> 00:50:51,160
Speaker 6: and then going to Sydney, it was like we were

1149
00:50:51,200 --> 00:50:52,040
Speaker 6: three hours apart.

1150
00:50:52,239 --> 00:50:53,799
Speaker 4: Yeah, and then he was just like he.

1151
00:50:53,760 --> 00:50:55,960
Speaker 6: Got around it, realized we could make it work and

1152
00:50:56,080 --> 00:50:58,600
Speaker 6: we ended up moving in together in Sydney later down

1153
00:50:58,640 --> 00:50:58,960
Speaker 6: the track.

1154
00:50:59,000 --> 00:51:01,759
Speaker 1: Anyway, it's about to say, it's almost like that make

1155
00:51:01,880 --> 00:51:03,800
Speaker 1: or break, But wouldn't you rather know sooner?

1156
00:51:03,960 --> 00:51:05,520
Speaker 4: Exactly? It's going to break later on?

1157
00:51:05,600 --> 00:51:07,480
Speaker 1: It's just prolonging it exactly.

1158
00:51:07,640 --> 00:51:09,640
Speaker 6: Yeah, And I think so many people can relate to that,

1159
00:51:09,680 --> 00:51:12,440
Speaker 6: whether it's like pressure from friends and their partner or

1160
00:51:12,600 --> 00:51:16,719
Speaker 6: expectations from their family, especially which I think it's really tough,

1161
00:51:16,880 --> 00:51:18,239
Speaker 6: but just gotta do you boo.

1162
00:51:18,520 --> 00:51:21,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, I love that so much. That's really refreshing.

1163
00:51:20,880 --> 00:51:22,719
Speaker 2: Whatever I'm making about decision now, I'm gonna be like

1164
00:51:22,760 --> 00:51:23,360
Speaker 2: just putting.

1165
00:51:23,080 --> 00:51:23,760
Speaker 1: Me first out.

1166
00:51:24,400 --> 00:51:25,600
Speaker 4: I'm like, no, you're not.

1167
00:51:28,760 --> 00:51:34,640
Speaker 2: I'm like shout out to see the shots for the plot.

1168
00:51:35,680 --> 00:51:35,839
Speaker 7: No.

1169
00:51:36,000 --> 00:51:39,080
Speaker 1: I love that. And I think also we tend to,

1170
00:51:40,320 --> 00:51:43,319
Speaker 1: I think, especially as we get older, like we think

1171
00:51:43,360 --> 00:51:45,600
Speaker 1: of everyone before ourselves.

1172
00:51:45,600 --> 00:51:48,319
Speaker 4: We're like, oh, what will this person think? I'll do this?

1173
00:51:48,480 --> 00:51:50,600
Speaker 1: And I don't want to make this person feel a

1174
00:51:50,640 --> 00:51:53,720
Speaker 1: certain way. But then you're almost if you're not living

1175
00:51:53,800 --> 00:51:57,560
Speaker 1: your truth, it's going to constantly build on you and

1176
00:51:57,600 --> 00:51:59,480
Speaker 1: you know, eventually drown.

1177
00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:01,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, exactly.

1178
00:52:01,680 --> 00:52:04,319
Speaker 2: LUs. We like to always say, like, no one cares

1179
00:52:04,360 --> 00:52:06,680
Speaker 2: as much as you think they do. Like you were

1180
00:52:06,719 --> 00:52:10,880
Speaker 2: your own worst enemy, overthinking things, making yourself anxious. Everyone

1181
00:52:11,000 --> 00:52:13,160
Speaker 2: actually is kind of just vibing on their own, like

1182
00:52:13,280 --> 00:52:15,560
Speaker 2: no one's no one's sitting there watching you being like, wow,

1183
00:52:15,680 --> 00:52:19,160
Speaker 2: she looks weird. Those cowboy boots suck. Like no one cares.

1184
00:52:19,440 --> 00:52:21,440
Speaker 2: Like we were going to pilates for the first time

1185
00:52:21,440 --> 00:52:23,080
Speaker 2: and we're really nervous, and we're like, we're gonna look

1186
00:52:23,080 --> 00:52:24,480
Speaker 2: so silly, Like what if people are watching us and

1187
00:52:24,480 --> 00:52:25,239
Speaker 2: we don't know what we're doing.

1188
00:52:25,280 --> 00:52:27,879
Speaker 3: No one gave a flying hoot. No, no, no one

1189
00:52:27,920 --> 00:52:29,400
Speaker 3: cares as much as they do.

1190
00:52:29,520 --> 00:52:32,720
Speaker 4: Get invested in their own world. Yeah worrying.

1191
00:52:33,000 --> 00:52:37,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, before we get onto chatting some money and budgeting,

1192
00:52:37,520 --> 00:52:40,719
Speaker 1: because that's your zones of genius. I want to know,

1193
00:52:40,840 --> 00:52:44,040
Speaker 1: do we have a really funny horror dating story?

1194
00:52:44,480 --> 00:52:48,320
Speaker 2: Probably, I tell the lamb ragu one.

1195
00:52:48,520 --> 00:52:50,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, it's.

1196
00:52:49,880 --> 00:52:52,680
Speaker 4: So good, it's so cook okay.

1197
00:52:52,520 --> 00:52:57,160
Speaker 2: Literally, So basically I accidentally started dating someone that was

1198
00:52:57,160 --> 00:52:58,279
Speaker 2: in the same building as me.

1199
00:52:58,680 --> 00:53:00,200
Speaker 3: Don't ever do that.

1200
00:53:00,120 --> 00:53:02,320
Speaker 4: Was a life and how was it an accident? Do

1201
00:53:02,320 --> 00:53:03,000
Speaker 4: we not know?

1202
00:53:03,360 --> 00:53:03,560
Speaker 2: No?

1203
00:53:03,600 --> 00:53:07,120
Speaker 3: I did know. We met at the Bins an romantic.

1204
00:53:07,239 --> 00:53:08,640
Speaker 2: But yeah, So we met at the Bins and then

1205
00:53:08,680 --> 00:53:11,200
Speaker 2: one night we had like drinks at his apartment because

1206
00:53:11,239 --> 00:53:12,960
Speaker 2: I was like, how great. I only have to go

1207
00:53:13,040 --> 00:53:15,640
Speaker 2: up a lift to get home. So that was very

1208
00:53:15,680 --> 00:53:18,480
Speaker 2: convenient because there's nothing worse than like waking up in

1209
00:53:18,480 --> 00:53:19,120
Speaker 2: a boy's bed.

1210
00:53:19,200 --> 00:53:21,880
Speaker 3: It's like eight am, You're sixty minutes from home.

1211
00:53:22,160 --> 00:53:23,920
Speaker 2: Like you really need a glass of water, the pillows

1212
00:53:23,920 --> 00:53:26,279
Speaker 2: really uncomfortable, and you're just like, I'm like, this is it.

1213
00:53:26,320 --> 00:53:28,600
Speaker 2: This is how it ends. So anyway, we were having

1214
00:53:28,680 --> 00:53:32,000
Speaker 2: drinks at his and I was just talking absolute smack,

1215
00:53:32,239 --> 00:53:33,960
Speaker 2: like I was just having a Yeah.

1216
00:53:34,080 --> 00:53:35,160
Speaker 3: I was just like.

1217
00:53:35,400 --> 00:53:36,040
Speaker 4: I'm a tian.

1218
00:53:36,120 --> 00:53:38,280
Speaker 2: I was like, come over tomorrow night. I'll cook your dinner.

1219
00:53:38,360 --> 00:53:41,040
Speaker 2: What do you want, Like, I'll make you any pasty

1220
00:53:41,160 --> 00:53:43,120
Speaker 2: you want. And he was like, oh I really lamdragon.

1221
00:53:43,160 --> 00:53:45,080
Speaker 2: I was like done, say less, my king.

1222
00:53:45,320 --> 00:53:47,879
Speaker 3: I was like, I've got it sworded for you.

1223
00:53:48,320 --> 00:53:50,680
Speaker 2: Anyway, the next day I was hungover as shit, and

1224
00:53:50,719 --> 00:53:52,799
Speaker 2: I was like, there's no chance of hanging out with

1225
00:53:52,800 --> 00:53:54,400
Speaker 2: the boy tonight. I was like, I just want to

1226
00:53:54,400 --> 00:53:56,760
Speaker 2: look ugly, sit on my couch and watch the Vampire

1227
00:53:56,800 --> 00:53:58,440
Speaker 2: Diaries and anyway.

1228
00:53:58,520 --> 00:53:59,960
Speaker 3: So then I was kind of tossing up.

1229
00:53:59,880 --> 00:54:01,799
Speaker 2: All day whether or not to hang out with him,

1230
00:54:02,000 --> 00:54:03,759
Speaker 2: and it got to five o'clock and it was like

1231
00:54:03,800 --> 00:54:05,600
Speaker 2: six thirty and I was like, no, it's not happening.

1232
00:54:05,760 --> 00:54:07,600
Speaker 2: So then I called him and I like tried to

1233
00:54:07,640 --> 00:54:09,880
Speaker 2: bail and I was like, hey, I'm so sorry, I

1234
00:54:10,000 --> 00:54:12,759
Speaker 2: can't do tonight anymore, Like something's come up, blah blah blah.

1235
00:54:12,760 --> 00:54:14,279
Speaker 2: And he was like, are you serious, Like it's an

1236
00:54:14,280 --> 00:54:15,960
Speaker 2: hour and a half before we're supposed to be hanging

1237
00:54:15,960 --> 00:54:18,040
Speaker 2: out and you're bailing, which, you know, like fair enough.

1238
00:54:18,160 --> 00:54:20,680
Speaker 4: That was that was fair enough, Like I'll he lives

1239
00:54:20,680 --> 00:54:22,160
Speaker 4: in the same building. It's not like this laft.

1240
00:54:22,280 --> 00:54:22,759
Speaker 2: This was like.

1241
00:54:24,760 --> 00:54:28,279
Speaker 4: This is like the third Yeah, this was.

1242
00:54:28,280 --> 00:54:29,640
Speaker 2: Like the third time we were hanging out, so it

1243
00:54:29,680 --> 00:54:31,560
Speaker 2: wasn't like we were like months in, like it was

1244
00:54:31,600 --> 00:54:32,600
Speaker 2: still very new.

1245
00:54:32,960 --> 00:54:34,800
Speaker 4: And then oh he made you feel guilty.

1246
00:54:34,880 --> 00:54:36,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was like, oh crap.

1247
00:54:36,120 --> 00:54:37,520
Speaker 2: And then I was like, oh, you know what if

1248
00:54:37,520 --> 00:54:39,759
Speaker 2: I just like throw back a glass of rose, I'll

1249
00:54:39,760 --> 00:54:42,239
Speaker 2: probably like, yeah, pep up. But he was like, you

1250
00:54:42,280 --> 00:54:44,400
Speaker 2: were planning on bailing all day, weren't you? And I

1251
00:54:44,440 --> 00:54:45,640
Speaker 2: was like no, no, no, no.

1252
00:54:45,640 --> 00:54:46,000
Speaker 3: I was like.

1253
00:54:45,960 --> 00:54:47,919
Speaker 2: Busted, and I was like no, I swear I wasn't.

1254
00:54:47,960 --> 00:54:50,040
Speaker 2: Like I literally got the ingredients. I've been like, I

1255
00:54:50,080 --> 00:54:52,759
Speaker 2: started cooking, but like I this thing came up that

1256
00:54:52,800 --> 00:54:54,480
Speaker 2: I just I have to go and help my friend.

1257
00:54:54,880 --> 00:54:55,840
Speaker 3: And then he was like okay.

1258
00:54:56,320 --> 00:54:58,040
Speaker 2: He's like, well, given that you're already cooking, why don't

1259
00:54:58,040 --> 00:55:00,080
Speaker 2: you go help your friend and then like we and

1260
00:55:00,280 --> 00:55:02,120
Speaker 2: just have dinner a bit later. And I was like, okay,

1261
00:55:02,200 --> 00:55:04,040
Speaker 2: you know what, fine, I'll probably will like get back

1262
00:55:04,080 --> 00:55:05,480
Speaker 2: into it once I've had a glass white. And so

1263
00:55:05,520 --> 00:55:07,839
Speaker 2: I was like, okay, fine. By this point, it's like

1264
00:55:07,920 --> 00:55:10,120
Speaker 2: five thirty, and I was like, just come over.

1265
00:55:10,120 --> 00:55:12,399
Speaker 3: At six thirty, I look like.

1266
00:55:12,400 --> 00:55:15,160
Speaker 2: The female gremlin, Like I'm not looking good. I need

1267
00:55:15,200 --> 00:55:17,480
Speaker 2: to like wash my hair, do my hair, do my makeup,

1268
00:55:17,680 --> 00:55:21,000
Speaker 2: shave my entire body from like my eyebrows down, I

1269
00:55:21,000 --> 00:55:25,320
Speaker 2: mean eyelashes that would be weird. And then I'm like, okay,

1270
00:55:25,400 --> 00:55:26,239
Speaker 2: so I've sorted that out.

1271
00:55:26,239 --> 00:55:26,879
Speaker 4: So I've got like.

1272
00:55:26,840 --> 00:55:29,640
Speaker 2: An hour to get ready and then make lamb ragou.

1273
00:55:29,760 --> 00:55:30,920
Speaker 2: So I was like, do you know what I'll do.

1274
00:55:30,960 --> 00:55:33,560
Speaker 2: I'll milk run the ingredients. It'll be super easy. I

1275
00:55:33,600 --> 00:55:35,759
Speaker 2: look up how to make lamb ragou. It takes a

1276
00:55:35,840 --> 00:55:37,160
Speaker 2: minimum of four hours.

1277
00:55:37,320 --> 00:55:39,680
Speaker 1: Why because you have to slow cook it.

1278
00:55:39,880 --> 00:55:42,160
Speaker 4: You have to slow cook the may. And I was like, well,

1279
00:55:42,200 --> 00:55:43,040
Speaker 4: I'm vegetarian.

1280
00:55:43,080 --> 00:55:44,600
Speaker 3: I knew that. She was like, oh.

1281
00:55:44,640 --> 00:55:47,239
Speaker 2: Fuck, I've already said I'm making it. Oh my, I

1282
00:55:47,280 --> 00:55:49,200
Speaker 2: already said I had the ingredients and I'm making it

1283
00:55:49,239 --> 00:55:51,200
Speaker 2: because he accused me of baling, which I was doing.

1284
00:55:51,719 --> 00:55:54,680
Speaker 2: So then I'm like, and I can't make a different

1285
00:55:54,680 --> 00:55:56,320
Speaker 2: pusta because I already said.

1286
00:55:56,120 --> 00:55:56,680
Speaker 3: I was cooking it.

1287
00:55:57,040 --> 00:55:58,960
Speaker 2: So I was like, I don't know what to do.

1288
00:55:59,560 --> 00:56:02,560
Speaker 2: I'm gonna busted. So then I did what any normal, saying,

1289
00:56:02,640 --> 00:56:04,839
Speaker 2: rational person would do in this situation, and I uber

1290
00:56:04,880 --> 00:56:07,600
Speaker 2: eats ninety dollars worth of lamb ragu to my apartment.

1291
00:56:07,760 --> 00:56:09,920
Speaker 2: But it doesn't stop there. Then I got pots and

1292
00:56:09,960 --> 00:56:12,960
Speaker 2: pans out and I.

1293
00:56:13,080 --> 00:56:13,920
Speaker 4: Set the scene.

1294
00:56:14,440 --> 00:56:18,400
Speaker 2: I like separated the meat. I like put the pasta

1295
00:56:18,440 --> 00:56:19,439
Speaker 2: in like a different ball.

1296
00:56:19,880 --> 00:56:21,640
Speaker 3: I had it in a pot. I FaceTime with my

1297
00:56:21,680 --> 00:56:22,760
Speaker 3: mom I was like, Mom, how.

1298
00:56:22,600 --> 00:56:25,280
Speaker 2: Do I like keep this hot without overcooking the lamb

1299
00:56:25,560 --> 00:56:28,000
Speaker 2: and making it too hard, but like not overcooking the

1300
00:56:28,000 --> 00:56:29,760
Speaker 2: pasta and make it to And Mom was like, Alex,

1301
00:56:29,800 --> 00:56:31,239
Speaker 2: this is lying and I was like, Mum, we were

1302
00:56:31,360 --> 00:56:32,520
Speaker 2: so past that point out.

1303
00:56:32,880 --> 00:56:34,480
Speaker 4: So I was like committed.

1304
00:56:34,640 --> 00:56:37,680
Speaker 2: I got like bits of the sauce and like splattered

1305
00:56:37,719 --> 00:56:41,080
Speaker 2: it on the bench and like mad mutual medicine, I

1306
00:56:41,160 --> 00:56:43,839
Speaker 2: like got the strainer out and dirtied it, and then

1307
00:56:43,880 --> 00:56:46,919
Speaker 2: I took down like every piece of rubbish I own,

1308
00:56:47,000 --> 00:56:49,319
Speaker 2: because then if I hadn't taken down the rubbish, it

1309
00:56:49,320 --> 00:56:51,719
Speaker 2: meant there should be like if it's a packets or

1310
00:56:51,760 --> 00:56:54,400
Speaker 2: like meat packets, which there was, and because I was lying,

1311
00:56:54,640 --> 00:56:56,520
Speaker 2: and so then I had to take it so sad

1312
00:56:56,960 --> 00:57:00,640
Speaker 2: like the thought you I overthought this way much like.

1313
00:57:00,680 --> 00:57:01,800
Speaker 3: It was way too much.

1314
00:57:02,200 --> 00:57:04,680
Speaker 2: And then I literally took every piece of rubbish down,

1315
00:57:04,840 --> 00:57:08,279
Speaker 2: remembering this boy lives in my apartment building, so I've

1316
00:57:08,320 --> 00:57:11,600
Speaker 2: had to like scurry down and like put everything in

1317
00:57:11,600 --> 00:57:14,279
Speaker 2: the bin. But your gal got away with it. I

1318
00:57:14,360 --> 00:57:19,640
Speaker 2: completely got away with it. That he saw them, No,

1319
00:57:20,000 --> 00:57:21,800
Speaker 2: he was like he ate it, and he was like, Babe,

1320
00:57:21,800 --> 00:57:24,880
Speaker 2: this is the best lamb racko I've ever had. He

1321
00:57:25,080 --> 00:57:27,120
Speaker 2: was like, he was like, how did you make it?

1322
00:57:27,240 --> 00:57:28,840
Speaker 2: I was like, I can't tell you that mom would

1323
00:57:28,920 --> 00:57:32,200
Speaker 2: kill me in his recipe. I hope he doesn't go

1324
00:57:32,240 --> 00:57:39,200
Speaker 2: to Totty's basically because this before it's really similar. So yeah,

1325
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Speaker 2: that was my like misdoubtfire dating story.

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00:57:41,800 --> 00:57:44,640
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, shout out to Toddy's. Yeah, I love

1327
00:57:45,240 --> 00:57:48,080
Speaker 1: extent you went to to be like, no, I committed,

1328
00:57:48,680 --> 00:57:49,760
Speaker 1: you will believe I was.

1329
00:57:49,800 --> 00:57:52,280
Speaker 2: There was no chance I was getting busted, absolutely not,

1330
00:57:52,760 --> 00:57:53,320
Speaker 2: and like.

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00:57:53,600 --> 00:57:55,320
Speaker 4: How like the rest of the night go.

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00:57:55,680 --> 00:57:57,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was good, but like that was kind of

1333
00:57:57,440 --> 00:58:00,240
Speaker 3: I had more fun doing that, to be honest, not

1334
00:58:00,360 --> 00:58:03,160
Speaker 3: fun like trying to get away with it. Then I

1335
00:58:03,200 --> 00:58:04,960
Speaker 3: was like, oh that's done. And then like a week,

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00:58:05,000 --> 00:58:06,160
Speaker 3: lady Who's like I'm.

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00:58:06,040 --> 00:58:09,240
Speaker 2: Still thinking about that lamb ragus the best I've ever had.

1338
00:58:09,480 --> 00:58:11,600
Speaker 2: I like see him around now, like we're not dating anymore,

1339
00:58:11,600 --> 00:58:13,120
Speaker 2: because I was just like, oh, this is just not

1340
00:58:13,200 --> 00:58:16,200
Speaker 2: the vibe, but he'll like we'll see each other sometimes.

1341
00:58:16,240 --> 00:58:18,400
Speaker 2: I still think about that lamb rago and I might like.

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00:58:19,600 --> 00:58:21,439
Speaker 4: Poor boy, you got one day.

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00:58:21,640 --> 00:58:29,080
Speaker 8: No, no, it's too already being like heys just like

1344
00:58:29,320 --> 00:58:31,760
Speaker 8: I've lived in an apartment before, and yeah, like you

1345
00:58:31,760 --> 00:58:33,439
Speaker 8: go to the beans, you go around the car park,

1346
00:58:33,440 --> 00:58:35,400
Speaker 8: you look like fucking shit sober.

1347
00:58:35,760 --> 00:58:37,440
Speaker 4: So yeah that makes sense.

1348
00:58:37,560 --> 00:58:38,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's mine.

1349
00:58:38,960 --> 00:58:41,280
Speaker 2: So if you ever need to make lamb raghu, make

1350
00:58:41,320 --> 00:58:42,960
Speaker 2: sure you have at least four hours.

1351
00:58:43,560 --> 00:58:44,800
Speaker 4: I did not knowed.

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00:58:45,200 --> 00:58:48,840
Speaker 1: Okay, well let's chat some money and budgeting. So this

1353
00:58:49,000 --> 00:58:51,840
Speaker 1: is your whole you know, the reason you started the podcast.

1354
00:58:52,320 --> 00:58:56,720
Speaker 1: I love that you're him shopping journalists. Yes, So does

1355
00:58:56,760 --> 00:58:58,479
Speaker 1: that just mean like you just know how to shop?

1356
00:58:58,520 --> 00:58:58,760
Speaker 6: Well?

1357
00:58:59,040 --> 00:58:59,680
Speaker 3: Yes or no?

1358
00:58:59,760 --> 00:59:02,840
Speaker 2: So it's like, as like a shopping journalist, you kind

1359
00:59:02,840 --> 00:59:05,640
Speaker 2: of have to know what everyone's shopping for, regardless of

1360
00:59:05,680 --> 00:59:08,479
Speaker 2: like what we like ourselves, because we will wear pink

1361
00:59:08,520 --> 00:59:11,560
Speaker 2: cowboy boots and like snake print like pants, where it's.

1362
00:59:11,400 --> 00:59:13,280
Speaker 4: Like that's probably not everyone else's.

1363
00:59:13,680 --> 00:59:17,000
Speaker 2: Everyone else's spiel, they're like you guys look CORESSI. But

1364
00:59:17,240 --> 00:59:20,040
Speaker 2: so like it's things like Christmas gift guides as well

1365
00:59:20,080 --> 00:59:22,320
Speaker 2: as like sales what people want to look for. We

1366
00:59:22,440 --> 00:59:24,400
Speaker 2: do like a thing on our Instagram being like like

1367
00:59:24,440 --> 00:59:26,280
Speaker 2: you can send us what you're shopping for and we'll

1368
00:59:26,280 --> 00:59:28,680
Speaker 2: go find it on sale. Like it's knowing where to

1369
00:59:28,720 --> 00:59:31,880
Speaker 2: find things on sale or what sites price match so

1370
00:59:31,920 --> 00:59:33,640
Speaker 2: that you can like get the best possible.

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00:59:34,200 --> 00:59:36,360
Speaker 6: Yeah, love or like beauty joops, if you want to

1372
00:59:36,360 --> 00:59:39,520
Speaker 6: buy affordable beauty, or if you want to shop more sustainably,

1373
00:59:39,720 --> 00:59:41,520
Speaker 6: like helping people like make.

1374
00:59:41,400 --> 00:59:43,720
Speaker 4: Better shopping decisions. Yes, trying to.

1375
00:59:43,920 --> 00:59:44,880
Speaker 3: It's so bad though.

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00:59:44,920 --> 00:59:48,120
Speaker 1: She was a hashtag because I, like probably everyone else

1377
00:59:48,160 --> 00:59:52,800
Speaker 1: at the moment, I wanted to buy something from Jeff Avenue.

1378
00:59:52,040 --> 00:59:56,360
Speaker 4: And I was like, I've found a couple.

1379
00:59:56,960 --> 01:00:02,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, Well, tell us some of your best budgeting shopping tip.

1380
01:00:02,960 --> 01:00:05,320
Speaker 1: It's a very broad question, but I'm sure you got some.

1381
01:00:05,600 --> 01:00:05,880
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1382
01:00:06,080 --> 01:00:08,760
Speaker 2: The first one is that sales mainly launch on a

1383
01:00:08,800 --> 01:00:10,960
Speaker 2: Tuesday or a Wednesday, So like if you're going to

1384
01:00:11,000 --> 01:00:14,400
Speaker 2: buy something and it's like a Friday, wait because if

1385
01:00:14,400 --> 01:00:16,320
Speaker 2: it's not on sale, it might be on sale that

1386
01:00:16,360 --> 01:00:19,200
Speaker 2: Tuesday or Wednesday. Like the Iconic is always on sale.

1387
01:00:19,240 --> 01:00:22,440
Speaker 2: That's like their business model, but every Tuesday or Wednesday

1388
01:00:22,640 --> 01:00:26,000
Speaker 2: it changes to something else. And same with like wherever

1389
01:00:26,040 --> 01:00:29,240
Speaker 2: you're shopping, like Princess Poll or Nasty Gal, like their

1390
01:00:29,280 --> 01:00:31,800
Speaker 2: sales update mainly on like a Tuesday or Wednesday, so

1391
01:00:31,840 --> 01:00:33,480
Speaker 2: that's when we'll do like the best sales of the

1392
01:00:33,480 --> 01:00:36,400
Speaker 2: Week round up because that's when all the new sales.

1393
01:00:36,160 --> 01:00:37,320
Speaker 3: Are going to come in.

1394
01:00:37,720 --> 01:00:39,360
Speaker 2: And then the other thing is if you want to

1395
01:00:39,400 --> 01:00:42,880
Speaker 2: buy something online, to put it into Google and then

1396
01:00:43,040 --> 01:00:45,480
Speaker 2: like the exact product name, like if you wanted to

1397
01:00:45,520 --> 01:00:48,800
Speaker 2: get like Converse Chuck Taylor Platforms, I don't that's not

1398
01:00:48,880 --> 01:00:50,960
Speaker 2: like the exact name, but you'd put that into Google

1399
01:00:51,000 --> 01:00:53,520
Speaker 2: and Google will show you all the retailers that stock

1400
01:00:53,600 --> 01:00:57,520
Speaker 2: it in like their little carousel at the top, and

1401
01:00:57,560 --> 01:01:00,640
Speaker 2: so you can actually like compare prices through that and

1402
01:01:00,760 --> 01:01:02,960
Speaker 2: from that go to like their policies roof. They have

1403
01:01:03,000 --> 01:01:05,520
Speaker 2: the little chat box on their website, be like, do

1404
01:01:05,560 --> 01:01:07,200
Speaker 2: you guys price match? So if you want to get

1405
01:01:07,240 --> 01:01:09,320
Speaker 2: it from the Iconic because you've got a gift voucher,

1406
01:01:09,600 --> 01:01:12,440
Speaker 2: but you know like JD Sports has them on sale,

1407
01:01:12,760 --> 01:01:14,480
Speaker 2: go to their chat and be like, would you guys

1408
01:01:14,520 --> 01:01:17,040
Speaker 2: and the Iconic does price matt so and you can

1409
01:01:17,040 --> 01:01:19,520
Speaker 2: do it that way is probably my two favorite, and.

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01:01:19,480 --> 01:01:25,080
Speaker 6: As well as knowing those weekly sail like seasons sale events.

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01:01:25,400 --> 01:01:28,200
Speaker 6: So there are so many throughout the year, but before

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01:01:28,240 --> 01:01:31,320
Speaker 6: the end of this year, we'll have Black Friday, Cyber Monday,

1413
01:01:31,360 --> 01:01:33,960
Speaker 6: and then Boxing Day, so we don't do any of

1414
01:01:34,000 --> 01:01:39,800
Speaker 6: our like big ticket item shopping sprees be on those dates. Really,

1415
01:01:40,440 --> 01:01:43,480
Speaker 6: like so planning that out. So Christmas is coming up,

1416
01:01:43,520 --> 01:01:46,160
Speaker 6: do all of your Christmas shopping on Black Friday and

1417
01:01:46,240 --> 01:01:49,400
Speaker 6: Side Monday. Get a spreadsheet or like have it or

1418
01:01:49,440 --> 01:01:51,560
Speaker 6: everything that you want to buy that's in your like

1419
01:01:51,760 --> 01:01:53,880
Speaker 6: must buy lists, and then have it in the cart

1420
01:01:53,920 --> 01:01:55,760
Speaker 6: ready to go, so as soon as the sail drops

1421
01:01:55,800 --> 01:01:56,560
Speaker 6: you can jump on it.

1422
01:01:57,000 --> 01:01:59,160
Speaker 1: This is actually something that I came across the other

1423
01:01:59,240 --> 01:02:03,240
Speaker 1: day that my pre a's twenty first was the other day,

1424
01:02:03,520 --> 01:02:05,920
Speaker 1: and I was like, what do you want for your birthday?

1425
01:02:06,000 --> 01:02:07,640
Speaker 1: And then she's like told me how she's got this

1426
01:02:07,680 --> 01:02:08,920
Speaker 1: like almost like a wish list.

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01:02:09,200 --> 01:02:09,680
Speaker 2: Cue.

1428
01:02:09,720 --> 01:02:12,400
Speaker 1: And then someone else was saying they have a wish list,

1429
01:02:12,680 --> 01:02:14,720
Speaker 1: and I was like, is this a normal thing where

1430
01:02:14,720 --> 01:02:17,400
Speaker 1: you almost have a document of like all the things

1431
01:02:17,440 --> 01:02:18,000
Speaker 1: you want?

1432
01:02:18,280 --> 01:02:19,080
Speaker 4: Do you guys have that?

1433
01:02:19,200 --> 01:02:19,440
Speaker 3: I do?

1434
01:02:20,720 --> 01:02:23,520
Speaker 2: It's like twelve pages long. I'm like, what do you

1435
01:02:23,560 --> 01:02:25,120
Speaker 2: want for Christmas? She's like, here's a spreadsheet?

1436
01:02:26,640 --> 01:02:27,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I have it.

1437
01:02:27,880 --> 01:02:29,440
Speaker 2: I have it on TikTok as well, so you know

1438
01:02:29,480 --> 01:02:31,160
Speaker 2: how you can like save into folders.

1439
01:02:31,240 --> 01:02:33,280
Speaker 3: I have like a two by folder of all.

1440
01:02:33,160 --> 01:02:35,080
Speaker 2: The things that like to because you know how you

1441
01:02:35,080 --> 01:02:37,600
Speaker 2: see something on TikTok and you like scroll it or

1442
01:02:37,640 --> 01:02:39,760
Speaker 2: you like it, but then like your light folder is

1443
01:02:39,800 --> 01:02:42,959
Speaker 2: like seven one hundred tiktoks and you never can find

1444
01:02:42,960 --> 01:02:44,760
Speaker 2: it again. So I save it to a folder of

1445
01:02:44,800 --> 01:02:45,880
Speaker 2: things that I want to buy.

1446
01:02:46,040 --> 01:02:49,080
Speaker 1: Do you guys have like a roster or something like?

1447
01:02:49,880 --> 01:02:54,680
Speaker 1: For example, I'm a person when when I like achieve

1448
01:02:54,840 --> 01:02:58,200
Speaker 1: a goal or something, I buy myself something. I'm that

1449
01:02:58,320 --> 01:03:02,160
Speaker 1: person and I love to treat myself in that way

1450
01:03:02,320 --> 01:03:06,200
Speaker 1: and almost I almost need to work for something for

1451
01:03:06,360 --> 01:03:09,200
Speaker 1: it to feel really special and nice to me. I'm

1452
01:03:09,240 --> 01:03:11,920
Speaker 1: talking more like luxy. Do you guys kind of have

1453
01:03:12,000 --> 01:03:14,440
Speaker 1: a roster of like how much money you spend or

1454
01:03:14,440 --> 01:03:17,880
Speaker 1: if you're you know, waiting for those like higher ticket things,

1455
01:03:18,000 --> 01:03:19,520
Speaker 1: or like what do you do in that situation?

1456
01:03:19,720 --> 01:03:22,520
Speaker 6: I think we always consider the cost per wear if

1457
01:03:22,520 --> 01:03:23,880
Speaker 6: it's all cost per use.

1458
01:03:23,840 --> 01:03:26,560
Speaker 1: Me too, Like that is like bags.

1459
01:03:26,600 --> 01:03:28,760
Speaker 4: I don't do shoes because I don't like shoes very often.

1460
01:03:28,960 --> 01:03:35,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, I like guys toes. It is scary most.

1461
01:03:37,080 --> 01:03:38,080
Speaker 1: Sneakers most of the time.

1462
01:03:38,200 --> 01:03:40,600
Speaker 6: Yeah, So you're not gonna like splurge on a pair

1463
01:03:40,640 --> 01:03:43,600
Speaker 6: of gees that you give you like.

1464
01:03:43,560 --> 01:03:45,200
Speaker 4: Agony for the rest of your life.

1465
01:03:45,280 --> 01:03:47,560
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, whereas a handbag that you're like, this is

1466
01:03:47,560 --> 01:03:50,200
Speaker 6: a classic style that I will never fall out of

1467
01:03:50,200 --> 01:03:50,480
Speaker 6: love with.

1468
01:03:50,720 --> 01:03:52,560
Speaker 4: Yes, I will splurge on that. Yeah.

1469
01:03:52,840 --> 01:03:54,960
Speaker 2: And there's also like a hack that you can do

1470
01:03:55,360 --> 01:03:57,840
Speaker 2: that we saw on TikTok as well, and it was

1471
01:03:57,920 --> 01:03:59,720
Speaker 2: like if someone if you want us to buy a

1472
01:03:59,720 --> 01:04:03,440
Speaker 2: new case, for example, and the phone case was fifty dollars,

1473
01:04:03,800 --> 01:04:06,400
Speaker 2: or someone offers you fifty dollars, Like, would you if

1474
01:04:06,400 --> 01:04:09,080
Speaker 2: I was going to give you the phone case for

1475
01:04:09,160 --> 01:04:11,240
Speaker 2: free or I was going to give you fifty dollars

1476
01:04:11,640 --> 01:04:13,600
Speaker 2: and you would choose the fifty dollars, then you don't

1477
01:04:13,600 --> 01:04:14,960
Speaker 2: actually want the phone case.

1478
01:04:14,840 --> 01:04:16,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, like you value the money more than the item.

1479
01:04:17,040 --> 01:04:18,440
Speaker 4: Oh my god. Yeah, I love that.

1480
01:04:18,560 --> 01:04:20,440
Speaker 2: So that's like a good way that you can do it,

1481
01:04:20,560 --> 01:04:23,440
Speaker 2: or working out how many hours you would actually work

1482
01:04:23,600 --> 01:04:26,680
Speaker 2: do that? Yeah, But then like that one includes maths,

1483
01:04:26,720 --> 01:04:27,680
Speaker 2: so I don't do that one.

1484
01:04:27,720 --> 01:04:30,520
Speaker 3: So I'm like, do I want fifty bucks? Yes, not

1485
01:04:30,600 --> 01:04:31,320
Speaker 3: a phone case for me?

1486
01:04:31,680 --> 01:04:34,160
Speaker 1: Interesting? Yeah, Oh I love that so much.

1487
01:04:34,560 --> 01:04:35,520
Speaker 3: That's like a good I think.

1488
01:04:35,560 --> 01:04:40,960
Speaker 1: Also another thing is for me personally, I love mixing

1489
01:04:41,000 --> 01:04:44,200
Speaker 1: and matching, like you know, high priced tans and low

1490
01:04:44,240 --> 01:04:47,400
Speaker 1: price items and not getting caught up in I guess

1491
01:04:47,440 --> 01:04:50,360
Speaker 1: like it it's whatever it means to me. It doesn't

1492
01:04:50,440 --> 01:04:53,840
Speaker 1: matter to anyone else. And it's like, am I going

1493
01:04:53,880 --> 01:04:56,560
Speaker 1: to value this piece? Am I going to feel like

1494
01:04:56,600 --> 01:04:58,640
Speaker 1: this is really worth it? Or is it just like

1495
01:04:58,760 --> 01:04:59,640
Speaker 1: trendy at the moment?

1496
01:04:59,720 --> 01:05:02,720
Speaker 6: Yeah, trending like designer bag.

1497
01:05:02,880 --> 01:05:05,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, the Gucci marm On belt was like one of

1498
01:05:05,800 --> 01:05:09,400
Speaker 2: the best things that people could buy what like five years.

1499
01:05:09,200 --> 01:05:11,200
Speaker 3: Ago, and then like everyone had it.

1500
01:05:11,240 --> 01:05:12,800
Speaker 2: But then when everyone has it, I just feel like

1501
01:05:12,840 --> 01:05:14,360
Speaker 2: it's not special anymore.

1502
01:05:14,480 --> 01:05:17,440
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's just like my opinion, and then it becomes

1503
01:05:17,480 --> 01:05:20,040
Speaker 6: a little bit cringe. But say if you do think no,

1504
01:05:20,160 --> 01:05:23,800
Speaker 6: I genuinely love this and will love it forever, Like yes,

1505
01:05:23,880 --> 01:05:25,880
Speaker 6: by it if it's on trend. Yeah, but it needs

1506
01:05:25,920 --> 01:05:28,160
Speaker 6: to be something that you know that you will love forever.

1507
01:05:28,920 --> 01:05:30,640
Speaker 2: We're really bad in terms of like when one of

1508
01:05:30,680 --> 01:05:33,280
Speaker 2: us is like, oh, should I buy this? Like like yes,

1509
01:05:33,320 --> 01:05:36,320
Speaker 2: we are each other, like you have black you know,

1510
01:05:36,600 --> 01:05:38,800
Speaker 2: You're like when I achieve something, I buy something.

1511
01:05:38,920 --> 01:05:41,360
Speaker 3: Sometimes I will. I'm probably the opposite.

1512
01:05:41,400 --> 01:05:43,280
Speaker 2: I want to buy something, but I'm like Joe, what

1513
01:05:43,640 --> 01:05:45,880
Speaker 2: I went for the gym three times? Last week I

1514
01:05:45,920 --> 01:05:47,320
Speaker 2: wrote an article I did my job.

1515
01:05:47,480 --> 01:05:48,440
Speaker 8: I just have something.

1516
01:05:50,000 --> 01:05:52,240
Speaker 1: In saying that that's still achieving things if I've even

1517
01:05:52,280 --> 01:05:54,400
Speaker 1: gone through like a bit of a like hard time Metal.

1518
01:05:54,560 --> 01:05:55,400
Speaker 4: I'm like, I just.

1519
01:05:56,720 --> 01:06:01,919
Speaker 2: Seroton, Yeah, a little shopping serotonin here. My like Postman's like, ell,

1520
01:06:02,040 --> 01:06:03,560
Speaker 2: what have we got today? And I'm like, wouldn't you

1521
01:06:03,600 --> 01:06:03,880
Speaker 2: like to know?

1522
01:06:03,960 --> 01:06:04,200
Speaker 6: Joe?

1523
01:06:05,040 --> 01:06:10,520
Speaker 4: I was a kids. Yeah, No, that's amazing. They are great.

1524
01:06:10,840 --> 01:06:14,200
Speaker 1: Tip Well, guys, thank you so much for coming on

1525
01:06:14,240 --> 01:06:17,800
Speaker 1: the potty. This is us and you you already offered,

1526
01:06:17,840 --> 01:06:24,560
Speaker 1: so we'll have you every hotline difect everyone's please. No,

1527
01:06:24,720 --> 01:06:27,480
Speaker 1: I appreciate so much. It's so lovely being in person,

1528
01:06:27,720 --> 01:06:31,760
Speaker 1: so nice, so nice. But can you tell the audience

1529
01:06:31,840 --> 01:06:34,400
Speaker 1: where they can find you all those good things?

1530
01:06:35,280 --> 01:06:37,760
Speaker 6: You can listen to our podcast two broa Chicks wherever

1531
01:06:37,840 --> 01:06:40,640
Speaker 6: you get your fine shows. You can follow us on

1532
01:06:40,680 --> 01:06:43,760
Speaker 6: Instagram at two Broke Chicks and on TikTok at two

1533
01:06:43,800 --> 01:06:46,400
Speaker 6: brow Chicks Underscore. And if you're out there and you're

1534
01:06:46,440 --> 01:06:49,320
Speaker 6: the person with at two Broo Chicks on TikTok, please

1535
01:06:49,520 --> 01:06:54,440
Speaker 6: linquish your power, will give you money know what is

1536
01:06:54,560 --> 01:06:55,600
Speaker 6: what's the TikTok someone?

1537
01:06:55,760 --> 01:06:58,440
Speaker 3: It doesn't even they're not even. It's just some random

1538
01:06:58,480 --> 01:07:01,320
Speaker 3: person that got too broke. Is your TikTok to broach

1539
01:07:01,360 --> 01:07:02,280
Speaker 3: Chicks Underscore?

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah, so you can follow us there. We also

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01:07:05,520 --> 01:07:08,720
Speaker 6: have a private Facebook group bro Chicks Club, and we're

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01:07:08,760 --> 01:07:11,200
Speaker 6: always chucking up sales when we see them in there.

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Speaker 4: I'm joining.

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01:07:12,240 --> 01:07:14,280
Speaker 2: I put a video of Sala washing my face last night.

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01:07:14,280 --> 01:07:16,000
Speaker 3: We were a bit drunk in there today.

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01:07:15,880 --> 01:07:18,160
Speaker 4: So you'll get those two sales trauma.

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Speaker 2: I was like to take off my makeup and Sale

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01:07:20,840 --> 01:07:22,160
Speaker 2: came in with like a WebWatch class.

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Speaker 3: She was like coming.

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01:07:22,960 --> 01:07:26,760
Speaker 2: I was like help, Like that's if you want to

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01:07:26,800 --> 01:07:28,640
Speaker 2: see that too. Everyone's like leaves groups.

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01:07:30,720 --> 01:07:33,720
Speaker 1: No, you guys are honestly so much fun you know,

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01:07:33,960 --> 01:07:35,680
Speaker 1: I just love that with love this whole time.

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01:07:35,720 --> 01:07:36,760
Speaker 4: You guys are really funny.

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01:07:37,400 --> 01:07:41,920
Speaker 2: I told you, oh my god, one time, we'll do

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01:07:42,000 --> 01:07:42,680
Speaker 2: your partnership.

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01:07:42,680 --> 01:07:44,400
Speaker 3: And they're like, you know, we could go with like.

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01:07:44,840 --> 01:07:47,240
Speaker 2: Really pretty creators, but you guys are funny.

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01:07:47,280 --> 01:07:50,600
Speaker 1: And we were like I was like, no, we get it.

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Speaker 3: Where ugly.

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01:07:51,520 --> 01:07:54,360
Speaker 1: You know what I love is like even on my

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01:07:55,000 --> 01:07:58,400
Speaker 1: personal brand, like when they you're really down to earth

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01:07:59,240 --> 01:08:03,680
Speaker 1: like good.

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01:08:04,320 --> 01:08:04,800
Speaker 4: That's all right.

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01:08:04,840 --> 01:08:06,520
Speaker 2: We'll take the personality card.

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01:08:06,560 --> 01:08:07,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, we'll take the w.

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01:08:10,120 --> 01:08:11,480
Speaker 4: Every day. Thank you so much.

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01:08:11,560 --> 01:08:13,080
Speaker 1: Yeah no, thank you guys so much.

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Speaker 3: Bye bye.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much for listening to another episode of

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Speaker 1: the Rise and Conquer podcast. If you enjoyed it and

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Speaker 1: want more, come connect with us on Instagram at Riseinconquer

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Speaker 1: have a small team, so we do appreciate your time

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01:08:39,960 --> 01:08:42,759
Speaker 1: and support. If you have a spare moment, a follow

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Speaker 1: or subscribe on whatever platform you listen to would be

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