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Speaker 1: Get a. I'm La La Berry, nutritionist, author, actor, TV presenter,

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Speaker 1: and professional oversharer. This podcast is all about celebrating failure

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Speaker 1: because I believe it's a chance for us to learn,

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Speaker 1: grow and face our blind spots. Each week, I'll interview

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Speaker 1: a different guest about their highs as well as their lows,

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Speaker 1: all in a bid to inspire us to fearlessly fail.

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Speaker 2: Hello, Hello, welcome to the pod. Thank you, thank you

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Speaker 2: for having me back. This is Matt Sofo. Yes, it

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Speaker 2: is also known as my Boyfriend. They can tell by

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Speaker 2: the voice.

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Speaker 1: Gives it away. Yes, I think so. So where are we?

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Speaker 2: We are officially in Byron Bay while we're in the

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Speaker 2: Northern Rivers.

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Speaker 1: Technically we are. We're staying at the Brunswick Brunswick Heads

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Speaker 1: in Brunswick Heads. It's beautiful. It's would you call it's

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Speaker 1: like a little hotel situation. It's like almost motile because

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Speaker 1: you can park your car. It's like.

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Speaker 2: They've taken an old moteal done it up and made

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Speaker 2: it like bougia, gorge and gorge.

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Speaker 1: And we're going to go into the pill in today.

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Speaker 2: Yes, but I would say it's a modern renovated motel

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Speaker 2: which seems to be the style lately, and it's.

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Speaker 1: Got like a really cool what's that style? Like everything

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Speaker 1: is kind of like minimalist but nature vibes, would.

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Speaker 2: You say, yeah, Yeah, and feels like it's like a

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Speaker 2: lot of like white and white rendering vibe.

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Speaker 1: Very pretty. Yeah, it's giving a little bit Santorini. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's why I was going to say that whole. Like,

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Speaker 1: so I got room with a desk so we could work,

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Speaker 1: and the desk is kind of like plasted in against

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Speaker 1: the wall and it's this kind of like exposed white

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Speaker 1: cementy kind of feel gorge, very gorge. Anyway, this is

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Speaker 1: a gifted stace, so it was very kind of them

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Speaker 1: to put us up for two nights. So thank you, Bronswick.

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Speaker 1: You're amazing. It is very very nice. I love it.

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Speaker 2: And it's so close to it's like across the road

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Speaker 2: from like a Cedar, the Mexican place. It's like two

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Speaker 2: hundred meters away from Saint Marie the pizza place.

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Speaker 1: And well, let's talk about what we've done in the time.

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Speaker 1: So we got so the reason why we're recording this

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Speaker 1: today is because we got in quite late yesterday. Our

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Speaker 1: flight was delayed out of Melbourne yeah, quite a bit.

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Speaker 2: That was a tough lot. It was a big art.

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Speaker 2: It was full of kids.

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Speaker 1: Yes, screaming of pooing for sure. The smells in the plane.

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Speaker 1: I was like, what is going on?

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Speaker 2: And I reckon the girl behind me spilt some water

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Speaker 2: on me. What Yeah, because I like touched like the

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Speaker 2: spilt some water down here.

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Speaker 1: Have you seen the meme where someone's just like sitting

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Speaker 1: on the airplane and somebody else with sandals just put

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Speaker 2: Their foot and they dripped some water that I probably

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Speaker 2: would do that. Yeah, yeah, you can't do that in

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Speaker 2: these planes. You can't put your feet all the way.

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Speaker 1: No, it must be an American. Yeah. Yeah. So we

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Speaker 1: got in and we went straight to Saint Mary's is

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Speaker 1: that right? Saint Maris? And we got a gluten free

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Speaker 1: I want to say. It was called.

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Speaker 2: Prince something Sicilian prince. It's a bit like you, no,

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Speaker 2: well I'm not a Sicilian prince.

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Speaker 1: Well what are you?

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Speaker 2: Calabres Calabres prince or pull your prints?

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Speaker 1: Yes? Half that too? Yeah? Nice, but it was delicious,

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Speaker 1: had like capers on it. It was so nice.

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Speaker 2: It had like this that It had like a caramelized onion,

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Speaker 2: the anthobes nighbers black olives. It was delicious, and that

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Speaker 2: glinten free base was very very good if.

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Speaker 1: You are gluten free. I am obviously gluten free. Everything

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Speaker 1: I get in Byron Bay that's gluten free is so good,

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Speaker 1: Like it's such a good or the Northern Rivers. Should

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Speaker 1: I say? This morning we went to Old Maids for brecky.

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Speaker 1: I had a like it was on a gluten free bun.

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Speaker 1: It was like what was it called the uncle something,

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Speaker 1: Uncle Duck called dutty, Uncle Dutty, and it was like

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Speaker 1: what it's called? You ordered it for me, but I

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Speaker 2: I think everyone needs their own holiday time and their

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Speaker 2: Don't you think absolutely everyone knows that Christmas and Christmas

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Speaker 2: Holidays is not it's not a relaxing holiday time.

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Speaker 1: It is literally go go go.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and us like only coming to you know, like

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Speaker 2: It's like you're trying to fit everyone in and you

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Speaker 2: all your friends and fam and do this and do that.

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Speaker 1: And yeah, I do feel like we're learning every time

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Speaker 1: Like last time we came in, we kind of spent

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Speaker 1: three or so days with mum and Dalsford and we

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Speaker 1: the day before we flew like non stop doing social stuff.

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Speaker 2: Yes, it was a little bit while we spent two

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so we're learning out, we're learning, we're learning our way. Yes,

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Speaker 1: we said what I said a few tweaks next time, yeah,

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Speaker 1: tweets TwixT. Yeah. But I was a little anxious getting

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Speaker 1: stressful for me. Yes, but we made it here, and

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Speaker 1: that's the main thing, boss, Totally, totally. I just like

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Speaker 1: to share walts and all hit Okay, so I want

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Speaker 1: know if you remember, but last year I did these

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Speaker 1: seven questions. Okay, it's actually taken from mel Robins, who's

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Speaker 1: a massive author podcaster. Yep, you know. Anyway, there, I'm

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Speaker 1: Male seven. But She's got a whole pot on this

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Speaker 1: where you go through your camera reel and you go

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Speaker 1: do a little check in together. So question one, what

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Speaker 1: were the low points of last year? Low points? It's

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Speaker 1: the hardest one. We're starting on the hardest. Yeah, straight

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Speaker 2: Um, I don't like, I wouldn't say like really like

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Speaker 2: Like I spent a lot, a lot of money and

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Speaker 1: A low point because it was just a hard point. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: And then yeah, obviously when I was back in LA,

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Speaker 1: I also took the plunge this year, gone to step

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Speaker 1: away from the management job at the Yogre studio, and

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Speaker 1: that was quite stressful for me. Remember that night, I

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Speaker 1: is like a common thing for me. Yep, okay, Question two,

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Speaker 1: what were the high points of your year? Mm?

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Speaker 2: Well, I think I'm going to start. I'm going to

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Speaker 2: start with the fun things. Yeah, and obviously like we

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Speaker 2: turned forty, we went to Wyoming. We've done some like

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Speaker 2: great trips together. And I will say, yeah, high points

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Speaker 2: like we actually have. We came back to Australia twice

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Speaker 2: last year technically like once in March or April whatever

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Speaker 2: it was, and then again for Christmas.

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Speaker 1: I was like, that's pretty fucking cool. But we could

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Speaker 1: do that. The year before we did no trips back,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And then and then last year we did two trips.

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Speaker 2: Next year maybe we won't do any trips or one trip.

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Speaker 1: We don't know that. And I think we've made a

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Speaker 2: But I think is another high point is that I

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Speaker 2: Say with that that it's so it's totally okay to

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Speaker 2: I don't share stuff with people that I know that

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Speaker 1: going to work on heaps this year with terror.

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Speaker 2: And can I just say and like I won't mention

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Speaker 2: names in this little story, but let's just say.

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Speaker 1: You can mention my name. I don't care.

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Speaker 2: No, no, it's not nothing to do with you. No,

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Speaker 2: it's not a hypertical this is real life. But say,

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Speaker 2: we've got something exciting coming up next year? We do, right,

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Speaker 2: And you know, I shared it with someone that doesn't

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Speaker 2: really get our lives and careers and you know, I

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Speaker 2: don't think really believes in us. And they're like, oh yeah,

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Speaker 2: like that's what they said. Whatever, Like yeah, like oh cool,

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Speaker 2: that's like whatever, and they just brushed off, going past it,

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Speaker 2: onto the next drop, onto the next thing, back to

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Speaker 2: their own lives.

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Speaker 1: I cannot wait till you tell me who they was. Huh.

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Speaker 2: Well, like you know, like people, there's people around us

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Speaker 2: that just are like that as opposed to and I

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Speaker 2: like sitting with someone that was very, very very successful

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Speaker 2: in their life and I shared the same thing.

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Speaker 1: Like pretty much word for words, word.

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Speaker 2: For word, and for them, what we did is so

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Speaker 2: tiny and compared to what they've done in their career,

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Speaker 2: and and he was like a hundred times more excited

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Speaker 2: and supportive. That makes be emotional, Yeah, I know, but

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Speaker 2: it's just like, so remember who you share things with,

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Speaker 2: like is very important sharing with your friends and family

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Speaker 2: or like whatever that actually want the best for you.

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Speaker 2: And it was crazy to me that like one person

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Speaker 2: who's like so successful got more excited about a relatively

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Speaker 2: small win in our life compared to his life.

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Speaker 1: But that's a big stepping stone for us, totally. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: But like he like he could be like, oh yeah,

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Speaker 2: like I've got Emmys and shit and done this and that, like,

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Speaker 2: but he was like that's fucking awesome, Like yeah, you're right,

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Speaker 2: you got to so pick who you share your things with.

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Speaker 1: Do you know when we told Dad that news though,

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Speaker 1: he started crying.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, totally, he got a bit emotional. Yeah, but like

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Speaker 2: you know, we've told other friends and they just like

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Speaker 2: don't get it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you're right, Yeah, you're right, So pick it.

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Speaker 1: Like know your audiences, I don't know your people you're sharing. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's hard for me too, for closer people, it's hard

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Speaker 1: to total. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: But even sometimes people in our industries they don't want

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Speaker 2: us to win. They find it competitive, and it's like

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Speaker 2: we're not competing against each other, We're only competing against ourselves.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, Okay, so this last question, lucky last,

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Speaker 1: and then you're off to the barber, Off to the barber.

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Speaker 1: What's the most important thing for this year? Health and gratitude? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think that's probably love in their booth.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well and love. I think if you get those things,

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Speaker 2: everything else follows. I think your career goes great. I

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Speaker 2: think your love life, I think your home life, I

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Speaker 2: think everything else can succeed. But you need you need

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Speaker 2: to be grateful, and you need your health and your

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Speaker 2: heart and your mind all in order. You know, you

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Speaker 2: do that, and I promise, like you can manifest better,

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Speaker 2: you can work better, you can create better, you can

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Speaker 2: show up to your job better. You can shop for

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Speaker 2: your friends better, sharp for your family, like, and it

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Speaker 2: doesn't matter what you do in a job, it's you

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Speaker 2: can show up to that a lot better.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I've always said that when I used to do

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Speaker 1: public speaking for health, I would be like, once your

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Speaker 1: health's in order, yeah, everything else.

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Speaker 2: I don't think it means like you have to be

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Speaker 2: this like strict like thing. It's like health is all encompassing,

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Speaker 2: like you know, just your mental health, like a bit

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Speaker 2: of gratitude, that's health.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I love that you purpose link to purpose, Like

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Speaker 1: I think like doing that thing that makes a purpose

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Speaker 1: fit like andendalma and like doing that thing that like

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Speaker 1: I always say, like if you've got like a pilot

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Speaker 1: light in your heart, doing the thing that's going to

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Speaker 1: fan and turn it into a wildfire, Like I think

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Speaker 1: that's our responsibility as a human being with a passion. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: no one else is going to get you there, and

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Speaker 1: no one else is going to start you. Just you.

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Speaker 1: It's like fanning that flame in your heart. But also

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Speaker 1: in order for you to fan that flame in your heart,

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Speaker 1: you've got to be healthy. You've got to be clear minded.

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Speaker 1: You've got to have a good sense of self and

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Speaker 1: a good sense of self confidence and self worth. So

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Speaker 1: all those things you listed, unless they're working, you're not

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Speaker 1: going to be able to find you have no energy

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Speaker 1: to fan that flame because you have to fan that

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Speaker 1: flame on the days when the auditions aren't coming in

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00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:28,919
Speaker 1: or the composing work's not coming in, you still have

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Speaker 1: to be work like. And that's one thing Matt does.

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Speaker 1: And I don't know if people know this, but like

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Speaker 1: even on the days where he doesn't have specific work, gigon,

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Speaker 1: he gets up and composes, Yeah, I still do. And

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Speaker 1: I'll be like, what's this? This is giving a bit

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Speaker 1: Batman vibes or and You're like, I just worked on

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Speaker 1: it today. Yeah, And that's like your It's like you're

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Speaker 1: so linked to your purpose that even when the work's

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Speaker 1: not there, all you're doing is that purpose.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't stop training because you don't have a

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Speaker 2: race next week, Like you've got to keep it fresh.

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Speaker 2: You've got to keep that, you know.

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Speaker 1: But that's really try for me, Like if I'm not auditioning,

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Speaker 1: I have to like go out and be an acting class.

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Speaker 1: And then if I'm not there. And that's why I

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Speaker 1: think I love going to like the theater and the

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Speaker 1: movies with you, because that flames that flicker. So fan

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Speaker 1: the pilot light in your heart. For anyone listening that

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Speaker 1: wants to do the seven questions, I'm going to type

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Speaker 1: them into the show notes today so you can just

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Speaker 1: click on the show notes and these seven questions are

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Speaker 1: going to pop up. They're not ours, they're mel Robbins.

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Speaker 1: Full credit goes to her, and go out and do

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Speaker 1: the shit you love this year. You're are the horse,

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Speaker 1: You're of the fire horse horse. Go get them time, purpose, time, strength,

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Speaker 1: time like, take no prisoners, do the shit you love.

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Speaker 1: Love it. I love you, Love you boss. Okay, bye bye,

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Speaker 1: bye bye. That's a wrap on another episode of Fearlessly Failing.

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Speaker 1: As always, thank you to our guests, and let's continue

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