WEBVTT - Does A Shared Facebook Account Mean Someone Cheated? 0:00:00.120 --> 0:00:06.800 Flex and Froda Kittie Buyes, it's flex and from the froom. Yeah, 0:00:06.960 --> 0:00:09.200 I feel like I'm so sorry, but the butchering is 0:00:09.240 --> 0:00:12.680 happening with your name. Initially it was me Fleximami, Flex Miami, 0:00:13.119 --> 0:00:16.840 and now because of the creative flares I've taken with 0:00:16.880 --> 0:00:19.720 your name, now people just can't say rooms. There was 0:00:19.760 --> 0:00:23.880 no difficulty before I started calling you. Flew me through me, Fromeni, Frominda. 0:00:24.480 --> 0:00:25.400 I can't even say it. 0:00:25.680 --> 0:00:28.760 We get a little headline on CINNY Morning Herald last week, 0:00:29.160 --> 0:00:34.520 shout out, shout out Flumes, who can't even say it myself, flex. 0:00:34.240 --> 0:00:36.880 And flumes, which sounds great, but it's not you. 0:00:37.280 --> 0:00:40.080 It sounds like it reminds me. Do you know spy kids, 0:00:40.479 --> 0:00:43.720 those little thumbs. I don't know what they call, but 0:00:43.880 --> 0:00:45.519 that's what I see when I hear Flumes. 0:00:46.400 --> 0:00:51.720 Yeah, I definitely think of uh like a middle aged 0:00:51.720 --> 0:00:58.720 guy wearing high waisted pants like dress pants, Flume Flumes. 0:00:59.360 --> 0:01:02.240 Yeah. Alas podcasting time. 0:01:02.840 --> 0:01:08.280 I love a pretty podcast speaking at length with no breaks. Yeah, 0:01:08.319 --> 0:01:10.240 no time for back and forth as well, like a 0:01:10.280 --> 0:01:17.160 single train, a stream of consciousness, just just support from you. Yeah, 0:01:17.440 --> 0:01:19.640 today's gonna be a great one. We of course talk 0:01:19.680 --> 0:01:23.440 about Love Island. It is back nature is healing. But 0:01:24.120 --> 0:01:26.840 I don't know if it's unfortunate or just different. But 0:01:26.880 --> 0:01:29.720 they've changed the format and they didn't announce it to 0:01:29.760 --> 0:01:32.200 the very first episode, and I feel like had I 0:01:32.240 --> 0:01:35.840 have known, I wouldn't feel any different about it, but 0:01:35.880 --> 0:01:39.160 I just would have liked some notice. So the format's change, 0:01:39.280 --> 0:01:42.440 the vibe is different. Is it going to be super juicy? 0:01:42.480 --> 0:01:45.520 I feel like it might be a bit of a 0:01:45.520 --> 0:01:47.960 bit of bisexuality happening. I hope, so. 0:01:49.920 --> 0:01:53.280 Very nice. Well shall we Yeah, I guess, so this 0:01:53.800 --> 0:01:57.920 is flex and frooms. I have something to say about 0:01:58.240 --> 0:02:02.640 people who share Facebook accounts. We've all seen it. It's 0:02:02.640 --> 0:02:08.600 the Lisa and Girard, it's the Lilian and Thomas. 0:02:09.280 --> 0:02:11.320 That's cute, and it's all so the. 0:02:11.360 --> 0:02:13.919 End is obviously the middle initial. Yes, they are pretending 0:02:14.080 --> 0:02:17.280 to be one person, but it's a couple, a co 0:02:17.400 --> 0:02:23.560 created co lab face account lab. I found people talking 0:02:23.560 --> 0:02:27.040 about this on Reddit because I was looking at the 0:02:27.080 --> 0:02:30.160 weirdest things that people do in a long term relationship 0:02:30.200 --> 0:02:32.360 that they thought they would never do, and the top 0:02:32.440 --> 0:02:36.320 one was sharing a Facebook account. And I think this 0:02:36.320 --> 0:02:39.640 has been spoken about before because it illustrates a few 0:02:39.800 --> 0:02:43.800 potential pitfalls in a relationship, and the biggest one, of course, 0:02:43.919 --> 0:02:46.520 is a lack of trust. And in the comment section, 0:02:46.600 --> 0:02:48.840 people were saying, if you have a shared Facebook account, 0:02:48.840 --> 0:02:50.919 it's because you have a lack of trust. His few 0:02:50.960 --> 0:02:54.480 things that they said screams trust issues. Right, My first 0:02:54.560 --> 0:02:58.480 question is always okay, who cheated? Someone also said it's 0:02:58.560 --> 0:03:01.399 a need to control when you have a lack of control. 0:03:02.680 --> 0:03:04.960 And something that I thought was the most interesting because 0:03:04.960 --> 0:03:07.640 this is obviously from like question back crack, is that 0:03:07.680 --> 0:03:08.080 you're back. 0:03:08.240 --> 0:03:11.320 That's my own shoulder joint, both shoulders, not just the one, 0:03:11.440 --> 0:03:15.080 the left one. It's like, get out of. 0:03:15.080 --> 0:03:20.040 Here, somebody wrote in, and I found this super interesting 0:03:20.080 --> 0:03:24.360 because obviously it happens across generations. Good lord, my dad 0:03:24.400 --> 0:03:27.520 does this to my poor mum. It's not control or trust, 0:03:28.000 --> 0:03:30.480 it's just marchoism. 0:03:31.040 --> 0:03:31.359 Huh. 0:03:31.680 --> 0:03:34.560 I'm like, is marchoism? I think he's talking about his 0:03:34.639 --> 0:03:37.760 dad being marcho right, Yeah, he's giving alpha male alpha 0:03:37.800 --> 0:03:41.560 male that's kicking the dad is very quiet and socially anxious, 0:03:41.600 --> 0:03:44.720 which comes off as stoic. A joint account is the 0:03:44.760 --> 0:03:47.800 equivalent of standing behind my mum. While she happily chats 0:03:47.880 --> 0:03:50.760 up everyone in the room. When he does make a 0:03:50.840 --> 0:03:53.720 post or comment, he'll usually delete it an hour later. 0:03:54.200 --> 0:03:56.280 Oh fascinating. 0:03:57.320 --> 0:03:59.800 So that's a third type of person that shares in 0:03:59.840 --> 0:04:02.960 a account. First you've got your cheaterh Then you've got 0:04:02.960 --> 0:04:06.600 your trust issues. Then you've got the dad who just 0:04:06.640 --> 0:04:10.040 wants to stand behind the mum. He's a spectator, yes, 0:04:10.400 --> 0:04:13.320 and it really shows that some people are so super 0:04:13.400 --> 0:04:17.360 anxious about having a social media presence. I think the 0:04:17.400 --> 0:04:21.599 most interesting thing that I want to understand is when 0:04:21.640 --> 0:04:24.360 you're talking to this person who has a joint account, 0:04:25.000 --> 0:04:27.680 are they telling you which one it is? Am I 0:04:27.760 --> 0:04:32.080 talking to Graham? Or you would have to sign off realistically. 0:04:32.440 --> 0:04:37.280 Or there's like a primary user, the admin, the moderator, 0:04:37.400 --> 0:04:39.680 and the other person just says access to the account. 0:04:40.200 --> 0:04:43.359 Like they're not uploading into the Facebook albums, they're not 0:04:43.440 --> 0:04:44.600 making the statuses. 0:04:44.960 --> 0:04:47.440 There's one spokesperson on behalf of both. 0:04:47.360 --> 0:04:49.159 Of them, so it's kind of like a mar. 0:04:49.160 --> 0:04:50.720 Speaking on behalf of her and Graham. 0:04:51.760 --> 0:04:54.800 Right, would you have a problem interacting Let's say your 0:04:54.839 --> 0:04:56.960 best friend had a shared account, would you have a 0:04:57.000 --> 0:05:01.040 problem interacting with him or her knowing that their partner 0:05:01.120 --> 0:05:01.560 was watching. 0:05:02.040 --> 0:05:06.320 Um, I just I don't know. 0:05:06.920 --> 0:05:09.120 I think I have a different relationship to the Internet, 0:05:09.120 --> 0:05:12.440 because one might say what we're doing right now is 0:05:12.440 --> 0:05:16.279 an equivalent of a shared account, Like what we're building 0:05:16.320 --> 0:05:17.120 now is kind. 0:05:17.000 --> 0:05:17.799 Of what they're doing. 0:05:17.960 --> 0:05:20.839 We're saying like, if you want flex and rooms, come 0:05:20.880 --> 0:05:23.040 to us here and we'll talk to you together at 0:05:23.040 --> 0:05:28.279 the same time as a solid unit in matrimony. Perhaps 0:05:28.320 --> 0:05:31.320 it's just a convenience thing, like if I'm tagging you 0:05:31.320 --> 0:05:33.599 in the same photos and we're at the same place 0:05:33.680 --> 0:05:35.960 and we're raising the same kids, let's just have the 0:05:36.000 --> 0:05:36.560 one account. 0:05:36.600 --> 0:05:40.280 Why we're gonna have two? Yeah, facts. I don't know. 0:05:40.760 --> 0:05:42.839 It seems like a generational thing. I can't imagine, like 0:05:43.040 --> 0:05:45.320 if you popped up tomorrow and had a shared account 0:05:45.680 --> 0:05:47.440 with a new partner, I'd assume it was. 0:05:47.440 --> 0:05:50.640 Like a bit you know, well, my sister. 0:05:50.720 --> 0:05:52.839 So, my sister's only thirty and she shares an account 0:05:52.839 --> 0:05:56.239 with her boyfriend I don't live, like he's essentially lives 0:05:56.240 --> 0:05:57.159 with her on Facebook. 0:05:57.360 --> 0:05:59.839 Yeah, it's like an Olivia n boyfriend. 0:06:00.400 --> 0:06:05.000 Yeah. I think maybe they've done a complete pseudonym. Oh yeah, 0:06:05.440 --> 0:06:09.720 so in their little microcosm, basically just use Facebook Marketplace. 0:06:10.080 --> 0:06:12.960 But I still even think that if you're not interacting 0:06:12.960 --> 0:06:16.240 with people that you know on you know, through the 0:06:16.279 --> 0:06:19.640 Facebook account, but you're still on Facebook marketplace, think about it. 0:06:19.680 --> 0:06:22.800 You're both using it on separate phones. So therefore it 0:06:22.800 --> 0:06:26.840 would be really interesting to know what is it, what 0:06:26.880 --> 0:06:29.440 ads are coming up, you know, just targeted. 0:06:29.040 --> 0:06:31.039 Out at what you're really thinking about. Actually, I'm thinking 0:06:31.560 --> 0:06:33.279 you're skewing the analytics. 0:06:34.080 --> 0:06:38.359 Why did you say you were When was your birthday? 0:06:38.440 --> 0:06:39.520 Is it your anniversary? 0:06:40.600 --> 0:06:43.800 Look, I think the same person who would share a 0:06:43.839 --> 0:06:47.680 Facebook account or have a joint account is the same 0:06:47.760 --> 0:06:51.680 kind of person who'd have a joint bank account would 0:06:51.720 --> 0:06:53.000 share a room with their partner. 0:06:53.160 --> 0:06:55.520 That's sick. Who gets it when they break up? 0:06:55.560 --> 0:06:56.640 Who gets the Facebook? 0:06:56.839 --> 0:06:59.320 Yeah, look, just delete it, delete all the memories with it. Now, 0:06:59.400 --> 0:06:59.920 that's terrible. 0:07:00.160 --> 0:07:02.640 This is a weird phenomena, and I'm sure that give 0:07:02.680 --> 0:07:05.640 it ten years. When people of our age group and 0:07:05.760 --> 0:07:09.040 younger transition into the next stage of life, then I 0:07:09.040 --> 0:07:11.360 can I think I'll have a better analysis of what 0:07:11.360 --> 0:07:13.240 that looks like because I don't think I know anyone 0:07:13.680 --> 0:07:16.480 who has a shared account, so I could only the 0:07:16.520 --> 0:07:20.640 person I'm picturing is some stereotypical Midwestern person with a 0:07:20.720 --> 0:07:25.520 live laugh love mural in their apartment and a barnyard 0:07:25.600 --> 0:07:26.560 aesthetic in their home. 0:07:27.600 --> 0:07:30.679 Well, just for clarification, that's not my sister. She listens 0:07:30.720 --> 0:07:34.240 to this show and that would greatly offend her. So gipsy, 0:07:34.320 --> 0:07:35.880 I'm not thinking of your sister. I'm not thinking of 0:07:35.880 --> 0:07:39.880 a thirty year old, like cool millennial. I'm thinking of 0:07:40.040 --> 0:07:45.240 like a forty two year old mother of two two 0:07:45.280 --> 0:07:50.480 silly boys, me and my silly boy. Yeah, this is 0:07:50.560 --> 0:07:52.520 flex and frooms on Kita. 0:07:52.840 --> 0:07:56.120 Am I the asshole for coming out at my sister's wedding? 0:07:56.440 --> 0:07:58.840 You just really launched into that. Yeah, but I feel 0:07:58.880 --> 0:08:02.360 like I was ready for it. It's a hypothetic. We're 0:08:02.360 --> 0:08:04.160 not talking about you. You're not a gay man. 0:08:04.280 --> 0:08:06.280 We could be, would I be? 0:08:07.400 --> 0:08:07.760 You could be? 0:08:08.720 --> 0:08:09.000 Yeah? 0:08:09.040 --> 0:08:11.040 Well we're doing Am I the asshole? If it wasn't 0:08:11.040 --> 0:08:14.000 clear enough, listen to this. It's a twenty nine year 0:08:14.040 --> 0:08:17.520 old guy, let's call him Adam, and up until last week, 0:08:17.560 --> 0:08:20.160 he hadn't told his family that he was gay. They 0:08:20.200 --> 0:08:23.160 always suspected it, but they never really asked because it's 0:08:23.160 --> 0:08:24.680 not approved of in his family. 0:08:25.000 --> 0:08:26.960 So we kind of know what's going on here. 0:08:27.600 --> 0:08:30.280 So he has three sisters, Michelle who's thirty six, Julia 0:08:30.280 --> 0:08:31.280 who's thirty five. 0:08:31.120 --> 0:08:32.440 And Annie who's twenty two. 0:08:32.600 --> 0:08:34.839 And he's been dating guy called Peter for a couple 0:08:34.840 --> 0:08:37.480 of months, but he hasn't told his family yet. So 0:08:37.559 --> 0:08:39.960 his older sister, Michelle got married last week and during 0:08:39.960 --> 0:08:43.520 the reception, lots of people were making toasts, including his dad. 0:08:43.760 --> 0:08:45.880 His dad said something along the lines of I finally 0:08:45.880 --> 0:08:48.080 have my first son in law, and hopefully I will 0:08:48.080 --> 0:08:51.560 soon have two more, maybe someday even a daughter in law. 0:08:51.600 --> 0:08:56.160 If Sissy pants here, man's up and gets a girlfriend. Now, 0:08:56.360 --> 0:09:01.240 everybody laughed except his middle sister, Julia. Right, So after 0:09:01.240 --> 0:09:04.640 the toasts and before dinner, Julia comes over and she's like, 0:09:04.640 --> 0:09:07.040 oh my god, are you okay? And Adam's like, looking 0:09:07.080 --> 0:09:09.920 real sad. He's not hiding it very well. The vibes 0:09:09.960 --> 0:09:12.920 are not up. Adam's like, yeah, I'm fine. Dad's comment 0:09:13.000 --> 0:09:14.760 just bugged me, and she said to try and let 0:09:14.760 --> 0:09:19.080 it go, and he did ish. Anyway, during dinner, there 0:09:19.120 --> 0:09:21.240 was like heaps of tables and all his immediate family 0:09:21.280 --> 0:09:24.319 were at the same table. His dad starts asking him 0:09:24.320 --> 0:09:26.360 if he has a girlfriend already, and if he will 0:09:26.440 --> 0:09:30.439 give him grandkids that whole spiel we've been there. Adam 0:09:30.480 --> 0:09:33.200 brushes it off, and then Michelle, his older sister who's 0:09:33.240 --> 0:09:36.559 getting married, comes by to the table to you know, 0:09:36.800 --> 0:09:40.880 do what brides do, meet and greets and says, well, 0:09:40.920 --> 0:09:43.120 I can hook you up with my bridesmaid if you 0:09:43.200 --> 0:09:50.240 want to, unless you are wired the wrong way. Julia 0:09:50.559 --> 0:09:54.040 middle sister, the one who checked on Adam, rolled her eyes, 0:09:54.200 --> 0:09:57.160 and then Adam's mom says, maybe you should have that 0:09:57.280 --> 0:10:00.960 girl bride'smaid come over here. He needs to be with 0:10:01.000 --> 0:10:04.760 a woman at his age. Adam just loses it, just 0:10:04.960 --> 0:10:08.440 loses it, absolutely hysterical, and goes, actually, mum, I'm gay. 0:10:09.120 --> 0:10:09.640 Night drop. 0:10:10.160 --> 0:10:13.360 The whole table goes silent. Some other people around other 0:10:13.400 --> 0:10:16.480 tables heard too. Is a whole commotion, a whole affair anyway. 0:10:16.520 --> 0:10:21.120 Michelle bride starts crying, says, I ruined her wedding with 0:10:21.760 --> 0:10:23.079 my awful confession. 0:10:23.520 --> 0:10:23.880 Anyway. 0:10:24.120 --> 0:10:26.360 Most of his family says he's an asshole for saying it. 0:10:26.640 --> 0:10:29.719 Julia Middle sisters on his side and says that she's 0:10:29.760 --> 0:10:32.480 perfectly fine with him being gay, and if our family 0:10:32.600 --> 0:10:34.240 or their family didn't want to hear it, then they 0:10:34.240 --> 0:10:37.120 should have stayed quiet. So is Adam the asshole for 0:10:37.240 --> 0:10:41.319 ruining Michelle's wedding? Is a lot to digest at once. 0:10:42.040 --> 0:10:43.319 I told it like, I was there. 0:10:43.679 --> 0:10:47.840 Your eye was there, realistically I was there? Is he 0:10:47.920 --> 0:10:48.679 the asshole? Yes? 0:10:48.760 --> 0:10:51.160 Or no? For me, it's a hard no. It's a 0:10:51.200 --> 0:10:57.360 hard no coming out saying yeah, yeah, stop me, stop 0:10:57.400 --> 0:10:59.000 it now. Now it's Pride month. 0:10:59.040 --> 0:10:59.520 But enough. 0:11:01.600 --> 0:11:04.800 Look, my thoughts on this are that if your family 0:11:04.920 --> 0:11:07.240 is making it such a big deal for you to 0:11:07.280 --> 0:11:10.680 have never come out, you may as well absolutely blast 0:11:10.720 --> 0:11:13.880 them out of the water with a diabolical confession at 0:11:13.920 --> 0:11:16.480 a wedding, make it at a heterosexual. 0:11:15.760 --> 0:11:18.040 Wedding, shatter their traditions. 0:11:18.720 --> 0:11:22.120 Somebody calling you a sissy in a city pants, cissy pants. 0:11:22.240 --> 0:11:26.199 Your dad calling you a sissy pants unprovoked. 0:11:26.440 --> 0:11:28.360 Yeah, that's awful. At least he's got one sister that 0:11:28.400 --> 0:11:29.920 gets it. I feel like you need one person in 0:11:29.960 --> 0:11:33.440 your family that actually understands how to be a normal person. 0:11:34.080 --> 0:11:34.800 Sounds awful. 0:11:34.920 --> 0:11:36.520 It's such a terrible predicament. 0:11:36.600 --> 0:11:40.120 Also because you know, like nobody wants to be putt 0:11:40.120 --> 0:11:43.440 in an uncomfortable position anyway, and also in the context 0:11:43.559 --> 0:11:46.840 of a wedding being gained up on by your family. 0:11:47.240 --> 0:11:49.840 I don't know if you've ever experienced that, where like 0:11:49.960 --> 0:11:51.959 your family gets a bit too comfortable roasting you in 0:11:51.960 --> 0:11:52.600 front of other people. 0:11:52.600 --> 0:11:53.080 You're like, wait a. 0:11:53.120 --> 0:11:57.640 Second, please don't make me. Don't make me because you're 0:11:57.640 --> 0:12:00.280 not gonna like what I do. It's a threat that 0:12:00.320 --> 0:12:03.439 they pushed Adam too far, and who wants to come 0:12:03.480 --> 0:12:06.760 out that way? Like they've just ruined his story. It's 0:12:06.840 --> 0:12:09.240 like gonna stick with him for all the wrong reasons. 0:12:09.280 --> 0:12:09.520 Now. 0:12:10.000 --> 0:12:12.119 I hope that one day they wake up and realize 0:12:12.520 --> 0:12:13.200 what they've done. 0:12:15.200 --> 0:12:17.040 I don't think they will. Yeah, I don't know. 0:12:17.080 --> 0:12:20.440 I feel quite old to still be holding these archaic 0:12:20.559 --> 0:12:24.040 expectations of a man. Anyway, Adam, you're not the asshole. 0:12:24.200 --> 0:12:25.320 We stand by you. Adam. 0:12:25.760 --> 0:12:31.199 Tell your parents Flexive room said you suck parents fleck 0:12:31.920 --> 0:12:32.600 and rooms. 0:12:32.920 --> 0:12:35.240 We spend a lot of time in this room together. 0:12:35.280 --> 0:12:38.560 It's a small studio sound protection. You can't really hear 0:12:38.600 --> 0:12:39.920 what's on the outside. 0:12:40.160 --> 0:12:42.040 I would disagree. I'm always hearing. 0:12:42.600 --> 0:12:48.120 I'm hearing footsteps, footfalls, someone washing their dishes outside. 0:12:48.960 --> 0:12:51.800 Well, if you really want to do, you could enter 0:12:51.920 --> 0:12:55.319 the most quiet room in the entire world. Somebody has 0:12:55.360 --> 0:12:59.120 made a room that is so quiet that people can't 0:12:59.160 --> 0:13:02.880 even stay in there more than forty five minutes. What So, 0:13:02.920 --> 0:13:06.559 basically it's this place. It's like, it's called an ntoic 0:13:06.880 --> 0:13:11.320 chamber at all Field Laboratories in Minnesota, and basically it's 0:13:11.360 --> 0:13:15.600 so silent that it's actually negative decibels and. 0:13:15.679 --> 0:13:20.120 Probably feels like you're drowning. Yeah, you know, I. 0:13:20.080 --> 0:13:22.120 Can't even imagine. It's like it's like when you're in 0:13:22.120 --> 0:13:25.040 a room with all lights off and you completely I 0:13:25.080 --> 0:13:27.080 don't feel like a human being. I feel like simply 0:13:27.120 --> 0:13:31.400 a spirit, a spirit, a spirit. But basically, in twenty thirteen, 0:13:31.440 --> 0:13:33.679 the guy that started it said, we challenge people to 0:13:33.720 --> 0:13:35.959 sit in the chamber in the dark. One person stayed 0:13:35.960 --> 0:13:37.160 in there for forty five minutes. 0:13:37.320 --> 0:13:39.600 Well, so that's where they know, that's where that's where 0:13:39.600 --> 0:13:41.280 they've set you up, because when are we ever just 0:13:41.360 --> 0:13:44.000 sitting in the room in the dark. It'd be stressing. 0:13:44.040 --> 0:13:47.840 It'd be stressful under any circumstances, not just because it's quiet. 0:13:48.080 --> 0:13:51.960 Put me in a regular room like this one that's quiet, 0:13:52.120 --> 0:13:53.040 I'm sure you'd be fine. 0:13:53.760 --> 0:13:56.960 Well, they're not fine. But apparently when it's quiet, your 0:13:57.000 --> 0:13:59.840 ears will adapt. But the quieter room, the more things 0:13:59.840 --> 0:14:04.200 you here, ipso facto, You'll hear your heart beating, You'll 0:14:04.200 --> 0:14:07.920 hear your lungs, You'll hear your stomach gurgling loudly. In 0:14:07.960 --> 0:14:10.760 the the chioic chamber, you become the sound. But the 0:14:10.840 --> 0:14:15.200 room isn't just for torturing people. Apparently. Supposedly companies test 0:14:15.240 --> 0:14:17.880 their products in it to find out how loud they are. 0:14:18.679 --> 0:14:22.760 So you know, some love their products in it to 0:14:22.760 --> 0:14:25.040 figure out how loud they are. Yeah, that's important. 0:14:25.160 --> 0:14:28.960 No, I get a Yeah, and NASA even use it 0:14:29.000 --> 0:14:31.440 to help astronauts prepare for space. 0:14:31.720 --> 0:14:33.200 Get us in there, Minnesota. 0:14:33.360 --> 0:14:35.040 Yeah, we can do it down. I feel like we 0:14:35.080 --> 0:14:35.960 have marketing budget. 0:14:36.040 --> 0:14:37.600 Barock, producer, Barock. 0:14:38.800 --> 0:14:41.440 Did you say, get in there and pull your pants down? No, 0:14:43.360 --> 0:14:44.440 getting there, pull your pants down? 0:14:44.560 --> 0:14:45.440 Why would I ever? 0:14:45.800 --> 0:14:47.080 No, I think we could go. I think we could 0:14:47.120 --> 0:14:50.120 do it. All right, we'll stand back, break the world record. 0:14:50.160 --> 0:14:51.960 We'll do forty six minutes, crank it. 0:14:52.720 --> 0:14:55.840 Oh yeah, I wouldn't mind not hearing anything for a 0:14:55.880 --> 0:14:58.359 little bit. A flex and frooms. 0:14:58.560 --> 0:15:01.120 We are celebrating. 0:15:01.520 --> 0:15:04.920 I have a pep in my step, a joy in 0:15:04.960 --> 0:15:07.840 my loins, a lust for life. 0:15:08.080 --> 0:15:12.000 A rocket in my pocket that's in my bum hole. 0:15:12.040 --> 0:15:14.000 See you could have just left it there like it 0:15:14.040 --> 0:15:16.480 could have, and I all, I can see it in 0:15:16.520 --> 0:15:20.280 your eyes when you know the perfect time to stop. 0:15:19.960 --> 0:15:23.160 And you crank it. You trail off those you crank it, 0:15:23.200 --> 0:15:27.080 but you always take it too far. Love Island UK 0:15:27.400 --> 0:15:28.320 is back. 0:15:28.600 --> 0:15:33.960 It is hand on heart the best dating reality TV 0:15:34.080 --> 0:15:36.960 show in the whole wide world. 0:15:37.160 --> 0:15:41.600 I will say Big Brother O one walked, so Love 0:15:41.680 --> 0:15:45.960 Island twenty twenty two could run. You think yeah, because 0:15:46.000 --> 0:15:50.840 I feel like the whole idea of like early Big Brothers, 0:15:50.920 --> 0:15:53.080 dating was a massive part of it and those storylines 0:15:53.080 --> 0:15:56.520 are the most popular. And then obviously Big Brother, you're 0:15:56.600 --> 0:15:58.400 an ex contestant, you can tell. 0:15:58.280 --> 0:15:59.560 Me all about the reality store. 0:16:00.400 --> 0:16:02.360 I feel like you kind of like let the wheels 0:16:02.360 --> 0:16:04.560 fall off, and that's where Love Island came in with 0:16:05.040 --> 0:16:06.760 inter house relationships. 0:16:06.960 --> 0:16:10.200 We love that. Thank you for that assessment. I think 0:16:10.240 --> 0:16:10.640 you're right. 0:16:10.800 --> 0:16:12.600 I don't know any dates and time stamps, but I'm 0:16:12.600 --> 0:16:14.720 going to go with that. The latest season of Love 0:16:14.720 --> 0:16:17.920 Island came out. If you're in Australia, you can get 0:16:17.960 --> 0:16:23.840 that where you get that, I don't work for that research, No, 0:16:23.920 --> 0:16:27.400 but it's fantastic. So we've just gotten introduced to all 0:16:27.440 --> 0:16:30.240 of the housemates and the contestants. The format is a 0:16:30.240 --> 0:16:34.440 little bit different. Usually the Islanders choose who they want 0:16:34.480 --> 0:16:37.040 to couple up with, but in this instance, the public, 0:16:37.200 --> 0:16:40.880 or so they say, has chosen who people like who 0:16:40.920 --> 0:16:43.560 should get together, which is just rogue. 0:16:43.720 --> 0:16:47.400 Okay, don't mess with the format. Yeah, it worked alas. 0:16:47.440 --> 0:16:49.320 So they've been getting to know each other, which is 0:16:49.360 --> 0:16:51.800 strange because if you've been coupled up with someone that 0:16:51.920 --> 0:16:54.960 somebody else chose for you, you see that like half 0:16:55.000 --> 0:16:57.040 the contestants are really trying to make it work and 0:16:57.080 --> 0:17:01.240 the other half like, please are recoupling, Please get me 0:17:01.360 --> 0:17:05.520 away from There's beast that there was one activity that 0:17:05.560 --> 0:17:08.920 happened in the most recent episode, the first episode, where 0:17:08.920 --> 0:17:12.240 all the Islanders are sitting around the fire and they 0:17:12.359 --> 0:17:15.000 get a textenter their phone with like a challenge, kind 0:17:15.000 --> 0:17:18.639 of like a truth or dair school camp, you know, 0:17:19.200 --> 0:17:24.400 like let's do something naughty, so lick the most attractive 0:17:24.440 --> 0:17:28.639 Islander's finger, or kiss the person you're most attracted to. 0:17:29.080 --> 0:17:34.200 This kind of ice breaker escalations. You're familiar. So one 0:17:34.240 --> 0:17:39.800 of the women islanders. Her name is Amber, just stunning 0:17:39.920 --> 0:17:43.000 as they all are, there's no surprise, but she gets 0:17:43.040 --> 0:17:47.119 the prompt to kiss the islander that she's most attracted to. 0:17:47.880 --> 0:17:51.560 So she decides to give a kiss to a woman 0:17:51.920 --> 0:17:55.359 called Tash. And so she says, oh my god, I'm 0:17:55.400 --> 0:17:58.479 gonna give a Tash a pash like that's hilarious, and 0:17:58.520 --> 0:18:03.919 the guys look slabbergasted. One even says, you can't do that, 0:18:04.960 --> 0:18:07.200 and she's like, why not? Why can't I do that? 0:18:07.280 --> 0:18:11.840 So then she goes and gives Tasha pash And I can't. 0:18:11.560 --> 0:18:14.280 Describe to you how horrified. 0:18:13.840 --> 0:18:18.600 These men looked. It wasn't like, ooh, two girls kissing, cute, sexy, nice. 0:18:18.880 --> 0:18:21.760 It wasn't like, oh, like she likes girls, that's interesting. 0:18:22.000 --> 0:18:27.919 They just looked horrified, confused, maybe a little bit grossed out, 0:18:28.160 --> 0:18:30.760 like a bit like they just see a like a 0:18:30.760 --> 0:18:33.560 car a car wreck, and they couldn't look away. And 0:18:33.600 --> 0:18:35.600 then to see them interacting with each other, being like, 0:18:35.600 --> 0:18:36.119 what is she? 0:18:36.359 --> 0:18:38.640 Why would she? What is she like? What does she mean? 0:18:38.760 --> 0:18:39.920 Why would she kiss her? 0:18:40.160 --> 0:18:43.320 And I couldn't tell if the guys were like, is 0:18:43.359 --> 0:18:45.840 she not attracted to any of us? And that's why 0:18:45.880 --> 0:18:48.640 she's kissed this girl, or if the men of Love 0:18:48.680 --> 0:18:51.359 Island just don't believe in bisexuality. 0:18:51.560 --> 0:18:52.200 Do you know what I mean? 0:18:52.320 --> 0:18:54.919 Because they were like, why would she kiss a woman 0:18:55.480 --> 0:18:56.760 if she could kiss a man. 0:18:57.960 --> 0:18:59.280 It's that radity. 0:19:00.040 --> 0:19:03.440 You think there's like two scenarios why everybody was shocked. Yes, a, 0:19:03.840 --> 0:19:07.000 the guys don't believe in bisexuality. 0:19:06.400 --> 0:19:11.000 Because the faces weren't like they were just so confused, 0:19:11.000 --> 0:19:13.920 like it wasn't adding up. It almost felt like they 0:19:14.000 --> 0:19:16.440 saw something that could not be explained. If all of 0:19:16.480 --> 0:19:20.200 a sudden, producer Brook started licking her toe, I mean, 0:19:20.240 --> 0:19:24.040 you'd be like, it's kind of like laughable, but also 0:19:24.080 --> 0:19:25.760 like a bit strange and you don't know where to 0:19:25.760 --> 0:19:26.159 place it. 0:19:26.480 --> 0:19:27.719 That's what the look was. 0:19:27.920 --> 0:19:30.960 I got a doc sir, prior to recording. She does 0:19:31.000 --> 0:19:35.000 the most diabolical fat deep burn. Yeah, it was guttural, 0:19:36.240 --> 0:19:38.480 came from a deep place in her stumm diaphragm. 0:19:39.320 --> 0:19:39.919 Yeah. 0:19:40.119 --> 0:19:42.960 So they're either they're like sickeningly confused. I need to 0:19:42.960 --> 0:19:46.000 watch the clip back. I think they were confused. I 0:19:46.000 --> 0:19:48.960 think definitely your point about them being a bit maybe 0:19:48.960 --> 0:19:51.520 like Flabbergast's why she didn't pick a guy. Like they're 0:19:51.520 --> 0:19:55.560 feeling a bit unattractive. I wonder as well, I could 0:19:55.600 --> 0:19:57.320 be going down the garden path a bit with. 0:19:57.280 --> 0:19:58.359 This Let's go there though. 0:19:58.880 --> 0:20:01.720 Is everybody on the show show like, are there any 0:20:01.800 --> 0:20:04.399 bisexual people that couple up? Well that has never happened 0:20:04.400 --> 0:20:06.480 in this happened before, see. 0:20:06.240 --> 0:20:09.359 So I'm sure there are bisexual people on the show. 0:20:10.240 --> 0:20:13.479 Well, I just wonder because Tash hasn't necessarily come out 0:20:13.520 --> 0:20:16.160 as bisexual. So is Amber going and kissing her maybe 0:20:16.359 --> 0:20:17.360 crossing a boundary? 0:20:17.640 --> 0:20:18.600 It was consensual. 0:20:18.640 --> 0:20:21.560 She was like, I want to kiss Tash, and Tash 0:20:21.640 --> 0:20:23.040 got up walked towards Amber. 0:20:23.040 --> 0:20:25.040